在茫茫人海中，孤独与探寻并存。生活哲学，如同暗夜中的灯塔，指引我们探寻生命最深刻的奥秘。让我们揭开这神秘的面纱，一同走进这深邃的思考之旅。

Amid the vast sea of humanity, loneliness and exploration coexist. Life philosophy, like a lighthouse in the dark, guides us in seeking the deepest mysteries of life. Let us unveil this mysterious veil and embark on this journey of profound contemplation together.

1. 我们在这个宇宙上就是一粒尘埃，和一只蚂蚁，一只昆虫，一只蚊子，没有任何区别，全力以赴不等于出类拔萃，吃喝玩乐也不等于蹉跎岁月，人生没有一定要实现的目标，也没有必须要抵达的远方，有多大的能力做多大的事，有多大的胃口就吃多少饭，一辈子平平凡凡，清清静静的生活，也是一种福气。

1. We are just a grain of dust in this universe, no different from an ant, an insect, or a mosquito. Giving our all does not equate to being outstanding, and indulging in food, drink, and entertainment does not mean wasting time. Life does not have a set goal to achieve or a distant destination to reach. Do as much as one's abilities allow and eat as much as one's appetite demands. Leading a plain, quiet life for a lifetime is also a kind of blessing.

2. 人群聚集的地方，无非在做三件事情：拐弯抹角的炫耀自己，添油加醋的贬低别人，互相窥视的搬弄是非。

2. Where crowds gather, people are typically engaged in three things: indirectly boasting about themselves, embellishing to belittle others, and whispering malicious rumors among themselves.

3. 在世界万物中，人是最大的谜，在人类心目中，永恒是最大的谜。展现了人生意义探求的广阔领域，生与死，爱与孤独，自然与生命，真实，美，等等，无不是人与永恒相沟通的形式与体验。人是唯一能追问自身存在之意义的动物，这是人的伟大之处，也是人的悲壮之处。因为意义没有确定的标准，寻求生命的意义，可贵的不在意义本身，而在于寻求。

3. Among all things in the world, humans are the greatest mystery, and in the hearts of humans, eternity is the greatest mystery. It unfolds a vast field of exploration into the meaning of life, including birth and death, love and loneliness, nature and life, truth, beauty, and so on. All these are forms and experiences of communication and connection between humans and eternity. Humans are the only animals capable of questioning the meaning of their own existence, which is both the greatness and the tragic aspect of humans. Because there is no definitive standard for meaning, the value lies not in the meaning itself, but in the pursuit of it.

4. 一颗优秀的灵魂，即使永远孤独，永远无人理解，也仍然能从自身的充实中得到一种满足，它在一定意义上是自足的。

4. An excellent soul, even if forever lonely and forever misunderstood, can still find a sense of fulfillment in its own richness, and in a certain sense, it is self-sufficient.

5. 无论我的人生是否平淡，无论我的前方是否艰难险阻，都去欣然接受。我一定会努力去感受——生命力那种存在的充实与快乐！

5. Whether my life is plain or whether the path ahead is fraught with difficulties and obstacles, I will joyfully accept them. I will surely strive to experience the fullness and joy of that existence of vitality!

6. 幸福会藏在未来引领我们去寻找他，但当我们匆匆走过后，去发现幸福只能在记忆中找到。难道幸福这么难得到吗？还是我们普遍善于舍弃呢？珍惜身边的幸福，那是我们拥有的最大财富。幸福与痛苦交替的生活，是我们旅途中不可或缺的部分！无论我的前方或易或难，我会努力去感受——幸福与痛苦存在的那种充实！

6. Happiness is hidden in the future, leading us to seek it, but when we hurry past, we find that happiness can only be found in memory. Is happiness really so difficult to attain? Or are we generally adept at letting go? Cherish the happiness around us, which is the greatest wealth we possess. The alternation of happiness and suffering is an indispensable part of our journey! No matter how easy or difficult my path ahead may be, I will strive to experience that fulfillment where happiness and suffering coexist!

7. 绝大多数人都会经历人生的三个阶段，第一个阶段，认为自己就是世界中心的时候，第二个阶段，无论如何奋斗都感到无能为力的时候，第三个阶段，终于接受了自己的平凡，并且享受平凡的时候。

7. The vast majority of people go through three stages in life. The first stage is when one believes they are the center of the world. The second stage is when, no matter how hard one struggles, one feels powerless. The third stage is when one finally accepts their own ordinariness and enjoys it.

8. 托尔斯泰的伟大在于他那种异乎寻常的质朴和真实。学了《世间最美的坟墓》后，更加觉得他的朴素正是我所向往的，我喜欢这种朴素的感觉。我不喜欢太多的争吵，我喜欢平静的生活，与其浪费时间争吵，倒还不如在争吵的时候腾出时间来寻求真理。

8. The greatness of Tolstoy lies in his extraordinary simplicity and authenticity. After reading "The Most Beautiful Tomb in the World," I feel even more that his simplicity is what I aspire to, and I like the feeling of that simplicity. I don't like too much arguing; I prefer a peaceful life. Rather than wasting time arguing, it would be better to use that time to seek the truth.

9. 人生不过一场体验而已，我们最终都要灰飞烟灭，何必患得患失，或者为了一些身外之物而执着？怎么潇洒就怎么来，怎么潇洒就怎么过，怎么快乐就怎么活，一事无成怎么了，一身孤独又怎么了，只要自己没有痛苦，悠然惬意，无拘无束，就是最美好的生活。

9. Life is just a series of experiences. In the end, we all turn to dust and ashes. Why worry about gains and losses, or become obsessed with things outside of ourselves? Just live carefree as you wish, and enjoy life as you wish. What's the matter if you haven't achieved much, or if you feel lonely? As long as you don't suffer, and live a leisurely and carefree life, that is the most beautiful existence.

10. 春天，暖暖的空气开始怀抱着你，渐渐萌芽的枝条开始无限地伸入广阔的天空。随风飘扬的柳絮在阳光中显得朦胧而悠散。一年之计在于春。你也许正在忙碌地制定种种目标以丰富自己的生命，而你可知隔绝自然的人生是充满寂寞和孤独的吗？那是心无法在自然生命中释放的寂寞和孤独。

10. In spring, the warm air begins to embrace you, and the branches that are beginning to bud stretch endlessly into the vast sky. The willow catkins fluttering in the wind appear hazy and leisurely in the sunlight. The plan for the year lies in spring. You may be busy setting various goals to enrich your life, but do you know that a life cut off from nature is filled with loneliness and solitude? That is the loneliness and solitude that the heart cannot release in the natural life.

11. 周国平先生通过平淡的叙述，表达了对自然和生命的理解、看法及两者的关系。虽然只是几段文字，但却足以撼动我的心灵，让我不禁对自己以前的人生产生种种思考。人渴望平淡，不是真正喜欢这种显得有些无聊的生活，不是排斥轰轰烈烈的人生。相反，正是因为人们向往精彩纷呈的人生，从而产生了惧怕得不到，害怕要为此付出巨大代价的想法，那有为何不接受平淡呢？至少这样做不会有所谓的失败。

11. Mr. Zhou Guoping expressed his understanding and views of nature and life, as well as their relationship, through plain and simple narration. Although it is only a few paragraphs, it is enough to shake my soul and make me involuntarily reflect on my previous life. People long for simplicity, not because they truly like this somewhat boring life, nor do they reject a life of great drama. On the contrary, it is precisely because people yearn for a life filled with wonders that they develop fears of not obtaining it and fear of having to pay a huge price for it. So why not accept simplicity? At least, this way, there will be no so-called failure.

12. 可是，这些痛苦并非不可忍受的，何不在忍受过后笑一笑呢？仔细观察，幸福可谓无处不在。顶着寒冷回家后桌上热水带来的温暖，和同学们一起为班级的付出，家人团聚后坐在一起聊天的快乐，身边每个人的笑容，给我的不都是一种幸福吗？对幸福我不再渴求太多，因为我已拥有很多；对痛苦我不再厌恶太多，幸福会填补这片空白…

12. However, these pains are not unbearable, why not smile after enduring them? If you look closely, happiness is truly everywhere. The warmth brought by hot water on the table after braving the cold to return home, the joy of sitting together with classmates to contribute to our class, the happiness of chatting together after family reunions, and the smiles of everyone around me, aren't all these a form of happiness? I no longer yearn for more happiness, for I already possess much; and I no longer detest pain too much, for happiness will fill this void...

13. 《人与永恒》是周国平随手写下的点滴生活思考。这是他早期的一本书，是他在研究尼采的同时，随手写下的内心的点滴感思。起文笔随性，文字朴实。细细品来，觉得意义深刻。文字奇妙的排列组合竟散发出如此芳香凛冽的人生真谛，正如“哲学家生活在永恒中，诗人生活在瞬时中，他们都不会老”。我偏爱那些用随笔、格言、手记等散文形式写作的哲学家，我喜欢徜徉在哲学的散文天地里。这里较少独断的论证和说教，有更多的质朴和自然，更多的直觉和洞见。这里没有普洛克路斯忒斯之床，用不着为了体系的需要而拉长或截短活的感觉和思想。

13. "Man and Eternity" is Zhou Guoping's spontaneous jotting down of his thoughts on everyday life. This is one of his early books, in which he scribbled his inner musings while studying Nietzsche. The writing style is free and the words simple. Upon careful contemplation, it feels profound. The wonderful arrangement and combination of the words emit such a pungent and refreshing essence of life's truth, just as "the philosopher lives in eternity, the poet in the moment, and neither grows old." I prefer philosophers who write in the form of essays, proverbs, notebooks, etc., and I enjoy wandering in the realm of philosophical prose. There is less dogmatic argumentation and didacticism here, with more simplicity and nature, more intuition and insight. There is no Procrustes' bed here; there is no need to elongate or shorten the feeling and thought for the sake of the system.

14. 南怀瑾大师曾说：“人生如果能有一段清净自在的时光，也是一种莫大的福报。而如果一个人选择平凡的生活，淡之如水，是更能接近清净自在的生活本貌的，因为没有丝竹之乱耳，没有案牍之劳形，有的是时间如水一般的流动蜿蜒。”

14. Master Nan Huairen once said, "If one can have a period of tranquil and effortless time in life, it is also a great blessing. And if a person chooses a simple life, as light as water, it is even more likely to approach the true essence of tranquil and effortless living, because there is no chaos of musical instruments in the ears, no exhaustion from writing documents, and what one has is the flowing and winding of time as smooth as water."

15. 年轻人没有什么可回忆，于是就展望。老年人没有什么可展望，于是就回忆。

15. Young people have nothing to reminisce about, so they look forward. The elderly have nothing to look forward to, so they reminisce.

16. 托尔斯泰的伟大在于他那种异乎寻常的质朴和真实。他的《世间最美的坟墓》所表现出来的朴素正是我所向往的，我喜欢这种朴素的感觉。我不喜欢太多的争吵，我喜欢平静的生活，与其浪费时间争吵，倒还不如在争吵的时候腾出时间来寻求真理。

16. The greatness of Tolstoy lies in his extraordinary simplicity and authenticity. The plainness that is reflected in his "The Most Beautiful Cemetery in the World" is exactly what I aspire to, and I like the feeling of this plainness. I don't like too much bickering, I prefer a peaceful life, and instead of wasting time arguing, I would rather spend that time seeking the truth during arguments.

17. 生命的意义是什么？

17. What is the meaning of life?

18. “痛苦和欢乐是生命力的自我享受。最可悲的是生命力的乏弱，既无欢乐，也无痛苦。”我眼中的融入生命，是将自然的生命融入人的生命，而人的生命是要既融入痛苦又融入欢乐的结合体。春夏秋冬的循环便组成了生命，人没有永恒的生命，但人可以思量生命并且主导它。正如周国平所言：“当我感觉到自己的肢体和血管里布满了新鲜的、活跃的生命之时，我的确认为，此时此刻我是世上最幸福的人了。”

18. "Suffering and joy are the self-enjoyment of vitality. The most tragic thing about vitality is its weakness, devoid of both joy and suffering." In my view, being integrated into life is to incorporate the life of nature into the life of humans, and the life of humans is a synthesis that must embrace both suffering and joy. The cycle of the four seasons constitutes life; humans do not have eternal life, but they can contemplate life and take the lead in it. As Zhou Guoping said, "When I feel that my limbs and veins are filled with fresh and vigorous vitality, I truly believe that at this moment, I am the happiest person in the world."

19. 喜欢孤独的人，更喜欢那种没有嘈杂的环境，心如止水的感觉。因为这样才能让他们更加的冷静，他们性格并不孤僻，也会时常和朋友一起出来聚聚，聊聊天，但是那也只是偶尔，大部分时间还是喜欢安静。

19. People who enjoy solitude prefer environments that are free from noise, a feeling like a still heart. Because only then can they become more calm. They are not really reclusive; they also often gather with friends to chat and have a good time, but that is just occasionally, and most of the time, they still prefer quietness.

20. 《人与永恒》，是周国平随手写下的点滴生活思考，但令我万没有想到，文字的巧妙排列组合竟然渗透出如此令人叹服的人生哲理。

20. "Man and Eternity" is a collection of casual thoughts on life written by Zhou Guoping, but to my utmost surprise, the clever arrangement and combination of words have actually permeated such astonishing life philosophies.

21. 寄蜉蝣于天地，渺沧海之一粟。哀吾生之须臾，羡长江之无穷。

21. To entrust the mayfly to the heavens and the earth, to be a mere grain of sand in the boundless sea. To mourn the fleeting nature of my life, and to envy the endless flow of the Yangtze River.

22. 当你熬到了一个人喝茶，一个人散步，一个人逛街，一个人旅行，一个人读书，一个人唱歌，没有电话，没有邀约，没有聚会，没有社交，没有人情世故的打扰，也不愿意去打扰任何人，没有人际关系的纠缠，也不愿意走进人群之中，早睡早起，锻炼身体，取悦自己，规律生活，不追求一切身外之物，不患得患失，在别人的世界里顺其自然，在自己的世界里独善其身，那么你就已经抵达了生命的最高境界。

22. When you've endured a time when you're the only one to drink tea, walk alone, shop by yourself, travel alone, read, sing, with no phone calls, no invitations, no gatherings, no social engagements, no distractions from the complexities of social interactions, and you also don't want to disturb anyone else, without entanglements of interpersonal relationships, and you don't want to mingle in crowds, go to bed early and wake up early, exercise your body, please yourself, lead a regular life, don't pursue any material possessions beyond yourself, don't worry about gain or loss, be natural in the world of others, and be self-cultivated in your own world, then you have already reached the highest realm of life.

23. 我没有周国平先生那样的智慧，但我还是会学着去感悟生活、思考人生。这就是这本书带给我最大的收获。

23. I may not possess the wisdom of Mr. Zhou Guoping, but I still strive to comprehend life and ponder on the meaning of life. This is the greatest benefit this book has brought to me.

24. 生命这个词，一定有无数的人追寻过。但它却一直笼罩着一张神秘的面纱。不同的人对生命的认识便会为他绘制出了一张张不同的脸谱。而此刻展现在眼前的一张脸正在告诉你：“痛苦和欢乐是生命力的自我享受。最可悲的是生命力乏弱，既无欢乐，也无痛苦。当我感觉到自己的肢体和血管里布满了新鲜的、活跃的生命之时，我的确认为，此刻我是世界上最幸福的人了！”

24. The word "life" has been pursued by countless people. However, it has always been shrouded in a veil of mystery. Different people's understanding of life will draw different masks for him. And the face that is now in front of your eyes is telling you: "Suffering and joy are the self-enjoyment of vitality. The most tragic thing is the weakness of vitality, with neither joy nor suffering. When I feel that my limbs and blood vessels are full of fresh, vibrant life, I truly believe that at this moment, I am the happiest person in the world!"

25. 从生到死，人的起点和终点都一样，人会遇见不同的路途风景，但人的情绪大多是相似的：快乐与悲伤，程度的不同只在于两者的界限区分不同，就这样形成两种人，乐观者与悲观者。对我们年轻人而言，生与死的两头都很遥远，无法感受生命开始的神圣，也无法感受死亡宣判的恐惧。我们只是在行走，一路寻找一路走，“生”在脚下延续，“意义”可能在心里，可能在脚印里，始终遍寻不见。但我始终相信，有自我感知，有精神品级，就足够。

25. From birth to death, the starting point and endpoint for humans are the same. People will encounter different landscapes along the way, but their emotions are mostly similar: joy and sorrow. The difference in intensity lies only in the distinction between the two, thus forming two types of people: optimists and pessimists. For us young people, both ends of life and death are far away, and we cannot feel the sacredness of life's beginning nor the fear of death's verdict. We are just walking, searching and walking all the way, "life" continues under our feet, "meaning" may be in our hearts, in our footprints, but we have always been unable to find it. But I always believe that self-awareness and spiritual grade are enough.

26. 人是唯一能追问自身存在意义的动物，这是人的伟大之处，也是人的悲壮之处。因为意义没有确定的标准，寻求生命的意义，可贵的不在意义本身，而在于寻求！生与死，爱与孤独，自然与生命，真实，美，等等，是人们对永恒的探索。《人与永恒》，用奇妙的文字排列组合竟渗透出如此的人生真谛。

26. Humans are the only creatures capable of questioning the meaning of their own existence, which is both the greatness and the tragic aspect of humanity. Since there is no definitive standard for meaning, the value lies not in the meaning itself but in the pursuit of it! Life and death, love and solitude, nature and life, truth, beauty, and so on, are the eternal pursuits of human beings. "Man and Eternity" uses the wonderful arrangement and combination of words to permeate such profound truths about life.

27. 幸福是一种一开始人人都自以为能够得到，最后没有一个人敢说自己已经拥有的东西。

27. Happiness is something that everyone initially believes they can attain, yet no one dares to claim that they have truly possessed it.

28. 我记得书中有很多话题，但给我印象最深的还是有关于爱。

28. I remember there were many topics in the book, but the one that left the deepest impression on me was still about love.

29. 人说随感录的可贵在于真实，在于字字珠玑而又凝炼传神，就这个意义而言，周国平的随感处处呈现出单纯而练达、质朴而传神的精巧之美。这本书中没有很难懂的术语，相反却是用很易懂的语言来写，让我们可以简单的阅读，留下无尽的思考。

29. People say that the value of impromptu remarks lies in their authenticity and the precision of their language, like pearls on a string, yet with a profound sense of expression. In this sense, Zhou Guoping's impromptu remarks are always characterized by their simplicity and sophistication, their straightforwardness and expressiveness, displaying a delicate beauty. There are no difficult terms in this book; instead, it is written in very accessible language, allowing us to read it easily and leave us with endless thoughts.

30. 孤独是人生中最好的一种修行，能够享受孤独的人，才能用更大的格局去观察这个世界，才能用更远的一个目光，来判断眼前的人和事，享受孤独，也会活得更精彩。

30. Solitude is the best kind of spiritual practice in life. Only those who can enjoy solitude are able to observe the world with a broader perspective and use a longer-term vision to judge the people and things around them. Enjoying solitude will also lead to a more vibrant life.

31. “不要以成败论人生，也不要以成败爱情。”在爱情的世界里，没有谁对谁错，就算最后两个人各奔东西，就此分离，也不是爱情的失败。拥有过，存在过，那就是最美好的，就算只剩回忆，也一样值得珍惜。

31. "Do not judge life by success or failure, nor love by success or failure." In the world of love, there is no right or wrong between any two people. Even if, in the end, the two go their separate ways and part ways, that is not a failure of love. To have loved, to have existed, that is the most beautiful thing. Even if there are only memories left, they are still worth cherishing.

32. 有人说从远古时期来看，人就是一种群居动物，一旦离了群体，一个人的力量真的很有限。而且，也更加的孤独。但是就是因为世界太过于喧嚣，人总要需要一个独立的世界，有一个人安静的状态，来找寻最真实的自己。

32. Some say that from the perspective of ancient times, humans are inherently social animals, and once separated from the group, an individual's strength is truly limited. Moreover, they become more lonely. However, it is precisely because the world is too noisy that people always need a world of their own, a state of solitude, to find the most authentic version of themselves.

33. 对我而言，生与死的两头都很遥远，无法感受生命开始的神圣，也无法感受死亡宣判的恐惧。我只是在行走，一路寻找一路走，终点无非就是一个终结，但我还是在寻找，寻找生活中属于我的幸福，当让有时也会迷路，敲了敲痛苦家的门。高三的我会因为作业写到很晚而发出一种无名怒火，仇视时间的催促和高考的审查。我会因为一次考试的成绩不好而担心一周。我会因为一大早起来带着瞌睡，顶着寒冷上学而抱怨。

33. To me, both ends of life and death are remote, beyond the reach of feeling the sanctity of life's beginning or the terror of death's judgment. I am just walking, searching and proceeding along the way, and the end is nothing but a termination, yet I continue to seek, in search of the happiness that belongs to me in life. Of course, I sometimes get lost and knock on the door of the house of pain. In my senior year of high school, I would burst into an unspoken anger late at night, hating the urging of time and the scrutiny of the college entrance examination. I would worry for a week because of a poor exam score. I would complain about having to go to school early in the morning, feeling drowsy and braving the cold.

34. 一个精神上自足的人是不会羡慕别人的好运气，尤其不羡慕低能儿的好运气。

34. A self-sufficient person in spirit will not envy others' good luck, especially not the good luck of the intellectually challenged.

35. 作者的伟大在于他的朴实。看了《人与永恒》后，更觉得他的朴实是我所向往追求的，谁都会喜欢这种朴实无华的感觉的。一直渴望恬静而平和的生活，不需要太多欢笑，同样也不要有太多痛苦；一直害怕遇到困难阻碍，害怕跌宕起伏，狂风大起的海面将我整个淹没。看了《人与永恒》才明白过来，人生最可悲的，不是失去什么，是生命力居然如此乏弱！

35. The greatness of the author lies in his simplicity. After reading "Man and Eternity," I feel even more that his simplicity is what I aspire to pursue; everyone would appreciate such a simple and unadorned feeling. I have always longed for a tranquil and peaceful life, not needing too much joy, nor too much pain; I have always feared encountering difficulties and obstacles, fearing the ups and downs, the tumultuous sea that would engulf me completely. It was after reading "Man and Eternity" that I realized the most tragic thing in life is not the loss of something, but that vitality can be so weak!

36. 《人与永恒》是周国平的代表作之一，他以随笔短语的形式阐述了其毕生对人生问题的关注和思考，包括人、自然和生命、爱、孤独、幸福和痛苦、时间和永恒等多个话题，内容精辟而深刻。其中《自然和生命》篇章给身处与泥土打交道的我带来一股清风之余，也使我开始思考生命存在的意义。

36. "Man and Eternity" is one of Zhou Guoping's representative works, in which he expounds on his lifelong concerns and reflections on life issues in the form of essays and short phrases, covering a variety of topics such as humanity, nature and life, love, loneliness, happiness and suffering, time, and eternity, with profound and incisive content. The chapter "Nature and Life" not only brings a breath of fresh air to me who is dealing with the earth, but also makes me start to contemplate the meaning of life's existence.

37. 一切外在的欠缺或损失，包括名誉、地位、财产等等，只要不影响基本生存，实质上都不应该带来痛苦，如果带来痛苦，只是因为你在乎，越在乎越痛苦。只要不在乎，就一根毫毛也伤不了。

37. All external deficiencies or losses, including reputation, status, property, etc., as long as they do not affect basic survival, should not bring pain in essence. If they do, it's only because you care; the more you care, the more pain you will experience. As long as you don't care, nothing can harm you.

38. 全书的标题来源于书中的第一个题目最后一个题目的合并。在世间万物中，人是最大的谜。在人类心目中，永恒是最大的谜，两极之间有幻化无穷的人生之谜，展现了人生意义探求的广阔领域。生与死、爱与孤独、真实、美、哲学与艺术、写作、天才、女人和男人，无不是人与永恒相沟通的形式和体验。或者就是在这些优美又朴实让我对人性与人生有了更加深刻的思考与重新定位，使自己的世界观、人生观、价值观在不断的探索与学习中更加的完善与改进，也许这对于我来说，已经十分满足，这也是我无比喜爱这本书籍和无比欣赏作者思绪的更加贴切的原因。

38. The title of the entire book is derived from the combination of the last title of the first topic and the last title of the book. Among all things in the world, humans are the greatest mystery. In the hearts of humans, eternity is the greatest mystery. The endless mysteries of life between the poles present a vast field for the exploration of the meaning of life. Birth and death, love and loneliness, reality, beauty, philosophy and art, writing, genius, women and men, all are forms and experiences of communication between humans and eternity. Or perhaps it is these beautiful and simple thoughts that have allowed me to have a deeper reflection and repositioning of human nature and life. It has made my worldview, outlook on life, and values more perfect and improved through continuous exploration and learning. Perhaps for me, this is already quite satisfying, and this is also the more appropriate reason why I deeply love this book and greatly appreciate the author's thoughts.

39. “爱一个人，就是心疼一个人……凡正常人，都兼有疼人和被人疼两种需要。在这茫茫宇宙间，有谁不是想要人疼的孤儿……”我特别喜欢这段话，每个人都有自己软弱的一面，没有谁能永远坚强，我们都需要被人疼，需要那种被人关心与呵护的感觉，我们不过是平凡人……

39. "Loving someone is about caring for them... Every normal person has both the need to care for others and to be cared for. Amidst this boundless universe, who isn't longing to be cherished like an orphan..." I particularly like this passage. Everyone has their own vulnerable side, and no one can remain strong forever. We all need to be cherished, to feel the care and protection from others, we are just ordinary people...

40. 我天性不宜交际。在多数场合，我不是觉得对方乏味，就是害怕对方觉得我乏味，可是我既不愿忍受对方的乏味，也不愿费劲使自己显得有趣，那都太累了。我独处时最轻松，因为我不觉得自己乏味，即使乏味，也是自己承受，不累及他人，无需感到不安。

40. I am naturally not suited for socializing. In most situations, I either find the other person boring or fear that they might find me boring. Yet, I am not willing to endure the other person's boredom, nor am I willing to go to the trouble of appearing interesting, as both are too tiring. I find solitude to be the most relaxing, because I don't feel boring in my own company, and even if I do, it's something I bear myself, not something that burdens others or makes me feel uneasy.

41. 庸俗的人在热闹中填补空虚，厉害的人在孤独中成全自己。

41. Vulgar people fill their emptiness in the midst of hustle and bustle, while formidable people perfect themselves in solitude.

42. “聪明人嘲笑幸福是一个梦，傻瓜到梦中去找幸福，两种人都不承认现实中存在幸福。看来，一个人要获得实在的幸福，就必须不太聪明，也不太傻。人们把这种介于聪明与傻之间的状态叫做生活的智慧。”

42. "The wise man mocks happiness as a dream, while the fool seeks happiness in the dream. Both deny the existence of happiness in reality. It seems that one must not be too wise nor too foolish to attain real happiness. People call this state between wisdom and foolishness the wisdom of life."