在纷繁复杂的社会生活中，健康、财富与死亡，这三大议题始终牵动着每个人的心。如何在这三者之间寻求平衡，成为我们共同面对的课题。本文将以此为切入点，探讨如何在健康、财富与死亡之间找到属于自己的和谐之道。

In the complex social life, health, wealth, and death are the three major issues that always move everyone's heart. How to seek a balance among these three is a common challenge we all face. This article will take this as the entry point to explore how to find one's own harmonious path among health, wealth, and death.

1. 人生的三大成功：健康（即压力更小，生活更平静）、财富（个人收入成倍增长）和幸福（自我实现）。

1. The three great successes of life: health (i.e., less stress, a more peaceful life), wealth (doubled personal income), and happiness (self-realization).

2. 人生有三大不幸，曰：“少年丧父”，“中年丧妻”，“老年丧子”。

2. There are three great misfortunes in life, which are: "losing one's father in youth," "losing one's wife in middle age," and "losing one's child in old age."

3. 开创新人生的三大法则：勇气、耐心和旺盛的精力。

3. The Three Laws for Creating a New Life: Courage, Patience, and Vigorous Energy.

4. 人生的三大课题：感情生活、工作事业、心灵成长。

4. The three major topics of life: emotional life, career, and spiritual growth.

5. 人生三大遗憾：十三岁前没谈过恋爱,十六岁前没接过吻,二十岁前还是处女。

5. The three great regrets in life: not having had a romance before the age of 13, not having kissed anyone before 16, and still being a virgin at 20.

6. 人生有3大问题：人对物的问题、人对人的问题、 人对自身生命的问题。

6. There are three major problems in life: the problem of humans with objects, the problem of humans with other humans, and the problem of humans with their own lives.

7. 如果你的能力只能让你穷困潦倒，那么穷困潦倒便是你的价值。放下对财富的执念，知足常乐，简单纯粹，悠然自得。

7. If your abilities can only lead you to a life of poverty, then poverty itself is your value. Let go of the obsession with wealth, be content with what you have, live simply and purely, and enjoy a carefree life.

8. 人生3大悲哀：炒股抄成股东，抄房抄成房东，泡妞泡成老婆。

8. The top three miseries in life: investing in stocks and becoming a shareholder, speculating in real estate and becoming a landlord, and pursuing girls and ending up with a wife.

9. 人生的三大精神生活支柱：世界观、人生观、价值观。

9. The three main pillars of spiritual life in human life: world view, life view, and value view.

10. 人生3大黄金阶段: 20岁为快乐6430岁为理想6440岁为富足，

10. The three golden periods of life: at 20 years old, it's joy; at 30 years old, it's idealism; at 40 years old, it's abundance.

11. 人生有三大教育—家庭教育学校教育社会教育。

11. There are three major forms of education in life: family education, school education, and social education.

12. 世间所有的喜剧，可能和金钱没关系，但世间所有的悲剧，都和金钱脱不了干系。

12. All comedies in the world may not be related to money, but all tragedies in the world are inextricably linked to money.

13. 人到中年，死神如影随形。我们必须以乐观豁达的态度，坦然接受随时可能到来的死亡。

13. As people reach middle age, death seems to follow them like a shadow. We must face the possibility of death at any moment with an optimistic and open-minded attitude.

14. 如果你不重视健康，肆意糟蹋自己的身体，有着各种各样的慢性病，吃不好，睡不好，拉撒都不顺畅，那活着就是一场劫难。

14. If you do not value your health, recklessly abuse your body, suffer from all sorts of chronic diseases, have poor eating and sleeping habits, and experience discomfort in excretion, then living is a form of suffering.

15. 人生的三大工程：和谐的心灵，卓越的思维，成功的形象。（此为"三位一体的成功学"。）

15. The three great projects of life: a harmonious soul, exceptional thinking, and a successful image. (This is the "trinity of successology".)

16. 第三，你的成功之道在于最大限度的发挥优势，而不是克服弱点。

16. Thirdly, the way to your success lies in maximizing your strengths rather than overcoming your weaknesses.

17. 人生3大境界：1昨夜西风凋碧树，独上高楼望断天涯路2衣带渐宽终不悔，为伊消的人憔悴3众里寻她千百度，蓦然回首那人却在灯火阑珊处

17. The Three Levels of Life: 1. Last night the western wind withered the green trees, alone climbing the high building, I looked to the end of the horizon; 2. The belt is getting wider, but I never regret it, for her, I have wasted away; 3. Searching for her in the crowd a thousand times, suddenly turning back, that person is right there in the dimly lit corner.

18. 人生有三大快乐：一是知足常乐，二是助人为乐，三是自找快乐。

：18. There are three great joys in life: first, the joy of contentment; second, the joy of helping others; third, the joy of self-creation.

19. 第二，这世界最重要的是金钱，你有许多金钱的话，就实现了财务自由，那你的生活就会非常随意，就可以过诗酒田园生活，有金美女自然围着转。没听说嘛，美女爱金钱，花香自引彩蝶来。而权势则往往靠不住，是有期限的，并非终身制，即使长期滥用权势，美女如云了，一旦“东窗事发”，也会瞬间“恢飞烟灭”，还是手握千金更靠谱。

19. Secondly, in this world, money is the most important thing. If you have a lot of money, you achieve financial freedom, and your life will be very carefree. You can live a life of poetry, wine, and rural simplicity, with beautiful women naturally surrounding you. Haven't you heard? Beautiful women love money, and the fragrance of flowers naturally attracts colorful butterflies. Power, on the other hand, is often unreliable and has a limited duration; it is not a lifelong position. Even if power is misused for a long time, with beautiful women surrounding you, once the truth is revealed, they will instantly vanish as if they had never been. Holding a thousand pieces of gold is still more reliable.

20. 中年人要珍惜健康，知足常乐，不怕死亡，从从容容过好似水流年的日子。

20. Middle-aged people should cherish their health, be content with what they have, not fear death, and live their days in tranquility as calmly as flowing water.

21. 实现成功人生三大步骤：悟道、立愿、修身。（ 悟道——觉悟人生的

21. Three steps to achieve a successful life: Enlightenment, Vow, and Self-cultivation. (Enlightenment - Awakening to the truth of life)

22. 圆满人生的三大重点： 从退让中体验乐趣；从宁静中安顿身心；从自制中克制物欲。

22. The three key focuses for a fulfilling life: experiencing joy from yielding; finding peace in tranquility; and controlling desires through self-discipline.

23. 教育资金 住宅资金 老后资金 。

23. Educational funds, housing funds, and retirement funds.

24. 当年我们风华正茂，意气风发，跃跃欲试，不断积累学识，见识，胆识，想追求更多的财富，地位和权利，实现生命的价值感。然而，人到中年，事业的天花板触手可及，人生不再拥有很多可能，我们看到了那条注定的人生之路，这时就要放下不切实际的妄想和心怀期待的幻想，以最好的心态和状态经营往后余生。

24. In our prime, we were full of vigor and ambition, eager to try our hand at things, accumulating knowledge, experience, and courage, desiring more wealth, status, and power, and to realize the value of life. However, as we reach middle age, the ceiling of our careers is within reach, and life no longer holds many possibilities. We see the inevitable path of life laid out before us. At this point, we must let go of unrealistic delusions and daydreams filled with expectations, and manage the remainder of our lives with the best attitude and state of mind.

25. 信仰，因为她指引你一辈子； （

25. Faith, because it guides you through your entire life;

26. 人生有三道茶：第一道苦若生命,第二道甜似爱情，第三道淡如微风。”

26. There are three cups of tea in life: the first is as bitter as life itself, the second as sweet as love, and the third as light as a breeze.

27. 人生的三大悲剧：美人会老、爱情会冷、婚姻会旧。

27. The three great tragedies of life: beauty will fade, love will cool, and marriage will grow stale.

28. 常常有四五十岁的人，因为各种各样的突发疾病而去世。我身边就有这个年龄段的人，因为脑溢血，心梗，脑梗，癌症过世的。

28. It is often the case that people in their forties and fifties pass away due to a variety of sudden illnesses. There are people of this age around me who have passed away from cerebral hemorrhage, myocardial infarction, cerebral infarction, and cancer.

29. 人生三大永恒的难题：人与自然，人与社会，人与自我。

29. The three eternal puzzles of life: Man and nature, man and society, and man and himself.

30. 人生有三大费用支出：婚嫁费用、购房费用、子女教育费用。

30. There are three major expenses in life: wedding expenses, housing expenses, and children's education expenses.

31. 人生的三大情感： 友情，爱情，亲情

31. The three major emotions in life: friendship, love, and family affection.

32. 我认可的世界上三大财富：智慧、金钱、勇气。

32. The three greatest wealths in the world that I recognize: wisdom, money, and courage.

33. 男人有三大悲:少年得志、中年落魄、老入花丛。

33. A man has three great sorrows: achieving success in his youth, falling into despair in his middle age, and entering the midst of flowers in his old age.

34. 人生三大致命伤:埋头苦干一成不变；努力成果无法积累；上一代努力下一代无法承袭

34. The three fatal injuries of life: stubbornly toiling without change; the inability to accumulate the fruits of one's efforts; the next generation being unable to inherit the efforts of the previous generation.

35. 若想是某件事成为你的优势，你就必须能始终如一的做好它。

35. If you want something to be your advantage, you must be able to do it consistently well.

36. 人生有三大“至乐”：一是父母俱存，兄弟无故；二是仰不愧于天，俯不怍于地；三是得天下之英才而教育之。

36. There are three great "joys" in life: one is that both parents are alive and well, and brothers have no grievances; two is to look up without any shame before heaven and look down without any remorse on earth; three is to discover and educate the talents of the world.

37. 智慧是认识事物与解决问题的金钥匙，真正有智慧的人，都是适应社会与征服世界的“高人”，知识用之得当，会给你带来一定或许多金钱，但缺少了智慧的引领，金钱也会付之东流。还有，知识缺乏应变能力，智慧则让你知进退，为此，第一个就是智慧。

37. Wisdom is the golden key to understanding things and solving problems. Truly wise individuals are the "elites" who adapt to society and conquer the world. Proper use of knowledge can bring you a certain amount or even a lot of money, but without the guidance of wisdom, money can also be wasted. Moreover, knowledge lacks the ability to adapt, while wisdom allows you to know when to advance and retreat. Therefore, the first and foremost is wisdom.

38. 女性人生的三大不幸：幼年丧母，中年丧夫，晚年丧子。

38. The three major misfortunes in a woman's life: losing her mother in childhood, losing her husband in middle age, and losing her son in old age.

39. 人生有三大支柱，第一是事业，第二是家庭和爱情，第三个重要支柱就是业余爱好。

39. There are three major pillars in life: the first is career, the second is family and love, and the third important pillar is hobbies.

40. 我们那里有一种必过60大寿的习俗，大家认为60岁是人生的一个大坎，很多人挺不过60岁就一命呜呼，而挺过这个坎的人，一般可以顺顺利利安度晚年，最后寿终正寝。

40. In our place, there is a custom of celebrating the 60th birthday, as people believe that 60 is a big hurdle in life. Many do not survive past 60 and pass away, while those who manage to get through this hurdle can generally enjoy a peaceful and comfortable old age, and eventually pass away in peace.

41. 第二，你为了把某件事做得出类拔萃，并不需要具备方方面面的优势。

41. Secondly, you do not need to have advantages in all aspects in order to excel in something.

42. 人生三大阶段：25岁为赚钱生存而做事。 45岁为理想做事。 65岁之后是为兴趣做事。

42. The three major stages of life: at 25, work to earn a living; at 45, work for ideals; after 65, work for interests.

43. 再说勇气，人生来就是受苦的，这是佛教的观念。人生不如意十有八九，每位所谓的成功富有者，都要经历九九八十一难，才会修成正果。途中之艰辛，唯有不忘初心，靠勇气支撑，才能砥砺前行。

43. Regarding courage, it is a Buddhist belief that life is inherently fraught with suffering. Nine out of ten things in life are not as they should be. Every so-called successful and wealthy individual has to go through ninety-nine difficulties and eighty-one hardships before they can achieve their true success. Throughout this journey, only by staying true to one's original intention and relying on courage can one forge ahead and persevere.

44. 配偶，因为她陪伴你一辈子； （

44. Spouse, because she accompanies you throughout your entire life;

45. 人生的三大风险是：意外伤害、重大疾病和养老。

45. The three major risks in life are: accidental injury, serious illness, and old age.

46. 人生的三大愿：吃的下饭，睡得着觉，笑的出来。

46. The three great wishes in life: being able to eat, being able to sleep, and being able to laugh.

47. 人生的三大境界： 物质、精神和灵魂

47. The three levels of life's journey: material, spiritual, and soulful.

48. 人生有三大抉择： （

48. There are three major choices in life:

49. 人生三大喜事:他乡遇故知、金榜题名时、洞房花烛夜。

49. The three great joys in life: meeting an old friend in a foreign land, being named on the golden list, and spending the wedding night in a room filled with flowers and candles.

50. 人生三大悲哀:遇良师不学; 遇良友不交; 遇良机不握。

50. The three great sorrows of life: meeting a good teacher and not learning; meeting a good friend and not making friends; meeting a good opportunity and not seizing it.

51. 人生的三大动力：事业的引力，爱情的驱力，歧视与压迫的反作用力。

51. The three great forces in life: the gravitational pull of career, the drive of love, and the counterforce of discrimination and oppression.

52. 前半生要做加法，后半生要做减法。

52. In the first half of your life, you should do addition, and in the second half, you should do subtraction.

53. 人生3大诱惑: 金钱，美色，权利。

53. The three great temptations of life: money, beauty, and power.

54. 人生三大乐: 1饱 2倒 3泡澡。

54. The three great joys of life: 1. Eating to the fullest; 2. Napping; 3. Taking a bath.

55. 既然没有赚大钱的能力和条件，就降低自己的欲望，以顺其自然的态度过随遇而安的生活。

55. Since there is no ability and condition to make a lot of money, lower one's desires and live a contented life with a natural attitude.

56. 人生三大烦恼：走的太早、活的太老、身体不好。

56. The three great troubles of life: dying too early, living too old, and being in poor health.

57. 人生有三大问题： 生从何来？ 死将何往 今作何事

57. There are three great questions in life: Where does life come from? Where will death go? What are we doing now?

58. 人生3大折旧：朋友折旧，财富折旧，知识折旧。

58. The top 3 depreciations in life: friends depreciation, wealth depreciation, and knowledge depreciation.

59. 我妻子的奶奶过世出殡的那一天，我在公墓里观看一排排墓碑，大多数死者都是45岁到65岁之间的中年人，他们绝大多数是一个疾病，少部分死于意外。

59. On the day of my wife's grandmother's funeral, I was watching a row of tombstones in the cemetery. Most of the deceased were middle-aged people between the ages of 45 and 65, and the vast majority of them died of one disease, with a small number dying from accidents.

60. 人生三大享受：娶日本老婆，住美国房子，雇中国厨子。

60. The three major enjoyments in life: marry a Japanese wife, live in an American house, and hire a Chinese chef.

61. 人生三大遗憾：不会选择 、不坚持选择 、不断的选择。

61. The three great regrets in life: not knowing how to choose, not sticking to the choice, and constantly changing choices.

62. 贤妻三大定义： 入得厨房，出得厅堂，乐于上床。

62. The three great definitions of a virtuous wife: able to enter the kitchen, able to appear in the hall, and willing to go to bed.

63. 然而，人到中年，如果你仍然是一个拼尽全力，也只能勉强谋生的普通人，就必须放下对金钱的执念。不可否认，有些人凭着自己过硬的素质，机遇和人脉资源，轻而易举就赚的盆满钵满，但你我普通人，奋斗了大半辈子，依然拿着微薄的工资，过着拮据的生活。

63. However, as one approaches middle age, if you are still an ordinary person who struggles to make a living with all your might, you must let go of your obsession with money. It is undeniable that some people, with their excellent qualities, opportunities, and networks, can easily accumulate a fortune. But for ordinary people like you and me, who have fought for most of our lives, we still earn a meager salary and live a tight-fisted life.

64. 人生的三大暗礁: 自满、自高自大和轻信。

64. The three great shoals of life: complacency, arrogance, and credulity.

65. 人生有三大追求：学习、爱情和苦难。 （一生中， 应该不断的学习，活到老，学到老； 爱，更是生存的基本动力；可为什么要追求苦难呢？因为，人只有经历苦难，才会懂得和珍惜幸福。）

65. There are three major pursuits in life: learning, love, and suffering. (Throughout life, one should continuously learn, live to learn, and learn to live; love is even the basic driving force of existence; but why pursue suffering? Because, only by experiencing suffering can one truly understand and cherish happiness.)

66. 中年人必须处理好的三个课题，就是健康，财富，死亡。

66. The three issues that middle-aged people must deal with are health, wealth, and death.

67. 中年人和死亡的距离，其实已经很近了。

67. The distance between middle-aged people and death is actually very close.

68. 人生三大间题：学业问题、职业问题、婚姻问题。

68. The three major issues in life: academic issues, career issues, and marriage issues.

69. 人生的三大痛苦：一是得不到想要的东西，二是得到后觉得也不过如此，三是失去后才懂得珍惜。

69. The three great sorrows of life: the first is not getting what you want, the second is feeling that it's not as great as you thought after getting it, and the third is realizing the value only after losing it.

70. 综上所述，我更认可智慧、金钱与通气，是世间最珍贵的三大财富。

70. In summary, I believe that wisdom, wealth, and communication are the three most precious riches in the world.

71. 世人慌慌张张，不过图碎银几两，偏偏这碎银几两，能解世间万千惆怅。

71. The world is in a hurry, all in pursuit of a few ounces of silver, yet it is precisely these few ounces of silver that can alleviate the countless melancholies of the world.