在广袤的生命画卷中，每个人都是一位独自探索者。在这场非羁旅途中，我们追寻着生命之美，书写着属于自己的传奇。

In the vast canvas of life, each person is an explorer on their own. On this unbound journey, we seek the beauty of life and write our own legends.

1. 每个人都有自己的独特性，如果总是喜欢和别人比较，那么你总有不如人的地方。

1. Everyone has their own uniqueness. If you always compare yourself with others, there will always be aspects where you are not as good.

2. 如果不放下攀比之心，你即便富可敌国，权势滔天，也感受不到生活的快乐。

2. If you cannot put aside the desire for comparison, even if you are as rich as a nation and possess great power, you will not be able to feel the happiness of life.

3. ​所有的条条框框都是假的，都是人为的，都是人赋予了它所谓的意义，你认，它就意义非凡，你不认，它就没有任何的意义。什么是对的？什么是错的？你的心就是标准。”

3. All the rules and regulations are false; they are all man-made, and it is humans who ascribe to them the so-called meaning. If you recognize them, they become very significant; if you do not, they have no meaning at all. What is right? What is wrong? Your heart is the standard."

4. 人到了一定的年纪，越来越喜欢孤独，不是丧失了与人相处的能力，而是没有了逢场作戏的兴趣。

4. As people reach a certain age, they tend to prefer solitude more and more, not because they have lost the ability to get along with others, but because they no longer have the interest in playing roles for the sake of social interactions.

5. 很通透的一段话：世间没有标准答案，有人20几岁就死了，有人90多岁还活着；有人一瞬间就失去了生命，有人在床上躺了十几年才离开人世；高学历的在送外卖，没学历的在当老板；漂亮的四五十了还单身，长得丑的早早结婚生子；有本事的人一辈子一年见不到父母几回，平凡的人享受一辈子阖家团圆；有人抽烟喝酒活到老，有人努力工作年少猝死......

5. A very insightful statement: There are no standard answers in the world. Some people die at the age of 20s, while others are still alive at 90s; some lose their lives in an instant, while others spend a decade on their beds before leaving this world; people with high education degrees deliver takeaways, and those without any education run their own businesses; beautiful people in their 40s and 50s are still single, while ugly ones get married and have children early; capable individuals may not see their parents several times a year throughout their lives, while ordinary people enjoy family reunions their whole lives; some smoke and drink their way to old age, while others die prematurely from overwork in their youth...

6. 在苍茫宇宙面前，我们和一棵树，一朵花，一只蚂蚁，一粒尘埃，没有任何区别。生命本来没有意义，关键是痛痛快快过完这一生，不拧巴，不纠结，不痛苦，从容自如，称心如意。

6. In the face of the boundless universe, there is no distinction between us and a tree, a flower, an ant, a grain of dust. Life itself has no meaning; the key is to live this life to the fullest without any twists,纠结, or pain, with ease and comfort, and to one's satisfaction.

7. 庄子说，举世誉之而不加劝，举世非之而不加沮。

7. Chuang Tzu said, "The whole world praises him and he does not become overconfident, and the whole world denounces him and he does not become despondent."

8. 我们曾如此渴望命运的波澜，后来才发现，人生最曼妙的风景，是内心的淡定和从容。我们如此期待别人的认可，后来才发现，世界是自己的，和其他人毫无关系。

8. We once so eagerly craved the fluctuations of fate, only to find out later that the most charming scenery in life is the calmness and composure of the heart. We so eagerly awaited others' approval, only to discover later that the world is our own, having nothing to do with others.

9. 这是一个充满利益算计的世界，你对别人有用的时候，别人都愿意亲亲你。你对别人没有利用价值，狗都不想理你。人情似纸张张薄，世事如棋局局新。有茶有酒多兄弟，急难何曾见一人！

9. This is a world filled with calculations of interest. When you are useful to others, they are all willing to show you affection. But when you have no value to offer, not even a dog would want to pay attention to you. Human feelings are as thin as sheets of paper, and the world is as ever-changing as a chessboard. With tea and wine, you have many brothers, but in times of urgency and difficulty, have you ever seen a single person come to your aid?

10. 不攀不比，知足常乐，当下即是最好的生活。

10. Not to compete or compare, be contented with what one has, for the present moment is the best life.

11. 一个人喝茶，一个人散步，一个人读书，一个人旅行，不必对别人察言观色，嘘寒问暖，别人也不会来打扰你，你每天坚持锻炼，早睡早起，做好自己的工作，发展一点小爱好，照顾好身体和心情，爱自己的家人，就是最幸福的生活。

11. One person drinks tea, one person takes a walk, one person reads, one person travels; there is no need to observe others' expressions or ask after their well-being. Others will not disturb you either. As long as you stick to your daily exercise, go to bed early and wake up early, do your own work well, cultivate a small hobby, take care of both your body and mood, and love your family, that is the happiest life.

12. 不要在乎任何人对你的任何态度，允许别人看不起你，允许别人讨厌你，嘲讽你，远离你。只要你不以为意，他们的态度无法伤害你分毫。

12. Don't care about anyone's attitude towards you, allow others to look down upon you, to dislike you, to mock you, and to distance themselves from you. As long as you don't take it to heart, their attitudes can't harm you in the slightest.

13. 与其跟一群心怀鬼胎的人，喝着味同嚼蜡的酒，吃着油腻不堪的肉，说着虚情假意的话，饭桌上称兄道弟，形同亲人，而事后一拍两散，老死不相往来，还不如放下对所谓人脉圈子的执念， 在一个人的世界里，独善其身，自得其乐。

13. It's better to let go of the obsession with so-called networking circles, rather than spending time with a group of people with ulterior motives, sipping wine that tastes like chewing wax, eating greasy meat that's不堪入口, and speaking insincerely. At the dinner table, they may act like brothers and treat each other as family, but after the event, they scatter like dust and never see each other again. It's better to cultivate oneself in the world alone, seeking joy in solitude.

14. 全世界的人都争着追捧你，你也不会被捧杀。全世界的人都争着谩骂你，你也不会被骂杀。别人的意见只是参考，不能作为你为人处世的标准。对于别人心怀恶意的态度，可以完全摒弃在你的生活之外，不予理会。

14. No matter how the whole world competes to admire you, you will not be destroyed by admiration. No matter how the whole world competes to骂 you, you will not be destroyed by骂. Others' opinions are just for reference and cannot be used as the standard for your behavior in society. For others' malicious attitudes, you can completely exclude them from your life and ignore them.

15. 不妨做一个独行侠，独与天地精神相往来，在一个人的世界里本自具足，自得圆满。

15. Why not be a lone wolf, alone in communion with the spirit of the heavens and the earth? In one's own world, one is inherently complete, naturally achieving wholeness.

16. 人比人得死，货比货得扔。

16. People have to die when compared to others, and goods have to be discarded when compared to others.

17. 你本来开着一辆小轿车，感到很安逸，但看到同事开着一辆豪车，心里立即不是滋味。你在县城购买了一套单元房，本来很知足，但看到亲戚搬进了大别墅，心里又是阴雨绵绵。你的孩子乖巧懂事， 你很满足，但看到邻居的孩子不仅乖巧懂事，还考上了名牌大学，心里又会很失落。

17. You used to drive a small car, feeling very comfortable, but when you saw a colleague driving a luxury car, you felt an instant sense of unease. You bought a unit apartment in the county and were originally content, but when you saw your relative move into a big villa, your heart was filled with gloom again. Your child is smart and understanding, and you feel satisfied, but when you see your neighbor's child not only smart and understanding but also admitted to a prestigious university, you feel a sense of loss once more.