放慢脚步，心静如水，17条箴言助你活得自在。

Slow down your pace, keep your mind as calm as water, and these 17 maxims will help you live a carefree life.

1. 1孤独的滋味并不是很差，因为孤独让你想了更多，让你懂得更多世俗，也让你了解自己的心。

1. 1 The taste of solitude is not bad at all, because solitude makes you think more, understand more about the mundane world, and also get to know your own heart.

2. 3火在一天之内把森林烧成灰烬，水和风却需要一百年以上的时间来造林。

2. In just one day, the fire turned the forest into ashes, while water and wind require more than a hundred years to reforest the land.

3. 4人生的境界，说到底，是心灵的境界。若心乱神迷，无论你走多远，你皆捕捉不到人生的本象，领略不到有韵致的风景。唯有心灵的安静，方能铸就人性的优雅。这种安静，是得失后的平和。

3.4 The level of one's life, in essence, is the level of the mind. If the mind is in chaos and confusion, no matter how far you go, you will not be able to grasp the true nature of life or appreciate the scenery with a certain charm. Only through the tranquility of the mind can one forge the elegance of humanity. This tranquility is a peacefulness after gaining and losing.

4. 5安静的人真的很需要一点独处的时间。仿佛在这安静的夜晚，时间才真正属于自己。学会与自己和解。

4.5 A quiet person really needs some alone time. It seems that only in this quiet night does time truly belong to oneself. Learn to reconcile with oneself.

5. 6人与人之间想要保持长久舒适的关系，靠的是共性和吸引，而不是压迫、捆绑，奉承和一味的付出，以及道德式的自我感动。

5.6 To maintain a long-lasting comfortable relationship between people, it relies on commonality and attraction, rather than oppression, bondage, flattery, and one-sided giving, as well as moral self-satisfaction.

6. 7真正的快乐不是来自世俗的崇高地位、书本知识或财产多少，真正的快乐只有从开悟中获得。

6.7 True happiness does not come from worldly high status, book knowledge, or the amount of wealth one possesses; true happiness can only be obtained from enlightenment.

7. 8我爱独处，我从来没有发现比独处更好的伙伴了。在多数情况下，我们外出，到人们中间去时，比呆在自己的屋子里更为孤独。

7. 8 I love being alone, and I have never found a better companion than solitude. In most cases, when we go out and mingle with people, we are more lonely than when we stay in our own home.

8. 10灵感在孤独中产生，创造在孤独中萌发，思想在孤独中闪烁。有了孤独，才会有一些意想不到的收获。

8. Inspiration is born in solitude, creation germinates in solitude, and thoughts shimmer in solitude. With solitude, there can be some unexpected gains.

9. 11人人惧怕孤独，但从来都不会去享受孤独，他们不明白，孤独也是一种生命的历程。

9. 11. Everyone fears loneliness, but no one ever enjoys it; they don't understand that loneliness is also a journey in life.

10. 12静心如水，不是自己象波澜壮阔似的那样乘风破浪、勇往直前的驾驭风帆，而是自己犹如纹丝不动的潭水一样静谧安详却慢条斯理的涟漪。如此，静心如水的人往往是静水深流的表现出一种博大精深的最高境界。

10. 12 The calmness akin to water is not about oneself navigating through the waves and storms with the courage to advance forward, like steering a sailboat; rather, it is about oneself remaining as serene and motionless as a tranquil pool, yet with the slow and gentle ripples. Thus, a person whose mind is as calm as water often embodies the highest level of profound and vast stillness.

11. 13走过流年的山高水长，总有一处风景，会因为我们而美丽；总有一个笑脸，是为我们而绽放；总有一份遇见，唯美了整个曾经；总会有一个人知你冷暖，懂你悲欢。

11. 13 Through the years of flowing time, there will always be a landscape that becomes beautiful because of us; there will always be a smiling face that blooms for us; there will always be an encounter that beautifies the whole of what once was; and there will always be someone who knows your cold and warmth, understands your sorrows and joys.

12. 15做一个快乐的人，要敢于跟一切苦难说拜拜，要保持理智，不能盲目，不顾忌他人的评论，不羡慕他人的幸福，善于发现生活中自己的小快乐。真正的快乐都在于你自己，心静了，世界也就宽了。

12. To be a happy person, one must dare to say goodbye to all hardships, maintain reason, not be blind, not care about others' comments, not envy others' happiness, and be good at finding small joys in life. True happiness lies within yourself. When your heart is calm, the world also becomes broader.

13. 16心归何处，迷醉红尘误。真情难舍甘承苦，谢君陪一段路。缘深深惟己知，份渺渺切领悟。不求世人能解，宁自享受孤独。

13. Where does the heart belong, lost and drunk in the bustling world? True feelings are hard to let go, willing to bear the bitterness. Thank you, my friend, for accompanying me on a journey. The profoundness of fate is known only to oneself, and the faintness of destiny is deeply realized. Not seeking understanding from others, I prefer to enjoy solitude.

14. 17智慧的种子在我们内边，认识它，我们会比历史上任何一位英雄都无所畏惧；不认识它，每件事都会令我们不安，即使拥有全世界也不会快乐。贪婪和欲望因此造成，因为我们从来没有真正快 乐过。

14. The seed of wisdom lies within us; knowing it, we will be more fearless than any hero in history; not knowing it, every single thing will cause us unease, and even if we possess the whole world, we will not be happy. Greed and desire arise from this, because we have never truly been happy.

15. 18有的时候，哭和爆发不能解决问题，压制和调整也不能解决，我该怎么办？谁对谁错谁说得清，也许安静地独处更适合我。

15. Sometimes, crying and outbursts don't solve the problem, nor do suppression and adjustment. What should I do? It's hard to say who's right or wrong, maybe quiet solitude is more suitable for me.

16. 19无论你怎么选，都难免会有遗憾。没有什么办法能够让你能完全弥补遗憾，做到十全十美。所以，与其把时间花费在遗憾和淡淡的忧伤上，不如全心全力走好已经选择的路。

16. No matter how you choose, there will always be regrets. There is no way to completely make up for regrets and achieve perfection. Therefore, it is better to devote all your energy to walking the chosen path well, rather than spending time on regrets and a subtle sadness.

17. 20我们的爱，始终不能到尽头，不是不爱了，是爱的太深了，

17. 20 Our love can never reach its end; it's not that we don't love anymore, but rather that our love is too profound.

18. 21再回首恍然如梦，再回首我心依旧，可我不会再回首。

18. Looking back again, it feels like a dream; looking back again, my heart remains the same, but I will no longer look back.

19. 23享受孤独，是一个学会生活的人在看透了时间纷杂，能放下一切独守安宁的田地，享受孤独，是一种思想境界的升华，学会享受孤独，以入世之身，做出世之事。

19. Enjoying solitude is a sign of someone who has learned to live. After seeing through the complexities of time, they can let go of everything and dwell in tranquility. Enjoying solitude is an elevation of one's spiritual realm. To learn to enjoy solitude and, with a worldly body, accomplish transcendental deeds.

20. 24成长是一种经历，成熟是一种阅历。每个人都能会成长，但不是每个人都会成熟。成熟的人，不为得而狂喜，不为失而痛悲，竭心尽力之后，坦然接受而已；成熟的人，不因功成名就而目中无人，不因籍籍无名而卑躬屈膝，持一颗平淡的心，不卑不亢地生活。成熟的人，能够担当，懂得感恩，心静气和，淡定从容。

20. Growth is an experience, maturity is a collection of experiences. Everyone can grow, but not everyone will mature. A mature person does not become ecstatic over gains or sorrowful over losses; after giving their all, they calmly accept it; a mature person does not become proud because of their achievements or humble themselves because of anonymity; they maintain a serene heart, living without either arrogance or subservience. A mature person is capable of taking responsibility, knows how to be grateful, remains calm and composed, and is tranquil and composed.

21. 25当你有了独处的能力，却害怕群居的生活。

21. 25 When you have the ability to be alone, yet you fear the life of living in a group.

22. 26半夜睡不着的时候最爱胡思乱想，想找一个安静的小镇隐居起来，每天享受着与自己独处的时光，真美好呀！

22. When I can't sleep at 2:26 in the morning, I'm prone to daydreaming. I often think of finding a quiet town to retire to, where I can enjoy the peaceful time alone with myself every day. It would be truly wonderful!

23. 27我不爱交朋友，不爱出门，不喜欢吵吵嚷嚷，我喜欢一个人独处，纵然虚度光阴，也是十分充实！

23. 27 I don't like making friends, I don't like going out, and I don't like the noise and hustle. I prefer to be alone, even if I'm just wasting time, it's still very fulfilling!

24. 28你说，一个人很好，只是少了一些浪漫。我说，一个人很好，只是多了一份对你的牵挂。

24. 28 You say, one person is good, just lacking a bit of romance. I say, one person is good, just with a bit more attachment to you.

25. 29成年人熬夜不过是因为白天有太多不属于自己的时间，只求夜幕里有片刻安静的自我时光，可以独处，可以有自己的爱好，更多时候不过是孤芳自赏。

25. 29 adults stay up late not because they have too much time that doesn't belong to them during the day, but rather because they seek a moment of quiet self-time under the cover of night, where they can be alone, pursue their own hobbies, and more often than not, it's just for their own admiration.

26. 30浮躁心烦的时候，每个，前者人生起始。心无所存，会心当处即，独处，非澹泊无以明志，静以修身。喜欢安静。

26. When restless and irritable, each one, the former the beginning of life. The mind is without any attachment, the heart is where it should be, solitude, not tranquil can not clarify one's aspirations, calmness for self-cultivation. Enjoying tranquility.

27. 32挑战越大，我们灵性的领悟和成长也越大。

27. The greater the challenge, the greater our spiritual understanding and growth.

28. 33用一生的时光去享受一场花开的盛宴，用支离破碎的记忆去拼凑一个流年。

28. Spend an entire lifetime enjoying the grand feast of a blooming flower, and piece together a fleeting year with fragmented memories.

29. 34我什么都怀疑，就是不怀疑自己的无知与无明，麻烦就在这里。

29. 34 I doubt everything, except my own ignorance and lack of understanding. The trouble lies here.

30. 35慢慢懂得太多，开始摒弃那些庸俗的东西，然后认为自己可以享受更高雅的美好，之后发现并没得到，反而再也接受不了原本现实的生活。这就是孤独。

30. 35 Slowly understanding too much, one begins to discard the trivial things, then believes that one can enjoy a higher level of elegance, only to find out later that it was not obtained, and instead can no longer tolerate the original reality of life. This is loneliness.

31. 36心外无物，闲看庭前花开花落；去留无意，漫随天外云卷云舒。

31. With a mind unclouded by external matters, one idly watches the flowers bloom and fall before the courtyard; With no intention of coming or going, one leisurely follows the clouds as they roll and disperse beyond the sky.

32. 37不争就是慈悲，不辩就是智慧，不闻就是清净，不看就是自在，原谅就是解脱，知足就是放下。不乱于心，不困于情。不畏将来，不念过往。

32. Not contesting is compassion, not arguing is wisdom, not hearing is purity, not seeing is ease, forgiving is liberation, being content is letting go. Not being confused in the heart, not being trapped by emotions. Not fearing the future, not dwelling on the past.

33. 38人可以在社会中学习，然而，灵感却只有在孤独的时候，才会涌现出来。

33. 38 people can learn in society, but inspiration only emerges when one is alone.

34. 39每天都给自己留出一点时间和空间，在独处中得到安静，在安静中修复能量，能保持精气神足，就最好不过了。

34. Every day, allocate some time and space for yourself, find tranquility in solitude, and replenish your energy in the quiet. If you can maintain a sufficient vitality and spirit, that would be the best.

35. 40喜欢听歌，也喜欢独处，喜欢安静，却也害怕孤单，喜欢笑，脾气却不怎么好，我想成为荆棘满身是刺，却怕最后自己孤身一人。

35. I like to listen to music, also enjoy being alone, prefer quietness, yet I'm afraid of loneliness, like to laugh, but have a bad temper. I want to become a thorny bush covered in thorns, yet I fear ending up alone in the end.

36. 41一个人越聪明、越善良，他看到别人身上的美德越多；而人越愚蠢、越恶毒，他看到别人身上的缺点也越多。

36. 41 The cleverer and kinder a person is, the more virtues they see in others; while the more foolish and malicious a person is, the more flaws they see in others.

37. 42在雨天赏雨是一种对孤独的享受，因为在无论是细雨绵绵，还是瓢泼大雨，其中都有她守望的影子！

37. Enjoying the rain on a rainy day is a form of enjoyment of solitude, because in either a gentle drizzle or a torrential downpour, there is her shadow watching!

38. 43微风乍起，迎来层层涟漪，然后又恢复最初的平静。看着荷叶下的净水，心也跟着平静。暂时会忘掉一切骚动不安，就像涟漪过后终归平静一样。

38. 43 A gentle breeze arises, bringing ripples one after another, and then it returns to its original tranquility. Gazing at the clear water beneath the lotus leaves, the heart follows suit and becomes calm. For a moment, all the disturbances and unrest are forgotten, just as the ripples eventually settle down to tranquility.

39. 44现在这个社会，男人想要不物质的爱情，女人想要不花心的男人。可现实是，没有钱的男人也花心，不物质的女人也没有得到爱情。

39. 44 In today's society, men want love that is not materialistic, and women want men who are not unfaithful. However, the reality is that men without money are also unfaithful, and women who are not materialistic do not receive love.

40. 45我们拥有自由意志，拥有各种资源，可以自由掌握方向盘，把我们生命导向正确的方向。

40. 45 We have free will, access to various resources, and the freedom to steer the wheel to guide our lives in the right direction.

41. 46这个世界只是一个客栈，一夜短暂的梦乡。

41. 46 This world is but an inn, a brief dreamland for one night.

42. 47独处的时候，可以静坐发呆，让身心此刻回归本真。

42. 47 When alone, one can sit quietly and daydream, allowing the body and mind to return to their true nature at this moment.

43. 48习惯晨醒，破晓时分的那层光亮，如点金棒，城市逐渐苏醒，享受晨醒自处的时光。

43. 48 The habit of waking up early, the layer of light at dawn, like a magic wand, as the city gradually awakens, enjoying the tranquility of the morning wake-up.

44. 49喜欢熬夜习惯熬夜大概是觉得整个夜晚都是我的，所有人都睡了，整个世界都安静了，终于可以在自己的世界独处了。

44. 49 Enjoy staying up late. The habit of staying up late might be because one feels that the whole night is theirs, everyone is asleep, and the whole world is quiet. Finally, they can be alone in their own world.

45. 2单纯的生活是随遇而安，有什么享受什么。笑着接受一切。

45.2 Simple living is contentment with what comes, enjoying whatever comes one's way. Accept everything with a smile.

46. 3发现自己越来越爱独处，可以少些烦扰，多想一些自己关注发现的东西，不用为了回答别人而回答。

46. 3. Find myself increasingly fond of solitude, which allows me to be less disturbed and think more about things I am interested in and discover, without having to answer just to please others.

47. 4人生似水，有容乃大。遇事退一步，为人让一步；心气别太高，火气别太盛，人外有人，处处皆有暗峭。智者：多看多听，箴言。愚人：居多自以为是哈。谁都不是圣人，尽情舒展才华，勤能补拙，笑看繁华起落，开心快乐就好！

47. Life is like water, and greatness comes with tolerance. When faced with a situation, take a step back, and give others a step. Keep your spirit in check, and don't let your temper flare up. There's always someone more capable than you, and there are hidden dangers everywhere. Wise people: see more, listen more, and remember proverbs. Foolish people: mostly think they are right. No one is a saint. Show off your talents to the fullest, work hard to compensate for your shortcomings, and laugh at the rise and fall of the world. Just be happy and enjoy yourself!

48. 5喜欢简单点的关系，喜欢一个人，喜欢那种自在不用顾虑太多的悠然，即便会被误解为孤独但我依旧喜欢那种独处。

48.5. I prefer simpler relationships, I like someone, I like that carefree feeling where I don't have to worry too much. Even though it might be misunderstood as loneliness, I still like that sense of being alone.

49. 6我一直以自己的方式和这个世界相处，练习过孤独尝试过痛苦享受过短暂却极致的幸福，所以虽败犹荣。

49.6 I have always dealt with this world in my own way, practiced solitude, suffered through pain, and enjoyed fleeting but intense happiness, so even though I have lost, I am still proud.

50. 7其实，人，只要知足，便会心静如水，咱们只能生活在世俗里。虽然繁杂浮华的世俗难得安宁，但平静能还咱们一片湛蓝的天空，一方悠闲的心灵净土。

50.7 In fact, as long as a person is content, their mind will be as calm as water. We can only live in the secular world. Although the secular world with its complexities and trivialities is rarely at peace, stillness can grant us a vast blue sky and a serene, tranquil realm for our souls.

51. 8喜欢空旷，喜欢安静，喜欢简单，喜欢独处。

51. 8 enjoys spaciousness, likes quietness, prefers simplicity, and enjoys being alone.

52. 9其实一个人并不寂寞，是你的想法让自己觉得寂寞，换个想法享受自己的时光吧。

52. 9 In fact, one is not lonely. It is your thoughts that make you feel lonely. Change your thoughts and enjoy your own time instead.

53. 10习惯孤独不是渴望孤独只是喜欢孤独带给我集体所不能给我的踏实和舒服似乎我比较喜欢一个人的狂欢，懂得享受孤独的人是幸福的！

53. The habit of solitude is not a desire for it, but a liking for the stability and comfort it brings that the collective cannot give me. It seems I prefer a solitary celebration, and those who know how to enjoy solitude are happy!

54. 11再回首恍然如梦，再回首我心依旧，可我不会再回首。

54.11 Looking back, it seems like a dream; looking back, my heart remains the same, but I will not look back anymore.

55. 12孤独的滋味并不是很差，因为孤独让你想了更多，让你懂得更多世俗，也让你了解自己的心。

55. The taste of loneliness is not that bad, because loneliness makes you think more, learn more about the world, and understand your own heart.

56. 13如果我们静心，唤醒内在的意识，我们会知道自己的伟大，知道自己和宇宙源头有沟通，而且是其中一分子，我们和整个宇宙是一体的，因此我们会更有耐心、更坚强、更有智慧，可以做更多 神奇的事。

56. 13 If we quiet our minds and awaken the inner consciousness, we will know our greatness, understand that we are in communication with the source of the universe, and are part of it. We are one with the entire universe, and therefore we will be more patient, stronger, and wiser, capable of doing more wonderful things.

57. 14我们不是这个身体，不是自己这个人而是智慧和爱力，极为神圣的品质。

57. 14 We are not this body, not this person ourselves, but wisdom and the power of love, extremely sacred qualities.

58. 15有那么几天会对身边的人事物感到无比的厌倦和乏力会想要独处，想要安静，想要随心所欲。

58. There are several days when one feels an overwhelming sense of boredom and fatigue towards the people and things around them, longing for solitude, for quiet, for the freedom to do as one wishes.

59. 16一旦开悟，爱力会经由你流到你的朋友、爱人、任何你想到或关心的人那里去。

59. 16 Once you are enlightened, the power of love will flow through you to your friends, loved ones, anyone you think of or care about.

60. 17节假日未必需要远游，更喜欢一个人一杯茶，压压腿，听听歌，怡然自得。

60. 17. It's not necessary to travel far on holidays; I prefer to enjoy a cup of tea alone, stretch my legs, listen to some music, and feel content and at ease.

61. 18面对感情心好累，为什么会有这样复杂的人际关系存在；面对物质心慌了，为什么会有这样用物质来谈感情的。喜欢独处，更加喜欢安静！

61. Facing emotions, I am exhausted, why do we have such complex interpersonal relationships; facing material things, I feel restless, why do we use material things to discuss emotions. I like being alone, and I even prefer quietness!

62. 19我现在非常享受和自己独处的时光，一个人待着也太舒服了吧。周围是安静的，心情也是沉静的。想哭就哭想笑就笑，想说话就说话，想唱歌就唱歌，想跳舞就跳舞，想看书就看书。为什么要为周围的东西苦恼呢？

62. 19 Now, I truly enjoy my time alone, and it's so comfortable to be by myself. The surroundings are quiet, and my mood is serene. I can cry if I want to, laugh if I want to, talk if I want to, sing if I want to, dance if I want to, and read if I want to. Why should I be troubled by the things around me?

63. 20趁你现在还有时间，尽你自己最大的努力。努力做成你最想做的那件事，成为你最想成为的那种人，过着你最想过的那种生活。

63. 20 While you still have time, do your utmost. Strive to accomplish the thing you most want to do, become the kind of person you most want to be, and live the kind of life you most want to live.

64. 21一个人挺好的，享受孤独，享受安静。享受自己跟自己独处。虽然疼都是别人给的，但是伤都是自己好的。

64. 21 A person is pretty good, enjoying solitude, enjoying quietness. Enjoying being alone with oneself. Although the pain is given by others, the hurt is healed by oneself.

65. 22当你感到压力大，觉得不顺心的时候，就去逛逛菜市场……当看到年迈的老人，严寒酷暑，一小堆菜，一小堆水果，只为挣那几块几十块钱的家用，你所有的矫情和懒惰都会掉在地上碎成渣。

65. 22 When you feel the pressure and things don't go your way, go for a stroll in the market... When you see the elderly, braving the severe cold and heat, carrying a small pile of vegetables and a small pile of fruits, just to earn a few yuan or tens of yuan for the household expenses, all your pettiness and laziness will fall to the ground and shatter into pieces.

66. 24学会和自己独处，心灵才能得到净化。独处，也是灵魂生长的必要空间，只有静下心来，才能回归自我。心灵有家，生命才有路。只有学会和自己独处，心灵才会洁净，心智才会成熟，心胸才会宽广。独处，是一种静美，也是一种修炼。能够在独处时昂然自得，才会在喧嚣时坦然自若。

66. 24 Learn to be alone with oneself, and the soul can be purified. Solitude is also the necessary space for the growth of the soul. Only by calming down can one return to oneself. A home for the soul, a path for life. Only by learning to be alone with oneself, can the soul be clean, the mind mature, and the chest broad. Solitude is both a quiet beauty and a form of cultivation. Only those who can be self-assured in solitude will be composed in the midst of noise.

67. 25安静的人真的很需要一点独处的时间。仿佛在这安静的夜晚，时间才真正属于自己。学会与自己和解。

67. The quiet people really need a bit of alone time. It seems that it is only in this quiet night that time truly belongs to oneself. Learn to reconcile with oneself.

68. 26相由心生，境由心造。在岁月中跋涉，每个人都有自己的故事，看淡心境才会秀丽，看开心情才会明媚。

68. The appearance comes from the heart, and the environment is shaped by the mind. As we journey through the years, everyone has their own story. Only by taking a light-hearted attitude can the scenery be beautiful, and only by seeing the positive side can the mood be bright.

69. 27忏悔心、谦卑心很重要，不过对自己的爱心更重要。

69. 27 It is important to have a repentant heart and a humble heart, but loving oneself is even more important.

70. 28安静是上天给孤独患者最好的礼物。让孤独的人安静的享受孤独。何乐而不为？

70. 28 Quiet is the best gift from heaven to the lonely. Let the lonely enjoy their solitude in silence. Why not?

71. 29心静不如静心，静心不如心静。人生有太多的滋扰与喧嚣，把它放在心底，感受心静，体验静心。

71. It's better to have a peaceful mind than to be at peace, and it's better to be at peace than to have a peaceful mind. Life is filled with too much disturbance and noise; keep it in your heart, feel the tranquility of your mind, and experience the peace of your heart.

72. 30独处是我的氧气，没有独处，我就迷失在这生活的菜市场中。

72. Solitude is my oxygen; without solitude, I get lost in the marketplace of life.

73. 32现在这个社会，男人想要不物质的爱情，女人想要不花心的男人。可现实是，没有钱的男人也花心，不物质的女人也没有得到爱情。

73. In today's society, men desire love that is not materialistic, and women want men who are not unfaithful. However, the reality is that even men without money can be unfaithful, and women who are not materialistic do not necessarily receive love.

74. 33满满的负能量，发现自己上班完全不在状态，不明白有些人始终沟通不了，有种怎么也不想去理，希望安静的独处。

74. Filled with negative energy, I find myself completely out of it at work. I don't understand why I can't communicate with some people, and I feel an unwillingness to engage with them at all. I just want to be alone in peace.

75. 34凡事不以恶意揣度别人，不以私利给他人添堵，不妄自菲薄，也不诋毁他人，这是对自己最基本的要求。

75. 34 In all things, do not suspect others with malicious intent, do not cause trouble for others for personal gain, do not belittle yourself, nor defame others; these are the most basic requirements of oneself.

76. 35诸葛亮应该随时学习，离乡背井的人，供大家参考，漫步河边，非静无以成学。宁静的水面就像此刻我的心灵，这里有诸葛孔明先生之妙语，静静地，其大无外。与其花时间花精力去维持那些表。

76. 35 Zhuge Liang should always be learning, for those who leave their hometowns, here is a reference. Strolling by the river, one cannot learn without tranquility. The still water surface is like my mind at this moment, here there are the wise sayings of Mr. Zhuge Kongming, quietly, its greatness has no bounds. It is better to spend time and energy maintaining those superficial appearances.

77. 36两人人在一起难免避不了尴尬，一个人的话就永远不会。学会享受孤独，然后你就感受不到孤独，亦不知孤独是什么个感受。

77. When two people are together, it's inevitable to avoid尴尬 (awkwardness), but when alone, that will never happen. Learn to enjoy solitude, and then you won't feel lonely anymore, nor will you know what loneliness feels like.

78. 37总会有那么一个人出现吧，陪我认真读读这万物，仔仔细细地走完这四季分明，而后发现，原来活着还是有点盼头的。

78.37 There will always be someone, won't there, who will accompany me to read these myriad things seriously, to carefully traverse the distinct four seasons, and then discover that living actually has a bit of hope to it.

79. 39人生的境界，说到底，是心灵的境界。若心乱神迷，无论你走多远，你皆捕捉不到人生的本象，领略不到有韵致的风景。唯有心灵的安静，方能铸就人性的优雅。这种安静，是得失后的平和。

79. The realm of life, in the end, is the realm of the soul. If the mind is chaotic and confused, no matter how far you go, you will not be able to capture the essence of life, nor appreciate the scenery with charm. Only with the tranquility of the soul can one forge the elegance of humanity. This tranquility is the peace that comes after gains and losses.

80. 40对我来说，孤独是一种奢侈，是一种享受。可以在闲暇时，一个人，一杯茶，一本书，在阳光沐浴下任时间流逝。可以一个人躺在草地上，漫数满天繁星。一个人走在狂风中，在他人诧异的眼光中做自己的舞者。

80. For me, solitude is a luxury, a form of enjoyment. I can spend my leisure time alone, with a cup of tea and a book, letting time slip away basking in the sunlight. I can lie on the grass alone, counting the stars in the sky. I can walk in the stormy wind, being my own dancer in the eyes of others who are surprised.