在纷繁的世界中，我们常常迷失自我，找不到前进的方向。今天，让我们一起踏上“专注自我，活出勇敢”的旅程，用17句箴言点亮人生的迷茫，寻找属于你的光芒。

In the complex world, we often lose ourselves and can't find the direction to move forward. Today, let's embark on the journey of "Focus on Yourself, Live with Courage," using 17 proverbs to illuminate the confusion in life and find the light that belongs to you.

1. 12很多微笑，明知道虚伪，却还强挤着笑容；很多回忆，明知道痛心，却还是无法释怀；很多时候，明知道厌倦，却始终一成不变。

1. There are many smiles, knowing they are false, yet still forcing a grin; many memories, knowing they are painful, yet still unable to let go; many times, knowing I'm tired, yet always remaining the same.

2. 24该来的来过，该走的都走了。我不是不想留住你，只是一切都太晚了。

2. The ones that were meant to come have come and the ones that were meant to leave have gone. It's not that I didn't want to keep you, but everything is just too late now.

3. 我们都是孤独的刺猬，繁花浮世本身就是一杯毒酒，不要只想要，付出不能少；不要急着要，一定要戒躁；不要求回报，该到自然到；不要急得到，心静便无恼；不要怕人笑，看谁笑到老；不要装知道，不懂就请教。

3. We are all lonely hedgehogs, the bustling world of flowers is itself a cup of poison wine. Don't just want, don't skimp on giving; don't be in a hurry to get, you must calm down; don't seek return, it will come naturally; don't be anxious to get, a calm mind has no worries; don't be afraid of people laughing, see who laughs the longest; don't pretend to know, ask for help if you don't understand.

4. 15忆怀往事过眼烟，记忆犹新情未淡。或喜或泣或寒暖，如今追昔已释然。

4. The past is like smoke, but the memories are still vivid, and the emotions have not faded. Whether it was joy, tears, or warmth and cold, now looking back, it has all been released.

5. 32有些伤痛一味回避只会成为心里一辈子的伤疤，直击痛苦虽然残忍，至少痛过之后才能学会淡然，释怀。

5. Some injuries, if avoided, can become lifelong scars in the heart. Confronting the pain may be cruel, but at least after the pain, one can learn to be indifferent and let go.

6. 11无论我们处于什么年纪，处于何种环境，人都应该为理想而活，因为一生短暂，余生很贵，一定要对自己好一点。

6. 11 No matter what age or environment we are in, people should live for ideals, because life is short and the remaining years are precious, so we must take better care of ourselves.

7. 16我不知道你是否还在爱我，如果爱着，为什么有那样一次离别，我不知道我是否早已不再爱你，如果不爱为什么记忆没有随着时光流逝，我的心起伏难平！

7. 16 I don't know if you still love me, if you do, why did you have to leave like that? I don't know if I've already stopped loving you; if not, why hasn't the memory faded with time? My heart is in turmoil!

8. 时间从来都像贼，不经意间偷走你所有在意的，最好的办法就是跟着这个贼走，且行且珍惜。

8. Time has always been like a thief, sneaking away everything you care about without you noticing. The best way is to follow this thief, and cherish every step along the way.

9. 一个人总要走陌生的路，看陌生的风景，听陌生的歌，然后在某个不经意的瞬间，你会发现，原本是费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的就那么忘记了。

9. A person always has to walk unfamiliar paths, see unfamiliar scenery, and listen to unfamiliar songs. Then, in some unexpected moment, you will find that the things you had been trying so hard to forget are really forgotten.

10. 浪费他人的时间等于谋财害命，浪费自己的时间等于慢性自杀。

10. Wasting others' time is the same as murder for profit, while wasting one's own time is akin to慢性自杀.

11. 时间给勤奋者留下智慧和力量，给懒惰者留下空虚和懊悔。

11. Time leaves wisdom and strength for the diligent, and emptiness and regret for the lazy.

12. 犯了过失以后真诚地表示歉意，并尽力做一些弥补，过失就会变得微不足道。

12. After committing a mistake, if one sincerely expresses an apology and makes efforts to make amends, the mistake will become negligible.

13. 人与人之间，最可痛心的事莫过于在你认为理应获得善意和友谊的地方，却遭受了烦扰和损害。

13. The most heart-wrenching thing among people is to suffer disturbance and harm in the place where you believe you should receive kindness and friendship.

14. 当我们将我们所拥有的东西与别人分享时，我们就会快乐。

14. When we share the things we have with others, we become happy.

15. 不惮人言，不畏世俗，不弃自我，如此甚好。其实，窗子或镜子并不重要，重要的是你的心。你的心明亮，世界就明亮；你的心如窗，就看见了世界；你的心如镜，就观照了自我。不要忽略对当下的珍惜，走好眼下最坚实的那一步，前面才会海阔天空。

15. Fearless of people's words, undaunted by the world's customs, and not forsaking oneself, this is indeed good. In fact, whether it's a window or a mirror is not important; what matters is your heart. When your heart is bright, the world is bright; if your heart is like a window, you will see the world; if your heart is like a mirror, you will reflect upon yourself. Do not neglect to cherish the present, take the most solid step right now, and then there will be boundless horizons ahead.

16. 5余生很贵，请别将就。如果你是真心喜欢一个人，那么就大胆说出来，至少让自己尝试被拒绝的一个理由。是该好好休息了！

16.5 Life is precious, please don't settle. If you truly like someone, then be bold and say it, at least give yourself the chance to find a reason for being rejected. It's time to take a good rest!

17. 一个人的漠然加上另一个人的苦衷，一个人的忠诚加上另一个人的欺骗，一个人的付出加上另一个人的掠夺，一个人的笃信加上另一个人的敷衍。爱情是一个人加上另一个人，可是，一加一却不等于二，就像你加上我，也并不等于我们。这种叫做爱的情啊如果你忘了苏醒，那我宁愿先闭上双眼。

17. A person's indifference plus another person's distress, a person's loyalty plus another person's deceit, a person's sacrifice plus another person's plunder, a person's firm belief plus another person's敷衍. Love is one person plus another, but, one plus one does not equal two, just like when you add me, it does not equal us. This is the love that calls itself. If you forget to wake up, then I would rather close my eyes first.

18. 19一个人累了就想找个值得依靠的肩膀不求大富大贵只求看得见未来。而我也一向在等待着他的到来。

18. 19 A person who is tired wants to find a shoulder to rely on, not for wealth and status, but for a visible future. And I have always been waiting for his arrival.

19. 当我们失去了什么时反而会觉得更加珍惜，会更加努力去追求，生活才变得更充实，更有意义，拥有一切的人从某种角度来说是一个一无所有的人。

19. When we lose something, we often feel a greater sense of value for it and are more determined to pursue it, making life more fulfilling and meaningful. In a certain sense, a person who possesses everything is, in fact, a person with nothing.

20. 如果你想要造一艘船，先不要雇人去收集木头，也不要分配任务，而是去激发他们对海洋的渴望。

20. If you want to build a ship, don't hire people to gather wood, and don't assign tasks, but rather inspire in them a longing for the sea.

21. 这个世界是一个中立的地方。发生在你身上的事，没有一样是绝对的正面或负面。让它成为正面或负面经验的力量，是出于你的诠释。，你心中的因应态度，决定了它的意义是正面还是负面。所以决定你是否快乐的关键是你的心境，而不是你的遭遇。

21. This world is a neutral place. Nothing that happens to you is absolutely positive or negative. The power to make it a positive or negative experience lies in your interpretation. It is your attitude of response in your heart that determines whether its meaning is positive or negative. Therefore, the key to whether you are happy is not your circumstances, but your mindset.

22. 22余生很贵，别再浪费。一天很短，短暂到未拥抱清晨，就要挥手迎接黑夜，一天天组成一年年。日出而作，日落而归；耳闻鸟声晨起，眼见夕阳余辉。

22. Life is precious, don't waste it any more. A day is short, so short that before you can embrace the morning, you have to wave goodbye to the night, and days turn into years one after another. Rise with the sun and return with the sunset; hear the birds sing at dawn, and see the sunset glow with your eyes.

23. 18无论你正经历着什么，过得是否开心，世界不会因为你的疲惫，而停下它的脚步。那些你不能释怀的人与事，总有一天会在你念念不忘之中遗忘。无论黑夜多么漫长不堪，黎明始终会如期而至。睡一觉，愿美梦治愈你的难过。

23. 18 No matter what you are going through or how happy you are, the world will not stop for your fatigue. The people and things you can't let go of will one day be forgotten in your constant memories. No matter how long and unbearable the night is, dawn will always arrive as scheduled. Take a nap, and may sweet dreams heal your sadness.

24. 行动不一定就带来快乐，但没有行动则肯定没有快乐。

24. Action does not necessarily bring happiness, but without action, there is definitely no happiness.

25. 面对不幸、挫折与打击，我们可以跑，可以奋斗。

25. In the face of misfortune, setbacks, and blows, we can run, we can strive.

26. 不管什么情况，都要相信自己，因为轻易得出的结论往往是片面的。

26. In any situation, believe in yourself, because conclusions that are easily drawn are often one-sided.

27. 35你是我心口的伤口，总是在跳动的心脏让伤口无法愈合。

27. 35 You are the wound on my heart, always pulsating in my beating heart, preventing the wound from healing.

28. 在一切变好之前，我们总要经历一些不开心的日子，这段日子也许很长，也许只是一觉醒来。有时候，选择快乐，更需要勇气。

28. Before everything gets better, we all have to go through some unhappy days. These days may be long or may just be a wake-up call. Sometimes, choosing happiness requires more courage.

29. 36往事浓淡，色如清，已轻。经年悲喜，净如镜，已静。

29. The past is as thick or light as clear water, already light. Years of joy and sorrow are as clean as a mirror, already still.

30. 从人生阶段看，每实现一个目标，都是一次自我实现。人生最大目标是追求自我实现。人是在一次次的自我实现中最终实现自我。

30. From the perspective of life stages, every achievement of a goal is a realization of oneself. The ultimate goal in life is to pursue self-realization. People ultimately realize themselves through successive realizations of oneself.

31. 你平时怎样待人，将决定你失意时别人怎样待你。你失意时别人怎样待你，也决定了你的失败能妙手回春还是一败涂地。

31. How you treat others in your daily life will determine how they treat you when you are down. And how others treat you when you are down will also determine whether your failure can be reversed or if it will lead to total collapse.

32. 每个人都应学会轻载，因为如果生命之舟负载太多的话，就会搁浅。

32. Everyone should learn to lighten the load, because if the boat of life is overloaded, it will run aground.

33. 我们忙碌的目的往往是：享受生活、回报父母、满足爱人，想无私；可我们忙碌的结果往往是：享受不了生活、远离了父母、冷落了爱人，成了自私。

33. The purpose of our busy lives is often to enjoy life, repay our parents, satisfy our loved ones, and be selfless; however, the result of our busy lives is often that we cannot enjoy life, are far from our parents, neglect our loved ones, and become selfish.

34. 29人生三福：平安是福，健康是福，吃亏是福。人生三不争：不与上级争锋，不与同级争宠，不与下级争功。人生三大快事：美酒，挚友，枕边书。人生三大憾事：遇良友不交，遇良机不握，遇教师不学。人生三为：和为贵，善为本，诚为先。

34. The three blessings of life: peace is a blessing, health is a blessing, and suffering is a blessing. The three things not to compete for in life: not to compete with superiors, not to vie for favor with peers, and not to compete for credit with subordinates. The three great joys of life: fine wine, good friends, and books by the pillow. The three great regrets of life: not making friends when meeting good ones, not seizing opportunities when they arise, and not learning from teachers when they are present. The three principles of life: harmony is most precious, goodness is the foundation, and sincerity comes first.

35. 很多时候，因为没有选择的缘故，人们往往走对了路。亦舒

35. Often, it's because there is no choice that people end up taking the right path. - Eileen Chang

36. 27你认真的说你喜欢白山茶，却怡然自得的收起别人的红玫瑰。你温柔的说你眷恋我，然后迫不及待的去爱别人。

36. You seriously say you like the white camellia, yet contentedly put away someone else's red rose. You gently say you cherish me, then eagerly go to love someone else.

37. 15余生很贵，请别浪费。人，要活给自己看，不要为了取悦别人，一次次委曲求全，不要为了顾及他人，一次次让自己为难。这个世上最复杂的就是人心，不管你多么善良，总有人说你恶毒，不管你多么优秀，总有人说你无能。别人嘴里的你有无数版本，真实的你，只在自己心里。

37. The remaining 15 years of life are precious; please don't waste them. People should live for themselves, not to please others by constantly compromising and enduring hardships. Don't make yourself suffer just to consider others. The most complex thing in this world is the human heart. No matter how kind you are, there will always be someone who says you are malicious; no matter how outstanding you are, there will always be someone who says you are incompetent. The you in others' mouths has countless versions, but the real you is only in your own heart.

38. 17失去一切并不可怕，怕只怕我们抵抗可是回忆。

38. It's not可怕 to lose everything, but what's可怕的只是我们抵抗却变成了回忆。

39. 每人心中，都有一个上帝，主宰着你的涨落沉浮。有人若墙头羸草，寄希望于风向，终究少了风骨，于摇曳中枯黄；有人似山间坚竹，如箭刺破长空，正因有了劲节，于坚挺中乃成。顺流少波澜，逆境多励志，你若忐忑，万物皆恶魔，你若坚守，众生皆天使。做自己的上帝，你都自我放弃，谁会来救你？

39. In everyone's heart, there is a God who governs your rise and fall. Some are like the thin grass on the wall, hoping for the wind to change direction, but in the swaying, they turn yellow and wither. Others are like the sturdy bamboo in the mountains, piercing through the long sky like an arrow, and it is precisely because of their firmness that they stand tall. Easy times have few waves, and difficult times are filled with inspiration. If you are restless, everything becomes a demon; if you hold on firmly, all beings are angels. Be your own God; if you abandon yourself, who will come to save you?

40. 大多数人想改变这个世界，但却极少有人想改造自己。

40. Most people want to change the world, but very few people want to transform themselves.

41. 3失去的心灵，断却的魂灵，有一种记忆，苍白无力，有一种苦水，藏着难忘，是人的不懂，也是心的无情，记忆，总是那么孤独，放下，总是那么疲惫。

41. The lost souls, the severed spirits, possess a memory that is pale and powerless, and a bitterness that hides unforgettable memories. It is the ignorance of humans and the ruthlessness of the heart. Memory is always so lonely, and letting go is always so exhausting.

42. 奉献其实不限于什么方式、什么人，奉献也不需要书写，不需要描画，更不需要把它放在心中，只要把它表现在你的实际行动中。

42. Devotion is not confined to any specific method or person. Devotion does not require writing or painting, nor does it need to be kept in one's heart; it is simply a matter of manifesting it through your actual actions.

43. 生命是一种回声。你把最好的给予别人，就会从别人那里获得最好的。你帮助的人越多，你得到的也越多。你越吝啬，就越一无所有。

43. Life is an echo. The best you give to others, the best you will receive in return. The more people you help, the more you gain. The more stingy you are, the more you will end up with nothing.

44. 生活中的几个不完美斑点，正是让人谦卑、同情和珍惜的原因。

44. A few imperfections in life are exactly what make people humble, compassionate, and appreciative.

45. 一个人的内心中如果蕴涵着一个信念，并坚持不懈地为之努力，那么，他一定会成为笑到最后的人。

45. If a person harbors a belief in their heart and persists in striving for it, they will surely be the one who laughs last.

46. 26控制自我的情绪，学会做情绪的主人，是学会释怀的最好良方。

46. Controlling one's emotions and learning to be the master of one's emotions is the best way to learn to let go.

47. 24时光清浅，不忘初心！余生很贵，为值得的人和事，风雨兼程！

47. Time flies, keep in mind not to forget! The rest of my life is precious, let's go through thick and thin for people and things that are worth it!

48. 41我总以为我已释怀，却依旧会在不经意间沉溺在你目光的柔波

48. I always thought I had let go, yet I still find myself unintentionally drowning in the gentle ripples of your gaze.

49. 20余生很贵，请珍惜健康，善待自己。别总跟自己过不去，别在烂事上过多纠缠，要学会凡事都看开看淡一点，做一个简单的人。余生要简单一点，你只有自己快乐了，才能带给别人快乐；余生要看开一点，你只有先爱自己了，才余生很贵，请珍惜健康，善待自己。

49. The remaining 20 years of life are precious. Please cherish your health and be kind to yourself. Don't always be hard on yourself, and don't dwell too much on bad things. Learn to take things lightly and with an open mind. Be a simple person. Make the remaining years of your life simpler; only when you are happy can you bring happiness to others; look at life with more openness; only by loving yourself first can you truly appreciate the value of the remaining years of your life.

50. 生活并不是一帆风顺的，每个人都会遇到这样或那样的困境。

50. Life is not always smooth sailing, and everyone will encounter various difficulties and challenges.

51. 23雪对我来说是伤感的，唤起了我不想回想的过去。

51. 23 snow is melancholic for me, evoking the past I don't want to remember.

52. 8遇到走不通的路，不开心的事，得不到的人，就不要固执不要坚持了，转个弯吧。余生很贵，不要再浪费自己，照顾好自己。

52. When you encounter dead ends, unhappy events, and unattainable people, don't be stubborn or persistent. Take a turn instead. Life is precious, don't waste yourself any more. Take good care of yourself.

53. 做真正的自己，还自己的本来面目，自己才能得到快乐，别人也才会接受你。

53. Be true to yourself, return to your true nature, and only then can you find happiness, and others will also accept you.

54. 一个男人爱你的时候总会觉得你笨，处处要他担心， 反之，不爱你的时候，会觉得你聪明伶俐，不劳任何人操心。

54. When a man loves you, he always feels you are foolish, and he has to worry about you everywhere. Conversely, when he doesn't love you, he will think you are clever and resourceful, and doesn't require anyone to worry about you.

55. 人生如棋，步步相随，无论好与坏，每一天都一样的重要。人生中没有一个时刻是无关紧要的。人的一生，就如同自己和自己下棋，你越计较，最后输的永远都是你自己，只有舍弃一些棋子，才能换得一生的平静和幸福。上天是公平的，舍与得，其实是一个无限循环的圈，舍得之间，人生迥异。

55. Life is like a game of chess, with each move following the last, no matter whether it's good or bad, every day is equally important. There is no moment in life that is trivial. A person's entire life is like playing chess against oneself; the more you计较, the one who ultimately loses is always you. Only by giving up some pieces can you achieve peace and happiness in life. God is fair; giving and taking is actually an infinite cycle. Between giving and taking, life takes on different forms.

56. 39明明很想哭，却还在笑；明明很在乎，却装无所谓；明明很痛苦，却偏说自我很幸福；明明忘不掉，却说已经忘了。

56. 39 He really wanted to cry, but he was still laughing; he really cared, but he acted as if he didn't care; he really felt pain, but he claimed to be very happy; he couldn't forget, but he said he had already forgotten.

57. 37别人借钱给你是情分，不借钱给你是本分，所以帮与不帮，借与不借，都要淡然释怀，毕竟你没有失去什么。

57. It is a favor if someone lends you money, and it is their duty not to lend you money. Therefore, whether to help or not, whether to lend or not lend, you should remain calm and indifferent, for in the end, you have not lost anything.

58. 20曾经，不知从什么时候开始，你变得性情偏激，看不到我的那一刻，变成了我的大错特错！就会发生一场晴天霹雳的争吵，这种心情让我窒息！

58. 20 Once, from an unknown time, you started to become overly emotional, and the moment you couldn't see me, you turned into a huge mistake in my eyes! It would lead to a sudden and shocking argument, and this feeling was suffocating!

59. 人生有巅峰也有谷底，不可能处处是谷底。实，生活并不需要这么些无谓的执着，没有什么就真的不能割舍。学会放弃，生活会更容易。奥斯特洛夫斯基曾今说过我们的生活方式有两种，一种是燃烧，一种是腐朽，而要选择哪种的关键是在于自己。

59. Life has both peaks and valleys, it is impossible for the valleys to be everywhere. In fact, life does not require so much unnecessary attachment. There is nothing that really cannot be let go of. Learning to let go makes life easier. O斯特洛夫斯基 once said that there are two ways of life: one is to burn, and the other is to rot. The key to choosing which one lies in oneself.

60. 成功与失败往往只是一步之差，如果多坚持一秒钟，就会向成功多迈一步，有时这一步就决定了你的成功与否。

60. Success and failure often differ by just a step, and if you can hold on for an extra second, it can lead you one step closer to success. Sometimes, that one step can determine whether you will succeed or not.

61. 没有过不去的事情，只有难以过去的心情。只要把心情变一变，世界就完全不一样了。

61. There are no unsolvable problems, only hearts that find it hard to overcome. As long as you change your mindset, the world can be completely different.

62. 世界上最长的东西莫过于时间，因为它永无穷尽;最短的东西也莫于过时间，因为人们所有的计划都来不及完成。

62. The longest thing in the world is time, because it is endless; and the shortest thing is also time, because people's plans are never completed in time.

63. 平平淡淡才是真，没可那应该是激情过后的平淡，然后再起激情，再有平淡。

63. Simplicity is the truth; it should be the tranquility after passion, followed by renewed passion and then another tranquility.

64. 离开家，为了更好的回家，而回家，让我们更好的出发！

64. Leaving home, in order to return better, and returning home, to make us better set off!

65. 2终身成长是永远的人生课题，余生很贵，奋斗吧。

贵 65. 2 Lifelong growth is a lifelong topic. Life is precious, strive on!

66. 7余生很长，爱情很贵。愿你早日遇到真正爱你的人，你也同样懂他；愿时光能缓，你一路上有良人陪伴；愿你心中总有力量，一生被爱。

66.7 Life is long, love is precious. May you meet the one who truly loves you soon, and may you also understand him; may time slow down, and you have a good person by your side all the way; may there always be strength in your heart, and may you be loved throughout your life.

67. 为什么我们总要到过了半生，总要等退无可退，才知道我们曾经亲手舍弃的东西，在后来的日子里再也遇不到了。辛夷坞

67. Why do we always have to reach the midpoint of our lives, always have to wait until there's nowhere left to retreat to, before we realize that the things we once abandoned with our own hands can no longer be encountered in the days that follow. Xin Yimu.

68. 有些事，过去了，后悔无益；有些人，离开了，惋惜无用。无缘的，终将离去；无情的，都会失去。人生就是一种选择与放弃，再好的事情，不能实现，也要放弃；再美的感情，不能拥有，也应遗弃。

68. Some things, once past, regret is in vain; some people, once gone, regret is futile. The ones with no connection will eventually leave; the ones without affection will all be lost. Life is a series of choices and sacrifices. Even the best things, if not achievable, must be let go of; even the most beautiful feelings, if not attainable, should also be abandoned.

69. 生活不是一帆风顺的，这样或那样的意外随时会出现。

69. Life is not smooth sailing; unexpected events of one sort or another can happen at any time.

70. 8遇到了就应当感恩，走过了就需要释怀。人生之路，不会笔直向前的，总有崎岖泥泞，总有坎坷艰辛；我们前进的方向不会永远是正确的，总会做一些错事，总会走一些弯道。

70.8 When you encounter something, you should be grateful; when you have passed through it, you need to let it go. In the journey of life, there will never be a straight path ahead; there will always be twists and turns, and there will always be difficulties and hardships. Our direction of progress will not always be correct; we will always make some mistakes and take some detours.

71. 只有当我们保持心灵的宁静时，快乐和幸福才会涌动在我们的心间。

71. Happiness and joy will surge within our hearts only when we maintain the tranquility of our minds.

72. 每一日所付出的代价都比前一日高，因为你的生命又消短了一天，所以每一日都要更积极。今天太宝贵，不应该为酸苦的忧虑和辛涩的悔恨所销蚀，抬起下巴，抓住今天，它不再回来。

72. The cost of each day is higher than the previous one, because your life has become shorter by another day, so you should be more positive every day. Today is too precious not to be wasted on bitter worries and bitter regrets. Lift your chin, seize today, for it will never come back.

73. 人生所有的问题，其实都是有固定答案的。无非就是：喜欢就买、不行就分、多喝点水、重启试试。

73. In fact, all the problems in life have fixed answers. They are simply: if you like it, buy it; if it doesn't work, split up; drink more water; try rebooting.

74. 6余生很贵，一定要过有趣的生活，和志同道合的人在一起。

74. 6 Life is precious, one must live an interesting life and be with like-minded people.

75. 恋爱本来便是去体味人生，肯定存在的意义，在独特的对方身上所投射的独特欲望，看清楚自己的限制、弱点和人性真面目，从中学习成长，体验来访此生的意义，也从付出的过程中，学习自我进步和感恩。爱情最重要的意义，在通过与对方相处修行自己，让自己成长。

75. Falling in love is inherently about experiencing life, affirming its meaning, projecting unique desires onto the unique person in front of us, understanding one's own limitations, weaknesses, and true human nature, learning and growing from this, experiencing the significance of coming to this life, and also learning self-improvement and gratitude from the process of giving. The most important meaning of love lies in cultivating oneself through interacting with the other, allowing oneself to grow.

76. 张爱玲说：不管你的条件有多差，总会有个人在爱你；不管你的条件有多好，也总有个人不爱你。

76. Zhang Ailing said: No matter how bad your conditions are, there will always be someone who loves you; no matter how good your conditions are, there will always be someone who doesn't love you.

77. 4一厢情愿地付出，最廉价，也最卑微。所以……余生很贵，好好爱自己。

77. Unconditionally giving without expecting anything in return is the cheapest and most humble. Therefore... the rest of your life is precious, so love yourself well.

78. 只要我们用心，我们就能从本来看起来很丑的事物中发掘出它美丽的一面。

78. As long as we put our hearts into it, we can uncover the beautiful side of something that initially appears ugly.