在纷繁复杂的人生舞台上，智慧如同一盏明灯，照亮了慢热与洒脱的路径。让我们一起，跟随18条生活箴言，探寻人生真谛，让生活赢得家的温馨。

In the complex and intricate stage of life, wisdom is like a beacon that illuminates the path of those who are slow to warm up and those who are carefree. Let us, together, follow 18 life proverbs to explore the essence of life and let life win the warmth of home.

1. 人生，有多少计较，就有多少痛苦；人一辈子只有一次，世上也没有后悔药，错过就是一辈子。如果懂得珍惜，会发现你获得的越来越多，如果一昧去追求，为了追求，不顾一切，不去注重珍惜，会发现你失去的越来越快越来越多。

1. In life, the more you calculate, the more pain you will have; a person's lifetime is only once, and there is no medicine for regret in the world; missing out is a lifetime. If you know how to cherish, you will find that you are gaining more and more; if you keep chasing, regardless of everything for the sake of pursuit, and do not pay attention to cherishing, you will find that you are losing more and more quickly.

2. 保持自己的本色，因为本色就是最美这世上没有绝对的美于丑，美于丑通常是可以相互转让的，但有一点可以肯定，就是最美的往往都来自本色、来自自然。所以，不要在乎别人挑剔的眼光，保持自己的本色，你就是最美的。

2. Embrace your true self, for authenticity is the most beautiful. There is no absolute beauty or ugliness in this world, and beauty and ugliness can often be transferred to one another. However, one thing is certain: the most beautiful things often come from authenticity, from nature. So, don't worry about others' critical eyes; maintain your true self, and you are the most beautiful.

3. 你获得了大彻大悟，对常人淡漠是情有可原的。毕竟你的王国与他们的世界互不相干。但只要你我仍然能够理解他们的疾苦，那就不可能超脱。

3. You have gained great enlightenment, and it is understandable for you to be indifferent to ordinary people. After all, your kingdom has nothing to do with their world. But as long as you and I can still understand their sufferings, it is impossible to transcend them.

4. 12环境影响人的成长，但它实在不排挤意志的自由表现。——车尔尼雪夫斯基

4. 12 The environment affects a person's growth, but it does not really exclude the free expression of will. – Chernyshevsky

5. 54快乐星球 持证赏味官

5. 54 Happy Planet Certified Tasting Officer

6. 我还没到能大彻大悟的时候，更想用过剩的心跳，去换取更多的发票，大概物质丰足后才会觉得心跳紧要吧。正所谓何以解忧，唯有暴富。

6. I haven't reached the stage where I can have a complete enlightenment. I'd rather use the excess of my heartbeat to exchange for more invoices. It seems that only after being materially affluent will one feel that the heartbeat is important. As they say, the only way to relieve one's worries is through sudden wealth.

7. 这个世界其实从不曾有一个人能取代另一个人的位置，所谓的取代，只是以前的那个人被遗忘了。

7. In fact, this world has never had anyone able to replace another person's position; what is called replacement is just that the previous person has been forgotten.

8. 46成功不是将来才有的，而是从决定去做的那一刻起，持续累积而成。终身之计，莫如树人。──《管子。权修》

8. Success is not something that will happen in the future; it is accumulated continuously from the moment you decide to act. The best long-term plan is to cultivate individuals. —— From "Guanzi. Quanxiu"

9. 03、好人不寂寞，善人最快乐，助人又利己，幸福也快乐。

9. 03, Good people are never lonely, kind people are the happiest, helping others also benefits oneself, happiness is also joy.

10. 9伟人之所以伟大，是因为他与别人共处逆境时，别人失去了信心，他却下决心实现自己的目标。

10. The reason why the 9 great people are great is that when others lose confidence while facing adversity together, they make a firm determination to achieve their goals.

11. 08、粗者与人斗力，愚者与人斗气，慧者与人斗智，贤者与人斗志。

11.08, The crude fight with strength, the foolish fight with anger, the wise fight with intelligence, and the virtuous fight with determination.

12. 31一朵鲜花打扮不出美丽的春天，一个人先进总是单枪匹马，众人先进才能移山填海。

12. 31 A single flower cannot beautify the spring, and one person advancing alone is always like a lone warrior; it takes the collective effort of many to move mountains and fill seas.

13. 佛说，忘忧河映射出的，便是人世间的喜怒哀乐。于是，我常常看着那些男男女女，笑着，哭着，开心着，忧伤着。我不明白，为什么他们总是笑的时候少，哭的时候多，开心的时候少，忧伤的时候多。我问佛，佛爱怜的人生在世就是一种修炼，只有看破红尘之后，才能大彻大悟。

13. The Buddha said that what is reflected by the River of Forgetfulness is the joy, anger, sorrow, and delight of the world. Therefore, I often observe those men and women, laughing, crying, being joyful, and being sad. I don't understand why they seem to laugh less and cry more, have fewer moments of joy and more moments of sadness. I asked the Buddha, and the Buddha said that to live in the world is a form of cultivation beloved by him, and only after breaking through the dust of the world can one achieve great enlightenment.

14. 世界这么大，人生这么长，总会有这么一个人，让你想要温柔的对待。

14. In such a vast world and such a long life, there will always be someone who makes you want to treat them gently.

15. 42少年易学老难成，一寸光阴不可轻。——朱熹《偶成》

15. It is easy to learn at the age of 15, but hard to become wise in old age; one inch of time should not be wasted. —— Zhu Xi, "Occasional Thoughts"

16. 也许是一个错误的人生哲理，也许是一个吹毛求疵的朋友，也许是一个每天收入十元钱的工作。也许是一个诱惑。在你的生命中有些是你必须下决心放弃的，它也许是很舒服的东西。

16. Perhaps it's a flawed philosophy of life, perhaps a nitpicking friend, perhaps a job that earns you ten yuan a day. Perhaps it's a temptation. In your life, there are some things you have to decide to give up, and they might be quite comfortable.

17. 回忆这东西若是有气味的话，那就是樟脑的香，甜而稳妥，像记得分明的快乐，甜而怅惘，像忘却了的忧愁。

17. If memory had a scent, it would be the fragrance of camphor, sweet and secure, like distinctly remembered joy, sweet yet melancholic, like forgotten sorrow.

18. 10世间的期待有一千种，最好的那种叫明日可期。人生中谎言也有一千种，最大的那种叫来日方长。

18. There are a thousand kinds of expectations in the world, the best of which is "tomorrow is at hand." There are also a thousand kinds of lies in life, the greatest of which is "the future is long."

19. 2恋爱可以慢慢谈，肉必须趁热吃，否则凉了就不好吃了。

19. 2 Love can be talked about slowly, but meat must be eaten while it's hot; otherwise, it won't taste good when it cools down.

20. 36我们在各自的小路上匆匆行走，一直未曾停留，不经意间在某个路口相遇，于是轻轻问候，淡淡寒暄，然后挥手说再见。

20. 36 We hurriedly walked along our respective paths without stopping, and by chance met at a crossroads. We exchanged a gentle greeting, a casual chat, and then waved goodbye.

21. 28我们最终都要远行，最终都要跟稚嫩的自己告别。也许路途有点艰辛，有点孤独，但熬过了痛苦，我们才能得以成长。

21. 28 In the end, we all have to embark on a journey and eventually bid farewell to our naive selves. Perhaps the path may be a bit arduous and lonely, but after enduring the pain, we can truly grow.

22. 命运所有的遭遇，并不是要把谁推倒，生活本身需要找到解决困难的想法，或者说是一种蔑视困难的高度，不要因为烦恼而带给生活不愉快，烦恼本来就是一堂功课，一种内涵，烦恼本身也不是命运的一场悲剧，所以说，谁要哭泣，和自己的软弱有关，和面临的烦恼无关。

22. All the vicissitudes of fate are not meant to knock anyone down; life itself requires the thought of finding solutions to difficulties, or rather, it is a height of disdain for difficulties. Do not bring an unpleasantness to life because of烦恼, for烦恼 itself is a lesson, a connotation. The烦恼 is not a tragedy in the hands of fate, therefore, whoever cries is related to their own weakness, not to the troubles they face.

23. 18成熟是你学会善待自己，照顾好自己。青春是段跌跌撞撞的旅行，你逐渐成为独立的个体，而不是将生活侥幸地寄托于外在的一切。没有人，一定会在雨夜去接你。没有人，一定会读懂你的心。

23. 18 is the age when you learn to treat yourself kindly, to take good care of yourself. Youth is a bumpy journey, where you gradually become an independent individual, rather than relying on everything external as a matter of chance. No one will necessarily come to pick you up in the rain. No one will necessarily understand your heart.

24. 已经走到尽头的东西，重生也不过是再一次的消亡。就像所有的开始，其实都只是一个写好了的结局。

24. What has reached its end can only be reborn as another form of extinction. Just like all beginnings, they are actually just pre-written endings.

25. 你跳不出这个世界，是因为你不知道这个世界有多大，一旦你知道了，你就超出了它。

25. You can't escape this world because you don't know how big it is; once you know, you surpass it.

26. 53不必尝试给自己找任何借口，错误面前没借口，错了就是错了。

26. 53 Don't try to find any excuses for yourself. There are no excuses in front of mistakes; if you're wrong, then you're wrong.

27. 有时候，你得停一下脚步，等一等心灵，让心情平和，想一想自己生活中拥有的所有美好的东西。

27. Sometimes, you need to pause and wait for your heart, let your mood be calm, and think about all the wonderful things you have in your life.

28. 成功也没有别的捷径，只能是脚踏实地，一环扣一环地前进。也就是人们常说的一步一个脚印。不愿意干平凡工作的人很难成大事，世间没有突然的成功，成功的诀窍就是脚踏实地，实实在在地做事。

28. There are no shortcuts to success; it can only be achieved by taking solid steps and moving forward step by step, as people often say, one step at a time. Those who are unwilling to engage in ordinary work find it difficult to achieve great things. There is no sudden success in the world; the secret to success lies in taking solid steps and doing things realistically.

29. 在这世上惟一件事比别人议论更糟，那就是无人议论你。

29. There is only one thing worse in this world than being talked about, and that is being talked about by no one.

30. 成功与我们的距离并不遥远，只要肯静下心来做好手边的事，不要一下子就想取得成功。路是一步步走出来的，想好现在该做什么，然后努力地去完成，你就会离成功越来越近。

30. Success is not far from us, as long as we are willing to settle down and do the things at hand without expecting to achieve it all at once. The road is paved step by step. Plan what you should do now, and then strive to complete it, and you will get closer and closer to success.

31. 我们一生，可以遇见那么多人。不论爱与不爱，都可以在一起度过一生中的，一天，一月，一年。到了该离开的时候，好聚好散。然后，又和下一个人一起度过，又一个，又一天，又一月，又一年。无论是谁，挥别时，也请带着珍重。人生在世，要知足，要平凡，要感恩，不可以再任性强求。

31. Throughout our lives, we can meet so many people. Whether we love them or not, we can spend one day, one month, or one year with them. When it's time to leave, let's part ways amicably. Then, we will spend another day, another month, and another year with the next person. Whoever it is, please also take care to cherish them when saying goodbye. In life, we should be content, lead a simple life, be grateful, and not allow our egos to demand more.

32. 5喜欢你的时候你是全世界，可以无下限对你付出，也会时时刻刻想看见你；累了想放手的时候你什么也不是，不会回头的往前走。

32. When I like you, you are the whole world, and I can give you my all without limits, and I want to see you all the time; when I'm tired and want to let go, you are nothing to me, and you won't turn back as you walk forward.

33. 29"每个人都有潜在的能量，只是很容易:被习惯所掩盖，被时间所迷离，被惰性所消磨。"

33. 29 "Everyone has potential energy, but it is easily: concealed by habits, distracted by time, and worn down by laziness."

34. 有些进入中年的人，表面上看起来大彻大悟，勘破红尘，但这到底是在逃避，或者根本就是颓丧？如果一个中年人一向只要年轻人颐指气使，那么可以基本推测，这个中年人自己也没有从青春中获得过多少有意义的东西，包括对自由的追求。

34. Some people who have entered middle age, on the surface, seem to have attained great enlightenment, having seen through the world's complexities, but is this actually an escape, or is it even a sign of despondency? If a middle-aged person has always treated young people with condescension, then it can be generally inferred that this middle-aged person himself has not gained much meaningfulness from youth, including the pursuit of freedom.

35. 13等青春轻飘的烟雾把少年的欢乐袅袅曳去，之后，我们就能取得一切值得吸取的东西。——普希金

35. The light, airy smoke of youth's 13 years lingers away the joy of the boy, and after that, we can acquire all that is worth acquiring. — Pushkin

36. 一个能从别人的观念来看事情，能了解别人心灵活动的人，永远不必为自己的前途担心。

36. A person who can view things from others' perspectives and understand the inner workings of others' minds will never have to worry about their future prospects.

37. 12人生没有假设，当下即是全部。总是看到比自己优秀的人，说明你正在走上坡路；总是看到不如自己的人，说明你正在走下坡路。与其埋怨，不如思变。

37. Life has no assumptions, the present is all there is. Always seeing people who are better than you indicates you are on the upward slope; always seeing people who are worse than you indicates you are on the downward slope. It's better to think of change than to complain.

38. 时间只是过客，自己才是主人。人生只是短短几十年，不要给自己留下了什么遗憾，想笑就笑，想哭就哭，该爱的时候就去爱，无谓压抑自己。人生的苦闷有二，一是欲望没被满足，二是它得到了满足。

38. Time is just a passerby, and you are the master of your own destiny. Life is just a short span of a few decades, don't leave any regrets behind for yourself. If you want to laugh, laugh; if you want to cry, cry. Love when you should, and don't suppress yourself unnecessarily. There are two sources of distress in life: one is unfulfilled desires, and the other is when those desires are fulfilled.

39. 这个世界上注定要有人比你更强、更高、更好，这是不争的事实，但我们不能因此放弃奔跑。

39. It is an undeniable fact that there will always be someone in this world who is stronger, taller, and better than you, but we cannot give up running because of that.

40. 48克服困难，勇敢者自有千方百计，怯懦者只感到万般无奈。

40. 48 Conquer difficulties; the brave have a thousand ways, while the coward feels utterly helpless.

41. 你要努力你想要的，要你自己给自己。某些事你钻营得越深烦恼就更甚，某些人你执着得越多束缚就愈紧。俗世万般红尘，有几人捭合于天地又有几人留下身后名得失。仅是一念走过的是风景，淡忘的是烟云人际，来往频仍有几人铭记你的微笑，又有几人拭去你的泪痕。

41. Strive for what you desire, and give it to yourself. The deeper you delve into certain matters, the more烦恼 you will encounter; the more you cling to certain people, the tighter the bondage will become. In the mundane world of myriad dusts and red clouds, how many can harmonize with the heavens and earth, and how many leave a name behind after their death? It's just a fleeting thought that passes through the scenery; what fades away are the smoke and clouds of interpersonal relationships. Among the frequent comings and goings, how many remember your smile, and how many wipe away your tears?

42. 11你是你梦想路上唯一的高墙，越过去，全世界都能看见你的光亮。

42. 11 You are the only high wall on your path to dreams, once you climb over it, the entire world can see your shining light.

43. 努力工作，快乐生活，爱家庭，爱孩子，承受一切该承受的，快乐一切可以快乐的。生命原本就是一个追寻的过程，学会担当，学会原谅，学会扛起责任和义务，哼一支小曲，悠然前行。

43. Work hard, live happily, cherish your family, love your children, bear what needs to be borne, and be joyful for what can be joyful. Life is essentially a journey of pursuit. Learn to take responsibility, learn to forgive, learn to shoulder responsibilities and obligations, hum a little tune, and stride forward at ease.

44. 56如果夜里不能吃东西，那冰箱里为什么会有灯呢——来自吃货的世界

44. Why would there be a light in the refrigerator if you can't eat anything at night — from the world of food lovers.

45. 如果你仍习惯于常规思维，墨守成规，那你注定地要落在人后，毫无优势可言，机会也就与你无缘。所以要出人头地，就必须具备创新才能：想别人不敢想，做别人未曾做。

45. If you are still accustomed to conventional thinking and stuck in old habits, you are doomed to lag behind and have no advantages to speak of, and opportunities will also be out of reach for you. Therefore, to stand out from the crowd, one must possess innovative abilities: to think what others dare not think and to do what others have never done.

46. 也许你想成为太阳，可你却只是一颗星辰；也许你想成为大树，可你却是一棵小草。于是，你有些自卑。其实，你和别人一样，也是一片风景：做不了太阳，就做星辰，在自己的星座发光发热；做不了大树，就做小草，以自己的绿色装点希望

46. Perhaps you want to be the sun, but you are just a star; perhaps you want to be a great tree, but you are just a small grass. So, you feel a bit inferior. In fact, you are as beautiful as others, a part of the scenery: if you can't be the sun, be a star, shining and glowing in your constellation; if you can't be a great tree, be a small grass, decorating hope with your own green.

47. 10反省是一面莹澈的镜子，它可以照见心灵上的玷污。——高尔基

47. 10 Repentance is a clear mirror that can reflect the stains on the soul. – Gorky

48. 36蛋饼里不仅有家乡的滋味，更有守护的滋味。

48. The 36 omelets not only have the taste of home, but also the taste of protection.

49. 天空一直都是蓝的，有时会被乌云给遮蔽，但天空一直都是蓝的，那些乌云总有一天都会飘走的。所以我们得坚持。

49. The sky is always blue, sometimes it is obscured by dark clouds, but the sky is always blue, and those dark clouds will eventually disperse. So we need to persevere.

50. 比孤独更可悲的事情，就是根本不知道自己很孤独，或者分明很孤独，却把自己都骗得相信自己不孤独。

50. Something even more pitiful than loneliness is not being aware of one's own loneliness, or being clearly lonely yet deceiving oneself into believing that one is not lonely.

51. 我终不能改变那个开始，何不忘了那个结局呢。

51. Since I cannot change the beginning, why not forget about the end?

52. 24为心爱的人做饭，满满的都吃掉便是最好的报答，他/她的吃相就是最美的模样。

52. Cooking for the one you love is the best reward; if you finish it all, it's the most beautiful sight.

53. 3没有人陪你走一辈子，所以你要适应孤独，没有人会帮你一辈子，所以你要奋斗一生。

53. 3 No one will accompany you through your entire life, so you must get used to solitude. No one will help you for your entire life, so you must strive throughout your entire life.

54. 57美食皆可贵 减肥价不高。

54. All delicious food is valuable, but slimming is not expensive.

55. 37再也没有哪件事比全心全力提升人生更令人鼓舞的了。

55. 37 There is nothing more inspiring than giving one's all to improve one's life.

56. 04、懂喝酒的人，找到感觉；懂知足的人，找到快乐；懂放下的人，找到自由；懂珍惜的人，找到幸福。

56. 04, Those who understand how to drink find the feeling; those who understand contentment find happiness; those who understand how to let go find freedom; those who understand how to cherish find happiness.

57. 8给生命一个微笑，用微笑面对人生。就如苍鹰自信地去搏击长空，就如河流欢快着去融入大海。为了未来美一点，现在必须苦一点。低头不算认输，放弃才是懦夫。我拼搏，就一个理由，我要得到我想要的东西。

57. Give life a smile and face it with a smile. Just like the confident eagle soaring into the vast sky, just like the joyful river merging into the ocean. In order for the future to be a bit better, we must endure a bit more now. Bowing your head doesn't mean giving up; to give up is to be a coward. I strive because I have one reason, and that is to obtain what I desire.

58. 人生就如牌局，发牌的是上天，而出牌的是自己，其实，我们都是演员，只不过有的人却演的很假。其实，我们都很善良，只是无意中伤害了谁，人生总是有许多的不如意，我们要放宽心。

58. Life is like a card game, with fate dealing the cards and oneself playing them. In fact, we are all actors, and some people act very falsely. In reality, we are all kind-hearted, but sometimes we inadvertently hurt someone. Life is always full of disappointments, so we should keep our minds open.

59. 45这个世界不会因为你的疲惫，而停下它的脚步。今天你不用力走，明天就要用力跑。如果无法避免，那我们能做的，不过只是把自己变得更强大，强大到能够应对下一场挑战。

59. 45 The world will not stop for your fatigue. Today, if you don't put in the effort to walk, tomorrow you'll have to run with force. If it cannot be avoided, then what we can do is to make ourselves stronger, strong enough to meet the next challenge.

60. 不论你是笼罩在失望阴影下的大学生，还是很不顺心的工作者，你都得找到自己的信心，找准方向，正确选择，然后去努力。别把命运寄托在痴妄上，天上落下的，除了雨滴，还有板砖，不要被敲打得痛彻心扉时，才知道慨叹人生的真实。所以，从今天起，要么努力追逐梦想，要么就做别人脚底的泥巴。

60. Whether you are a college student shrouded in the shadow of disappointment or a worker who is not having a smooth time, you must find your own confidence, determine the right direction, make the correct choices, and then work hard. Don't rely on blind optimism for your destiny; besides raindrops, there are also tiles falling from the sky. Don't only realize the harsh reality of life when you are struck to the core. So, from today on, either strive to chase your dreams or become the dirt under others' feet.

61. 48发际线越来越高，天花板越来越低，但吃到一口好吃的味道，就像回到了童年。

61. The hairline is getting higher and higher, and the ceiling lower and lower, but when you taste a delicious flavor, it feels like you've gone back to your childhood.