人生真相对话：三十岁之后，深刻领悟16个智慧箴言，开启一段心灵之旅。

Real Insights of Life: After the Age of Thirty, Deeply Grasp 16 Wise Sayings, Embark on a Journey of the Soul.

1. 每周都要存一些钱，没错是每周，把自己的存款周期变得很低的时候，自己才会更容易存的到钱，这是很多理财达人都知道的小技巧，我从大二的时候开始接触到理财，很短的时间内就重新塑造了我对金钱的观念，对于普通人来说，扭转自己对于金钱错误的观念是很重要的，他能够决定自己以后是不是一个富有的人。

1. It's true that you should save some money every week, that's right, every week. When you lower the cycle of your savings, you'll find it easier to save money. This is a small trick that many financial experts know. I started learning about finance in my sophomore year, and it reshaped my view of money in a short period of time. For ordinary people, it's important to correct their wrong notions about money. It can determine whether or not they will be wealthy in the future.

2. 很多男生会以睡过多少女生作为自己吸引力的证明，总有一天你会明白，无论是穿着掉档裤的tony老师，还是村里的老光棍，都能靠着套路和广撒网和很多女的乱搞。

2. Many boys use the number of girls they have slept with as proof of their attractiveness, but one day you will understand that whether it's the tony teacher wearing saggy pants or the old bachelor in the village, they can all mess around with many women through tricks and casting a wide net.

3. 真正的强者是，夜深人静了就把心掏出来自己缝缝补补，完事了再塞回去，睡一觉醒来又是信心百倍。 活着就该逢山开路，遇水架桥。 生活，你给我压力，我还你奇迹。

3. The true strength lies in pulling out one's heart when it's late at night, mending it by oneself, and then putting it back in after finishing; waking up after a nap, one is full of confidence again. Living means breaking through obstacles like opening a path through mountains and building a bridge over rivers. Life, if you give me pressure, I'll give you a miracle in return.

4. 人生的奔路，不在于瞬间的爆发，取决于途中的坚持，很多时候，成功就再坚持多一分钟，只是不知道，这一分钟会再什么时候出现，所以，在一切尚未定论之前，不要停下脚步，或许就在喘息，休憩，放弃之际，放弃了成功的机会，多坚持一分钟改变命运。

4. The journey of life does not depend on a momentary burst of energy; it is determined by persistence along the way. Often, success is just one more minute of persistence. But one never knows when that minute will arrive, so do not stop walking until all is decided. Perhaps it is during the moments of rest, breathlessness, or giving up that the opportunity to succeed is lost. Adding just one more minute of perseverance can change one's destiny.

5. 与众不同的人生才具有挑战性，如果经营着与他人相同的人生，该是一件多么乏味的事。我们要有一颗善于创造的心，不断地思考和优化，打造不一样的人生体验。

5. A life that is different from the norm is challenging, and how dull it would be to live a life that is the same as everyone else's. We should have a heart that is good at creating, constantly thinking and optimizing, to build a unique life experience.

6. 问世间情为何物，直教人生死相许。生死都许，钱算啥。所以情比钱贵，要用情而不是用钱和人打交道。

6. What is the essence of love in this world, that it can make one swear to life and death together. If one is willing to swear to life and death, what is money? Therefore, love is more precious than money, and one should deal with people with love rather than with money.

7. 淡泊宁静，才是真正的意义所在；看淡得失，才能体会到奋斗的乐趣。来时一丝不挂，去时一缕清烟，人活着，不是得到了多少，而是付出了多少，体会了多少，又感悟了多少。

7. The true essence lies in simplicity and tranquility; only by taking setbacks and gains lightly can one truly appreciate the joy of struggle. Coming in with nothing, leaving with a wisp of smoke, life is not measured by how much one has gained, but by how much one has given, experienced, and understood.

8. 如果是我就不会这样，请不要轻易说出这样的话，人生只有结果没有如果。

8. If it were me, I wouldn't do it that way. Please don't say such things easily, as life only has results, not if-then scenarios.

9. 不要错过每一次值得堕泪的时候，让泪水暗暗润泽你凋谢的魂灵。

9. Do not miss any moment that is worthy of shedding tears, let your tears silently moisten the withering soul within you.

10. 灵魂，是深山沉默的一池潭水，不要去搅和它，它就能映照人心善良的影子。灵魂，是田野流动的一阵春风，不要去阻拦它，它就能孕育人心善良的春苗。灵魂，是天空闪烁的一跨彩虹，不要去阿谀它，它就能唤来人心善良的雨露。灵魂，是海面浮动的一片蜃景，不要去攫取它，它就能进入人心善良的梦乡。

10. The soul is a silent pool of water hidden in the deep mountains, do not disturb it, and it will reflect the kind shadow of the human heart. The soul is a gentle breeze flowing over the fields, do not obstruct it, and it will nurture the kind sprouts of the human heart. The soul is a rainbow shimmering across the sky, do not flatter it, and it will bring the gentle dew of the human heart. The soul is a mirage floating on the sea, do not grasp at it, and it will enter the dreamland of the human heart's kindness.

11. 我们常常会害怕孤独，可它是我们的一部分，它是天使也是魔鬼，它能让我们变得更好，也能让我们万劫不复。当我们无法逃离它时，就只能面对它，孤独到最后都是一种极其真实的存在感。面对孤独，我们都有脆弱的一面，然而只要咬牙继续向前走，回过头看的时候，都会惊讶于自己的忍耐力。

11. We often fear loneliness, yet it is a part of us, a mix of an angel and a devil, capable of making us better or worse. When we cannot escape it, we can only confront it, and in the end, loneliness is a profoundly real sense of existence. When faced with loneliness, we all have a vulnerable side. However, if we咬紧牙关继续前行, we will be surprised by our own resilience when we look back.

12. 学问和健康之外无财富，无知和疾病之外无贫穷。

12. Wealth is beyond learning and health, and poverty is beyond ignorance and disease.

13. 自己要敢于面试，不要害怕犯错误。做事必须需要勇气，需要过度冒险，不敢面试，哪来成功的喜悦。假如前怕虎，后怕狼，既怕别人指指点点，又怕为周围环境所不容，终究会一事无成，失败是成功之母。倘若处处害怕失败，永远也不会有成功的一天。

13. You must dare to interview and not be afraid of making mistakes. Doing things requires courage and sometimes even over-ambition. If you dare not interview, where would you find the joy of success? If you are afraid of tigers ahead and wolves behind, afraid of others' criticism, and afraid of not being accepted by the surrounding environment, you will ultimately achieve nothing and fail. Failure is the mother of success. If you are afraid of failure everywhere, you will never have a day of success.

14. 去别人家做客，对方主人的话不多不少，甚至总是提醒你喝水，或者建议看电视的时候，你就应该离开了，因为人总是在感到无话可说的时候，才提醒别人做一些无关紧要的事情。

14. When visiting someone's house, if the host says little or nothing, or even constantly reminds you to drink water, or suggests watching TV when you leave, you should consider leaving. This is because people usually remind others to do trivial things only when they feel at a loss for words.

15. 漫漫人生路，总会错几步，拼搏的路，只为有住处，心要照顾，朋友要在乎，老酒烫一壶，追求来动力，奋斗有乐趣，宽容是空间，谦和留余地，吃亏是积累，付出乃储蓄，冷静为良剂，忍让为妙棋，常怀感恩心，坚持是胜利。

15. In the long journey of life, mistakes are bound to happen. The road of struggle is only for a place to live, the heart needs to be cared for, friends should be cherished. Warm a pot of old wine, seek motivation in pursuit, find joy in struggle, tolerance is a space, modesty leaves room, suffering is accumulation, giving is saving, calmness is a good medicine, patience is a clever move, always be grateful, and perseverance is victory.

16. 你改变不了昨天，但如果你过于忧虑明天，将会毁了今天。

16. You cannot change yesterday, but if you worry too much about tomorrow, you will ruin today.

17. 石头貌不起眼，却能恒久千年万载。鲜花美不胜收，却只不过一季芬芳。上帝不会让任何人与物完美无缺，生活也不会让任何事百分之百的圆满。没有人可以得到所有的幸福，生活中总会存在这样那样的缺憾。人有悲欢离合如月有阴晴圆缺！

17. Stones may seem unremarkable, but they can endure for thousands and tens of thousands of years. Flowers may be beautiful, yet they only bloom for one season. God does not allow anyone or anything to be perfect, and life does not let any event be 100% perfect. No one can attain all happiness, and life will always have its share of shortcomings. People have their ups and downs like the moon has its phases of crescent, full, and waning!

18. 只有当我们保持心灵的宁静时，快乐和幸福才会涌动在我们的心间。

18. Only when we maintain inner peace will happiness and joy surge within our hearts.

19. 一个人对于人性有了足够的理解，他看人包括看自己的眼光就会变得既深刻又宽容，在这样的眼光下，一切隐私都可以还原成普遍的人性现象，一切个人经历都可以转化成心灵的财富。

19. When a person has a sufficient understanding of human nature, their perspective on others, including themselves, will become both profound and tolerant. Under such a perspective, all privacy can be还原 to universal human phenomena, and all personal experiences can be transformed into wealth of the soul.

20. 最使人颓废的往往不是前途的坎坷，走在梦想的道路上，我们经常被否定，记住。不是伤心就一定要哭泣。人生有很多个真相，但每一个真相前面都有很多个假象，我们所以是常人，因为我们更容易被假象迷惑。

20. The most disheartening thing is often not the difficulties ahead, but on the path of our dreams, we are frequently denied. Remember, not every sadness requires tears. Life is filled with many truths, but there are many illusions before each truth. We are ordinary people because we are more easily deceived by illusions.

21. 人在的时候，以为来日方长什么都有机会，其实人生是减法，见一面少一面。

21. When people are around, one thinks that there is plenty of time and everything is possible. In reality, life is a subtraction, and with every meeting, there is one less.

22. 懂得太多，看的太透，你就会变成世界的孤儿；做人，糊涂一点更快乐。

22. Knowing too much and seeing too clearly will make you an orphan in the world; being a person, it's happier to be a bit confused.

23. 有时候你会特别渴望找个人谈一谈，但是到最后你会发现，往往都谈不出个所以然，慢慢地你领悟到，有些事情是不能告诉别人的;有些事情是不必告诉别人的;有 些事情是根本没办法用言语告诉别人的;有些事情是即使告诉了别人，别人也理解不了的。所以，有些话，只能放在心里，让时间告诉你一切。

23. Sometimes you feel a strong urge to talk to someone, but in the end, you often find that you can't get to the bottom of things. Slowly, you come to realize that there are some things that cannot be told to others; some things that do not need to be told to others; some things that are impossible to express in words; and some things that even if told to others, they still won't understand. Therefore, some words can only be kept in your heart, and let time tell you everything.

24. 很多时候，计划都赶不上变化。有计划的远行固然是好，但当一切都准备好了的时候却早已失去当初想出门远行的想法和心动了。有时候，一次随心远行更能洗涤人的心灵、升华人的思想。没想到我都毕业了，还是脱离不了各种各样的考试……这足以说明：人生就是由一场又一场的考试组合而成的。

24. Many times, plans cannot keep up with changes. Although a planned journey is good, by the time everything is ready, one has already lost the initial desire and excitement to embark on the journey. Sometimes, a spontaneous journey can better cleanse the soul and elevate one's thoughts. I didn't expect that even after graduation, I still can't escape from various exams... This is enough to prove that life is composed of one exam after another.

25. 没有人有义务必须透过你邋遢的外表去发现你优秀的内在。你必须干净、整洁、甚至是精致，这是你做人的基本与尊严，不分男女。越活越理解以貌取人的积极之处，自勉互勉。

25. No one is obligated to discover your excellent inner qualities through your slovenly appearance. You must be clean, tidy, and even exquisite, which is the fundamental and dignity of being a person, regardless of gender. The older I get, the more I understand the positive aspects of judging a book by its cover, and I encourage myself and others to do so.

26. 人生中遇到的每种困难和挫折，都需要自己去勇敢面对和解决承担。如果你无法解决这些困难和挫折，那必将被人生逐步淘汰。

26. Every kind of difficulty and setback encountered in life requires one to bravely face and solve it. If you are unable to resolve these difficulties and setbacks, you will inevitably be gradually eliminated by life.

27. 其实百分之七十的人都有被绿的经历，只是他们自己不知道罢了。

27. In fact, seventy percent of people have experienced being betrayed, but they just don't realize it themselves.

28. 明明知道那么多事堆在眼前，摊开的文件、散乱的衣橱，或者只是一个该打的电话、一封该发的邮件，还有自己焦急不安的小心脏，我们还是边咬着手指甲边发呆地说："再待一会儿，就一下下……"朋友，请不要拖延了，马上去做那些对你极为重要的事吧。也许你会发现：只要你着手做了，一切都会变得简单。

28. Even though we know that so many things are piling up in front of us, whether it's the unfolded papers, the cluttered closet, or just a phone call that needs to be made or an email that needs to be sent, and our own anxious and restless hearts, we still bite our nails and daydream, saying, "Just a little while longer, just a bit more..." Friend, please don't procrastinate any longer. Go ahead and do those things that are extremely important to you right now. Perhaps you will find: as soon as you start doing them, everything will become simpler.

29. 这个社会想得到的人太多，想付出的没有几个。

29. This society wants too many things from people, but there aren't many who want to give.

30. 人生顺境时，切记收敛;人生得意时，切记看谈;人生逆境时，切记忍耐;人生失意时，切记随缘;心情不好时，当需涵养;心情愉悦时，当需沉潜;静，是一种休息，更是一种修行，所有的烦恼，都来自于喧嚣，所有的伤痛，都来自于躁动;肉体奔波太久会劳累，灵魂游离太久会成伤。

30. When life is smooth, remember to be reserved; when life is prosperous, remember to be humble; when life is in adversity, remember to endure; when life is disheartening, remember to go with the flow; when in a bad mood, one needs to cultivate composure; when in a good mood, one needs to be introspective; tranquility is both a rest and a form of cultivation. All troubles come from noise, and all wounds come from restlessness. The body becomes weary after too much running, and the soul gets injured after too much wandering.

31. 缘份需要珍惜，爱一个人不需要拥有。拥有一个人的时候请一定要珍惜，爱一个人只需用几分钟的时间，忘记一个人需要一辈子的时间。记住她的好吧！

31. Fate needs to be cherished, and loving someone doesn't require possession. When you have someone, please cherish them, for it only takes a few minutes to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. Remember her good qualities!

32. 我给予别人的可能会是快乐的，但内心那份深深的失落、也只有自己才能够去体会。往往自己想追寻的是一份简单的快乐，但最后所得到的却是什么呢？

32. What I give to others might bring them joy, but the deep sense of loss within me is only something I can truly experience. Often, what I seek is a simple happiness, but in the end, what do I actually get?

33. 不要和你女朋友的闺蜜有联系，最好见都不要见，她闺蜜不喜欢你，你们会分手，她闺蜜喜欢你，你们，还是会分手。

33. Do not have any contact with your girlfriend's best friend, and it's best not to see her at all. If her best friend doesn't like you, you will break up; if her best friend likes you, you still will break up.

34. 努力了，或许会被生活辜负，但总算自己没有辜负自己，当熬过了所有的苦难，因为没有遗憾，所以比谁都潇洒。

34. Efforts have been made, and perhaps life may have disappointed us, but at least we have not disappointed ourselves. After enduring all the hardships, with no regrets, we are more carefree than anyone else.

35. 人生不过百年，没必要凡事都争个明白，水至清则无鱼，人至清则无朋。跟家人争，争赢了，亲情没了；跟爱人争，争赢了，感情淡了；跟朋友争，争赢了，情义没了。争的是理，输的是情，伤的是自己。黑是黑，白是白，让时间去证明。放下自己的固执己见，宽心做人。

35. Life is but a hundred years, there's no need to clarify everything. As water becomes too clear, fish cannot live; as a person becomes too pure, friends cannot be found. Arguing with family, if you win, you lose family ties; arguing with your loved one, if you win, you weaken the relationship; arguing with friends, if you win, you lose the sense of friendship. What you argue for is reason, but what you lose is affection, and what you hurt is yourself. Black is black and white is white, let time prove it. Let go of your stubbornness and be more carefree in your life.

36. 你努力长成更好的样子，不单单是为了某一天可以匹配他人，更是为了让自己活得有姿态。在温柔中，不慌不忙地坚强，不要把这等待看成是消耗时间，它是另一个自我塑造的过程。你努力长成更好的样子，不单单是为了某一天可以匹配他人，更是为了让自己活得有姿态。

36. You strive to become a better version of yourself, not just to be a match for someone else one day, but also to live with poise. In gentleness, be firm without haste; don't view this waiting as a waste of time, for it is another process of self-cultivation. You work to become a better version of yourself, not just to be a match for someone else one day, but also to live with poise.

37. 忙闲之间：既能忙里偷闲，又能从容务实，是高人。

37. The Art of Balance: One who can find leisure amidst busyness and remains composed and practical is a person of great wisdom.

38. 人这一辈子，开心也是一天，不开心也是一天，让我们从快乐开始!做你想做的，爱你想爱的。记住该记住的，忘记该忘记的。改变能改变的，接受不能改变的。我们可以淡然面对，可以积极的把握。不要去过份地苛求，不要有太多的奢望。做好你能做的每一件事，珍惜你身边的每一个人。

38. In a person's lifetime, whether happy or not, it's still a day. Let's start with joy! Do what you want to do, love who you want to love. Remember what should be remembered, forget what should be forgotten. Change what can be changed, and accept what cannot be changed. We can face it calmly, or actively grasp it. Don't be too demanding, and don't have too many desires. Do everything you can do well, and cherish everyone around you.

39. 以小见大，见微知著。一个能把小事做好的人，做大事才不会有问题；一个不注意小事情的人，永远不会成就大事业。

39. To see the great from the small, and to discern the significant from the trivial. A person who can handle small matters well will not have problems in doing big things; a person who does not pay attention to small matters will never achieve great undertakings.

40. 当所有人都低调的时候，你可以高调，但是绝不能跑调。

40. When everyone is低调, you can be flamboyant, but you must never go off-key.

41. 20岁到30岁，可能是人生最艰苦的时期。你刚离开学校，摆脱学生气，却发现要面对许多未曾想过的问题。婚姻工作都让你格外焦虑，你彷徨犹豫，却依旧没有 头绪。其实，这段日子每个人都会经历，最好的方法就是静下来、做下去。你认为值得的，就去守候;你认为幸福的，就去珍惜。

41. From 20 to 30 years old, it may be the most challenging period in life. Just as you leave school and shed your student aura, you find yourself facing many unexpected issues. Marriage and work are particularly stressful for you, causing you to be indecisive and confused, yet you still haven't found a clear path. In fact, everyone goes through this phase, and the best approach is to calm down and keep moving forward. Pursue what you believe is worth waiting for, and cherish what you consider to be happiness.

42. 也许一个人最好的样子就是静一点，哪怕一个人生活，穿越一个又一个城市，走过一条又一条街道，仰望一片又一片天空，见证一场又一场离别，于是终于可以坦然的说，我终于不那么执着。

42. Perhaps the best version of a person is to be quieter, even if living alone, crossing city after city, walking street after street, looking up at sky after sky, witnessing departure after departure, and finally being able to say calmly, I have finally let go of my attachment.

43. 在集体中，只要大家有一个共同的目标，一份永不言败的信念，一种坚持不懈的毅力，还有一种作为集体成员的`责任感，就能团结一致，配合默契，同舟共济，就没有解决不了的难题。

43. In a group, as long as everyone has a common goal, an unwavering belief in never giving up, a perseverance, and a sense of responsibility as a member of the collective, they can unite, work in harmony, and row together in the same boat, and no problem is insurmountable.

44. 你人再好不是每个人都会喜欢你，有人羡慕你也有人讨厌你有人嫉妒你也有人看不起你，生活就是这样，你所做的一切不能让每个人都满意，不要为了讨好别人而丢失自己的本性，因为每个人都有原则和自尊。

44. No matter how good you are, not everyone will like you. Some will envy you, some will dislike you, some will be envious of you, and some will look down on you. Life is like that. Everything you do cannot satisfy everyone. Don't lose your true nature in the pursuit of pleasing others, because everyone has their principles and self-respect.

45. 当你知道了面子是最不重要的东西时，你便真的长大了。

45. When you realize that face is the least important thing, you have truly grown up.

46. 别人和你说话的时候看着对方的眼睛，会让你有意想不到的收获。

46. Looking into the eyes of the person speaking to you can yield unexpected benefits.

47. 生命中我们碰到的每一个人都值得我们感谢，因为他们可能种出了我们吃的粮食，因为他们可能织出了我们穿的衣服，因为他们可能制造了我们用的电器，因为他们可能建造了我们住的房子，因为他们可能铺平了我们行走的道路。

47. Every person we encounter in life is worth our gratitude, for they may have grown the food we eat, woven the clothes we wear, manufactured the appliances we use, built the houses we live in, or paved the roads we walk on.

48. 来者要惜，去者要放。人生是一场旅行，不是所有人都会去同一个地方。路途的邂逅，总是美丽，分手的驿站，总是凄凉。不管喜与愁，该走的还是要走，该来的终究会来。人生的旅程，大半是孤单。懂得珍惜，来的俱是美丽；舍得放手，走的不成负担。对过去，要放；对现在，要惜；对将来，要信。

48. Cherish those who come, let go of those who leave. Life is a journey, not everyone will go to the same place. Encounters along the way are always beautiful, while parting stations are always desolate. Whether it's joy or sorrow, what needs to be done must be done, and what is to come will eventually arrive. Most of life's journey is spent alone. Know how to cherish, and all that comes will be beautiful; be willing to let go, and those who leave won't become a burden. Let go of the past, cherish the present, and have faith in the future.

49. 俗话说，学海无涯，无论我们感觉学得怎样精通，其实也只是略知皮毛而已。活到老，学到老。知识是无穷无尽的，任何自满的想法只能导致一个人的停滞不前。因此，我们应该学会谦虚，任何时候都不要有"满了"的想法。

49. As the saying goes, the ocean of learning is boundless. No matter how proficient we feel we have become, we are actually only scratching the surface. We should learn all our lives. Knowledge is endless, and any feeling of complacency can only lead to a person's stagnation. Therefore, we should learn to be humble and never have the thought of being "sufficient" at any time.

50. 生活不会永远让你享受阳光灿烂，有时候也会在你头上放一片乌云，让你体验一下落汤鸡的无奈滋味，让你活在别人异样的眼光之下，羡慕嫉妒别人能够轻松愉快地活着。

50. Life will not always let you bask in the sunshine. Sometimes, it will cast a dark cloud over your head, making you taste the helplessness of being drenched, and forcing you to live under others' peculiar gaze, envying and being jealous of others who can live a carefree and joyful life.

51. 把赚钱作为自己30岁之前最重要的事情，别想一些没用的，收起来自己平时的无病呻吟，只有钱到位了，你才会发现这个世界有多美好，别在最有能力奋斗的年纪，每天在朋友圈渴望着繁殖交配。

51. Make making money your most important thing before the age of 30. Don't indulge in useless thoughts, and put away your everyday complaints. It's only when you have enough money that you will realize how beautiful the world is. Don't spend your most capable years longing for reproduction and mating in your朋友圈 every day.

52. 人都是需要努力的，朝着梦想，或者朝着能够靠近梦想的路上挤去。你不努力，没人拿你当回事儿。失败对于想成功的人来说，只是可以舔舐的伤口;而对于不思进 取的人来说，则是无法逾越的险峰。人最怕的是一生庸碌无为，还安慰自己平淡是真。过不好这一生，不是你的错;但不努力过好这一生，是悲哀。

52. Everyone needs to strive for their dreams, or to squeeze through the path that can bring them closer to their dreams. If you don't work hard, no one will take you seriously. For those who aspire to succeed, failure is just a wound that can be licked; for those who are not ambitious, it is an insurmountable obstacle. The scariest thing for a person is to live a life of mediocrity and yet comfort themselves with the thought that simplicity is the truth. Not living a good life is not your fault; but not striving to live a good life is a tragedy.

53. 人生就是一场修行，修行就是努力提起和放下。要提得起平和谦让的恭敬，放得下傲慢自大的偏见；提得起知足感恩的心态，放得下骄奢*逸的折腾；提得起人生正能量的精进，放得下得过且过的懈怠；提得起慈悲喜舍的善良，放得下名闻利养的贪念；提得起生之为人的责任，放得下诸相实有的执着。

53. Life is a journey of cultivation, and cultivation is about striving to pick up and let go. We must be able to pick up the respect with calmness and modesty, and let go of the pride and egotistic biases; pick up the attitude of contentment and gratitude, and let go of the extravagant and indulgent troubles; pick up the positive energy of life for progress, and let go of the complacency of just getting by; pick up the benevolence and compassion, and let go of the desire for fame and wealth; pick up the responsibility of being human, and let go of the attachment to the reality of all phenomena.

54. 坚强不是看你在崩溃前有多能掌控一切，而是你崩溃后如何收拾残局。

54. Strength is not about how well you can control everything before you collapse, but how you pick up the pieces after you do.

55. 知足是一种心态，一种人生修养，其实生活没什么埋怨的，快乐是很简单的，快乐就是要有目标有追求；保持一颗纯真的童心；发自内心的微笑；懂得去宽容他人。无论在生命中是会遭遇有多少的困苦、艰难和波折，我们都是要保持淡然的心态。

55. Contentment is a mindset, a kind of life cultivation. In fact, there is nothing to complain about in life. Happiness is very simple; happiness is to have goals and pursue them; to maintain a pure, childlike heart; to smile from the bottom of one's heart; and to understand how to be tolerant of others. Regardless of how many hardships, difficulties, and setbacks one may encounter in life, we should always maintain a composed attitude.

56. 身上的时候，那么请不要轻易否定别人，因为你永远都无法确定，当事情发生在自己身上的时候，你是否会比他做得更好。

56. When it's about yourself, please don't easily deny others, because you can never be sure whether you would do better than him when the same situation happens to you.

57. 不论后方有多少险滩暗礁荆棘圈套，你只需找准正确的路途，就能顺利走向后方。

57. No matter how many dangerous rapids, hidden reefs, and thorny traps there are in the rear, as long as you find the correct path, you can smoothly head towards the rear.

58. 在平常要多感谢别人，如果对方让你有所收获了的话，一来向别人彰显了你的素质，二来你也会有记忆点的产生，会对收获的内容印象更深刻，你还会得到很多人的喜欢，就像此刻点了个赞的你一样。

58. It is important to express gratitude to others more often. If someone benefits you, it not only showcases your character but also creates a memorable point, allowing you to have a deeper impression of the content you've gained. Moreover, you will win the favor of many people, just like the person who likes it right now.

59. 因为看轻，所以快乐。因为看淡，所以幸福。我们都是天地的过客，很多事，我们都做不了主。你越想抓牢的，往往是离开你最快的。所以，凡事不必太在意，一切随缘随心，缘深多聚聚，缘浅随它去。凡事看淡点看开些，顺其自然，无意于得，就无所谓失。人生，看轻看淡多少，痛苦就远离你多少。

59. Because we take things lightly, we are happy. Because we look at things with detachment, we are content. We are all travelers through the heavens and the earth, and many things are beyond our control. The more you try to hold on to, the faster they often leave you. So, do not take too much to heart in all things, let everything go with the flow and according to your heart's desires. If the缘分深，就多聚聚；如果缘分浅，就随它去吧. Look at everything with a light and open heart, and let things happen naturally. If there's no desire for gain, there's no sense of loss. In life, the less you take to heart and the more you detach yourself, the farther away from you suffering will be.

60. 当你知道了许多真实、虚假的东西，就没有那么多酸情了。你越来越沉默，越来越不想说。将心比心，以心换心，你怎样对我，我就怎样对你！从今以后！嘴要甜，心要狠。

60. When you've learned a lot of true and false things, there's less sourness. You become more silent and less willing to speak. Put yourself in my shoes and exchange hearts with me! The way you treat me is the way I'll treat you! From now on! Speak sweetly, but think harshly.

61. 为义务和道德而牺牲固然是痛苦的，但是这种牺牲在内心深处留下的温馨的回忆，作为补偿是绰绰有余的。

61. Suffering for duty and morality is indeed painful, but the warm memories left deep in the heart by such sacrifices are more than sufficient as compensation.

62. 尽量不要在朋友圈表达情绪，尤其生气的时候，稍不注意，你就可能得罪一群人，也会让不明真相的人，觉得你素质差，真要吐槽，可以仅自己可见，或者屏蔽分组。

62. Try not to express emotions on social media platforms, especially when you're angry. If you're not careful, you might offend a group of people, and it might also make those who are unaware of the truth think you have poor character. If you really need to complain, you can make it visible only to yourself or block certain groups.

63. 人生的大痛苦，不是清楚不了，而是糊涂不了。人们对一些事情有耐心和毅力，无非是因为有一个结果在召唤他们。但很少人能对无聊和空虚有足够的耐心和毅力，因为人们完全不知道当空虚和无聊被穿透后将是一个什么结果。

63. The great suffering in life is not that we cannot be clear, but that we cannot be confused. People have patience and perseverance for some things, merely because there is a result calling to them. But few can have enough patience and perseverance for boredom and emptiness, because people have no idea what kind of result will come after piercing through the emptiness and boredom.

64. 一个人的成熟，并不表现在获得了多少成就上，而是面对那些厌恶的人和事，不迎合也不抵触，只淡然一笑对之。当内心可以容纳很多自己不喜欢的事物时，这就叫气场。

64. A person's maturity is not shown in how much achievement they have achieved, but in facing those people and things that are disliked, neither catering to nor opposing them, but just calmly smiling at them. When the heart can accommodate many things that are disliked, this is called an aura.

65. 如果你有一杯水，你可以自己独享；如果你有一桶水，你可以存放在家中；但如果你有一条河，你就要学会和他人分享。我们在苦累中懂得满足，在疼痛中品味生活，我们就是自己灵魂的舞者，最真实最倾情的观众是台下的另一个自己。

65. If you have a glass of water, you can enjoy it all by yourself; if you have a bucket of water, you can store it at home; but if you have a river, you need to learn to share it with others. We learn to be content in our hardships and to savor life in our pain. We are dancers of our own souls, and the most sincere and passionate audience is the other self watching from the stands below.

66. 微信上好久不联系的人突然上来就问你，“在吗”，多半是有事情求你，他不说事情之前，先别着急回他。

66. A person who hasn't been in contact on WeChat for a long time suddenly messages you and asks, "Are you there?" More often than not, they have something to ask of you. Don't rush to reply to them before they mention the matter.

67. 自己的人生旅途，不管泥泞还是平坦，这是自己的选择。

67. The journey of one's own life, whether it's muddy or smooth, is a choice made by oneself.

68. 在办公室或者是寝室，买点零食和大家分一分，十几块的零食能让你收获的是一群人的好感，这个买卖怎么算你都是稳赚。

68. Buy some snacks and share them with everyone in the office or dormitory. A few ten yuan worth of snacks can win the favor of a group of people, and no matter how you calculate it, you're sure to make a profit.

69. 分手的时候不要留念一个人的好，每个人都有各自的优点，但决定能不能与对方相处下去的永远都不是对方的长处，只要对方的短处你不能接受，你就可以离开了。

69. When ending a relationship, do not dwell on the good qualities of the other person. Everyone has their own strengths, but what ultimately determines whether you can coexist with them is never the other person's strengths. As long as there are shortcomings in the other person that you cannot accept, you can leave.

70. 不管你是用什么手机，双击一下屏幕你都会收获到惊喜，还会学到一个新功能。

70. No matter what kind of phone you are using, a double tap on the screen will bring you a surprise and you will also learn a new feature.

71. 把没用的东西当做全部的生活内容，只会让你更空虚。再多的购物，游戏，恋爱，逛街，都不会让你充实起来。

71. Taking useless things as the whole content of life will only make you more empty. No matter how much shopping, gaming, dating, or window-shopping you do, it won't fill you up.

72. 如果你很喜欢一个人，却迟迟得不到很进一步的发展，你可以尝试和对方去到不同的场景里，你们的关系会随着你们相处场景的切换数量越来越紧密（心理学）。

72. If you really like someone but there is no further development, you can try going to different settings with that person. Your relationship will become increasingly close as the number of settings you spend time together changes (psychology).

73. 要验证两个人是否相爱的唯一方法，就是分开，分开以后，如果难受如果思念，那就是真爱，而真爱一定会让两个人，再次相遇。"

73. The only way to verify if two people love each other is to separate. After separating, if you feel难受 and miss each other, that is true love, and true love will definitely bring the two people back together again.

74. 生活本不苦，苦的是欲望过多；心本无累，累的是放不下的太多。欲望就像手中的沙子，握得越紧，失去的越多。得与失是相对的，得到时，或许正在失去；心态安好，幸福常存。树欲静风不止，能真正救赎自己的，不是流淌的时间，也不是他人的帮助，而是自我良好的心态。

74. Life itself is not bitter; it is the excessive desires that make it so. The mind itself is not burdened; it is burdened by too many things it cannot let go of. Desires are like the sand in your hand; the tighter you hold them, the more you lose. Gain and loss are relative; when you gain, perhaps you are losing; maintain a peaceful mindset, and happiness will be ever-present. Trees want to be still, but the wind does not stop; the true savior of oneself is not the flowing time nor others' help, but a good mindset.

75. 不要和任何人在公开场合争吵，对方如果喋喋不休，你一直保持沉默就好，这是一条心理学规律，对沉默的人谩骂后，对方会有内疚的感觉产生。

75. Do not argue with anyone in public. If the other person keeps talking non-stop, just maintain your silence. This is a psychological law; after cursing the silent person, the other person will feel guilty.

76. 人生两个至境：一个是知道，一个是知足。知道，让人活得明白；知足，让人活得平和。醉心于名利，便会被名利所缚；太在乎褒贬毁誉，必会患得患失。欲望越多，束缚越多；欲望越少，自由越多。解脱不难，只需淡泊名利，看淡得失，以平和恬淡的心态，去对待自己的人生。

76. The two highest ideals in life are knowing and being content. Knowing makes one live with clarity; being content makes one live in peace. Obsession with fame and fortune will bind one with them; being too concerned about praise, criticism, and reputation will inevitably lead to anxiety over gains and losses. The more desires, the more bondage; the fewer desires, the more freedom. It's not difficult to be free; one only needs to be indifferent to fame and fortune, to be indifferent to gains and losses, and to approach one's own life with a peaceful and tranquil mindset.

77. 树，在秋天放下了落叶，心很疼，可是整个冬天，它让心在平静中积蓄力量。春天一到，芳华依然。只要生命还握在手心，人生就没有绝望。一时的成败得失对于一生来说，不过来了一场小感冒。心若累了，让它休息，灵魂的修复是人生永不干枯的希望。

77. Trees, in autumn, let go of their leaves, feeling aching in their hearts, yet throughout the entire winter, they allow their hearts to accumulate strength in tranquility. When spring arrives, youthful beauty remains unchanged. As long as life is still in one's hands, there is no despair in life. The ups and downs of success and failure in a moment are nothing more than a slight cold in a lifetime. If the heart grows weary, let it rest; the healing of the soul is the hope that never dries up in life.

78. 信望爱是很重要的，有信念便能绝处逢生，有希望便会继续向前走，有爱便永不放弃，不只为满足私欲而活着。这是生命的意义，存在的目的。

78. Faith, hope, and love are very important. With faith, one can find a way out of the worst situations. With hope, one will continue to move forward. With love, one will never give up, not just to satisfy one's own desires but to live for a greater purpose. This is the meaning of life, the purpose of existence.

79. 当你给别人带了比如早餐，饮料，雪糕这些小价钱的东西后，别人给你转钱的时候，请你大方的说出价格并且收下，不要觉得几块钱收了之后，别人会认为你斤斤计较，你不收他才难受，没有人缺这几块钱，更没有人愿意，因为几块钱就欠你个人情。

79. When you bring someone something like breakfast, drinks, or ice cream, which are small-value items, and they send you money in return, please be generous in saying the price and accept it. Don't think that after accepting a few yuan, the other person will think you are very meticulous, or that they would feel uncomfortable if you didn't accept it. No one is short of a few yuan, and no one is willing to, because a few yuan could owe you a favor.