人生如戏，交友之道，犹如剧本。择善友而交，远离损友，方能成就精彩人生。

Life is like a play, and the way to make friends is like a script. Choose good friends to associate with and distance yourself from bad ones, only then can you achieve a精彩 life.

1. 一次， 唐太宗不想去上朝，而是宅在后宫玩鸟。魏征闯进宫中进谏，唐太宗见到

1. On one occasion, Emperor Taizong of Tang did not wish to attend the morning court session and instead stayed in the palace playing with birds. Wei Zheng boldly entered the palace to offer his counsel, and Emperor Taizong saw...

2. 友直，友谅，有多闻，是孔子提倡结交的三种正能量朋友。珍惜这些朋友，人生会走出一个新的局面。

2. "Be straightforward, be forgiving, and have a wealth of knowledge; these are the three positive qualities of friends advocated by Confucius. Cherishing these friends will bring a new chapter to your life."

3. 意思是说，正直、包容、博学多闻的人可交，这三种朋友对人生发展很有裨益。

3. It means that people who are honest, inclusive, and well-informed are worth making friends with, as these three types of friends can greatly benefit one's personal development.

4. 唐太宗想想有理，更加敬服魏征和长孙皇后。

4. Emperor Taizong thought it made sense and became even more respectful of Wei Zheng and Empress Changsun.

5. 正直刚毅，襟怀坦荡的人可以做诤友，在你即将行差踏错的时候，他会毫无顾虑地提点你，义正辞严地指出你的不足。国有诤臣则国治，人有诤友则人安。

5. A person who is upright and resolute, with an open and honest heart, can be a loyal friend. When you are about to make a wrong turn, they will unhesitatingly point it out to you, sternly and correctly pointing out your shortcomings. A country with loyal and upright ministers is governed well, and a person with loyal friends is at peace.

6. 弟子们问孔子，人生应该交什么样的朋友。孔子回答：友直、友谅、友多闻，此为益者三友。

6. The disciples asked Confucius what kind of friends one should have in life. Confucius replied: Friends who are straightforward, forgiving, and knowledgeable, these are the three types of friends that are beneficial.

7. 旁人看不惯了，劝鲍叔牙不要再跟管仲合作，可鲍叔牙说，管仲家贫，他贪财是为了让老母亲吃上饱饭，我该理解他。

7. When others couldn't bear to see it anymore and advised Bo Shuyu not to continue collaborating with Guan Zhong, Bo Shuyu replied, "Guan Zhong is poor, and his greed for wealth is to ensure that his elderly mother can eat to her fill. I should understand him."

8. 王安石是苏轼的朋友，两人虽因政见不合，吵得不可开交，但两人始终是心意相通，彼此眷顾的君子。

8. Wang Anshi was a friend of Su Shi. Although they had conflicts over political views and had fierce disputes, they were always emotionally connected and caring gentlemen towards each other.

9. 面对惊诧的皇帝，皇后说，国家有魏征这样犯言直谏的大臣，是因为上面有明君啊。如果是昏君当朝，还有那个忠臣敢说话呢。

9. Facing the surprised emperor, the empress said, "The reason why our country has a minister like Wei Zheng who dares to speak out boldly is because there is an enlightened ruler above. If there were an incompetent ruler in power, would there be any loyal minister daring to speak up?"

10. 鲍叔牙就向齐桓公陈述了管仲的才能，说齐桓公要取天下，霸诸侯，非管仲不可。

10. Bao Shuyu then presented Guan Zhong's abilities to Duke Huan of Qi, stating that in order for Duke Huan to conquer the world and dominate the feudal lords, Guan Zhong was indispensable.

11. 【3】友多闻

11. 【3】 Having many friends

12. 珍惜懂很多的朋友，这样的朋友多了，就能把握社会方方面面的信息，做事当然游刃有余。

12. Cherish friends who know a lot. With more such friends, one can grasp information from all aspects of society, making it easy to handle things with ease.

13. 【1】友直

13. 【1】A loyal friend is straightforward.

14. 生活中，有包容心，理解心的朋友值得去珍惜。这种人，就是今天常讲的共情能力强的人，他会站在你的角度，给你理解、宽容和安慰。

14. In life, friends with a forgiving and understanding heart are worth cherishing. Such people, as we often talk about today, have a strong ability to empathize. They will stand in your shoes, offering you understanding, tolerance, and comfort.

15. 身边有正直的人，他会随时以正知给你提点，以正行给你示范，以正道给你指引，以正气给你感染。

15. Having an upright person around, he will always provide you with guidance through positive knowledge, set an example for you with righteous conduct, point you in the right direction with moral principles, and inspire you with noble character.

16. 魏征给唐太宗说了一通勤政治国的大道理,侃侃而谈，很久也没有罢休的意思。终于等到魏征走后，唐太宗发现心爱的小鸟已经在袖子里闷死了。

16. Wei Zheng lectured Tang Taizong on the grand principles of governing the state with virtue, talking fluently and at great length, with no sign of stopping. It was only after Wei Zheng left that Tang Taizong discovered that his beloved little bird had been asphyxiated in his sleeve.

17. 长孙皇后知道了这件事情，就盛装华服来给皇帝贺喜。

17. Knowing about this matter, Empress Changsun came dressed in her finest attire to celebrate with the emperor.

18. 唐太宗有开创盛世的能力、魄力和行动力，但他也有人性的弱点，也会懈怠，这时魏征和长孙皇后会站出来直言进谏，给他匡补偏差。

18. Emperor Taizong of Tang had the ability, courage, and initiative to found a prosperous era, but he also had the weaknesses of human nature and would occasionally become lazy. In such situations, Wei Zheng and Empress Changsun would step forward to offer straightforward advice, correcting his deviations.

19. 鲍叔牙年轻时和朋友管仲一起做生意，可管仲总是在经济上占他的便宜。

19. Bao Shuyu, while young, engaged in business with his friend Guanzhong. However, Guanzhong always took advantage of him economically.

20. 知识就是力量。然而，每个人的时间、精力、关注点、兴趣点都不一样，因此人的知识都是有边界的。而如果能有博学多闻的朋友，日常交流之中，耳濡目染之下，自己的知识边界就能得到扩充，智慧也会随之提升。

20. Knowledge is power. However, each person's time, energy, focus, and interests are different, so the knowledge of individuals has its boundaries. If one has friends who are knowledgeable and well-informed, through daily communication and being influenced by them, one's knowledge boundaries can be expanded, and wisdom will also improve accordingly.

21. 东汉末年的诸葛亮，虽然隐居隆中，却有一群博学多闻的好朋友，彼此切磋学问，砥砺品性，指点江山，共同成长。

21. Zhuge Liang of the late Eastern Han Dynasty, although he lived in seclusion in Longzhong, had a group of friends who were erudite and knowledgeable. They would discuss学问, refine their character, guide the affairs of state, and grow together.

22. 齐桓公说，管仲不是你当初的竞争对手吗，他还差点杀死我。

22. Qi Huangong said, "Guan Zhong was not your competitor in the past, wasn't he? He nearly killed me even."

23. 再说损者三友，虽然三者有所差异，但共同点都是觊觎、损耗、伤害你的小人。便辟，善柔，便佞，外表春风骀荡，暗里刀光剑影；说话香甜似蜜，心机深不可测；面容一团和气，肚里图穷匕见。

23. Furthermore, there are three types of harmful friends. Although they have their differences, the common point among them is that they are all cunning, wasteful, and harmful to you. They are sly, good at softening their tone, and cunning in their words. On the surface, they may seem like a gentle breeze, but in reality, they are as sharp as a sword in the dark. Their words are sweet like honey, but their hearts are as deep and inscrutable as the sea. On the outside, they appear harmonious, but in their hearts, they are as cunning as a fox with a hidden knife.

24. 他们的友谊，凝聚成了一个历史专用词——管鲍之交。

24. Their friendship has condensed into a historical special term — the friendship between Guan and Bao.

25. 管仲很是感动，他也一直视鲍叔牙为生死之交。

25. Guan Zhong was deeply moved, and he always regarded Bao Shuyu as a bosom friend through thick and thin.

26. 俗话说，有茶有酒多兄弟，急难何曾见一人。酒肉朋友易寻，而能够懂你、理解你、包容你、甚至成全你的人，遇到了就是莫大的福气。

26. As the saying goes, having tea and wine brings many brothers, but in times of urgency and difficulty, one rarely sees a single person. It is easy to find friends who enjoy drinking and eating, but to meet someone who understands you, empathizes with you, accommodates you, and even helps you succeed, that is a great blessing.

27. 春秋时鲍叔牙就是这样一个人，他和管仲的友情因为包容而成为千古佳话。

27. During the Spring and Autumn period, Bo Shuyu was such a person. His friendship with Guan Zhong became a legendary tale through their tolerance and understanding.

28. 【2】友谅

28. 【2】You Liang

29. 王圭瞅准机会给苏轼泼污水，使绊子，更借“乌台诗案”欲除之而后快。

29. Wang Gui seized the opportunity to slander Su Shi, trip him up, and even used the "Wu Tai Poetry Case" as a means to eliminate him with satisfaction.

30. 弟子又问，那什么样的朋友交不得。孔子说：友便辟，友善柔，友便佞，此为损者三友。

30. The disciple asked again, "What kind of friends should one not make?" Confucius replied: "One should not make friends with those who are sycophantic, with those who are soft-spoken, and with those who are cunning and flattering. These are the three types of friends that are detrimental."

31. 深交前三种朋友，绝交后三种朋友，朋友圈就会越来越好，人生之路也越走越宽。

31. Make deep friendships with the first three types of friends, and sever ties with the last three types of friends, and your social circle will become better and better, and your path in life will also become wider and wider.

32. 其中有名的朋友有徐庶，孟公威，石广元，司马徽等人，个个都是饱学之士。诸葛亮生活在这样一个圈子里，总是能碰撞出思想的火花，得到有益的启示。

32. Among the famous friends are Xu Shu, Meng Gongwei, Shi Guangyuan, and Sima Hui, all of whom are erudite scholars. Living in such an environment, Zhuge Liang was always able to spark thoughts and gain beneficial insights.

33. 【4】结束语

33. [4] Conclusion

34. 这样的小人，就是隐藏在身边的炸弹，想不到哪天会伤害你。

34. Such a person is like a bomb hidden among you, never knowing when they will hurt you.

35. 王圭也是苏轼的朋友，两人常常一起对酒当歌，吟风弄月，好不畅快！但王圭一直暗藏着一颗祸害苏轼的心，因为嫉妒，因为争位，因为可以向权贵讨好。

35. Wang Gui was also a friend of Su Shi, and the two often spent time together drinking and singing, reciting poems about the wind and the moon, feeling very carefree! However, Wang Gui always harbored a sinister intent towards Su Shi, driven by jealousy, competition for position, and the desire to curry favor with the powerful.

36. 意思是说，阿谀奉承，言不由衷的人不可交；当面一套，背后一套的人不可交；巧言令色，阴滑狡诈的人不可交。

36. This means that one should not associate with sycophants who flatter and do not speak from the heart; with those who present one face to the public and another in private; and with those who use cunning words and deceitful tricks.

37. 后来鲍叔牙辅佐齐桓公成功夺位，即将被任命为国相时，鲍叔牙却把这个位置推荐给管仲。

37. Later, as Bao Shuyu successfully assisted Qi Huangong to seize the throne and was about to be appointed as the Prime Minister, he recommended this position to Guan Zhong instead.

38. 王安石却在皇帝面前维护他，营救他，哪怕苏轼反对过自己，也不妨碍他们惺惺相惜的君子之交。

38. Wang Anshi, however, stood up for him and saved him in the presence of the emperor. Even though Su Shi had opposed him before, it did not hinder their affectionate friendship among gentlemen.

39. 他认为这是魏征使得坏，又联想起魏征种种犯言直谏让他下不来台的事情，勃然大怒，要杀掉魏征。

39. He believed that Wei Zheng was at fault, and it reminded him of the many times Wei Zheng had spoken boldly and directly, causing him to lose face. Enraged, he wanted to kill Wei Zheng.

40. 其实，不论谋生还是谋事，信息都是最有价值的资源。有博学多闻的朋友，就可以给自己弥补信息盲区。有人说，每个人都处于一座信息孤岛，因为每个人的信息量都有边界，都有盲区。

40. In fact, whether for making a living or for managing affairs, information is the most valuable resource. Having well-informed friends can help fill in the gaps in one's information. Some say that everyone is on an information孤岛, because the amount of information each person has has boundaries and blind spots.

41. 魏征过来，赶紧把鸟藏在衣袖里。

41. Wei Zhen hurried over and quickly hid the bird in his sleeve.

42. 后来诸葛亮为刘备构思出匡复汉室，平定天下三步走战略的隆中对，和他有这样一群厉害朋友分不开。

42. Later, Zhuge Liang conceptualized the strategic plan of the Three Strategies of隆中对 for Liu Bei to restore the Han Dynasty and pacify the world, which is inseparable from the presence of such a group of formidable friends of his.