人生三大幸事：惊鸿一瞥，失而复得，久别重逢。

The three great joys in life: a fleeting glimpse, regaining what was lost, and being reunited after a long separation.

1. 为了一个不曾真实的幻想，丢失了最最依赖的人，曾经的喜欢仅仅是一种幻想，殊不知爱情已然烙在心底。为何总是失去后才懂得珍惜眼前的人此刻，后悔并没有什么用了，只是希望她一切安好。不忍心继续伤害一颗少女心

1. For a fantasy that was never real, I lost the most beloved person. The past liking was just a fantasy, little knowing that love had already imprinted on the heart. Why is it that we only learn to cherish the people in front of us after we lose them? Regretting now serves no purpose; I just hope she is doing well. I can't bear to continue to hurt a young girl's heart.

2. 看到失而复得的项链，她激动地双手捂住嘴巴。

2. Seeing the necklace that was lost and then found, she excitedly covered her mouth with both hands.

3. [ Girls do not lose loving you] 姑娘别输给爱

3. [Girls don't lose to loving you] Girls, don't let go of the love you have for [the person].

4. 女孩永远比男孩懂得多 永远会护着那个爱着的男孩

4. Girls always know more than boys and will always protect the boy they love.

5. 与最亲爱的人相聚，是生命中最美的光景。苏轼说：“寄蜉蝣与天地，渺沧海之一粟”。

5. Gathering with the dearest ones is the most beautiful moment in life. Su Shi said, "I entrust the mayfly to the vastness of the universe, a mere grain of sand in the boundless sea."

6. 很多事情就是这样，他在你身边的时候你不懂的珍惜，一直要等到失去了，才会发现原来他在你心里已经扎根了。拔出来真的很痛。我们都只有在失去后才懂得珍惜。

6. Many things are like this; when he is with you, you don't know how to cherish him, and it's only when you lose him that you realize he has already taken root in your heart. It really hurts to pull him out. We only learn to cherish what we lose.

7. 人越来越没有耐心 最怕招惹麻烦 于是放弃做很多麻烦的事

7. People are becoming increasingly impatient, fearing trouble the most, and thus, they are giving up on doing many troublesome things.

8. 年轻的时候会以为自由是想做什么就做什么,年老以后才知道真正的自由是想不做什么就不做什么。

8. In youth, one might think that freedom is doing whatever one wants to do, but only in old age does one truly understand that freedom is the ability to not do whatever one does not want to do.

9. 使人得到教益和帮助的好老师和好朋友，用于形容和自己亦师亦友的朋友，今生认识已经是一件非常非常幸运的事情，表示自己很开心很幸运。

9. A good teacher and a good friend who impart knowledge and provide help, used to describe a friend who is both a mentor and a friend to oneself, it is already a very, very fortunate thing to have met in this lifetime, expressing one's happiness and good fortune.

10. 最近鼻头总是酸酸的，痛吗？曾经嗤之以鼻的，曾经用力摆脱的，曾经不以为然的，为什么悔不当初，人，为什么总是经历过后才会长大，为什么失去后才懂得珍惜，幡然悔悟终不及，唯有遗憾抱终生。愿天堂，一切安好！

10. Lately, the tip of my nose has been achy, is it painful? What was once dismissed with a sniff, what was once forcibly shaken off, what was once taken lightly, why do I regret not doing it sooner? Why do humans only grow up after experiencing things, why do we only learn to cherish after losing something, and why is it that sudden realization is never enough, and only lifelong regrets remain. May there be peace in heaven!

11. 能够哭就好，哭是开始痊愈的象征。不要哭太久，伤口结痂后被淋湿会再度感染。

11. It's enough to be able to cry; crying is a symbol of the beginning of healing. Don't cry for too long, as getting wet after the wound has scabbed over can lead to a re-infection.

12. 失而复得后整个心情都明亮起来幸好我们的缘分还在我好开心好开心。

12. After losing something and getting it back, my whole mood brightened up. Fortunately, our destiny is still here, and I am so happy, so happy.

13. 我们完全有理由怀着快乐的心情继续前进，赴向另一个容易获得满足的目标，让快乐失而复得。

13. We have every reason to continue forward with joy, towards another easily attainable goal, allowing happiness to be regained.

14. 人生有三大幸事，虚惊一场，不是逃过了人生的劫难，而是劫难本就不存在，乃人生第一幸事，失而复得，那些真正属于你的东西注定会再次回到你的身边，乃人生第二幸事，久别重逢，兜兜转转，再次回到了彼此的身边，乃人生第三大幸事。

14. There are three great joys in life: a false alarm, which is not escaping the tribulations of life but rather realizing that the tribulation never existed in the first place, this being the first great joy of life; losing something and then gaining it back, for those things that truly belong to you are destined to return to your side, this being the second great joy of life; and finally, being reunited after a long separation, after all the twists and turns, to once again be together, this being the third great joy of life.

15. 什么是失而复得呢，有时候失去并不可怕，因为失去而产生的遗憾的心情却是难以弥合的。8月婚礼前夕，发现结婚用的金首饰丢了，立案侦查、各种猜疑、责备、又努力自愈的复杂心情难以言喻，今天老公大扫除突然翻出了被我藏的很好的首饰盒～失而复得后，才知道自己拥有的很多很重～！

15. What is it to lose something and then find it again? Sometimes, losing something is not可怕的, but the regretful feelings that arise from the loss are hard to heal. On the eve of the August wedding, I discovered that the gold jewelry for the wedding was missing. The experience of reporting the case, the various suspicions, accusations, and the complex feelings of trying to heal myself are hard to describe. Today, my husband did a thorough cleaning and suddenly found the jewelry box I had hidden very well. Only after losing and finding it again did I realize how much and how heavy I possess!

16. [这是不要脸么我那么爱你是你给我的勇气这样就叫不要脸]

16. [Is this shameless? I love you so much, and it's the courage you've given me. This is what you call shameless.]

17. 以为丢失了3张卡，找回来2张，算不算失而复得的意外之喜

17. Thinking I lost 3 cards, and finding 2 back, does it count as an unexpected joy from regaining what was lost?

18. 今天早上瑟瑟发抖地出现在了我家门外的鞋柜里，换鞋到一半的我光着一只脚把所有门关上然后光速到16楼把小妹妹叫上来抱走，是我人生中最不怕猫的时刻了。见证别人的失而复得和虚惊一场也是很欣慰的啊。

18. This morning, trembling, I appeared in the shoe cabinet outside my door. Halfway through changing my shoes, I closed all the doors with one bare foot and zoomed up to the 16th floor to call the little sister up and take her away. It was one of the moments in my life when I was least afraid of cats. Witnessing someone else's loss and then recovery, or a false alarm, is also very comforting.

19. 失去后才懂得珍惜，这样多年以后也会回忆起；我想你，真害怕哪一天想起你会不疼不痒，忘了你，多残忍。

19. It's only after losing something that we come to appreciate it, and years later, we will remember it. I miss you, and I'm truly afraid that one day, when I think of you, it won't hurt at all, and I'll forget about you. That would be so cruel.

20. 我只是个青年,啥也没有我不惹你,你也别惹我凡事都有个度,别把自己看的跟什么似的

20. I'm just a young person, I have nothing. Don't provoke me, and you shouldn't provoke me either. Everything has its limits. Don't think of yourself as being so important.

21. 人生有一种幸福的惊喜，叫失而复得。比如你丢失了一笔钱，一度伤心不已。几天后突然在哪个衣兜里找到了，恍如重新得到了一笔，让人兴奋不已。

21. There is a kind of happy surprise in life called "regaining what was lost." For example, if you lose some money and are deeply distressed for a while, and then suddenly find it in a pocket a few days later, it feels like regaining it all over again, which is very exciting.

22. 这故事的结局很美好，每个国家的东西都失而复得。

22. The ending of this story is very happy, and everything that was lost to each country is restored.

23. 失而复得后才越觉得珍贵，我知道我说的你会懂。

23. The more I cherish something after losing it and then regaining it, I know what I'm saying will resonate with you.

24. 。。原来，我真的错过你了，真正意义上的失去后才懂得珍惜！想你了，只是还是没有勇气主动问你，或许就这样错过吧！！

24. It turns out that I really did miss you, and it was only after the real sense of loss that I understood the value of cherishing. I miss you, but I still don't have the courage to ask you proactively. Maybe this is how I'll miss you, then!!

25. 几天后，当她以主人的身份再次回到失而复得的房内时，久溢在眼眶内的泪水夺眶而出又过了几天，儿子从北京重新回到了自己的家。

25. A few days later, when she returned to the room that had been restored to her as a hostess, tears that had long overflowed in her eye sockets burst forth. A few more days passed, and her son returned to his home in Beijing.

26. 有你的夏天过去了，没你的冬天怎么活？ 花花？？

26. Summer with you has passed, how can I live through winter without you? Flower flower??

27. 人啊，总是等到失去后才懂得珍惜，等幡然醒悟，已悔之晚矣。 _____致自己

27. Humans always realize the value of something only after losing it, and by the time they suddenly wake up, it's too late to regret. To myself.

28. 拥有以后就不会再觉得珍贵，失去却又想着重新拥有，可是失而复得后，却不会像以前那样珍惜，只有失去后脑海里回忆起曾经拥有的时光，才是最美好的。哪怕已经，绝口不提。

28. Once you have it, you no longer feel it's precious. When you lose it, you start to think about regaining it. But after regaining it, you won't cherish it as much as before. Only when you lose it and recall the moments you once had, will it be the most beautiful. Even though it's already over, you never speak of it again.

29. 修女说 我怀念的过去 不单单只是生活 更多的是怀念我上学时的那种无忧无虑的状态 最起码没有现在生活方面的压迫感想想确实是这样 总是在失去后才懂得珍惜

29. The nun said, "What I miss about the past is not just the life itself, but more so the carefree state I had when I was in school. At the very least, there was no sense of pressure from daily life. Thinking about it, it's true. One always appreciates something only after losing it."

30. 明明是他犯的错，说服自己选择不分手，得到的回应不是他失而复得后开心的拥抱，反而是一而再再而三的推开我，竟然说再给他点时间好好想想。像是我才是那个做错事的人。

30. It was his mistake, but I convinced myself to choose not to break up, and the response I got was not a happy embrace after getting back what I had lost, but rather me being pushed away time and time again, even with the excuse that he needed some more time to think things over properly. As if I were the one who had made the mistake.

31. 只有在民间，才能感受民间艺人的风采；只有失而复得后，才知歌舞相伴是那样不易。联欢会结束，意犹未尽，还要拨琴弄舞；珍惜美好，远离极端。

31. It is only in the folk realm that one can appreciate the elegance of folk artists; and only after losing and regaining them, do we realize how difficult it is to have music and dance accompany each other. As the evening of the reunion came to an end, we were still not satisfied, eager to play the zither and dance. Cherish the beautiful moments, and stay away from extremes.

32. 你要储蓄你的可爱,眷顾你的善良,当这个世界越来越坏时,只希望你能越来越好。

32. Save your loveliness, cherish your kindness. As this world becomes increasingly bad, I only hope that you can become better and better.

33. 成语出处： 宋王安石《原过》：是失而复得，废而复举也。

33. Origin of the idiom: Wang Anshi of the Song Dynasty, "Origin of Guo": It means losing something and then gaining it back, being废弃 and then revived.

34. 当容光褪尽,她终于能够如愿地死去,无声而寂静地湮灭在风尘中,像坠入深海的流星,不再受到任何流言飞语的侵扰。

34. When her glow faded, she finally could die as she wished, silently and quietly vanishing into the dust and wind, like a meteor falling into the deep sea, no longer disturbed by any gossip or slander.

35. 我曾经以为那么重要的你，也可以心平气和地只放在回忆。

35. I once thought you, who were so important to me, could also be peacefully placed in my memories.

36. 现在的生活并不是我想要的，但却是我自找的。

36. The life I have now is not the one I want, but it is one I have brought upon myself.

37. 直接从上海飞日本宣传的周董，原先并不知道发生这状况，幸好东西失而复得解除危机。

37. Jay Chou, who flew directly from Shanghai to Japan for promotion, was originally unaware of this situation. Fortunately, the lost items were recovered, resolving the crisis.

38. 反义词： 得而复失

38. Antonym: Gain and lose again

39. 一开始喜欢的东西都是不会讨厌的，就算丢了又失而复得后，还是照样珍惜，喜欢！

39. Initially liked things are not disliked. Even if they are lost and then found again, they are still cherished and liked!

40. 有时候走过熟悉的街角看到熟悉的背影突然想到一个熟悉的面孔

40. Sometimes, as I walk past a familiar street corner and see a familiar back, I suddenly think of a familiar face.

41. 特别的七夕节，我们总是彼此在经历失而复得后，才更佳知道对方原来那么的重要，我们这辈子会遇到很多的人，会有喜欢的，会有好感的，会有朋友，会有知己，会有过客，但是有些特别的事和特别的改变却只会为了那个特定的人去给予，这个世界上最让人心痛的事，不是因为不相爱了而分开，而是明明相爱，却迷失了方向！感恩上苍，爱情永远是两个人的游戏，相爱的人来之不易，爱的越深越是容易彼此伤害，不是自己的在努力也没有用，是自己的不用抢，也永远无法违背自己的。

41. Especially on the Qixi Festival, we only truly realize how important each other is after experiencing the joy of losing and regaining. Throughout our lives, we will meet many people, some we like, some we have affection for, some friends, some close friends, and some passersby. However, only some special things and changes are given for that specific person. The most heart-wrenching thing in the world is not because we no longer love each other and we have to part, but rather, we are in love but have lost our way! We are grateful to the heavens that love is always a game for two people. Finding someone to love is not easy, and the deeper the love, the more likely we are to hurt each other. Efforts for things that are not ours are in vain, and we cannot force ourselves to do what is not our own.

42. 突然开始想念一个人 一个曾经带来温暖的人 一段感情失去后才懂得珍惜 不知还是否来得及捡起。

42. Suddenly start missing someone, a person who once brought warmth. Only after losing a relationship do you realize how much you cherish it. I'm not sure if it's too late to pick it up again.

43. 做好了最糟的打算，却失而复得，别提有多开心了

43. Having made the worst-case scenario, only to lose it and then get it back, the joy was indescribable.

44. 世界上本无惊喜，原本以为丢失的东西，失而复得也便成了惊喜！

44. There are no surprises in the world. Originally, the finding of something that was thought to be lost becomes a surprise!

45. 就这样沉默着离开，才真正的说明了我们的感情有多么的淡

45. It is only by leaving in silence that the true extent of our feelings is truly revealed as faint.

46. 人生就是在离别中度过，大千世界，能遇到一个合得来的人不容易，不要在失去后才懂得珍惜！

46. Life is spent in partings, and in this vast world, it's not easy to meet someone with whom you can get along. Don't realize the value of cherishing something only after you have lost it!

47. 人生三宝、丑妻、薄地、破棉袄。人生三大遗憾、不会选择、不坚持选择、不断地选择。人生三不怕、年龄、孤独，未来。人生三大痛苦、得不到想要的东西、得到后觉得不过如此、失去后才懂得珍惜。

47. The three treasures in life: an ugly wife, a thin piece of land, and a worn-out cotton coat. The three great regrets in life: not knowing how to choose, not persevering with the choice, and continuously making choices. The three things not to fear in life: age, loneliness, and the future. The three great sorrows in life: not getting what you want, thinking it's nothing special after you get it, and only realizing the value of it after you lose it.