生活，是一场充满无限可能的舞台。我们每个人都是这场大戏的主角，如何演绎出属于自己的精彩，便成了我们永恒的追求。而掌握生活的艺术，正是让我们在喧嚣纷扰中找到平衡，不给心灵增添一丝烦恼。让我们共同探索，如何以艺术的眼光，拥抱生活的每一个瞬间。

Life is a stage filled with endless possibilities. Each of us is the protagonist of this grand play, and how to perform our own brilliance has become our eternal pursuit. Mastering the art of living is exactly what allows us to find balance amidst the hustle and bustle, not adding a single bit of trouble to our hearts. Let us explore together how to embrace every moment of life with an artistic perspective.

1. 8在人生的任何场合里，都要维护好自己的心态。一个合适的心态，给生活带来了许多积极向上的内涵，更多几分谦虚和坦诚，就算是对生活的一份敬意，也让生活变得更加鲜活。走过生活里的那些悲喜无常，培养好自己抬眼看世间的那些豁达。

1. At any stage of life, one should maintain a positive mindset. A suitable mindset brings many positive connotations to life, adds a bit more modesty and sincerity, which is even a form of respect for life, making it more vibrant. Having experienced the ups and downs of life, cultivate a broad-mindedness to look at the world with an elevated perspective.

2. 俗话说：“飞鸟与鱼不同路，从此山水不相逢。”

2. As the saying goes: "Birds and fish do not take the same path, and henceforth mountains and rivers will not meet again."

3. 一个人身边的位置只有那麽多，你能给的也只有那麽多，在这个狭小的圈子里，有些人要进来，就有一些人不得不离开。

3. There is only so much space around a person, and only so much you can offer. In this narrow circle, if some people have to come in, others have to leave.

4. 喜欢是天性，与生俱来的本能；但是爱，是需要学习的。

4. Love is a natural instinct, an innate ability; however, love is something that needs to be learned.

5. 一个男人，你可以没有钱， 没有房，没有车，但是你必须有一颗上进心，如果连上进心都没有， 那你就要考虑考虑自己是不是男人。女人不怕跟你受苦， 就怕你没有让自己女人过上好生活的决心。

5. A man, you can be without money, without a house, without a car, but you must have ambition. If you don't even have ambition, then you should consider whether you are truly a man. A woman doesn't mind suffering with you, but she fears that you don't have the determination to give her a good life.

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爱因斯坦愚人常因把困难看得太容易而失败，智者常因把容易看得太因难而一事无成。人在异常兴奋之时，往往会唠唠叨叨，而且还会慧语连篇，甚至妙趣横生。科学的自负比起无知的自负来还只能算是谦虚。聪明的蠢才就是这样的没有自知之明，自以为名满天下，恍然大悟时方才知道自己的不知道自己无知，乃是双倍的无知。智慧的花朵，常常开放在痛苦思索的枝头上．无瑕的美玉，世所罕风险量如果因企求＂白璧无瑕＂即一棒打碎，那他就是十足的傻瓜．不要害怕你的生活将要结束，应该担心你的生活永远不会真正开始。智者不认为自己比别人聪明，愚者永远把自己的判断看成万无一失．失去理智时的冲动，常常造成长久的悔恨；而长久的憎恨，又常常会使人失去诮有的激如果心术不正，足智多谋就成了可怕的东西．不要企图无所不知，否则你将一无所知。我们对待任何问题，都必须坚持知之为知之，不知为不知的老老实实态度我们可以在幽默的背后找到真理。卓越的天才不屑走旁人走过的路。他寻找迄今未开拓的地区。--林肯人生的奋斗目标决定你将成为怎样的人。人生实在是一本大书，内容复杂，份量沉重，值得翻得个人所能翻到的最后一页，而且必须慢慢的翻。-沈从文人格成熟的重要标志：宽容、忍让、和善。-《人性的弱点》你若失去了财产，你只失去了一点，你若失去了荣誉，你就丢掉了许多，你若失去了勇敢---你就把一切都失掉了。-歌德应该相信，自己是生活的战胜者。-（法）雨果天怕乌云地怕荒，人怕疾病草怕霜。健康的体魄恢复时，智力和创造力就会再生。身体的健康在很大程度上取决于精神的健康。运动和节欲能使人在暮年还保持青春的活力。旺盛的精力寓于健康的身体。愉快的笑声-----这是精神健康的可靠标记。恶习变成人人的笑人柄，对恶习就是重大的致命打击。习惯支配着那些不善于思考的人们。习俗也许不如法律来得明智，然而它们向来比法律更受人欢迎。人喜欢按习俗行事，因为人是习俗的创造者。习惯是人情上最深远的法律。好的决惯愈多，则生活愈容易，抵抗引诱的力量也愈强。习勤忘劳，习逸成惰。饮香贫始觉，睡味老偏知。生活得愉快并不重要，重要的是生活得富有建设性，而永远不能希冀一时便利而委弃节操。谁只盘中餐，粒粒皆辛苦。生活只有在平淡无味的人看来才是空虚而平淡无味的。生活已不是快乐的筵节，节日般的欢腾，而是工作、斗争、穷困和苦难的经历。饱暖非天降，赖尔筋与力。体操和音乐两个方面并重，才能够得到完全的人格。因为体操能锻炼身体，音乐可以陶冶精神。水停百日生毒，人闲百日生病。生活多美好啊,体育锻炼乐趣无穷!丝不织不成网，体不练不强壮。不登高山，不见平地；不经锻炼，不会坚强。脑子不用不聪明，身体不练不结实。一个人的寿命并不取决于他已经活了多少年，而取决于他得过多少次感冒。走路能使你童颜常在，运动有使你青春永驻。心中欢乐，面带笑容；心里烦愁，神伤体损。人无泰然之习惯，必无健康之身体。忧愁、顾虑和悲观，可以使人得病；积极、愉快和坚强的意志和乐观的情绪，可以战胜疾病，也可以使人强壮和长寿。乐观是养生的惟一秘决，常常忧思和愤怒，足以使健康的身变得衰弱而有余。为了健康而采用过于严格的摄生法，这也是一种可悲的病症。内心的欢乐是一个人过着健全的、正常的、和谐的生活所感到的喜悦。健康是智慧的条件，快乐的标志。莫把烦恼放在心上，免得了白了少年头；莫把烦恼放在心上，免得未老先丧生。体育和运动可以增进人体的健康和人的乐观情绪，而乐观情绪却是长寿的一项必要条件。良好的健康状况和由之而来的愉快之情绪，是幸福的最好资金。通过严格的养生法，才得以保持住自已的健康。像患了了不得的疾病那样。极其单调的生活，能够使人丧失生存下去的兴趣与勇气。有规律的生活是健康与长寿的秘诀。心灵上的疾病比肌体上的疾病更危险。要快乐首先要健康。社会不会无缘无故地厚待一个人，除非他自己向社会证明，他值得社会对他厚待。－罗兰走自己的路，让人家去说吧。-（意）但丁被人信赖是一笔用金钱买不到的财富。要从容地着手去做一件事，但一开始，就要坚持到底。-（希腊）比阿斯每一天都是一个阶梯，是向既定目标迈进的新的一步。人生就像爬坡，要一步一步来。-丁铃每个人都以为自已很聪明，于是就做出了傻事。愚昧是傲慢掀起的浪花。索取，只有在一个场合才能越多越好，那就是读书．知识是勤奋的影子，汗珠是勤奋的镜子．海绵就是拥有足够的水分，也决不能挺起肚子，显示自己的富有．只有时刻把记忆的网张开，才能捕到知识的猎物．人之相识，贵在相知；人之相知，贵在知心。－孟子你怎么样对待别人被人就怎么样对待你。天才就是这样，终身努力，便是天才。－门捷列夫我们知道的东西是有限的，我们不知道的东西则是无穷的。－拉普拉斯当你困难失望的时候，最重要的是事瞧得起你自己；当你成功得意的时候，最重要的是瞧得起别人。最大的成功在于最大的付出。怀疑一切与信任一切是同样的错误，能得乎其中方为正道。思考应当走到众人前面去，愿望不妨留在后面。一次深思熟虑，胜过百次草率行动。知识，百科全书可以代替，可是考虑出的新思想、新方案，却是任何东西也代替不了的。科学地探求真理，要求我们的理智永远不要狂热地坚持某种假设。思索，不愿意钻研和深入理解，自满或满足于微不足道的知识，都是智力贫乏的原因。这种贫乏用一个词来称呼，就是愚蠢。全是理智的心，恰如一柄全是锋刃的刀。它叫使用它的人手上流血。智力取消了命运，只要一个人在思考，他就是自主的。勇气，是人类一切品格中最宝贵的品格。(美)约翰肯尼迪帮助别人解决困难和痛苦是人生最大的幸福和快乐。人生没有停靠站，自我本身永远是一个出发点。无论何时何地，只要创造就有收获，只有不息的奋进，才能证明生命的存在。使你疲倦的不是前面的高山，而是你鞋里的一粒沙子。-佚名我们最高原则：不论对任何困难，都决不屈服。-（法）居里夫人人生的路无需苛求。只要你迈步，路就在你的脚下延伸。只要你扬帆，便会有八面来风。启程了，人的生命才真正开始。启程了，人的智慧才得以发挥。诚实是人生绝妙的法宝。虽然对人诚实，你可能付出一定的代价，但日后你得到的，远比付出的多得多。强者能同命运的风暴抗争。 -- 爱迪生一个人做点好事并不难，难的是一辈子做好事，不做坏事。-毛泽东生活中有信念，就像有了冉冉再生的太阳；事业中有了信念，就像有了攀登险峰的拐杖。信念会使你变的心胸宽广、气度非凡眼睛就是身上的灯。眼睛若明亮，全身就光明；眼睛若昏花，全身就黑暗。《圣经》一个人可以失败很多次，但是只要他没有开始责怪旁人，他还不是一个失败者。胜利是不会向我们走来的，我必须自己走向胜利。无知的芳龄，不是真正的青春．谁的思想最丰富，感情最纯正，行为最高尚，谁的生活就最充实。一个人没有过不惯的环境，特别是他看到周围的人都过着同样的生活。对绝大多数人来说，真正的生活是理想与可能两者之间不断的妥协。生活的美妙就在于它的丰富多采，要使生活变得有趣，就要不断地充实它。人类伟大而光荣的杰作是知道如何恰如其分地生活。生活而不为生活俘虏。生活是无可选择的，对它，你们必须接受。惟一的选择就是如何生活。要是你懂得如何思索和安排你的生活，你就是完成了一项最伟大的工作。沉思的生活是美好的生活。我们要学习思考，然后再来写作。你可以从别人那里得到思想，你的思想方法，即熔铸思想的模子却必须是你自己的。一分钟的思考抵过一小时的唠叨。自我控制应当成为生活的基调。美好生活是由理性来指导的，并且紧紧抓住崇高的理想。一些人逃避生活，另一些人则全心全意献身于它。前一种人到了晚年精神贫乏而且缺少值得回忆的往事，而后一种人则在这两方面都是富有的。任何有自尊心的人都不愿违背自己的方式生活，任何稍有点头脑的人都不愿无聊地生活。一个人正在过的生活并不一定是他真正应该过的生活。以一种邪恶的、不智的、失节的和不洁的方式活着，就不仅是很坏地活着而是在继续不断地死亡。世上有多少个人，就有多少条生活的道路。我们的生活水平方式越趋同一，我们对更深层的价值观，即宗教、语言、艺术、和文学的追求也就越执着。我认为觉悟到生活的意义而活在世上才是真正的现实主义的生活方式。正如身材矮小的人可以是完美的人一样，圈子小的生活也可以是美满的生活。每一动物都希望按自己特定的方式生活，狮子希望过狮子的生活，人希望过人的生活。思想像胡须，不成熟就不可能长出来。与其不透彻地理解许多事，不如理解的事不多，但都能彻底。人类最大的不幸是他没有像眼睑制动器那样的器官，使他能在需要时遮住或阻碍一种思想或所有的思想。成功的条件在于勇气和自信，而勇气和自信乃是由健全的思想和健康的体魄而来。失掉理智就是失去了做了的一切。要想让一切都服从你，你就必须首先服从理智。要真正做到多思，我们必须甘心忍受并延续那种疑惑的状态，这是对彻底探究的动力，这样就不致于在示获充足理由之前接受某一设想或肯定某一信念人的理智就好像一面不平的镜子，由于不规则地接受光线，因而把事物的性质和自己的性质搅混在一起，使事物的性质受到了歪曲，改变了颜色。哪里有思想，哪里就有威力。凡善于考虑的人，一定是能根据其思考而追求可能通过行动取得最有益于人类东西的人。理智是一颗冷酷的太阳，它放射光明，可是教人眼花，看不见东西。在这种没有水分与阴影的光明底下，心灵会褪色，血会干枯的。理智可以说是生命的光和灯。理智是人的最高天赋，是人本质上区别于低级动物的特征。理智的人使自己适应这个世界；不理智的人却硬要世界适应自己。忧患始于思考。聪慧的人常说的四个字是：我不知道聪明与智慧的区别：前者只能看到事物的表意，而后者却可以洞察事物的内涵。健康是智慧的条件，是愉快的标志。每个人都是自己行为的孩子。在还没死亡以前，就不能算作做完全诞生。极拗的人是一个极聋的演说家。没有一个没有理智的人，能够接受理智。人的第一天职是什么？答案很简单：做自己。星星早就消失了，但是庸碌的人们仍然看见它们闪着亮光。我的座右铭：我什么也不要。生活有度，人生添寿。生活，就是理解。生活，就是理智。好的生活发于爱，而导致于知识。没有运动，生活就是昏睡。一个经常旅游的人，必有广博的知识，坚强的性格，不挠的毅力，不达目的决不罢休的精神。养生孰为本，元气不可亏。寿命的缩短和思想的虚耗成正比。养心莫善寡欲，至乐无如读书。所食欲少，心愈开，年愈益；所食欲多，心愈塞，年愈损。安乐有致死之道，忧患为养生之本。休息是滋养疲乏的精神的保姆。浅薄的人容易骄傲，无知的人容易狂妄．智者支配环境，无能者受制于环境．经历是至理名言的母亲，而思索则是它的产婆．在进餐、睡眼和运动等时间里能宽心无虑，满怀高兴，这是长寿的妙理之一。眼睛害病从手起，肚子害病从嘴起。节饮食而后得健康。心大则百物皆通，心小则百物皆病。病已成而后药之，乱已成而后治之，譬犹渴而穿井，井而铸锥，不亦晚乎？养心莫善于寡欲。意志、悟性、想象力以及感觉上的一切作，全由思维而来。善于思考的人思想急速转变，不会思考的人晕头转向。要记着，幸福并不是依存于你是什么人或拥有什么，它只取决于你想的是什么。任何东西都没有像大胆的幻想那能促进未来的创立。今天的空想，就是明天的现实。思想的动摇并非在正确与错误之间左右不定，而是一种理智与非理智之间徘徊。任何人都可能犯错误，除蠢人外，谁也不想坚持错误。谚语说，重新考虑最好。只想到开始，也要想到发展，而尤其是不能不想到结局。思索生知，慢易生忧，暴傲生怨，忧郁生疾。忠言逆耳利于行，良药苦口利于病。旷达的人长寿。一般认为幸福存在在于闲暇。为管怎么说，我们为争取闲暇而工作，为生活在和平环境而战争。适度的娱乐能放松人的情绪，陶治人的情操。在玩乐中，我们能表现出我们是怎样的一种人。放松与娱乐，被认为是生活中不可缺少的要素。娱乐应该成为艺术，生活应该成为艺术。生活的技术应该就是生活的艺术。生活既与娱乐相区别，又与娱乐是同一的。娱乐必须成为生活，生活必须成为娱乐。娱乐存在于生活之中，并创造了生活的风貌。当你背向太阳的时候，你只看到自己的影子。人在智慧上应当是明豁的，道德上应该是清白的，身体上应该是洁净的。人并不是因为美丽才可爱，而是因为可爱才美丽。聪明人永远不拒绝需要的东西傻瓜和聪明人都是同样无害的。最危险的是半傻不傻和半聪明不聪明的人。崇高的人和愚蠢的人之间，不过是一步之差。人生如梦，我们醒而睡着，睡而醒着。在人生中最难的是选择。不要在怀疑与恐惧中浪费生命。人凭借思考而能变成神。不善思索的有才能的人，必定以悲剧收场。理智不能用大小或高低来衡量，而应该用原则来衡量。没有理智决不会有理性的生活。

6. Giving roses to others leaves a lingering fragrance in your hands. Wisdom is a pearl, practice is the thread. To make the pearls into a string, the thread cannot be broken. Foolishness often arises when the tongue runs faster than the mind. A thoughtful person is truly an infinite and boundless one. Thinking is one of the greatest joys of humanity. Without reason, nothing endures. Reason is the most powerful force among all, and the only force that consciously acts in the world. Wise people do not concern themselves with what they cannot obtain and do not worry about it. Foolish actions can lead to poverty; timely actions can bring wealth. A successful mind acts like a drill——concentrating on a single point. The lifeboat must set sail with the wisdom oar. The greatest trust between people is to see each other sincerely. The greatest defect of life is that it is never perfect. The art of living is like a gladiator's skill, not like a dance, so it should be willing and resolute to face sudden and unexpected attacks. Life is a series of attempts; the more attempts, the better life. One must seek support in life; without it, even without questions, life will become tedious. To live happily, one must love life. The charming changes of life: its sweetness, its pain, its richness, I must taste it. Contentment avoids disgrace, and knowing when to stop avoids danger, and can last a long time. The eagle will never build its nest under the eaves. Chalk——each cell of life is a bullet aimed at ignorance. Do not want to eat when you are extremely hungry, and do not eat too much; do not want to drink when you are extremely thirsty, and do not drink too much. The wise person must adjust the cold and hot of the four seasons. Eat without talking, sleep without talking. Eat and drink in moderation, live in regularity. Delicacies can lead to many diseases, and medicine can preserve longevity. Only the strong know how to struggle; the weak are not even qualified to fail, but are born to be conquered. Honesty is a wonderful treasure of life. Although honesty may cost you a certain price, what you get in the future is much more than what you pay. We must accept disappointment because it is limited, but we must never lose hope because it is infinite. Do not strive for success, but strive to be a valuable person. — Einstein Fools often fail because they look at difficulties as too easy, while the wise often fail because they look at the easy as too difficult. When people are extremely excited, they often talk endlessly and even come up with wise words, even with wonderful humor. Scientific conceit can only be considered modest compared to the conceit of ignorance. A clever fool is such a person who lacks self-awareness, thinking that he is famous throughout the world, and only realizes when he suddenly understands that he is unaware of his own ignorance, which is double ignorance. The flowers of wisdom often bloom on the branches of painful thinking. The flawless jade, the risk it poses if broken, is a complete傻瓜. Do not be afraid that your life will end; what you should worry about is that your life will never truly begin. The wise do not think they are smarter than others, while the foolish always think their judgments are infallible. Impulse when losing reason often causes long-lasting regret; and long-lasting hatred often makes people lose the power of their own will. If there is no integrity, wisdom becomes a terrible thing. Do not try to know everything; otherwise, you will know nothing. In dealing with any problem, we must adhere to the honest attitude of knowing what we know and not knowing what we don't know. We can find truth behind humor. Outstanding geniuses are not content with walking the same path as others. They seek areas that have not been explored. — Lincoln The goal of life determines what kind of person you will become. Life is a great book, complex and heavy, worth turning to the last page that one can turn, and must be turned slowly. — Shen Congwen An important sign of personality maturity: tolerance, patience, and kindness. — "The Weaknesses of Human Nature" If you lose property, you only lose a little; if you lose honor, you lose a lot; if you lose courage, you lose everything. — Goethe One should believe that one is the conqueror of life. — (French) Hugo Heaven fears dark clouds, the earth fears waste, people fear disease, and grass fears frost. When the body recovers, intelligence and creativity will be reborn. The health of the body largely depends on the health of the mind. Exercise and moderation can keep people youthful in old age. Vitality is contained in a healthy body. A cheerful laugh——this is a reliable sign of mental health. Bad habits become the laughingstock of everyone, and a major blow to bad habits. Habits govern those who are not good at thinking. Customs may not be as wise as laws, but they have always been more popular than laws. People like to act according to customs because they are the creators of customs. Habits are the deepest laws of human nature. The more good habits, the easier life is, and the stronger the power to resist temptation. Habitual diligence forgets fatigue, while habitual idleness leads to laziness. Drinking is thirsty, and eating is old. Living happily is not important; what is important is living constructively, and can never hope for temporary convenience and abandon principles. Who only cares about the food on the plate, every grain is hard earned. Life is only empty and tasteless in the eyes of those who find it tasteless. Life is no longer a feast of joy, but the experience of work, struggle, poverty, and suffering. Wealth and warmth are not from heaven, but from赖尔's strength and effort. Both physical exercise and music should be emphasized to achieve complete personality. Because physical exercise can train the body, and music can cultivate the spirit. Water stops for a hundred days and becomes poisonous, and people are idle for a hundred days and get sick. Life is wonderful, and physical exercise is endless fun! Silk is not woven into a net, and the body is not strong without exercise. If you don't climb a high mountain, you can't see the plain; if you don't exercise, you can't be strong. The brain is not used and becomes dull; the body is not exercised and becomes weak. A person's lifespan does not depend on how many years they have lived, but on how many colds they have had. Walking can keep you young, and exercise can keep you young. Joy in the heart, a smile on the face; sorrow in the heart, spirit injured and body damaged. If one does not have the habit of calmness, one will not have a healthy body. Anxiety, worries, and pessimism can make people sick; positive, cheerful, strong willpower, and optimistic emotions can overcome diseases, and can also make people strong and long-lived. Optimism is the only secret of longevity. Often worrying and being angry is enough to make a healthy body weak. Taking overly strict methods of keeping fit is also a kind of sad disease. Inner joy is the joy of living a healthy, normal, and harmonious life. Health is the condition of wisdom and the sign of happiness. Do not worry about the troubles, so as not to be white-haired in your youth; do not worry about the troubles, so as not to lose your life prematurely. Sports and exercise can enhance the health of the body and the optimistic emotions of people, and optimistic emotions are a necessary condition for longevity. Good health and the pleasant emotions that come with it are the best capital for happiness. Through strict methods of keeping fit, one can maintain one's health. Like a serious disease. Extremely monotonous life can make people lose interest and courage in living. Regular life is the secret of health and longevity. Mental illness is more dangerous than physical illness. To be happy, you must first be healthy. Society will not treat a person kindly for no reason, unless the person himself proves to society that he is worthy of society's kindness. – Roland Go your own way, let others talk. – (Italian) Dante Being trusted is a wealth that cannot be bought with money. Start a task calmly, but be determined to the end. – (Greek) Bias Every day is a step, a new step towards the predetermined goal. Life is like climbing a slope; you have to take it step by step. – Ding Ling Everyone thinks they are smart, and therefore make foolish things. Ignorance is the foam stirred up by arrogance. Taking more is only good in one case, that is, reading. Knowledge is the shadow of diligence, and sweat is the mirror of diligence. Sponges, even if they have enough water, cannot stick out their bellies to show off their wealth. Only by constantly opening the memory net can you catch the prey of knowledge. The value of getting to know each other lies in understanding; the value of understanding each other lies in knowing each other's hearts. – Mencius How you treat others is how others treat you. Genius is like this, lifelong effort, and that is genius. – Mendeleev We know very little, and what we don't know is infinite. – Laplace When you are frustrated and disappointed, the most important thing is to respect yourself; when you are successful and proud, the most important thing is to respect others. The greatest success lies in the greatest effort. Doubting everything and trusting everything are the same mistake; only staying in the middle is the right path. Thinking should go beyond the crowd, while wishes can be left behind. A moment of careful thought is better than a hundred hasty actions. Knowledge can be replaced by an encyclopedia, but new ideas and plans thought out are irreplaceable. Scientific pursuit of truth requires that our reason never be fanatically committed to any hypothesis. Thinking, not being willing to delve and understand, being satisfied with trivial knowledge, and being complacent or satisfied with insignificant knowledge are all reasons for intellectual poverty. This poverty can be summed up in one word: foolishness. A heart full of reason is like a knife with all sharp edges. It causes the person who uses it to bleed. Reason cancels fate; as long as a person is thinking, he is autonomous. Courage is the most valuable character among all human virtues. (American) John F. Kennedy Helping others to solve difficulties and pain is the greatest happiness and joy in life. Life has no stopover; self is always an starting point. At any time and place, as long as you create, there will be harvest; only by never-ending struggle can you prove the existence of life. What makes you tired is not the high mountain in front of you, but a grain of sand in your shoe. — Unknown Our highest principle: we will never yield to any difficulty. — (French) Curie The road of life does not need to be demanding. As long as you take a step, the road is under your feet. As long as you set sail, there will be wind from all directions. Only when you set sail does the true beginning of life begin. Only when you set sail does wisdom begin to unfold. Honesty is a wonderful treasure of life. Although honesty may cost you a certain price, what you get in the future is much more than what you pay. The strong can struggle with the storm of fate. — Edison It's not hard to do a good deed; it's hard to do good all your life and not do bad things. — Mao Zedong Life has belief, just like having a sun rising again and again; career has belief, just like having a staff for climbing a dangerous peak. Belief can make you broad-minded and extraordinary. The eyes are the lamp of the body. If the eyes are bright, the whole body is bright; if the eyes are hazy, the whole body is dark. — Bible One can fail many times, but as long as he has not started to blame others, he is not a failure. Victory does not come to us; I must go to victory myself. Ignorant youth is not true youth. Whose thoughts are the most abundant, whose feelings are the purest, whose actions are the noblest, whose life is the most fulfilling. A person cannot adapt to any environment; especially when he sees that everyone around him is living the same life. For most people, true life is a constant compromise between ideals and possibilities. The beauty of life lies in its richness. To make life interesting, you must constantly enrich it. The great and glorious work of humanity is to know how to live appropriately. Live and do not let life capture you. Life is not a choice; you must accept it. The only choice is how to live. If you understand how to think and arrange your life, you have completed the greatest work. A contemplative life is a good life. We should learn to think and then write. You can get ideas from others, but your way of thinking, the mold that molds ideas, must be your own. A minute of thinking is better than an hour of chatter. Self-control should be the tone of life. A good life is guided by reason and firmly holds noble ideals. Some people escape life, while others are wholeheartedly dedicated to it. The former are spiritually poor and lack memorable experiences in their old age, while the latter are rich in both aspects. Any person with self-respect does not want to live in a way that contradicts their own way; any person with a little brain does not want to live in a boring way. The life one is living is not necessarily the life one should live. Living in an evil, foolish, indecent, and unclean way is not only a bad way of living but also a continuous process of dying. In the world, as many people as there are, there are as many paths to life. The more our way of life converges, the more we are执着 on deeper values, such as religion, language, art, and literature. I believe that living with the awareness of the meaning of life is the true realistic way of life. Just as a short person can be a perfect person, a small circle of life can also be a happy life. Every animal hopes to live in its own way; a lion wants to live a lion's life, and a person wants to live a human life. Thoughts are like whiskers; they can't grow out without maturity. It is better to understand a few things thoroughly than to understand many things superficially. The greatest misfortune of humanity is that it does not have an organ like the eyelid shutter, which can cover or block a thought or all thoughts when needed. The conditions for success are courage and confidence, which come from a sound mind and a healthy body. Losing reason is losing everything you have done. If you want everything to submit to you, you must first submit to reason. To truly think more, we must be willing to endure and continue the state of doubt, which is the driving force for thorough exploration, so that we do not accept any hypothesis or confirm any belief before obtaining sufficient reasons. The mind of reason is like an uneven mirror, due to irregularly accepting light, it confuses the nature of things and its own nature, distorts the nature of things, and changes its color. Where there is thought, there is power. Any person who is good at considering things is definitely a person who pursues the most beneficial things for humanity through action. Reason is a cold sun, it radiates light, but it makes people dazzled and unable to see things. Under this light without water and shadows, the soul will fade, and the blood will dry up. Reason can be said to be the light and lamp of life. Reason is the highest gift of human beings, and the characteristic that distinguishes human beings from lower animals. Reasonable people make themselves adapt to this world; unreasonable people try to make the world adapt to themselves. Anxiety begins with thinking. The four words often said by wise people are: I don't know. The difference between intelligence and wisdom: the former can only see the meaning of things, while the latter can perceive the connotation of things. Health is the condition of wisdom and the sign of happiness. Everyone is the child of their own actions. One cannot be considered completely born before death. A stubborn person is a deaf orator. No one without reason can accept reason. What is the first duty of a person? The answer is very simple: be yourself. The stars have long disappeared, but the trivial people still see them shining. My motto: I want nothing. Living in moderation will add years to your life. Life is understanding. Life is reason. Good life starts with love and ends with knowledge. Without exercise, life is sleep. A frequent traveler must have broad knowledge, a strong character, perseverance, and the spirit of never giving up. The foundation of keeping fit is not to lose the original vitality. The shortening of life and the waste of thought are proportional. Keeping the mind calm is the best way to keep fit. The desire for food is less, the mind is more open, and the years are more fruitful; the desire for food is more, the mind is more blocked, and the years are more damaged. Comfort can lead to death, and anxiety is the foundation of keeping fit. Rest is the nurse that nourishes the tired spirit. Superficial people are easily proud, and ignorant people are easily arrogant. The wise govern the environment, and the incompetent are governed by the environment. Experience is the mother of proverbs, and thinking is the midwife. In eating, sleeping, and exercising, we can be carefree and happy, which is one of the secrets of longevity. The eyes are infected from the hands, and the stomach is infected from the mouth. Moderation in diet leads to health. The heart is big, and everything is smooth; the heart is small, and everything is sick. After the disease is formed, medicine is taken; after the chaos is formed, it is treated; it is just like digging a well when you are thirsty and forging a needle when you have a needle, is it not too late? Keeping the mind calm is the best way to keep fit. Willpower, insight, imagination, and all the actions of sensation come from thinking. People who are good at thinking change their thoughts quickly, while those who don't think will be confused. Remember, happiness does not depend on what kind of person you are or what you have, it only depends on what you think. Anything is not as good as bold imagination to promote the creation of the future. Today's daydreams are tomorrow's reality. The fluctuation of thought is not between right and wrong, but between reason and unreason. Anyone can make mistakes, except for fools, who don't want to persist in mistakes. Proverbs say, it is better to reconsider. Think about the beginning, development, and especially the end. Thinking gives knowledge, slow and easy gives worry, arrogance gives resentment, and melancholy gives disease. Honest advice is beneficial to action, and bitter medicine is beneficial to illness. Open-minded people live longer. It is generally believed that happiness lies in leisure. In any case, we work to gain leisure, and we fight for peace to live. Moderate entertainment can relax people's emotions and cultivate their emotions. In entertainment, we can show how we are. Relaxation and entertainment are considered indispensable elements of life. Entertainment should become an art, and life should become an art. The technology of life should be the art of life. Life is different from entertainment, but it is the same as entertainment. Entertainment must become life, and life must become entertainment. Entertainment exists in life and creates the style of life. When you turn

7. 生活很艰难了，时间也很短暂，人生路上，遇见善良，学会付出，遇见微笑，学会分享；遇见坎坷，学会勇敢。

7. Life is tough and time is fleeting. On the journey of life, meet kindness and learn to give, meet smiles and learn to share; meet hardships and learn to be brave.

8. 余生，不要为难自己，活出自己本然的样子。

8. In the remaining years, don't put yourself through hardship, live out the true form of yourself.

9. 回忆是一座桥，却是通向寂寞的牢。那一瞬间，你终于发现，那曾深爱过的人，早在告别的那天，已消失在这个世界。心中的爱和思念，都只是属于自己曾经拥有过的记念。我想，有些事情是可以遗忘的，有些事情是可以记念的，有些事情能够心甘情愿，有些事情一直无能为力。我爱你，这是我的劫难。

9. Memory is a bridge, yet it leads to a prison of loneliness. In that moment, you finally realize that the person you once deeply loved had already disappeared from this world on the day of farewell. The love and longing in your heart are only the memories of what you once possessed. I think some things can be forgotten, some things can be remembered, some things can be accepted with joy, and some things you can never be able to change. I love you, this is my tribulation.

10. 人有时是可以做配角，但是你一定要懂得做配角时的主角。我们总是习惯了不该习惯的习惯，人生并不在于获取，更在于放得下。放下一粒种子，收获一棵大树；放下一处烦恼，收获一个惊喜；放下一种偏见，收获一种幸福；放下一种执著，收获一种自在。

10. People can sometimes play the role of a supporting character, but you must always understand that when you are a supporting character, you must act like the protagonist. We are often accustomed to habits that we should not be accustomed to. Life is not about gaining, but about letting go. Let go of a seed and you will reap a large tree; let go of a worry and you will reap a surprise; let go of a prejudice and you will reap happiness; let go of an obsession and you will reap ease.

11. 女人怎样才有底气？首先，你必须知道自己要什么，并因此去努力。有目标才不会迷茫。其次，你要有事业和梦想，有赚钱养活自己的能力。会独立才不会依附。最后，你要懂得再好的男人也不值得付出一切去爱，留一点点自我，才会有自尊。不迷茫，不依附，有自尊，这就是女人。

11. How can a woman gain confidence? First, you must know what you want and strive for it. Having goals will prevent you from being lost. Second, you should have a career and a dream, and the ability to support yourself financially. Independence will prevent you from becoming dependent. Lastly, you should understand that no man, no matter how good, is worth sacrificing everything for love. Keeping a bit of yourself will allow for self-respect. Not being lost, not being dependent, and having self-respect – this is what a woman is.

12. 人生长途漫漫，我们不可能每一步都走得那么完美，摔上几跤，走几段弯路，这并非坏事，至少让我们品尝了挫败，增添的阅历，让我们的人生多姿多彩。或许走过终点时我们才明白，一路平坦却少了风景，没有转折也多了平淡。只要经历了，尝试了，走过了，我们赢得的，就是一个全新的自己！

12. Life is a long journey, and it's impossible for us to walk every step perfectly. Falling a few times, taking a few detours, is not a bad thing. At least it allows us to taste failure, gain experience, and make our lives colorful and diverse. Perhaps only when we reach the end do we realize that a journey with no twists and turns lacks scenery and is filled with monotony. As long as we have experienced, tried, and traversed, what we win is a brand new self!

13. 慕容复把光复燕国的志向，镌刻骨髓，铭记不忘。为此，他悬梁刺股，修习天下武学。

13.慕容复 had the ambition to restore the Yan state etched into his bones and never forgot it. For this, he hung from the beam and pierced his thigh, studying martial arts from all over the world.

14. 不论你身于何地，居于何职，处于何境，心于何求，都要真诚感恩生活的惠赐与拥有，宽容他人无心的错失与伤害，笑看漫漫人生的坎坷与不幸，收藏源自心灵的体会和感悟，宠辱不惊，你会发现，生命中平淡如水的日子，因为爱而博大，因为感动而温馨，因为给予而厚重，因为努力而充盈。

14. Regardless of where you are, what position you hold, what situation you are in, or what desires you pursue in your heart, always be sincere in expressing gratitude for the blessings and possessions life has bestowed upon you. Be tolerant of others' unintentional mistakes and injuries, and laugh at the twists and turns and misfortunes of the long journey of life. Treasure the insights and感悟 that come from the depths of your soul, remain unshaken by honor and disgrace, and you will find that the ordinary days of your life, which are as smooth as water, become vast because of love, warm because of感动, substantial because of giving, and full because of effort.

15. 不抱怨, 靠自己！因为久了你就会发现，抱怨除了扰乱你和别人的心情，屁用都没有。

15. Don't complain, rely on yourself! Because after a while, you'll find that complaining is of no use at all, except for disrupting your own and others' mood.

16. 幼小的你有无穷的潜力，你的兴趣也相当广泛，但终归要长大，自己享受的时候也得考虑尽可能不要干扰到别人。

16. As a child, you have boundless potential, and your interests are quite diverse. However, you will eventually grow up, and when you enjoy yourself, you should also consider not disturbing others as much as possible.

17. 心态决定心情。心情不好，生活就会失去活力；心态不好，心情就是浮萍一片。我们自己的生活，要自己来做主。心态不好，就是把自己的心情交给别人来掌控。生活中，很多细小的问题，换个角度，或者稍微忍一忍，你都能笑着处理好。心态是调整出来的，笑着看世界，世界会还你一份好心情。

17. Attitude determines mood. A bad mood leads to a loss of vitality in life; a bad attitude makes the mood as fleeting as a floating lotus leaf. Our own lives should be controlled by ourselves. A bad attitude is equivalent to entrusting one's mood to others to control. In life, many small problems can be handled with a different perspective or by simply bearing with them, and you can manage them with a smile. Attitude is something that is adjusted, and by looking at the world with a smile, the world will return you with a good mood.

18. 6生活需要充实，但不是怨气，更不是虐心，也不是让偏执和自我捆住手脚。为什么命运给我们留下那么多空白，是希望你的人生不要活成一场逃避，还能有更好的创新，秋雨并没给谁送来愁思，真正的惆怅是来源于自我的偏执，头上青青丝，莫要无辜白。

18. Life needs to be fulfilling, but not filled with resentment, nor should it be torturous, nor should it allow obsession and self-imprisonment to tie up one's hands and feet. Why does fate leave us so many blanks? It is hoping that your life will not just be a series of evasions, but also have better innovation. The autumn rain did not bring melancholy to anyone; the real melancholy comes from one's own obsession. Don't let the innocent white hair on your head be in vain.

19. 有人尖刻地嘲讽你，你马上尖酸地回敬他。有人毫无理由地看不起你，你马上轻蔑地鄙视他。有人在你面前大肆炫耀，你马上加倍证明你更厉害。有人对你冷漠，你马上对他冷淡疏远。看，你讨厌的那些人，轻易就把你变成你自己最讨厌的那种样子。这才是敌人对你最大的伤害。

19. When someone sarcastically mocks you, you immediately retort with sharp sarcasm. When someone looks down on you without any reason, you immediately disdainfully scorn them. When someone boasts in front of you, you immediately double down to prove you are even more skilled. When someone treats you coldly, you immediately become distant and indifferent to them. Look, it's the people you dislike who easily transform you into the very type of person you detest the most. This is the greatest harm an enemy can inflict upon you.

20. 做个淡淡水墨画女人，朴素清雅，灵动飘逸，令人神清气爽，回味无穷好美，好美，欣赏，赞国色天香送到的水墨画女人！朴素清雅、灵动飘逸，令人神清气爽、回味无穷

20. Be a woman depicted in a delicate ink wash painting, simple and elegant, lively and ethereal, refreshing the spirit and leaving a profound aftertaste. So beautiful, so beautiful, to appreciate, to praise the ink wash painting woman delivered with the national beauty and fragrance! Simple and elegant, lively and ethereal, refreshing the spirit, leaving a profound aftertaste.

21. 我依旧相信努力的价值，奋斗的意义，依旧相信天助自助者，依旧相信坚持即便给不了结果，也一定会有精彩的过程。

21. I still believe in the value of hard work and the significance of struggle. I still believe in the principle that God helps those who help themselves, and I still believe that persistence, even if it doesn't guarantee results, will always lead to an exciting process.

22. 2人生长途漫漫，我们不可能每一步都走得那么完美，摔上几跤，走几段弯路，这并非坏事，至少让我们品尝了挫败，增添的阅历，让我们的人生多姿多彩。或许走过终点时我们才明白，一路平坦却少了风景，没有转折也多了平淡。只要经历了，尝试了，走过了，我们赢得的，就是一个全新的自己。

22. The journey of life is long and winding, and it's impossible for us to walk every step perfectly. Falling a few times, taking a few detours, is not necessarily a bad thing; at least it allows us to taste defeat, accumulate experience, and make our lives colorful and diverse. Perhaps only when we reach the end of the road do we realize that a journey without obstacles lacks scenery, and a path without turns is filled with monotony. As long as we have experienced, tried, and traversed, what we win is a brand new version of ourselves.

23. 人生的关键点，其实就是，你遇到了一个人，他引导你走了一段路；或者遇到一件事，左右了你的思绪，从此你的道路，你的人生就会有所不同。

23. The key moments in life are actually when you meet someone who guides you on a journey; or encounter an event that alters your thoughts, from then on, your path and your life will be different.

24. 时间没有等我，是你忘了带我走，我左手过目不忘的的萤火，右手里是十年一个漫长的打坐。

24. Time did not wait for me; it was you who forgot to take me along. In my left hand, I hold the ever-memorable firefly that I can see at a glance, and in my right hand, there is a ten-year-long meditation.

25. 离开我就别安慰我，要知道每一次缝补也会遭遇穿刺的痛。穿过世俗的风雨，流言的暗礁，妒嫉的漩涡，让爱航船，驶向你心灵的港湾。

25. Don't comfort me when you leave, for you must know that every patching also encounters the pain of piercing. Through the storms and tempests of the world, the hidden reefs of rumors, and the whirlpools of jealousy, let the love ship sail to the harbor of your heart.

26. 时光之外，一个轻轻淡淡的微笑，一个优雅的身姿，便是醉了光阴。内心之中，一方耀眼的晴天，一泊宁静的恬淡，便是醉了心田。心愿这样沉醉，愿以这样清宁祥和的心态走在尘世里，走出自己的模样，用温婉的心去感知缤纷的世界，途中的机遇和尘缘，都是命里注定，眼眸深处，携一抹款款深情，行走漫漫人生。

26. Beyond the realm of time, a soft, faint smile, a graceful posture, is to be intoxicated by the passage of time. Within the heart, a brilliant clear sky, a serene tranquility, is to be intoxicated by the heart's soil. With such a deep intoxication of wishes, may I walk through the world with such a tranquil and harmonious state of mind, carving out my own image, perceiving the colorful world with a gentle heart, where the opportunities and karmic connections along the way are all predestined. Deep in the eyes, carrying a touch of deep affection, walking through the long journey of life.

27. 可是，燕国早已灭亡数百年，沦为历史的一份记忆。当下正直大宋中兴盛世，人民生活安定，国家长治久安。

27. However, the Yan Kingdom has long been extinct for several centuries and has become a memory of history. Currently, it is a time of prosperity and revival for the Great Song Dynasty, where people live in peace and stability, and the country enjoys long-term peace and stability.

28. 刘备说：“屈身守分，以待天时，不可与命争也。”

28. Liu Bei said, "Bend one's body and stick to one's place, waiting for the right time; one should not contend with destiny."

29. 月佬的红线，我们一人一半，最终被我们：拉扯至断。

29. The red string of the matchmaker, split between us, was eventually torn to shreds by us.

30. 生命，是一段旅途，生活，便是其中的过程，翻山越岭，还是涉水乘舟，一切全凭自己。走在生活的阡陌中，不必让自己背负太多，淡淡听风，才会走得更轻松。一些得到，不一定会长久；一些失去，未必不会再拥有。重要的是：让心，在阳光下学会舞蹈；让灵魂，在痛苦中学会微笑。向前走，潇洒心情，收获淡定。

30. Life is a journey, and living is the process within it, whether it's climbing mountains or crossing rivers by boat, everything depends on oneself. Walking through the paths of life, one should not burden oneself with too much. Only by calmly listening to the wind can one walk more lightly. Some things gained may not last long; some things lost may not be regained. What's important is: let the heart learn to dance in the sunshine; let the soul learn to smile in pain. Move forward with a carefree attitude, and reap calmness.

31. 关系就像玻璃，有时候，与其痛苦的去复合，不如就让它碎裂。心小了，小事就大了；心大了，大事都小了；看淡世间沧桑，内心安然无恙。大其心，容天下之物；虚其心，爱天下之善；平其心，论天下之事；定其心，应天下之变。大事难事看担当，逆境顺境看胸襟，是成是败看坚持。

31. Relationships are like glass; sometimes, it's better to let them shatter than to endure the pain of trying to mend them. A small heart magnifies small things; a big heart makes big things seem small. By taking a light-hearted view of the vicissitudes of the world, the mind remains unharmed. Expand your heart to embrace all things under heaven; empty your heart to love all the virtues under heaven; level your heart to discuss all matters under heaven; stabilize your heart to respond to all changes under heaven. In big and difficult matters, it's about taking responsibility; in adverse and favorable conditions, it's about one's breadth of mind; success or failure is determined by one's perseverance.

32. 生容易，活容易，生活不容易。经历了风雨，才见得到彩虹；经历了痛苦，才看得到快乐。最累的从来不是身体，而是心。人要学会知足常乐，没心没肺，活着不累。再平凡，我们还有家庭；再痛苦，我们还有幸福；再一无是处，我们还有父母亲人朋友；再累，我们还有家人温暖的怀抱。生活虽不易，快乐最重要。

32. Life is easy, living is easy, but living a good life is not easy. It's only after experiencing the storms and rains that we can see the rainbow; only after experiencing pain can we see joy. The most tiredness is never physical, but rather mental. People should learn to be content with what they have and find joy in simplicity; living without a care is not tiring. Even in the most ordinary of lives, we still have our families; even in the midst of pain, we still have happiness; even when we feel we have nothing to offer, we still have our parents, relatives, and friends; even when we are exhausted, we still have the warm embrace of our family. Although life is not easy, happiness is the most important.

33. 4命运里所有的相逢一半是喜，一半是恼，要想活出这一场人生的纠缠，需要几分看远、看淡，心也从容，路也从容。

33. In the destiny of all encounters, half are joy and half are annoyance. To live out this entanglement of life, one needs a bit of foresight and indifference, with a calm heart and a relaxed path.

34. 1人生一条路，恼了谁，愁了谁，秋雨自管飘摇，也没浇湿谁的心情，却换来多少人埋怨秋雨无情，生活从来没有那么复杂，生活的活法就在你如何轻松简单的使用它，活成一个对生活有感受、有感悟的人，生活一场过程，从来也不是一种手段，人生窄，窄在算计，人生宽，宽在一念。

34. Life is a single path. Who does it anger, who does it worry? The autumn rain continues to sway freely, not dampening anyone's mood. Yet, it brings forth countless complaints about the无情 of autumn rain. Life is never so complex. The way to live life is in how you use it easily and simply. Live to become a person who feels and reflects on life. Life is a process, never a means. Life is narrow when it is measured by calculation, but wide when it is measured by a single thought.

35. 青春的锦绣与贵重，就在于它的天真与无瑕，在于它的可遇而不可求，在于它的永不重回。

35. The splendor and preciousness of youth lie in its innocence and spotlessness, in its availability when sought and unattainable when chased, and in its never-returning nature.

36. 在和法王鸠摩智决斗时，慕容复频频落于下风。幸亏表妹王语嫣从旁指点，才勉强不致失败。

36. During the duel with the King of Dharma, Jiumo Zhi, Mu Yuanfu frequently found himself at a disadvantage. Fortunately, his cousin Wang Yu Yan provided guidance from the side, which barely allowed him to avoid defeat.

37. 贫穷时渴望财富，孤寂时渴望爱情，年老时渴望青春年少，死亡前又留恋生命。聚散离合忧患得失全是一念间。有得必有失：生就男儿身便失去了女儿态；得到了成熟就失去了天真；拥有喧嚣的城镇就丧失了寂静的山村，想要小溪的清澈就失去大海的磅礴。 得之乃幸！失之乃命！丰满人生全在得失之间、一切随缘 。

37. When poor, one yearns for wealth; when lonely, for love; when old, for youthful vigor; and before death, one lingers on life. Gathering, dispersing, joy, sorrow, gains, and losses all come down to a single thought. There is a gain with every loss: being a man means losing the grace of a woman; gaining maturity means losing innocence; owning bustling cities means losing the tranquility of rural villages; desiring the clarity of a small stream means losing the majesty of the sea. To gain is a blessing! To lose is destiny! A full life is all about gains and losses, and everything comes with fate.

38. 你没有看到我一个人蹲在厕所开大水龙头失声痛哭的样子。

38. You didn't see me crouching alone in the bathroom, turning on the faucet full blast and sobbing uncontrollably.

39. 别指望所有的人都能懂你，因为萝卜白菜，各有所爱。你做了萝卜，自然就做不成青菜。

39. Don't expect everyone to understand you, because different people have different tastes. You can't be both a radish and a green vegetable at the same time.

40. 2过去的不必要再去追悔，但可以忏悔，过往旧恨何必苦苦再追问？飞鸿云烟，忘却那些曾经的纠缠，过往以过往，未来还未来，活在当下的努力和阳光，这是生活的最最真实。

40.2 There is no need to regret the past unnecessarily, but one can confess. Why continue to tirelessly question old grievances? Like flying geese and drifting clouds, let go of the entanglements of the past. The past is the past, and the future has yet to come. Strive and live in the present, with effort and sunlight; this is the most real aspect of life.

41. 14不要把生活里的一点酸、一点苦，就当作生活的全部。学会随缘自在，圆融喜乐，平常宽容，取舍有度。生活本身就是一种历练，百炼钢化成绕指柔，然后才发现生活原本是一场简单，少了那些自以为是的苦雨凄风，更多的是一种宠辱不惊的轻柔。

41. 14 Do not take a bit of sourness or bitterness in life as the whole of it. Learn to be at ease with circumstances, to be harmonious and joyful, to be ordinary and tolerant, and to make choices with moderation. Life itself is a form of experience; through refinement, the hard steel is transformed into something as soft as a finger can wrap around. Then, you'll find that life is originally simple; without those self-righteous downpours of bitterness and cold winds, it is more a gentle demeanor that is undisturbed by honor or disgrace.

42. 梦里的江湖，百花齐放，人来人往，繁华似锦。

42. In the dreams of the江湖, flowers bloom in full splendor, people come and go, bustling and prosperous like a tapestry.

43. 不要和一个人和他议论同一个圈子里的人，不管你认为他有多么可靠。

43. Do not discuss people within the same circle with someone, no matter how reliable you think they are.

44. 有些人会表现特别爱你，甚至不惜做出激进的事情来。其实这只不过是种自私。是这个人想要控制你的占有欲。真正爱你的人，样样都会为你着想，是不会让你感觉到不舒服的。所以啊，爱情说到底就是对谁好的问题。他对自己好，就会强迫你。他对你好，就会迁就你。自私是不爱。

44. Some people may act exceptionally loving, even going to extreme lengths. In reality, this is merely selfishness. It is this person's desire to control your possessiveness. A person who truly loves you will always consider everything for your sake and will not make you feel uncomfortable. So, in the end, love is all about who is treated well. If he treats himself well, he will force you. If he treats you well, he will accommodate you. Selfishness is not love.

45. 9人生百年，谁也不是给烦恼打长工，更不是给忧伤作嫁衣裳，短暂人生，需要珍惜，需要思量，心宽几尺又何妨。

45. If nine people live to be a hundred years old, no one is a long-term employee of烦恼 (troubles), nor a bride's dresser for忧伤 (sorrow). Life is short, it needs to be cherished and pondered upon. How much does it matter if the heart is broad a few feet?

46. 11每个人活的都很辛苦，在悲欢里穿梭，在烦恼里平衡，活出一种生活的真实与快乐，让生活成为一种感召力，渲染力，恰到好处的相处，身边的世界才是自己最好的家园，突破自我的狭隘，活出生活的质量。

46. 11 Everyone lives with hardship, navigating through joys and sorrows, balancing amidst troubles, and living out the authenticity and happiness of life. Let life become a source of inspiration, a powerful influence, and interact in the most fitting manner. The world around us becomes our best home. By breaking through the narrowness of the self, we live a life of quality.

47. 13谁和烦恼也没有结下不解之缘，人生的方向，就是向前，人生路从来就没有平坦过，重重叠叠的煎熬，千丝万缕的愁绪，生活的艺术，也就在于把那些突兀变成寻常，把那些如雪如霜改造成清新而悠扬，从哪里来到哪里去，温尔文雅，轻松洒脱。

47. 13 One who has not formed an indissoluble bond with troubles, the direction of life is to move forward. Life's path has never been smooth, filled with overlapping sufferings and intricate threads of sorrow. The art of living also lies in turning the abrupt into the ordinary, transforming what is as white as snow or frost into something fresh and melodious. Wherever you come from and wherever you go, be amiable and elegant, relaxed and carefree.

48. 人生路上，熙熙攘攘。有缘则聚，缘尽则散，无缘则是陌路人。一切顺其自然，强求不得。

48. On the journey of life, there is a bustling and bustling. If there is a connection, people gather; if the connection ends, they disperse; if there is no connection, they become strangers. Everything should follow its natural course; it cannot be forced.

49. 做人，一定要厚道！宁愿自己吃点亏，也不要算计对你好的人；宁愿自己受点苦，也不要出卖相信你的人；宁愿自己多退一步，也不要欺负无辜的人。做人，头顶天，脚踏地，行的端，才能走的正。厚道的人，最让人踏实！

49. As a person, one must always be honest and decent! It's better to endure some losses for yourself than to scheme against those who are good to you; it's better to suffer a bit for yourself than to betray those who trust you; it's better to take a step back for yourself than to mistreat innocent people. As a person, you must have the sky above and the earth below, and behave properly in order to walk the straight path. People who are honest and decent are the most reassuring to others!

50. 微笑是人类最好的名片，一个懂得微笑的人，生活中一定是一个快乐的人。生命是盛开的花朵，它绽放得美丽，舒展，绚丽多资；生命是精美的小诗，清新流畅，意蕴悠长；生命是优美的乐曲，音律和谐，宛转悠扬；生命是流淌的江河，奔流不息，滚滚向前。

50. A smile is the best business card of humanity. A person who knows how to smile is definitely a happy one in life. Life is a blooming flower, radiating beauty, spreading out gracefully, and full of rich colors; life is a exquisite poem, fresh and smooth, with profound meaning; life is a beautiful melody, harmonious in rhythm, and melodious; life is a flowing river, ceaselessly rushing forward, surging ahead.

51. 与其跟不可抗力的事情死磕，还不如随遇而安，在有限的资源内，活出自己的精彩。

51. It's better to adapt to the circumstances than to stubbornly fight against the irresistible. Within the limited resources, live out your own brilliance.

52. 8可以相信别人，但不可以指望别人；不要拒绝善意，不要停止微笑；错误可以犯，但不可以重复犯；批评一定要接受，侮辱绝对不能接受。该说的要说，该哑的要哑，是一种聪明；该干的要干，该退的要退，是一种睿智；该显的要显，该藏的要藏，是一种境界。

52. You can believe in others, but you cannot rely on them; do not reject kindness, and do not stop smiling; mistakes can be made, but not repeated; criticism must be accepted, but insult cannot be tolerated. Say what needs to be said and be silent when required; this is wisdom. Do what needs to be done and step back when necessary; this is insight. Show what needs to be shown and conceal what needs to be concealed; this is a level of accomplishment.

53. 对生命而言，接纳才是最好的温柔，不论是接纳一个人的出现，还是，接纳一个人的从此不见。

53. For life, acceptance is the best gentleness, whether it is the acceptance of a person's appearance or the acceptance of their absence from now on.

54. 红尘中我们都是过客，我为你心醉，谁为我心碎？茫茫人海，我为你停留，谁为我守候？镜花水月的风景能珍藏多久？红尘一笑，你为谁心醉，又为谁心累？罢了，心明，山无棱，天地合，乃敢与君绝，终究也只是海市蜃楼。本是一场花好月圆，原来只是我多想，花易落，月难圆，只应花月似欢缘，尘缘从来都如水，不知谁为谁沉醉，谁又为谁而荒废？

54. In the dust of the world, we are all passersby. I am captivated by you, but who breaks my heart? Amidst the vast sea of people, I stop for you, but who waits for me? How long can the scenery of mirrors, flowers, water, and the moon be treasured? With a smile in the dust, who do you become captivated by, and who do you become weary for? Enough, with the heart enlightened, mountains without edges, and heaven and earth unite, I dare to sever ties with you. In the end, it's just an illusion. It was supposed to be a beautiful scene of flowers and the full moon, but it turned out to be just my wishful thinking. Flowers fall easily, and the moon is hard to make round. Only flowers and the moon should be considered a joyful encounter. Dusty ties have always been like water. Who is drunk for whom, and who has wasted their life for whom?

55. 有的人，注定不相容。即便有了交集，也是擦肩的过客，不会在彼此的心上留下印迹。

55. Some people are destined to be incompatible. Even if they intersect, they are mere passersby, leaving no痕迹 on each other's hearts.

56. 当你不知道和他说什么的时候，那就什么也不要说，沉默有无限种含义。

56. When you don't know what to say to him, then say nothing at all. Silence has infinite meanings.

57. 失去一些，也得到一些；和一些人失联，又庆幸还有几个好友；觉得自己没有改变，回头想却又发现自己变得太多。

57. Lose some, gain some; lose contact with some people, yet be grateful for a few good friends still around; feel like I haven't changed, but on reflection, realize I've changed too much.

58. 3人生是一场孤旅。给你磨砺，让你变的坚强；遭遇坎坷的时候，我们或许情绪过，容易感叹命运，容易怨天尤人，容易夸大不幸。人生路上不可能时时阳光相伴，不可能处处风平浪静，如果改变不了事实，那就改变我们的心态吧。

58. Life is a solitary journey. It gives you trials to make you strong; when encountering difficulties, we may be overwhelmed by emotions, easily sighing over fate, easily blaming the heavens and others, and easily exaggerating misfortunes. On the path of life, it is impossible for the sun to shine continuously or for the sea to be calm everywhere. If we cannot change the facts, then let's change our mindset.

59. 17人生的方法，就在于你保持对生活的乐观，坦然泰然的面对着世间的曲折；幸福最大的障碍，是自己心胸的狭隘，并不是生活所面对的许多苦涩；生活里最大的烦恼是什么，是把过去经过的烦恼，再度上演。

59. The way to live life is to maintain an optimistic attitude towards life and calmly face the twists and turns of the world; the biggest obstacle to happiness is not the many bitter experiences life faces, but the narrowness of one's own heart; the biggest worry in life is to relive the worries that have already passed.

60. 虽然武功不差，可因为天赋、气质、时运所限，他成不了武林的领军人物，更没人支持他的理想。

60. Although his martial arts skills were not bad, due to limitations of talent, temperament, and luck, he couldn't become a leader in the martial arts world, and no one supported his ideals.

61. 假如人生不曾相遇，我还是那个我，偶尔做做梦，然后，开始日复一日的奔波，淹没在这喧嚣的城市里。 我不会了解，这个世界还有这样的一个你，只有你能让人回味，也只有你会让我心醉。 假如人生不曾相遇，我不会相信，有一种人可以百看不厌，有一种人一认识就觉得温馨。

61. If we had never met in life, I would still be that person, occasionally dreaming, then starting the daily grind, getting lost in the hustle and bustle of the city. I wouldn't know that there is such a person in this world as you, someone who can be relished over and over, and someone who can make me feel drunk with joy. If we had never met in life, I wouldn't believe that there is a person who can be endlessly fascinating, and a person who feels warm and inviting from the moment you meet them.

62. 与人相交，始于颜值，敬于才华，合于性格，忠于人品。真正投缘的人，生命的磁场会彼此召唤。惺惺相惜，相见恨晚。

62. The interaction with others begins with appearance, respects talent, aligns with character, and is loyal to one's character. True kindred spirits will be called to each other by the magnetic fields of life. They will appreciate each other, and it will be a regret that they met too late.

63. 无论我们这一生，经历了多么美丽的情感，或者经历了多么悲惨的事情，可是我们到了中年或晚年的时候，才会发现，时间是多么的残酷！它，常常让我们心碎，让我们彻夜难眠，让我们坚定不移的确信永不更改的生活，变成一个个梦。今天才是现实的，过去的过去了，回不来！珍惜当下！

63. No matter how beautiful or tragic the emotions we have experienced in this life, it is only when we reach middle age or old age that we realize how cruel time can be! It often breaks our hearts, keeps us awake all night, and transforms our unwavering belief in unchanging lives into dreams. Today is the reality; the past has passed and cannot be brought back! Cherish the present!

64. 在最平凡的生活里，谦卑和努力。总有一天，你会站在最亮的地方，活成自己曾经渴望的模样。

64. In the most ordinary life, humility and hard work. Someday, you will stand in the brightest place, living out the image you once desired.

65. 世上一切事物都不可能一帆风顺，人生路上，首须看远，别让生活的压力挤走快乐，真正的痛苦，没有人能与你分担。成长就是这样，痛并快乐着。

65. It is impossible for everything in the world to go smoothly. On the journey of life, one must first look ahead and not let the pressures of life squeeze out happiness. Genuine pain cannot be shared by anyone. Growth is just like that, painful yet joyful.

66. 佛陀说：人的生命，只在呼吸之间。生命是如此的短暂，所以应该好好珍惜，思考人生的真正意义是什么。佛经上说：未断我爱，不入洁净。知道迷惑并不可怜，不知道迷惑才最可怜。

66. The Buddha said: A human life is but a breath. Life is so fleeting, therefore it should be cherished and deeply contemplated what the true meaning of life is. The Buddhist scriptures say: Without extinguishing the ego, one cannot enter purity. Knowing confusion is not pitiful, but not knowing confusion is the most pitiful.

67. 命运就是这么奇妙，你想留住的，总要到最后才明白他们仅仅是一场烟花；你没想过去争得的，却如空气般不经意被吸进肺里，等想要脱离却发现，你再也离不开他。

67. Fate is so wonderful; you only realize at the very end that what you wanted to hold on to was just a fireworks display. What you never thought to fight for, however, is absorbed into your lungs like air without a second thought. When you want to detach yourself, you find that you can no longer be separated from it.

68. 当初有些事，让我们刻骨铭心；曾经有些人，令我们难以释怀。我们一路走来，告别一段往事，走入下一段风景。路在延伸，人生没有不变的永恒。走远了再回头看，很多事已经模糊，很多人已经淡忘，只有很少的人与事与我们有关，牵连着我们的幸福与快乐，这才是我们真正要珍惜的地方。

68. There were some things in the past that left us with indelible memories; there were some people who left us with unresolvable emotions. As we journey along, we bid farewell to one chapter of our past and step into the next scene. The road extends endlessly, and there is no unchanging eternity in life. Looking back after we have traveled far, many things have become blurred, and many people have been forgotten. Only a few people and things are truly related to us, intertwined with our happiness and joy. This is where we truly need to cherish.

69. 能力不够时，不要争强好胜，更不要处处彰显自己。做自己力所能及的事，不为难自己。

69. Do not compete for dominance or constantly show off when you lack the ability. Do what you are capable of, and do not put yourself in difficult situations.

70. 7有一颗宽阔的心，你会健康一辈子。有一颗包容的心，你会快乐一辈子。有一颗善良的心，你会无悔一辈子。有一颗同情的心，你会平安一辈子。有一颗童年的心，你会年轻一辈子。

70. Having a broad heart will keep you healthy for a lifetime. Having a forgiving heart will bring you joy for a lifetime. Having a kind heart will leave you without regrets for a lifetime. Having a compassionate heart will ensure your peace for a lifetime. Having a childlike heart will keep you young for a lifetime.

71. 平淡的日子里，安静，简单，没有起伏，没有波澜。有的只是一种安宁，一种重复，一种寂静。无论时光如何流逝，无论季节怎样变化，一如平常，安然于自己的生活，忙碌于自己的工作。人的生活多是这样平淡，平凡，宁静！

71. In the days of monotony, there is tranquility, simplicity, no ups and downs, no waves. All that exists is a sense of peace, a repetition, and a silence. Regardless of how time passes by or how the seasons change, life goes on as usual, at ease in one's own life, busy with one's own work. This is how most people's lives are—boring, ordinary, and tranquil!

72. 如果你爱上了一个人，而他只会让你哭，那么你爱错了。如果你爱上一个人，而他只会给你钱，那么你爱错了。如果你爱上一个人，而他一次次欺骗你，那么你爱错了。其实好的恋爱很简单，他会让你欢笑，让你有安全感。时间久了你就明白，最好的男人，其实无非就是老实可靠。

72. If you fall in love with someone who only makes you cry, then you have chosen wrong. If you fall in love with someone who only gives you money, then you have chosen wrong. If you fall in love with someone who deceives you time and time again, then you have chosen wrong. In fact, a good relationship is quite simple; it will make you laugh and give you a sense of security. After some time, you will understand that the best man is actually just honest and reliable.

73. 生活不是战场，无须刀光剑影，于繁复中较量，于厮杀中追逐。别用固有的成见去评判某个人、臆断某件事，莫指望他人能设身处地理解你、包容你。把自己看得太重，不免患得患失；愿意承受亏欠，终会塑造并赢得大我。少有人长久呆在你的心中，不若打开心门，淡然看人进出，来了欢喜，去了随意。

73. Life is not a battlefield, and there is no need for the gleam of swords and the clash of spears. Compete amidst complexity and chase amidst battles. Do not judge a person based on preconceived notions or conjecture about something; do not expect others to understand you or tolerate you from their own perspective. Overvaluing yourself will inevitably lead to worries and losses. Be willing to bear shortcomings, and in the end, you will shape and win a greater self. Few people will stay in your heart for a long time, so why not open your heart, calmly watching others come and go, being joyful when they come and indifferent when they leave.

74. 9人生的路，走走停停是一种闲适，边走边看是一种优雅，边走边忘是一种豁达。没有不会谢的花，没有不会退的浪，没有不会暗的光，没有不会好的伤，没有不会停下来的绝望。每个人的生命中都会遇到遂自己所愿，珍惜每一份缘分，珍惜每一份相遇。既相遇，必相惜。

74. The journey of life, walking and stopping is a leisure, walking and looking is an elegance, walking and forgetting is a magnanimity. There is no flower that never wilts, no wave that never recedes, no light that never dims, no wound that never heals, no despair that never stops. In everyone's life, there will be things that go according to one's wishes. Cherish every bit of fate, cherish every encounter. Since we meet, we must cherish each other.