在浩瀚的数据海洋中，人应超越平台与位置，不将之视为能力或人脉。

In the vast ocean of data, one should transcend platforms and locations, not considering them as abilities or connections.

1. 《晚熟时代》指出，父母处心积虑的努力，并不一定有效果。

1. "The Late Maturity Age" points out that the painstaking efforts of parents do not necessarily yield results.

2. 以前的我穷困潦倒，一无所有，被人瞧不起，被人践踏，那种滋味，只有自己体验。

2. In the past, I was destitute, having nothing, looked down upon by others, trampled upon. The taste of it can only be experienced by oneself.

3. 上初中那会，我是住在大舅家，初中在他家吃了三年，高中吃了两年，后来他家搬到我家后，就没有在他家了。

3. During my middle school years, I lived with my elder uncle. I ate at his house for three years during middle school and for two years during high school. Later, after his family moved to my house, I no longer ate at his house.

4. 谁家都有老人，不知你是不是嫌弃你的爷爷奶奶思想落后，跟不上时代的步伐呢

4. Every family has elderly people. I don't know if you are嫌弃 your grandparents for being behind the times and not keeping up with the pace of the era.

5. 如果是因为对老人不孝被人看不起，那是活该。家庭要和睦，尊老爱幼，日子才能如芝麻开花——节节高。

5. If someone is looked down upon because they are disrespectful to the elderly, that's what they deserve. For a family to live harmoniously, showing respect to the elderly and loving the young, their days can bloom like sesame seeds — higher and higher each step.

6. 有些人的“瞧不起”人，实质他本身就是心地阴暗，思路狭窄有问题，他对不符合他心态的人和事本来就是格格不入的反感而产生排斥，他本来就不愿其他人优于他的存在而反感，要真被这类型人瞧得起，那你却是很有问题。

6. Some people are condescending towards others, but in essence, they themselves are dark-hearted, narrow-minded, and have issues with their thought processes. They naturally feel an aversion and resentment towards people and things that do not align with their mindset. They are inherently uncomfortable with others being better than them and harbor resentment. If you are someone who is looked down upon by such individuals, then there is a serious problem with you.

7. 这种迷失，让我们看不清自己。

7. This confusion makes us unable to see ourselves clearly.

8. 时间，是距离也是宽恕，让一些东西更清晰，让一些感情更明白，让一切都趋于平静。

8. Time is both distance and forgiveness, making some things clearer, some feelings more understandable, and everything tends to calm down.

9. 我个人觉得，靖子还可以有更成熟的表现：就是带着石神的情谊，美好的过完这一生，也不留下个爱情悲剧。

9. Personally, I think Jingzi can still show more maturity: that is, to live out this life beautifully with the affection of Ishigami, and not leave behind a tragic love story.

10. 不道德的事莫做，做了会低人三分。生活中的苦，家务事莫向人诉说，说了也是白说，会被别人当成笑料，等于自己给自己找不愉快。

10. Do not do anything immoral, as it will make you seem three levels lower in others' eyes. In life, do not complain to others about your hardships or domestic affairs; it's all in vain. It will be taken as a joke by others, which is equivalent to bringing oneself unnecessary distress.

11. 不把位子当能力，善待自己的位子，夯实做事的本领，才能立于不败之地。

11. Do not treat the position as ability; treat your position kindly, strengthen your ability to do things, and you can maintain an invincible position.

12. 他说很多父母在孩子参加工作领到第一份薪水后，就任由孩子自己闯荡并要求孩子“不要乱花钱”。这样的父母只会限制孩子参与社会的机会，最后变得愈来愈宅了。

12. He says that many parents, after their children receive their first salary for joining the workforce, let their children fend for themselves and urge them, "Don't spend your money recklessly." Such parents only limit their children's opportunities to participate in society, and in the end, their children become increasingly reclusive.

13. 整日里车间流水线轰鸣作响，充斥着汽油味，更可悲的是工厂里几乎没有年轻女孩，不少同事纷纷跳槽，只有强哥坚持学习生产线布局管理。

13. The workshop was constantly noisy with the sound of the assembly line, filled with the smell of gasoline, and even more tragically, there were hardly any young girls in the factory. Many colleagues jumped ship, but only Brother Qiang (a nickname) persevered in learning production line layout management.

14. 缪贤说：当时，我陪同赵王，与燕王在边境相会。燕王私底下握着我的手，表示愿意和我结交。他很欣赏我。

14. Miao Xian said: At that time, I accompanied the King of Zhao, and met the King of Yan at the border. The King of Yan privately held my hand, expressing his willingness to befriend me. He highly appreciated me.

15. 这个下岗大姐的焦虑是事实，大家都理解。但是36岁就没有未来了吗？显然不是。

15. The anxiety of this laid-off sister is a fact, which everyone understands. But does one not have a future at the age of 36? Clearly not.

16. 在这光怪陆离的人世间，不为乱花迷眼，不为众言惑心，夯实和精进自己，终将邂逅想要的美好。

16. In this world full of wonders and oddities, do not let yourself be distracted by the chaotic flowers, nor be confused by the multitude of opinions. By solidifying and refining yourself, you will eventually encounter the beauty you desire.

17. 本以为人心凉薄，原来是我们把伤痛看的太重。

17. I thought people were heartless, but it turns out that we've taken our pain too seriously.

18. 这个话题曾引起广大的争议，甚至遭到了猛烈攻击。许多人以父母自居，断章取义地认为戴胜益是鼓励孩子依赖。

18. This topic has caused widespread controversy and even fierce attacks. Many people claim the role of parents and take things out of context to think that Tai Shengyi is encouraging children to rely on others.

19. 答案肯定是有，但是关系不大。年龄上的“成年”并不代表心智上的“成熟”。真正的成熟与年龄无关，跟一个人的经历、阅历有关，毕竟有些人只长年龄，不长脑子。

19. The answer is definitely yes, but it's not that significant. Being "adult" in terms of age does not necessarily mean being "mature" in terms of mind. True maturity has nothing to do with age; it is related to a person's experiences and insights. After all, some people may grow older but not wiser.

20. “最开始我也剩不下钱，甚至还向家里要钱。我把钱都花在了学习英语和请老师傅吃饭上。”

20. "At first, I couldn't save any money either, and I even had to borrow money from my family. I spent all the money on learning English and treating the master craftsmen to meals."

21. 结果，尝到的是人情冷暖，世态炎凉。

21. As a result, one experiences the varying temperatures of human feelings and the coldness of the world.

22. 把眼睛看向自己，内观自省，给自己正确的定位。

22. Turn your gaze inward, introspect, and position yourself correctly.

23. 时代已经发生了巨变，年轻人需要更多的时间去学习知识，学习技术，学习社交，现在的年轻人比任何一代人的压力都大，成长需要更多的时间，对年轻人的教育时间也就要更长。父母们更应该理解并科学地帮助孩子成长。

接受 23. Times have changed dramatically, and young people need more time to learn knowledge, learn skills, and learn social interactions. The pressure on today's young people is greater than that on any previous generation, and growth requires more time, so the education time for young people should also be longer. Parents should understand and scientifically help their children grow up.

24. 爸妈就说，别人怎么懂事，成绩怎么好，都是一起交高费的，别人去交的时候还哭了起来。

24. Mom and dad said, "Others may be responsible and have good grades, but it's all because they paid a high fee together. When they went to pay, they even cried."

25. 大姐说36岁就学不了东西，这个逻辑肯定是不对。但是36岁比起26岁、16岁的学习能力，确实是差了很多。

25. The elder sister said that one can't learn anything at the age of 36, and this logic is definitely incorrect. However, compared to the learning ability at the ages of 26 and 16, the ability at 36 is indeed much poorer.

26. 在这时候，往往孩子对自己的责任心降低了，平等独立的尊严降低了，自然也就晚熟了。

26. At this time, children often tend to reduce their sense of responsibility towards themselves, the dignity of equality and independence diminishes, and naturally, they become late bloomers.

27. 什么是成熟？你喜欢的东西依然喜欢，但可以不拥有，你害怕的东西依旧害怕，但依旧去面对。

27. What is maturity? You still like what you like, but you can choose not to possess it. You still fear what you fear, but you still face it.

28. 王浩威说：过度保护会剥夺了孩子的成长，如果父母无止境地帮忙孩子挡住一切应有的处罚或应付的代价，孩子就不会控制自己的欲望。

28. Wang Haowei said: Overprotection can剥夺 (deprive) children of their growth. If parents endlessly help their children to shield all the necessary punishments or costs they should face, the children will not be able to control their desires.

29. 台积电（世界500强）董事长张忠谋同意戴胜益的看法。张忠谋说，如果月薪不多，要存钱也存不了多少，可以投资自己，只是投资自己的方法有很多，比如教育性的旅游，经营人脉等。

29. TSMC (one of the Fortune Global 500) Chairman Morris Chang agrees with Tai Sheng-yi's view. Morris Chang said that if the monthly salary is not high, it is not possible to save much money, but one can invest in oneself. However, there are many ways to invest in oneself, such as educational travel and building a network of contacts.

30. 生活随时都会给你使绊子，但是真正成熟的人，在被绊倒的时候不会哭爹喊娘，也不会骂娘喊疼，只会默默地站起来，拍拍身上的尘土继续赶路。

30. Life will always throw you curveballs, but a truly mature person will not cry for help or curse in pain when they fall; instead, they will silently get up, dust themselves off, and continue on their journey.

31. 梭罗也曾陶醉于觥筹交错的名利场，在高朋满座的场合把酒言欢，虚与委蛇。然后，得到的是更大的空虚和寂寞。

31. Thoreau was also once immersed in the world of fame and fortune, indulging in the revelry of a banquet with many esteemed guests, feasting and carousing, playing host. However, what he gained was greater emptiness and loneliness.

32. 儿子谈恋爱还依靠妈妈出马？做妈妈的来帮儿子的恋爱奔波出力？这看似电视剧般的剧情，却真实发生在我们生活中的现实世界里。

32. Is it possible that a son is still relying on his mother to help him with his love life? Is the mother coming to help her son work hard in his pursuit of love? This seems like a plot from a TV drama, but it is a reality that actually happens in our everyday lives.

33. 从那时起，他们发觉原来自己是有人关心的，做起事来也就更在乎别人的感受，那位教官改变了他们的人生观。

33. From then on, they realized that they were cared for, and became more concerned about others' feelings in their actions. That instructor changed their outlook on life.

34. 差点花光积蓄，费尽心机，换来的，是王太太设计的一场骗局。

34. She nearly spent all her savings and went to great lengths, only to find herself the victim of a fraud designed by Mrs. Wang.

35. 那就改变自己吧。去努力工作，努力挣钱，努力展现自己的价值，努力提升家庭生活质量。等你勤奋了，日子过好了，别人就会改变看法。

35. Then change yourself. Work hard, earn money hard, strive to show your value, and strive to improve the quality of life in your family. Once you become diligent and your life improves, others will change their opinions of you.

36. 我不会瞧不起任何人，我也不会在人背后笑话谁，当然我也不会去巴结谁。这是我做人的原则。

36. I will not look down upon anyone, nor will I laugh at anyone behind their back, of course, I will not flatter anyone either. This is my principle in life.

37. 做为一个人，首先要有良好的品质，要有一定的文化水平和修养，使自已的内心强大起来。人生不易，不管你是穷人也好还是富人也好，都有不为人知的心酸与无奈，所以不要瞧不起别人，人与人之间要多一份理解与包容，做一个堂堂正正的人。

37. As a person, one must first possess good qualities, have a certain level of cultural knowledge and修养, and strengthen one's inner self. Life is not easy, and whether you are poor or rich, there are heartaches and helplessness that are not known to others. Therefore, do not look down upon others. There should be more understanding and tolerance among people, and be a dignified and upright individual.

38. 每个人都是一个独特的个体，每个人的经历不一样，成长环境不一样，价值观不一样，所以我们在做事和思考问题的时候，必然会存在一些差异性。在很多情况之下，我们和别人之间必然会因为一些事情而无法达成共识，所以有的时候，别人在某些问题上瞧不起你，这很正常。

38. Everyone is a unique individual with different experiences, different growth environments, and different values. Therefore, when we act and think about issues, there will inevitably be some differences. In many situations, we will inevitably be unable to reach a consensus with others due to certain matters. So, it is very normal for others to look down on you on some issues.

39. 一生中你唯一需要回头的时候，是为了看自己到底走了多远。

39. The only time in your life when you need to look back is to see how far you have come.

40. 于是我们也经常会从父母的口中听到这样的话：

40. Therefore, we often hear such words from our parents:

41. 孩子进入好的学校，就是未来成功的保证。然而，真的是这样吗？

41. Entering a good school is a guarantee of future success for children. However, is that really true?

42. 与之相比，安逸度日似乎是一个更轻松、更让人心动的选择，但同时，它也是放弃自我掌控能力的开始。

42. Compared to that, leading a life of ease seems to be a more relaxed and more appealing choice, but at the same time, it is also the beginning of giving up one's self-control ability.

43. 当父母缺乏信任孩子的能力，只认为自己是正确的，并用这样的心态，把枷锁当爱，结果往往对孩子的成长造成相当大的伤害。所以王浩威说，父母应该像一座山。

43. When parents lack trust in their children's abilities, only believe they are right, and with such a mindset, treat束缚 as love, the result is often quite harmful to the child's growth. Therefore, Wang Hao Wei says, parents should be like a mountain.

44. 从小爷爷奶奶的关爱，我是没有感受到。好在，还有个外婆。

44. Since I was little, I have not felt the love of my grandparents. Fortunately, there was still my grandmother.

45. 成熟是一种豁达和宽容，知道对事不对人，懂得原谅别人的过错，也知道正视自己的问题。

45. Maturity is an openness and tolerance, knowing that it is the matter rather than the person that matters, understanding the need to forgive others' mistakes, and also knowing how to face one's own problems.

46. 那个时候比起很受伤的，自己满满的不服。有的时候，还拿自己父母和别人父母比。

46. At that time, I was more upset with myself than with others. Sometimes, I even compared my parents with others'.

47. 于是我们看到了越来越多“拒绝长大”的孩子，他们对社会责任逃避，并且情感和经济都无法独立。

47. As a result, we have been witnessing an increasing number of children who "refuse to grow up," evading social responsibilities and struggling to become emotionally and financially independent.

48. 对看不起我们的人，我们不交往，敬而远之吧。把他们当空气，他们说的话只当听不见，莫去计较他们的眼光，你在意了，就上当了，你会过得很不开心，等于给自己添堵。

48. For those who look down on us, we do not engage in interaction and keep our distance. Treat them as air, and let their words go unheard. Do not worry about their opinions. If you do, you'll be taken in. It will make you unhappy, and it's equivalent to adding to your own trouble.

49. 在工作中有师傅和领导帮助的年轻人，就和上学时有老师教的学生一样，能力飞速进步。在这个关键时候，人和人的差距就慢慢表现出来了。

49. Young people who are assisted by mentors and leaders at work progress rapidly in their abilities, just like students who are taught by teachers at school. At this critical moment, the differences between individuals slowly become apparent.

50. 每每听到这样的话，我都和爸妈争论为自己辩解这样那样。初中三年，我就是这样被比过来的，一路受伤的也是我，这三年我挺自卑的。初中害怕说话，和女生说话都是脸红的，遇见老师躲得远远的。

50. Whenever I hear such things, I always argue with my parents to defend myself. During my three years of junior high school, I was constantly compared and always got hurt. I was very self-conscious during these three years. I was afraid to speak in junior high, my face would turn red when talking to girls, and I would try to stay far away from teachers.

51. “被别人瞧不起该怎么办？”首先你要自问自检自思，你的言行是否很小气和阴狠，对别人己造成自身形象的丑陋和自己的人格尊严己严重损坏和贬损？如没有或是只有极个别人对待你如此，那根本就无必要自屈自伤，用自己的人格行为来让心地不阳光者产生表面上看是“瞧不起”，实质是嫉妒心。

51. "What should one do when being looked down upon by others?" First, you should ask yourself and introspect, whether your words and actions are trivial and sinister, causing others to see you in an ugly light and severely damaging or belittling your dignity and personality. If no one does this to you or only a very few do, then there is no need to humble yourself or hurt yourself. Use your own character and actions to make those with unwholesome hearts feel a surface-level 'look down upon,' which is actually jealousy in essence.

52. 孩子能做的事情，尽量让孩子去做，让孩子去承担结果。孩子就会对自己的行为负责，培养责任心。

52. Encourage children to do as much as possible for themselves and to take responsibility for the outcomes. This will foster a sense of accountability and responsibility in them.

53. 三年后，强哥在这家企业里学得很出色，作者再见他时，他已经是富士康一个小领导，拿着30多万的年薪。对比一下他跳槽的几个同事，他们依然还在找工作中。

53. Three years later, Qiangge had done very well in that company. When the author met him again, he had already become a small leader at Foxconn, earning a salary of over 300,000 yuan. Compared to the colleagues who had switched jobs with him, they were still looking for work.

54. 强大的力量如果没有方向和着力点，那又怎么能击破障碍。

54. Without direction and a focal point, how can a powerful force break through obstacles?

55. 远大的目标非常重要，一定要有成功的企图心，而且越大越好。

55. Having grand goals is very important, and there must be a desire for success, and the bigger the better.

56. 她离开了“铁饭碗”就惊慌失措，不知道能去依赖谁。她可能根本没有想过要依靠自己的能力去面对世界。

56. She was panic-stricken after leaving the "iron rice bowl," not knowing whom to depend on. She might not have even thought about relying on her own abilities to face the world.

57. 为什么你要让人看不起，他看的起看不起你为什么要那么在意，在当今的 社会 没有必要活在别人的眼睛里。他在看的起你他也不给你开工资吧。

57. Why do you let people look down on you? If he respects you or doesn't, why should you care so much? In today's society, there's no need to live for others' eyes. If he respects you, he's not going to pay you a salary either.

58. 人心难测，刚认识的时候，你不说话我都觉得你在笑。时间长了，一转身，你就从背后给我一刀。你还真是善良。

58. People's hearts are hard to fathom. When we just met, I felt like you were smiling even if you didn't say a word. But as time went by, when I turned around, you gave me a stab from behind. You really are kind.

59. 有时我们占据了好的平台，享受着平台的优势和荣誉。渐渐地，就会觉得了不起的是自己，甚至平台也是自己贡献的硕果。

59. Sometimes we occupy a good platform, enjoying the advantages and honors it brings. Gradually, we begin to think that it is ourselves who are remarkable, and even that the platform itself is the fruit of our contributions.

60. 在这个世界上不要用眼睛去看容易走眼。更不要用耳朵去听因为都是谎言。

60. In this world, do not use your eyes to see, as they can easily be deceived. And even more so, do not use your ears to listen, for everything you hear is a lie.

61. 对于这些人来说，下岗恰恰是创业的开始，是自我实现价值的开始。

61. For these people, being laid off is actually the beginning of entrepreneurship, the beginning of realizing their self-worth.

62. 一位阿里巴巴的资深管理人辞职，到相对低级的公司应聘。结果，对方根本就不屑一顾。他蓦然发现，自己原来没有想象中的那么优秀。

62. A senior manager from Alibaba resigned and applied for a position at a relatively lower-level company. However, the recipient company showed no interest at all. He suddenly realized that he was not as outstanding as he had imagined.

63. 即使父母尽心尽力的安排，都比不上孩子自己的某些能力有用。但是在父母们看来，成功就是意味着要有好成绩，好学历，以及好人脉。

63. Even with the utmost effort from parents in arranging everything, it is still not as useful as some of the child's own abilities. However, in the eyes of parents, success means having good grades, a good education, and good social connections.

64. 此前自己光芒耀眼，受人抬举。本质原因，是阿里巴巴的平台太璀璨。

64. Previously, I shone brightly and was held in high regard. The fundamental reason is that the Alibaba platform is too dazzling.

65. 我记得有几次感冒了，还拿钱给我抓了药，然后监督我给吃完。有次过年，没有收入来源的外婆还给了我们三姊妹每个一百元。

65. I remember having a cold a few times, and you even gave me money to buy medicine and supervised me to take it all. One year during the Spring Festival, my grandmother, who had no source of income, still gave each of us sisters one hundred yuan.

66. 五十岁后创业。比如48岁发明方便面的安腾百福。比如73岁承包果园种橙子的褚时健。

66. Starting a business after the age of 50. For example, Ando Shigefusa, who invented instant noodles at the age of 48. Or褚时健, who managed orchards and grew oranges at the age of 73.

67. 不准早恋、不准游戏、那个同学成绩不好，你不能和他做朋友……

67. No early dating, no gaming, that classmate has poor grades, you can't be friends with him...

68. 成熟就是像水稻一样，学会弯腰了。成熟就是你越来越能接受现实，而不是越来越现实。如果你越来越冷漠，你以为你成长了，但其实你没有。真正的成长应该是变得温柔，对全世界都温柔。

68. Maturity is like rice, learning to bow down. Maturity is about increasingly accepting reality, not increasingly becoming realistic. If you become more indifferent, you may think you have grown up, but in fact, you haven't. True growth should be about becoming gentler, being gentle to the whole world.

69. 成熟意味着看到差异，他又意识到差异。 ————特德·蒋

69. Maturity means seeing differences, and he is also aware of the differences. ————Ted蒋

70. 卖力演奏数个小时，观众寥寥。

70. Playing with great effort for several hours, the audience was sparse.

71. 无数的人联系梭罗，愿意给他提供各种各样的帮助，渴望于他结识。

71. Countless people contacted Thoreau, willing to offer him a variety of assistance and eager to get to know him.

72. 不把圈子当人脉，正视自己，努力提升价值，才是人生的重要主题。

72. Not treating circles as connections, facing oneself, and striving to enhance one's value is the important theme of life.

73. 很多人因为害怕孤独，混迹于各种各样的圈子，想要结识形形色色的人。为此，不惜委曲求全，阿谀讨好。

73. Many people, fearing loneliness, mingle in various circles and seek to make friends with people of all sorts. For this purpose, they are willing to bend over backwards, flatter and please others.

74. 有一天你会明白，善良比聪明更难。聪明是一种天赋，而善良是一种选择。

74. One day, you will understand that kindness is harder than being smart. Intelligence is a gift, but kindness is a choice.