1. 尊重别人，是优秀的人从小就严格自律，一直在做的该做的事。做这样的事，早已成为一种习惯，成为一种难能可贵的习惯，并且，这种习惯会伴随一生。

1. Respecting others is something that outstanding individuals strictly discipline themselves to do from a young age, and it is something they have been consistently doing. Doing such things has long become a habit, a rare and valuable habit, and this habit will accompany them throughout their lives.

2. 弟弟动心了，辞职远行，努力逐梦。

2. The younger brother was smitten and resigned to embark on a distant journey, striving to chase his dreams.

3. 管好自己的嘴巴，不用自己的一孔之见如伤害别人，是一种修养，更是处世的智慧。

3. Keeping one's mouth shut and not using one's own narrow-minded views to harm others is a kind of修养, and more importantly, a wisdom in dealing with the world.

4. 每个人都渴望被别人认可和尊重，优秀的人同样如此。

4. Everyone yearns for recognition and respect from others, and the outstanding people are no exception.

5. 在修炼的路上，体会人情冷暖，世态炎凉，懂得每个人都很不易，与人相处自己就像一面镜子，你怎样对别人，别人就会怎样对你，想要得到别人的尊重，首先要学会尊重别人，想要别人怎么待你，你就应该怎么对待别人。给予别人尊重，别人才会给你自己尊重。

5. On the path of cultivation, experience the warmth and coldness of human feelings, the vicissitudes of the world, and understand that everyone is not easy. When interacting with others, you are like a mirror; how you treat others, others will treat you in return. If you want to be respected by others, you first need to learn to respect others. If you want others to treat you a certain way, you should treat others in the same manner. By respecting others, you will also receive respect in return.

6. 每个人都有自己的定数和命运，我们无法改变他人，但我们要不断纠正自己，改善自己。

6. Everyone has their own constants and destiny, we cannot change others, but we should continuously correct ourselves and improve ourselves.

7. 董宇辉非常愧疚地对弟弟说：“对不起，我不该指导你的人生。”

7. Dong Yuhui spoke with deep regret to his younger brother, saying, "I'm sorry, I shouldn't have guided your life."

8. 能坚持做一件事情，并且，最终成为一种伴随一生的良好习惯，这是一般的人绝对不可能做到的事。这就是自律能力和执行能力共同作用所形成的令人愕然的非凡力量的最好的证明。

8. To consistently pursue a single endeavor and eventually transform it into a lifelong good habit is something that is absolutely impossible for an ordinary person to achieve. This is the best proof of the extraordinary power that arises from the combined actions of self-discipline and execution abilities.

9. 人就是这样，你对自己不满意的人，开喷，怒骂……在别人眼中，你和你怒骂的人其实是一类人……

9. It's just like this: when you're dissatisfied with someone, you start to criticize and骂 them... In others' eyes, you and the person you're criticizing are actually the same kind of people...

10. 尊重从来都是相互的，即使别人先尊重你，那也只是别人的品格，并不代表你可以不用尊重别人。

10. Respect is always mutual; even if others show respect to you first, it only represents their character, not that you can stop showing respect to others.

11. 同样的道理，优秀的人总是能看到别人身上的自己。当自己尊重别人的一言一行，别人也会尊重自己善言善语。

11. Similarly, outstanding individuals always see themselves in others. When one respects others in every word and action, others will also respect one's kind words and pleasant demeanor.

12. 戴建业一次在节目中哽咽道：他们说我没有风骨，殊不知，我妻子得了肺癌，每个月都要吃一盒药，这盒药的价格是5.1万元。有一次她弄丢一颗药，翻箱倒柜找了一整天，急得泪流满面。

12. Dai Jianye once choked up on a program and said, "They say I lack backbone, but they don't know that my wife has lung cancer and she has to take one box of medicine every month, which costs 51,000 yuan. Once she lost a pill, she searched frantically through her drawers and cabinets for a whole day, tears streaming down her face in distress."

13. 子贡不服，但不得不尊重老师的裁决。

13. Zi Gong was not convinced, but had to respect his teacher's decision.

14. 优秀的人，是懂得尊重别人的人。我所认识的优秀的人，无论是生活境遇正在不断改善的，无论是已经有所作为的，也无论是已经成为富豪的，无一例外，都是懂得怎样去尊重别人的人。

14. Excellent people are those who know how to respect others. Among the excellent people I have known, whether their living conditions are continuously improving, whether they have already achieved something, or whether they have become wealthy, without exception, they all know how to show respect to others.

15. 杨绛先生说过一段话：

15. Mr. Yang Jiang once said:

16. 子贡理直气壮地看着孔子，希望老师为自己主持公道。然而孔子却说，一年确实只有三季，子贡你错了，还不快向对方赔礼。

16. Zi Gong looked at Confucius with confidence and courage, hoping his teacher would defend him. However, Confucius said, "Indeed, there are only three seasons in a year, Zi Gong, you are wrong. Hurry up and apologize to the other party."

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18. 优秀的人，是深悉“尊重别人就是尊重自己”的道理的人，是深悉尊重别人就能在最需要帮助时得到更多人帮助的道理的人，是深悉尊重别人能给自己的未来带来不可估量的好处和利益的道理的人。

18. Excellent people are those who deeply understand the truth that "to respect others is to respect oneself," those who deeply understand that respecting others can lead to more help from others when they most need it, and those who deeply understand that respecting others can bring immeasurable benefits and advantages to their own future.

19. 尊重别人，是优秀的人所具有的一种高贵的品质，也是优秀的人所具有的一种极其良好的习惯。

19. Respecting others is a noble quality possessed by outstanding individuals, and it is also an extremely good habit that they have.

20. “我在外面没有挣到钱，连养活自己都成问题。天天在工厂打螺丝，有什么希望。”

20. "I haven't earned any money outside, and it's even a problem to support myself. Every day, I'm just screwing in the factory, what hope is there?"

21. 一个人最好的修养，是尊重他人，尊重的内涵，平等，价值，人格，修养。

21. The best修养 for a person is to respect others. The connotation of respect includes equality, value, personality, and修养.

22. 不要窥探别人的窗，不要去指点别人的人生。让别人成为别人，让自己成为自己，让花成为花，让树成为树，这样才是世界应有的样子。

22. Do not peep through others' windows, do not go around pointing fingers at others' lives. Let others be others, let yourself be yourself, let flowers be flowers, and let trees be trees. This is the true state of the world.

23. “认知不在一个高度上，没必要互相征服。成年人的世界，只筛选，不教育；只选择，不改变。每个人的一生，都在为自己的认知买单…”

23. "Since cognition is not on the same level, there is no need to conquer each other. In the world of adults, there is only selection, not education; only choice, not change. Each person's life is paying for their own cognition..."

24. 这样的人，绝对不是一般的人。一般的人不会有好修养，也不会有高素质。修养好，素质高，是优秀的人独有的名片。这张名片，能让他们在人生的道路上，顺利前行；能让他们的人生之路越走越宽广，越走越平坦。

24. Such a person is certainly not an ordinary one. Ordinary people do not possess good修养 or high-quality attributes. Good修养 and high-quality attributes are the exclusive calling cards of outstanding individuals. This calling card enables them to smoothly advance on their path in life; it allows their path in life to become wider and smoother as they journey forward.

25. 尊重两个字看似轻于鸿毛，实则重于泰山。它如生之空气，是与人交往之融洽之道。

25. The word "respect" may seem lighter than a feather, but in fact, it is heavier than Mount Tai. It is like the air of life, the way to harmony in interpersonal relationships.

26. 宋代 周敦颐在著名的《爱莲说》中写道：“予独爱莲之出淤泥而不染，濯清涟而不妖，中通外直，不蔓不枝，香远益清，亭亭净植，可远观而不可亵玩焉。”

26. In the famous essay "On the Lotus," written by Zhou Dunyi of the Song Dynasty, it is stated: "I alone love the lotus for its ability to emerge from the mire unsoiled, to be washed in clear water without becoming showy, its stem straight and central, without tendrils or branches, its fragrance spreading far and making it all the more pure, and its dignified and clean growth, which can be admired from a distance but not trifled with."

27. 真正优秀的人，都懂得“己所不欲勿施于人”！

27. A truly excellent person knows the principle, "Do not do to others what you would not have them do to you!"

28. 走红的他四处办讲座，录视频，接节目，频繁出现在大众视野。

28. Gaining popularity, he goes around giving lectures, recording videos, accepting shows, and frequently appears in the public eye.

29. 华中师范大学教授戴建业，曾因幽默风趣的讲课方式爆红网络，很受追捧。

29. Professor Dai Jianye from Central China Normal University, once became extremely popular on the internet due to his humorous and engaging teaching style, attracting a lot of attention and admiration.

30. 爱，就是让他落落大方地做自己。而不是尝试把他变成你的模样，你要是真觉得为他担心，那你就多挣点，给他分一些，而不是强迫他成为你。

30. Love means letting him be himself without restraint. It's not about trying to make him into your own image. If you truly worry about him, then earn more and share some with him, instead of forcing him to become you.

31. 由物及人，尊重是优秀者的美德之一，就像优秀者之所以成为优秀者的所有美德一样，必须懂得尊重，近而言之尊重父母，尊重师长，尊重自己的所有亲人；远而言之，尊敬 社会 上所有的人，包括那些陌生人；再远而言之，尊重所有的生命，包括每一朵花。

31. From things to people, respect is one of the virtues of the outstanding, just as all the virtues that make the outstanding become outstanding must be understood as such. To put it briefly, respect one's parents, respect one's teachers and elders, respect all one's relatives; to put it more broadly, respect all people in society, including those strangers; and even more broadly, respect all forms of life, including every flower.

32. 懂得尊重的人，总是让人舒适温暖，如闻淡淡幽兰，如睹春日青山。

32. People who know how to respect others are always comfortable and warm, like smelling a faint orchid or seeing the green mountains in spring.

33. 现实生活中，优秀的人不仅仅是金钱的多少来衡量的，优秀的人往往都是从小受到良好文化熏陶，长大后，大多都是接受高等教育过的杰出人物。

33. In real life, the excellence of a person is not solely measured by the amount of money they possess. Outstanding individuals are often those who have been well-cultivated in a good cultural environment since childhood, and as they grow up, the majority of them are distinguished individuals who have received higher education.

34. 就像电视剧里面讲的“我不同意你的观点，但我会誓死捍卫你说话的权利”。不像网络上的一些喷子，看到自己不顺眼的就胡乱攻击，甚至辱骂别人。这样的人恰恰暴露了自己的无知和低素质。不懂得尊重别人，那他也绝不会不会获得别人的尊重。再比如美国一些政客，对我国恶意诽谤，到处挑拨，充分暴露出他们的无赖嘴脸，其行为真是令人不齿！

34. As the saying goes in TV series, "I may not agree with your viewpoint, but I will die to defend your right to speak." Unlike some internet trolls who make random attacks or even curse others when they see something they don't like, such people actually expose their ignorance and lack of素质. If they don't know how to respect others, they will never receive respect from others either. For example, some American politicians who maliciously defame us and incite trouble everywhere, fully exposing their cunning and unscrupulous nature, their behavior is truly despicable!

35. 孔子的学生子贡正在庭前扫地，这时一个绿衣服的人径直闯入。

35. Confucius' student, Zigong, was sweeping the courtyard when a person dressed in green directly walked in.

36. 不与杠精争论，就减少了内耗，把更多的时间、精力，集中在想做的事情上，才是处世的智慧。

36. Not arguing with quarrelsome people reduces internal friction, and focusing more time and energy on what you want to do is the wisdom of dealing with the world.

37. 谦卑是优秀的人的其中一个条件，之所以优秀，就是自信，越是自信的人越不需要别人怜悯。之所以优秀就是知道自身的素质的重要，高素质的人懂得尊重身边的一切、感恩身边的一切，因为一切得到都是从给予开始的

37. Humility is one of the qualities of an outstanding person. The reason for their excellence is confidence; the more confident a person is, the less they need others' pity. The reason for their excellence is the understanding of the importance of one's own qualities; high-quality individuals know how to respect and be grateful for everything around them, because everything they have received starts from giving.

38. 懂得尊重别人的人，朋友多，路子广，在追逐梦想的路上，凭借自己的能力和朋友们的大力支持，会少走很多弯路，能比较顺利地闯过急流险滩和惊涛骇浪，比一般的人更容易成就事业。

38. People who know how to respect others have many friends and wide avenues. On the path to chasing their dreams, with their own abilities and the strong support of their friends, they will take fewer detours, be able to more smoothly navigate through rapids and dangerous shoals, and face the tumultuous waves, making it easier for them to achieve success in their careers than the average person.

39. 努力在 社会 中打拼的人，想要实现自己的价值目标，不光是取得个人生存，发展的所需。更是要得到别人应有的尊重。

39. Those who strive to make a living in society want to achieve their own value goals, not only to secure their personal survival and development needs, but also to gain the respect that they deserve from others.

40. 优秀的人之所以优秀，肯定是在某一领悟取得了不起的成就，或者是，取得非常成功的事业，所以，特别希望别人的认可和接受。

40. The reason why outstanding people are outstanding is that they have achieved remarkable accomplishments in a certain field, or have achieved a very successful career, so they particularly hope for others' recognition and acceptance.

41. 但是不管那个领域你越精通越会发现这个领域并不是那么简单。学问越大，越知道事情要考虑的方面越复杂，也就有了敬畏心，一旦有了敬畏心自然就不会轻视任何一个人。

对41. But no matter the field, the more proficient you become, the more you will find that the field is not as simple as you thought. The more knowledge you have, the more complex you realize the aspects of things to consider are, and thus you develop a sense of awe. Once you have a sense of awe, you naturally won't look down on anyone.

42. 优秀的人懂得发现别人身上的优点，然后，把这些别人的优点吸收为自己所用，令自己会更加的优秀。

42. Outstanding individuals know how to discover the strengths in others, and then absorb these strengths into themselves to become even more excellent.

43. 赢得争论的唯一方式，就是避免争论。

43. The only way to win an argument is to avoid it.

44. 因为是优秀的人只看别人的优点，取长补短，所以，优秀的人遇见优秀的人，人无完人，只不过他们追求思维，格局，不同!他们把大巴的时间花费在事业上，鸡毛蒜皮事情，不纠缠那么多，显得自己逐渐优秀!其实人是没有完整的，没有刻意去寻找对方不优秀的地方。

44. Because outstanding people only see the merits of others, taking the good to complement the bad, so when outstanding people meet outstanding people, no one is perfect, but they pursue different aspects such as thinking and scope! They spend their time on buses on their careers, not getting entangled in trivial matters, and gradually appear more outstanding! In fact, people are not perfect, and they do not deliberately look for the shortcomings of others.

45. 他问子贡，一年有几个季节。

45. He asked Zigong, "How many seasons are there in a year?"

46. 改变自己是神，改变别人是神经病。

46. Changing yourself is divine, changing others is madness.

47. “不要贸然评价我，你只知道我的名字，却不知道我的故事。你只听闻我做了什么，却不知道我经历过什么。”

47. "Do not rashly judge me, for you only know my name but not my story. You only hear about what I have done, but not what I have experienced."

48. 理所当然和人相处的时候，总会虚心听取别人的意见，尊重他人的态度，谦虚聆听别人不同的声音。

48. Of course, when interacting with others, it is always necessary to humbly listen to their opinions, respect their attitudes, and modestly listen to the different voices of others.

49. 尊重是一种温暖的距离，没有伤害，只有感动。

49. Respect is a warm distance, with no harm, only emotion.

50. “苏格拉底说他自己一无所知，我的智慧远不及苏格拉底，所以我绝不评价任何人，只专注做好自己的事。事实证明，此举行之有效。”

50. "Socrates said that he knew nothing, and my wisdom is far inferior to Socrates, so I never judge anyone else; I only focus on doing my own things. As it turns out, this approach has been effective."

51. 记得有个故事，一个人骂一个大师，说你在我眼里就是狗屎，那个大师却说，你在我眼里却是鲜花……最后有人问大师，为什么面对骂你的人如此回答，大师说，“佛曰，你看别人是狗屎，自己亦是狗屎，你看别人是鲜花，自己亦是鲜花”……

51. There is a story about a person who cursed a master, saying that in his eyes, the master was just dung. But the master replied that in his eyes, the person was a flower... Later, someone asked the master why he responded to the curses in such a way, and the master said, "As the Buddha said, if you see others as dung, then you yourself are dung. If you see others as flowers, then you yourself are flowers..."

52. 因为惜福，所以我们懂得尊重每一件事物，尊重一朵花的恣意开放，尊重每一个生命的独立与自由！因为惜福，所以我们知人与物，人与人，都是在一个特定的时空里相遇，一切皆是缘，惜缘就是惜福！所谓当下，就是指现在正在做的事，待的地方，周围的人！活在当下就是要把关注的焦点集中在这些人，事，物上面，全心全意认真去接纳，品味，投入和体验这一切！人生最值得珍视的是什么？是不可追回的过去吗？是遥不可及的未来吗？其实都不是，人生最值得珍视的就是当下的实在！把不可得的过去心去掉，把尚未得的未来心挡住，只留现在心，当下即是！首先要先认清自己的心，才好修道！自性本身，或真如本身是活泼的，只能形容是如如不动，认识自己的当下心就是要求抓住那活泼的自在，守住了它就守住了真如！

52. Because of gratitude, we understand the importance of respecting every thing, respecting the arbitrary blooming of a flower, respecting the independence and freedom of every life! Because of gratitude, we know that people and things, people with people, all meet in a specific time and space, everything is a cause and effect, cherishing causes is cherishing blessings! So what is the present moment? It refers to what we are doing now, where we are, and the people around us! Living in the present moment is to focus our attention on these people, things, and focus on wholeheartedly accepting, appreciating, engaging, and experiencing everything! What is the most valuable in life? Is it the irretrievable past? Is it the distant future? In fact, neither is it; the most valuable in life is the reality of the present! Get rid of the past heart that cannot be obtained, block the future heart that has not been obtained, and only keep the present heart, the present moment is the essence! Firstly, we must recognize our own heart, then we can cultivate the path! The nature itself, or the true nature itself, is lively, and can only be described as unchanging. Recognizing our present heart is to grasp that lively freedom, and by holding onto it, we hold onto the true nature!

53. “人家挂着窗帘呢，千万别去窥望；宁可自己也挂上一个，华丽的也好，朴素的也好，如果你不屑挂，或懒得挂，不妨就敞着个赤裸裸的窗口，不过，你总得尊重别人家的窗帘。”

53. "They have their curtains drawn, so never try to peep through; rather, hang some yourself, whether they are ornate or plain. If you disdain to hang them or are too lazy to do so, then leave your windows bare, but in any case, you must respect the curtains of others' homes."

54. 总之。孟子说过：爱人者，人恒爱之；敬人者，人恒敬之。 优秀的人知道尊重他人，就是尊重自己，把他人当做自己的镜子，能够发现自己身上的优点发扬；看到自己的缺点纠正，能促使自己更加的优秀起来。

54. In summary, Mencius once said: "He who loves others will be loved by others; he who respects others will be respected by others." Outstanding individuals know that respecting others is respecting oneself. They treat others as a mirror to themselves, able to discover and promote their own virtues; they see their own shortcomings and correct them, thus striving to become even more excellent.

55. 镜子是不会欺骗自己的，当你面对镜子笑，镜子也会对你咧嘴；带你面对镜子哭泣，镜子也会流泪。

55. A mirror does not deceive itself. When you smile at the mirror, the mirror also smiles back at you; if you bring the mirror to face you while crying, the mirror will also shed tears.

56. 尊重朋友的隐私，不嘲笑，不散布；尊重亲人的关爱，不厌烦，不逃避；尊重别人的劳动，即使是家人也要表示感谢；尊重别人的选择，每个人都是独立个体，我们无权干涉；尊重别人的习惯，喜好不尽相同，才有个性差异特色。

56. Respect your friend's privacy; do not mock or spread rumors; respect your relatives' love; do not get tired of it or avoid it; respect others' labor, even if they are family members, and show gratitude; respect others' choices, as each person is an independent individual, and we have no right to interfere; respect others' habits, for different tastes and preferences make for individual differences and characteristics.

57. 尊重不同价值观念，对错涵盖不了世界，不评论，多理解。尊重别人，就是尊重自己，不尊重别人的人，永远也得不到尊重。

57. Respect different values and beliefs; right and wrong cannot encompass the world. Do not criticize, but rather understand more. To respect others is to respect oneself; those who do not respect others will never receive respect.

58. 无论是**或者电视剧里所见过优秀的人，大多数是面相正派，眼睛炯炯有神，说话总是温文尔雅，面带微笑，待人也是和蔼可亲。

58. Whether it is an outstanding person seen in novels or TV dramas, most of them have a dignified appearance, bright eyes, always speak in a gentle and courteous manner, wear a smile, and treat others with kindness and amiability.

59. 最好的社交自律，是不争论，不指点，不评价，永远不要妄图改变一个人。

59. The best social self-discipline is not to argue, not to point fingers, not to make judgments, and never to attempt to change a person.

60. 优秀的人永远不会满足自己现状。具备不断提升自己能力的思想。自然需要和不同人沟通学习交流。就不会轻视任何人。

60. Outstanding individuals will never be satisfied with their current status. They have the mindset to continuously improve their abilities. Naturally, they need to communicate, learn, and exchange with different people, and they would never look down upon anyone.

61. 即得到别人的认可和尊重，又从别人身上学到优点充实自己，使优秀的人更加的优秀，一举两得。

61. Not only gaining recognition and respect from others, but also learning their merits to enrich oneself, making the outstanding individuals even more excellent, achieving a win-win situation.

62. 这个世界上，价值观是多元的，生活方式也是多样的。我们不要以自己的尺度，随意去窥探别人的窗子，干涉他人的生活。更不要用为你好的名义，要求别人屈服于自己的意志。

62. In this world, values are diverse, and lifestyles are varied. We should not arbitrarily snoop into others' windows with our own yardstick, interfere with other people's lives. Much less should we demand that others submit to our will in the name of doing them a favor.

63. 社会 发展的至始至今，文明程度无不是素养的比拼。高素质不仅代表物质层面，而且对精神层面提出更高要求。无疑 社会 的精英们，更好的统一了这两个层次需求，也更好的践行着符合 社会 的主流价值。

63. Throughout the development of society from the beginning to now, the level of civilization has always been a competition of quality. High-quality individuals not only represent the material level but also put forward higher requirements for the spiritual level. Undoubtedly, the elite of society has better unified the needs of these two levels and has also better practiced the mainstream values of society.

64. 董宇辉的弟弟曾在老家的国企上班，工作稳定，离家近，日子悠闲。

64. Dong Yuhui's younger brother used to work at a state-owned enterprise in their hometown, with a stable job, close to home, and a leisurely life.

65. 子贡十分气愤，和他争执起来。最后他们相约到孔子那里去评理。

65. Zigong was extremely angry and argued with him. In the end, they agreed to go to Confucius to settle the matter.

66. 不指点别人的生活，尊重每个人的生活轨迹。每个人生，都是由相关的环境，经历，个性决定的，不是一个意念就可以改变。

66. Do not meddle in others' lives and respect each person's path in life. Every life is determined by related environments, experiences, and personalities; it is not something that can be changed by a single idea.

67. 卡耐基在《人性的弱点》里写道：

67. Carnegie wrote in "The Art of Human Relations" that:

68. “为什么？”

68. "Why?"

69. 尊重是一种修养，知性而优雅，将人格魅力升华，大爱无声挥洒

69. Respect is a cultivation, intelligent and elegant, elevating the charm of personality, and silently spreading great love.

70. 我们对别人的了解，不过是只鳞片爪，盲人摸象，如果就此评论别人，难免武断和偏颇。

70. Our understanding of others is merely a glimpse of a part, like a blind man touching an elephant, and it is inevitable to be arbitrary and biased if we comment on others based on this limited knowledge.

71. 两年后，弟弟打电话给他：“我能不能重回老家找工作。”

71. Two years later, his younger brother called him, "Can I go back to my hometown to look for a job?"

72. 未知全貌，未予置评。我们看到的，听到的，或许只是事物的表象，背后的实质，我们无法触及。

72. Without knowing the full picture, we do not offer any comments. What we see and hear may only be the surface of things, and the essence behind it is beyond our reach.

73. 活着的每一个人，都希望受到别人的尊重。尊重是对人的思想，行为理解和肯定。

73. Every living person hopes to be respected by others. Respect is the understanding and affirmation of a person's thoughts and actions.

74. 好修养，高素质，就能建立非常良好的质量非常高的人脉关系。这样的人脉关系，是一般的人无论怎样努力经营都不可能建立起的人脉关系。这种人脉关系，是优秀的人成就事业的非常牢固的基石。

74. Good character and high-quality individuals can establish very good and highly esteemed relationships. Such relationships are ones that the average person, no matter how hard they try to cultivate, cannot build. These relationships are a very solid foundation for the successful pursuit of a career by outstanding individuals.

75. 生活在当下的人，每个人都是自己生活中的一面镜子，从镜子里都能看到自己存在的影子。

75. For those living in the present, each person is a mirror of their own life, where they can see the shadow of their own existence reflected.

76. 可实际呢？尊重别人或取得别人尊重是困难的。因为在生活，工作的方方面面。到处充斥着对别人的不尊重。

76. But realistically? It is difficult to respect others or to gain their respect. This is because in every aspect of life and work, there is everywhere a pervasive lack of respect for others.

77. 自己都不愿去做的人，他肯定不会勉强别人去做。这就是对别人最大的尊重！他遇到事情会换位思考，有同理心，不会勉强别人。

77. A person who wouldn't even do something themselves would certainly not force others to do it. That is the greatest respect for others! When faced with situations, they will think from others' perspectives, have empathy, and will not force others.

78. 子贡随口回答，一年四季。

78. Zi Gong replied off the cuff, "All four seasons."

79. 所以说尊重不光是人生价值间接体现；更是个人素养的反映。

79. Therefore, respect is not only an indirect manifestation of life's value; it is also a reflection of a person's character and quality.

80. 这就不难理解，成功的，优秀的人要比那些还在为物质生活忙活的大众，多了些为人处世方面积极因素:理解并尊重别人的生活。

80. It is not hard to understand that successful and outstanding people have more positive factors in terms of dealing with others than the general public who are still busy with material life: understanding and respecting others' lives.

81. 俗话说：三人行，必有我师焉，每个人都会有闪光点。

81. As the saying goes: When three people walk together, there must be someone I can learn from; everyone has their own shining points.

82. 董宇辉跟弟弟说，年轻人不应该选择这样一眼望到头的生活，要敢于走出舒适区，到外面的繁华世界里，拼杀出自己的一片天地。

82. Dong Yuhui told his younger brother that young people should not choose such a life that can be seen from a distance, they should dare to step out of their comfort zone and into the bustling world outside, to fight and carve out a piece of territory for themselves.

83. 事后，孔子对他说，你没有注意到他通体绿色吗？这是蚂蚱啊。蚂蚱春生秋死，一生只经历三个季节。你同意他的说法就是了，值得为此争论不休吗？

83. Later, Confucius said to him, "Did you not notice that it was all green? That was a grasshopper. Grasshoppers are born in spring and die in autumn, experiencing only three seasons in their lifetime. Do you agree with him? Is it worth arguing endlessly about it?"

84. 所谓“仁者无敌”，真正有仁爱之心的人是不会有敌人的。他会仁爱的对待所有人，尊重别人，他也会得到别人的尊重。“赠人玫瑰 ，手有余香”

84. As the saying goes, "The benevolent has no enemies." A person who truly has a heart full of benevolence will not have any enemies. He will treat everyone with benevolence, respect others, and in return, he will also receive respect from others. "To give roses to others, one's hands are left with a lingering fragrance."

85. 尊重是一种平等，不俯望不仰望，不卑也不亢；

85. Respect is a form of equality, neither looking down nor up, neither humble nor proud.

86. 何谓“可远观而不可亵玩焉”？就是说，人们只能远远地观赏而不能玩弄它。他告诉我们，花也是有生命的，我们要尊重它们。不仅是莲花，所有的花亦是如此，哪怕是一朵野花。

86. What does it mean by "It can be admired from a distance but not played with?" It means that people can only watch it from afar and cannot play with it. He tells us that flowers are also living beings, and we should respect them. This applies not only to lotus flowers but to all flowers as well, even to wildflowers.

87. 不是每一条鱼，都生活在同一片海里。不是每一个人，都有相同的三观和思想格局。如果有人抬杠，点头承认就好，何必跟他浪费精力纠缠不休。

87. Not every fish lives in the same sea. Not everyone has the same outlook on life and mental framework. If someone argues, just nod and acknowledge, why waste energy arguing endlessly with them?