面对欺诈，如何优雅应对？掌握这三个策略，轻松化解困境。

How to deal with fraud elegantly? Master these three strategies and easily resolve the predicament.

1. 被人欺负了，最有水平的处理方式，是做好以下几点。

1. When bullied, the most sophisticated way to handle the situation is to do the following points well.

2. 对这位小领导，朋友从不跟他正面接触，即便狭路相逢，也是点头微笑，然后匆匆而过。遇到聚餐或者共事的时候，朋友始终不发一言，只是默默做事。

2. Regarding this young leader, friends never confront him directly; even if they meet on a narrow path, they just nod and smile, then rush by. When it comes to meals or working together, friends never say a word, but just silently do their work.

3. 如果你遇到的是一个嚣张惯了、自以为是的人，那也不要轻易屈服。

3. If you encounter someone who is used to being arrogant and self-righteous, do not easily surrender.

4. 那些欺负人的人，其实都是一些见风使舵，欺软怕硬，自以为是的家伙，你横起来，他们就蔫头耷脑。你软弱了，他们就无法无天。

4. Those who bully others are actually some cunning individuals who bend to the wind, fear the strong and flinch at the weak, and are self-righteous. When you stand up to them, they become wilted and despondent. But when you become weak, they behave with abandon.

5. 这是一个法制社会，更是一个自媒体发达，倡导公平正义的社会。只要自己的诉求是正义的，合理的，就要依法斗争，智慧斗争，让欺负你的受到应有的惩罚。

5. This is a society governed by law, but even more so, a society with a thriving self-media sector that advocates for fairness and justice. As long as one's demands are just and reasonable, they should fight legally and intelligently, ensuring that those who mistreat you receive the appropriate punishment.

6. 很多人都被他攻击，谩骂，刁难，而朋友却能独善其身，完璧安好。这主要得益于他处理关系的水平。

6. Many people have been attacked, cursed, and troubled by him, but his friends can maintain their integrity and peace. This is mainly due to his skill in handling relationships.

7. 朋友单位有一个小领导，有些严重的性格缺陷，动辄对同事，下属和管理服务对象飙脏话，说粗话，飞扬跋扈，戾气很重。

7. A colleague at my friend's workplace has a minor leadership position, but he has some serious personality flaws. He often uses foul language and slang towards his colleagues, subordinates, and management service recipients, behaves in an overbearing manner, and carries a strong sense of resentment.

8. 小领导受到惊吓，当众向他赔礼道歉，并再次登门谢罪。

8. The little leader was frightened, and he publicly apologized to him, and came to apologize again.

9. 有些可恨之人，因为自己的生活圈子和工作关系，我们无法绕开，无法避免与之打交道，无法不受到他们的伤害。那么，就要露出自己的锋芒，让他意识到欺负你的成本和风险。

9. There are some hateful people, due to our social circles and professional relationships, that we cannot avoid or evade dealing with, and we cannot help but be hurt by them. In such cases, one should show their sharpness, making them aware of the cost and risks of bullying you.

10. 人善被人欺，马善被人骑。佛挑善人受苦，鬼挑弱者上身。一只露出獠牙的狼不会被欺负，而一只低头搭脑的狗却随时都会被人踢一脚。

10. A good person is taken advantage of, and a good horse is ridden. Buddha chooses the virtuous to suffer, and ghosts choose the weak to possess. A wolf with bared fangs is not bullied, but a dog with its head down is always kicked at any time.

11. 并公开声明，如上级庇护，他将到相关部门信访，或者在中纪委网站实名举报。

11. And publicly declare that, under the protection of his superior, he will petition to relevant departments or file a实名举报 (real-name complaint) on the website of the Central纪委 (Disciplinary Commission).

12. 如果被人欺负，霸凌，伤害，既不能过激反应，自堕深渊，更不能忍气吞声，任人蹂躏。

12. If bullied, bullied, or harmed, one should neither react excessively and fall into a deep abyss, nor endure silently and allow oneself to be trampled upon.

13. 有些人，就像一辆行走的垃圾车，里面堆满了愤怒，跋扈，暴戾，怨天尤人等情绪。并且越堆越多，任何风吹草动都会让它倾泻下来。

13. Some people are like a walking garbage truck, stuffed with emotions such as anger, arrogance, savagery, and complaining about fate. And the more they accumulate, the more susceptible they are to spilling out at the slightest breeze or stir.

14. 露出自己的锋芒，让别人知道，他敢欺负你，你就会反击过去。伤害你的代价，就是他自己也会伤痕累累。

14. Show your sharp edge and let others know that if he dares to bully you, you will fight back. The cost of hurting you will also leave him with deep wounds.

15. 这样的垃圾人，最好的方式是远离。远远避开，各行其道，以免垃圾沾染自己。

15. The best way to deal with such trash people is to keep a distance. Keep as far away as possible, go your own way, so as not to be contaminated by the garbage.

16. 哪怕小领导说再难听，再失当的话，朋友也从不接茬，就当对方不存在一般。

16. No matter how rude or inappropriate a small leader might say, the friend never joins in; they act as if the other person doesn't exist.

17. 那些嚣张的人，看起来不可一世，其实都是色厉内荏，不堪一击。你不反抗，他们肆无忌惮。你要坚决回击，那么立马就怂了。

17. Those people who are so audacious, looking as if they could do no wrong, are actually just fierce on the outside and weak on the inside. If you don't fight back, they'll be unrestrained. But if you stand up to them resolutely, they'll immediately back down.

18. 小伟为人和善，工作踏实，任劳任怨。小领导交代的所有杂事，公事，私事，他都办得妥妥贴贴。但小领导总是欺负他，在大庭广众之下辱骂他，成了家常便饭。还在背后诋毁他无能，软弱，是扶不起的阿斗。

18. Xiao Wei is kind-hearted, hardworking, and willing to bear burdens. He handles all the various tasks, both official and personal, entrusted to him by the small leader with great care. However, the small leader always bullies him, publicly vilifying him, which has become an everyday occurrence. The small leader also spreads rumors behind his back, saying that he is incompetent, weak, and someone who cannot be saved.

19. 再嚣张的人，也斗不过法律；再龌龊的人，也扛不住舆论；再深的黑暗，也盖不住世道人心的煌煌天日。

19. No matter how audacious a person may be, they cannot outwit the law; no matter how despicable a person may be, they cannot withstand public opinion; and no matter how deep the darkness, it cannot cover up the resplendent daylight of the world and people's hearts.

20. 我们不去欺负人，但也不能容忍别人欺负自己。

20. We do not bully others, but we also cannot tolerate others bullying us.

21. 我们生活在一个文明的社会，靠自己的力气生活，拥有独立的灵魂和个性，也尊重别人的独立性和生活方式。

21. We live in a civilized society, earning a living through our own efforts, with independent souls and personalities, and we also respect the independence and lifestyles of others.

22. 还是朋友单位的那个小领导，把年轻人当做自己的情绪垃圾桶，其中一个叫小伟的年轻人成为重灾区。

22. It's still that young manager from the same friend's unit, who treats young people as his emotional trash bin. One young man named Xiao Wei has become a major victim.

23. 你的善良，要自带锋芒。否则，注定是被人拿捏的软柿子。

23. Your kindness should have its own sharpness. Otherwise, you are doomed to be a soft persimmon that others can squeeze.

24. 再说那个小领导。一次他和一位年过半百的老员工为难，让对方遭遇到严重的工作和家庭危机。

24. Speaking of that young leader. Once, he put a middle-aged veteran employee in a difficult situation, leading to serious work and family crises for the latter.

25. 欺负，霸凌，争斗，是人类社会的常态。

25. Bullying, bullying, and fighting are the norm in human society.

26. 无法避开，就露出锋芒，让他知道欺负的代价。再不济，就绝地反击，用法律和舆论的武器，让他付出代价。

26. If there's no way to avoid it, show your claws and let him know the cost of bullying. At the very least, resort to a desperate counterattack, using the weapons of law and public opinion to make him pay a price.

27. 鲁迅说：“唯沉默是最高的轻蔑。”

27. Lu Xun said, "Silence is the highest form of scorn."

28. 我们来到这个世界上，是创造幸福的，不是给人欺负你。

28. We come to this world to create happiness, not to be bullied by others.

29. 年底，即便小伟成绩卓越，却没有给他任何奖励和提携，连口头肯定都没有。

29. By the end of the year, even though Xiaowei had exceptional performance, he received no rewards or promotion, not even any verbal affirmation.

30. 做一个强大且有智慧的人，不要对小人表现出好脾气，不要把善良给不该得的人，就没人敢欺负你。

30. Be a strong and wise person, do not show good temper to the small-minded, do not give kindness to those who do not deserve it, and no one will dare to bully you.

31. 老员工忍无可忍，直接总结了他的一些违法违规的情况，和他平时毫无人品的表现，以严肃的态度上报单位领导，要求罢免和承办此人。

31. The veteran employee, unable to bear it any longer, directly summarized some of the illegal and irregular situations he had engaged in, as well as his平时的 extremely poor character, and reported it to the unit leaders with a serious attitude, demanding that he be impeached and handled.

32. 对于有些人，没有态度就是最好的态度，就像我们不必对一个垃圾堆有什么态度。忽视他，远离他，他根本不配进入我们的生活。

32. For some people, no attitude is the best attitude, just like we don't need to have any attitude towards a garbage dump. Ignore them, keep away from them, they are not worthy of entering our lives.

33. 对于生活中的小人，烂人，垃圾人，优化的策略是远远避开，不招惹，因为你不值得和一条恶狗缠斗。

33. For those negative individuals in life—petty, despicable, and trashy people—the optimized strategy is to keep a considerable distance, not provoke them, because you are not worth engaging in a fight with a恶狗 (biting dog).