揭开人性三大致命弱点：贪婪、急躁与虚荣，世间纷扰，皆由此生。

Unveiling the three fatal weaknesses of human nature: greed, impatience, and vanity. All the turmoil in the world originates from these.

1. 反之：不要在乎困难，也许它是一种幸运的开始

1. Conversely: Don't worry about difficulties; perhaps they are the beginning of good luck.

2. 这个故事让我深深地感到人性的贪婪和虚荣。那个偷走女子钱包里的现金的人，为了得到一点点的利益，不惜伤害别人的感情，这种行为实在是可耻和卑鄙。而那个留下纸条的人，则更是虚荣和自大。他以为自己很聪明，但实际上，他只是一个小偷，一个不折不扣的罪犯。

2. This story deeply touched me with the greed and vanity of human nature. The person who stole the cash from the woman's wallet was willing to hurt others' feelings for a little bit of profit, which is truly despicable and mean. And the person who left the note was even more vain and arrogant. He thought he was smart, but in reality, he was just a thief, a genuine criminal.

3. 不着急，才能把事情做好，行稳致远。

3. Only by not hurrying can we do things well and achieve lasting stability and progress.

4. 在日常生活中，我们可能会与人发生争执。如果我们立即采取强硬的态度，往往会加剧矛盾，甚至引发更大的冲突。相反，如果我们先冷静下来，以平和的方式沟通，更容易化解矛盾，得到良好的结果。

4. In our daily lives, we may encounter disputes with others. If we adopt a harsh attitude immediately, it often exacerbates the contradictions, even leading to greater conflicts. Conversely, if we first calm down and communicate in a peaceful manner, it is easier to resolve the contradictions and achieve a good outcome.

5. 反之：不要对事情感到倦怠，而应使之充满乐趣

5. Conversely: Do not feel tired of things, but make them full of joy.

6. 最近，一则新闻引起了我的关注。据报道，一位年轻的女子在地铁上不慎将自己的钱包遗失，里面装着一张信用卡和一些现金。当她发现钱包不见后，立即报警并在社交媒体上发布了寻找失物的信息。没想到，不到一个小时，她就收到了一条短信，短信中告诉她钱包已经被找到，并且还附上了一张照片。女子非常感激，立即赶往指定地点取回了钱包。当她打开钱包一看，却发现里面的现金已经不见了，只剩下了一张纸条。纸条上写着：“世人慌慌张张不过图碎银几两。”

6. Recently, a news story caught my attention. It was reported that a young woman accidentally lost her wallet on the subway, which contained a credit card and some cash. After she realized her wallet was missing, she immediately reported it to the police and posted information about the lost item on social media. To her surprise, she received a text message within an hour, informing her that the wallet had been found and it was accompanied by a photo. The woman was extremely grateful and rushed to the designated location to retrieve her wallet. However, when she opened the wallet, she found that the cash inside was gone, and only a note remained. The note read: "In the world, everyone is in a hurry for only a few taels of silver."

7. 你年纪似乎不大，跟你说这些不知道是不是太多。现实有点残酷，年轻人更要有所坚持，未来靠你们。

7. You seem to be quite young, and I'm not sure if it's too much to tell you this. Reality can be quite harsh, and young people need to have something to hold on to. The future depends on you.

8. 再假设，主刀医生很有底线地拒收了，底下工资不高的麻醉师和助手即使想收，他们敢收吗？于是作为主刀医生，大多顺水推舟收下，赚外快还顾及多方人情。

8. Assuming again, the attending surgeon firmly refused to accept it. Even if the lower-paid anesthetists and assistants wanted to accept it, would they dare to? Therefore, as the attending surgeon, most of them would simply go along with the flow and accept it, making extra money while also taking into consideration the feelings of various parties.

9. 反之：做一个善于聆听的人，鼓励别人谈论他们自己

9. Conversely: Be a good listener, and encourage others to talk about themselves.

10. 一个人最好的心性，是清心寡欲，朴实淡泊，而不是爱慕虚荣，互相攀比，在虚假的面子和尊严中折磨自己。

10. The best temperament of a person is a pure heart with few desires and simplicity, not the pursuit of vanity and the mutual comparison, torturing oneself in the false face and dignity.

11. ※ 人性的弱点之

11. ※ The weakness of human nature

12. 贪婪和虚荣的危害是非常大的。如果一个人过于贪婪，他就会失去自己的道德和良心，变得冷酷无情，不顾一切地追求金钱和地位。这种行为会让他失去自己的尊严和人格，最终会导致他的失败和孤独。而如果一个人过于虚荣，他就会变得自大和傲慢，不愿意接受别人的批评和建议。这种行为会让他失去自己的朋友和支持者，最终会导致他的失败和孤独。

12. The harm of greed and vanity is extremely great. If a person is overly greedy, they will lose their own morality and conscience, become cold and heartless, and pursue money and status without regard for anything. This behavior will cause them to lose their dignity and personality, ultimately leading to their failure and loneliness. And if a person is overly vain, they will become proud and arrogant, unwilling to accept others' criticism and advice. This behavior will cause them to lose their friends and supporters, ultimately leading to their failure and loneliness.

13. 其实当人陷在一种不好的风气里的时候，没有绝对的是非黑白。即使是好人，多数也是被推着走。要改变的是风气本身。 这几年大城市好医院的医生不敢收红包了，一来是门槛高的地方职业素养也高，关键还是因为纪律整顿得厉害。

13. In fact, when people are immersed in a bad atmosphere, there is no absolute right and wrong. Even good people are mostly pushed along. What needs to be changed is the atmosphere itself. In recent years, doctors in good hospitals in big cities no longer dare to accept red envelopes. This is because the places with high thresholds have high professional ethics, but the key reason is still the strict discipline reform.

14. 曾看过很多新闻报道，一些贫困大学生在学校里比吃比穿。家庭一贫如洗，父母含辛茹苦，手头十分拮据，但他们越缺少什么，越是计较什么。

14. Having read many news reports, it is noted that some poor university students compete over food and clothing on campus. Their families are extremely poor, with their parents enduring great hardships and being very short of money, but the more they lack something, the more they are concerned about it.

15. 反之：不要试图改变那些不可避免的情况，而应去尽力适应它

15. Conversely: Do not try to change those inevitable situations, but strive to adapt to them instead.

16. 反之：要承担自己行为的后果，要为自己的行为负责，而不是光踢椅子

16. Conversely: one should bear the consequences of their own actions and be responsible for their behavior, not just kick the chair.

17. 一个人能够克服自己的弱点，扎扎实实努力，才能匹配到想要的生活。

17. One must overcome their own weaknesses and work diligently to be worthy of the life they desire.

18. 学会克服我们身上这三个弱点，我们才能够过上更好的生活。

18. By overcoming these three weaknesses within ourselves, we can lead a better life.

19. 然而，这位院长的腐朽生活没过几年，就走上了法院的审判席，锒铛入狱，到监狱里面壁思过。

19. However, after just a few years of his decadent life, the president of the academy found himself on the bench of the court, being imprisoned and spending time in prison reflecting on his wrongdoings.

20. 云南昆华医院原院长，贪污受贿，骇人听闻。被查处的时候，非法拥有100套房，100个停车位，并且都处于省会城市的核心地段，而且在医院系统拥有上百位情妇，生活真是纸醉金迷，醉生梦死，贪污腐化，骄奢淫逸。

20. The former director of Yunnan Kunhua Hospital was involved in corruption and bribery, which is shocking. At the time of investigation, he was found to have illegally owned 100 houses and 100 parking spaces, all located in the central districts of the provincial capital city. Moreover, within the hospital system, he had more than a hundred mistresses, living a life of luxury and extravagance,沉迷于纸醉金迷，荒诞不经，贪污腐化，骄奢淫逸.

21. 检举 回答人的补充 2009-06-

21. Answer to the Complaint - Supplemental Response 2009-06-

22. 自己该是什么样子，就是什么样子。所有的事情都要量力而行，不要在乎别人的眼光和态度。

22. Be yourself and be what you are. Do all things according to one's strength, and do not care about others' opinions and attitudes.

23. 人天生都有致命弱点，贪婪过度的弱点，让人一无所有；急于求成的弱点，让人误入歧途；爱慕虚荣的弱点，让人死于捧杀。

23. People are naturally born with fatal weaknesses: the weakness of excessive greed, which leads to having nothing; the weakness of being eager for quick success, which leads people astray; and the weakness of loving虚荣, which leads to death by flattery.

24. 避免贪婪和虚荣，需要我们从自己做起。首先，我们要保持良好的道德和良心，不要为了一点点的利益而伤害别人的感情。其次，我们要保持谦虚和自省，不要过于自大和傲慢。最后，我们要保持健康的心态和生活方式，不要过于追求金钱和地位，而忽略了自己的健康和幸福。

24. To avoid greed and vanity, we need to start with ourselves. Firstly, we should maintain good morals and conscience, and not hurt others' feelings for a little bit of profit. Secondly, we should remain humble and self-reflective, and not be too proud or arrogant. Lastly, we should maintain a healthy mindset and lifestyle, not overly pursue money and status, and ignore our own health and happiness.

25. 三毛：“世间的人和事，来和去都有它的时间，我们只需要把自己修炼成最好的样子，然后静静去等待就好了。”

25. Sanmao: "In this world, people and things have their own time for coming and going. All we need to do is cultivate ourselves to be the best we can be, and then quietly wait."

26. 一个人不遏制自己的贪欲，就会迷失自己的本性，一步步走入歧途，丧失做人的底线和良知。

26. If a person does not curb their greed, they will lose their true nature, step by step deviate from the right path, and lose the bottom line and conscience of being a human being.

27. 反之：运用卡瑞尔万能公式，做一个无忧无虑的人

27. On the contrary: Make yourself worry-free by applying the Calel Universal Formula.

28. 反之：让他人感到自己重要——而且要真诚而为

28. Conversely: Make others feel important - and do it sincerely.

29. 反之：如果你错了，迅速而真诚地承认并及时改正

29. Conversely: If you are wrong, quickly and sincerely admit it and promptly correct it.

30. 诸葛亮说：“夫君子之行，静以修身，俭以养德，非淡泊无以明志，非宁静无以致远。”

30. Zhuge Liang said: "The conduct of a gentleman should be characterized by tranquility in order to cultivate himself, and frugality in order to nourish his virtue. Without a sense of indifference, one cannot clarify one's aspirations; without tranquility, one cannot achieve the distant."

31. 有人为了满足这些开支，逼迫父母，让原本贫困的家庭雪上加霜，或者借高利贷，校园贷，让自己陷入金融诈骗的漩涡，万劫不复。

31. Some people, in order to meet these expenses, force their parents, making the originally poor family suffer even more, or borrow high-interest loans and campus loans, leading themselves into the whirlpool of financial fraud, from which there is no return.

32. 反之：以友善的方式开始，并不是全世界都是你的敌人

32. Conversely: Starting with a friendly manner does not mean that the whole world is your enemy.

33. 担心别人说自己穷，于是穿名牌衣服。担心别人说自己土，于是涂脂抹粉。总是千方百计把自己打扮成光鲜亮丽的样子，不仅要遮掩自己的寒酸，还要显得高人一等。

33. Concerned about others saying they are poor, they wear brand-name clothes. Worried about being called unrefined, they apply makeup. They always go to great lengths to dress up in a shiny and dazzling manner, not only to conceal their own shabbiness but also to appear superior.

34. 在工作中，如果我们急于完成任务或达成目标，可能会忽视细节和质量，导致工作出现问题。相反，如果我们能够以平和的心态慢慢处理事情，注重细节和质量，往往更容易取得好的成果。

34. In our work, if we are eager to complete tasks or achieve goals, we might overlook details and quality, which could lead to issues with our work. Conversely, if we can handle matters with a calm mind and take our time, paying attention to details and quality, we often find it easier to achieve good results.

35. 反之：尽已所能，撑起雨伞，让批评之雨打不到你颈背上

35. On the contrary: do your best to hold up an umbrella so that the rain of criticism cannot hit your neck and back.

36. 在人类社会中，贪婪和虚荣是普遍存在的人性弱点。这两个弱点往往会让人们不顾一切地追求金钱和地位，甚至不惜牺牲自己的道德和良心。这种现象在历史上屡见不鲜，而今天，这种现象仍然在我们身边发生着。

36. In human society, greed and vanity are common human weaknesses. These two weaknesses often lead people to pursue wealth and status at all costs, even at the expense of their own morality and conscience. This phenomenon has been seen throughout history, and today, it still occurs around us.

37. 人生一辈子，我们要这么多的物质干什么？生不带来，死不带去，吃不完，花不完，反而成为自己的累赘和枷锁。

37. Throughout our lifetime, what do we need so much material things for? We can't bring them when we're born, and we can't take them with us when we die. They can't be eaten up or spent out, and instead, they become a burden and a chain to ourselves.

38. 在学习中，如果我们急于求成，可能会忽视基础知识和技能的掌握，导致学习效果不佳。相反，如果我们能够慢慢学习，注重基础知识和技能的掌握，往往更容易取得好的成绩。

38. In the process of learning, if we are eager to achieve results quickly, we may neglect the mastery of basic knowledge and skills, leading to poor learning outcomes. Conversely, if we can learn slowly and pay attention to the mastery of basic knowledge and skills, we often find it easier to achieve good grades.

39. 反之：称赞他人的每个进步，即使十分微小，要“诚于嘉许，宽于称道”

39. Conversely: Praise every improvement in others, no matter how small, with "sincerity in commendation and generosity in praise."

40. 反之：幸福并不是别人来布施，而是要自己去赢取别人对你的需求和喜爱

40. On the contrary: Happiness is not something that others bestow upon you, but something you must strive to win through others' needs and affection for you.

41. 反之：记住他人的姓名，它是语言当中最甜蜜、最重要的声音

41. Conversely: Remember others' names, for they are the sweetest and most important sounds in language.

42. 问得我痛心。 这是不良的社会风气，当它成了习惯又没人喝止的时候已经不仅仅是得利的人贪婪这么简单。试想，当塞红包成惯例的情况下，对患者是变相的心理安慰。若你妈没给红包就被推进去手术，就算医生如常开刀，家里人放心吗？

42. It pierced my heart to ask this. This is an unhealthy social风气, and when it becomes a habit and no one stops it, it's not just about the greed of those who benefit. Imagine, when giving red envelopes has become a routine, it is a subtle psychological comfort for patients. If your mom didn't give a red envelope and was pushed into surgery, would your family be at ease even if the doctor operates as usual?

43. 真正厉害的人，能够克服身上的弱点，朝着自己的目标一步一个脚印去努力，最后，实现人生的精彩。

43. Truly formidable individuals can overcome their weaknesses, strive towards their goals step by step, and ultimately achieve the brilliance of life.