在浩瀚的生命长河中，探寻其极致奥秘，我们渴望在岁月的流转中追寻长寿与幸福的轨迹。这便是的开篇。

In the vast river of life, we seek to explore its ultimate mysteries, and we yearn to trace the path of longevity and happiness as the years pass. This is the beginning of it.

1. 婚姻必须切实平淡似细水长流，平淡才能长久，细水才能长流，但平淡不等于无味，细水不等于完全波澜不惊，否则就是走入婚姻的另一个极端，也是婚姻的另一个死角，淡而无味毫无新鲜感才是婚姻的致命伤。

1. Marriage must be genuinely plain like the steady flow of a tiny stream; plainness is what ensures longevity, and a steady stream ensures continuous flow. However, plainness does not mean being tasteless, and a tiny stream does not mean completely without ripples. Otherwise, it would be stepping into another extreme in marriage, as well as another dead corner of marriage. Being bland and lacking in novelty is the fatal flaw of marriage.

2. 有的人因为太重要，便选择做朋友，因为朋友永远比恋人走的远。

2. Some people choose to be friends because they are too important, as friends always go further than lovers.

3. 相爱时都想一辈子，但迁就才能一辈子。世上没有天生绝配的爱人，那些和睦融洽的夫妻，其实都是岁月打磨出来的。

3. When in love, we all wish to be together forever, but compromise is the key to lasting a lifetime. There is no perfect match in love from birth. Those harmonious and compatible couples have actually been shaped by the passage of time.

4. 答案很长，我准备用一生时间来回答，你准备好听了吗？

4. The answer is long, and I am prepared to answer it with my entire life. Are you ready to listen?

5. 真爱，好的夫妻关系是很自然的依恋，牵挂，关心，感恩平淡如水的幸福婚姻。

5. True love and a good marriage are a natural attachment, concern, and gratitude for the simple, serene happiness of a marriage as tranquil as still water.

6. 活下去，活得久，活得好，愿我们都可以得到健康快乐，长命百岁。

6. May we all live long, live well, and enjoy good health and happiness, reaching the age of a hundred years old.

7. 不管是一穷二白的裸婚也好，或者是锦衣玉食的富婚也好，幸福是永远不变的基调和追求。

7. Whether it's a stark-naked marriage with nothing but a wedding or a luxurious marriage adorned with wealth, happiness remains the ever-unchanging theme and pursuit.

8. 你的心就是我的海角和天涯，我不能去得更远。我们此生共赴天涯海角，不是游走半个地球，而是人间相伴。

8. Your heart is my farthest sea and horizon, and I cannot go any further. In this life, we journey together to the ends of the earth and sea, not wandering halfway around the globe, but accompanying each other in the human world.

9. 感情寻找它的模特儿，衣服挂在橱窗，有太多人适合，没有独一无二。

9. Emotions seek their models, clothes hang in the windows, too many people fit, with no uniqueness.

10. 简单而快乐，平淡而幸福。真实知足的爱着，脚踏实地的走着，顺其自然的过着，健康平安的活着。得之坦然，失之泰然，随性而往，随遇而安。

10. Simple and happy, ordinary and contented. Love truly and be satisfied, walk firmly on the ground, live naturally, and live a healthy and peaceful life. Take what comes with calmness, and let go with composure. Go with the flow, be at ease with whatever comes.

11. 一叶遮目，可以不见森林，如果有了片碧绿的叶子，我就不要森林，我喜欢的就是最好的，比如你。

11. A single leaf can block one's view of the forest. If there is a green leaf, I would not want the forest. What I like is the best, like you.

12. 人生是不同的，有人平淡而幸福，有人富足而孤独。

12. Life is different; some people lead a tranquil and happy life, while others are wealthy yet lonely.

13. 我也可以有平淡而幸福的人生，我也可以不断努力去充实自己的后半生

13. I can also have a peaceful and happy life, and I can keep striving to enrich my latter half of life.

14. 老公，老公，老是工作老为公。美酒多少杯手中，也要回家放轻松!应酬好歹随意弄，老婆想你分分钟!

14. Dear husband, dear husband, always working for the public. With so many cups of fine wine in your hand, remember to come home and relax! Whether the social gatherings go well or poorly, I miss you every minute!

15. 至少要说声谢谢你，曾给了我一段痛彻心扉的爱。

15. At least say thank you, for having given me a love that pierced my heart deeply.

16. 简单的快乐，来自心态的知足。既然曾经的选择那么就不要膨胀自己的欲望。

16. Simple happiness comes from a state of contentment. Since choices have been made in the past, there is no need to inflate one's desires.

17. 快乐时想起你，我的快乐多了一倍；痛苦时想起你，我的痛苦少了一半！

17. When I think of you in happiness, my joy doubles; when I think of you in pain, my suffering is reduced by half!

18. 看你们洋溢在喜悦的天堂，披着闪闪星光，我只想衷心的祝福你们，新婚愉快，相亲相爱幸福永远！

18. Gazing upon the joyous paradise brimming with radiant starlight, I can only offer you my heartfelt wishes for a happy marriage, full of love and eternal happiness!

19. 我们一起经历过很多很多，有挫折也有欢乐。但是现在我才发现“我爱你”这三个字是多么的不容易说出口。我永远爱你!

19. We have experienced so much together, both挫折 (frustrations) and joys. But now I've realized how difficult it is to say those three words, "I love you." I will always love you!

20. 准许你哭诉，去放下前度，再与谁力跳千百场圆舞。

20. Allow yourself to pour out your sorrows, let go of the past, and dance countless waltzes with someone new.

21. 年年月月花相似，岁岁年年人相同。还是一个人……

21. Year after year, the flowers remain similar, and person after person, the years bring forth the same individual...

22. 早上起床，灰蒙蒙的天。给家人做了早饭，和家人在一起的生活，平淡而幸福。

22. In the morning, when I woke up, the sky was gray and hazy. I prepared breakfast for my family, and the life spent with them was simple yet happy.

23. 你是记忆中最美的夏天，是我难以再回去的夏天。

23. You are the most beautiful summer in my memory, the summer I can no longer return to.

24. 吃过早饭，旁边坐着志同道合而又亲密的人，有着一天的计划，平淡而幸福

24. After breakfast, sitting next to someone with whom you share the same ideals and a close bond, with a plan for the day, life is simple yet happy.

25. 要是爱情虐待了你，你也可以虐待爱情，它刺痛了你，你也可以刺痛它，这样你就可以战胜爱情。

25. If love has mistreated you, you can also mistreat love; if it has wounded you, you can also wound it, thus overcoming love.

26. 想你的时候不感到寂寞，你常在我心中高卧;念你的时候不觉得漂泊，你在我意念里洒脱;爱你的日子不孤独，你的笑容是我最大的幸福。

26. When I think of you, I don't feel lonely, for you often rest in my heart; when I miss you, I don't feel lost, for you are free and carefree in my thoughts; on the days I love you, I am never lonely, for your smile is my greatest happiness.

27. 我现在已经知道我再也没法去压抑我对你的爱更无法去阻止我爱你，在这段日子里因为有你才令我体会到什么叫做哎到“至死不渝”。

27. Now I know that I can no longer suppress my love for you, nor can I prevent myself from loving you. These days, it is because of you that I truly understand what it means to be "eternally loyal" to someone.

28. 一直固执的把自己禁锢在忧伤里，任悲伤汇流成河。

28. obstinately locking myself in sadness, allowing the sorrow to flow like a river.

29. 能够遇上你我感到很幸福，能够去爱你我感到非常幸福，能够被你爱我感到太幸福了，能够与你相伴一生我感到了完美的幸福!

29. I feel incredibly blessed to have met you, to be able to love you is extremely happy, to be loved by you is too happy, and to be by your side for a lifetime brings me the perfect happiness!

30. 时间会慢慢沉淀，有些人会在你心底慢慢模糊。学会放手，你的幸福需要自己的成全。

30. Time will slowly settle, and some people will gradually fade in your heart. Learn to let go, your happiness needs your own fulfillment.

31. 好的婚姻绝不是被彼此改变得多，而是彼此适应得好。

31. A good marriage is not about how much you change each other, but how well you adapt to each other.

32. 就算我穷得没有一粒米，我的世界至少还有你;就算我富得钱当纸，我的宇宙还是少不了你;就算我的手机只有一毛钱，最后一条短信也要发给你!快乐每一天。

32. Even if I am so poor that I don't have a single grain of rice, at least I have you in my world; even if I am so rich that money is like paper, you are still indispensable in my universe; even if my phone only has a cent, the last text message I send will be to you! Have a happy day every day.