在浩瀚的宇宙中，人类探寻着未知的边界，与和谐共生的社会相互交织。以善待他人，以和为贵，我们共同书写着人类文明的辉煌篇章。

In the vast universe, humanity seeks the boundaries of the unknown, intertwining with a harmonious society. By treating others kindly and valuing harmony, we together compose the splendid chapters of human civilization.

1. 要说独来独往，是因为我有太多的事情要做，看不完的书、**，大量的社交活动要去参加。和我不相干的人，没有必要也没有精力去和他们闲扯。但我可以做到的是，在需要社交沟通的时候，我可以快速的切换状态，进入外向侃大山模式。

1. The reason I am a loner is because I have too many things to do, books to read, and a multitude of social events to attend. There's no need or energy for me to chatter aimlessly with people who have nothing to do with me. However, what I can do is quickly switch into an extroverted and chatty mode when social communication is needed.

2. 以和为贵，和气生财。

2. Harmony is of great value, for a harmonious atmosphere brings wealth.

3. 但将和气去迎人，哪有相打得太平！如果一个人锋芒毕露，攻击性太强，那就非常容易和别人发生矛盾，不仅影响自己的心情和安全，还会让人际关系岌岌可危。学会喜怒不形于色，做一个情绪稳定的人，和和气气对君子，也要和和气气对小人。

3. But if one greets others with a friendly demeanor, how can there be peace in conflicts! If a person is overly aggressive and confrontational, it is very easy to clash with others, not only affecting one's own mood and safety, but also putting interpersonal relationships in peril. Learn to keep one's emotions under control and not let them show on one's face; be a person of stable emotions. Be friendly to gentlemen and also to the unprincipled.

4. 你看我独来独往，很有可能只是和你没什么好聊的，但不代表我很孤单，我很有可能正在和另一帮朋友玩得正嗨，只是你不在我好友圈子内。从心理学角度来说，外向的人喜欢呆在人群中，而且享受成为人群焦点的感觉。当他们一个人时，常常会感到无聊或者不安。

4. You see me going around alone, and it's very likely that I just don't have much to talk about with you, but that doesn't mean I'm lonely. It's very possible that I'm having a great time with another group of friends, but you're not part of my circle of friends. From a psychological perspective, extroverts like to be around people and enjoy being the center of attention in a crowd. When they are alone, they often feel bored or restless.

5. 那些天生容易获得刺激的人属于内向型，他们会尽可能去避免任何额外的社交刺激，因为这可能使他们感到焦虑，以及容易大量消耗能量。而那些天生难获得刺激的人属于外向型，因为刺激的缺少，会让他们感到无聊，所以他们会尽可能去寻求额外的刺激

5. People who are naturally prone to obtain stimulation tend to be introverted. They would try to avoid any additional social stimulation as it may cause them anxiety and be more likely to deplete their energy significantly. On the other hand, individuals who are naturally less prone to obtain stimulation are extroverted, as the lack of stimulation makes them feel bored, so they would seek extra stimulation as much as possible.

6. 一切现象都有自己的因果。种善因得善果，种恶因结恶果。不要说什么好人没有好报的话，好人一定会有好报，只是来到的时间不一样罢了。比如你种下一片西瓜，中间可能会长出一些杂草，让你终将收获一片西瓜。我们付出自己的善良，可能会遇到一些狼心狗肺的人，但绝大多数人一定会回馈你的善良。

6. All phenomena have their own cause and effect. Sow good seeds and you will reap good fruits; sow bad seeds and you will reap bad fruits. Do not say that good people do not get their rewards. Good people will definitely get their rewards, just that the timing may be different. For example, if you plant a patch of watermelons, there might be some weeds growing in the middle, but you will eventually harvest a field of watermelons. We may encounter some people with wolf hearts and dog kidneys when we show our kindness, but the vast majority of people will definitely repay your kindness.

7. 没有人是一座孤岛，我们都处于各种各样的关系之中。

7. No one is an island, we are all in various kinds of relationships.

8. 影响我们为人处事，待人接物的，是我们受到的教育，身处的时代和家庭的环境。我们大多数人都不是完全的内向或者外向性格的人，内向性格倾向的人都会因为成长环境，教育，家庭的因素，而学习去如何处理人际关系。

8. What influences how we interact with others and conduct ourselves in society is our education, the era we live in, and the family environment we are a part of. Most of us are not completely introverted or extroverted in personality. People with an inclination towards introversion will, due to their growth environment, education, and family factors, learn how to handle interpersonal relationships.

9. ​就是无论别人对你做了什么，说了什么，或者发生任何事情，你都不会难受，依然可以有好心情，依然可以在生活和事业里的细节中，有满满的成就感。”

9. No matter what others do to you, say to you, or whatever happens, you will not feel upset, and you can still maintain a good mood. You can still find a sense of fulfillment in the details of your life and career.

10. 看过一位网友的评论：

10. Seen a comment from a netizen:

11. 学会做一个和光同尘的人，不纠结，不拧巴，不与任何人正面对抗，如果出现一个和你格格不入的人，那就选择回避和远离，如果遇到烂人，小人，垃圾人，那就保持一定的距离。

11. Learn to be a person who blends in with the light and the dust, without getting entangled, twisted, or engaging in direct confrontation with anyone. If you encounter someone who does not fit in with you, choose to avoid and distance yourself. If you come across bad people, cunning individuals, or scum, maintain a certain distance.

12. 网上有一段很通透的话：“一个人，想要一辈子命好，有一个秘诀，那就是精神上不受力。什么意思呢？

12. There is a very insightful statement on the internet: "The secret to living a good life for a lifetime is to not bear the weight of mental stress. What does that mean?

13. 内向的人更喜欢独处，或者只喜欢与一个或者一小群其他人呆在一起。周围太多人，会让他们觉得太耗费精力。我在之前的文章中有提到过，可以把性格的倾向看做一个光谱，而内向和外向是光谱的两端。

13. Introverts prefer to be alone or only like to be with one or a small group of other people. Having too many people around can be too draining on their energy. I mentioned this in a previous article; you can view the tendency of personality as a spectrum, with introversion and extroversion being at the two ends of the spectrum.

14. 不管风吹浪打，我们都要稳住心神。人生最曼妙的风景，还是内心的淡定与从容。

14. Regardless of the winds and waves, we must steady our hearts. The most exquisite scenery in life is still the tranquility and composure of the mind.

15. 待人友善是修养，独来独往是性格，友善的人喜欢独来独往是想选择性地进行社交，是我们受bai到的教育让我们喜欢独来独往。

15. Being friendly towards others is修养, being independent is a personality trait. The reason why friendly people like to be independent is because they want to selectively engage in social interactions, and it is the education we receive that makes us prefer to be independent.

16. 你对待别人的方式，决定了人际关系的质量，也决定着你的幸福指数和生活品质。

16. The way you treat others determines the quality of interpersonal relationships and also influences your happiness index and the quality of your life.

17. 与人相处，但有一面之缘，都应该客客气气。跟自己三观相融的人，就多与之相处。跟自己能量频率不一样的人，就敬而远之。

17. When interacting with others, even if it's just a one-time encounter, everyone should be polite. Spend more time with people whose values align with yours. Keep a respectful distance from those whose energy frequency differs from yours.

18. 一个人最顶级的社交方式，就是与人为善，与人为稳，与人为和。

18. The highest form of social interaction for a person is to be kind to others, to be stable with others, and to be harmonious with others.

19. 与人相处是一门学问，与人为善，能给自己修好运；与人为稳，能给自己好心情；与人为和，可以减少很多矛盾和纠纷，提升生活的幸福感。

19. Getting along with people is an art. Being kind to others can bring good fortune to oneself; being stable with others can bring good mood; being harmonious with others can reduce many conflicts and disputes, and enhance the happiness of life.

20. 在我们认知里，内向的人被认为是独行侠，总是待人冷漠的。外向的人就总是开朗的，总是待人热情的。事实上，并非如此。

20. In our understanding, introverts are considered loners, always cold and aloof. Extroverts, on the other hand, are always seen as cheerful and warm-hearted. In fact, it's not quite like that.

21. “福祸无门，惟人自招，有因必有果，符合能的守恒定律，行善会消灾免难，增福增寿，做恶会招灾惹祸，病魔缠身，你对别人好，别人未必真能好，你肯定会越来越好。你对别人不好，别人未必真不好，你肯定越来越不好。只要付出了就一定有收获，别人欠你的，上天会用别的形式加倍奉还给你。”

21. "Fate has no door, it is only the person who invites it. There is a cause for every effect, which conforms to the law of conservation of energy. Doing good will eliminate disasters and difficulties, increase blessings and longevity. Doing evil will attract disasters and troubles, and be haunted by illness. When you are good to others, others may not truly be good to you, but you will definitely become better and better. When you are not good to others, others may not truly be bad to you, but you will definitely become worse and worse. As long as you put in effort, there will always be rewards. What others owe you, the heavens will repay you in other forms, and double the amount."

22. 与人为善，福报就在路上。

22. Do good to others, and blessings are on their way.

23. 稳住自己的内心，才能稳住自己的人生。一个可以控制自己情绪的人，比拿下一座城池的将军，更加伟大。学会在精神上不着力，无论遇到什么人，什么事，哪怕是烂人烂事，都可以平心静气，如如不动，不受影响。不管什么时候，都要用智慧和理性去面对问题，用最好的方式去解决问题，而不是让情绪支配理性，让冲动侵蚀理智，让自己的生活变得混乱不堪。

23. Only by stabilizing one's own inner self can one stabilize one's life. A person who can control their emotions is more magnificent than a general who has captured a city. Learn to remain uninvolved spiritually, and regardless of whom you meet or what happens, even if it's something despicable, you can maintain a composed and unmoved state, unaffected by it. At any time, one should face problems with wisdom and reason, and solve them in the best way possible, rather than allowing emotions to dominate reason, letting impulsiveness erode one's senses, and letting one's life become chaotic and disordered.