1. 人，一定要有尊严，即使平平凡凡，也要活得顶天立地，就算普普通通，也要带着一身傲骨，用尊严做人做事，不卑微，不低头，抬头挺胸向前走，不求人，不跪地，一生一世靠自己！

1. A person must maintain dignity, even if they lead a plain and ordinary life, they should stand tall and live with pride. Even if they are just average, they should carry an air of dignity, and conduct themselves and their affairs with dignity, without being卑怯 or bowing their head. Lift your head, hold your chest, and stride forward without seeking others' favor or kneeling to the ground. Depend on yourself throughout your life!

2. 各个时期，面临不一样的境遇，跟随经历着的，做出不一样的选择！不求人，靠自己~！

2. In each period, facing different circumstances, make different choices according to what you experience! Don't rely on others, rely on yourself instead!~

3. 明明知道我一般不求人，凡事都靠自己，可是一开口就找各种理由回绝，真的是一万点的伤害，有一天你死在床上也别想求我，那就比谁活的更长。

3. Even though I generally don't ask for help and rely on myself for everything, as soon as I open my mouth, I find all sorts of reasons to refuse. It's truly a thousand points of hurt. One day if you die in bed, don't even dream of asking me for help. That would be better than living longer than me.

4. 失败之后的窝囊，和从来没有行动过的窝囊，完全不一样。只要你为你的梦想出发过，为你的想法行动过，为你的目标奋斗过，为改变自己的强大意愿冲动过，那么，虽败犹荣。如果你从来不曾改变，一辈子畏畏缩缩，战战兢兢，如履薄冰，那才是最大的悲哀。

4. The feeling of helplessness after failure is completely different from the helplessness of never taking action. As long as you have set out for your dreams, acted on your ideas, fought for your goals, and been driven by a strong will to change yourself, then even in defeat, there is honor. If you have never changed, lived a lifetime in fear and trembling, as if walking on thin ice, that is the greatest tragedy.

5. 迷茫的第二天，到现在还是不能很肯定自己的选择。虽然千万次告诉自己已是既定的事实，无论如何都要靠自己的能力和勇气去克服一切困难。毕竟是个几乎陌生的领域，不同的岗位，工作的关注点也不同。也不知道自己到底哪里来的那么多的自卑、无助和无奈。不就是一份工作嘛，何必去给自己设立那么多障碍，也怎么可能事事都能顺你心意。生活不也都大抵如此，想太多真的会特别阻碍自己。畏缩在角落有什么用，没有谁能做你的保护伞，太害怕出错结果是前进得特别慢。真的没有必要，别人的眼光如何，都去在乎的话真的累坏，做到自己问心无愧不就行了吗，是吧？

5. On the second day of confusion, I'm still not very certain about my choice. Although I've told myself a thousand times that it's a fait accompli and that I must rely on my abilities and courage to overcome all difficulties. After all, it's an almost unfamiliar field, with different positions and different focuses in work. I don't know where all that inferiority, helplessness, and frustration come from. It's just a job, why do I have to set up so many obstacles for myself? And how can everything always go according to my wishes? Life is largely like that, and overthinking really does hinder myself. What good is it to shrink in the corner? No one can be your umbrella of protection, and being too afraid of making mistakes ends up slowing down your progress. There's really no need for it. No matter what others think, it's tiring to care so much. Isn't it enough to do what one does without regret, right?

6. 一件事情经历久了，也会很累的，希望自己给自己一条路走，不要沉沦，要调整好心态，勇敢的面对一切，坦然走过人生旅途，虽然前途坎坷不平，但是一切只能靠自己。

6. After experiencing something for a long time, it can also be tiring. I hope to give myself a path to walk on, not to fall into despair, to adjust my mindset, and to bravely face everything. To calmly go through the journey of life, though the path ahead may be rugged and uneven, everything ultimately depends on myself.

7. 明天的太阳还会升起能不求人，就别求人，坚强独立，只靠自己。经历越多，看得越透，失去越多，释怀越久。渐渐的明白：人情薄如纸，人心狠如狼，风光时锦上添花的人，不会在你落魄时雪中送炭。平日里吃吃喝喝的人，不会在你遇事后伸出援手。

7. The sun will still rise tomorrow. If you can manage without asking others, don't ask. Be strong and independent, relying solely on yourself. The more experiences you have, the more transparent you will see; the more you lose, the longer you will be at ease. Gradually, you will understand: human feelings are as thin as paper, and human hearts are as cruel as wolves. The people who add luster to others during their prosperity will not provide support when you are in despair. Those who indulge in eating and drinking every day will not reach out to help you when you encounter difficulties.

8. 大多数的金牛座女生外表都是端庄贤淑，优雅大气的，她们往往会给人十分简单美好的印象，不追求浮夸和复杂的装扮，总是那么清新自然，惹人怜爱。而且，她们实在也很有涵养，喜欢与人为善，能够跟大多数的人都相处愉快，虽然话不多，但却是人群中的万人迷。

8. Most Taurean girls have a dignified and gentle appearance, elegant and imposing. They often leave people with a simple and pleasant impression, not pursuing extravagant and complex attire, always appearing fresh and natural, charming and endearing. Moreover, they are actually very cultivated, preferring to be kind to others, and can get along well with most people. Although they don't say much, they are a crowd-pleaser among others.

9. 一切都靠自己不要对任何人有期待给自己一个时间，给自己一个微笑。

9. Rely on yourself, don't expect anything from anyone. Give yourself some time, and give yourself a smile.

10. 一切都要靠自己，因为没人可以依靠，所以你得坚强，即使生活把你抛弃，你也不能抛弃自己。

10. Rely on yourself for everything, because no one else can be relied upon, so you must be strong. Even if life abandons you, you must not abandon yourself.

11. 愿有人陪你走过春夏秋冬，陪你度过每一个难关，如果没有，愿你坚韧如钢，勇往直前。

11. May someone walk with you through the four seasons of spring, summer, autumn, and winter, accompanying you through every difficulty. If not, may you be as resilient as steel, and go forward with courage.

12. 人生就是一场关于体验的旅行，让我们不害怕，不着急，不依赖，从容不迫的生活，有条不紊的行动，奋斗出自己的一席之地。

12. Life is a journey about experiencing, let us live fearlessly, calmly, independently, and composedly, act systematically, and strive to carve out a place of our own.

13. 比你有钱的人，一定比你努力，比你努力的人，终有一天会比你有钱，生活本来就是平衡的，你不为赚钱付出辛苦，你就得为省钱烦恼，这不是鸡汤，是现实！

13. People who have more money than you must work harder than you, and those who work harder than you will eventually have more money than you. Life is naturally balanced; if you don't put in the hard work for making money, you'll have to worry about saving it. This isn't feel-good advice; it's a reality!

14. 狮子座的女生也是外表温柔，内心十分强大的星座女之一，狮子女性格很坚韧，非常有主见，做事情很有魄力，有什么想法一定会去实践，用实际行动来证明自己，而在社交场合里狮子女也是女性魅力十足，非常温柔，非常会体贴人，懂得忍让，宽容，是个好相处的人，只是在职场上狮子女会表现得强势一些，毕竟狮子女确实能力很强，做什么都特别的雷厉风行，让人非常佩服，狮子女确实是十二星座中非常优秀的星座女之一。

14. The girls of Leo are also among the constellation girls who appear gentle on the outside but are extremely strong on the inside. The personality of the Leo women is very tenacious, very decisive, and they are very determined in their actions. They are always ready to put their ideas into practice and prove themselves through their actions. In social settings, Leo women are also full of feminine charm, very gentle, and very considerate of others. They understand patience and tolerance and are easy to get along with. However, in the workplace, Leo women may come across as more dominant, as they are indeed very capable and execute things with great decisiveness, which earns them a lot of respect. The Leo women are indeed one of the outstanding constellation girls among the twelve zodiac signs.

15. 人这辈子，风雨中，独自撑伞，困难时，自己承担，不求人，不靠谁，一个人坚强到无畏无惧，一个人努力到竭尽全力！靠自己，为家人赚取幸福，为自己搏一个无悔人生！

15. In this life, amidst storms and rain, one carries an umbrella alone. In times of difficulty, one bears the burden oneself, without seeking help from others, without relying on anyone. One grows strong to the point of being fearless and relentless, pushing oneself to the limit! Relying on oneself, one earns happiness for the family and strives for a life without regrets!

16. 水瓶座的女生平常非常低调，为人真诚，心地善良，在各种场合里的表现也是落落大方，说话做事都很注意分寸，很得体，不张扬，不炫耀，有修养，有内涵，让人感觉非常好相处，显得很有吸引力，而另一方面，水瓶女也是个内心强大的人，很独立，对自己的人生有自己的规划，不依赖任何人，自己想要的一切都会凭借自身的实力去争取，所以水瓶女确实是个特别强，特别出色的星座女，不论是职场上还是情场上，都非常受人青睐，一生运势很旺。

16. Aquarius women are usually very modest in their demeanor, sincere, kind-hearted, and behave gracefully in various situations. They speak and act with a sense of measure, being polite and not showy or boastful. They are cultivated and have depth, making them very pleasant to be around and highly attractive. On the other hand, Aquarius women are also strong-minded individuals, very independent, and have their own plans for their lives. They do not depend on anyone and strive to achieve everything they want through their own efforts. Therefore, Aquarius women are indeed a particularly strong and outstanding zodiac sign. They are highly favored in both their careers and personal lives, and have a prosperous fortune throughout their life.

17. 于是，当她们有不同看法时，总是藏着掖着，或是内心有什么不舒服的想法时，也不轻易表现出来，但其实，巨蟹们往往内心是很强硬的，她们并不容易被改变和说服，有着自我的意识，很有主见，只不过，她们很懂得如何低调地执行她们的主见。

17. So, when they have different opinions, they tend to keep them to themselves, or when they have uncomfortable thoughts in their hearts, they don't easily express them. However, in reality, the Cancerians often have a strong inner character. They are not easily swayed or convinced, having a strong sense of self and are very decisive. However, they are also skilled at executing their own opinions in a low-key manner.

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18. A transparent statement:

19. 双鱼座的女生往往有着非常温柔可亲的外表，她们就如同是水做的一样，总是那么富于感情化，让人觉得很温暖，很包容，总是轻易可以打动别人的心。很多双鱼女还十分懂得示弱，她们并不在意一些表面的面子，有不懂就求助，有麻烦就找人帮忙，从而在你来我往中，跟人加深感情。

19. Girls born under the sign of Pisces often have a very gentle and approachable appearance. They seem to be made of water, always full of sentimentality, making people feel warm and包容. They can easily touch others' hearts. Many Pisces girls also understand how to show weakness. They don't care much about appearances and face, and they don't hesitate to ask for help when they are confused, or seek assistance when they encounter troubles. In this way, they deepen their relationships with others through interactions.

20. 确实，处女女是很有主见，内心强大的，她们向来懂得在外撒娇卖萌，十分吸引异性的关注，也会让异性想要保护，可是在内，她们却很有想法，也颇有实力，确实是外柔内刚的女人。

Certainly, Virgo women are very independent and strong-minded. They have always known how to act cute and flirtatious in public, which is very attractive to the opposite sex and makes them want to be protected. However, internally, they have many ideas and considerable strength, truly embodying the image of a soft exterior and a tough interior.

21. 别活的跟支烟似的，让人无聊时点起你，抽完了又弹飞你，记住，你要活得和毒品一样，要么不能弃，要么惹不起。

21. Don't live like a cigarette, to be lit up when people are bored and thrown away afterward. Remember, you should live like a drug, either not to be abandoned or to be irresistible.

22. 这些年，摔倒过，也失败过，渐渐的领悟了：人情薄如纸，世事难预料，能不求人，就别求人，坚强独立，只靠自己。

22. Over the years, I've fallen and failed, and gradually realized: human feelings are as thin as paper, and the world is hard to predict. If you can, don't ask for help from others. Be strong and independent, rely on yourself alone.

23. 人前都有泥泞路，心中都有万般苦，不必逢人就诉自己的事，自己去扛，自己的路，自己走好。

23. There's a muddy path before everyone, and in everyone's heart, there are thousands of sorrows. There's no need to tell your own stories to everyone; bear them yourself, walk your own path, and do it well.

24. 人们总说时间能改变一切，但事实上我们必须靠自己去改变。自己变了，其他一切也才会变。

24. People always say that time can change everything, but in fact, we must rely on ourselves to make changes. Only when we change ourselves will everything else also change.

25. 看了朋友圈诸多不爽，下次必须强大靠自己不求人！去清远后的感受，自己太过浮躁太多冲动，需戒骄戒躁，脚踏实地做人！

25. Having seen many things that made me uncomfortable in my friends' circle, next time I must rely on my own strength and not depend on others! After going to Qingyuan, I realized that I was too impulsive and restless. I need to guard against arrogance and impatience, and live a down-to-earth life!

26. 靠山山会倒，靠水水会流。天上下雨地上滑自己滑倒自己爬。人生一世靠自己，千难万险不求人。人前都有泥泞路，心中都有万搬苦，不必缝人就诉，自己的事，自己去扛，自己的路，自己走好。

26. Relying on a mountain, the mountain will collapse; relying on water, the water will flow. If it rains from the sky, the ground becomes slippery, and you may fall and have to get up by yourself. In this life, rely on yourself, and do not seek help through a thousand difficulties and dangers. Everyone has muddy roads in front of them, and everyone has a thousand kinds of bitterness in their hearts. There is no need to seek others to vent your frustrations; it is your own matters to bear, and your own path to tread well.

27. 种种事实证明，人只有靠自己才是最最强大的，独立自主，不求人，比什么都要好。同时，也不要想着别人要和你一样。自己要有足够的能力，还要有强大的内心，再亲近的人都会有不爱你的时候，所以一定要好好爱你自己，好好对自己。

27. Various facts prove that a person is the most powerful when they rely solely on themselves, being independent and self-reliant is better than anything else. At the same time, don't expect others to be the same as you. You should have enough ability and a strong inner self. Even the closest people will have times when they don't love you, so you must take good care of yourself and be kind to yourself.

28. 如果你对现状感到不满，如果你正在通过自己的努力改变现状，那你不要对未来充满焦虑，不必感到迷茫，你只管砥砺前行，默默努力，只要你往着同一个方向，坚持不懈的走下去，终将穿破层层雾霭，走出当下的一地鸡毛，找到属于自己的美丽风景。

28. If you are dissatisfied with the current situation and you are working hard to change it, then do not be anxious about the future, and do not feel lost. Just forge ahead, silently striving. As long as you keep moving in the same direction with unwavering determination, you will eventually break through the layers of fog and mist, leave behind the chaos of the present, and find the beautiful scenery that belongs to you.

29. 愿有人陪你走过人生的每一个阶段，陪你一起成长、一起奋斗，如果没有，愿你自强不息，不断追求进步。

29. May someone accompany you through every stage of life, growing and struggling together with you. If not, may you be self-reliant and never stop pursuing progress.

30. 人活于世，少不了麻烦，有的人总麻烦别人，有的人总被别人麻烦。在我看来，求人帮忙谁都免不了，但求人千万别乱给人添麻烦。所谓大事不轻易求人，小事轻易不求人，能靠自己完成的事儿就别随便劳驾别人，除非别人帮你有好处。

30. In this world, everyone is bound to encounter troubles, some people are always causing trouble for others, while some are always troubled by others. In my view, asking for help is inevitable for everyone, but one should never unnecessarily cause trouble for others. It is said that for major matters, it is not easy to ask for help, and for minor matters, it is not necessary to ask for help easily. If something can be done on one's own, one should not casually trouble others, unless the help from others is beneficial.

31. 巨蟹座女生的性格如《如懿传》中的海兰，最初给人的感觉是懦弱无能，那只是因为没有被生活逼到一定程度，有可依赖的人或事物，所以不会去考虑那么多，一旦靠山没了，她们就会在不知不觉中悄然崛起，如果有一天，你发现她们换了身衣服，换了一个发型，换了一个时尚的包包，其实她们不仅仅是换了外在，而是打算由外而内慢慢蜕变，总有一天会以一种惊艳的姿态站在你面前，，那时候你不要太惊讶，因为她们只是表面看起来柔柔弱弱的样子，实则内心强大无比，只是需要找到突破口而已！

31. The personality of a Cancer woman is like that of Hailan in the drama "Ru Yi Zhuan", who initially gives the impression of being weak and incompetent. That's just because she hasn't been pushed to a certain extent by life, and she has someone or something to rely on, so she doesn't have to think too much. Once the support is gone, she will rise quietly without realizing it. If one day, you find that she has changed her clothes, her hairstyle, and her fashionable bag, it's not just her appearance that has changed; she is planning to transform herself from the outside to the inside gradually. One day, she will stand in front of you in a stunning manner. Don't be too surprised at that time, because although she appears to be gentle and weak on the surface, she is actually incredibly strong inside. She just needs to find a breakthrough!

32. 处女座的女生外表往往比较有女人味，她们有着偏于传统的内心，即便是再叛逆的处女女，其实也是渴望照顾别人，同时内心柔情似水的。这是因为处女们外表理智高贵，但是却有着一颗感性的内心，并且也很有服务精神，这就注定了她们遇事很能够扛得住，别看她们是心思细腻，温柔乖巧的小女人，可在现实困难面前，从来无惧无畏，精明睿智，很不容易吃亏。

32. Virgo girls often have a very feminine appearance, with an inner nature that leans towards tradition. Even the most rebellious Virgo girls actually have a desire to take care of others and are soft-hearted. This is because Virgos may appear rational and noble on the outside, but they have a sensitive inner heart, and are also very dedicated to serving others, which determines that they can endure difficulties well. Don't look at them as delicate, gentle, and compliant little women; in the face of real difficulties, they have never been fearless, shrewd, and intelligent, and it's not easy for them to be taken advantage of.