在这十句充满正能量的语句中，我仿佛触摸到了蜜蜂采蜜时的心灵感应，感受到了那份温馨治愈的力量。让我们一起分享，将这些温暖的慰藉带给每一个需要的心灵。

In these ten positive and uplifting statements, I feel as though I'm touching the psychic connection of a bee collecting honey, sensing the warm and healing power it holds. Let's share these, bringing the comforting warmth to every soul in need.

1. 29人有退路，就有些许安全感。等到哪一天，你真没了退路，你就发现眼前哪条路都能走，也能通。

1. With 29 people having an escape route, there is a sense of security. Wait until the day when you truly have no escape route, and you will find that any path in front of you can be taken and can lead somewhere.

2. 31一个人之所以变得柔软，一定是因为她更懂得了理解和宽容。对于自己不曾了解的事情学会的缄默，而不是盲目的批评，哪怕是不同意许多事情，但也学会了站在对方的立场上想问题。没有了非此即彼，非黑即白的执拗，学会了打开心胸，不止对现在，也对过去那些曾经难以搁置的顽念，学会了释怀。

2.31 A person becomes soft because they have a better understanding of tolerance and empathy. They learn to be silent about things they don't understand, instead of making blind criticisms. Even if they disagree with many things, they also learn to think about problems from the other person's perspective. They give up the stubbornness of thinking in terms of either/or, black or white, and learn to open their hearts, not only to the present but also to the past, to those difficult-to-settle issues that they once had, and learn to let go.

3. 27我有一个苹果，分你一半，这是友情。我只吃一口，剩下的全给你，这是爱情。我一口没吃，直接全给了你，那是你父母。我藏起来，对别人说我也饿了，这是社会。

3.27 I have an apple, I split it with you, that's friendship. I only eat one bite, and give the rest to you, that's love. I don't eat any at all and give it all to you directly, that's your parents. I hide it and tell others that I'm also hungry, that's society.

4. 11不要轻易把伤口揭开给别人看，别人看的是热闹，而痛的却是自己。

4. 11 Do not easily show your wounds to others, as they are only interested in the spectacle, while the pain is all yours.

5. 17下雨天大家好像都有不同的癖好。我朋友喜欢吃着黄瓜味儿的薯片在床上看书，我下铺喜欢睡一个昏天黑地的午觉，妈妈喜欢煮冰糖雪梨汤来慢慢喝。而我喜欢想你，漫无目的地温温吞吞地想你，从下雨天初遇的屋檐下开始。

5. On rainy days, everyone seems to have their own peculiar hobbies. My friend likes to eat cucumber-flavored potato chips while reading in bed, my bunkmate enjoys taking a deep, dark afternoon nap, and Mom prefers to make a sweet pear soup with rock sugar to sip slowly. As for me, I like to think of you, aimlessly and leisurely, starting from the eaves where we first met on a rainy day.

6. 25人越是怕丢人，就越是在乎别人的看法。越是在乎别人的看法，就越是会忽略自己的感受。越是忽略自己的感受，就越是像木偶一样拼命活给别人看。最后，一步一步将真实的自我囚禁在了深深的黑暗里。丢失自我，是我们找不到快乐和幸福的根源，也是一切心理问题的根源。

6. The more afraid of losing face 25 people are, the more they care about others' opinions. The more they care about others' opinions, the more they tend to ignore their own feelings. The more they ignore their own feelings, the more they act like puppets, desperately trying to please others. Ultimately, they step by step confine the true self in the deep darkness. Losing oneself is the root of why we can't find happiness and joy, as well as the root of all psychological problems.

7. 7如果不能在一起，就不要给对方任何希望任何暗示，这才是最大的担当；分开了，不去打搅让对方安然生活，这才是最后的温柔。善良，有时候就是：你什么都不要做就是了。

7. If you cannot be together, do not give the other person any hope or hint, for that is the greatest responsibility; after parting, do not disturb and let them live in peace, that is the ultimate gentleness. Kindness, sometimes, is simply: do nothing at all.

8. 24喜欢一个人的时候怎么可能大方呢，简直是变成了世界上最小心眼儿的人，看他身边的漂亮姑娘都像小婊砸。他对别的女生多笑两下都忍不住吃起莫名的飞醋，本来大大咧咧对什么都不在乎，但是爱上了以后却发现喜欢就是计较，是内心翻云覆雨面上却假装平和，是你在我身边我也想你。

8. How can one be generous when in love with someone? They become the most narrow-minded person in the world, looking at the beautiful girls around him as sluts. He can't help feeling jealous for no reason when he smiles at other girls a bit more. He used to be very easygoing and didn't care about anything, but after falling in love, he discovers that liking someone means being meticulous, being turbulent inside while pretending to be calm on the surface, and even when you're not around, I miss you.

9. 33在问题出现的那一瞬间，一定要控制好自己的情绪，不要发火，不要偏激，不要说出什么过激的话，要懂得忍耐。忍耐不是为了让你不去处理这件事情，而是为了避免在情绪失控的情况下，干出什么让自己丢脸的事情。

9. At the moment when the problem arises, you must control your emotions, do not lose your temper, do not become extreme, do not say anything aggressive, and you must understand patience. Patience is not to let you neglect this matter, but to avoid doing something embarrassing to yourself when you are out of control emotionally.

10. 17真实的生活是，认真做好每一天你分内的事情。不索取目前与你无关的爱与远景。不纠缠于多余情绪和评断。不妄想，不在其中自我沉醉。不伤害，不与自己和他人为敌。不表演，也不相信他人的表演。

10.17 The reality of true life is to take care of your duties every day with sincerity. Do not seek love and prospects that have nothing to do with you at present. Do not indulge in unnecessary emotions and judgments. Do not have illusions or become overly absorbed in them. Do not harm, nor be an enemy to yourself or others. Do not act out, nor believe in others' performances.

11. 12容易被辜负的永远都是那些天真又心软的人，毕竟好骗又好欺，伤疤一好就忘了痛。

11. 12 It's always the innocent and kind-hearted people who are easily betrayed, for they are easily deceived and deceived, and forget the pain once the scars heal.

12. 7一个人爱上小溪，是因为没有见过大海。可我已见过银河，但我只爱一颗星。

12. A person falls in love with a stream because they have never seen the ocean. But I have seen the Milky Way, and I only love a single star.

13. 9有时候，我们不得不坚强，于是乎，在假装坚强中，就真的越来越坚强。

13. Sometimes, we have to be strong, and so in the act of pretending to be strong, we actually become stronger and stronger.

14. 23所以，要好好努力然后多挣钱，才养得起自己这个爱吃的胃，爱玩儿的心，爱逛爱买的习惯。一个人往，一个人来，也能生活得很好。

14. Therefore, one must work hard and earn a lot of money, so as to afford to nurture this greedy stomach, this playful heart, and this habit of wandering and shopping. One can live well on one's own, going and coming alone.

15. 14从小觉得最厉害的人就是妈妈，不怕黑，什么都知道，做好吃的饭，把生活打理得井井有条，哭着不知道怎么办时只好找她。可我好像忘了这个被我依靠的人也曾是个小姑娘，怕黑也掉眼泪，笨手笨脚会被针扎到手。最美的姑娘，是什么让你变得这么强大呢，是岁月，还是爱。

15. Since I was a child, the most formidable person to me was my mother. She was not afraid of the dark, knew everything, cooked delicious food, and kept our home in perfect order. When I cried and didn't know what to do, I would only turn to her. But I seem to have forgotten that the person I relied on was once also a little girl who was afraid of the dark, shed tears, and clumsy hands could get pricked by needles. The most beautiful girl, what made you so strong, was it the years, or was it love?

16. 35如果一个女人爱你，你会看到她的任性，她的偏执，她的小心眼，她的坏脾气。如果她不爱你，入你眼的就是这个女人的高傲，冷漠和小妖精面孔。

16. 35 If a woman loves you, you will see her capriciousness, her obsessiveness, her narrowmindedness, and her bad temper. If she does not love you, what catches your eye will be this woman's pride, coldness, and sly appearance.

17. 我们总以为自己的婚姻经不起推敲，别人的婚姻更幸福，却忘了，爱情不是相忘于江湖就是平淡到老。谁的婚姻里又没有缺憾？要么缺金，要么缺帅，要么缺陪你的时间。在婚姻中慢慢修炼，渐渐明白，女人最重要的或许不是嫁谁，而是无论嫁了谁，都要有让自己幸福的能力。

17. We always think our own marriage is fragile and that others are happier, but we forget that love is either forgotten in the vast world or becomes plain and ordinary as one grows old. In whose marriage is there no blemish? Some are short of money, some are short of charm, and some are short of the time spent with them. As one grows in marriage, one gradually understands that perhaps the most important thing for a woman is not who she marries, but the ability to make oneself happy no matter whom she marries.

18. 16永远不要去欺骗别人，因为你能骗到的都是相信你的人。

18. Never deceive others, because those you can deceive are those who believe in you.

19. 人到中年，每天顶着这么大的压力，焦虑，内耗，崩溃，时常席卷我们！晚上累的倒头就睡，然后早起自然醒来，是多么幸福的一件事儿！

19. As we reach middle age, we face such immense pressure every day, accompanied by anxiety, internal conflict, and collapse, which often engulf us! It is such a blissful thing to fall asleep exhausted at night and then naturally wake up early in the morning!

20. 最短的距离是从手到嘴，最长的距离是从说到做。

20. The shortest distance is from hand to mouth, and the longest distance is from saying to doing.

21. 人生的风景，其实都是心灵的风景，什么都可以错过，就是不能错失自己的心。

21. The scenery of life, in fact, is all the scenery of the soul. One can miss anything, but one cannot afford to lose one's own heart.

22. 19现在越发觉得，遇到那些能相处的舒服聊天聊得来，彼此之间坦荡不计较，把你放在心里而不是做表面功夫的那种朋友，真是一种莫大的福气。如果有，我们都要珍惜。

22. Now more than ever, I realize that having friends who you can comfortably chat with, who are open and not calculating, who place you in their hearts rather than just paying lip service, is a great blessing. If you have such friends, we should all cherish them.

23. 认真过好每一天，不被烂人烂事纠缠，没必要什么事，非得争个是非对错，三观不一致，笑笑就好！

23. Live each day earnestly, don't let yourself be entangled by scoundrels and their misdeeds. There's no need to argue over every matter and determine who is right or wrong. Differences in values are inevitable, just laugh it off!

24. 5大概一个人久了，可以忍受的孤独指数也在不断增加。那些过去以为两个人一起完成才最浪漫的事，慢慢的我都自己去实现了。

24.5 I've been alone for a while, and my tolerance for solitude has been increasing as well. Those things that I used to think were the most romantic when done together, I've slowly been accomplishing them on my own.

25. 人一定要想清三个问题，第一你有什么，第二你要什么，第三你能放弃什么。”对于多数人而言：有什么，很容易评价自己的现状；要什么，内心也有明确的想法；最难的是，不知道或不敢放弃什么，这点恰能决定你想要的东西能否真正实现，没有人可以不放弃就得到一切…

25. A person must clarify three questions: first, what do you have; second, what do you want; third, what can you give up. For most people: it's easy to evaluate your current situation by thinking about what you have; there's a clear idea in your heart about what you want; the hardest part is not knowing or not daring to give up anything, which just determines whether the things you want can truly be realized, and no one can get everything without giving anything up...

26. 18不要把时间浪费在你不擅长，和你本性相违背的东西上，内向者不用假装外向，外向者也不用故作沉默，做你自己就好，相信我，一个心眼不坏，有能力，并且懂礼貌的人，走遍天下都不怕。

26. 18 Don't waste your time on things you are not good at and that go against your nature. Introverts don't need to pretend to be extroverted, and extroverts don't need to act silent either. Just be yourself. Believe me, a person with a good heart, capable, and polite will not be afraid to go anywhere in the world.

27. 我们都会变成更好的人，尤其是在经历了那么多的错误之后。

27. We will all become better people, especially after having made so many mistakes.

28. 13有一种性取向叫做lithromantic，指的是在你对某个人产生好感后，当他对你有同样感情后，你就会讨厌这种感情，甚至不再喜欢他。你是这样的人吗？

28. 13 There is a sexual orientation called lithromantic, which refers to the feeling where, after you develop an affection for someone, when they reciprocate your feelings, you start to dislike this affection and even no longer like them. Are you such a person?

29. 9总嚷着要找个对象，却从不主动勾搭；没喜欢的人，也懒得接受别人的追求。倒也不是那么宁缺毋滥，却还是不肯委屈将就。有时，感觉单身挺好的，又常常，羡慕别人成双入对。这才是很多人单身的日常吧。

29. Always talking about finding a partner, but never initiates contact; doesn't have a favorite person, and also doesn't feel like accepting someone else's pursuit. It's not that they prefer to be single rather than settling for less, but they still won't compromise. Sometimes, they feel that being single is quite good, yet often, they envy others who are in couples. This is probably the daily life for many who are single.

30. 分别时，看你落泪，我笑着说再见。洒脱，不是无情，而是情到深处。

30. When we parted, seeing you shed tears, I smiled and said goodbye. Carefree, not unfeeling, but deeply moved by emotions.

31. 26如果你现在还是孤身一人，不要为了所谓的“安全感”而匆忙地投向下一个人的怀抱。安全感从来都是自己给自己的，只有给足自己安全感的人，才能遇到一个你不需要取悦的人，才能遇到和你同频率的人。

31. 26 If you are still alone at the moment, don't rush into someone else's arms just for the so-called "safety." Safety has always come from within oneself. Only when you have given yourself enough safety can you meet someone you don't need to please, and can you meet someone who resonates with you at the same frequency.

32. 23发现了吗？会哭的孩子有奶吃，会闹的女孩有人疼。一般太懂事的姑娘，总是委屈自己，不让别人受伤。

32. Have you noticed? Children who cry have milk, and girls who cause trouble have people to care for them. Generally, girls who are too sensible always hurt themselves and don't let others get hurt.

33. 如果有人愿对你好，就别折腾好好过吧，世上没十全十美的人，一个人能对你好就已很难得。如果有人从最穷时跟着你，就别贪心了，无论发达成什么样，都守着人家过吧。我们经历过的人再多，最后能陪在你病床前的也只有一个。人生到老，方知唯一。不折腾，不贪心，才是一辈子。

33. If someone is willing to be good to you, don't mess things up and live well. There is no one in the world who is perfect, and it's already rare for someone to be good to you. If someone has stuck with you through the hardest times, don't be greedy. No matter how prosperous you become, always stick with that person. No matter how many experiences we have gone through, only one person will stay by your bedside when you are sick. Only when we grow old do we realize that the only thing is the one. Not causing trouble and not being greedy is what a lifetime is about.

34. 22一个人的自愈的能力越强，才越有可能接近幸福。做一个寡言，却心有一片海的人，不伤人害己，于淡泊中，平和自在。

34. The stronger one's self-healing ability is, the more likely they are to approach happiness. Be a silent person with a vast ocean in their heart, not hurting others or oneself, living in tranquility and ease amidst simplicity.

35. 25以后你就会知道，生活中真的没有几件事情是值得我们搭上礼貌，教养，人品和格局的。

35. After 25, you'll realize that there are really not many things in life that are worth sacrificing politeness, upbringing, character, and perspective for.

36. 19与其在意别人的背弃和不善，不如经营自己的尊严和美好。

36. It's better to focus on cultivating one's dignity and beauty rather than worrying about others' betrayal and ill will.

37. 20情侣之间最好的状态是，我给他的所有宠爱，他当得起；他给我的所有疼爱，我亦当得起。

37. The best state between 20 couples is that I can deserve all the pampering I give him; and he can also deserve all the love and care I give him.

38. 12其实，久了你就会知道，你需要的只是一个累了能给端你一杯水、病了能陪在你床头的人。这世上所有的久处不厌，都是因为用心。

38. 12 In fact, after a while, you'll come to realize that all you need is someone who can offer you a glass of water when you're tired and stay by your bedside when you're sick. All the enduring relationships in this world are because of the effort and care put into them.

39. 15愿你能遇见那个人，那个能让你不用在咬着牙逞强，憋着泪倔犟的人。

39. 15 May you meet that person, the one who lets you stop biting your lip to pretend you're strong and holds back your tears to be stubborn.

40. 34有钱的给你物质，有时间的给你陪伴，有情调的给你浪漫，那些都不是爱情。爱情完整的模样，应该是：花心的为你专一，爱玩的为你安定，性急的为你等待，骄傲的为你谦卑。因为你去尝试不擅长的事，为了你想去成为一个更好的人，这才是爱情最傻最真实的样子。

40. 34 Having money gives you material things, having time gives you companionship, and having a romantic mood gives you romance, but none of these are love. The complete form of love should be: being fickle for you to be faithful, being playful for you to settle down, being impatient for you to wait, and being proud for you to be humble. Because you try to do things you're not good at, and because you want to become a better person for them, this is the most foolish and most genuine form of love.

41. 33真爱你的人会让你活得像自己，不够爱你的人才用改变你的方式来附和自己。

41. A person who truly loves you will let you live as yourself, while someone who doesn't love you enough will try to change you to fit their own desires.

42. 6有的路，你必须一个人走，这不是孤独，而是选择

42. 6 There are some paths you must walk alone, and this is not loneliness, but a choice.

43. 20终于明白自己为什么舍不得离开，我宁愿爱你的缺点都不愿去接受别人，在这段感情里，你我都没有错，只是我忘了，要先好好爱自己。

43. 20 finally understands why I can't bear to leave, I'd rather love your flaws than accept someone else. In this relationship, neither you nor I are wrong, but I forgot that I should first take good care of myself.

44. 17我希望你毕业后，先去你想去的地方，再去你该去的地方。我希望你能在最好的时光里，做最心甘情愿的事。

44. 17 I hope that after you graduate, you go first to the place you want to go, and then to the place you should go. I hope you can do the most willing things in the best times.

45. 27你一定没有注意过我满脸微笑说不介意时的满腹心酸。

45. You must have not noticed the bitterness in my heart while I was smiling and saying that I didn't mind.

46. 每个人都会有一段异常艰难的时光，生活的窘迫，工作的失意，学业的压力，爱的惶惶不可终日。挺过来的，人生就会豁然开朗；挺不过来的，时间也会教会你怎么与它们握手言和，所以你都不必害怕的。

46. Everyone will have a period of extremely difficult times, with life's hardships, job dissatisfaction, academic pressure, and the uncertainty of love that makes each day feel endless. Those who manage to get through it will find their life suddenly opens up; those who don't will be taught by time how to reconcile with them, so there is no need to be afraid.

47. 8其实，许多事从一开始就已预感到了结局，往后所有的折腾，都不过只是为了拖延散场的时间。

47.8 In fact, many things have already sensed the outcome from the very beginning. All the subsequent turmoil is merely an attempt to delay the time of the final curtain.

48. 30灵魂只能独行，陪伴不是把别人拉到你的生活轨迹上，或者强行进入别人的世界找到一个位置，陪伴是一种心灵的在场，就好像我不用问候一声，也知道你一定随时会回应我的召唤。

48. The 30 souls can only travel alone. Accompanying is not about dragging others onto your life's trajectory or forcing yourself into someone else's world to find a place. Accompanying is a presence of the soul, as if I don't even have to greet you, and I know you will always respond to my call at any moment.

49. 世上没有一个完全符合你要求的男人，在等待着你，感情是需要相互付出的，磨合才是最适合的。

49. There is no man in the world who perfectly meets all your requirements, waiting for you. Emotions require mutual investment, and compromise is the most suitable approach.

50. 当你看清了一个人而不揭穿，你就懂得了原谅的意义；讨厌一个人而不翻脸，你就懂得了至极的尊重。

50. When you see a person clearly without exposing them, you understand the meaning of forgiveness; when you dislike a person without showing your resentment, you understand the ultimate respect.

51. 35买了就买了，不要去比价；吃了就吃了，不要去后悔；爱了就爱了，不要去猜疑；散了就散了，不要去诋毁。

51. Once you've bought it, don't compare prices; once you've eaten, don't regret; once you've loved, don't doubt; once it's over, don't defame.

52. 12人生的太多的痛苦和不幸，都是因为想要活成“别人那样”，而不是活成“自己这样”。

52. Many of the sufferings and misfortunes in life are because people want to live like "others," rather than like "themselves."

53. 10离开后就别再回头，不要幻想重新开始，不要梦想再次升温，结束的感情回不到曾经，离开的心情回不到过去。

53. After leaving, don't look back anymore, don't indulge in the fantasy of starting over, don't dream of rekindling the warmth, the relationship that has ended cannot return to the past, and the feeling of leaving cannot return to the past.

54. 3很多的烦恼源于不够狠心，做什么都要顾及别人的感受，你总顾及别人，那谁来顾及你。

54. 3 Many troubles arise from not being ruthless enough. You always think about others' feelings in everything you do. If you always care about others, then who will care about you?

55. 走到途中才忽然发现，我只剩下一副模糊的面目，和一条不能回头的路。

55. It was only halfway through the journey that I suddenly realized, I was left with a vague face and a road that could not be turned back.

56. 9世上不爱的理由有很多，然而爱的表现只有一个：就想和你在一起。

56.9 There are many reasons for not loving in the world, but there is only one expression of love: just wanting to be with you.

57. 18心脏是一座有两间卧室的房子，一间住着痛苦，另一间住着欢乐，人不能笑得太响。否则笑声会吵醒隔壁房间的痛苦。

57. The heart is a house with two bedrooms, one occupied by pain and the other by joy. One cannot laugh too loudly, otherwise the laughter will wake up the pain in the adjacent room.

58. 16想一起到老的人，再大的吵闹也会各自找台阶，速度重归于好。不想接着走的人，一次小别扭，也会乘机找借口溜掉。

58. Those who wish to grow old together will find ways to reconcile, even after the biggest disputes, and quickly make amends. Those who do not wish to continue walking together will take even a minor disagreement as an opportunity to find an excuse and slip away.

59. 3劝别人的时候，倒是永远心思透彻，看淡红尘，拿得起放得下。承担他人的痛苦的时候，我们都 分外坚强。人好像都是这样：处理别人的事情总是大刀阔斧，一把抓住主要问题，轮到自己却沉浸在细枝末节不肯放手。

59.3 When persuading others, one seems to always have a clear mind, indifferent to the complexities of the world, and able to pick up and put down things. When bearing others' pain, we are all particularly strong. It seems that people are like this: when dealing with others' affairs, they act decisively, grasping the main issue, but when it comes to their own, they get lost in the minutiae and refuse to let go.

60. 31我们都在猜着对方是否会想自己，我们都在心里期待着对方先主动，于是我们各怀心事，最后我们渐行渐远。

60. 31 We are all guessing whether the other person is thinking of us, and we are all secretly hoping that the other person will make the first move. So, we carry our own concerns, and eventually, we drift apart.

61. 35姑娘，你那么努力，不是为了嫁给世俗传说的如意郎君；你那么优秀，不是为了给娃当个娘就算了，你从不欠别人一段恋爱，也不欠任何人一个孩子，你只欠自己一个幸福的模样。

61. Young lady, you have worked so hard, not for the sake of marrying a suitor according to the common beliefs of society; you are so outstanding, not just to be a mother for a child. You owe no one a relationship, nor anyone a child. All you owe is to yourself is a happy appearance.

62. 20我们最重要的不是去计较真与伪，得与失，名与利，贵与贱，富与贫，而是如何好好地快乐度日，并从中发现生活的诗意。

62. What matters most to us is not to argue over truth and falsity, gain and loss, fame and profit, high and low, wealth and poverty, but how to enjoy life happily and find the poetry in life.

63. 说100遍不如脚踏实地开始，只要自己认为方向正确，就要坚定的一如既往的走下去，在一直前行的过程当中，道路会越来越清晰！

63. It's better to start by taking action than to talk for 100 times. As long as you believe the direction is correct, you should resolutely continue on the same path. In the process of always moving forward, the path will become clearer and clearer!

64. 32我其实并不赞同多谈几次恋爱才能长大这样的说法，每一次结束都是一场声势浩大的战役，消耗我对生活的热情，我宁愿把这个世界的所有噪点，在一个人身上磨平，带着最不通人情的爱，和横冲直撞的情怀。

64. I actually don't agree with the saying that one has to go through multiple love affairs to grow up. Every breakup is a grand battle,耗尽我对生活的热情。I would rather smooth out all the noise in the world on one person, carrying the most inhuman love and a rebellious spirit.

65. 时间是最公平的，你把它用在了哪儿，哪儿就有收获，把时间分给运动，健身，读书，你会发现，锻炼了身体，增强了体质，每天都精神饱满，读过的书丰盈了你的内心！

65. Time is the most fair, where you put it, that's where you will reap the rewards. Give time to sports, fitness, and reading, and you will find that you have strengthened your body and enhanced your constitution, feeling energetic every day, and the books you have read have enriched your inner world!

66. 6每个忽冷忽热的人，心里都烙着一个曾经烫伤自己的人。

66. 6 Every fickle person has a scar from someone who once burned them.

67. 一个人之所以变得柔软，一定是因为她更懂得了理解和宽容。对于自己不曾了解的事情学会的缄默，而不是盲目的批评，哪怕是不同意许多事情，但也学会了站在对方的立场上想问题。没有了非此即彼，非黑即白的执拗，学会了打开心胸，不止对现在，也对过去那些曾经难以搁置的顽念，学会了释怀。

67. A person becomes soft because they have a deeper understanding and tolerance. They learn to be silent about things they do not understand, rather than to criticize blindly. Even if they disagree with many things, they also learn to think from the other person's perspective. They let go of the stubbornness of either/or, black/white thinking, and learn to open their hearts, not just to the present, but also to the past stubborn thoughts that were once difficult to put aside, and learn to let go.

68. 6很多事情永远都想不通，想不通为什么一睁眼，你就不是我的了。再想到你，我也想不通，想不通这些日日夜夜的疏离，都像是一夜之间发生的，想不通怎么就没办法和你并肩了。

68. 6 There are so many things that I can never understand, why when I open my eyes, you are no longer mine. And when I think of you, I still can't understand, can't comprehend why these days and nights of estrangement seem to have happened overnight, can't understand why I can't stand side by side with you anymore.

69. 1有多少和我一样，坐在不足十平米的空间里，看着书里九万五千公里的绚丽。又或是和我一样，拥有一颗比九万五千公里还辽阔的心，却坐在不足一平米的椅子上。

69. 1 How many of us, like me, sit in a space less than ten square meters, gazing at the dazzling scenery of ninety-five thousand kilometers in the books. Or, like me, possess a heart as vast as ninety-five thousand kilometers, yet sit on a chair that is less than one square meter.

70. 5喜欢是急着确定关系，爱是等自己有能力给她一个家。

70. 5. Like is the urgency to confirm a relationship, while love is waiting until one is capable of giving her a home.

71. 14结了婚就替单身朋友着急，离过婚就觉得别人的婚姻都是假相，生了孩子就觉得不生孩子都是自私，先工作的就觉得读研读博就是浪费生命，自由职业了就觉得上班族在出卖灵魂，买了房子就觉得砸锅卖铁买房子才是正经事。人啊，说到底都不觉得自己的选择是对的，才会用拉人下水的形式找认同。

71. When married, one gets anxious for single friends; after a divorce, one thinks all marriages are illusions; after having a child, one feels that not having children is selfish; if one prioritizes work, one thinks pursuing a master's or a doctorate is a waste of life; as a freelancer, one feels that office workers are selling their souls; after buying a house, one thinks that using all means to buy a house is the real thing. In the end, people don't think their own choices are right, which is why they seek validation by dragging others into the same boat.

72. 34原来人可以度过最无望的日子，抖落身上的灰雨，重披一声星光。

72. 34 Originally, people can get through the most hopelessness days, shake off the dust and rain from their bodies, and wear a coat of starlight again.

73. 32走到途中才忽然发现，我只剩下一副模糊的面目，和一条不能回头的路。

73. Only halfway through, I suddenly realized that I was left with only a blurred appearance and a path that could not be turned back from.

74. 21孤独一人也没关系，只要能发自内心地爱着一个人，人生就会有救。哪怕不能和他生活在一起。

74. It's okay to be alone, as long as you can love someone from the bottom of your heart, your life will be saved. Even if you can't live with them.

75. 21有一种人很美好，他曾让你对明天有所期待，最终却没有出现在你的明天里；也有一种人很踏实，他会在往后的岁月中给你更长久的幸福，虽然他不曾来过你的青春。对于前者，我们要彼此祝福，对于后者，我们请温柔等待。

75. There is a kind of person who is very wonderful, who once made you look forward to tomorrow, but ultimately never appeared in your tomorrow. There is also a kind of person who is very down-to-earth, who will give you a longer-lasting happiness in the years to come, although he never came to your youth. For the former, we should bless each other, and for the latter, we ask for a gentle waiting.

76. 把时间用在提升自己，深耕自己，强大自己，专注于自己的生活，你会变得越来越好！

76. Spend your time on self-improvement, deeply cultivating yourself, becoming stronger, and focusing on your own life, and you will become better and better!