从意识到冷落，终结关系：珍视之人渐行渐远。

From realization of neglect to ending the relationship: cherished ones gradually fade away.

1. 36是岁数大了？还是岁月老了？喜欢安静、独处！越来越喜欢！一个人

1. Is 36 getting old, or is time itself aging? I like tranquility and solitude, and I'm increasingly fond of it! Alone.

2. 1在雨天赏雨是一种对孤独的享受，因为在无论是细雨绵绵，还是瓢泼大雨，其中都有她守望的影子！

2. 1 Enjoying the rain on a rainy day is a form of solitude, because in whether it's a drizzle or a downpour, there is her shadow watching!

3. 19这世间，每个人对同一事物都有着不一样的看法。对于眼前的事物，看情绪而定，好的心情自然会赏心悦目。

3. In this world, everyone has a different perspective on the same thing. The view of things before us is determined by mood; good spirits naturally make things pleasing to the eye.

4. 2不要让世俗问题和个人习惯阻碍自己回归真我。每当你无条件地爱别人，扩展自己爱的品质，那就是你的真我在扩展。每次这样做，你都在开阔自己的世界，开阔自己的真我，你会变得越来越 伟大。

4.2 Do not let secular concerns and personal habits hinder your return to your true self. Every time you love others unconditionally and expand the quality of your love, that is your true self expanding. Each time you do this, you are broadening your own world and your true self, and you will become increasingly great.

5. 28承受压力才会讨厌孤独，可只有学会在压力中享受孤独才能做到有足够的勇敢去战胜一切。

5. It is only when under pressure that one dislikes solitude, but only by learning to enjoy solitude in the face of pressure can one possess enough courage to overcome everything.

6. 那些渐行渐远的，都是没感情的陌路人，本就是寡淡的人啊，记不起谁的好，也不想记得谁的怨，无牵无挂，没心没肺，谁又能伤得了我？

6. Those who are gradually moving away are heartless strangers, inherently indifferent individuals. I can't recall who did me good, nor do I want to remember who harbored resentment. With no attachments and a callous heart, who can hurt me?

7. 14当你独处时，你会看到不一样的风景，收获与别人相处时所不能收获。

7. 14 When you are alone, you will see a different scenery and reap what you cannot gain when interacting with others.

8. 现在你就算笑着向我伸出手，我想我也没那么多力气够得着了。

8. Now even if you extend your hand to me with a smile, I doubt I have the strength to reach it.

9. 两个人渐行渐远的原因，往往是一个不说，一个不问。但是啊，人生哪有那么多来日方长，哪有那么多期待经得起消耗。

9. The reason why two people grow apart is often that one does not speak, and the other does not ask. But hey, in life, there aren't so many 'tomorrow will be long enough' or so many expectations that can withstand consumption.

10. 原来这份感情就像那两条相交的线，从远到近，却又在相聚的刹那瞬间岔开，渐行渐远。

10. It turns out that this feeling is like the two intersecting lines, drawing closer from afar, yet diverging in a moment of convergence, growing further apart as they go.

11. 18所有的痛苦，一切外在的不幸，都是幻想，都只是一场梦、一场戏，根本没什么好担心的。

11. All the sufferings, all the external misfortunes, are illusions, nothing more than a dream, a play; there is really nothing to worry about.

12. 31无论人生上到哪一层台阶，阶下有人在仰望你，阶上亦有人在俯视你。你抬头自卑，低头自得，唯有平视，才能看见真正的自己。

12.31 No matter which step in life you reach, there will be people looking up at you from below, and there will also be people looking down on you from above. When you look up, you feel humble; when you look down, you feel complacent. Only by looking straight ahead can you see the real you.

13. 13我们必须先得到内在和平，才能将和平带入世界。

13. 13 We must first achieve inner peace before we can bring peace to the world.

14. 25节假日未必需要远游，更喜欢一个人一杯茶，压压腿，听听歌，怡然自得。

14. On holidays, it's not necessarily necessary to travel far; I prefer to spend time alone, sipping a cup of tea, stretching my legs, listening to music, and enjoying a peaceful and contented moment.

15. 有那么一个人，他陪你笑靥如花，却陪不了你天长地久。

15. There is someone who accompanies you with a smile as bright as flowers, but cannot be with you for a long time.

16. 现在可能只会在你的朋友圈里点个赞就好。不是说疏远了忘记了。

16. Now, it might just be a like on your friend circle. Not that we've drifted apart or forgotten each other.

17. 为什么有的人会渐行渐远，因为他们的感情账户的余额根本就掩盖不住价值观的便宜和碰撞。没事多存储，感情毕竟是个消耗品。

17. Why do some people gradually drift apart? It's because the balance in their emotional bank account can't hide the cheapness and collisions of their values. It's always good to keep storing up; after all, emotions are a consumable.

18. 17生命中，总有一段时间要自己一个人走，要学会享受孤独和寂寞，学会适时的放手。感情，从来都没办法靠一个人来维系，我们能做的，只是让它随时间慢慢褪色，直到不留一点痕迹。

18. In the span of 17 years, there will always be a period when you have to walk alone. Learn to enjoy solitude and loneliness, and learn to let go at the right time. Emotions can never be sustained by a single person; what we can do is let them fade slowly with time until there is not a trace left.

19. 人到中年总会不经意间回忆往事，梦里想起认识十年的两个网友，在网络刚刚盛行的年代无话不谈，在投入各自生活后的渐行渐远，很想真实的感受一下她们各自的生活，投入过感情的回忆就此消逝还是很不甘心，希望明年能有时间，也不会太晚。

19. As people reach middle age, they often inadvertently recall the past. In a dream, I thought of two internet friends I've known for ten years; in the days when the internet was just booming, we talked about everything. After being immersed in our own lives, we gradually drifted apart. I really want to experience their lives firsthand. It's not satisfying to have the memories of the emotions invested in them fade away. I hope next year I will have time, and it won't be too late.

20. 理念不一样，追求不一样的两个人凑合在一起只会渐行渐远。

20. Two people with different ideals and different pursuits will only drift apart as they force themselves to be together.

21. 25当你有了独处的能力，却害怕群居的生活。

21. 25 When you have the ability to be alone, yet fear the life of living in a group.

22. 失恋时，只有种可能性，要么是你爱她她不爱你，或者相反。那么，当你爱的人不再爱你，或者从来没爱过你时。你没有遗憾，因为你失去的只是一个不爱你的人。

22. When you are heartbroken, there is only one possibility: either you love her but she doesn't love you, or vice versa. So, when the person you love no longer loves you, or has never loved you, you have no regrets, because all you have lost is someone who doesn't love you.

23. 谁动了谁的琴弦响起了思念，谁守着谁的伤悲独自泪成涟。

23. Whose strings were played, stirring memories, and whose sorrow was guarded alone, tears forming ripples?

24. 真的想成为你的遗憾，等你老了，想起我来，如我现在这般，苦笑不堪。

24. I really wish to be your regret, when you're old and remember me, you'll feel as I do now, a bitter smile that's hard to bear.

25. 17用一个局外人的眼光，审视自己的内心，然后就能拥有一种超脱悠然的心境，那正是生活中最惬意的一段时光。

25. With an outsider's perspective, examining one's own inner self can lead to a state of serene transcendence, which is the most pleasant part of life.

26. 15小人以己之过为人之过，每怨天而尤人；君子以人之过为己之过，每反躬而责己。

26. The unenlightened often attribute others' faults to themselves, frequently blaming the heavens and others; whereas the noble person treats others' faults as their own, frequently reflecting upon themselves and blaming no one else.

27. 6智商决定你的下限，情商决定你的上限。你说话让人舒服的程度，能决定你所能抵达的高度。

27. 6 IQ determines your lower limit, and EQ determines your upper limit. The comfort level of your speech can determine the height you can reach.

28. 带孩子是一件痛并快乐的事情，也是一段转瞬即逝的回忆。转眼间，已经一年多了，虽然我多余的脂肪还没消退，孩子都会蹒跚走路了。我从疲惫不堪的倦怠感逐渐过渡到精神抖擞的愉悦感，感谢这一路帮助我的亲人和朋友！人生虽然是一条渐行渐远的路，但我们的感情始终如

28. Raising a child is a bittersweet experience, a fleeting memory that flies by. In a blink of an eye, it's been over a year, and although my excess fat hasn't disappeared yet, the child is already walking unsteadily. I have gradually transitioned from an exhausted state of fatigue to a spirited sense of joy, and I thank my family and friends for all their help along the way! Although life is a journey that gets increasingly distant, our feelings remain as steadfast as ever.

29. 或许，每一位忧伤的作者，都在用自己的伤痛，慢慢地抚平另一人的伤痛。

29. Perhaps, every sorrowful writer is slowly healing another's wounds with their own pain.

30. 你曾经一度的认为，就凭你俩这关系，一定能坚持到生命的尽头，可缘分这东西，真的说不清道不明，有的人注定只是你生命的过客，无论你再怎么珍惜，再怎么努力挽留，却还是留不住，尽力之后就选择随缘吧，你只能放手！于是你明白了，成年人的离开不需要告别！

30. You once thought that with the relationship between the two of you, you could definitely last until the end of life. However, fate is something that really cannot be explained or understood. Some people are destined to be just a passerby in your life, no matter how much you cherish them or how hard you try to hold on, you still can't keep them. After making an effort, choose to go with the flow, and let go! You realize that adults leaving doesn't require a farewell!

31. 14生命中，总有一段时间要自己一个人走，要学会享受孤独和寂寞，学会适时的放手。感情，从来都没办法靠一个人来维系，我们能做的，只是让它随时间慢慢褪色，直到不留一点痕迹。

31. In life, there will always be a time when you have to walk alone. You learn to enjoy solitude and loneliness, and to let go at the right moment. Emotions can never be sustained by a single person. All we can do is let them fade away with time, until there's not a trace left.

32. 10一旦开悟，爱力会经由你流到你的朋友、爱人、任何你想到或关心的人那里去。

32. 10 Once enlightened, the power of love will flow through you to your friends, loved ones, anyone you think of or care about.

33. 学会宽恕就是学会顺从自己的心，“恕”字拆开就是“如心”。

33. To learn to forgive is to learn to submit to one's own heart, as the character "恕" (shù) can be broken down into "如" (rú, meaning "as") and "心" (xīn, meaning "heart").

34. 20我和我的影子独处。它说它有悄悄话想跟我说。它说它很想念原来我和我的影子。

34. 20 I spent time alone with my shadow. It told me it had some secrets to whisper. It said it missed the times when I was with my shadow.

35. 你曾经以为你有牢不可破的友情，却在一次争吵以后，两个人渐行渐远，曾经的牢不可破，在岁月里发出嘶嘶无情的嘲笑。

35. You once thought you had an unbreakable friendship, but after a quarrel, the two of you drifted apart gradually. What was once unbreakable now mockingly hisses out of the passage of time.

36. 1用一生的时光去享受一场花开的盛宴，用支离破碎的记忆去拼凑一个流年。

36.1 Spend an entire lifetime enjoying a grand feast of blooming flowers, and use fragmented memories to piece together a flowing year.

37. 2我一直以自己的方式和这个世界相处，练习过孤独尝试过痛苦享受过短暂却极致的幸福，所以虽败犹荣。

37. 2 I have always dealt with this world in my own way, practiced solitude, endured pain, and enjoyed brief but ultimate happiness, so even in defeat, I feel proud.

38. 4独处是一个难得的时光，正好可以和自己安静的对话。

38. 4 Solitude is a rare moment, a perfect time for a quiet conversation with oneself.

39. 无论遇到什么事情，都不要轻易说你不喜欢我，不要轻易放弃我们这段感情，因为，下一站的人未必比我好……

39. No matter what happens, don't easily say that you don't like me, and don't easily give up on our relationship, because the person at the next stop may not be better than me...

40. 你以什么样的心态去面对生活，你就会收获什么样的心情！

40. The attitude with which you face life is what you will reap in terms of mood!

41. 3最近爱上了独处的感觉一杯奶茶安静坐一天 与世隔绝放松情绪 “没有压力 没有烦恼”。

41. 3 recently fell in love with the feeling of solitude. Sitting quietly with a cup of milk tea for a whole day, feeling isolated from the world and relaxing my mood, "no pressure, no worries."

42. 29非学无以广才，赖有一矣，愿你找到那一个能让你的心静下来的人。闲来品一杯咖啡，选择一种舒服的生活姿态！。别把别人的闲诞事装进耳里，阳光照进小屋。手把青秧插满田低头便见水中天六根清净方为道退步原来是向前，寂静调其心，小孩的笑和老人的笑都是纯真无邪的，心无所碍。

42. 29 Without learning, one cannot broaden one's talents. Rely on that one person who can calm your heart. Enjoy a cup of coffee in your leisure time, choose a comfortable way of life! Don't let others' trivial matters enter your ears; let the sunshine into your small house. Holding green seedlings, plant them across the field; bowing down, you will see the sky in the water. Six roots pure and clean is the way; stepping back is actually moving forward. Calm your mind, the laughter of children and the laughter of the elderly are both innocent and pure; there are no obstacles in the heart.

43. 不要高估你在别人心中的位置，你还是那个你，我还是那个我，我们都没变，只是感情淡了而已。

43. Don't overestimate your position in others' hearts. You are still the same you, and I am still the same me. We haven't changed at all; it's just that the feelings have become faint.

44. 当初还是无话不谈的俩姐妹，有什么新鲜事、高兴的事、烦心的事、生活琐事都会彼此交流，即使不说话坐在一起，也会踏实；当俩姐妹嫁人后，还是跟以前一样，彼此的倾诉、分享对象，可是当两个家庭的经济实力有了差异之后，就会彼此疏远了，不再无话不谈，渐行渐远是俩姐妹的感情不深？还是金钱战胜了感情？

44. Originally the two sisters who could talk about anything, sharing everything from new experiences, joyful events, troubling matters, and trivial daily issues, would be content just sitting together in silence; but after they got married, even though they remained the same in terms of pouring their hearts out and sharing with each other, a distance grew between them when the economic power of the two families started to differ. This distance led to less and less sharing, and the sisters seemed to grow apart. Is it because the sisters' feelings were not deep enough, or is it that money has triumphed over their emotions?

45. 生活，是晨起暮落。日子，是柴米油盐。走过的路，经过的事，看过的风景，已经随着光阴渐行渐远，不必哀叹，也无需伤感，珍惜当下，恬淡随意地生活，便是浅浅的快乐。

45. Life is the rise and fall of the morning and evening. Days are about the mundane matters of firewood, rice, oil, and salt. The paths walked, the events experienced, the landscapes seen, have all gradually drifted away with the passage of time. There is no need to lament, nor to feel despondent. Cherish the present, live a serene and carefree life, and that is a simple kind of happiness.

46. 17随着年龄增长，越来越喜欢安静独处，也许是真正的慢慢变成熟了。

46. 17 As people grow older, they tend to prefer quiet solitude more and more, which may be a true sign of maturing slowly.

47. 16一个人越聪明、越善良，他看到别人身上的美德越多；而人越愚蠢、越恶毒，他看到别人身上的缺点也越多。

47. The more intelligent and kind a person is, the more virtues they see in others; while the more foolish and malicious a person is, the more flaws they see in others.

48. 40这个夜，有人在温暖的房间享受夜的销魂，也有人凋零似的走在街头忍受着夜的孤独。

48. On this 40th night, some are enjoying the intoxicating night in a warm room, while others are walking through the streets like withering leaves, enduring the loneliness of the night.

49. 这个社会竞争压力还是很大的，所以矛盾经常会出现在我们的身边，有的时候仅仅是一个点就激化了所有的矛盾。在一段恋爱中，刚开始的时候肯定是甜蜜的，但是越到后面你就会发现对对方失去了一种新鲜感，让人觉得周围的一切都是那么的厌恶。

49. There is still a lot of competitive pressure in this society, so conflicts often arise around us. Sometimes, a single point can escalate all the contradictions. In a relationship, at the beginning it is definitely sweet, but as it goes on, you will find that you have lost a sense of novelty towards the other person, making everything around seem so unpleasant.

50. 我再也不想对谁说，能不能陪我走到最后，我再也不想对谁说，能不能在我哭泣的时候借我肩膀我再也不想对谁说，能不能陪我一起哭笑的扛下一切，因为这条路，走的只有我自己，能陪我的，也只有我自己。

50. I no longer want to ask anyone, "Can you walk with me to the end?" I no longer want to ask anyone, "Can you lend me your shoulder when I'm crying?" I no longer want to ask anyone, "Can you accompany me in weeping and laughing, bearing everything together?" Because for this path, I walk alone, and the only one who can accompany me is myself.

51. 25独处，不是一个人骨子里的冷酷，而是一个人自由的孤独。

51. Being alone is not the coldness inherent in a person, but the solitude of freedom.

52. 13静坐常思自己过，不喜欢应酬、方便行于世，上班下班。不妨道来看看。若使二。

52. 13 Often reflect on one's own faults while sitting quietly, dislike socializing, prefer to act conveniently in the world, go to work and come back. Why not come and take a look? If there are two...

53. 最近真的一直处于伤感的氛围，不是说环境伤感，而是心里莫名伤感，尤其在一个人的时候还在听闪火的童言无忌，这种感情更加强烈，感觉受一点刺激都会掉眼泪，就像刚才和水牛分离的时候看了一眼渐行渐远的背影都有一种要掉眼泪的冲动，就像刚接过吴景手中拿来的袋子相互击拳时候听着那一声加油也让内心有了很大的触动，总是在想，要离开了，总想着和朋友们好好告别，再见一面，多见一面，也不知道哪一次会是真正的再见，离别的日子越近，越珍惜当下每一次的见面，因为可能这次见的一面，真的会是最后一面。嘿我走了，可别想我，我会很想你们的。两年也就一下子的事儿，你们打好你们的仗，要赢得漂漂亮亮的，内心一直坚信你们会赢的，一定会的，那我也去打我的仗了，都OK的大家，都会赢的漂漂亮亮的，我相信会的。

53. Lately, I've been in a melancholic mood, not because of the environment, but for some reason, I feel a sense of sadness in my heart, especially when I'm alone and listening to the innocent words of Flash Fire. This feeling becomes even stronger, and I feel like I might cry at the slightest provocation. Just like when I looked at the receding back of the water buffalo and felt a surge of tears, or when I shook hands with Wu Jing and received the bag he handed me, hearing the cheer of "go for it" also deeply touched my heart. I keep thinking, it's time to leave, and I want to say goodbye to my friends properly, to see them one more time, not knowing which time will be our real farewell. As the day of departure gets closer, I cherish every moment of our meetings, because this might be the last time we see each other. Hey, I'm leaving, but don't worry about me, I'll miss you all very much. Two years is just a blink of an eye, so fight your battles well, and win beautifully. I always believe that you will win, and I'm going to fight my own battle too. Everyone's fine, and we will all win beautifully, I believe that.

54. 你会发现很多东西都可以可有可无了，比如异地的爱情，比如渐行渐远的友情，比如那天掉了很喜欢的耳钉，比如那些以为很铁的异性朋友。这些原本很重要很能影响我情绪的感情似乎都不太能牵动我了，似乎内心没肺没感情了一样。。

54. You will find that many things can be optional, such as long-distance love, the friendship that is gradually fading away, the day when you lost your favorite earring, and those opposite-sex friends who you thought were very close. These emotions that were originally very important and could greatly affect my mood now seem to have little impact on me, as if my heart is insensitive and devoid of feelings...

55. 没有无缘无故的离开，没有一朝一夕的失去。幼苗尚且需要呵护更何况是感情。你不呵护，只有渐行渐远的缘分；你不在乎，只有愈来愈淡的感情。不要等到时间都无法解决的地步，才感慨当初应当如何。如果现在还有一个非爱不可得人，那么适当得吸引和引导也未尝不可。感情并不是坐等就能发生得必然事件，为什么不去为自己努力创造机会。想要听得歌，搜遍全网也要听到；想要找的人，走遍全世界都要找到！

55. There is no reason for leaving without cause, no momentary loss. Seedlings still need nurturing, let alone emotions. If you do not nurture them, you will only see the bond fade away; if you do not care, the feelings will become increasingly faint. Do not wait until time itself can no longer resolve the issue before regretting how things should have been in the past. If there is still someone you must have despite it all, then why not appropriately attract and guide them? Emotions are not necessarily events that can happen just by waiting. Why not strive to create opportunities for yourself? The song you want to hear, you will search the entire internet to hear it; the person you want to find, you will traverse the entire world to find them!

56. 人生就像战场，不是你死便是我活。社会不断发展，跟不上节奏的都将被淘汰，只有不断地汲取教训，不断改变自我去适应社会，才能被社会所录用。

56. Life is like a battlefield, it's either you die or I survive. As society continues to develop, those who can't keep up with the pace will be eliminated. Only by constantly learning from our mistakes and continuously changing ourselves to adapt to society can we be accepted by it.

57. 30喜欢简单点的关系，喜欢一个人，喜欢那种自在不用顾虑太多的悠然，即便会被误解为孤独但我依旧喜欢那种独处。

57. 30 prefers simpler relationships, likes being in love, and enjoys that relaxed state where one doesn't have to worry too much. Even though it might be misunderstood as loneliness, I still like that sense of being alone.

58. 曾经想过我们可以一生的无话不说，一辈子的感情，到如今是否已渐行渐远我们还能回去吗？

58. Have you ever thought that we could talk about everything throughout our lives, share a lifetime of affection, but now, as we seem to be moving further apart, can we still go back?

59. 38我喜欢夜晚，当黑幕降临，大多人沉睡的时候；我独自一个人站阳台凝视星空，凝视一份思念，遥想远方是否有人也凝视星空，凝视一个人一份思念！

59. 38 I like the night, when the dark curtain falls and most people are asleep; I stand alone on the balcony, gazing at the starry sky, gazing at a piece of longing, wondering if someone far away is also gazing at the starry sky, gazing at a person and a piece of longing!

60. 29对人诚信是保护自己尊严、良知的最好方法。

60. Being honest with 29 people is the best way to protect one's dignity and conscience.

61. 学会放手，既是成全他，更是尊重自己。人生短短几十年，要能拿得起放得下。别为不值得的人伤心伤身！

61. Learning to let go is not only for his benefit but also a way to respect yourself. Life is short, only a few decades, and one must be able to pick up and put down. Don't let yourself be hurt emotionally and physically for someone who isn't worth it!

62. 你要很远很远的未来，他只给得起现在，说做人不要那么好高骛远。可爱情的保质期常是太短，今天海誓山盟，明天就给你脸色看。单方面的有恃无恐，只会换来两个人的渐行渐远。

62. You look so far into the future, but he can only offer the present, and he advises against having such high ambitions. However, the expiration date of love is often too short; today you make solemn promises by the sea, and tomorrow you give him a cold face. Being overconfident on one side can only lead to the gradual estrangement of the two of you.

63. 24我喜欢听歌，也喜欢独处，喜欢安静却也害怕孤单，我喜欢笑，可惜脾气不温和， 我想成为荆棘又不想伤害他人。

63. 24 I like to listen to music, and I also like to be alone. I enjoy quietness yet I'm afraid of loneliness. I like to laugh, but unfortunately, I don't have a gentle temperament. I want to be thorny yet I don't want to hurt others.

64. 幸福而快乐旳地球人，怎何时懂得火星人旳悲伤。

64. Happy and joyful Earthlings, when will you ever understand the sorrow of the Martians?

65. 7我们不需要为寻找天国而逃避世俗生活，而是要把天国带进我们的生活中。要找到真正的快乐与成功的方法，只有往内边寻找更高层次的意识，收集更好资料，并加以运用在日常生活中。

65. 7 We do not need to escape secular life in order to seek the kingdom of heaven; instead, we should bring the kingdom of heaven into our lives. The way to find true happiness and success is to seek higher levels of consciousness within ourselves, gather better information, and apply it in our daily lives.

66. 从来没想过我会活成这个死样，憋屈死了，与之前的路渐行渐远，如果没有所谓的感情出现，是不是我会过得更好。

66. Never thought I'd live like this, it's so stifling, and I'm moving further and further away from the path I used to take. If it wasn't for the so-called feelings, wouldn't I have had a better life?

67. 两个人的人生节奏不一致了，肯定会渐行渐远！再见以前开心的时光！

67. When the life rhythms of two people fall out of sync, it's inevitable that they will gradually drift apart! Farewell to the days of joy in the past!

68. 22人成熟的过程，其实是学会与自我相处的过程。这个过程必然伴随着从热闹到安静，从慌张到淡定，从迷茫到自知，从有人陪伴到泰然独处。

68. The maturation process of 22 people is actually the process of learning to coexist with oneself. This process inevitably comes with a transition from hustle and bustle to tranquility, from anxiety to composure, from confusion to self-awareness, and from companionship to serene solitude.

69. 灵秀上眉头，浩气存胸口，七分癫更有三分温柔。

69. Graceful and refined upon the brow, the vast and noble spirit resides in the chest, with seven parts of madness and three parts of gentleness.

70. 8总有些事，管你愿不愿意，它都要发生，你只能接受；总有些东西，管你躲不躲避，它都要来临，你只能面对；总有些人，管你放不放手，他都要离开，你只能黯然神伤。别惹事，但别怕事，生活是弹簧，你弱它就强；当你改变不了现实，那就适度调整自己；携手时珍视，放手时洒脱，于人于已，都是一种幸福。

70.8 Sometimes there are things that will happen regardless of whether you want them to or not, and you can only accept them; there are some things that will come regardless of whether you try to avoid them or not, and you can only face them; there are some people who will leave regardless of whether you let go or not, and you can only feel a sense of sorrow. Don't court trouble, but don't be afraid of it either, for life is a spring; if you are weak, it will be strong. When you can't change the reality, then moderately adjust yourself. Cherish when you are together, be carefree when you let go, and that is happiness for both others and yourself.

71. 随着年龄的增长人是会越来越透彻的理解许多问题，渐行渐远的感情也好，匆匆掠过的风景也罢，眼睛看到的地方或是双脚到达的地方，都会给自己的人生留下一些痕迹，所以自己的感受才是最真实的。

71. As people grow older, they become increasingly perceptive of many issues. Whether it's the affection that fades away or the fleeting scenery that passes by, every place the eyes see or the feet reach, leaves some traces on one's life. Therefore, one's own feelings are the most authentic.

72. 3烟雾缭绕之中，往事历历，脑子越来越清醒，内心却越来越孤独，我很愿意享受这种孤独。

72. Amidst the swirling smoke, past memories are vivid, my mind grows increasingly clear, but my heart grows lonelier. I am quite willing to enjoy this loneliness.

73. 15在你没有到来的日子里，我要学会自己买水喝，自己拧瓶盖，自己安慰自己，充分享受“孤独”。可我真的不好受。

73. 15 On the days when you are not here, I will have to learn to buy my own water, twist the bottle cap myself, comfort myself, and fully enjoy the "solitude". But I really don't feel good.

74. 时间就像个筛子，不停的过滤着你身边的人，只有相处时间长了，经历的事情多了，才知道哪些人可以留在生命里，哪些人是渐行渐远的！最卑贱不过感情，最薄凉不过人心！人生可贵，珍惜筛子上面永远掉不下来的那些人！

74. Time is like a sieve, constantly filtering the people around you. Only after spending a long time together and experiencing many things, can you know who can stay in your life and who is gradually moving away! Nothing is more humble than emotions, and nothing is more indifferent than human hearts! Life is precious; cherish those people who never fall off the sieve!

75. 记忆中那个少年，骄傲的宣言，伸出手就能拥抱全世界。

75. In memory of that young boy, he proudly declared that he could embrace the whole world with an outstretched hand.

76. 两个人发生了无法调和的矛盾，没有人愿意退步的话，大不了就是一个渐行渐远。

76. There is an irreconcilable conflict between two people. If no one is willing to make concessions, the worst that can happen is that they will gradually drift apart.

77. 人来到这个世界就是受罪来的，从出生到进坟墓，都在莫名其妙地奋斗着。

77. People come into this world to suffer; from birth to death, they are struggling in a way that is mysterious and inexplicable.

78. 3如果我们静心，唤醒内在的意识，我们会知道自己的伟大，知道自己和宇宙源头有沟通，而且是其中一分子，我们和整个宇宙是一体的，因此我们会更有耐心、更坚强、更有智慧，可以做更多 神奇的事。

78. 3 If we calm our minds and awaken our inner consciousness, we will come to know our greatness, realize that we are in communication with the source of the universe, and that we are a part of it. Therefore, we will have more patience, be stronger, and possess greater wisdom, allowing us to accomplish more miraculous feats.

79. 11张开大嘴四处嚷嚷只是人的本能，静心是减压的好方法。水静下来才能映出云影，呵呵，夫学须静也，意定则慧生，风静下来才能安眠树梢。

79. Yelling loudly with wide-open mouth is just an instinct of humans, and being calm is a good way to reduce stress. The water must be still to reflect the shadows of the clouds, hahaha. Just as learning requires calmness, when the mind is settled, wisdom is born, and when the wind calms down, the trees can rest peacefully.

80. 失败并不可怕，关键是要看这个失败是不是成功的母亲。

80. Failure is not可怕 in itself; the key is to see if this failure is the mother of success.

81. 10我来到，你的城市。走过你来时的路。想象着，没我的日子，你是怎样的孤独。

81. 10 I came to your city. Walked the path you took. Imagined, without me, how lonely you were.

82. 不要太宠爱悲伤，否则会让快乐离开家远走天涯〞

82. Don't be overly indulgent to sadness, or else happiness will leave the home and wander far away to the ends of the earth.

83. 有些人有些感情就算费劲心思努力维系可能怎么都达不到想要的结果甚至渐行渐远。是不是生活别那么倔强，也许就不会太遗憾了呢？

83. Some people have certain emotions that no matter how hard they try to maintain, they may never reach the desired outcome, and even drift apart. Maybe if life wasn't so stubborn, there wouldn't be too much regret?

84. 9有些伤口，时间久了就会慢慢长好；有些委屈，受过了想通了也就释然了；有些伤痛，忍过了疼久了也成习惯了……然而却在很多孤独的瞬间，又重新涌上心头。其实，有些藏在心底的话，并不是故意要去隐瞒，只是，并不是所有的疼痛，都可以呐喊。

84.9 Some wounds will gradually heal over time; some grievances, once endured and understood, will be easily let go of; some pains, once endured for a long time, will become a habit... However, in many lonely moments, they resurface in the heart. In fact, some words hidden in the heart are not intentionally meant to be concealed; it's just that not all pain can be shouted out.