“遗忘，总在某个不经意的瞬间悄然来袭，那些难以忘怀的回忆，却总是反复在心头徘徊……”

"Forgotten memories always sneak up on us in an unintentional moment, those unforgettable recollections keep lingering in our hearts repeatedly..."

1. 一个入了心的人，都尝试过忘记很多次了，可一点点的事情就会勾起痛苦的回忆！

1. A person who has truly connected with someone has tried to forget many times, but even the smallest things can bring up painful memories!

2. 前几天，老家的一个大娘去世了，我和我弟早起开车回去了！

2. A few days ago, an elderly woman from my hometown passed away, and I and my younger brother drove back early in the morning!

3. 每次回村里，我都有意无意的出门不往左走，因为和我家在一条街上，往左走到头，第二家就是我初恋对象的家！离我家就五六分钟的路程！

3. Every time I go back to the village, I unconsciously avoid turning left when I go out, because my house is on the same street as mine. If I walk to the end of the street on the left, the second house is where my first love lives! It's only a five or ten-minute walk from my house!

4. 我们是一块长大的发小，一直到高中毕业都是同学，我们俩相互喜欢着对方，上高中住校的时候，每逢周末，我们都是做伴回来再做伴回去，彼此心里都特别喜欢对方，那几年给我的一生都留下了深刻的印象，虽然两家没有挑明，但也都默认了这段关系！高中三年是我最快乐的时光，现在回想起来都是！

4. We grew up together as childhood friends and were classmates until high school graduation. We both had feelings for each other. During our boarding school days in high school, every weekend, we would accompany each other to go back and forth. We both had a strong liking for each other in our hearts. Those years left a deep impression on my entire life! Although our families never explicitly acknowledged this relationship, we both implicitly recognized it. The three years of high school were the happiest time in my life, and I still remember it fondly now!

5. 变化出现在了高中毕业的时候，高三的时候，他姐姐的公公找人帮忙，让他练体育，然后走空军这条道路！

5. The change occurred at the time of high school graduation. In the third year of high school, his sister's father-in-law arranged for someone to help him practice sports, and then pursue a career in the Air Force!

6. 不出意外的，他体育测试过关了，那时我特别替他高兴，毕业时他被录取到了长春的一所航空学校，我却只考上了一所不出名的大专！

6. As expected, he passed the physical examination, and I was particularly happy for him at that time. Upon graduation, he was admitted to an aviation school in Changchun, but I only managed to get into an obscure junior college!

7. 这个时候他家里人做了一个重要的决定，就是和我分开，刚开始他不同意，可最后还是拗不过家里人，我也深知自己和他的差距，自己已经明显的配不上他，我们就分开了！

7. At this time, his family made an important decision to separate from me. Initially, he was不同意, but in the end, he couldn't resist his family. I also deeply realized the gap between us, that I was clearly not a match for him anymore, so we parted ways!

8. 从那以后，我出来上大学，毕业，工作，结婚，20多年过去了，我们都没再见过面，好像都在刻意的回避着对方，也从来没有联系过，即使这么近，从来没有打听过彼此的手机号码，因为有事回村里，别人聊起他时，我会岔开话题，或者转身走掉，我不想知道关于他的任何事，既然他不属于我，我何必去在意他，只要他过得好就好了，在老家刻意的出门不往左拐已经成了我的习惯！

8. Since then, I went to college, graduated, worked, got married, and over 20 years have passed. We haven't seen each other again, as if we were both deliberately avoiding each other, and we have never been in contact. Even though we are so close, we have never asked for each other's phone numbers. When I have things to do back in the village, I will change the subject or just walk away when others talk about him. I don't want to know anything about him, since he doesn't belong to me, why should I care about him? As long as he is doing well, that's fine. It has become a habit of mine to deliberately not turn left when I go out in my hometown!

9. 去这个大娘家，需要经过他的门口，我心里是很忐忑的，他妈已经去世好几年了，他爸现在得了偏瘫，走路得用拐棍，经常在轮椅上坐着，他姐经常在这边住着伺候他爸，经过他的门口，看到大门开着，他姐在院子里坐着，盯着门口，看到我回来了，赶紧从家里边出来和我打招呼！

9. To visit this big mother's house, I have to pass by his front door, and I am quite nervous. His mother has passed away for several years, and his father now suffers from hemiplegia, needing a cane to walk and often sitting in a wheelchair. His sister often lives here to take care of his father. As I passed by his front door, I saw the main gate open, with his sister sitting in the courtyard, watching the gate. Upon seeing me return, she quickly came out to greet me!

10. 我们也已经20多年没见过面了，大姐胖了好多，也显得老了，是啊，20多年的时间过去了，谁能没变老呢？想当初我上高中的时候，他姐在县城上班，有时候给他送好吃的，还不忘给我一份，我心里是非常感激的！

10. We haven't seen each other for over 20 years, and my elder sister has gained a lot of weight and looks older. Yes, over 20 years have passed, and who hasn't aged? Remember when I was in high school, my sister worked in the county town, and sometimes she would bring me some delicious food for him, and she wouldn't forget to give me a share too. I was very grateful in my heart!

11. 我不知道该说什么，不自觉的喊了一声姐，她姐热泪盈眶，拉住我的手，嘴里一直重复着：挺好的，你挺好的就好！

11. I didn't know what to say, and unconsciously called her "elder sister." Her elder sister's eyes were brimming with tears, she held my hand, and kept repeating in her mouth: "It's fine, as long as you're fine!"

12. 我不知道该说什么，想问他怎么样，想知道关于他的一切事，可最终还是忍住了，他一定会不错的，工作体面，收入又高，头脑又灵活，但和我又有什么关系？

12. I didn't know what to say, wanted to ask about him, wanted to know everything about him, but in the end, I held back. He will definitely be fine, with a decent job and high income, and a quick mind, but what does that have to do with me?

13. 心里久久不能平静，虽然时间上过去了这么久，我也一次一次的劝自己释怀，可终究是不能彻底放下，有时候我也在想，他在我心目中那么完美，也许现实中真的见了，他也早不是原来的他了，我们已经是两条线上的人，就这样，不见面，放在心里，挺好！

13. The peace in my heart has not settled down for a long time, even though so much time has passed. I have tried to let go of it time and time again, but I have never been able to let it go completely. Sometimes, I also wonder, he is so perfect in my eyes, maybe in reality, he has long ceased to be the person he used to be. We have become two people on different lines. So, not seeing each other, keeping it in my heart, is quite good!

14. 不要去与这段感情有联系的地方，不要留着与这段感情有关的东西。既然要放下这一段感情，就不能再对它抱有任何的幻想。人是会触景伤情的。当我们看见前男朋友送的东西时，总会勾起我们对那一段感情的回忆。我们会忍不住想要回到以前，忍不住想要与前男朋友重新开始。人在某种程度上是控制不住自己的。

14. Do not go to places associated with this relationship, and do not keep anything related to this relationship. Since you are meant to let go of this relationship, you cannot harbor any illusions about it anymore. People tend to be moved by their surroundings. When we see something that our ex-boyfriend gave us, it often brings back memories of that relationship. We can't help but want to go back to the past, and we can't help but want to restart with our ex-boyfriend. To some extent, people are unable to control themselves.

15. 所以，不要保留与这段感情有关的东西。因为看了这些东西，只会使我们更加伤心，走不出悲伤的泥潭。

15. Therefore, do not hold onto anything related to this relationship. Because looking at these things will only make us more heartbroken and unable to escape the quagmire of sadness.

16. 许多人都觉得这种方式太过危险，所以我就不建议你也这样去干。你呢，只要痛痛快快哭一场，把心里的委屈都发泄出来就好了。

16. Many people think this method is too dangerous, so I wouldn't recommend you to do it that way either. As for you, just have a good cry and let out all the grievances in your heart.

17. 让自己的生活变得充实起来，让自己没有太多的时间去怀念这段感情。我们可以在早晨起来的时候去旁边的花园跑步，跑完之后回来吃早餐然后上班。在上班的时候，可以多帮上司负担一些工作。这样既加强了上司对自己的好感又能让自己的生活充实起来。何乐而不为？

17. Let your life be filled with contentment, so that you have little time to linger over this past relationship. We can go for a run in the nearby garden when we wake up in the morning, come back for breakfast, and then go to work. At work, you can take on some additional responsibilities for your supervisor. This not only strengthens your supervisor's favorable opinion of you but also enriches your own life. What's not to like about that?

18. 在空闲的时候不要自己一个人呆在屋子里，多出去走走，多看一下外面的风景。我们的内心会发生不一样的变化，对这段感情也就不会那么放不下。

18. Don't spend your free time alone in the house; go out more often and take in more of the scenery outside. Our inner selves will undergo different changes, and we will not be as attached to this feeling.

19. 在感情中，我们总是与男朋友在一起，总是没有什么时间让我们可以去做自己喜欢的事。现在，终于分手了，我们应该这样想：挺好的，我终于可以有精力去做我喜欢的事情了。爱好让人疯狂，兴趣让人着迷。当一个人有了爱好之后，她对待自己的爱好就会非常专注，其他的事情在她的眼中都变得不那么重要。

19. In terms of emotions, we are always with our boyfriend, leaving us very little time to do the things we like. Now that we've finally split up, we should think like this: Great, at last, I'll finally have the energy to do the things I like. Hobbies make people crazy, interests fascinate. When someone has a hobby, they become very focused on it, and other things seem less important in their eyes.

20. 你知道的，你是永远也不能打扰一个专心致志的人的。所以，我们要多干自己喜欢的事情，让自己变得开心起来。

20. As you know, you can never disturb a person who is fully focused. Therefore, we should do more of the things we like and make ourselves happy.

21. 放下一段感情，我们需要开始下一段感情。下一段感情可以治愈我们在上一段感情所受的委屈和难过。还有，我们可以在下一段感情中找回在上一段感情所缺少的温暖。所以，我们需要开始下一段的恋情。

21. To move on from a relationship, we need to start the next one. The next relationship can heal the hurt and sadness we experienced in the previous one. Moreover, we can find the warmth that was missing in the previous relationship in the next one. Therefore, we need to embark on the next chapter of our love life.

22. 机遇就像闪电，只有快速果断才能将它捕获。立即行动是所有成功人士共同的特质。

22. Opportunities are like lightning; they can only be captured with quick and decisive action. Immediate action is a common trait among all successful individuals.

23. 信不过的不是爱情，而是人性。过不够的不是日子，而是人生。品不透的不是滋味，而是经历。

23. It's not love that can't be trusted, but human nature. It's not just the days that are not enough, but life itself. It's not the taste that can't be discerned, but the experiences.

24. 许多生活的图像，在心灵的长期浸染下，已经成为一种前尘梦影，旧时月色，一似飘逝的过眼云烟，或则了无踪影，或则漫漶模糊。由于追忆属于想像的领域，它是在时空变换条件下的一种新的综合，新的加工，因此，凡是追忆都会或多或少、或显或隐地夹杂着本人对于过往情事的重新诠释，包括赋予它以当时未必具备的新的意蕴、新的感受。也正因为这样，所以，无论回忆也好，捕捉光影、勾勒情怀也好，充其量只能是粗具形体的原始素描，而绝非摄影机下原原本本的照相，更不可能是那种记录三维空间整体信息的全息影片。---王充闾《淡写流年》

24. Many images of life, after being deeply imprinted on the mind over a long period, have become like past dreams or shadows, the old moonlight, as fleeting as the clouds passing before one's eyes, or completely vanished, or blurred and indistinct. Since reminiscing belongs to the realm of imagination, it is a new synthesis and processing under the conditions of changes in time and space. Therefore, every act of reminiscing is bound to involve, to a greater or lesser extent, either openly or subtly, the individual's reinterpretation of past events, including infusing it with new meanings and feelings that may not have been present at the time. It is precisely because of this that, whether it is about reminiscing or capturing light and shadows, or sketching emotions, they can at best be primitive sketches with only a rough form, far from being the original photographs taken under a camera, let alone a holographic film that records the entire information of a three-dimensional space. --- Wang Chongliang, "Writing the Flow of Years in a Light Touch"

25. 我希望你毕业后，先去你想去的地方，再去你该去的地方。我希望你能在最好的时光里，做最心甘情愿的事。---尹文思《因为有梦 所以远方》

25. I hope that after you graduate, you go to the place you want to go first, and then to the place you should go. I hope you can do the most willing things in the best time. ---尹文思 "Because of Dreams, There Is a Distance"

26. 走错了路，要记得回头；爱错了人，要懂得放手。人心都是相对的，以真换真；感情都是相互的，用心暖心。别去打扰那些已活在你记忆中的人，也许这才是最适合你们的距离 。只是一起走过一段路而已，何必把怀念弄的比经过还长。

26. If you've taken a wrong path, remember to turn back; if you've loved the wrong person, learn to let go. People's hearts are relative, exchange the real for the real; emotions are mutual, warm others with your heart. Don't disturb those who have already lived in your memory, perhaps this is the most suitable distance for you both. It's just that you've walked together for a while, why make the memories longer than the journey itself?

27. 语言这东西，在表达爱意的时候是那么无力，在表达伤害的时候却又如此锋利。

27. Language is so ineffective when it comes to expressing affection, yet so sharp when it's used to convey hurt.

28. 好男人和坏男人在追求你之初，都会关心你，接你送你，给你发短信，在你生病时照顾你。不要一有人对你好，你就马上陷进去，想一想，多看一看，再做决定。一般，四个月，足够的接触，足以让你了解他。网上的交往不算的，再长时间的网络接触也不算的，真实的生活才有意义。你过得快不快乐，你自己知道。

28. Good men and bad men will both care for you, pick you up and drop you off, send you messages, and take care of you when you're sick at the beginning of their pursuit. Don't fall for someone as soon as they show you kindness. Think about it, look around more, and then make your decision. Generally speaking, four months of interaction is enough to get to know someone. Online communication doesn't count, and extended online interaction doesn't count either; real-life experiences are what matter. Whether you're happy or not, you know it yourself.

29. 爱人就该懒惰。身为别人的爱人，我们要勤于练习我们的懒惰不该看见的事，我们就看不见；不必记住的事，我们就记不住；即使追究了也毫无意义的事，我们就非常懒得去追究。---蔡康永《再错也要谈恋爱》

29. A lover should be lazy. As someone's lover, we should diligently practice seeing what we shouldn't see, and we won't see it; not remembering what we shouldn't remember, and we won't remember it; and we'll be very lazy to pursue what is meaningless even if we do. ---蔡康永 "Even If We Make a Mistake, We Should Still Date"

30. 我们要学会承受平淡，学会承受淡淡的孤寂与失落，承受那挥之不去的枯燥与沉寂，还要承受那遥遥无期的等待与无奈。

30. We need to learn to endure the mundane, to bear the subtle loneliness and disappointment, to endure the persistent boredom and silence, and also to bear the long and fruitless waiting and helplessness.

31. 我想问问：我们在学校都交了钱，不是应该让老师听我们的吗？

31. I'd like to ask: Since we all paid money in school, shouldn't the teacher listen to us?

32. 回忆总是美好的，无论回忆里有哭，有笑。想起那些朋友，会由衷的觉得，生命中曾经有你，真好。可是依然无法改变现实。有些人确实疏远了。

32. Memories are always beautiful, regardless of whether there is crying or laughing in them. When thinking of those friends, one feels sincerely that it's really good to have had you in life. However, it still cannot change the reality. Some people have indeed become distant.

33. 把所有的不快给昨天，把所有的希望给明天，把所有的努力给今天。人生途中，有些是无法逃避的，比如命运；有些是无法更改的，比如情缘；有些是难以磨灭的，与其被动地承受，不如勇敢地面对；与其软弱自卑，不如努力奋斗，路越艰，阻越大，险越多，勇敢走过去，你的人生就会更精彩。

33. Leave all the unpleasantness to yesterday, all the hopes to tomorrow, and all the efforts to today. On the journey of life, there are some things that cannot be avoided, such as fate; some things that cannot be changed, such as love affairs; and some things that are hard to erase. It's better to face them bravely rather than passively endure them; it's better to strive hard rather than be weak and self-abasing. The path may be arduous, the obstacles numerous, and the dangers many, but if you walk bravely through them, your life will become more spectacular.

34. 我们是要给爱一个坚强的后盾。有时候你以为天要塌下来了，其实是自己站歪了。

34. We aim to provide a strong support for love. Sometimes you may think the sky is falling down, but it's actually because you are standing crookedly.

35. 记得早起，努力追逐第一缕阳光，那叫你可以勇敢。即便有教条和枷锁，即便有外界的压力，但也不要让别人的意见左右自己内心的声音。跌倒，撞墙，一败涂地，都不用害怕。年轻叫你勇敢。一个人的快乐，不是因为他拥有的多，而是因为他计较的少。多是负担，是另一种失去。

35. Remember to get up early, strive to chase the first ray of sunlight, which can make you brave. Even with dogmas and shackles, even with external pressures, do not let others' opinions dominate your inner voice. Do not be afraid of falling, hitting walls, or being completely defeated. Youth makes you brave. A person's happiness does not lie in how much they possess, but in how little they care about. More is a burden, and a different kind of loss.

36. 承认自己的天真，是一种无奈的口吻，弯下腰，我拾起一片片散落的梦，却不知是在品尝失意还是想拼凑自尊；虚度了一把年份，证明了自己的愚蠢，伸开手，我四处翻找遗失的青春，却不知是在寻找借口还是想沉溺温存。

36. Admitting one's innocence carries a tone of helplessness. Bending down, I pick up one piece of scattered dream after another, not knowing whether I am savoring disappointment or trying to piece together self-respect. Having wasted a year, I prove my own foolishness, stretching out my hand, I search for the lost youth in all directions, not knowing whether I am looking for an excuse or want to indulge in warmth.

37. 每当我吃饱喝足的时候，我就会想起来减肥这件正经事。

37. Whenever I am well-fed and sated, I can't help but think about the serious matter of losing weight.

38. 时间能够安抚我们，时间就像一股清爽的风，能够使我们的思想恢复镇定和理性，也能够让我们忘掉生活中的沉重打击，让我们恢复原有的信心。---爱默生《用心聆听世界》

38. Time can soothe us, like a cool breeze that can restore our thoughts to calm and reason, and also allow us to forget the heavy blows in life, restoring our original confidence. --- Emerson, "Listening to the World with Heart"

39. 天会黑，路会滑，回家路上指不定谁比你更狡猾。

39. The sky will grow dark, the path will be slippery, and on the way home, it's not certain who is more cunning than you.

40. 我的人生信条就是：像孙子一样活几十年，熬成爷爷再死。

40. My life philosophy is: live like Sun Tzu for several decades, and then become an elder before passing away.

41. 过分强调自己的欲望，是为聒噪；过度主张自己的嫌恶，是为烦躁；无法平息自身的迷惘，是为浮躁。---小池龙之介《沉默入门》

41. Overly emphasizing one's desires is considered noisy; excessively advocating one's dislikes is seen as irritating; and being unable to calm one's confusion is deemed restless. --- Ryoji Komine, "Introduction to Silence"

42. 我望着天空，天空从不说话；我感受清风，清风故作潇洒；我寄盼白云，白云从未停下；我呼唤着你，你远在天涯。世间所有的风物，能否在岁月的颠簸中保持不曾变化，让某些过去一如温软的流沙；无知轻狂的我，可否在熙熙攘攘的人海里洗尽铅华，让凝重的心不再牵挂。

42. I gaze at the sky, which never speaks; I feel the breeze, which pretends to be carefree; I yearn for the white clouds, which never cease to move; I call out to you, but you are far away. Can all the sights and sounds in this world remain unchanged amidst the twists and turns of time, allowing certain pasts to flow like tender sands? Can the无知 and youthful me, amidst the bustling sea of people, wash away the dust and grime, allowing a heavy heart to no longer linger with longing.

43. 飘落的雨丝犹如轻盈的少女，只便被她一吻万物便会赋予生命。那种冲动的蓬勃是无法抑制的，是欣欣向荣的。沐浴在雨中，尽情地感受雨的亲吻，那是一种雨与心灵的接触，芬洒的雨朦胧地抚摸着全身，净化着我们被世俗感染的每寸肌肤。感谢雨的到来！

43. The falling raindrops resemble light and graceful girls, and a single kiss from them would bestow life upon all things. That impulsive vigor is irresistible and flourishing. Immersed in the rain, one can fully feel the rain's embrace, a contact between rain and the soul. The fine rain gently caresses the entire body, purifying every inch of our skin that has been infected by the worldliness. Thank you for the rain's arrival!

44. 每个人出生的时候都是原创，悲哀的是，很多人渐渐都成了盗版。

44. Everyone is an original at birth, but unfortunately, many people gradually become pirated copies.

45. 有人说你很快乐，那是披上了淡定的袈裟。有人说你很忧伤，那也是默默无言的茶；七彩的青春，渐渐失去光华。所谓的憧憬，慢慢成为神话；人生，自己最明白自己的酸甜苦辣，现实，常常与想象有太大的相差；身体，即使像沙漠一样贫乏，灵魂，永远是冰雪中的梅花。

45. Some say you are happy, but that's just a cloak of calmness. Some say you are sorrowful, which is also a silent tea; the colorful youth, gradually losing its luster. The so-called aspirations, slowly become myths; life, one understands one's own bitterness, sweetness, sourness, and spiciness the best; reality, often differs greatly from imagination; the body, even as barren as the desert, but the soul, is always the plum blossom in the ice and snow.

46. 不要害怕改变，可能会因此失去一些好的东西，但也可能会得到一些更好的东西。

46. Don't be afraid of change, as you might lose some good things, but you might also gain some better ones.

47. 人的一生要疯狂一次，无论是为一个人，一段情，一段路途或一个梦想。

47. One should be crazy at least once in their life, whether for a person, a love, a journey, or a dream.

48. 念旧，真的是不甘心吧。有份回忆，不也很美好吗？至少付出过，和你聊天总是很开心呀。堕落的早上，七点才爬起来，从三点半一直躺到7点。没救了起床，新的一天要能量满满。

48.怀旧， is it really because you're not willing to let go? Having a memory, isn't that also beautiful? At least you've experienced it, and chatting with you always brings me joy. On a堕落morning, I only managed to get up at 7 AM, having laid in bed from 3:30 PM until 7 AM. There's no point in lying in bed any longer; it's a new day and I need to be full of energy.

49. 广西师园的天空总是那么蓝，黄昏时刻夕阳射出的金光布满师园的时候总是让人充满种种美好的回忆，让人脸上露出笑容，让我们把握好现在的大好时光吧，加油！

49. The sky over Guangxi Shiyuan is always so blue. During the twilight hours, the golden rays of the setting sun that fill Shiyuan are always filled with various beautiful memories, bringing smiles to people's faces. Let's seize the wonderful moments we have now,加油! (Cheer up!)

50. 回忆总是美好的，现实总是残酷的。嫁给爱情的人才是最幸福的，如果可以重来，一定要选一个爱自己的人

50. Memories are always beautiful, and reality is always cruel. The people who marry for love are the happiest. If I could do it all over again, I would definitely choose someone who loves me.

51. 把一个小小的婴孩养大成人，是一个漫长的过程。在这个陪伴过程里，他少不了会哭，会闹，会闯祸，会令你伤心失眠流泪。但是，当我们回忆和孩子的相处时光，总是那些慢下来的时刻令我们心生美好，令我们感受到生命的神奇，令我们微笑着感叹：生命里有你，真好！

51. Raising a tiny infant into an adult is a long process. During this companionship, he is bound to cry, fuss, cause trouble, and make you heartbroken, sleepless, and weep. However, when we recall our time spent with our child, it is always those slow moments that fill us with warmth, that make us feel the wonder of life, and that cause us to smile and marvel: It's truly wonderful to have you in my life!

52. 从20xx年起，这个是第5个一起庆祝的生日了。5年了，许多美好回忆，勿忘初心。我心里永存最美好的你。回忆总是要缅怀的，回忆是美好的。改变了很多，可是我心底里还是最初见到你的样子，真诚可爱活泼，你的所有也是我的所爱。以后的生日也要一起庆祝。27岁生日快乐，边伯贤。

52. Since 20xx, this is the 5th birthday we have celebrated together. Five years have passed, filled with many wonderful memories, let's never forget our original intentions. The best version of you will always be in my heart. Memories are always to be cherished, they are beautiful. Many changes have occurred, but deep down, I still remember the first time I saw you, sincere, lovable, and lively. Everything about you is also my beloved. Let's also celebrate your birthdays together in the future. Happy 27th birthday, Byun Baekhyun.

53. 我们总是贪恋那些过去的美好，陷在其中无法自拔，直到有一天你才发现，被感动的只有你一个人，陷在回忆里的也只有你一个人，你曾经以为握着回忆握着曾经的美好，这份爱就足以让你坚信爱情，足以让你永远爱下去，足以让你们永远爱下去。结果心如刀割之后，你甚至还不悔悟，毕竟曾经爱的那么深，怎么有一个人会变，当他每次从悬崖上把你推下去又拉上来的时候，你满怀希望，像抓住救命稻草一样抓住那双手，用过去的所有美好告诉自己，他只是一时失手他不是故意的，你固执的不面对真相，即使真相是那么明显，醒醒吧，其实他知道伤你有多深，知道你有多痛，但是别人已经不在乎了，因为发现每次无论你伤的多深，你都傻傻相信啊，你还是相信他，相信爱啊！

53. We are always fixated on the beauty of the past, unable to break free from it, until one day you realize that you are the only one moved, the only one trapped in memories. You once thought that holding onto those memories and the beauty of the past was enough to believe in love, enough to love forever, enough for both of you to love forever. But after the heart-wrenching pain, you even don't repent, because you loved so deeply once. How could someone change? Each time he pushes you off the cliff and pulls you back up, you grasp at straws, holding on to his hand with all your hope, like clutching at a life-saving straw. With all the beauty of the past, you tell yourself that he just slipped up, he didn't mean to do it. You stubbornly refuse to face the truth, even though it is so obvious. Wake up! He knows how deeply he has hurt you, knows how much pain you are in, but others no longer care. Because they have realized that no matter how deeply you are hurt, you still foolishly believe, you still believe in him, you still believe in love!

54. 在整理和你的游记你说我在你的问题上总是更注重结果而不是过程我说那这次我不是不求结果只为了以后有一些美好的回忆么事实上这次我依然没有做到总在闹别扭飞机上旅途中分别时我就是这样有点小气的人吧因为不能容忍你一点点的忽视就闹别扭不过如今细细写来竟也有许多温情的时刻你帮我戴耳钉半睡半醒间温柔地拍拍我的头可是我不知在你的记忆里我是什么样的总是心不在焉总是在赌气很少笑哎如何改呢我看着你的态度就忍不住这样啦什么时候才会变得温柔呢我有一点想你

54. In sorting out your travel notes, you said that I always focus more on the outcome than the process. I said, "But this time, isn't it that I'm not just seeking the result, but also wanting to have some beautiful memories for the future?" In fact, this time, I still didn't manage to, always being in a snit. That's how I am, a bit of a nitpicker, especially on the plane, during the journey, and at parting. Because I can't tolerate even the slightest neglect from you and get into a snit. But now, when I look back and write it all down, there are actually many touching moments. You helped me wear my earrings, and while half-asleep, you gently patted my head. But I don't know how I am in your memory, always distracted, always arguing, rarely smiling. How can I change? When I see your attitude, I can't help but react this way. When will you become gentle? I miss you a bit.

55. 我们总说,不能总是活在回忆里,可是,回忆那么美好,我怎么能都忘记,时光重来,一切该有多么完美,那些年轻时候的梦啊,也会活在现实里

55. We always say that we can't always live in the past, but the memories are so beautiful, how can I forget all of them? If time could rewind, everything would be so perfect. Those dreams from our youthful days would also come to life in reality.

56. 我的小多肉越来越强壮了，而且它也长大了。虽然跟它相关的所有都已经物是人非，但是回忆里的总是美好的，经历过就是成长。周末，早安～

56. My little succulent is getting stronger and it has also grown. Although everything related to it has changed, the memories are always beautiful, and experiencing them is growth. Weekend, good morning!

57. 少年时光总是美好的，连带着回忆都有着柔化特效，我爱你是美好的单纯的甜蜜的。日记本里的字迹都带着夏日的清爽气息。

57. Youth is always beautiful, and so are the memories, with a softening effect. I love you is beautiful, pure, and sweet. The handwriting in the diary carries the coolness of summer.

58. 再过两个月，我们就相爱十周年！最近夜里总是回忆曾经的美好，回忆那时我是多么的爱你，珍惜跟你在一起的每一天，那时候的自己傻傻的爱着你，爱的简单而又痴情

58. In two months, we will celebrate our 10th anniversary of being in love! Lately, I've been reminiscing about the good times at night, remembering how much I loved you back then, cherishing every single day spent with you. I was foolishly in love with you back then, loving you simply and passionately.

59. 有些人一旦错过就不在曾经想和你一起制造很多美好的回忆甚至想过不顾一切陪你走一站的谢谢你曾那么包容爱闹爱笑总是粗心犯错的我有些事现在想想都觉得幼稚可笑你一定要好好的

59. Some people, once they miss the chance, are gone forever. I had once wanted to create many beautiful memories with you, even thought of accompanying you through thick and thin. Thank you for your tolerance of me, who love to make trouble, laugh, and am always careless and make mistakes. Some things, when I think about them now, seem so childish and ridiculous. You must take care of yourself and be well.

60. 这两天，两次在乌仅有的这几个师兄师弟师妹们，说聚就聚的聚会，回忆那时实验室的点点滴滴，单纯美好，时光总是那么快，转眼导师的关门弟子就要毕业了，下次聚会不知道什么时候了

60. In these two days, we had two gatherings with just these few senior and junior brothers and sisters in Wu. We gathered easily and reminisced about the little things in the lab back then, which were simple and beautiful. Time always flies by so quickly, and it's a blink of an eye before the mentor's last student is about to graduate. I don't know when the next gathering will be.

61. 记得大一放寒假，买了明天九点还是十点的汽车票回家，怕赶不上车，就和好朋友一起去新街口通宵看**也是醉了。好像看的是禁闭岛，把我看的是一愣一愣的。哈哈哈哈哈，回忆总是美好的。

61. Remember when I was in my first year of college and took a vacation during winter break? I bought a train ticket to go home for either 9 or 10 o'clock the next day, afraid that I might miss the train. So I went to Xingjiekou with a good friend and stayed up all night - what a mess! It seems like we watched "Shutter Island," and I was completely shocked by it. Hahahaha, memories are always beautiful.

62. 岁月的童话启发很大我总是试着去回忆梦里的场景，却原来始终错过现在的美好。或让人意识到自己不足，成为前车之鉴，或让人沉迷于过去的繁华，然后堕落于记忆中，停滞不前。

62. The fairy tales of time inspire me greatly. I always try to recall the scenes in my dreams, only to find that I have always missed the beauty of the present. Or they may make one realize their own shortcomings, serving as a lesson from past mistakes, or they may allow one to become immersed in the prosperity of the past, eventually sinking into memory and failing to move forward.

63. 小时候憧憬大学生活，当自身处于现实中才感觉没有歌声中那么美好，现实总是低于憧憬。当你回忆的时候又是美好的，人生就是这样，反反复复

63. As a child, I dreamt of college life, but only when I was in reality did I feel that it wasn't as beautiful as the songs sang. Reality is always below expectations. When you look back on it, it becomes beautiful again. Life is like that, a series of ups and downs.

64. 被分手之后，因为总是想起你们过去美好得回忆，导致你需求感很高还会想对方对你说好听的话，想要挽回对方。费尽了心思，想尽办法尽你最大的能力去改变他。明明你已经很努力地去挽回，但结局还是很清晰，有些事注定伤到的是自己，所以一定不要让自己做后悔的事情。有时候，可能一念之差，那些适合我们的，就再也没机会得到了。既然决定放弃了的事，就请放弃得干干净净。那些决定再也不见面的人，就真的不要见面了。请不要让自己再做背叛自己的事了。如果要爱别人，就请先好好爱自己。因为你会遇到一个人，吼着五音不全的嗓子唱歌给你听，陪你在大雨的夜里狂奔，在你黑白的人生中拿着颜料盘画来画去，听得懂你的胡言乱语，看得清你没有微笑的表情，恰到好处的喜欢最舒服，懂分寸的人最迷人，你想要的我都有。

64. After being broken up, because you always remember the beautiful memories of the past, your need for them is high, and you want them to say nice things to you, hoping to win them back. You have exhausted all your efforts to change them, but the outcome is still clear. Some things are destined to hurt oneself, so please don't let yourself do things you will regret. Sometimes, it might be a matter of a single thought, and the things that are right for us might never have another chance. Since you have decided to give up, please do so cleanly. If you have decided never to see someone again, then don't see them. Please don't do things that betray yourself. If you want to love someone else, first love yourself well. Because you will meet someone who will sing to you with a voice that is out of tune, run with you in the rain at night, paint on and on in the black and white of your life, understand your nonsensical ramblings, see the expression on your face without a smile, the right amount of liking is the most comfortable, and people who know their limits are the most charming. I have everything you want.

65. 深夜，总是会想起很多美好的回忆，错过太多，失去太多，但是过去的就让它过去吧，向前看，朋友同学说我身上还是有很多优点的，不过确实这几年三观被冲击的很厉害，这几年发生的一切，不敢想象，梗，都是泪，我只想哭，只想哭，只想哭。

65. At night, I always think of many beautiful memories, have missed too much, and lost too much, but let the past be the past, look forward, my friends and classmates say I still have many merits, but indeed my three outlooks on life have been severely shaken these years. Everything that has happened in these years is unimaginable, all are tears, I just want to cry, just want to cry, just want to cry.