在重塑心灵，拥抱中年，我们不再因年龄设限，只为活出最佳自我。

In reshaping our souls and embracing middle age, we no longer limit ourselves by age, but strive to live out the best version of ourselves.

1. 永远别渴望做个任何人都不得罪的人，有人反对，有人支持，然后自己做出决定才是精彩的人生。

1. Never desire to be someone who pleases everyone; having some people against you and others supporting you, and then making your own decision is what makes a truly精彩 life.

2. 有一天，当我年老，有人问我，人生的哪一段时光最快乐，也许，我会毫不犹豫地说，是十多岁的时候。那个时候，爱情还没有来到，日子是无忧无虑的；最痛苦的，也不过是测验和考试。当时觉得很大压力，后来回望，不过是多么的微小。

2. One day, when I am old, someone may ask me which period of life was the happiest. Perhaps, without hesitation, I would say it was during my teenage years. At that time, love had not yet arrived, and life was carefree; the most painful thing was just the tests and exams. I felt a lot of pressure at the time, but looking back now, it was all so insignificant.

3. 11待到秋来九月八，我花开后百花杀。冲天香阵透长安，满城尽带黄金甲。

3. On the eighth day of the ninth month when autumn arrives, after my flowers bloom, all other flowers wither. The heavenly fragrance of the array permeates Chang'an, and the entire city is adorned in golden armor.

4. 一个笑就击败了一辈 子，一滴泪就还清了一个人。一人花开，一人花落，这些年从头到尾，无人问询。

4. A single laugh can defeat a lifetime, and a single tear can clear a person's debt. Some bloom, some wither, all these years from beginning to end, no one has asked.

5. 尺有所短;寸有所长。物有所不足;智有所不明。——屈原《卜居》

5. There are things that are short, and there are things that are long. There are things that are insufficient, and there are things that are not clearly understood. — Qu Yuan, "The Choice of a Place to Live"

6. 12年少时觉得女人沉默是一种性格使然，人到中年后才明白沉默不仅仅是一种智慧，有时更是对现实的无耐和逃避……

6. When I was young, I thought a woman's silence was due to her personality. It was only in my middle years that I realized silence is not only a sign of wisdom, but sometimes also an expression of resignation and avoidance towards reality...

7. 13这一生能有一件自己非常热爱的事情，真的会是一件非常幸福的事情，因为生活会因为你热爱的事情，而变得非常的充实而有趣。

7.13 It would truly be a very happy thing to have a deeply loved thing in this life, because life will become very fulfilling and interesting because of the thing you love.

8. 心里无法言说的委屈，付出努力之后，不被认可的辛酸，凡事尽力之后，那就随缘吧，顺其自然，学会放下，好好爱自己也是一种能力。

8. The unspoken grievances in the heart, the bitterness of effort that goes unrecognized, after giving one's best in all things, then let it be as fate wills, go with the flow, learn to let go, and loving oneself well is also a form of ability.

9. 烦恼天天有，不捡自然无。不忘人恩，不念人过，不思人非，不计人怨。

9. Troubles come every day, but if we don't pick them up, they will naturally disappear. We should never forget others' kindness, never think of others' faults, never ponder others' misdeeds, and never hold others' grudges.

10. 7女人不要随着年龄的增长而丧失信心，更要学会做个享受生活，欣赏人生、品味人生、探讨人生的优秀女人！

10. Women should not lose confidence as they age, but rather learn to be an excellent woman who enjoys life, appreciates life, savor life, and explore life!

11. 永远要寻找比自己更积极的人，比自己更积极的环境。

11. Always seek out people and environments that are more positive than yourself.

12. 38日子在低吟里，清瘦成一剪柔柔的薄风，藏着丝丝缕缕的忧伤；生命在浅唱里，汇集成一缕淡淡的沉香，裹着或多或少的清冷。青山依旧，碧水依然，多少情思在岁月的深处积淀成河，多少温馨在记忆的枝头无觅处。

12. On the 38th day, it hums softly, thinning into a gentle breeze, hiding threads and bits of sadness; life whispers in a song, blending into a faint incense, wrapped in varying degrees of coolness. The green mountains remain the same, the clear waters are still as they were, and countless feelings have settled into rivers in the depths of time, while countless warmth has vanished without a trace on the branches of memory.

13. 29学会自己收拾自己的烂摊子，这才是成长，也许很难但是还是要做，因为没人会没有理由的帮你，还不如靠自己。

13. Learn to clean up your own messes, that's what growth is about. It may be difficult, but it's still something that needs to be done, because no one will help you without a reason, so it's better to rely on yourself.

14. 你要记得那些大雨中为你撑伞的人，帮你挡住外来之物的人，黑暗中默默陪伴你的人，逗你笑的人，陪你彻夜聊天的人，坐车看望你的人，陪你哭过的人，在医院陪你的人，总是以你为重的人，带着你四处游荡的人，说想念你的人，是这些人组成你生命中一点一滴的温暖，是这些温暖使你远离阴霾，使你成为善良的人。村上春树

14. Remember those who held an umbrella for you in the heavy rain, those who shielded you from outside elements, those who silently accompanied you in the dark, those who made you laugh, those who chatted with you all night, those who visited you by car, those who cried with you, those who stayed with you in the hospital, those who always put you first, those who roamed around with you, and those who expressed their longing for you. It is these people who make up the little bits of warmth in your life, and it is this warmth that keeps you away from gloom, making you a kind person. - Haruki Murakami

15. 找一个温暖如太阳的人，为你晒掉所有的悲伤。

15. Find someone warm like the sun to dry away all your sorrows.

16. 你若深爱一个人，就要学会阻止自己，不要把他当成全部，不要所有的话都跟他讲，不要所有的秘密都和他分享。你投入的多了，就会慢慢地忘记自己，没有自我的人，在爱情里是没有位置的，唯一的结局，爱情被你抓得越紧，却逃得越远，最终只能击碎你的愿望，让曾经的诺言，随风飘散。

16. If you deeply love someone, you must learn to stop yourself from treating them as your whole world, from sharing all your words with them, and from revealing all your secrets to them. The more you invest, the more slowly you'll forget yourself. A person without a sense of self has no place in love. The only outcome is that the tighter you grasp at love, the further it will escape. Ultimately, it can only shatter your wishes, allowing the promises of the past to drift away with the wind.

17. 31随着年龄的增长，我们愈加发现，或许我们并不是失去了一些人，而是更加懂得到底谁才是最重要的人。

17. 31 As we grow older, we increasingly find that perhaps we are not losing some people, but rather becoming more aware of who is truly the most important.

18. 假如你从来未曾害怕、受窘、受伤害，好就是你从来没有冒过险。

18. If you have never been afraid, embarrassed, or hurt, then it is because you have never taken any risks.

19. 18又是一年，岁数增长了。希望不再年轻的我们，在变老的路上，能变得更好，越老越有气质，越老越有味道！

19. Another year has passed, and we have grown older. May we, who are no longer young, become better on our path to aging, growing more elegant and more flavorful with each passing year!

20. 24迈向自我塑造的第一步，要有一个你每天早晨醒来为之奋斗的目标，它应是你人生的目标。远景必须即刻着手建立，而不要往后拖。你随时可以按自己的想法做些改变，但不能一刻没有远景。

20. The first step towards self-shaping is to have a goal that you strive for every morning when you wake up, and it should be your life goal. The vision must be started immediately and not delayed. You can make changes according to your own ideas at any time, but you cannot have a vision for a moment.

21. 21看淡人生，应知足常乐，坦然面对现实，从容应对艰难，淡定承受困苦，少一份失落，少一份困扰，多一份满足，多一份快乐！

21. 21 Cultivate a light-hearted attitude towards life, know contentment in all things, face reality calmly, deal with difficulties with composure, endure hardships with serenity, have less disappointment, less trouble, more satisfaction, and more happiness!

22. 倘若往事是惊梦一场，那半梦半醒时，才是地地道道的人生。

22. If the past is a nightmare, then it is the real thing when one is half asleep and half awake.

23. 22女人的友情来的快，去的也快。其实男女感情远没有你跟姐妹的感情可靠，所以，珍惜你们之间的友情吧。

23. The friendship of a 22-year-old woman comes and goes quickly. In fact, the emotional bond between men and women is far less reliable than the relationship between you and your sisters, so cherish your friendship with each other.

24. 我们这短暂的一生，是用来体验的，不要被生活压弯了腰，不要被烂人烂事消耗掉我们本就不多的热情，尽兴而活，为自己而活，怎么高兴怎么活！随缘而过，别人的风景，不必去探索，自己的日子，努力且快乐，在别人的生活里随遇而安，在自己的生活里顺其自然。

24. Our short life is meant for experiencing. Don't let life bend you over, and don't let bad people and things drain away the little passion we have. Live to the fullest, live for yourself, and live as you please! Let things come as they may, don't seek others' scenery, and for your own days, strive and be happy. Be content with what comes in others' lives, and let things take their natural course in your own life.

25. 人既不是天使，又不是禽兽；但不幸就在于想表现为天使的人却表现为禽兽。

25. Humans are neither angels nor beasts; unfortunately, those who wish to appear as angels often behave like beasts.

26. 19看淡人生，应是心理上的定位：人生过半，当明天理，山有高低，人有高下。命中若有自会有，命中若无莫强求，

26. To take life lightly should be a psychological orientation: life is half over, we should cultivate righteousness; mountains have high and low, people have their ups and downs. If something is destined to come, it will come naturally; if it is not destined, there's no need to strive for it too much.

27. 如果你要用特写镜头看生活，那一定是一部悲剧。但用长镜头看，生活将是是一部喜剧。

27. If you look at life through a close-up lens, it's bound to be a tragedy. But if you take a long shot, life will turn out to be a comedy.

28. 29人生可以美好，人生可以悲伤，人生可以充满快乐，人生甚至可以痛苦，人生可以是伟大的理想，人生也可能是意味着一个人，一个好人生是你自己创造的，所以我们要让美丽成为人生的主唱，命运负责洗牌，但是玩牌的是我们自己。

28. 29 Life can be beautiful, life can be sad, life can be full of joy, life can even be painful, life can be a great ideal, and life may also mean an individual, a good life is one you create yourself, so let beauty be the main theme of life, destiny is responsible for shuffling the cards, but it is us who play the cards.

29. 人之所以有一张嘴，而有两只耳朵，原因是听的要比说的多一倍。

29. The reason why humans have one mouth and two ears is because they are supposed to listen twice as much as they speak.

30. 人通常在顺境和逆境中求生存，顺境谁都过得了，逆境就不一样了。逆境就好比绊脚石，不知道绊倒了多少人。聪明的人会利用绊脚石来垫脚忘上爬，最后越爬越高，也是看到风景最多的人。要知道人是最伟大的，世界上的一切都是人创造的，可以说人也是打不跨的。不管你遇到了什么难题，都不要放弃。

30. People usually strive to survive in both prosperous and adverse circumstances. It's easy for everyone to handle prosperity, but adversity is quite different. Adversity is like a stumbling block, which has tripped up countless people. Clever people would use the stumbling block as a stepping stone to climb higher, and eventually, they climb to great heights, becoming the ones who see the most scenery. It's important to know that humans are the greatest, as everything in the world is created by humans, and it can be said that humans are indestructible. No matter what difficult problems you encounter, don't give up.

31. 你从不孤单。因为，这个世上肯定有一个人，在努力地走到你的身边。

31. You are never alone. Because, surely there is someone in this world striving to walk towards you.

32. 42不管我们面对什么处境，不管我们的内心多么矛盾，我们总有选择。很多时候你想成为什么样的人，真的取决你最后那一刻的决定。如果你不知道，那就去学最好的别人，做最好的自己吧。

32. 42 Regardless of the situation we face, no matter how conflicting our inner thoughts are, we always have choices. Many times, the kind of person you want to become truly depends on your decision at the very last moment. If you're unsure, then learn from the best others and strive to be the best version of yourself.

33. 任何变化都不是突然发生的，都是自己无意间一点一点选择的。

33. Any change is not sudden; it is chosen bit by bit unintentionally.

34. 不要让爱成为一种伤害。有一种爱明明是深爱，却表达不完美；有一种爱明知道要放弃，却不甘心就此离开。如果你不爱一个人，请放手，好让别人有机会爱她。如果你爱的人放弃了你，请放开自己，好让自己有机会爱别人。

34. Do not let love become a source of harm. There is a kind of love that is deeply felt but expressed imperfectly; there is a kind of love that knows it must let go but is unwilling to leave. If you do not love someone, please let go, so that someone else has a chance to love her. If the person you love gives up on you, please let yourself go, so that you have a chance to love someone else.

35. 医生说 伤口夏天比冬天愈合的要快 那么 让人难过的事情在夏天决定 会容易很多吧

35. The doctor said that wounds heal faster in summer than in winter. So wouldn't it be easier to make decisions about something sad in the summer?

36. 年龄只是符号，是岁月留下的痕迹，人生在世，每个年龄阶段都有与之匹配的内涵。到了什么年龄就该做什么样的事，不一定大家都是统一的模板，人和人之间是有差别的，不一定非要求自己长成玫瑰，你也可以做茉莉，做淡菊，做无名小花，做千千万万。总之，你热爱生活，做什么都可以！

36. Age is just a symbol, a trace left by the passage of time. In life, each stage of age has its own corresponding connotation. At what age, one should do what is appropriate, and it is not necessarily that everyone follows the same template. There are differences between people, and one does not have to grow into a rose. You can also be a jasmine, a light chrysanthemum, an anonymous little flower, or countless others. In short, as long as you love life, you can do anything!

37. 3不经历风雨，又是怎能去见彩虹？挫折是足以燃起一个人的热情，去唤醒一个人的潜力，而使他达到成功。那是有本领、有骨气的人，能将失望变为动力，能蚌壳那样，将烦恼的沙砾化成珍珠。

37. How can one see a rainbow without experiencing rain and wind? Adversity is enough to ignite a person's passion, to awaken their potential, and lead them to success. It is the capable and dignified individuals who can turn disappointment into motivation, and like a clam, convert the irritating sand grains into pearls.

38. 40一些受过伤的人会更加勇敢，因为他们知道，最痛不过如此。

38. 40 Some people who have been injured become braver, because they know that the most painful thing is over.

39. 在感情的世界里，看的淡一点，伤的就会少一点，时间过了，爱情淡了，也就快散了。时间是个很特别的见证人，它让深的东西越来越深，让浅的东西越来越浅。我们总是通过它来见证爱情，也通过它来遗忘爱情。

39. In the realm of emotions, the less one attaches importance to things, the less hurt one will suffer. As time passes, love becomes faint, and it will soon fade away. Time is a very special witness, making the profound things deeper and the superficial things shallower. We always witness love through it, and also forget love through it.

40. 6不要追求外表，它会骗人；不要追求财富，它会消失；追求一个让你微笑开颜的人吧！因为微笑会让你灰暗的一天豁然开朗、阳光明媚！

40. 6 Do not seek after appearances, for they are deceptive; do not seek after wealth, for it is fleeting; seek after a person who will make you smile and brighten your day! For a smile will lighten your gloomy day and bring sunshine to your life!

41. 悠悠之口，亦是人云亦云，你又何苦让我想起旧日情怀。

41. The mouth that lingers, also parrots others' words; what is the point in making me remember my old feelings?

42. 32人到中年的女人，不在非常岗位，不必奋力拼搏，而应更多地鼓励男人闯天下。

42. A woman in her 30s or 40s, not in a very demanding position, does not need to strive hard, but should be more encouraged to let men take on the world.

43. 不论这个世界多么糟糕，你自己的世界一定要精彩;不论人心多么黑暗，你的内心一定要明亮。不要用糟糕去对付糟糕，不要用黑暗去对付黑暗。

43. No matter how terrible this world may be, your own world must be精彩; no matter how dark the hearts of others may be, your own heart must remain bright. Do not use badness to combat badness, and do not use darkness to combat darkness.

44. 所有人在发誓的时候都是真的觉得自己一定不会违背承诺，而在反悔的时候也都是真的觉得自己不能做到，所以誓言这种东西无法衡量坚贞，也不能判断对错，它只能证明，在说出来的那一刻，彼此曾经真诚过。 ---九夜茴《匆匆那年》

44. Everyone genuinely believes they will never break their promise when they swear an oath, and they are also truly convinced of their inability to do so when they regret, so promises like these cannot measure loyalty nor determine right or wrong; they can only prove that at the moment when they are spoken, both parties were once sincere. --- Jiuye Huan, "Hurry, the Years Pass By"

45. 7不适合的鞋子，就不要硬塞了，磨的是自己的脚；打电话对方不接，就不要一次次重拨，珍惜你的会第一时间打来；搬走的餐厅，就不要老远过去吃了，你的时间不能一直花在追随的路上。所有人和事，自己问心无愧就好，不是你的也别强求，其实离去的都是风景，留下的才是人生。

45. Don't force yourself into shoes that don't fit; it's your own feet that will be worn down. If the person you're calling doesn't pick up, don't keep redialing repeatedly; cherish the fact that they will call you back as soon as they can. Don't go far to eat at a restaurant that has moved; your time shouldn't be constantly spent on the road of pursuit. For all people and things, it's enough to have a clear conscience. Don't insist on what isn't yours. In fact, what has left is scenery, and what remains is life.

46. 40逆境来时勇敢地尝试改变它，你可能创造历史；不敢改变，你就可能成为历史。

46. When faced with adversity, bravely attempt to change it; you might create history. If you dare not change, you might become part of history.

47. 22看淡人生，只是安然满足者劳碌有得、家和事顺的慰藉；看淡人生，只是坎坷失意者时运不济、命运多舛的无奈；看淡人生，只是功成身退者门前冷落、世态炎凉的怅叹。

47. 22 Take life lightly, for it is only for those who are content and peaceful that hard work brings rewards, family harmony, and things go smoothly; take life lightly, for it is only for those who are frustrated and struggling that bad luck and a troubled destiny bring helplessness; take life lightly, for it is only for those who have achieved success and are stepping back that the loneliness in front of their doors and the coldness of the world bring sighs.

48. 无论哪个时代，青年的特点总是怀抱着名种理想和幻想。这并不是什么毛病，而是一种宝贵品质。

48. Regardless of the era, the characteristic of youth is always to be filled with various ideals and fantasies. This is not a fault but a valuable quality.

49. 27不是每个人都能成为自己想要的样子，但每个人都可以努力成为自己想要的样子。早安!

49. Not everyone can become the person they want to be, but everyone can strive to become the person they want to be. Good morning!

50. 不管全世界所有人怎么说，我都认为自己的感受才是正确的。无论别人怎么看，我绝不打乱自己的节奏。喜欢的事自然可以坚持，不喜欢的怎么也长久不了。

50. Regardless of what everyone in the world says, I believe my own feelings are correct. No matter what others think, I will never disrupt my own rhythm. Things I like can naturally be sustained, but things I dislike will never last long no matter what.

51. 如果一个人有梦想、有追求，是件弥足珍贵特别有意义的事。千万不要轻易怠慢了这份逐梦之心，要知道一个人有梦想并坚持去实现，是多么值得人敬佩的事！别用“来不及”去敷衍自己，去给自己找理由，更不要因"不可能”而轻言放弃，先不管成功失败，最起码要去尝试！

51. It is a precious and especially meaningful thing for a person to have dreams and aspirations. Never take lightly this heart that chases dreams, for it is truly something praiseworthy for a person to have dreams and persist in trying to realize them! Don't use "too late" as an excuse to yourself, or find reasons to justify, and certainly don't give up lightly due to "impossibility." Regardless of whether there is success or failure, the least one can do is to try!

52. 每当夜晚时辗转在床上，不知道自己到底想要些什么，想要过什么样的生活。是现在的生活过于空白，还是内心过于空虚，我们到底都怎么了？我们是不是总是喜欢无病呻吟，还是真的喜欢这种自欺欺人的想法？过着分明幸福，却笑不出来的生活。是我们要求的太多，还是真的上天给予的太少？

52. Whenever it's night, I toss and turn on the bed, not knowing what I truly want or what kind of life I want to live. Is it because the current life is too hollow, or is it because my heart is too empty? What's wrong with us? Are we always fond of moaning about non-existent ailments, or do we genuinely like these self-deceptive thoughts? Living a life that should be happy but can't bring a smile to our faces. Is it because we demand too much, or is it really that heaven has given us too little?

53. 尊严这个东西，其实是和欲望成反比的，你想得到一个东西，就会变得低三下四，死皮赖脸，而当你对眼前这个人，这件事无动于衷的时候，尊严就会在你心中拔地而起。---刘瑜

53. The concept of dignity is actually inversely proportional to desire. The more you want something, the more you may become servile, obsequious, and desperate. But when you feel indifferent to this person or this matter in front of you, dignity will arise in your heart like a towering mountain. --- Liu Yu

54. 17看淡人生，应坚持自我，为自己而活。酒逢知己饮，诗向会人吟。坦荡磊落，不卑不亢。不趋炎附势，不摧眉折腰。

54. 17 Take life lightly, and always stick to your own principles, living for yourself. Drink with those who are your friends, recite poetry to those who appreciate it. Be open and straightforward, neither humble nor haughty. Do not flatter the powerful or kowtow to anyone.

55. 生活在一个城市里，或者爱一个人，又或者做某件事，时间久了，就会觉得厌倦，就会有一种想要逃离的冲动。也许不是厌倦了这个城市、爱的人、坚持的事，只是给不了自己坚持下去的勇气。

55. Living in a city, or loving someone, or doing something, over time, one may feel bored and have a desire to escape. Perhaps it's not that one is tired of this city, the person they love, or the thing they persist in doing, but rather a lack of courage to keep going.

56. 原谅，不过是将遗憾悄悄掩埋;忘记，才是最深刻彻底的宽容。

56. Forgiveness is merely a silent burial of regrets; forgetting is the deepest and most thorough form of tolerance.

57. 15看淡人生，是一种责任与义务。人生过半，当知父母恩深终有别，夫妻义重也分离。应孝敬父母，夫妇互重，关爱子女，呵护家庭。

57. Viewing life with detachment is a responsibility and obligation. As life has reached its midpoint, one should recognize that the profound love of parents eventually comes to an end, and the deep bond between husband and wife can also lead to separation. One should honor one's parents, respect one's spouse, cherish one's children, and nurture the family.

58. 每种爱情都是有周期的，从被吸引，再到热恋时难舍难分，然后慢慢淡去。有些人，就如此分开了。而另些人，却彼此成为习惯，把对方当成生活一部分。所以啊，并没有一辈子的爱情，只有曾有过的爱以及一辈子的生活。幸福就是每天都看到同一个人，你不觉得烦，他也不觉得烦。

58. Every kind of love has its cycle, from being attracted to each other, to being inseparable during the passionate phase, and then gradually fading away. Some people part ways like this. But for others, they become accustomed to each other, treating the other person as a part of their life. So, there is no eternal love; there is only the love that once existed and a lifetime of living. Happiness is seeing the same person every day, without getting tired of them, and without them getting tired of you.

59. 人不必太美，只要有人深爱；人不必太富，只要过得温暖。

59. A person doesn't have to be too beautiful, as long as someone deeply loves them; a person doesn't have to be too wealthy, as long as they live in warmth.

60. 给自己找茬是诊断，给自己找事是磨练，给自己剖析是知己，给自己嘲笑是激励！

60. Finding faults with oneself is diagnosis, finding trouble for oneself is tempering, analyzing oneself is knowing oneself, and mocking oneself is motivation!

61. 5人是活的，要见机而作，不能先给自己画好了白线，顺着它走！—— 刘金花《四世同堂》

61. Five people are alive, and they should act according to the situation, not draw a white line for themselves in advance and follow it! —— Liu Jinhua, "The Same Generation Under One Roof"

62. 5人生祸福相依，笑泪交织，得到不必太喜，你拥有一些，必然会放弃另一些；失去的无须过悲，没有什么可以永久地停留。不要以事业的成败、收入的多寡来定义人生的幸福，它们只是一种附庸，与幸福的内涵没有必然的联系。只要凡事抱以平常心，不抱怨，不嫉恨，不懈怠，不冷漠，幸福才有所依附。

62. Life is intertwined with blessings and misfortunes, with laughter and tears mixed together. Do not be overly joyful when you receive something, for you must give up something else when you have it; do not overly sorrow when you lose something, for nothing can stay forever. Do not define the happiness of life by the success or failure of one's career, or by the abundance or scarcity of income, as they are merely appendages that have no necessary connection with the essence of happiness. Only when you approach everything with a calm mind, without complaint, envy, laziness, or indifference, can happiness truly take root.

63. 23好好学技能吧孩子，没有可以帮助自己的后台，一切都靠自己。虽然不容易，但是能过就可以。没有太多诉求。

63. Study skills diligently, child, there's no backstage to help yourself; everything depends on your own efforts. Although it's not easy, if you can pass it, that's fine. There are no excessive demands.

64. 人到中年，回想这一路走来，有很多想做的事没有做成功，想想都是人生的遗憾。与其光这么想着是遗憾，不如狠下心来去挑战，其实人生真正的遗憾并不是失败，也不怕失败，人生真正的遗憾是想了无数遍，却没有一次付诸行动！从没尝试过亲自去做。

64. As one reaches middle age, looking back on the journey thus far, there are many things that I wanted to do but have not succeeded in. Thinking about it, it's full of regrets in life. It's better to be determined and take on the challenge than just to dwell on the regrets. In reality, the true regret in life is not failure, nor is it afraid of failure. The real regret is that after thinking about it countless times, there has never been a single time that it has been put into action. There has never been a try at doing it personally.

65. 不要因一次挫败就忘记你原先想要到达的地方。

65. Do not forget the place you originally wanted to reach because of one failure.

66. 倾我一生一世，换取岁月静好。如若岁月静好，我亦微笑，亦不老。时光会记得，那些始终如一，那些年华的静好，某些东西，深藏在心中，永远不会老去。

66. Devote my entire life to exchange for a peaceful and tranquil time. If the years are peaceful and tranquil, I will also smile and never age. Time will remember, those who are consistent, those tranquil years, certain things, deeply buried in the heart, will never age.

67. 不管是欠别人，还是欠自己，你曾欠下过多少个对不起？时间无情第一，它才不在乎你是否还是一个孩子，你只要稍一耽搁、稍一犹豫，它立马帮你决定故事的结局。它会把你欠下的对不起，变得还不起。又会把很多对不起，变成来不及。

67. Whether you owe others or yourself, how many "I'm sorry" have you accumulated? Time is the most merciless, it doesn't care whether you are still a child or not. If you hesitate or delay even slightly, it will immediately help you decide the ending of the story. It will turn the "I'm sorry" you owe into something you can't repay. It will also turn many "I'm sorry" into something that's too late.

68. 流云在天边，行囊在眼前，有一条通往太阳的路无边又无沿。

68. Flowing clouds in the distance, the bags before my eyes, there is a road to the sun that is boundless and endless.

69. 32三杯清茶，两盏淡酒，日落，有风。我陪你，和着这万千姿态千百滋味一并饮下。

69. Three cups of clear tea, two cups of light wine, at sunset, with a breeze. I will accompany you, drinking in all these myriad shapes and tastes together.

70. 43你是我期待又矛盾的梦，想抓却不能拥抱的风，想喝又怕醉的酒。

70. 43 You are the dream I both anticipate and contradict, the wind that I want to grasp yet cannot embrace, the wine that I want to drink yet fear becoming drunk from.

71. 很多人的梦想和计划受挫，是有两个小问题导致的：早上起不来床，晚上下不了线。

71. Many people's dreams and plans are thwarted due to two small problems: they can't get out of bed in the morning and can't log off at night.

72. 2背不动的，那就要放下；伤不起的，你要看淡；想不通的，可以不去想；恨不过的，是要抚平。小时候想要什么，恨不得全世界都是知道，就像是已经得到一样；现在想要什么，生怕别人知道，否则就像是要失去一样。

72. If you can't carry it, you have to put it down; if you can't bear it, you should take it lightly; if you can't understand it, you might as well not think about it; if you can't let go of it, you need to soothe it. When you were a child, you wanted everyone in the world to know what you wanted, as if you had already obtained it; now, you are afraid that others will know what you want, otherwise it's as if you are about to lose it.

73. 23兄弟不在乎年龄大小，讲义气就行。女友不在乎高矮胖瘦，爱你就行。

73. The 23 brothers don't care about age; as long as they are loyal to each other. Your girlfriend doesn't care about her height, weight, or shape; as long as she loves you.

74. 所有激情的爱情，最后都会分手。反倒是不动声色的关爱，才能陪你白头到老。所以对好男人的选择，千万不要被一时冲动给蒙蔽。说得好不如做的好，做的好不如变成习惯的好。所以一个好男人的最大特点，就是把对你的好，变成了生活的习惯。习以为常的关心，才是最大的爱情。

74. All passionate love will eventually end. Instead, it is the silent care that can accompany you to the end of your days. Therefore, when choosing a good man, don't be deceived by a moment of impulsive desire. It's better to do well than to say well, and even better to make it a habit. So, the greatest characteristic of a good man is to turn his care for you into a habit of life. Habitual concern is the greatest form of love.

75. 19别太奢求有人会记得你的生日，能记得你的年龄就已是最大安慰。

75. Don't expect too much from others to remember your birthday; being remembered for your age is already the greatest comfort.

76. 天才就是最强有力的牛，他们一刻不停地，一天要工作小时。

76. Genius is the most powerful ox, working tirelessly for hours a day.

77. 我不喜欢我喜欢的人喜欢我不喜欢的人，更不喜欢我不喜欢的人喜欢我喜欢的人。

77. I don't like the person I like liking someone I don't like, and I like it even less when someone I don't like likes the person I do.

78. 情义这东西，一见如故容易，难的是来日方长的陪伴。

78. The emotion and friendship thing, it's easy to feel like old friends at first sight, but the difficult part is the long-term companionship that lies ahead.

79. 28女人这一生，必须要靠自己，多攒点钱，你才有所有的尊严，才能有地位，别指望找个有钱的男人，话说有钱人都情人一堆堆的，没钱的男人，只是没多余的钱才不去花天酒地的，以姐踏入社会的经验，你想找高富帅，但是前提你得是白富美。门不当户不对的。灰姑娘的故事只发生在童话里。所以说人这辈子，靠谁不如靠己，求人不如求己。

79. At the age of 28, a woman must rely on herself, save up more money, and then you will have all the dignity, and you will have a status. Don't expect to find a wealthy man, because rich people usually have a pile of mistresses. Poor men just don't spend money on pleasures because they don't have any extra money. Based on my experience entering society, if you want to find a tall, handsome, and rich man, but the premise is that you have to be a beautiful, rich woman yourself. It's not a match made in heaven. The story of Cinderella only happens in fairy tales. Therefore, in one's life, it's better to rely on oneself than on others, and it's better to depend on oneself than to depend on others.

80. 27起风的日子学会依风起舞，落雨的时候学会为自己撑起一把伞。生活有望穿秋水的期待，也会有的意想不到的欣喜。

80. On the days when the wind starts to blow, learn to dance with the wind, and when it rains, learn to hold an umbrella over yourself. Life holds the hope of seeing through the autumn water, and it also brings unexpected joy.

81. 不管在任何环境之下，都不要忘记你最原来的样子，要学会忍耐，学会收敛。不要为了逞一时之快，而忘了后果。是金子总会发光，黄沙掩不住珍珠的光华。等到有一天，你回过头来看的时候。你会发现你留下的不是只有痛苦和快乐，还有很多其它的东西。

81. No matter what environment you are in, never forget your original self. Learn to be patient and learn to rein in your emotions. Don't forget the consequences just for a moment of gratification. Gold will always shine, and the brilliance of pearls cannot be hidden by sand. When you look back one day, you will find that what you leave behind is not just pain and joy, but also many other things.

82. 没有不会淡的疤，没有不会好的伤；没有不会停下来的绝望。

82. There is no scar that won't fade, no wound that won't heal; no despair that won't stop.

83. 28一个人至少拥有一个梦想，有一个理由去坚强。

83. 28 One person should at least have a dream, and have a reason to be strong.

84. 25一个活在过去的人，是永远到不了未来的人。

84. A person living in the past will never reach the future.

85. 8对人宽容，对己宽容，洞不在深，有容乃大。每个人都不可能风平浪静地过一辈子，都会碰到坎坷和波折，过往的人和事的确会引得我们辛酸。宽容他们吧，宽容别人就是善待自己，由于耿耿于怀只能加深对自己的伤害。

85. To be tolerant towards others and oneself, the depth of one's insight is not the key; it is through tolerance that one's heart becomes vast. No one can live a life without encountering difficulties and setbacks; the past people and events indeed bring us sadness. Be tolerant of them, for being tolerant of others is to be kind to oneself. Holding onto grudges only serves to deepen the harm one inflicts upon oneself.

86. 生命，在这样荒僻落后而贫苦的地方，一样欣欣向荣地滋长着，它，并不是挣扎着生存，对于沙漠的居民而言，他们在此地的生老病死都好似是如此自然的事。我看着那些上升的烟火，觉得他们安详的近乎优雅起来。---三毛

86. Life, in such desolate, backward, and impoverished places, thrives just as vibrantly. It is not struggling for survival; for the desert dwellers, the cycle of birth, old age, illness, and death here seems so natural. I watched the ascending smoke and felt their tranquility was almost elegant. --- Sanmao