在浩瀚的宇宙中，有一座名为“中国感悟”的灯塔，它照亮了无数追求者前行的道路。今天，就让我们一同走进这座灯塔，感受其中蕴藏的智慧与力量。

In the vast universe, there is a lighthouse named "China Insights" that illuminates the path for countless seekers. Today, let us all step into this lighthouse and feel the wisdom and power it contains.

1. 这些年最对不起的就是自己，将就这个，顾及那个，唯独委屈了自己，最后变成了一个随时爆发，喜怒无常的神经病。

1. The most regrettable thing in recent years has been myself. I've compromised here and there, always taking care of others but only being wronged myself. In the end, I've turned into a nervous person who is prone to outbursts and has unpredictable mood swings.

2. 现在可能是年纪越来越大了，越来越爱伤感，开始对未来迷茫，对生活感到恐惧。

2. Now, perhaps as I get older, I become increasingly melancholic, start to feel lost about the future, and fear life.

3. 读书是天下一等一的好事，董宇辉说，我沾了阅读的光，修了心，也修了容颜。所以总觉得读过的书里呀，是藏着一些福气的。

3. Reading is the best thing under the sky, says Dong Yuhui, I have gained the light of reading, cultivated my heart, and also improved my appearance. Therefore, I always feel that the books I have read are hiding some blessings.

4. 但愿，我的张老师那时还能健在，还能与我再次共饮，也能再次接受我对他真挚而深情的拥抱。

4. May it be that my teacher Zhang is still alive at that time, and we can drink together again, as well as receive another heartfelt and affectionate embrace from me.

5. 原先的小花园已新建起食堂。有两个同学硬要从那里指认曾靠着看过书的篱笆，曾写生过的一丛美人蕉……泛上我心头的是篱笆边的一棵紫薇，毕业离校的前夜，在那棵树下，我和另外两个同学硬是谈了整整一夜！虽然毕业前连日的疲劳，虽然时断时续地下着蒙蒙细雨，但直到天明也没有谁提议睡觉。也不知谈些什么，记忆模糊得像那夜的天气：灰蒙蒙的，还有点潮湿。

5. The small garden that was there before has been replaced by a new dining hall. Two classmates insisted on identifying the fence where they used to lean against while reading books, and the clump of canna lilies they once sketched... What came to my mind was a wisteria tree by the fence. On the night before graduation, under that tree, I and two other classmates talked for an entire night! Despite the fatigue from the days leading up to graduation, and the intermittent drizzle, no one suggested going to sleep until dawn. We didn't really know what we were talking about; our memories were as hazy as the weather that night: grey and a bit damp.

6. 二十年弹指一挥间。二十年的今天，我们或惆怅或失意或意气风发或悲观失望，但二十年过去了，我们都顺利地走了过来了。在今天这个二十周年聚会的日子里，我们回首往事，回顾经历，展望未来，二十年来，我们也各自独领风骚。

6. Twenty years have slipped away in a blink. On this day twenty years ago, we might have been melancholic, disappointed, full of spirit, or pessimistic and despondent. But twenty years have passed, and we have all successfully navigated through. On this 20th anniversary gathering, we look back at the past, reflect on our experiences, and look forward to the future. Over the past twenty years, each of us has also excelled in our own way.

7. 经历一场离别，积淀一段成长。不再回忆过去，不再担心未来。用与世界和解的态度，过随遇而安的生活。

7. Experience a parting, accumulate a period of growth. No longer recall the past, no longer worry about the future. Live a life of contentment with the world in harmony.

8. 转眼间，暑假就过完了。这个暑假竟然过得这么快，我恨不得再接着过一次，因为这个暑假快乐无比！

8. In a blink of an eye, the summer vacation is over. This summer passed by so quickly that I wish I could experience it again, for it was an incredibly joyful summer!

9. 只要是自己选择了，就是对的，因为你当时选择的时候肯定是考虑实际情况，结合自身特点去选的，即使在以后看来是错的，也不要一遍一遍的去后悔！

9. Whatever choices you make are right, because you must have considered the actual situation and chosen based on your own characteristics at the time. Even if it seems wrong in the future, don't keep regretting it over and over!

10. 经历过很多男人的女人，她很难再会全心全意的去爱一个男人。这样的女人见一个爱一个，然后玩一个，和每一个男人相处的时间都不会长，她对男人的激情来得快去得也快。她很难做到全心全意的爱一个人，她野惯了，她喜欢的是周旋在多个男人之中，如果让她和一个男人按部就班的恋爱，也许一开始的时候对这个男人有那么一点动心，可心动不足以让她为这个男人专情，很快她就会觉得这对她来说是一种束缚，她又想换男朋友了。

10. A woman who has been with many men finds it hard to fully love a man with all her heart. Such a woman falls in love with one man after another, plays around with each, and doesn't stay with any man for long. Her passion for men comes and goes quickly. It's difficult for her to give her all to one person, as she is used to being wild. She enjoys playing the field with multiple men. If she were to date a man in a conventional way, she might be attracted to him at first, but her heart is not enough to commit to him. Soon, she would feel that it's a constraint for her, and she would want to change boyfriends again.

11. 夜微凉，独守明月。阑珊处，薄凉纷飞。我静坐在思念的渡口凭栏回望，陌上花开掩映着伊人浅浅的笑靥。温暖我指尖的微凉，也摇曳着三生三世痴守轮回的誓言。

11. The night is slightly cool, I alone guard the bright moon. At the dimming hour, light chill is flying around. I sit quietly at the pier of longing, gazing back with a bared arm, where the flowers along the path are hiding the gentle smile of the beloved. The light chill warming my fingertips also sways the vow of three lifetimes of crazy adherence to the cycle of reincarnation.

12. 在这个清爽宜人的初秋，圆了梦，了了愿。东西南北中，尽聚讷河小城。诗里、梦里，前生、今世。说不清道不明的是一腔千回百转的情怀。

12. In this refreshing and pleasant early autumn, dreams have come true and wishes have been fulfilled. East, west, north, south, and center, all converge in the small city of Néhe. In poems, in dreams, in past lives, and in this life. What cannot be clearly expressed or understood is a heart brimming with thousands of twists and turns of emotion.

13. 今天，同学都已散去，明天，我们又将何时才能相聚。二十年的聚会，留给了我们太多的遗憾，我们的交流还远未结束，我们的感悟还远未透彻，我们的心肺还远未完全打开。二十年的聚会啊，留给了我们无穷的暇想，留给了我们无穷的期待。我们期待着，也许某一天的某一刻，在某一地，我们又将重逢。

13. Today, our classmates have dispersed, and when will we be able to gather again tomorrow? The reunion after twenty years has left us with too many regrets. Our communication is far from over, our insights are far from profound, and our hearts and lungs are far from fully opened. The reunion after twenty years has left us with endless daydreams and endless expectations. We look forward to perhaps at a certain moment, in a certain place, on some day, we will meet again.

14. 分手了，大哭一场，不要企图再和好，破镜难圆，即使圆了有无法摸除伤害记录，除非我们真的会喝孟婆汤忘记昨天，好好去睡几天，可以让自己颓废几天，但是一定不要让自己发霉，我要你用几天的时间思考和忘记，然后轻装上阵，重新开始。

14. We broke up, I cried a river, don't even try to reconcile, it's hard to mend a broken mirror. Even if it's mended, the record of the injury cannot be erased. Unless we really drink the forgetfulness potion from Mengpo to forget yesterday, go to sleep for a few days, you can indulge yourself for a few days, but absolutely don't let yourself rot. I want you to spend a few days thinking and forgetting, and then go forward lightly, and start anew.

15. 原来做图书馆的房子还在。图书馆留给大家的印象太深了。那时初中毕业的我们，除有限的小人书外，几乎没看过一本文学类著作。到宣师后能凭“借书证”免费借书看，实在是想不到的享受。可惜每次只能借一本，大家如饥似渴地吞噬着每本书，课余时间大多陶醉于各种古今中外的名著中，甚至连吃饭是都手不释卷。寝室熄灯后，图书馆门前的路灯下，照样有三二个同学津津有味地啃着借来的图书。

15. It turns out that the building that used to be the library is still there. The impression left by the library on everyone is too deep. When we graduated from junior high school, apart from a few children's books, we hardly read any literary works. It was unimaginable to be able to borrow books for free with a "library card" after entering Yan Shi School. Unfortunately, we could only borrow one book at a time, and everyone devoured each book like hungry and thirsty. During our free time, we were mostly immersed in various famous works from ancient and modern times at home and abroad, even while eating, we couldn't put the books down. After the dormitory lights were turned off, under the streetlights in front of the library, there were still a few students reading the borrowed books with great interest.

16. 我有“天才”？在我心目中，只有大科学家、大文学家才会有如此称谓。张老师却把它当做我的作文评语给了我，我有些“受宠若惊”。我上师范后懂得了文学，并在同学的影响下爱上了文学，但也只是爱好，我还没有太大的奢望。这“天才”二字，从此更增强了我对文学的热爱和写作的信心。我暗下决心：以后一定要在文学上有所作为。

16. Do I have a "genius"? In my mind, only great scientists and great writers are worthy of such a title. However, Teacher Zhang used it as a comment on my essay, which made me feel "overwhelmed with joy". After attending the teachers' college, I came to understand literature and fell in love with it under the influence of my classmates, but it was just a hobby, and I didn't have any grand ambitions. These words "genius" have since further strengthened my love for literature and my confidence in writing. I made a silent vow: I must make a mark in literature in the future.

17. 曾经的那些温暖点滴、过往的那些暖心时刻、遍布世界的那些脚步，还有可爱的孩子、美好的未来和携手走好的人生之路，这些足以驱散黎明前的短暂迷雾和黑暗，现在有多难，将来就有多好。慢慢地、慢慢地，她终究会来！

17. Those warm moments from the past, those heartwarming times of the past, those footsteps scattered across the world, the lovely children, the beautiful future, and the life path walked together - all these are enough to dispel the brief fog and darkness before dawn. No matter how difficult it is now, the future will be that much better. Slowly, slowly, it will eventually arrive!

18. 愿得一人心，白首不相离。君记我一瞬，我念君半生。要知道一个人有多爱你不是看他平常对你有多好，而是你们吵架的时候他怎么对你。爱一个人，其实很简单。他让你流泪，让你失望，尽管这样，他站在那里，你还是会走过去牵他的手，不由自主。即使生气，还是忍不住关心你，这才是真正爱你的人。

18. May I find a heart that will stay with me through white hair, never to part. You remember me for a moment, and I cherish you for half a lifetime. To know how much someone loves you is not to see how good they are to you on a daily basis, but rather how they treat you when you argue. To love someone is actually very simple. If they make you cry, make you失望, even though that's the case, when they stand there, you will still go to hold their hand, involuntarily. Even if angry, they can't help but care about you, and that is the true sign of someone who loves you.

19. 菜肴，有酸甜苦辣五味，而人生却有百味，不同年龄段的人，都在感受各自年龄段专属味道。人到中年，多了些许为儿为母的责任，为承上启下整日忙碌奔波，有时甚至喘不过气来，倍感生活沉重与艰辛；人到中年，多了几分苦涩的无奈和顺天应命的超然，困惑也好，感慨也罢，脚下的路一直在向前伸延，即便是一切早已注定，也必须坚定地走下去，因为你是家庭和社会的中坚，已经没有了选择、没有了退路。

19. Dishes have the five flavors of sweet, sour, bitter, spicy, and salty, but life has a hundred flavors. People of different ages all experience the unique taste of their own age. As one reaches middle age, there is more responsibility as a parent, constantly busy and running between generations, sometimes even struggling to breathe, feeling the weight and hardship of life; as one reaches middle age, there is more bitterness and helplessness, and a sense of transcendence that accepts the will of heaven. Whether it's confusion or reflection, the path beneath one's feet continues to extend forward. Even if everything has already been predetermined, one must firmly continue to walk forward, because you are the backbone of the family and society; there is no longer any choice or retreat.

20. 毕业回乡后，我常常梦到自己师范三年的生活，梦到那个面容清瘦的张老师。我想，以后一定要回到母校，回去看看我的张老师。

20. After returning to my hometown, I often dream about my three years of normal school life, and dream about the thin and handsome Mr. Zhang. I think, in the future, I must return to my alma mater and visit my teacher Mr. Zhang.

21. 二十年的相聚，我们又重新认识了自我，我们有了小孩，有了各自新的牵挂；二十年的相聚，我们有了自已的事业，有了为自已事业奋斗的目标。我们不再是只会熟读书籍的学子，也不再是只会幻想憧憬的天之骄子，我们成了实实在在有血有肉的思想成熟的中年男人、女人，我们是我们事业的中流砥柱。有人得意，有人失意，有人仍有冲天的抱负，有人却已撤手人寰，但我们仍忘不掉我们曾是同学，我们是同一所大学的同学，我们希望我们有一个好的发展，我们也都希望我们都飞黄腾达、意气风发、春风得意，因为这都将成为我们炫耀的资本！

21. After twenty years of gathering, we have rediscovered ourselves. We have children, and we have our own new concerns. After twenty years of gathering, we have our own careers and goals for the pursuit of our own causes. We are no longer just students who only know how to study books, nor are we the favored offspring who only dream and yearn. We have become mature middle-aged men and women with flesh and blood, fully developed in thought. We are the backbone of our careers. Some of us are successful, some are not, some still have ambitions as high as the sky, and some have already left this world, but we still can't forget that we were classmates, that we were classmates from the same university. We hope that we all have a good development, and we all hope that we all achieve great success, full of vigor and vitality, and have the wind of spring in our favor, because all this will become our capital for boasting!

22. 一次作文课，张老师布置了一篇题为《记一个有理想的青年》的作文。我想了很多时间，觉得自己了解的人，我都已写过。那么，写谁呢？就写写自己。于是，我以自己为原型，用第三人称，写了一个没有上大学，却有志于文学创作，最后在文学上成才的青年。我用了自己日记中的材料，很快就完成了这篇作文。我写了整整八页。

22. In a composition class, Teacher Zhang assigned a writing task with the title "Remember a Young Person with Ideals." I thought for a long time, feeling that I had already written about everyone I knew. So, who should I write about? I decided to write about myself. Thus, using myself as the prototype, I wrote about a young person who didn't attend college but was determined to pursue literary creation and eventually succeeded in the field of literature. I used materials from my diary and finished the composition quickly. I wrote it for a whole eight pages.

23. 文波，三年的高中，从没见过你抬头走进教室，总是低着头、红着脸扑向自己的座位，如此害羞的男孩，总让我在心中窃笑。长大后，成为教师的你，没想到竟是最活泼和风趣的一位，昔日的形象亦遁无踪。岁月不只更改了我们的容颜，也更改了我们记忆中的存在状态。浅浅的惊喜，轻轻的感叹，原来诸多的变化会在20年里悄无声息的生根、发芽、蓬勃、发展。

23. Wen Bo, three years of high school, I never saw you walk into the classroom with your head held high. You always went towards your seat with your head down and cheeks flushed, such a shy boy, always made me secretly laugh in my heart. As you grew up to become a teacher, I didn't expect you to be the liveliest and most amusing one, the image from the past has completely disappeared. Time not only changes our appearance but also alters the state of existence we remember. There were little surprises and gentle sighs; it turns out that many changes silently take root, germinate, thrive, and develop over 20 years.

24. 当她不再爱你的时候，无论你有多想她也别打电话告诉她，因为有些人会记住第一个，而有些人只会记住上一个。当你爱一个人的时候你就应该说出来。生命只是时间中的一个停顿，一切的意义都只在它发生的那一时刻。不要等。不要在以后讲这个故事。

24. When she stops loving you, no matter how much you want to, don't call her to tell her, because some people remember the first one, while others only remember the last one. When you love someone, you should say it. Life is just a pause in time, and all its meaning is only in the moment it happens. Don't wait. Don't tell this story in the future.

25. 春节刚过，有家在外地的宣城师范同学来宣。自八三年宣师一别，至今再聚，晃眼已经二十年！二十年哪，足以成就一个人一生的辉煌。

25. Just after the Spring Festival, a Xuanzhou Normal School classmate from a place far away came to Xuanzhou. Since we parted at Xuanzhou Normal School in 1983, we have not gathered until now, and it has been a blink of an eye for 20 years! Twenty years, which is enough to achieve the brilliance of a person's entire life.

26. 爱情来了时，还是不长记性，还是和傻瓜一样前赴后继地去爱，哪伯仍然冒险，仍然上当，仍然心碎。在爱情上，所有人都不会长记性，因为这么美，这么让人心碎的事物，它也一定曾经让人非常—心醉。

26. When love comes, one still doesn't learn from past mistakes, and goes after it like a fool, regardless of the risks, falling for scams, and experiencing heartbreak. In matters of love, everyone is forgetful, because such a beautiful and heart-wrenching thing must have once been incredibly—enchanting.

27. 徐敏，我们全班同学的大姐，你和长伟的爱情永如初恋般甜蜜，让我羡慕。你的女儿即将启程，跨入厦门大学。我们为之兴奋，为之鼓掌。而女儿的发言更让我热泪长流，近二十年为人父母的付出，竟得到女儿如此的理解和崇敬。生命无悔，后代前进。

27. Xu Min, the big sister of our whole class, your love with Changwei is as sweet as your first love, which makes me envious. Your daughter is about to embark on her journey, entering Xiamen University. We are excited and cheering for her. And her speech brought tears to my eyes, as the nearly two decades of parenting I have invested has been so understood and revered by my daughter. Life is not in vain, and the descendants move forward.

28. 二十四年前，我们在同一个课堂里静静的聆听，伴着窗外的春风，沥沥的雨音，飘洒的雪花和婉转的鸟鸣。我们共同在书海中徜徉，在智慧的乐园里跋涉。在此聚会之前，我们在世间奔忙，相互之间相见寥寥。此次彼此拥抱，记忆瞬间打开，熟稔起来，默契起来，亲切起来。

28. Twenty-four years ago, we quietly listened in the same classroom, accompanied by the spring breeze outside, the pattering rain, the falling snowflakes, and the melodious bird songs. We wandered together in the sea of books, trekking through the garden of wisdom. Before this gathering, we were busy in the world, rarely meeting each other. This time, as we embrace each other, memories instantly unfold, and we become familiar, attuned, and affectionate.

29. 生活总是这样的，快乐少于痛苦，笑颜少于愁郁，相聚少于别离，我们都是活在艰难中的人，在迷茫中各走各路，回望前尘，只留下一行行弯弯曲曲的孤单足印……

29. Life is always like this, with happiness less than pain, laughter less than melancholy, and togetherness less than separation. We are all people living in hardship, each taking our own path in confusion. Looking back on the past, we are left with only a series of winding, lonely footprints...

30. 我很乐意，那一天再见到我年少时的朋友，相逢的泪水与喜悦，相见的欣慰与祝福，都将让我铭记终生。

30. I am delighted that on that day, I will meet again with my youthful friends. The tears and joy of our reunion, the warmth and blessings of our meeting, will all be etched in my memory forever.

31. 静静的'人生，就是一路风景，一路歌。总在陌生的风景里，吟唱一首陌生的歌，拥有一段陌生的情怀。一次回首，也许就是一生的惦念，一生的守候；我相信每个人心里都是善良公正的，都知道什么是对什么是错。可是我们往往没有勇气去直面内心。

31. A tranquil life is a journey of scenery and songs. Always singing a strange song in unfamiliar scenery, owning a strange sentiment. A backward glance may be a lifelong longing, a lifelong waiting. I believe that everyone's heart is kind and just, and everyone knows what is right and wrong. However, we often lack the courage to face our inner selves.

32. 心情美了，你会发现小花小草也对你微笑，事情也会变得顺利，人生，也会变得幸福。

32. When your mood is good, you'll find that the small flowers and grasses also smile at you, things will become smooth, and life will become happy.

33. 我想，十多年的生活磨砺了我们，岁月的痕迹自然写在脸上，生活给我们的首先是容颜的改变，肌肉不再泛着光泽充满弹性；眼神也不再那么清澈明亮，有了些许暗黄的混浊；身材不再轻盈如燕，赘肉爬满了身体各个角落。这些，都无碍我们见面时激动得相认，张三李四的名字还是脱口而出的。

33. I believe that over a decade of life has weathered us, and the marks of time are naturally etched on our faces. Life first brings about changes to our appearance - the muscles no longer shine with luster and elasticity; the eyes are no longer as clear and bright, now with a hint of yellowish turbidity; the figure is no longer as graceful as a swallow, with flab creeping into every corner of the body. Yet, none of these hinder our excitement upon meeting and recognizing each other; the names of Zhang San and Li Si still come out spontaneously.

34. 没什么值得苦哈哈，带着一包袱的眼泪；别指望谁都觉得你好，有问题解决问题，解决不了就换个码头、从头再来。生活需要浑不论，越是差生越需要这种心态。

34. There's nothing worth enduring through hardships and carrying a burden of tears; don't expect everyone to think highly of you. When faced with problems, address them; if you can't solve them, change your course and start anew. Life requires a carefree attitude, and those who are considered underachievers need this mindset even more.

35. 你可知道：曾经经历了多少次心的历程，心的洗礼。面对离散的情境，我茫然无措。心的记忆，还在不住地追忆往日的美景，难忘的情怀。但心中只剩模糊和迷离。

35. Do you know: How many times have I undergone the journey and baptism of the heart? Facing the situation of dispersion, I am at a loss. The memory of the heart still keeps recalling the beautiful scenes of the past and unforgettable emotions. But in my heart, there is only confusion and ambiguity.

36. 欣赏岁月的沉淀和时间的幽深，不辜负我们不期而遇的各种光景。在人生的路上迈着温和中包含着刚健的步伐，在渐进中积累回忆和纪念，在没有追悔的期待中完成行程，才算不虚此生、不虚此行！

36. Appreciating the sedimentation of the years and the profundity of time, not to waste the various encounters that come upon us unexpectedly. To stride through life with a gentle step that encompasses vigor, accumulating memories and commemorations in the gradual progress, and completing the journey with no regrets in anticipation, is to truly not live in vain or travel in vain!

37. 从现在起，收起埋怨生活的目光，整装待发，踏上感悟生活的旅程。因为，活着，已是一种美好！

37. From now on, put away the gaze that complains about life, get yourself ready, and embark on a journey to perceive life. Because, to be alive is already a beauty!

38. 如今的社会，为了各种关系而互相纠缠不清。为了更与平的相处，不得不说一个谎，可是却无奈的发现，哪里一个谎就能奏效？于是，有了为圆上一个谎而不得不说的又一个谎。

38. In today's society, people are entangled in various relationships. To get along more smoothly, one has to tell a lie, but unfortunately, they find that no single lie can work. As a result, they have to tell another lie to cover up the first one.

39. 作个智慧的男人，学会从容面对生活。积极面对生活。生活定会如你所愿，如同明早，太阳依旧会如时升起。

39. Be a wise man, learn to face life calmly. Embrace life positively. Life will surely turn out as you wish, just like tomorrow morning, the sun will still rise on time.

40. 那时的我们真纯啊，除了学校偶尔包场看几次**外，很少到街上去，课余时间便是看书、打球、画画、练乐器……最热门的话题只有张海迪、女排。

40. We were so innocent back then, except for the occasional times the school arranged screenings, we rarely went out on the streets. During our free time, we would read books, play sports, draw, practice musical instruments... The most popular topics were only Zhang Haidi and the women's volleyball team.

41. 高三很苦，但是很快乐，我们快要到没有白天黑夜，但是一想到那教室里的一丝阳光，同学，老师。[xx]年，加油！

41. Senior three is very hard, but it's also very happy. We are about to reach a time when there are no more days and nights, but just thinking about that bit of sunlight in the classroom, the classmates, the teachers. [Year xx], let's work hard!

42. 土地失去了水分就会变成沙漠，人生最可悲的就是暮气沉沉的人。

42. Land loses its moisture and becomes a desert, and the most pitiful thing in life is a person who is weary and lacking in vitality.

43. 我愿用我的拥抱和亲吻，祝福我的张老师健康永远，快乐永远，幸福永远。

43. I wish to use my embrace and kisses to bless my teacher Zhang with eternal health, eternal happiness, and eternal bliss.

44. 当我们毕业五年十年以后相聚，曾经的青春少年又会变成什么样子呢？

44. When we reunite five or ten years after graduation, what will the former youthful boys have become?

45. 那时，张老师年龄四十岁左右，面容清瘦，性情耿直。他平时不多与学生接触，更少与学生敞开心扉。班上有什么事情，他只在课中顺便处理。但三年的代课和班主任生活，还是给我留下了难以磨灭的记忆。

45. At that time, Teacher Zhang was about forty years old, with a lean and clear face, and an honest and straightforward personality. He did not have much contact with students in his daily life, and even less did he open up to them. Whenever there was something happening in the class, he would only deal with it incidentally during the lessons. However, the three years of substitute teaching and being a class teacher still left an indelible impression on me.

46. 当你在生活中找知心朋友困难的时候，你会突然发现另外的途径，就是写作，你会发现你笔下的人物都是朋友，写作就是交朋友的过程。

46. When you find it difficult to find a close friend in life, you will suddenly discover another path, which is writing. You will find that the characters you write about are all friends, and writing is a process of making friends.

47. 幸福不会遗漏任何人，迟早有一天它会找到你。一辈子不长，不要为难自己，情，渐远时，选择随意；事，未尽时，随后继续，世上没有走不通的路，只有不愿放下的心。

47. Happiness will not leave anyone behind, sooner or later it will find you. Life is not long, do not torture yourself; when love fades, choose to be casual; when things are not yet resolved, continue later. There is no road that cannot be taken in the world, only a heart that is unwilling to let go.

48. 相互询问对方二十年的经历，回答大体相同。在师范时个个恨不九天揽月，谁的心里不是对未来充满着憧憬？可一纸介绍信竟无情地把自己滚热的心抛到陌生而偏僻的小学校。虽然大家都明白，师范毕业后的工作应该是什么，但真的做起“孩子王”时，内心的沮丧是真的到了极点。最怕的是别人问工资多少。三十三元？有人会当着你的面嗤之以鼻。最不平的是，许多初中时远不如自己的同学一个个踏进大学的门槛，走过小学校时故意把地震得咚咚作响。对男同学来说还有最为难的是谈女朋友。当年的农村，没有公路，没有自来水，没有公房，学校条件艰苦得不亚于荒山野庙，想找个居民户口的对象，简直比攀皇亲国戚还难。

48. They asked each other about their experiences of the past twenty years, and their answers were largely similar. During their teacher's training, everyone was eager to grasp the moon in their hands, wasn't everyone's heart filled with aspirations for the future? However, a piece of introduction letter mercilessly threw their warm-heartedness into a strange and remote primary school. Although everyone knew what kind of job they should have after graduating from teacher's college, the sadness they felt when truly becoming the "king of children" was truly to the extreme. The most feared thing was when others asked about their salary. Thirty-three yuan? Some would sneer at you in your face. The most unfair thing was that many of their classmates who were not as good as them in junior high school had all stepped into the threshold of universities, and passed by the primary school intentionally making a loud sound like an earthquake. For male students, the most difficult thing was to talk about girlfriends. In those years, the countryside had no roads, no running water, no public housing, and the school conditions were as tough as in a desolate mountain temple. It was almost as difficult to find a resident with a household registration as it was to climb the nobility.

49. 在我离开母校八年的时候，我的工作有了一些成绩，我的文学也有了一点小小的“收获”。毕业后，我于鲁迅文学院函授学习了三年，写了一些小说，写了很多诗。我的一些诗作，有的在当地的报纸发表，有的被选入公开出版的书中。九三年，参加纪念毛泽东诞辰一百周年全国诗歌大赛，我的《一个民族的历程》获得优秀奖，并选入专辑《唱给毛泽东》。后来，我将所作整理，出了两本诗集。

49. When I left my alma mater eight years ago, I had achieved some success in my work, and I had also made a small "harvest" in literature. After graduation, I studied for three years at the鲁迅文学院 correspondence school, wrote some novels, and composed many poems. Some of my poems were published in local newspapers, and some were selected for publication in publicly released books. In 1993, I participated in the national poetry competition to commemorate the 100th anniversary of Mao Zedong's birth, and my poem "The Journey of a Nation" won the Excellence Award and was selected for the album "Singing to Mao Zedong." Later, I compiled my works and published two poetry collections.

50. 沈先生谈及的这些人有共同特点。一是都对工作、对学问热爱到了痴迷的程度；二是为人天真到像一个孩子，对生活充满兴趣，不管在什么环境下永远不消沉沮丧，无机心，少俗虑。 闻多素心人，乐与数晨夕。

50. The people Mr. Shen mentioned all share certain common characteristics. First, they are all passionate about their work and scholarship to the point of obsession; second, they are innocent like children, full of interest in life, never sinking into depression or despondency regardless of the environment, without ulterior motives, and with few worldly concerns. They are delighted to spend their days and nights with sincere-hearted individuals.

51. 到后来才发现，无论你怎么尽心尽力，无论你怎么全心全意，你所做的都不可能令所有人满意！于是慢慢知道了，生活是自己的，跟他人无关，不要被别人的情绪感染，不要跟烂人烂事纠缠，那会消耗自己的能量！

51. It was only later that I realized, no matter how hard you try and put your heart into it, no matter how wholeheartedly you do it, what you do cannot satisfy everyone! So I slowly came to understand that life is your own, and has nothing to do with others. Don't let yourself be infected by others' emotions, and don't entangle yourself with bad people and things, as that will consume your energy!

52. 一直喜欢用色清淡的东西，比如画梅或画竹，不同于画牡丹的人。画牡丹的人，喜欢热闹和凡俗，喜欢讨喜。或者更直接地说，喜欢用牡丹去谋求些什么。

52. Always preferred using light colors, like painting plum blossoms or bamboo, unlike those who paint peonies. People who paint peonies like热闹 and the mundane, they like to be pleasing. Or to put it more directly, they like to seek something through painting peonies.

53. 我们也许有个不堪回首的过去，但足够幸运的是还有个洁白无瑕的未来。

53. We may have a past that is too painful to look back on, but we are lucky enough to still have a future that is as pure and spotless as a blank page.

54. 一次在教《诗经》二首，第一课时后，张老师给我们布置了作业，要我们背诵全诗。多数同学并没有在意，我却认真地背了。第二天语文课，张老师提问时，没有一个同学举手。我本来想举手，但看了看全班同学，也没有去举。张老师显得有些恼怒，环视全班后目光停在我的身上。我看到那目光中带着疑问，又像带着鼓励。我被他的目光触动了，缓缓地将手举起。张老师清瘦的脸上露出了一丝笑容，抬手示意让我背诵。我在全班“无动于衷”的尴尬的局面中背的很不熟练。张老师却露出了满意的笑容，并表扬了我。

54. Once, while teaching two poems from the Book of Songs, after the first class, Teacher Zhang assigned us homework to recite the entire poem. Most of my classmates didn't take it seriously, but I did so diligently. The next day in the Chinese class, when Teacher Zhang asked a question, no student raised their hand. I wanted to raise my hand, but after looking at all my classmates, I didn't. Teacher Zhang seemed a bit angry, looked around the class, and his gaze landed on me. I saw a mix of doubt and encouragement in his eyes. His gaze touched me, and I slowly raised my hand. Teacher Zhang, with his thin face, showed a hint of a smile and raised his hand to indicate that I should recite. In the awkward situation where the whole class seemed indifferent, I recited the poem quite ungracefully. However, Teacher Zhang smiled with satisfaction and praised me.

55. 一个人的价值大小，不是看他向社会索取多少，而是看他贡献多少。相比之下，按劳分配并不是按你的劳动量来分配，而是要你生产出更多的价值。只要你愿意，你劳动的能力越强，创造的价值越多，就越可能获得高的收入。多劳多得的根本是质而不是量，贫穷者由穷变富最根本的投资是对自身能力的投资。

55. The value of a person is not determined by how much they take from society, but by how much they contribute. In comparison, the distribution according to labor is not about distributing according to the amount of labor you put in, but about producing more value. As long as you are willing, the stronger your ability to work, the more value you create, and the more likely you are to earn a higher income. The essence of "more work, more reward" is quality rather than quantity, and the most fundamental investment for the poor to become wealthy is an investment in their own abilities.

56. 小时候，外婆家在大山里，离家有十几里地，也没有自行车，去一次最起码要2个小时的步行，我和弟弟感觉到好远好远。每年暑假，我们几个表哥表弟总喜欢一起邀着去外婆家，去到外婆家里的梨林地去玩，去看水库里的清波，去到山上去演红军。每年的这次我们感觉到离家好远好远，过不了两天就会非常想念家，于是又是一番跋涉，回到家已是大汗淋漓，妈妈也一定会在村头等着我们。在一次次地相聚和离别中，家是终点，也是最温暖的地方。

56. When I was young, my grandmother's house was in the mountains, several miles away from home, and there were no bicycles. It took at least two hours of walking to get there, and my brother and I felt it was incredibly far. Every summer vacation, a few of my cousins and I would always like to invite each other to go to my grandmother's house. We would play in the pear orchard there, watch the clear ripples in the reservoir, and perform as Red Army soldiers in the mountains. Each year, this trip made us feel incredibly far from home, and we would start missing it after just a couple of days. Then, we would embark on another journey, arriving home drenched in sweat, and I'm sure my mother would be waiting for us at the village entrance. In the cycle of reunions and farewells, home is both the destination and the warmest place.

57. 清醒时做事，迷茫时读书。烦躁时运动，独处时思考。

57. Act with clarity when you are awake, read when you are confused. Exercise when you are restless, and think when you are alone.

58. 篮球场位置也未动，横头高台上的两层石阶仍是原来模样。记得只要不下雨，那总是我们坐着吃饭的地方。

58. The basketball court's location has not changed either, and the two levels of stone steps on the elevated platform at the end are still as they were. I remember that as long as it didn't rain, that was always the place where we sat to eat.

59. 我们之所以有时不能友好共处，是因为我们总是针锋相对，没有给自己和他人留有余地。其实很多事情只要我们退一步，为对方想想，相互之间的空间一下子就宽松多了。

59. The reason why we sometimes cannot coexist amicably is that we always confront each other head-on, without leaving any room for ourselves or others. In fact, many things would be much more relaxed between us if we just take a step back and think about the other person, creating more space for each other.

60. 我们就是这样一群女人，没傍过大款，也没拼过爹，虽然个个收入稳定，衣食无忧，却从未止步不前。从每个清晨到夜晚，忙碌而充实，积极又阳光，每个人都在竭尽所能，趁还未老，把生活折腾成自己想要的模样，待到迟暮之年，回首往昔，无论生活怎样，都可以自豪的说，我——无愧我心！

60. We are just such a group of women who have never relied on rich men or leveraged our fathers' influence. Although each of us has a stable income and is worry-free when it comes to clothing and food, we have never stopped moving forward. From each morning to night, we are busy yet fulfilling, proactive and sunny. Everyone is doing their best to turn their lives into the desired shape while there is still time, before it's too late. As we look back on the past in our twilight years, no matter how life may have been, we can proudly say, I - I have no regrets!

61. 想知道它到底是什么东西吗？那你只有自我去亲身体验了！

61. Want to know what it really is? Then you have to experience it yourself!

62. 高中同学聚会，说长，是我20多年来的夙愿。说短，是无数个深夜，闭眼、睁眼之间的梦境，是梦境里无数次望眼欲穿的思念。

62. The high school reunion, when spoken of at length, has been a long-cherished wish of mine for over 20 years. When spoken briefly, it is the dreams between the closing and opening of eyes in countless nights, the longing that is etched into the dreams, a yearning that is never satisfied.

63. 要始终相信，你脚下的这条路就是最好的路，终会有星辰大海，花团锦簇。眼睛长在前面，永远别向后看。其实选错了就选错了，别一遍一遍地后悔，总寻思，如果当初怎么怎么样就好了，其实当时你在雾里也很迷茫，再让你选一次，按照当时的你的心境，你的见识，你的优缺点，还是会做同样的选择。 ​​​

63. Always believe that the path under your feet is the best one, and that there will always be stars and oceans, and colorful flowers. Keep your eyes forward, never look back. In fact, if you make the wrong choice, just make it. Don't keep regretting over and over, always thinking, "If only I had done something differently back then," but in reality, you were also confused in the fog at that time. If you were given another chance to choose, based on your mindset, your knowledge, and your strengths and weaknesses at that time, you would still make the same choice.

64. 在不如意的生活中，生活已经很难了，一定要自己哄自己开心，自己的身体自己照顾，自己的心情自己理解，自己的日子还得自己过，快乐与否，全靠自己的心态好坏。

64. In an unsatisfactory life, it's already hard enough. One must make oneself happy, take care of one's own body, understand one's own mood, and live one's own days. Whether one is happy or not depends entirely on one's own mindset.

65. 生活里，总是要有一些光与影的交错，有些事情，不是喜欢的，但一定要去做，有些东西，是一心相许的，却不得不放弃。

65. In life, there must always be a play of light and shadow. There are things that are not liked, but must be done, and there are things that are deeply cherished, yet one has to let go of them.

66. 以后我并没有常到张老师那里去，张老师却主动把我叫到他的办公室，询问我的各方面情况，说些安慰我的话，并组织同学在物质上和精神上多次给我以帮助和安慰。同学们把我当弟弟一样看待，而我的张老师把我当儿子一样看待。

66. After that, I didn't often go to Teacher Zhang's office, but Teacher Zhang主动 called me to his office, inquired about my situation in various aspects, said some comforting words to me, and organized my classmates to give me help and comfort both in material and spiritual terms multiple times. My classmates treated me like a younger brother, and Teacher Zhang treated me like a son.

67. 不曾想，二十年过来，一个个又十分满足。有的成了政府官员，有的成了学校领导，有的成了大学、中学的业务骨干。即使仍在小学从教的，得益于扎实的基础，得益于宣师良好的校风，没有一个不是学校的大梁。逢年过节，总有当军官的、做公务员的、成了老板的，各种干得有模有样的学生来问候。二十年前委屈的心境早已恬适和满足中消失得无影无踪。

67. Little did they expect that, after twenty years, each one of them was very satisfied. Some have become government officials, some have become school leaders, and some have become business pillars in universities and middle schools. Even those who are still teaching in primary schools, thanks to their solid foundation and the good school spirit of Yan Shi, are all the backbone of their schools. During holidays and festivals, there are always students who have become officers, civil servants, and entrepreneurs, all doing their jobs with a certain style, coming to pay their respects. The feeling of injustice from twenty years ago has long disappeared without a trace, replaced by contentment and satisfaction.

68. 能力欠缺点没有关系，多学点知识也行；知识欠缺点没有关系，多长点常识也行；常识欠缺点没有关系，多积点教养也行；教养欠缺点没有关系，多一点爱心也行；如果连爱心也欠缺，那就真的一无所有了。

68. It doesn't matter if there's a lack of ability; learning more knowledge is fine; it doesn't matter if there's a lack of knowledge; gaining more common sense is fine; if there's a lack of common sense, accumulating more cultivation is fine; if there's a lack of cultivation, a little more love is fine. But if there's even a lack of love, then one truly has nothing at all.