在浩瀚的宇宙中，有一句话流传千古：“舍小得大，智慧生活之道。”这简短的话语，蕴含着无尽的哲理，引领我们探寻生活的真谛。今天，就让我们一同揭开这神秘的面纱，探寻智慧生活的奥秘。

In the vast universe, there is a phrase that has been passed down through the ages: "To sacrifice the small for the great, this is the way of wisdom in living." This brief saying contains endless philosophy, guiding us to explore the essence of life. Today, let us unveil this mysterious veil together and seek the mysteries of a life of wisdom.

1. 我能做的不多，但你需要的时候，我总是在的。

1. I can't do much, but I'm always there when you need me.

2. 想到和得到，中间还有两个字，那就是要做到。

2. There are two more characters between 'thinking' and 'receiving,' which is 'to do.'

3. 你也许不清楚自己是个什么样的人，但当你面对金钱、权利和人生是非的选择时，会让你知道真正的自己是个什么样的人。

3. You may not be clear about who you really are, but when faced with choices involving money, power, and life's right and wrong, it will reveal the true nature of yourself.

4. 早安心语：大舍大得，小舍小得，不舍不得。真正的爱情，应该是两个人，彼此理解，互相尊重，不缠绕，不牵绊，不占有，然后相伴，走过一段漫长的旅程。如果我遇见你，就会紧紧抓住你。

4. Morning Inspirations: Great giving brings great gain, small giving brings small gain, not giving brings no gain. True love should be between two people who understand each other, respect each other, do not entangle, do not tie down, do not possess, and then accompany each other through a long journey. If I meet you, I will tightly hold on to you.

5. 有些东西会变，有些东西却一直不变，比如我们骨子里的自己，那是再怎么磨，也磨不掉的。就像一条河流，也许时间长了，上面会有些许的漂浮物，但拨开狼藉，里面还是原来那股潺潺的清水。

5. Some things change, while others remain unchanging, like the essence of ourselves deep within, which cannot be worn away no matter how much it is rubbed. It's like a river, perhaps over time there may be some floating debris on its surface, but if you clear away the mess, the original gentle, flowing water is still there.

6. 如果你不给自己烦恼，别人也永远不可能给你烦恼。难过只是因为你自己的内心，你放不下。

6. If you don't give yourself烦恼 (trouble), others can never give you trouble. Sadness is just because of your own inner self, and you can't let it go.

7. 为了自己想过的生活，勇于放弃一些东西。这个世界没有公正之处。若要自由，就得牺牲安全。若要闲散，就不能获得别人评价中的成就。若要愉悦，就无须计较身边的人给予的态度。若要前行，就得离开你现在停留的地方。

7. To live the life you desire, be brave enough to give up some things. This world is not fair. If you want freedom, you have to sacrifice security. If you want leisure, you can't achieve the achievements in others' evaluations. If you want happiness, you don't have to care about the attitudes of those around you. If you want to move forward, you have to leave the place where you are currently staying.

8. 有些心事只能自言自语，有些秘密只能讲给朋友。有些痛苦只能默默承受，自己还是要靠自己拯救。真正的痛苦，没有人能与你分担，你只能把它从一个肩头，换到你的另一个肩头。

8. Some concerns can only be voiced to oneself, and some secrets can only be shared with friends. Some sorrows can only be endured silently, and ultimately, one has to rely on oneself for salvation. True pain, no one can share with you; you can only shift it from one shoulder to the other.

9. 我叮咛你的，你说，不会遗忘。你告诉我的，我也，全都珍藏。对于我们来说，记忆是飘不落的日子，永远不会发黄，相聚的时候，总是很短。期待的时候，总是很长。

9. What I have advised you, you say, you will not forget. What you have told me, I have also treasured all of it. For us, memory is days that never fall, never fade yellow. When we gather together, it is always short. When we anticipate, it is always long.

10. 不要惊动他人的幸福，幸福也是一个人的隐私。在你眼中看的是一种苦难，在别人的心里也许正是一种幸福。

10. Do not disturb others' happiness, as happiness is also a person's privacy. What you see as suffering, may be a source of happiness in someone else's heart.

11. 不到最后一刻，千万别放弃。有时候，必须有前面的苦心经营，才有后面的好运。

11. Never give up until the very last moment. Sometimes, you need to put in hard work and effort beforehand to reap the good luck later.

12. 人的精力都有限，真就可能只能把心思给那么几个人。相遇容易相识也不难，难的是维持。刚开始可能都相见恨晚，到后来可能只是偶尔联系。这世上所有的久处不厌，都是因为用心。

12. People's energy is limited, and it's quite possible that they can only focus their thoughts on a few individuals. Meeting and getting to know each other is easy, but what's difficult is maintaining the relationship. At the beginning, everyone might feel that they've met too late, but later on, it might just be occasional contact. All long-lasting relationships in this world are because of the effort and care put into them.

13. 一个好男人，在有女朋友的时候，应该像紧锁的门，不管外面有什么大美女敲门，都毫不动摇，不给人希望。而很多男人呢，虽然有女友，却依然开着门缝，这让追求者一直留有希望。苍蝇不叮无缝的蛋，男人一直留有机会，当然是桃花满天飞。所以找男人，就要找能给自己美好，却不给别人留希望的人。陆琪

13. A good man, when he has a girlfriend, should be like a tightly locked door, no matter how beautiful a woman knocks on the door outside, he should remain unwavering and not give anyone hope. However, many men, although they have a girlfriend, still leave a crack open in the door, keeping the pursuers always hoping. As the saying goes, "Flies won't lay eggs in a crack-free egg," if a man always leaves an opportunity open, it's like having a sea of blooming peach blossoms. Therefore, when looking for a man, one should look for someone who can bring oneself happiness but not leave any hope for others. Lu Qi

14. 最好的生活：无非是我知道我喜欢你，你也喜欢我。我们白天有说有笑，晚上有个好觉。虽然生活还是有进有退，但我们没有褪掉好心情。

14. The best life: it's nothing more than knowing that I like you and you like me. We chat and laugh during the day and have a good night's sleep at night. Although life still has ups and downs, we haven't lost our good mood.

15. 你的人生就是你的，你感觉到风时，风才在吹；你把宇宙放在你的心里，宇宙才存在。其他的别人替你决定的、别人替你相信的、别人替你承认的，你也许要背负，但时候到了，你也可以放下。——蔡康永

15. Your life is yours. When you feel the wind, the wind is blowing; when you place the universe in your heart, the universe exists. The rest, which others decide for you, others believe for you, and others acknowledge for you, you may have to bear, but when the time comes, you can also let it go. - Tsai Kang-yung

16. 适合发朋友圈的晚安心语说说：求而不得，舍而不能，得而不惜

16. A suitable evening comfort quote for sharing on social media: Seek but cannot obtain, want to give up but cannot, obtain but do not cherish.

17. 人一辈子，你得信这一条：留得住的不需用力，留不住的不需费力。来去随缘，强求不得。

17. Throughout your life, you must believe in this one principle: What can be kept does not require force, and what cannot be kept does not require effort. Go with the flow, and do not strive too hard.

18. 不久，越国大兵压境，吴国告急，此时正值隆冬，吴越两军又是进行水战。由于吴国将士涂抹了秘制冻疮膏，战斗力大为提高，因而大胜越军。吴王大喜，立刻决定对鲁国商人封疆裂土，赏黄金万两。

18. Not long after, the powerful troops of the Yue Kingdom approached, and the Wu Kingdom sent out an urgent call for help. It was the peak of winter, and the two armies were engaged in a naval battle. Thanks to the Wu soldiers applying a secret concoction for frostbite, their combat effectiveness was significantly enhanced, leading to a decisive victory over the Yue army. The King of Wu was overjoyed and immediately decided to grant territory and land to the merchants of the Lu Kingdom, rewarding them with ten thousand ounces of gold.

19. 我从没被谁知道，所以也没被谁忘记。在别人的回忆中生活，并不是我的目的。——顾城

19. I have never been known by anyone, so I have never been forgotten by anyone either. Living in the memories of others is not my aim. — Gu Cheng

20. 一双鞋，刚买的时候蹭上一点灰都要蹲下来擦干净，穿久之后即使被人踩一脚可能也很少低头。人大抵都是如此，不论对物还是对情。最初，她皱一下眉你都心疼，到后来，她掉眼泪你也不大紧张了。

20. At first, when you buy a pair of shoes, even a little bit of dust can make you crouch down to wipe it clean. After wearing them for a while, even if someone steps on them, you may rarely bow your head. People are generally like this, whether it's about objects or emotions. Initially, you feel pain in your heart when she皱 her brow slightly, but later, even when she sheds tears, you're not very worried.

21. 人最幸福的时刻，就是找对了人，他宠着你，纵容你的习惯，并爱着你的一切。

21. The happiest moment for a person is when they find the right person, who dotes on them, indulges their habits, and loves everything about them.

22. 迷茫是生活的常态，很多时候，它只是才华配不上梦想而已。不要迷茫了，把当下的、手头的工作做到极致，前途必定会一片明朗。请记得：如果需要反省，一定不是在梦想上下功夫，徘徊不定，而是要在才华上卧薪尝胆，反思它为什么不能日渐丰满。

22. Confusion is the norm of life, and often, it's just that one's talent does not match their dreams. Don't be confused anymore. Do your current and hand-on work to the utmost perfection, and your future will undoubtedly be bright. Remember: if you need to reflect, it's not about exerting effort on your dreams, hesitating, but rather to persevere and reflect on why your talent cannot gradually become more robust.

23. 如果自己没有尽力，就没有资格批评别人不用心。开口抱怨很容易，但是闭嘴努力的人，更加值得尊敬。

23. If one has not put in one's best effort, one has no资格 to criticize others for not being attentive. It is easy to open one's mouth and complain, but the person who keeps quiet and works hard is more worthy of respect.

24. ​人是一个既健忘又善记的人。有恩于己健忘，有恩于人善记。有恩于人，忘掉，有恩于己，一辈子记住他。这是违背人性的，但恰恰这样做了，你就能够把人际关系处好了。”

24. A person is forgetful yet good at remembering. They forget favors done to them but remember favors done to others. They forget favors done to others, but remember favors done to themselves for a lifetime. This goes against human nature, but by doing just that, you can manage interpersonal relationships well."

25. 你生命的前半辈子或许属于别人，活在别人的认为里。那把后半辈子还给你自己，去追随你内在的声音。

25. The first half of your life may have belonged to others, living according to others' beliefs. Return the latter half of your life to yourself, and follow the inner voice within you.

26. 当爱在暧昧不明时，先确定自己的心意，远比弄清对方的意向更优先处理。

26. When love is ambiguous, it is more important to clarify one's own feelings first than to understand the other person's intentions.

27. 舍与得，无非一种轮回，看破了，也就释然了。

27. Giving and receiving, it's all just a cycle. Once you see through it, you'll feel at ease.

28. 受过伤的地方，永远留着一个伤口，在你快忘记它的时候，就会突然疼一下。

28. Where an injury has occurred, a scar remains forever; when you are about to forget it, it suddenly hurts.

29. 如果他总为别人撑伞，你何苦非为他等在雨中。

29. If he always holds an umbrella for others, why do you have to wait in the rain for him?

30. 教养和文化是两回事，有的人很有文化，但是很没教养，有的人没有什么太高的学历和学识，但仍然很有教养，很有分寸。教养是带有某种天生的素质和一点一滴的积累。

30. Education and culture are two different things. Some people are very culturally educated but lack good manners, while others may not have a high level of formal education or knowledge but are still very well-mannered and have good taste. Good manners are a combination of certain innate qualities and gradual accumulation.

31. 我们的心就是一个圆形，因为它的离心率永远是零。我对你的思念就是一个循环小数，一遍一遍，执迷不悟。我们就是抛物线，你是焦点，我是准线，你想我有多深，我念你便有多真。零向量可以有很多方向，却只有一个长度，就像我，可以有很多朋友，却只有你一个，值得我来守护。

31. Our hearts are in the shape of a circle, because its eccentricity is always zero. My longing for you is a repeating decimal, endless and unyielding. We are a parabola, you are the focus, and I am the directrix. The deeper you think of me, the truer I feel about you. A zero vector can have many directions, but only one length, just like me, I can have many friends, but only you are the one worth my protection.

32. 你会轻易接受别人的爱，不是因为你心中多有爱，多渴望爱，有时候，是因为，你总是被忽略，总是得不到别人的关心，在其它地方你太缺爱了。

32. You easily accept others' love, not because you have a lot of love in your heart or a strong desire for love. Sometimes, it's because you are always ignored and never receive care from others; you are too lacking in love in other aspects.

33. 世界上最厉害的本领是什么是以愉悦的心情老去，是在想工作的时候能选择休息，是在想说话的时候保持沉默，是在失望的时候又燃起希望。

33. The most formidable skill in the world is to age with joy, to be able to rest when you think about work, to maintain silence when you feel like speaking, and to reignite hope when you are feeling disappointed.

34. 你错失了夏花绚烂，必将会走进秋叶静羌。任何事，任何人，都会成为过去，不要跟它过不去。

34. You missed the splendid summer flowers, but you will eventually walk into the tranquil autumn leaves. Anything and anyone will become the past, so don't hold onto it and keep fighting.

35. 并不是每个人都能将疼痛堂而皇之挂在脸上的，即便没挂在脸上，那痛却是一分也不少的。

35. Not everyone can display their pain openly on their face, even if it's not shown on the face, the pain is no less intense.

36. 你相信有永远的爱吗？我相信的。你拥有过吗？还没有。那你为甚么相信？相信的话，比较幸福。

36. Do you believe in eternal love? I do. Have you ever had it? Not yet. Then why do you believe? If you believe, it's more fortunate.

37. 我们要学会接受身边所有人的改变，没有一个人是一成不变的，也许有的人偶尔会冷落你，有的人偶尔会靠近你，有的人突然会讨厌你，不可避免的你都要接受，你也改变不了，每个人都有自己的生活，快乐不快乐，晴天下雨天，我们自己也是，只有不断完善自己，做好自己，我们才有信心去接受所有人的改变！

37. We need to learn to accept the changes of everyone around us, as no one remains the same. Perhaps some may occasionally ignore you, others may occasionally get closer to you, and some may suddenly start to dislike you. It is inevitable that you have to accept these changes, and you cannot change them. Everyone has their own life, whether they are happy or not, sunny or rainy days, and we ourselves are the same. Only by constantly improving ourselves and doing our best, can we gain the confidence to accept the changes of everyone!

38. 有一天当你认为你不是主角时，你才是正真的主角。

38. It is when you think you are not the protagonist that you are truly the main character.

39. 别把别人的评价看得太重，凡事只要内心无愧，就不必计较太多。

39. Don't place too much importance on others' opinions. As long as you have no regrets in your heart, there's no need to worry too much about it.

40. 不是因为我执着，而是因为你值得。希望有一天，你能遇到这样一个人。

40. Not because I am stubborn, but because you are worth it. I hope one day, you will meet someone like that.

41. 很多美好的东西，都是等来的，不是抢来的，而等待需要耐心。失去耐心之时，也是我们与幸福擦肩而过的时候。但凡有耐心的人，往往能笑到最后。所以，别着急，好事在后头！

41. Many wonderful things come with waiting, not by grabbing, and waiting requires patience. When patience is lost, that's also the time when we pass by happiness. Those who have patience often end up laughing last. So, don't rush, the good things are yet to come!

42. 如果你什么都没有，对别人不能提供任何价值，那该怎么办？那你最好的选择就是暂时走出人际关系的网络之中，全心全意的提升自己的价值，比如努力学习某一种专业技能，在某一个领域深耕细作，把简单的事情用心做，把用心的事情重复做，把重复的事情坚持做，成为这个领域的专家，行家，赢家，自然就可以给别人提供价值。你有价值了，别人就会给你资源，给你渠道，给你平台，给你钱，你就会斩获巨大的成功。

42. If you have nothing to offer and cannot provide any value to others, what should you do? In that case, your best choice is to temporarily step out of the web of interpersonal relationships, and wholeheartedly enhance your own value, such as diligently studying a professional skill, deeply specializing in a certain field, doing simple things with care, repeating tasks with dedication, and persistently engaging in what you repeat. By becoming an expert, a master, and a winner in that field, you will naturally be able to provide value to others. Once you have value, others will provide you with resources, channels, platforms, and money, and you will achieve great success.

43. 我喜欢回顾，是因为我不喜欢忘记。我总认为，在世间，有些人、有些事、有些时刻似乎都有一种特定的安排，在当时也许不觉得，但是在以后回想起来，却都有一种深意。我有过许多美丽的时刻，实在舍不得将它们忘记。

43. I like to look back because I don't like to forget. I always think that in this world, some people, some things, some moments seem to have a specific arrangement. At the time, you may not realize it, but when you look back later, there is always a deep meaning. I have had many beautiful moments, and I really can't bear to forget them.

44. 佛曰：因上努力，果上随缘。在我们可以把握的部分尽力而为，至于最终结果如何，就顺其自然而不是一味强求。倘能做到这一点，就不会构成什么压力了。任何一件事的成败都是相对的，是可以转化的。如果因为这种暂时得失造成压力，不仅于事无补，还会因此带来更多的负面作用。

44. Buddha said: "Strive hard on the cause, and let the result depend on circumstances. Do your best in what you can control, and let the ultimate outcome unfold naturally rather than constantly striving against it. If you can do this, there will be no pressure. The success or failure of any matter is relative and can be transformed. If pressure arises due to this temporary gain or loss, it is not helpful at all, and it may even bring more negative effects."

45. 你无法决定明天是晴是雨，爱你的人是否还能留在身边，你此刻的坚持能换来什么，但你能决定今天有没有准备好雨伞，有没有好好爱人以及是否足够努力。永远不要只看见前方路途遥远而忘了自己坚持多久才走到这里。今天尽力做的，虽然辛苦，但未来发生的，都是礼物。

45. You cannot decide whether tomorrow will be sunny or rainy, whether the person who loves you will still be by your side, what your current perseverance can bring, but you can decide whether you are prepared with an umbrella today, whether you have loved well, and whether you have worked hard enough. Never only see the distant road ahead and forget how long you have persevered to get here. What you do to your best today, although it is hard, will all be gifts in the future.

46. 总要表现得像一只鸭子那般水面上保持沉着冷静，水面下拼命划水。

46. Always behave like a duck, staying calm and composed on the surface while paddling frantically underwater.

47. 人生的悲哀莫过于：求而不得，舍而不能，得而不惜。

47. The sorrow of life is greatest when one seeks but cannot obtain, when one is willing to give up but cannot, and when one has obtained but does not cherish.

48. 我们永远无法预计未来，年轻的时候我们太坦诚，而长大之后我们又太不坦诚。

48. We can never predict the future; when we are young, we are too honest, and as we grow older, we become too dishonest.

49. 人生就是一列开往坟墓的列车，路途上会有很多站，很难有人可以至始至终陪着走完，当陪你的人要下车时，即使不舍，也该心存感激，然后挥手道别。——《千与千寻》

49. Life is a train heading towards the grave, with many stops along the way, and it's rare for anyone to accompany you from start to finish. When the person accompanying you decides to get off, even though it's hard to let go, you should be grateful in your heart and then wave goodbye. ——From "Spirited Away"

50. 菩提本无树，明镜亦非台。本来无一物，何处惹尘埃。

50. The Bodhi tree itself is not a tree, the bright mirror is not a dais. Originally there is nothing, where can dust alight?

51. 摘不到的星星，总是最闪亮的。溜掉的小鱼，总是最美丽的。错过的**，总是最好看的。失去的情人，总是最懂我的。我始终不明白，这究竟是什么道理。

51. Stars that cannot be picked are always the brightest. Little fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. Things that are missed are always the most attractive. Lost lovers are always the ones who understand me the most. I have always been puzzled by what this really means.

52. ​人都是很讲面子的，两个人的关系不好，只要还有一层脸皮不抓破，这还有一个和解的机会，一旦两个人彻底把脸皮抓破，这个就一点和解的机会都没有。

52. Everyone values their dignity. If two people have a bad relationship, as long as there's still a layer of face left unscathed, there's still a chance for reconciliation. Once both parties have completely torn down their facades, there is no chance for reconciliation at all.

53. 没有利益，人生就没有动力，没有利益交换，就没有人际关系，没有利益的算计和讨价还价，就没有人情世故。

53. Without interest, there is no motivation in life; without the exchange of interests, there are no interpersonal relationships; without the calculation and bargaining over interests, there is no understanding of human nature and social customs.

54. 心情不好时，要经常问自己，你有什么而不是没有什么。如果你还觉得不爽，你就抬眼望窗外，世界很大，风景很美。走出去晒晒，阳光是免费的，不要蜷缩在一小块阴影里。

54. When you are in a bad mood, ask yourself often, what do you have rather than what you don't have. If you still feel upset, look out the window. The world is vast and the scenery is beautiful. Go out and bask in the sun, which is free. Don't curl up in a small patch of shadow.

55. 王立群教授的一段话：“你要结交一个权贵，你必定要有付出，你仅仅请人家吃一顿饭，如何结交权贵。你既想结交一个权贵，你又不想把自己那一块好地送给权贵，这样一个矛盾的状况，又怎么能结交权贵。

55. Professor Wang Lichun's remark: "If you want to befriend a noble, you must be willing to make sacrifices. Simply inviting someone to a meal is not enough to befriend a noble. If you both want to befriend a noble and yet do not want to give up your own good land to the noble, such a contradictory situation, how can you befriend a noble?"

56. 我落日般的忧伤就像惆怅的飞鸟，惆怅的飞鸟飞成我落日般的忧伤。

56. My melancholic sorrow is like a melancholic bird, and the melancholic bird flies to become my sorrowful sunset.

57. 如果想要报复，请你自己，活得光彩动人。你那样美好，他不过是你的一小段人生的一小个注脚而已。

57. If you want to seek revenge, do it for yourself, living a splendid and charming life. You are so beautiful, he is just a small footnote in a tiny segment of your life.

58. 有时候你生气、愤怒、伤心，其实只是因为你所得到的结果和你以为的差得太远，总是和自己在较劲。

58. Sometimes when you feel angry, frustrated, or sad, it's actually because the results you get are too far from what you expected, and you are always arguing with yourself.

59. 世界上最远的距离，不是爱，不是恨，而是熟悉的人，渐渐变得陌生。

59. The greatest distance in the world is not love, nor hate, but the familiar people, who gradually become strangers.

60. 真正的爱情，应该是两个人，彼此理解，互相尊重，不缠绕，不牵绊，不占有，然后相伴，走过一段漫长的旅程。如果我遇见你，就会紧紧抓住你。

60. True love should be about two people understanding each other, respecting each other, not entwining, not hindering, not possessing, and then accompanying each other through a long journey. If I meet you, I will tightly hold on to you.

61. 世上有一些东西，是你自己支配不了的，比如运气和机会，舆论和毁誉，那就不去管他们，顺其自然吧。世上有一些东西，是你自己可以支配的，比如兴趣和志向，处世和做人，那就在这些方面好好地努力，至于努力的结果是什么，也顺气自然吧。

61. There are some things in the world that you cannot control on your own, such as luck and opportunity, public opinion and reputation. So, don't worry about them and just go with the flow. There are also some things that you can control, such as your interests and aspirations, how you interact with others and how you conduct yourself. So, work hard in these areas, and let the outcome be as it may, just go with the natural flow.

62. 最后把你逼疯了的，都是那些口口声声为了你好的人。

62. The ones that drive you crazy in the end are always those who keep saying they're doing it for your own good.

63. 同样是拥有秘制冻疮膏，宋国人只能世世代代用它来漂洗蚕丝，结果贫困交加；因为他们并不知道冻疮膏对吴王的价值，相当于抱着金饭碗讨饭吃。而鲁国商人如果仅仅是拿冻疮膏来满足市场的需要，他极有可能垄断市场，取得10倍的利润；可是这位有“眼光”的商人，他却懂得“看人、看事、看时”，他看到了宋人手里有一个不起眼的东西，而这不起眼的东西在吴王的眼中却是“无价之宝”，于是他“雪中送炭”献于吴王，解吴国于危难之时；此后，他的秘制冻疮膏因为被“国王专用”而身价百倍，最终这位鲁国商人在得到金钱和美誉后，又为我们留下了精彩的案例。

63. Just like the people of Song, who possessed a secret ointment for frostbite, they could only use it generation after generation to wash silk, resulting in extreme poverty; for they did not know the value of the ointment to King Wu, which was akin to living on a golden rice bowl and asking for alms. However, if a businessman from Lu had simply used the ointment to meet market demand, he would likely have monopolized the market and earned tenfold profits; yet this "visionary" businessman understood the importance of "judging people, situations, and times." He saw that the people of Song had an unremarkable item in their hands, but in the eyes of King Wu, this unremarkable item was a "priceless treasure." Thus, he "delivered coal in the snow" and presented it to King Wu, saving the kingdom from peril. Afterward, his secret ointment became a hundred times more valuable because it was used exclusively by the king. In the end, after gaining wealth and fame, this Lu businessman left us with a remarkable case.

64. 在这个世界上，没有人真正可以对另一个人的伤痛感同身受。你万箭穿心，你痛不欲生，也仅仅是你一个人的事，别人也许会同情，也许会嗟叹，但永远不会清楚你伤口究竟溃烂到何种境地。

64. In this world, no one can truly empathize with another person's pain. Your heart is pierced with arrows, and you are in excruciating pain, but this is only your own matter. Others may sympathize or sigh, but they will never truly understand the extent to which your wounds have become corrupted.

65. 世上不爱的理由有很多：忙、累、为你好、性格不合、距离远了、没有感觉了等等，而爱的表现只有一个：就想和你在一起。

65. There are many reasons for not loving someone: busy, tired, for your own good, incompatible personalities, distance, lack of feeling, and so on, but the expression of love is just one: just wanting to be with you.

66. 人生一世，草木一秋，皆是过程。美与可爱，有心皆懂。

66. A lifetime for a person, an autumn for the plants and trees, all are processes. Beauty and loveliness, those with hearts can understand.

67. 我不去想太多关于未来的事，因为未来是由现在所产生出来的。如果我们能够照顾现在，那么我们就是照顾了未来。未来不会无端地来，它将会从这个片刻产生出来，下一个片刻将会从这个片刻产生出来。如果这个片刻很美、很宁静、很喜乐，那么下一个片刻一定会更宁静、更喜乐。

67. I don't think too much about the future, because the future is produced from the present. If we can take care of the present, then we are taking care of the future. The future will not come out of nowhere; it will arise from this moment, and the next moment will arise from this moment. If this moment is beautiful, peaceful, and joyful, then the next moment will definitely be more peaceful and joyful.

68. 不管多么深刻的伤痛，只需7年都会痊愈。因为，有科学家说，7年的时间，可以把我们全身的细胞都更换一遍，一个旧细胞都没有。每一天的坚持都是一种进步。相信总有一天，所有的不爽都会干干净净。

68. No matter how deep the pain, it will heal in just 7 years. Because, scientists say, in 7 years' time, all the cells in our bodies can be replaced, and not a single old cell will remain. Every day of perseverance is a step forward. Believe that one day, all the discomforts will be completely gone.

69. 活着，要有你珍爱的工作、你珍爱的人，而他们也珍爱你，人生就值得。红尘滚滚中总有其他骚扰，那些杂音都不重要。

69. To live, you should have a cherished job and a cherished person who also cherishes you. That is enough to make life worthwhile. Amid the hustle and bustle of the world, there will always be other distractions, but all those noises are not important.

70. 美好的一天用早安说说吧！早上好说说, 传递正能量的快乐！晚安心语，抚慰心灵！鼓励自己吧！《早安心语：大舍大得，小舍小得，不舍不得》，愿您喜欢！

70. Start a beautiful day with a good morning message! Good morning sayings, spreading positive energy and joy! Evening words of comfort, soothing the soul! Encourage yourself! "Morning Words of Comfort: Great giving leads to great gain, little giving leads to little gain, and not giving leads to no gain," hope you like it!

71. 不得不承认我是个很天真的人，谈了恋爱就想过一辈子，交个朋友就想往来一生，尽管有时候故作姿态说着一切顺其自然，可心里不愿让任何美好的事情发生一丝的改变，对于一个在感情上没有远见的人来说，最大的期盼大概就是希望所有的感情都能真挚且长久了吧。

71. I have to admit that I am a very naive person. Once I fall in love, I want to live a lifetime together; once I make a friend, I want to be in touch for a lifetime. Although sometimes I pretend to say that everything should happen naturally, deep down, I don't want any beautiful things to change at all. For someone who lacks foresight in matters of the heart, the greatest hope may be that all emotions can be sincere and long-lasting.

72. 有付出才会有收获，有价值才会有交换，有交换才会有想要的东西。努力提升自己，让自己更值钱。

72. There must be effort to reap rewards, value to facilitate exchange, and exchange to obtain what one desires. Strive to improve yourself and become more valuable.

73. 热热烈烈的大多轰然倒下，平平淡淡却最终震撼人心，执手之时，冷暖两心知；执手之时，悲喜两忘。

73. The boisterous ones fell thunderously, but the plain and simple ones ultimately touched the heart. At the moment of holding hands, the warmth and coldness are known in the two hearts; at the moment of holding hands, joy and sorrow are forgotten.

74. 你从不孤单。因为，这个世上肯定有一个人，在努力地走到你的身边。

74. You are never alone. Because, there must be someone in this world who is striving to come to your side.

75. 挑战的不是刺激，是自己的勇敢;赢的不是成绩，是自己的心。

75. The challenge is not the thrill, but one's own courage; what you win is not the achievement, but your heart.

76. 十年前你是谁，一年前你是谁，甚至昨天你是谁都不重要，重要的是今天你是谁，以及明天你将成为谁。

76. It doesn't matter who you were ten years ago, or even a year ago, or even who you were yesterday. What matters is who you are today, and who you will become tomorrow.

77. 有时候最普通的事情也能做得不平凡，仅仅是因为跟对的人一起做。

77. Sometimes the most ordinary things can be made extraordinary, simply because they are done with the right people.

78. 只有无法活出自己生命形式的人，才会花许多时间关心他人的隐私比关心自己生活更多。那是多么悲惨的生命形式，一生没有真正活出自己，为父母活着，为爱人活着，到更老一点的时候，为工作、子女活着，在一切“道德”的借口里，唯独失去了真实为自己活着的诚实和勇气。

78. Only those who are unable to live out their own form of life would spend much time caring about others' privacy more than their own life. What a tragic form of life that is, never truly living out one's own life, living for one's parents, for one's loved ones, and as one gets older, for one's job, for one's children, and in all the excuses of "morality," one has lost the honesty and courage to truly live for oneself.

79. 一辈子有耐心去做一件事，这个世界诱惑太多，这也想做那也想做，多路出击，最后一事无成。能沉下心来耐住寂寞做好一件事，这么简单的道理，也是很多人不懂的。

79. To have patience and persist in doing one thing for a lifetime, in a world full of temptations where one is eager to do this and that, taking on multiple endeavors, one ends up achieving nothing. The simple truth of being able to focus and endure solitude to do one thing well is something that many people do not understand.

80. 不管你曾经被伤害得有多深，总会有一个人的出现，让你原谅之前生活对你所有的刁难。

80. No matter how deeply you have been hurt, there will always be someone who comes along and makes you forgive all the hardships life has imposed on you.

81. 什么是我爱你命中注定要遇见，要倾心，要疯狂，要不顾一切，要跟你在一起。那什么叫你爱我呢三生有幸。

81. What is it to love you, to meet you by fate, to be deeply in love, to be passionate, to be willing to do anything for you, and to be together with you? And what is it to be loved by you? It is three lifetimes of good fortune.

82. 这世界上有太多的能人，你以为的极限，弄不好只是别人的起点。所以只有不断的进取，才能不丢人人可以不上学，但一定要学习，真的。

82. There are too many talented people in this world. What you think is your limit might just be someone else's starting point. Therefore, only by continuously striving for progress can you avoid falling behind. Everyone can skip school, but one must definitely keep learning, really.

83. 不要把自己固定在一个状态中，要定期旅行，无论去哪儿，无论会遇见谁。

83. Do not get stuck in one state, travel regularly, wherever you go, whoever you meet.

84. 鲁国商人得到配方以后，他连夜赶赴吴国将花费100两黄金购得的“秘制冻疮膏的配方”免费献给了吴王，他对吴王说，“今后吴国将士在寒冬腊月打仗，再也不用为天冷冻手，抓不牢兵器而犯难了”。

84. After obtaining the recipe, the Lu State merchant hurried to the State of Wu that very night and offered the "secret formula for the frostbite ointment," which he had purchased for 100 taels of gold, to King Wu for free. He told the King, "From now on, the soldiers of the State of Wu will no longer struggle with frozen hands during the winter months, and will not have difficulty in gripping their weapons due to the cold."

85. 有时，你不得不相信，有些人注定只能停留在你的心中，却不能留在你的生活中。

85. Sometimes, you have to believe that some people are destined to remain in your heart but not in your life.

86. 令她反感的远不是世界的丑陋，而是这个世界所带的漂亮面具。

86. What repels her is not the ugliness of the world itself, but the beautiful masks that the world wears.