聚散随缘，成住离别，世间万物，皆有其时。在这纷扰的世界里，让我们以一颗宁静的心，探寻生活的真谛。

All things come and go according to their own cause and condition, and every creature in this world has its own time. In this chaotic world, let us explore the true essence of life with a tranquil heart.

1. 低下头摸摸自己的影子，也只有你对我不离不弃了。

1. Bow your head and touch your own shadow; it's only you who has not left me.

2. 感情没有所谓的般配不般配，只有适合不适合。不是每个人都能遇到自己想要的那个人，但是每个人都会遇到一个适合自己的人。遇到那个人之后，一切复杂的条件都不再适用，一切喧闹的表面归于沉静，变得简单，变得无法用条件来限定。你无需处心积虑无需机关算尽来抓紧他，他也不会离开你的身边。

2. Love does not have the concept of compatibility or incompatibility; it's only about suitability. Not everyone can meet the person they want, but everyone will meet someone who is suitable for them. After meeting that person, all the complex conditions no longer apply; all the noise on the surface becomes silent, becoming simple and beyond being limited by conditions. You don't need to make great efforts or use cunning tactics to hold on to them, and they will not leave your side.

3. 安静是一种低调的修养，平静是一种智慧的抵挡。不轻易为外界所撼动，不轻易为呼声而调向。我欲何求、我欲何往，了然于心，无需提醒。做个明白自己的人，只求心中的那一份平衡和平静。

3. Silence is a dignified cultivation, tranquility is a barrier of wisdom. Not easily swayed by external influences, not easily redirected by voices. What I seek, what I wish to go, is clear in my heart, without needing reminders. Be a person who understands themselves, seeking only that balance and tranquility within.

4. 当眼泪流下来，才知道，分开也是另一种明白。

4. It is only when tears flow that one realizes that separation is also a kind of understanding.

5. 虽说时间能抹平一切伤痕，但有时却是伤心的倒数。

5. Though time can smooth over all wounds, sometimes it counts down to heartache.

6. 如果你给我的爱，不能天长地久，当初又何必苦苦追求让我爱上你。你曾经告诉我：为了我，你可以放弃所有。你的父母，你的公司，若是阻拦了我们，你都甘愿放弃，决不皱眉。

6. If the love you give me cannot last forever, then why did you strive so hard at the beginning to make me fall in love with you? You once told me: for me, you could give up everything. Your parents, your company, if they stood in our way, you were willing to give them up without a wrinkle on your brow.

7. 成年人的离开，根本就不需要告别，我没有回你最后一条信息，你也很有默契地没有再发。就这样消失在彼此的生活里，好像从没认识过一样。

7. The departure of adults doesn't really require a farewell. I didn't reply to your last message, and you also understood and didn't send any more. We just disappeared from each other's lives as if we had never known each other.

8. 拥抱过后，一拍两散，彼此相忘，这是过路客的方式。

8. After embracing, to part ways and forget each other is the way of a passerby.

9. 你我终究都成陌上行者，相爱的结局，只落得一季花开、满地忧伤。或许，我是你前世遗落的一滴泪，你无法拾起，岁月也不曾风干;或许，一切的一切，都只是曾经的一段明媚时光，是宿命的使然，无法逃脱，也无法改变。

9. In the end, we both become strangers walking on different paths. The outcome of our love only leaves behind a season of blooming flowers and sorrow scattered on the ground. Perhaps, I am a tear you shed in a past life, one that you cannot pick up and that time has never dried; perhaps, everything, everything, is just a bright moment from the past, a result of fate, which cannot be escaped or changed.

10. 当我一步一步的走向未来的世界，我有了许多不曾预想过的人生体验。看城市的璀璨霓虹，像是时时刻刻的披上了盛装，宣示着它的骄傲和排外。听KTV里面的嚎叫，跑掉的节奏呐喊着情绪的出口。同事一波一波的来，又一个一个的说走就走。最初这样的相聚，我满心欢喜;这样的离别，让我心头不舍。但 天下 没有不散的筵席，缘分全不由自己。最后我也明白了聚散随缘，自然而然。

10. As I step by step walk towards the world of the future, I have experienced many life events that I never anticipated. Watching the brilliant neon lights of the city, it seems as if it is always dressed in grandeur, displaying its pride and exclusivity. Listening to the shouting in the KTV, the rhythm that has run away shouting out emotions. Colleagues come and go in waves, one by one leaving without a second thought. Initially, such gatherings filled me with joy; such farewells left me with a lingering sense of longing. But in the world, there is no banquet that never ends, and fate is not entirely in one's own hands. In the end, I also understood that gatherings and separations should be left to fate, and they occur naturally.

11. 有时喜欢下雨，淅淅沥沥的，像是一个人积蓄已久的情感，忽地飘飘洒洒的抒发了一回。不掩饰不躲闪的顾自慢悠悠的下着下着，直到气也消了，怨也解了，心也舒坦了，就适时收手止住了滴滴答答。还天空一个晴天，高兴了还露个七色彩虹呢!

11. Sometimes I like the rain, drizzling gently, as if it were a person's accumulated emotions, suddenly scattered and expressed in a leisurely manner. It doesn't hide or evade, just drizzles on and on, until the anger subsides, the grievances are resolved, and the heart feels comfortable, then it stops the dripping and drizzling in time. It returns a clear sky to the world, and when it's happy, it even shows a rainbow with seven colors!

12. 喜欢阳光是因为它很暖、暖到了心底、暖去了不知名的疼痛。

12. The reason for loving the sunshine is that it is so warm, warm to the very core, and it dispels an unknown pain.

13. 相爱时，男人把女人比作星辰、飞鸟、天使等等与天空有关的事物，恩断情绝时，男人把天空据为己有，把爱过的女人放回到地面上去。

13. When in love, a man compares a woman to stars, birds, angels, and other sky-related things. When the love ends, the man claims the sky for himself and places the woman he once loved back on the ground.

14. 一个人身边的位置只有那麽多，你能给的也只有那麽多，在这个狭小的圈子里，有些人要进来，就有一些人不得不离开

14. There is only so much space around a person, and only so much that you can give. In this narrow circle, as some people come in, others have to leave.

15. 时间可以带走你，而我却又停留在那个相遇的瞬间。

15. Time can take you away, but I remain frozen in that moment of our encounter.

16. 相遇，不会有刻意。相识，不该去矫情。相知，更忌讳相互的指点。不然，原本禅溅的机缘，便开始了无休无止地折腾。最后不过是彼此撩人的招惹而已。为谁的过客，为谁的梦魇，走着散了。只剩下，来不及用进的逞强和废退的曾经。

16. When we meet, there should be no deliberate intention. When we get to know each other, there shouldn't be any affected behavior. When we truly understand each other, we should avoid pointing fingers at each other. Otherwise, the originally serene opportunities of spiritual enlightenment will turn into endless turmoil. In the end, it's just a mutual temptation to allure each other. Who are we as passersby in each other's lives, and who are we as nightmares? We walk apart, leaving behind the pride that was too strong to express and the once vibrant past that has now faded.

17. 天空开始放晴，微风划过，如此轻柔，像每次你偷亲我的脸颊一样，我笑了，仅仅是因为想起了你。

17. The sky began to clear, and a gentle breeze swept by, so soft, just like the time you kissed my cheek in secret, I smiled, simply because I thought of you.

18. 、岁月以它轻盈的身姿行走于红尘。它用温婉的音容赋予我们满身的情感，营造了一幕一幕的心动。同时它又带着残酷的冷凉，掠夺了我们的青葱，分离了一道一道入骨入心的人情。人生如一叶轻舟，颠簸与风尘的潮涌，高低不平的行程，推动着摇摆不定的身影。

18. Time walks through the mortal world with its graceful figure. It endows us with a full body of emotions through its gentle voice and appearance, creating one scene after another of heart-warming moments. At the same time, it also brings about the cruel coldness, which robs us of our youthful vitality and separates one heartfelt human connection after another. Life is like a fragile boat, tossing and turning amidst the surges of wind and dust, with an uneven journey that propels a wavering figure.

19. 你根本不知道我是多害怕，多害怕，怕你会被别人喜欢，更怕你喜欢上别人。

19. You have no idea how scared I am, how scared, scared that you might like someone else, or even scarier, that you might fall for someone else.

20. 大 自然 里很多的风景都懂得悦己而乐，不会压抑着性子，伪装着样子。下面就是我给大家带来的关于生活 随笔 散文之时光魅影，希望大家喜欢!

20. Many landscapes in nature know how to delight themselves and be happy, without suppressing their temperament or putting on a facade. Below is the essay prose "Time's Charm" that I bring to you all, hoping you will like it!

21. 说一个谎言，圆一个谎言，我们爱得多么危险。

21. Telling a lie, covering up a lie, how dangerous is our love.

22. 一个是华丽短暂的梦，一个是残酷漫长的现实。

22. One is a splendid but fleeting dream, the other is a cruel and long-lasting reality.

23. 微笑在脸上泛滥，是不是意味着就不会在悲伤？

23. The smile is泛滥 on the face, does it mean there will be no sadness?

24. 、愿岁月静好，现世安稳。守着一座老旧的亭院，守着一池素色的荷莲，与风邀约，于雨共眠，与花同舞，与雪说禅。与你青梅煮酒，赌书泼墨，红袖填香，低眉共度烟火人间。任凭季节如何变幻，年华渐次走远，相信，那些风雨相伴的时光，那些嘘寒问暖的陪伴，那些相知相惜的温暖，都将是时光深处最美的画卷。

24. May the years be peaceful and the present world stable. Guarding an old pavilion and a pond of plain-colored lotus flowers, I make appointments with the wind, sleep in the rain, dance with the flowers, and discuss Zen with the snow. With you, I brew wine from green plums, bet on books and ink, fill the scent with red sleeves, and spend time together amidst the hustle and bustle of the world. No matter how the seasons change and the years pass by, I believe that those times accompanied by storms, those warm greetings, and those comforting companionships of knowing and cherishing each other will all be the most beautiful paintings in the depths of time.

25. 曾经，谁以为等得了谁，却不知道等不起岁月。

25. Once, who thought they could wait for someone, but didn't realize that time waits for no one.

26. 我们离回忆太近，离自由太远。有时候念念不忘，只是爱上回忆。一次犹豫，一次背叛，一次意外，足以让它枯萎。挣脱一切，烟消云散。

26. We are too close to memories and too far from freedom. Sometimes, being obsessed with the past is just loving the memories. One hesitation, one betrayal, one accident, is enough to wither it. Break free from everything, and it will vanish into thin air.

27. 一盏残灯下，青黛银鬓，衣带渐宽，憔悴独影，兰樽举，邀月引。袖挥间，琴弦哀声现，不觉疲倦，含情脉脉处，月上柳梢头，转身不见去年人，泪湿青衫袖，几回首，千般方寸，万般无奈，但饮恨，相思意来同谁诉只看到寒烟碧水外，隐隐两三烟树。

27. Under the dim light of a flickering lamp, with silver hair dyed with indigo, the belt of her robe grows loose, her figure emaciated, alone in her solitude. She raises a vase of orchid wine, inviting the moon to join. As she waves her sleeves, the sorrowful sound of the piano strings appears. Unaware of her fatigue, with a tender, loving gaze, the moon rises above the willow branches. She turns her back, and the person from last year is gone, tears wetting the sleeves of her green robe. She looks back several times, a myriad of thoughts, a thousand kinds of helplessness, but only drinking her sorrow. Whom to pour out her longing to, as she only sees the distant misty waters and faintly visible trees among the smoke.

28. 在原谅与绝望之间游荡，唯一的感觉是伤！伤！伤！

28. Wandering between forgiveness and despair, the only feeling is pain! Pain! Pain!

29. 两个人在一起，开始总是惊心动魄，患得患失，随着深入了解，神秘感褪去，慢慢会失去新鲜感，激情归于平淡。这时，沟通最重要，也许不再为对方牵肠挂肚，可是有一种默契是在充分交流和信任后产生，和一个磨合很好的伴侣在一起，放松而踏实，是爱情的美好体现。时间虽然消磨激情，同时，时间会积累深情。

29. When two people are together, it always starts with thrilling excitement and a fear of losing each other. As they get to know each other better, the mystery fades away, and the novelty slowly diminishes, and passion returns to a state of calm. At this point, communication becomes most important. Perhaps there is no longer the intense concern for each other, but there is a kind of默契 that arises from ample communication and trust. Being with a partner who has been well-matched is relaxing and reassuring, which is a beautiful manifestation of love. While time may wear down passion, it also accumulates deep affection.

30. 关于生活随笔散文之学会平静如水，我心亦然(

30. On the essay of life sketches: to learn to be calm as water, my heart is the same.

31. 时光雕凿下的我们，散发着不同以往的气息。也许是一抹成熟、也许是一抹清淡，又或者是一抹自信，都是时光精心的挑选，衬托出你我的一种本质。

31. Carved by the passage of time, we emit an aroma unlike any before. It might be a touch of maturity, a hint of lightness, or perhaps a dash of confidence—all carefully chosen by time to highlight the essence of us both.

32. 我们不能强求每一个相遇都能够长久，他们可能会中途下车，相伴一程已是万分感激，因为在成长的过程中，每个人都有自己的生活和选择。没有谁对谁错，某些人的离去是因为到了他离开的时候，尽力过后就选择随缘吧，让花成花，树成树，只要在共同前行的路上是快乐的，相互陪伴过，那就足够了。不纠结任何人的离开，要始终坚信，有些事注定无能为力，失去是为了遇到更好的！

32. We cannot demand that every encounter must last forever; they might get off the bus halfway, and we should be deeply grateful for accompanying them on their journey. Because in the process of growth, everyone has their own life and choices. There is no right or wrong between any two individuals; some people leave because it is time for them to go. After trying our best, we should choose to follow the natural course, allowing flowers to become flowers and trees to become trees. As long as we are happy on the road of joint progress and have been by each other's sides, that is enough. Don't dwell on anyone's departure; always believe that some things are predestined to be beyond our control, and loss is for the sake of encountering something better!

33. 现在很想很想狠狠哭，但俄不能违背自己曾经的誓言。

33. I really, really want to cry hard now, but I cannot betray the誓言 I once made.

34. 全世界的人都离开你了我也会在你身边，有地狱我们一起猖獗。

34. Even if everyone in the world leaves you, I will be by your side. With hell, we'll reign together.

35. 无论当时是多么不舍，在不知不觉间，我们都成了过去式，也让我们明白了，很多关系，很多人我们注定是留不住的！无论当时是多么的刻骨铭心，时间都会替你轻描淡写！

35. No matter how reluctant we were at the time, we all became the past without realizing it, which also made us understand that many relationships and many people are destined to be beyond our grasp! No matter how deeply we were affected at the time, time will always write it off with a casual stroke!

36. 在我以为自己就要死的时候，心里想的还是你。

36. When I thought I was about to die, what I thought of was still you.

37. 要知道，失去是相互的，他都不在意你，不怕失去你，那你又怕什么呢。这种事是强求不来的，健康的关系必须是双向奔赴，失去了就不必耿耿于怀，允许结束，是为了迎接新生，你，值得每一个崭新的开始。

37. You should know that loss is mutual. If he doesn't care about you and is not afraid of losing you, then what are you afraid of? Such things cannot be forced. A healthy relationship must be a two-way pursuit. Don't dwell on the loss, allow it to end, in order to welcome new beginnings. You deserve every fresh start.

38. 、有些时候，人与人之间有很多种感情维系，哪一种感情都有可能维系一生！最主要的是人要对这种感情的浓厚程度，重视程度！世界上最重要的不一定是爱情！亲情，恩情，都可以维系一生！一个男人和一个女人的爱情，不会维系很久，如果他们结婚了，爱情一般不会存活很久，在时光的打磨中，在柴米油盐酱醋荼的打磨中，都会失去它原本的光彩！从而变得面目全非！使爱情走向灭亡！

38. Sometimes, there are many kinds of emotions that bind people together, and any of them can last a lifetime! The most important thing is the depth and the importance people attach to this kind of emotion! The most important thing in the world may not necessarily be love! Love, family ties, and gratitude can all last a lifetime! The love between a man and a woman does not last long; if they get married, the love usually does not survive long. Over time, in the wear and tear of daily life, in the grinding of cooking oil, rice, salt, soy sauce, vinegar, and tea, it will lose its original luster! Thus, it changes beyond recognition and leads love to its demise!

39. 我放下了尊严，放下了个性，放下了固执，都只是因为放不下你。

39. I let go of my dignity, my personality, and my stubbornness, all just because I couldn't let go of you.

40. 如果有一天我们不在一起了，也要像在一起一样。

40. Even if one day we are not together, we should still be as we are when we are together.

41. 爱情这件事情，最充满玄机，什么时候遇到什么样的人，那几乎是命中注定。爱情不是找到的，一定是遇到的。历经千回百转的大概不是爱情，爱情一定是，等了又等，然后，她出现了，你认定了，这就是爱了。

41. Love is the most enigmatic thing; when and with whom one encounters, it seems almost predetermined by fate. Love is not something that is found, but something that is encountered. The twists and turns of life are perhaps not love, but love is definitely waiting for someone, and then, she appears, and you recognize it, and that is love.

42. 淋过雨的空气，疲倦了的伤心，我记忆里的童话已经慢慢的融化

42. The air drenched in rain, the weary heartache, the fairy tales in my memory have slowly melted away.

43. 该给的我都给了，我都舍得，除了让你知道我心如刀割。

43. I've given everything I could, and I'm willing to let go, except for making you realize that my heart is being torn apart.

44. 因为以前太掏心掏肺了，所以搞的现在没心没肺。

44. Because I was too heart-on-my-sleeve in the past, now I've become heartless.

45. 时尚的本质就是绑架女人的脑袋，然后索求男人的腰包。

45. The essence of fashion is to ensnare women's minds and then seek men's wallets.

46. 有时候你讨厌一个人想和那个人保持距离，其实是害怕近墨者黑；同样当你喜欢一个人却和那个人保持距离，是害怕注定了的结局和丢掉了自己

46. Sometimes you dislike someone and want to keep your distance from them, but it's actually because you fear becoming contaminated by association; similarly, when you like someone but keep your distance, it's because you fear the predetermined outcome and losing yourself.

47. 走得最急的，都是最美的风景；伤得最深的，也总是那些最真的感情。

47. The most beautiful scenery is always found in places you reach in a hurry; and the deepest wounds are usually caused by the most sincere feelings.

48. 你是钢琴的第八十九键， 是我永久触摸不到的距离。

48. You are the eighty-ninth key of the piano, the distance I can never permanently touch.

49. 知道什么是爱么？不是放你走，而是紧紧拽住你说：不能走！

49. Do you know what love is? It's not about letting you go, but holding you tightly and saying, "You can't leave!"

50. 面对现实，少一点逃避，多一点正视;少一点抱怨，多一点积极;少一点焦虑，多一点从容。如此才不会惊慌失措、不会惴惴不安。用有力的行动来消融各种鸭梨山大;用压缩的条件来容纳下各种的水土不服。谁说非得万事具备，才可引东风

50. Face reality with less evasion and more confrontation; less complaining and more positivity; less anxiety and more composure. This way, one will not be flustered or nervous. Use forceful actions to dissolve various burdens; accommodate various discomforts under compressed conditions. Who says that everything must be in place before the auspicious wind can blow?

51. 痛过之后就不会觉得痛了，有的只会是一颗冷漠的心。

51. After the pain, one will no longer feel it; what remains is only a cold heart.

52. 那些原本想要费尽心机忘掉的事情，原来真的就那么忘了。

52. Those things that were originally trying so hard to forget, it turns out they were actually forgotten that easily.

53. 欢喜里带一点善意的感激;悲伤里带一点激励的自勉，就会悲喜有度，中和为粗茶淡饭似的无伤肌体了。

53. Joy mixed with a touch of gratefulness, and sorrow with a bit of motivational self-encouragement, will lead to a balanced experience of both joy and sorrow, like simple, unseasoned porridge that does no harm to the body.

54. 、一份贪念，万般烦恼的沦陷，难以净化内心的空灵。万物皆是无求自分明，来去无定期，又何分你我。菩提本无树，心净神自明，聚散随缘，得失由命。一次拂杂，一次重生，一朵小花开在尘埃，皆是生命。

54. A greedy desire leads to endless worries and a difficult-to-purify inner tranquility. All things are clear without seeking, coming and going without a fixed schedule, so why differentiate between 'you' and 'me'. Enlightenment has no tree, a pure heart brings clarity, gathering and dispersing with the flow of fate, gains and losses are left to destiny. One sweep of chaos, one rebirth, a small flower blooms in the dust, all are life.

55. 凡世的喧嚣和明亮，世俗的快乐和幸福，似乎清亮的溪涧，在风里，在我眼前，汨汨而过，暖和似乎泉水一样涌出来，我没有奢望，我只需你快乐，不要哀伤。

55. The hustle and brightness of the world, the secular joy and happiness, seem like a clear streamlet, flowing past in the wind before my eyes, gurgling like warm springs emerging, with no great ambitions on my part. I only wish for your happiness, not sadness.

56. 爱情没有因果，爱情没有规则，爱情不分对错，真爱最残忍却不褪色。

56. Love has no cause and effect, love has no rules, love has no right or wrong, true love is the most cruel yet never fades.

57. 受了伤，你不在身边，只能自己装坚强，强颜欢笑。

57. Injured, you're not by my side, so I have to put on a strong face and force a smile.

58. 喜欢一个人没有错，错就错在喜欢一个不喜欢自己的人。

58. There is nothing wrong with liking someone, the mistake lies in liking someone who doesn't like you in return.

59. 很多事情过去了，心境却不被遗忘，我们总在不经意中才发现，岁月已经用它永不停止的脚步把我们抛在后面，无论我们怎么努力，能够抓在手里的东西寥寥无几，除了那些点点滴滴斑斑驳驳的过往和回忆，只剩对现实的无奈和对未来的迷茫。

59. Many things have passed, but the state of mind is not forgotten. We often realize in an unexpected way that time has left us behind with its ceaseless脚步, no matter how hard we try, we can barely hold on to a few things. All that remains are the countless bits and pieces, the patches of the past and memories, along with a sense of helplessness towards reality and confusion about the future.

60. 爱情就是爱情，有的爱情自带房子，有的爱情自带车子，有的爱情一开始什么都不带，但只要和你在一起，将来都会有。

60. Love is just love. Some love comes with a house, some comes with a car, and some starts with nothing at all. But as long as we are together, everything will be there in the future.

61. 爱情是造物外旳法度 无法选择 不能掌控

61. Love is a law beyond creation, unselectable and uncontrolable.