静默的晨光，轻抚着窗棂。自在随心，悠然自得，生活如诗，岁月如歌。

The quiet morning light gently caresses the windowsill. Free and carefree, living in leisure, life is like a poem, and time like a song.

1. 力微休负重，言轻莫劝人。

1. If your strength is weak, don't bear heavy burdens. If your words are light, don't try to persuade others.

2. 普通人一定要把握好为人处事的分寸，不要忘记了自己的身份和定位，从而自讨苦吃，自招其祸，自取其辱，自找没趣。

2. Ordinary people must grasp the appropriate measure in dealing with others and affairs, not forgetting their own identity and position, thus causing their own troubles, inviting their own misfortunes, bringing their own disgrace, and seeking their own boredom.

3. 你没有过硬的实力和价值，谁也不会把你当一盘菜，谁都可以欺负你。我们要结合自己的现实处境，找到适合的活法。

3. Without solid strength and value, no one will treat you as a delicacy, and everyone can bully you. We need to combine our own realistic situation and find a suitable way of living.

4. 而最好的活法莫过于，别说话，别社交，别在乎。

4. The best way to live is not to speak, not to socialize, and not to care.

5. 刘震云：“在自己弱小，没有话语权的时候，少表达自己的看法。形象一定要走在能力前面，不然你的能力很容易被低估。先敬罗衣，后敬人,先敬皮囊，后敬魂。

5. Liu Zhenyun: "When you are weak and have no voice, it's better to express your opinions less. Your image should always precede your abilities, otherwise, your abilities are easily undervalued. First, respect the clothes, then respect the person; first, respect the outer shell, then respect the soul."

6. ​无钱无权，难以发出自己的声音。有权势的人说什么都是真理，贫贱之人说的话有道理也是放屁。人微言轻莫劝人,谨言慎行自省身。你觉得他是朋友，他觉你是傻子。”

6. Without money and power, it's hard to make one's voice heard. Those with power always speak the truth, while the poor and humble, even if they speak sense, are just blowing wind. When one's words carry little weight, it's best not to persuade others; instead, be cautious in speech and actions, and reflect on oneself. You may think he's a friend, but he thinks you're a fool."

7. 在人际关系之中，你说什么话并不重要，你是谁才最重要。你如果不是那一个最重要的人，就管住自己的嘴，如果你侃侃而谈，不管多么博学，多么亲切， 都是喧宾夺主，会引起别人的反感，甚至愤怒。弱小的人说出金玉良言，别人都会觉得放屁，重要的人放个屁，别人都觉得特别重要。

7. In interpersonal relationships, what you say is not as important as who you are. If you are not the most important person, keep your mouth shut. No matter how eloquent or friendly you may be, talking excessively is taking away the spotlight and may provoke others' resentment or even anger. If a weak person utters wise words, others might dismiss it as nonsense, but if an important person passes gas, everyone would think it's of great significance.

8. 收起自己的炫耀感和表现欲，普通人就默默无闻的呆在一个角落，吃自己的饭，夹自己的菜，喝自己的酒，没有必要表现自己，没有必要引起别人的关注和尊敬，别人只会尊敬实力和价值，绝对不会尊敬一个没有实力和价值的人。

8. Hide your own showiness and desire for display. Ordinary people silently stay in a corner, eat their own food, choose their own dishes, drink their own wine. There is no need to show off, no need to attract others' attention and respect. People will only respect strength and value, and will never respect someone who lacks both.

9. 美国作家梭罗说：我宁可一个人坐在一只南瓜上，也不想和一群人挤在天鹅绒的坐垫上。

9. The American writer Thoreau said: "I would rather sit alone on a pumpkin than crowd with a group on天鹅绒 cushions."

10. 梭罗曾经继承了父亲的遗产，是美国一个小有名气的铅笔商人，出入于光鲜亮丽的名利场，沉迷于觥筹交错的社交舞会。后来，梭罗厌倦了，大家都说着虚伪的话，算计着对方的财产和价值，觊觎着别人的渠道和资源，没有真情实感，没有坦率真诚，全部都是心浮气躁和唯利是图。

10. Thoreau once inherited his father's legacy, was a slightly famous pencil merchant in America, frequented the glitzy circles of fame and fortune, and was沉迷于the glittering social balls and parties where people raised their glasses. Later, he grew weary of it all, with everyone spouting insincere words, calculating each other's wealth and value, coveting others' channels and resources, devoid of true emotions, sincerity, and openness. It was all浮躁 and motivated by gain.

11. 梭罗离开了闹市区，一个人搬到偏僻荒凉的瓦尔登湖畔隐居，垦荒种地，自给自足，空闲时间就读书写作，或者沿着波光潋滟的瓦尔登湖散步，让自己与美丽的大自然融为一体。

11. Thoreau left the bustling city and moved to the remote and desolate Walden Pond, where he lived in solitude. He cleared land and cultivated it, becoming self-sufficient. In his free time, he would read and write, or take walks along the shimmering Walden Pond, merging himself with the beautiful nature around him.

12. 美学家蒋勋说：独处是一种难得的自由，会独处的人才是世界上最幸福的人。

12. The aesthete Jiang Xun said: Solitude is a rare kind of freedom, and those who can be alone are the happiest people in the world.

13. 不必在人群之中消耗自己，在自己的世界里独善其身，在别人的世界里顺其自然。

13. Do not exhaust yourself among the crowd. Take care of yourself in your own world and go with the flow in others' worlds.

14. 因为我们太普通，没有什么实力跟这个世界抗衡，所以会遇到各种各样不如意的事情，碰到形形色色的小人烂人垃圾人。

14. Because we are too ordinary and have no real power to resist this world, we will encounter all sorts of unfortunate events and come across various kinds of scoundrels, trash, and despicable individuals.

15. 一定要修炼一个强大的内心世界，不在乎任何人对你的任何态度，因为你弱小的时候，绝大多数人对你的态度都是不友好的，这样你才可以屏蔽掉一些痛苦，自得其乐，快乐余生。

15. It is essential to cultivate a strong inner world, not caring about anyone's attitude towards you, because when you are weak, the majority of people's attitudes towards you are unfriendly. This way, you can shield yourself from some pain, find joy in your own way, and live a happy life for the rest of your days.

16. 别人笑我太疯癫，我笑他人看不穿。不见五陵豪杰墓，无花无酒锄作田。

16. People laugh at me for being too crazy, but I laugh at them for not seeing through. I don't see the graves of the heroic men of the five forts, for all there is is plowing fields with no flowers or wine.

17. 生活只属于我们每个人内心的感受，不输于其他任何人的看法。不管碰到什么人，发生什么事，遭遇什么处境，都要心如铁石，岿然不动，屹立不倒。

17. Life belongs solely to the inner feelings of each of us, not inferior to any other person's opinions. No matter who you meet, what happens, or what kind of situation you encounter, you must maintain a heart as firm as iron and stone, steadfast and unyielding, standing firm.

18. 你的心最好不是招摇的枝柯，而是静默的根系，深藏在地下，不为尘世的一切所蛊惑，只追求自身的简单和丰富。

18. May your heart not be a showy branch, but a silent root, deeply buried underground, not enticed by all the trappings of the world, and seeking only its own simplicity and richness.

19. 这个世界上有多少话永远无法被说出，有多少人永远无法拥有自己最想要的东西，或许正因为如此，人生才变得奇妙而让人充满期待，也变得无法改变而追悔莫及，或许我们永远都不会知道，这一天的日落掩盖了多少人的眼泪心酸寂寞与不甘心，下一个日出又包含了多少人的希望信心勇气与重新开始，过好每一天。

19. How many words in this world can never be spoken, and how many people can never possess what they most desire? Perhaps it is because of this that life becomes wonderful and filled with anticipation, yet also unchangeable and regrettable. Maybe we will never know how many tears, sorrows, loneliness, and discontentment this day's sunset has concealed, or how many hopes, confidence, courage, and the will to restart the next sunrise brings, encouraging us to live each day to the fullest.

20. 任何选择，都意味着放弃另一些东西。无论你怎么选，都难免会有遗憾。没有什么办法能够让你能完全弥补遗憾，做到十全十美。所以，与其把时间花费在遗憾和淡淡的忧伤上，不如全心全力走好已经选择的路，不去羡慕其他路上的风景和繁华。

20. Any choice entails giving up something else. No matter what you choose, there will inevitably be regrets. There is no way to completely make up for regrets and achieve perfection. Therefore, it is better to invest your time in walking the chosen path wholeheartedly than to waste it on regrets and a faint sense of sorrow. Do not envy the scenery and prosperity on other roads.

21. 不必羡慕那些过得比你精彩自由的人，他们并不比你优秀，只是他们在自己的人生里，有自己的想法与追求，并且有勇气去坚持。

21. Do not envy those who live more freely and vividly than you. They are not superior to you; they just have their own ideas and pursuits in their own lives and the courage to persist in them.

22. 人生很简单，做了决定就不要后悔。时光易逝，青春有痕，在怀念往事美好的日子里，暮然发现身边的一切正渐行渐远。

22. Life is simple, once you have made a decision, do not regret it. Time flies, and youth leaves its marks. On the days when you are reminiscing about the beauty of the past, you suddenly realize that everything around you is moving further and further away.

23. 静能生慧，智者无忧，计较是疼，比较是痛，淡然是福。尽人事而顺天意，随遇而安即得幸福。心术不正损人害己，意志不坚诸事难成。胸有平常心，幸福自然来。

23. Tranquility generates wisdom, the wise have no worries. Counting is pain, comparison is suffering, indifference is happiness. Doing one's best and顺应 the will of heaven, being content with what comes one's way leads to happiness. Unwholesome intentions harm others and oneself. Lack of determination makes it difficult to accomplish anything. Having a calm mind naturally brings happiness.

24. 不管，你有多么真诚，遇到怀疑你的人，你就是谎言。不管，你有多么单纯，遇到复杂的人，你就是有心计。不管，你有多么的天真，遇到现实的人，你就是笑话。不管，你多么专业，遇到不懂的人，你就是空白。所以，不要太在乎别人对你的评价，你需要的只是，做最好的自己。我就是我！独一无二！

24. No matter how sincere you are, if you meet someone who doubts you, you are a liar. No matter how innocent you are, if you encounter complex people, you are cunning. No matter how naive you are, if you meet realistic people, you are a joke. No matter how professional you are, if you meet those who don't understand, you are a blank. So, don't pay too much attention to others' opinions of you; what you need is just to be the best version of yourself. I am me! Unique!

25. 熬过了必须的苦，才能过上喜欢的生活。在一切变好之前，我们总要经历一些不开心的日子，这段日子也许很长，也许只是一觉醒来，所以耐心点，给好运一点时间。

25. One must endure the necessary hardships in order to live the life one likes. Before everything gets better, we all have to go through some unhappy days, which might be long or might just be after a single night's sleep, so be patient, and give good luck some time.

26. 做一个识趣的人真的太重要了，这样既不会为难别人，也不会让自己难堪，简直就是皆大欢喜。

26. It's really important to be considerate; this way, you won't cause trouble for others or make yourself look bad, which is simply everyone's delight.

27. 人生，只有今世，没有来世，不能活在童话里。我们不是神仙妖怪不能死而复生，我们不是九头鸟可以九死九生，我们也不是梁山伯祝英台，不可能死后变成翩翩蝴蝶。

27. Life is only this world, there is no afterlife, and one cannot live in a fairy tale. We are not immortals or spirits who can be reborn after death; we are not phoenixes that can rise from the ashes nine times; nor are we Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai, who cannot transform into graceful butterflies after death.

28. 淡定看人生，宁静做自我。人生充满变数，定力如何，直接影响到人生的走向。所谓定力，就是对自己的控制力。定力好的人，谨言慎行，不随波逐流，不放纵欲望，有所为，有所不为。因而常不被情绪左右，淡看名利得失，宁静做自我，从容过生活。淡了，静了，你的人生才会听你的安排。

28. Keep a calm perspective on life and maintain tranquility in being yourself. Life is full of changes, and one's ability to maintain composure directly affects the direction of life. So-called composure refers to one's control over oneself. People with strong composure speak and act cautiously, do not follow the crowd, do not indulge in desires, and have a sense of what to do and what not to do. Therefore, they are often not influenced by emotions, calmly view gains and losses in名利, maintain tranquility in being themselves, and live life with ease. Only when you become more composed and tranquil will your life listen to your arrangement.

29. 静以修身，俭以养德，非淡泊无以明志，非宁静无以致远。

29. Compose oneself through tranquility, cultivate virtue through frugality; without a serene mind, one cannot clarify one's aspirations; without tranquility, one cannot achieve great things.

30. 一切问题，都是时间问题，一切烦恼，都是自寻烦恼。心中无尘，心自安。烦恼由心生。同一桩事，想得少则无忧，想得多是自寻烦恼；同一个问题，看到光明的一面则喜，看到灰暗的一面则忧。人生的苦乐，不在于碰到多少事情，而在于心里装着多少事情。

30. All problems are issues of time, and all troubles are self-inflicted. A heart free of dust finds peace within itself. Troubles arise from within the heart. For the same matter, less thought brings no worry, while more thought leads to self-inflicted troubles; with the same problem, seeing the bright side brings joy, while seeing the dark side brings sorrow. The joys and sorrows of life do not lie in the number of things encountered, but in the number of things that occupy the heart.

31. 人，隔着肚皮，谁也看不清谁，非得经历过，相处过才会明白，谁值得珍惜，谁必须放弃，和太精明的人相处，迟早会散，和太算计的人为友，早晚会断。人生哲理，做人，别伪装，伪装太累！高兴了，可不顾形象；难过了，可红透眼眶。有话了，可直抒心肠；郁闷了，可尽情释放！做人简简单单，才是真模样；活着痛痛快快，才算够敞亮！

31. People, separated by the belly, no one can truly see another. It's only after experiencing and getting to know each other that one can understand who is worth cherishing and who must be let go. Dealing with overly cunning people will eventually lead to parting, and being friends with overly calculating individuals will sooner or later end. Life philosophy: be yourself, don't pretend; pretending is too tiring! When happy, you can disregard your image; when sad, your eyes can turn red with tears. When you have something to say, you can openly express your feelings; when you are frustrated, you can vent freely! Living a simple life is the true essence; living joyfully is to be truly open and bright!

32. 闭上眼睛，安静内心告诉自己。别人想什么，我们控制不了；别人做什么，我们也强求不了。唯一可以做的，就是尽心尽力做好自己的事，走自己的路，按自己的原则，好好生活。即使有人亏待了你，时间也不会亏待你，人生更加不会亏待你。

32. Close your eyes, calm your mind, and tell yourself. We can't control what others think; we can't force others to do what we want. The only thing we can do is to do our best in our own work, walk our own path, live by our own principles, and live well. Even if someone treats you unfairly, time will not treat you unfairly, and life will not treat you unfairly either.

33. 选择任何一种生活方式，都有得有失。所以，不用羡慕什么，也不用抱怨什么。你所能做的，只是保持身体和内心的平衡。

33. There are gains and losses in choosing any lifestyle. So, there's no need to envy or complain about anything. All you can do is maintain a balance between your body and mind.

34. 把别人看得太重、结果却被别人看成什么都不是。一生中，总有那么一段时间，需要你自己走，自己扛。不要感觉害怕，不要感觉孤单，这只不过是成长的代价。如果放在心里会觉得难过，那么就请微笑着放手吧。

34. Place too much importance on others and end up being considered as nothing. Throughout life, there will always be a period when you need to walk and bear the burden on your own. Don't feel afraid, don't feel lonely; this is just the cost of growing up. If it upsets you to keep it in your heart, then please let go with a smile.

35. 人往往经历过不幸福，才知道什么是幸福。就好比遇见过错的人，才知道谁是对的人。

35. People often experience unhappiness before they know what happiness is. Just like encountering the wrong person, one knows who the right person is.

36. 做你自己，不要为了任何人改变自己，如果他不能接受最坏的你，那么他也不值得最好的你。

36. Be yourself, don't change for anyone, if he can't accept the worst version of you, then he doesn't deserve the best version of you.

37. 你所浪费的今天，是昨天死去的人奢望的明天；你所厌恶的现在，是未来的你回不去的曾经。珍惜现在，用心过好每一天。

37. The today you waste is the tomorrow that the dead yearned for yesterday; the now you disdain is the past that the future you cannot return to. Cherish the present and live each day with all your heart.

38. 想哭的时候就尽情哭一场，想笑的时候便放声大笑一番，把日子过得坦然一点，这就是幸福。

38. When you feel like crying, have a good cry; when you feel like laughing, laugh out loud. Live your days with an ease in your heart, and that is happiness.

39. 有些事情，要等到你渐渐清醒了，才明白它是个错误；有些东西，要等到你真正放下了，才知道它的沉重。

39. There are some things that you only realize as a mistake when you gradually come to your senses; there are some things that you only know their weight when you truly let them go.

40. 事情过去了，就不要太烦恼、太生气。生活原本就是变化无常，喜忧参半，甚至带点混乱的。很多事情都不可强求，自己尽了心就好。做事之前善加考虑，从善意出发，即使结果仍不尽人意，这份善心依然会积累福报。想得太多所以不开心，心思单纯，生活简单就很好。

40. Let bygones be bygones, and don't be too troubled or angry. Life is inherently unpredictable and a mix of joy and sorrow, even a bit chaotic. Many things cannot be forced, and as long as you have done your best, that is enough. Think carefully before acting, starting with good intentions. Even if the result is not as desired, this good will still accumulate blessings. Too much thinking can make you unhappy; it's better to have a simple mind and a simple life.

41. 如果情总是暖的，谁都不会心伤；如果爱总是真的；谁都不会心凉。原来等待的以后，是苦苦地张望；原来思念的背后，是寂寞的嚣张；原来插曲的最后，是一个人的荒凉。别把欲望与理想混为一谈，欲望的尽头是物质的拥有，理想的终极是精神的充盈。占据的东西，就算再多，皆会离你而去，攥得再紧，到最后你都是两手空空。

41. If the feelings are always warm, no one will be heartbroken; if love is always true, no one will feel cool. It turns out that the future of waiting is a bitter longing; it turns out that behind the yearning is the boisterous loneliness; and it turns out that the end of an interlude is a solitary desolation. Don't confuse desires with ideals; the end of desire is the possession of material things, and the ultimate of ideals is the fulfillment of the spirit. No matter how much you possess, everything will leave you, and no matter how tightly you hold on, in the end, you will end up with nothing in your hands.

42. 得不到的事物别惦记，负能量的事物要远离，人生本就不差风雨，就别再为己徒增伤悲。

42. Don't dwell on things you can't have, and keep away from negative things. Life itself isn't lacking in storms and challenges, so don't add more sorrow to yourself.

43. 安心，才能开心。心若水，握不住。禁锢，只会加深其向往自由的渴望；放纵，只会增加痛苦的长度。要想活得开心，先要让自己安心。真正的安心，不是达成自己的愿望，因为欲海无边，而是淡然。壁立千仞，无欲则刚。淡然的心不计得失，懂得宽容，自然赢得一片宁静。宁静幸福的生活，要用宁静的心来换取。

43. Peace of mind leads to happiness. The heart, like water, is ungraspable. Imprisonment will only deepen the desire for freedom; indulgence will only prolong the duration of suffering. To live happily, one must first ensure their own peace of mind. True peace of mind does not lie in fulfilling one's desires, as the sea of desires is boundless, but in indifference. A wall standing tall has no desire, thus it is firm. A indifferent heart does not care for gains or losses, understands tolerance, and naturally wins tranquility. A tranquil and happy life requires a tranquil mind to be exchanged for.

44. 痛苦的情绪和不愉快的记忆，如果充斥在心里，就会使人委靡不振。因此，扫地除尘，能够使黯然的心变得亮堂。

44. Unhappy emotions and unpleasant memories, if they fill the heart, can make a person feel disheartened. Therefore, sweeping away dust can make a gloomy heart brighten up.

45. 人生就像一条抛物线，不管最高点有多高，最终还是会回到最初的原点。这是人生最大的遗憾，也是最大的公平。

45. Life is like a parabola, no matter how high the peak, it will eventually return to the original starting point. This is the greatest regret in life, and also the greatest fairness.

46. 真正的坚强，就是当所有的人都认为你将崩溃的时候，而你还可以振作起来，迎接崭新的一天。

46. True strength lies in the ability to rally and face a new day, even when everyone else thinks you're about to collapse.

47. 适当的放下，才会轻松；适当的留下，才会心安。放下：放下所有的冷漠与遗憾，放下所有的纠结与不足，放下浮躁的得失之心，因为，任凭你患得患失，一切皆不増不减。

47. Only by letting go appropriately can you feel at ease; only by holding on appropriately can you have peace of mind. Letting go: let go of all coldness and regret, let go of all entanglements and shortcomings, let go of the anxious heart of gain and loss, for no matter how much you worry about gain and loss, everything remains the same, neither increasing nor decreasing.

48. 如果这世界真的给你一百个理由去哭泣的时候，你就应该给世界一千个理由去微笑。

48. If this world truly gives you a hundred reasons to cry, then you should give the world a thousand reasons to smile.

49. 忏悔心谦卑心很重要，但是对自我的爱心更重要。

49. A repentant heart and a humble heart are important, but self-love is even more crucial.

50. 我相信过，如果怀着愉快的心情谈起悲伤的事情，悲伤就会烟消云散。

50. I believed that if one spoke about sad things with a cheerful heart, the sadness would fade away.

51. 与其埋怨世界，不如改变自己。管好自己的心，做好自己的事，比什么都强。人生无完美，曲折亦风景。别把失去看得过重，相信属于你的风景就在下一个拐弯处。

51. It's better to change yourself than to complain about the world. Take care of your heart and do your own things, which is stronger than anything else. Life is never perfect, and twists and turns are also part of the scenery. Don't overvalue what you have lost, and believe that the scenery that belongs to you is just around the next corner.

52. 花开了，我就画花；花谢了，我就画我自己；你来了，我当然画你；你走了，我就画一画回忆。

52. When the flowers bloom, I paint flowers; when the flowers wither, I paint myself; when you come, of course, I paint you; when you leave, I paint a memory.

53. 别和小人过不去，因为他本来就过不去；别和社会过不去，因为你会过不去；别和自己过不去，因为一切都会过去；别和往事过不去，因为它已经过去；别和现实过不去，因为你还要过下去。

53. Don't have conflicts with the small-minded, as they are naturally unable to get over it; don't have conflicts with society, because you will find it difficult to get through; don't have conflicts with yourself, because everything will pass; don't have conflicts with the past, as it has already passed; don't have conflicts with reality, because you still have to live on.

54. 实实在在的过好每一天，因为未来太过遥远，也未必能等到那天，眼前才是最珍贵的，爱好自己爱的人，想说的就去表达，有什么梦想就去追，也不必浪费时间在乎不喜欢自己的人，跟孩子好好说话别总想有空再说，世界已如此混乱，没有理由不勇敢，勇敢地过好眼前，减少突如其来时的遗憾。

54. Make the most of every day in reality, because the future is too distant and there's no guarantee you'll make it to that day. What's in front of you is the most precious. Love the people you love, express what you want to say, chase the dreams you have, and don't waste time worrying about people who don't like you. Talk well with your children and don't always think about saying it when you have time. The world is already so chaotic; there's no reason not to be brave. Bravely live the present and reduce regrets when the unexpected happens.

55. 一个人的气质来自哪里？往往来自他的阅历，来自他的岁月。当他经历过足够多的事，见识过足够多的人之后，就不会大惊小怪，就算面临再大的困境和意外，也会保持淡然。一个人有气质，并不是因为外貌的变化，而是因为他变得大气了。一个人最好的气质，只是云淡风轻。

55. Where does a person's temperament come from? Often from their experiences, from their years. After having experienced enough things and met enough people, they will not be overly surprised, and even when facing great difficulties and unexpected events, they will remain composed. A person has temperament not because of changes in appearance, but because they have become more dignified. The best temperament of a person is just as serene and carefree as the clouds and the breeze.

56. 镜子很脏的时候，我们并不会误以为是自己的脸脏。那为什么别人随口说出糟糕的话时，我们要觉得糟糕的是我们自己？

56. When a mirror is dirty, we don't mistake it for our own face being dirty. So why do we feel that it's ourselves who are at fault when someone casually utters bad words?

57. 人生至高的境界就是在纷繁中淡定心弦，心静时，过往的纠缠都能够搁置在一边晾晒，而你独享此刻宁静的光阴。

57. The highest realm of life is to remain calm amidst the complexities, and when the mind is at peace, all past entanglements can be set aside to dry, leaving you to enjoy the tranquility of the present moment.

58. 别忘了答应自己要做的事情，别忘了答应自己要去的地方，无论有多难，有多远。

58. Don't forget the things you promised yourself to do, and don't forget the places you promised yourself to go, no matter how difficult or far it may be.

59. 少了很多负累，多了很多潇洒，学习并领悟用纯净的双眼观察社会，平静做人，平静处事，如此，便能心静如水！

59. There are fewer burdens and more ease, learning and understanding to observe society with pure eyes, living a peaceful life, and dealing with matters calmly. In this way, one can achieve a tranquil heart like still water!

60. 所有的合适都是两个人的相互迁就和改变，没有天生合适的两个人，两个人朝着相同的方向努力，便是最好的爱情。

60. All compatibility is a mutual accommodation and change between two people. There are no two individuals who are inherently suited for each other. When two people strive towards the same direction, that is the best kind of love.

61. 不管任何时候，都要不乱于心，不困于情，知道自己要的是什么，知道自己在做什么，认真做好该做的事，努力过好每一天，让自己的人生高度一直向上，让自己的人生不虚此行。

61. At any time, remain unconfused in your heart, unentangled in emotions, know what you want, know what you are doing, do what you should do with seriousness, strive to live each day well, let your life's height always rise, and let your journey through life not be in vain.

62. 人生不仅要学会承受，也要学会释怀。生活是开水，不论冷热，只要适合的温度，生活是口味，不论酸甜苦辣，只要适合的口感，就是最好。

62. In life, one not only needs to learn to endure, but also to learn to let go. Life is like boiling water; no matter whether it is hot or cold, as long as it is at the right temperature, it is the best. Life is like taste; no matter whether it is sweet, sour, bitter, or spicy, as long as it is at the right taste, it is the best.

63. 人总爱跟别人比较，看看有谁比自己好，又有谁比不上自己。而其实，为你的烦恼和忧伤垫底的，从来不是别人的不幸和痛苦，而是你自己的态度。

63. People always like to compare themselves with others, to see who is better than them and who is not as good as them. In reality, what lies at the bottom of your troubles and sorrows is never others' misfortunes and pain, but your own attitude.