静默默认，远离喧嚣，专注前行。

Silence by default, distant from the hustle and bustle, focused on moving forward.

1. 有些苦，我们必须要吃，有些醉，我们必须要受，有些弯路，我们必须要走，有些劫，我们必须要渡，有些南墙，我们必须要撞。

1. Some bitterness we must endure, some intoxication we must suffer, some detours we must take, some trials we must overcome, and some walls we must crash into.

2. 一个人最顶级的自律，就是明确自己和他人之间的界限，全心全意做好自己， 对于和自己没有关系的人和事，不找事，不说话，不操心。

2. The highest level of self-discipline for a person is to clearly define the boundaries between oneself and others, to be wholehearted in doing one's own best, and for matters and people that have nothing to do with oneself, not to cause trouble, not to speak, and not to worry.

3. 首先你想的未必就是正确的，其次，哪怕你就是正确的，你的观点也未必就是适合对方的，再次，你的观点正确，并且适合对方，对方也未必会买你的账，甚至视你为仇寇。

3. What you initially think may not be correct. Furthermore, even if you are correct, your perspective may not necessarily be suitable for the other person. Moreover, if your viewpoint is correct and suitable for the other person, they may still not accept it, and even regard you as an enemy.

4. 管住自己的嘴，守口如瓶，沉默是金。

4. Keep your mouth shut, be as silent as a sealed pot, silence is gold.

5. 大家都是命，半点不由人。每个人都有自己独特的命运走向，良言难劝该死的鬼，你点拨不了一个必须要受苦的人。

5. Everyone has their own destiny, which is not subject to anyone's control. Each person has their own unique path of destiny. It's difficult to persuade a doomed ghost with kind words, for you cannot enlighten someone who is bound to suffer.

6. 病从口入，祸从口出。

6. Sickness enters through the mouth, and disaster comes from the tongue.

7. 每个人都有自己的因果和命运，尊重别人的选择和行为，就是尊重天道。

7. Everyone has their own causality and destiny. Respecting others' choices and actions is respecting the natural law.

8. 不要替任何人操心了，我们并没有能量改变任何人的生命轨迹。

8. Don't worry about anyone else; we don't have the energy to change anyone's life trajectory.

9. 哪怕你只是一个普通人，你身边的说话对象也全是普通人，大家都处于一个言论自由的时代，可能没有什么致命的后果，但如果你说话太多或者乱说话，也会恶化你的人际关系，让你变成了一个人见人恨的可怜虫。

9. Even if you are just an ordinary person, and the people around you are all ordinary people, living in an era of freedom of speech, there may not be any fatal consequences. However, if you talk too much or talk carelessly, it can also deteriorate your interpersonal relationships and turn you into a可怜 person who is disliked by everyone.

10. 小孩子回应道，村口的老爷爷活到了100多岁，你知道是为什么吗？

10. The child replied, "The old grandfather at the village entrance lived to be over a hundred years old, do you know why?"

11. 一个人最顶级的愚蠢，就是站在自己的立场上，对别人的行为说三道四，站在自己的利益角度，对别人的选择飞短流长，或者直接介入别人的生活，干预别人的选择。这样只会吃力不讨好，让别人有一种被冒犯的愤怒，也让自己有一种低素质的窘迫。

11. The ultimate foolishness for a person is to judge others' actions from one's own perspective, to speak ill of others' choices from one's own interests, or to directly interfere in others' lives and choices. This approach only results in exerting effort without gaining appreciation, making others feel offended and angry, and also causing oneself to feel embarrassed due to low quality.

12. 管理好自己的能量，不要介入自己以外的纠纷，管住嘴，守住心，把时间和精力用来取悦和成全自己。

12. Manage your own energy well, do not interfere in disputes outside of yourself, keep your mouth shut, guard your heart, and use your time and energy to please and fulfill yourself.

13. 嘴是是非门，舌是斩身剑。那些喜欢用语言来刷存在感的人，总会在不经意之间说了别人不喜欢听的话，或者说了一些敏感的话题，给自己招来无妄之灾。

13. The mouth is a gate of gossip, and the tongue is a sword that can cut through the body. Those who like to use language to boost their sense of existence always tend to say things others don't like to hear, or bring up sensitive topics, thereby attracting unnecessary troubles for themselves.

14. 天下本无事，庸人自扰之。

14. There is originally no trouble in the world; it is the fool who makes a fuss about it.

15. 水深不语，人稳不言。

15. The water is silent when deep, and a person is silent when steady.

16. 我们曾如此期待别人的认可，后来才发现，世界是自己的，和其他人毫无关系。

16. We had been so eager for others' recognition, only to find later that the world is one's own, having nothing to do with others.

17. 替亲人操心，替朋友操心，替同事操心，替领导操心，替无关紧要的人操心。最后，非但于事无补，还把自己搞得筋疲力尽，痛苦不安。

17. Worrying about relatives, worrying about friends, worrying about colleagues, worrying about leaders, and worrying about people who don't matter. In the end, it not only fails to help the situation, but also leaves oneself exhausted and anxious.

18. 那个大人说，你这小屁孩，难道是吃巧克力才能长寿？

18. The adult said, "You little brat, do you think eating chocolate can make you live a long life?"

19. 作家傅雷说，最折磨人的不是脑力劳动，也不是体力劳动，而是操心。

19. Writer Fu Le said, "The most torturous thing is not intellectual labor, nor is it physical labor, but worry."

20. 天底下只有三件事，自己的事，别人的事，老天的事。自己的事自己管，别人的事不要管，老天的事不用管。

20. There are only three things under the sky: your own business, others' business, and the heavens' business. Manage your own business by yourself, don't interfere with others' business, and there's no need to worry about the heavens' business.

21. 一个小孩在村口吃巧克力糖，一个路过的大人说，小孩子不能吃巧克力，因为会导致蛀牙。

21. A child was eating chocolate candy at the village entrance, and a passerby said, "Children shouldn't eat chocolate, as it can cause tooth decay."

22. 小孩回答，因为老爷爷只管自己的事，从来不管别人的闲事。

22. The child replied, because the old grandfather only takes care of his own affairs and never meddles in others' business.