生死看淡，成败不计。

Life and death are taken lightly, and success and failure are not counted.

1. 人生就是一场体验而已。

1. Life is just an experience.

2. 不管你是王侯将相，还是草野小民，不管你扬名立万，还是一事无成，最后都要尘归尘，土归土。这个世界上不会留下你的任何痕迹，就像你从来没有来过这个世界。

2. Whether you are a king, a prince, a marquis, or a commoner, whether you have gained fame and fortune or have achieved nothing, in the end, all things will return to dust and soil. This world will not leave any trace of you, as if you had never come to this world.

3. 最强大的活法，就是看透生命的空性，什么都不在乎，什么都不害怕。坦坦荡荡，顺其自然，知其不可奈何，而安之若命！

3. The most powerful way of living is to see through the emptiness of life, not caring about anything, and not being afraid of anything. Be straightforward and natural, recognize that there is nothing that can be done about it, and accept it as fate!

4. 人生自古谁无死！

4. Since ancient times, who can escape death in life?

5. 死亡是一个必须会降临的节日，不管你愿意不愿意，舍得不舍得，害怕不害怕，最后都要走进死亡，化为尘土，在这个光怪陆离的世界上永久消失。

5. Death is a festival that must inevitably come, whether you are willing or not, whether you are willing to let go or not, whether you are afraid or not, in the end, everyone must walk into death, turn into dust, and permanently disappear in this world full of strange and bizarre phenomena.

6. 我们完全没有必要对死亡战战兢兢，也不必把死亡看得太过于沉重，它只是一个客观规律，是天道的一种表现，该怎么着就怎么着。

6. We have no need to be fearful of death, nor should we view it as overly沉重的. It is just an objective law, a manifestation of the Tao, and things will be as they are.

7. 当死亡存在的时候，我们不在，所以根本就没有痛苦可言。当我们存在的时候，死亡不在，所以，大可不必惴惴不安。

7. When death exists, we are not there, so there is no pain to speak of. When we exist, death is not present, so there is no need to be anxious.

8. 菩提本无树，明镜亦非台。本来无一物，何处惹尘埃。生有何欢，死有何苦，我们不必忧虑死后的世界，就像我们不会忧虑出生之前的世界一样。

8. The Bodhi tree itself is not a tree, nor is the bright mirror a platform. In essence, there is nothing there, so where can dust be attracted? What joy is there in living, and what suffering in dying? We need not worry about the world after death, just as we do not worry about the world before birth.

9. 我们不知道明天和意外哪一个先来，只有活在当下，取悦自己，对于生死这样的大课题，那就听天由命，顺其自然吧。

9. We do not know whether tomorrow or the unexpected will come first. We can only live in the present, please ourselves, and for such major issues as life and death, we should leave it to fate and let things take their natural course.

10. 静坐常思己过，闲谈莫论他非。

10. In stillness, constantly reflect on one's own faults; when idle, do not talk about others' misdeeds.

11. 世界上只有三件事情，自己的事，别人的事，老天的事。自己的事自己管，别人的事不要管，老天的事不用管。

11. There are only three things in the world: your own affairs, others' affairs, and heaven's affairs. Take care of your own affairs, don't meddle with others' affairs, and don't worry about heaven's affairs.

12. 我们只是默默无闻的普通人，不要有太多的使命感和过剩的责任感，放下救人情结，关起门来，过自己的小日子，不要过问门外的是是非非。

12. We are just ordinary people who are not well-known. Don't have too much of a sense of mission or an excessive sense of responsibility. Let go of the compulsion to save others, close the door, live your own little life, and don't interfere with the right and wrong outside the door.

13. 不干涉别人的课题，不插手别人的闲事，不关注别人的动态，不揣摩别人的想法，不操心别人的命运。明确自己和他人之间的界限，不允许别人侵犯自己，也不要去侵犯别人。不要理会人世间的飞短流长和是非困扰。

13. Do not interfere with others' topics, do not meddle in others' personal affairs, do not pay attention to others' activities, do not guess at others' thoughts, and do not worry about others' fates. Clearly define the boundaries between yourself and others, do not allow others to infringe upon you, and do not go to infringe upon others. Do not pay attention to the malicious gossip and troubles in the world.

14. 别人笑我太疯癫，我笑他人看不穿。不见五陵豪杰墓，无花无酒锄作田。

14. They laugh at me for being too mad and wild, but I laugh at them for not seeing through my act. I do not see the tombs of the heroic figures from the five commanding ridges, and without flowers or wine, they till the fields.

15. 人生短短几十年，不要在乎别人怎么看待你，不要过问外界的是非纷纭，该怎么快乐就怎么快乐，想怎么潇洒就怎么潇洒吧。

15. Life is short, just a few decades, don't care about how others perceive you, don't interfere with the world's endless disputes, just be happy in your own way, and be carefree as you wish.

16. 我们活在这个世界上，和一只蚂蚁、一只甲壳虫、一只蚊子、一只苍蝇没有任何区别。所谓成功和失败，放在苍茫宇宙之间，根本就不值一提。就像蚂蚁找到一只虫，找不到一只虫，就像蚊子吃到一口血，或者吃不到一口血，本质上没有多少差别。

16. We live in this world with no distinction from an ant, a beetle, a mosquito, or a fly. The so-called success and failure, when placed in the vastness of the universe, are not worth mentioning at all. Just like an ant finding a bug or not finding one, or a mosquito getting a drop of blood or not getting one, there is not much difference in essence.

17. 你随手在大地上抓起一把黄土，不知道是谁的尸骨腐化而成的，可能是不可一世的大人物，也可能是默默无名的流浪汉，大自然根本就不会甄别成功或者失败，每一个人都渺小如尘埃。

17. You pick up a handful of yellow earth from the ground at will, unaware that it is made from the decayed bones of the unknown. It could be the remains of a great figure who thought themselves invincible, or of a humble wanderer who went unnoticed. Nature does not distinguish between success and failure; everyone is as tiny as dust.

18. 宠辱不惊，看庭前花开花落，去留随意，任天上云卷云舒。做自己想做的事情吧，不要在乎结果，只用享受过程，成败得失，是非功过，全都不必介意。

18. Take neither honors nor slights to heart, watch the flowers bloom and fall in front of the courtyard, go and stay at will, let the clouds roll up and unfold in the sky. Do what you want to do, don't worry about the outcome, just enjoy the process. Whether it's success or failure, gain or loss, right or wrong, achievements or failures, none of them need to bother you.

19. 女人是水，你用0度遇见她，她即刻成冰。你用100度爱她，她才会立即沸腾。所以，你女人的温度就是你对她的度数，冷暖你自知。

19. Women are like water. When you meet her at 0 degrees, she instantly turns into ice. When you love her at 100 degrees, she will boil over immediately. Therefore, the temperature of the woman in your life is the degree you measure her by, and whether she is warm or cold, only you know.

20. 我相信这世界上，有些人有些事有些爱，在见到的第一次，就注定要羁绊一生，就注定像一棵树一样，生长在心里，生生世世。

20. I believe that in this world, there are some people, some things, and some love that, from the very first time we encounter them, are destined to bind us for life, destined to grow in our hearts like a tree, through all lives and ages.

21. 没有一劳永逸的开始；也没有无法拯救的结束。人生中，你需要把握的是：该开始的，要义无反顾地开始；该结束的，就干净利落地结束。

21. There is no one-time-only beginning; nor is there an ending that cannot be saved. In life, what you need to grasp is: for what should begin, start wholeheartedly and without hesitation; for what should end, finish cleanly and decisively.

22. 每个顺其自然的背后都是想要改变却不得的努力，每个洒脱的背后都藏着不舍，每个放下前都是挣扎，每个人心里都有不可言说的秘密。

22. Behind every acceptance of what is, there lies an effort to change but cannot; behind every carefree attitude, there hides a sense of reluctance; before every letting go, there is a struggle; and everyone has an unspoken secret hidden in their hearts.

23. 在静静地夜里细细地想，原来幸福是有两种的：一种是盛在篮子里的，永远被别人拎着走；一种是散落在旷野中的，永远自由自在地享受大自然的阳光雨露。

23. In the quiet of the night, pondering carefully, I realize that there are two kinds of happiness: one is contained in a basket, always being carried away by others; the other is scattered in the wilderness, forever enjoying the sunlight and rain of nature freely and independently.

24. 时间，带不走真正的朋友；岁月，留不住虚幻的拥有。时光转换，体会到缘分善变；平淡无语，感受了人情冷暖。有心的人，不管你在与不在，都会惦念；无心的情，无论你好与不好，只是漠然。

24. Time cannot take away true friends; years cannot hold on to illusionary possessions. With the passage of time, one realizes the changeability of fate; with silent simplicity, one experiences the warmth and coldness of human feelings. Those who have a heart will always think of you, whether you are there or not; those who have no heart will remain indifferent, regardless of whether you are doing well or not.

25. 有时候，明明心如刀割，却要灿烂的微笑，明明很脆弱，却表现的如此坚强，眼泪在眼里打转，却告诉每个人我很好。

25. Sometimes, even though my heart is being torn apart, I have to smile brightly; even though I am fragile, I act so strong; tears well up in my eyes, but I tell everyone that I'm fine.

26. 乞丐不一定会妒忌百万富翁，但可能会妒忌收入更高的乞丐。没有更高的视野，你会纠结于现在的圈子；有了更高的视野，你会把身边的人与事看淡。

26. The beggar may not necessarily envy the millionaire, but he might envy another beggar with a higher income. Without a broader perspective, you might be entangled in your current circle; with a higher perspective, you will be more indifferent to the people and things around you.

27. 很多事确实不是所有年轻姑娘都承受得了的 。逼着你往前走的，不是前方梦想的微弱光芒，而是身后现实的深渊万丈 。

27. Many things are indeed too much for not all young girls to bear. It's not the faint light of the dream ahead that pushes you forward, but the deep abyss of reality behind you.

28. 在一切变好之前，我们总要经历一些不开心的日子，这段日子也许很长，也许只是一觉醒来，所以耐心点，给好运一点时间。

28. Before everything gets better, we all have to go through some unhappy days. These days might be long, or they might just be a single night's sleep away. So be patient, and give luck a little time.

29. 只有一条路不能选择——那就是放弃的路；只有一条路不能拒绝——那就是成长的路。

29. There is only one path that cannot be chosen - that is the path of giving up; and there is only one path that cannot be refused - that is the path of growth.

30. 再幸福的人生也有缺憾，再凄凉的人生都有幸福。潇洒的人生，要学会淡看缺憾，随缘而动。静听流水的声音，静品流年的韵味，心中有爱，人就健康；心中有美，人就善良；心中有真，人就坦诚；心中有德，人就有底线；心中有光明，人就有信念。

30. Even the happiest life has its shortcomings, and even the most desolate life has its happiness. A carefree life learns to take shortcomings lightly and act according to circumstances. Listen quietly to the sound of flowing water, savor the charm of the passing years. With love in one's heart, one is healthy; with beauty in one's heart, one is kind; with truth in one's heart, one is honest; with virtue in one's heart, one has a moral底线; with light in one's heart, one has faith.

31. 淡然于心，从容于表，优雅自在地生活。追求，就会有失望；活着，就会有烦恼。不要把什么都看得那么重。人生最怕什么都想计较，却又什么都抓不牢。失去的风景，走散的人，等不来的渴望，全都住在缘分的尽头。何必太执着，该来的自然来，会走的留不住。放开执念，随缘是最好的生活。

31. Be serene in the heart, composed in demeanor, and live an elegant and comfortable life. Pursuit leads to disappointment; life brings烦恼. Do not take everything so seriously. The greatest fear in life is to want to calculate everything, yet to grasp nothing. The lost scenery, the people who have drifted apart, the unfulfilled desires, all reside at the end of fate. Why be overly obsessed? What is meant to come will naturally arrive, and what is meant to leave cannot be held back. Let go of attachments, and being with fate is the best way to live.

32. 如果我们都去做自己能力做得到的事，我们会让自己大吃一惊

32. If we all do what we are capable of doing, we will surprise ourselves greatly.

33. 人生，活着，那就是一种心态。凡事岂能尽人意，但求于心无愧。木已成舟便要顺其自然。心容易满足，你才会感觉幸福，欢乐与悲哀是伴生的，欢乐有度会欢乐常伴。

33. Life, to live, is all about a state of mind. Things cannot always go as one wishes, but one should strive for a conscience that is unburdened. Once the wood has been shaped into a boat, one must let nature take its course. If the heart is easily contented, then one will feel happiness. Joy and sorrow come hand in hand, and as long as joy is within limits, it will be constantly accompanied by joy.

34. 人生，既要淡，又要有味。慢慢的才知道：坚持未必是胜利，放弃未必是认输，。让情绪简单一点，人生就会更丰富一点。让环境简单一点，空间就会更丰富一点。让爱情简单一点，幸福就会更丰富一点。

34. Life should be both light and flavorful. Slowly one learns: perseverance is not necessarily victory, and giving up is not necessarily defeat. Keep emotions simple, and life will become richer. Simplify the environment, and space will become richer. Simplify love, and happiness will become richer.

35. 真正的成熟应该是，懂得不是每个人都如你想象的那么好，明白这个世界和你想象的总是有差距，知道不是所有的努力都能有所回报，学会放下没有结果的感情，去爱你更值得爱的人，做值得更有价值的事情。

35. True maturity should be the understanding that not everyone is as good as you imagine them to be, recognizing that there is always a gap between the world and your imagination, knowing that not all efforts will be rewarded, learning to let go of relationships that have no outcome, and loving the people who are truly worth it, and doing things that are truly valuable.

36. 忍耐的过程是痛苦的，但结果却是甜蜜的。不论是对逆境，对内在的烦恼还是外在的灾祸，都要忍。忍耐是一种以退为进的生存智慧，一种明心见性的处世哲学。忍耐不是软弱，不是逃避，而是一种心灵的超越。吃亏能养德，忍耐能养心。吃亏时不计较，不比较，想得开，能成事。

36. The process of patience is painful, but the result is sweet. Whether it is adversity, inner troubles, or external disasters, one must endure. Patience is a form of survival wisdom that retreats to advance, and a philosophical approach to dealing with the world by being mindful of one's true nature. Patience is not weakness, nor is it escape; it is a transcendence of the soul. Enduring loss can cultivate virtue, and patience can cultivate the mind. When one endures a loss, one should not be calculative or comparative, but should be open-minded, and capable of achieving things.

37. 人生如梦，不是梦，因为太真实；人生如水，不是水，因为太苦涩。人生的路，总有几道弯，几道沟，几道坎；生活的味，总有几分苦，几分酸，几分涩。重要的是懂的调解，路不通时，试着拐弯；压力大时，学会排解；心不快时，找个角落发发呆；要的得不到，选择知足；求得不如意，试着妥协。

37. Life is like a dream, yet it's not a dream because it's too real; life is like water, yet it's not water because it's too bitter. The path of life always has a few twists, a few ditches, and a few hurdles; the taste of life always has a bit of bitterness, a bit of sourness, and a bit of astringency. What's important is to know how to adjust; when the path is blocked, try to take a detour; when the pressure is on, learn to relieve it; when the heart is not joyful, find a corner to daydream; when what you want is unattainable, choose contentment; when what you seek is not satisfactory, try to compromise.

38. ，人生在世，注定要受许多委屈。一个人越是成功，他所遭受的委屈也越多。要使自己的生命获得极值和炫彩，就不能太在乎委屈，不能让它们揪紧你的心灵、扰乱你的生活。

38. In life, it is inevitable to endure many grievances. The more successful a person is, the more grievances they will face. In order to achieve the maximum and dazzling value of one's life, one cannot be overly concerned about grievances, nor should they allow them to tighten your heart and disrupt your life.

39. 一件事你期望太高你就输了，一份情你付出太多你就累了，一个人你等的久了你就痛了。记住，生活中没有过不去的难关，生命中也没有离不开的人。如果你不被珍惜，不再重要，学会华丽的转身。你可以哭泣，可以心疼，但不能绝望。今天的泪水，会是你明天的成长；今天的伤痕，会是你明天的坚强。

39. The higher your expectations for something, the more you lose; the more you invest in a relationship, the more tired you become; the longer you wait for someone, the more pain you feel. Remember, there are no insurmountable difficulties in life, and there is no one you can't live without. If you are no longer cherished or important, learn to turn around gracefully. You can cry, you can feel pain, but you cannot despair. The tears you shed today will be the growth you achieve tomorrow; the scars you bear today will be the strength you possess tomorrow.

40. 话再漂亮，没有行动，也是枉然；感情再浓，不懂珍惜，也是徒劳。有人惦记，再远的路，也是近的；有人挂念，再淡的水，也是甜的；有人思念，再长的夜，也是短的； 迁就你的人，不是没有脾气，是舍不得你！ 人与人之间的相遇，靠的是缘分；人和人的相处，靠的是真诚！ 感谢那些对我好的人。

40. No matter how beautiful the words, they are futile without action; no matter how intense the feelings, they are in vain if not cherished. If someone cares, even the longest distance feels close; if someone misses you, even the most bland water tastes sweet; if someone thinks of you, even the longest night feels short; the person who accommodates you is not without temper, but is unwilling to let you go! The encounter between people depends on fate; the interaction between people depends on sincerity! Thank those who are good to me.

41. 心小了，所有的小事就大了;心大了，所有的大事都小了;看淡世事沧桑，内心安然无恙。——丰子恺

41. If the heart is small, all trivial matters seem great; if the heart is great, all great matters seem trivial. Detach oneself from the vicissitudes of the world and the inner self remains unharmed. ——Feng Zikai

42. 事看淡了，就会简单，情看淡了，就会释怀。缘看淡了，不悲聚散，是非看淡了，计较变浅。成败看淡了，顺心自然，得失看淡了，自在坦然。生活如何要看我们有怎样的心态，活着就应该快乐。走过，经过，尝过，还是平淡最美;听过，看过，想过，还是简单最好。

42. When things are taken lightly, they become simple; when emotions are taken lightly, one lets go of grudges. When fate is taken lightly, one does not grieve over parting; when right and wrong are taken lightly, there is less to argue about. When success and failure are taken lightly, one lives in harmony with nature; when gains and losses are taken lightly, one is carefree and composed. How life is depends on our mindset; living should be joyful. Having gone through, experienced, and tasted, the beauty lies in simplicity; having listened, watched, and thought, the best is in simplicity.

43. 生活犹如万花筒，喜怒哀乐，酸甜苦辣，相依相随，无须过于在意，人生如梦看淡一切，看淡曾经的伤痛，好好珍惜自己、善待自己。

43. Life is like a kaleidoscope, filled with joys and sorrows, sweets and bitters, all intertwined. There is no need to pay too much attention to it. Life is like a dream, so let go of everything, including the past wounds. Treasure and treat yourself well.

44. 看淡，就是好心境;想开，就有好心情。时过境迁，曾经苦苦盼望的，在今天也许一文不值。繁华三千，看淡即是云烟;烦恼无数，想开就是晴天。

44. Detachment is the key to a good mindset; letting go brings a good mood. As time changes, what was once eagerly awaited may be worth nothing today. Amidst the bustling world, detachment is like mist; amidst countless troubles, letting go is like a clear sky.

45. 先看淡你我，再泰然自若，俯瞰犯过的错。——李宗盛

45. First, let go of our attachment to each other, then be calm and composed, looking down upon the mistakes we have made. —— Lee Chong-sheng

46. 因为看轻，所以快乐;因为看淡，所以幸福。我们都是天地的过客，很多事，我们都做不了主。你越想抓牢的，往往是离开你最快的。所以，凡事不必太在意，一切随缘随心，缘深多聚聚，缘浅随它去。凡事看淡点看开些，顺其自然，无意于得，就无所谓失。人生，看轻看淡多少，痛苦就远离你多少。

46. Because of the lightness, we are happy; because of the indifference, we are blessed. We are all passersby in the world, and there are many things that we cannot control. The more you try to hold on to, the faster it often leaves you. So, don't take anything too seriously, let everything go with the flow of fate and your heart. If the bond is deep, gather more often; if it is shallow, let it go as it may. Treat everything with a light heart and an open mind, let it be as it is, without intention of gain, there is no loss to speak of. In life, the more you take lightly and indifferently, the more pain will be far away from you.

47. 看淡了，就意味着，我仍是我，只是尽可能表现出来的是更多人可以理解和接受的我。——刘同

47. To take things lightly means that I am still me, but what I try to show is a version of myself that more people can understand and accept. ——Liu Tong

48. 愿为你看淡红尘，洗手做羹，从此浪迹天涯，一世并蒂如花。

48. May I wash my hands to cook for you, and from this moment on, wander the world at your side, as if we were two blossoms of the same flower together for a lifetime.

49. 繁华三千，看淡即是浮云。烦恼无数，想开便是晴天。

49. Amidst the bustling world, if you take it lightly, it's just a passing cloud. With countless troubles, if you think positively, it's a clear day.

50. 看淡了世间的繁华 ，不再说那些动人的情话 。

50. Having become indifferent to the world's splendor, no longer do I speak those moving love words.

51. 与其庸人自扰，不如看淡点好，遗忘是最好的方式。

51. It's better to take things lightly than to worry unnecessarily; forgetting is the best way.

52. 有经历的人，不害怕带着伤前行。拒绝崩溃，就要看淡一切。

52. Those with experience do not fear to move forward with injuries. To refuse to collapse, one must learn to take everything lightly.

53. 万水千山行遍，风起云涌看淡，你依旧是我最浪漫的心酸。——夏七夕

53. Having traveled through ten thousand rivers and mountains, I've become indifferent to the rising and falling of winds and clouds. Yet, you remain the most romantic and bittersweet in my heart. — Xia Qixi

54. 引导语：苍茫大地一剑尽挽破，何处繁华笙歌落。寄君一曲，不问曲终人聚散。清风湿润，茶烟轻扬。重温旧梦，故人已去。还能不动声色饮茶，踏碎这一场，盛世烟花。

54. Lead-in: A solitary sword mows through the boundless land, where does the prosperity and music fall? Send you a song, not caring if it ends with people parting. The moist wind is refreshing, and the tea smoke gently rises. Recapturing old dreams, the old friend has gone. Can one still drink tea without showing emotion, trampling through this grand fireworks of a prosperous era?

55. 如果时光能够快进，我真想去未来看看我们的结局。

55. If time could fast-forward, I really would like to see our ending in the future.

56. 我们是一枚硬币的两面，永远都不会分离，可是，永远都不可能在一起。

56. We are the two sides of a coin, forever inseparable, yet forever unable to be together.

57. 如果有一天我看不见你，我会发了疯似的满世界找你。

57. If one day I can't see you, I will go crazy looking for you all over the world.

58. 我们就这样，淡化一段情；你选择新欢，我选择时间。

58. We will fade away this affection; you choose your new love, and I choose time.

59. 不爱你我有无数理由，爱你只有一个理由，我就是爱你。

59. I have countless reasons for not loving you, but only one reason for loving you, and that is: I just love you.

60. 所谓爱情、其实不过就是没有一个没有策划好的剧本。

60. So-called love is actually just a script that hasn't been planned out.

61. 玫瑰，你的；巧克力，你的；钻戒，你的；你，我的。

61. Roses, yours; chocolates, yours; the diamond ring, yours; and you, mine.