静默默认，涟漪无声，乐享人生。

Silence by default, ripples without a sound, enjoy life to the fullest.

1. 第一个目的，讲了让别人高兴，如果你的话别人不高兴，那就不讲。

1. The first purpose is to make others happy; if what you say makes others unhappy, then don't say it.

2. 我们用两年的时间学说话，用一生的时间学闭嘴。

2. We spend two years learning to speak and a lifetime learning to keep silent.

3. 别人笑我太疯癫，我笑他人看不穿。不见五陵豪杰墓，无花无酒锄作田。

3. They laugh at me for being too crazy, but I laugh at them for not seeing through. I don't see the tombs of the heroic figures of the Five Mounds, and the land is plowed with no flowers and no wine.

4. 名利双收的人，死后是一捧土，一无所有的人，死后也是一捧土。

4. For those who gain both fame and fortune, after death, they are just a heap of earth; for those who have nothing, after death, they are also just a heap of earth.

5. 第二个目的，讲了别人有劲干活，能给别人传递价值。

5. The second purpose, which talks about others having the strength to work and being able to convey value to others.

6. 你说的话特别体面而有分寸，别人认为你刷存在感，对你很心烦。你说的话不妥当，就会得罪别人，引起一些人际关系的麻烦和纠葛。

6. The words you say are particularly respectful and measured, but others may think you're trying to get noticed and it irritates them. If what you say is inappropriate, it may offend others, causing some troubles and entanglements in interpersonal relationships.

7. 不必去想这争什么，求什么，追什么，对于人人羡慕的那一些东西，有则锦上添花，无则依旧风华。不要刻意去追求，不要做超出能力范围之外的事情，在平平淡淡的日子里，过清清静静的生活。

7. It's not necessary to worry about what to fight for, seek, or chase after. As for those things that everyone envies, having them is like adding flowers to a brocade, and not having them still allows one to remain graceful and beautiful. Don't strive for things刻意去追求, and don't do things beyond your capabilities. In the mundane days, lead a peaceful and tranquil life.

8. 沉默寡言，是一个人最顶级的自律。

8. Being taciturn is the highest level of self-discipline for a person.

9. 人生短短几十年，一瞬间而已。

9. Life is but a short span of a few decades, just a moment in time.

10. 第三个目的，讲了你得有钱赚，要不然就留口气，暖暖肚子，别扯淡。”

10. The third purpose, you said you need to make money, otherwise just keep a little breath, warm your belly, don't talk nonsense."

11. 与其没完没了折腾自己，不如学会跟自己的命运和解，命运给你什么，你就接受什么，不对抗，不抱怨，不纠结，不恼怒，顺其自然，随遇而安，知其不可奈何，而安之若命！

11. It's better to learn to reconcile with one's fate instead of endlessly torturing oneself. Accept whatever fate gives you, without resistance, without complaining, without being entangled, without being angry. Go with the flow, be content with what comes your way, understand that there are things beyond your control, and accept them as part of your destiny!

12. 命运就如同蒲公英，风起而涌，风止而熄，落到肥处逆风长，落到瘦处苦一生。如果我们无能为力，那就顺其自然吧！”

12. Fate is like a dandelion, swelling with the wind and fading with the wind's ceasing. It grows against the wind in fertile places and endures a bitter life in barren ones. If we are unable to change it, then let it be as it may!"

13. 人生就像一场梦，何必在乎那么多，与世无争，心安就好，顺其自然，放下为妙。

13. Life is like a dream, why worry about so much? Strive for no conflict with the world, be at peace with your heart, and let things take their natural course; it's best to let go.

14. 与其抱怨命运，不如随遇而安，取悦自己才是最重要的事情。

14. It's better to adapt to circumstances than to complain about fate; pleasing oneself is the most important thing.

15. 余华说：“有的女孩，可以什么都不用做，嫁得良人，一生幸福；有的女孩， 天生善良，却尝尽人间疾苦，往往不落。

15. Yu Hua said, "Some girls can do nothing and still marry a good man, leading a happy life; while some girls are naturally kind but endure all the hardships of life, often ending up in poverty."

16. 洛克菲勒说：“没事不要讲话，讲话只有三个目的：

16. Rockefeller said: "Don't talk unless there is something to say, and when you do talk, there are only three purposes:

17. 有人含着金钥匙出生，一辈子一帆风顺，锦衣玉食，有人出生连爹妈都没有，从小被扔进穷山沟里，能够活下来都特别不容易。

17. Some people are born with a golden key in their hands, leading a smooth and prosperous life, dressed in silk and feasting on delicacies; while others are born without even their parents, thrown into a poor mountain valley from a young age, and it's especially difficult for them to survive.

18. 不要对命运有什么执念，不要对生活有太高的期待，不要在乎任何人对你的任何态度。潇潇洒洒地活着，安安逸逸地过着，不要刷存在感，沉默寡言，随遇而安，与世无争。

18. Do not be obsessed with fate, do not have too high expectations of life, and do not care about anyone's attitude towards you. Live carefree and comfortably, do not seek to be noticed, be silent and reserved, adapt to circumstances, and do not quarrel with the world.

19. 你荣华富贵也好，落魄潦倒也罢，最后都要面对死亡，两眼一闭，腿一蹬，一了百了，什么都带不走，什么都留不下。

19. Whether you are prosperous and wealthy or destitute and downcast, in the end, you must face death. With a blink of the eyes and a kick of the legs, everything is settled, nothing can be taken away, and nothing can be left behind.

20. 我们总想着逆天改命，过上自己期待的美好生活。折腾了大半生才发现，在强大的命运面前，我们太普通，太卑微，太渺小，根本就无法跟自己的命运抗衡。

20. We always think about defying fate and living the beautiful life we anticipate. After折腾ing most of our lives, we realize that in the face of the powerful fate, we are too ordinary, too humble, and too insignificant, and we are fundamentally unable to resist our own fate.

21. 人生就是一场关于体验的旅行。

21. Life is a journey about experiencing.

22. 我们不知道明天和意外哪一个先来，甚至不知道下一刻自己是否还可以继续呼吸。

22. We do not know whether tomorrow or the unexpected will come first, nor do we know if we will still be able to breathe in the next moment.