在这片广袤的土地上，探寻清静与喜悦的生命之旅，如诗如歌。十八句箴言，引领我们领略常乐长乐的人生风景。在这篇文章的篇章里，让我们一起踏上这场心灵与生活的美妙旅程。

On this vast land, the journey of seeking tranquility and joy in life is as poetic as it is melodious. Eighteen proverbs guide us to appreciate the scenery of a life filled with constant and enduring happiness. In the chapters of this article, let us embark on this wonderful journey of the soul and life together.

1. 在人生中，如果是自己打败自己，是最可悲的失败者，自己战胜自己则是最可贵的胜利者，在我们的生命中才找到了真正属于自己的乐趣;在生活中，人们常说碰壁，却很有人生哲理，不防我们就学会推墙，推一百下、一千下，墙是不会倒塌的，但却能增长我们的手臂肌腱力量，同时锻炼身体，增长健康。

1. In life, if one is defeated by oneself, it is the most pitiful kind of failure. But if one conquers oneself, it is the most valuable victory, and only then can we find the true joy that belongs to us in life. In life, people often say that we hit a dead end, but this has a profound philosophical meaning. Why not learn to push the wall? Push it a hundred times, a thousand times; the wall will not collapse, but it will increase the strength of our arm tendons, and at the same time, exercise our bodies and enhance our health.

2. 别人站得远，我们就走近，距离便会缩小；别人若冷漠，我们待以热情，就会逐渐热络。惟有主动付出，才有丰富的果实获得收获。用微笑面对人生，也要面对自己的悲伤与痛苦，我们能面对悲伤，就是因为心中有信念。没有什么事难得到自己的，坚信光芒，铭记于心。

2. When others stand far away, we come closer, and the distance will shrink; when others are indifferent, we show warmth, and we will gradually become closer. Only by making proactive efforts can we reap rich fruits. Face life with a smile, and also face our own sadness and pain. We can face sadness because of the belief in our hearts. Nothing is too difficult for ourselves. Believe in the light, and remember it in your heart.

3. 忙的目的往往是：享受生活、回报父母、满足爱人，想无私；忙的结果往往是：享受不了生活、远离了父母、冷落了爱人，成自私。

3. The purpose of being busy is often: to enjoy life, to repay one's parents, to satisfy one's loved one, and to be selfless. However, the result of being busy is often: unable to enjoy life, far away from one's parents, and neglecting one's loved one, thus becoming selfish.

4. 双手抱胸前。说话时双手抱于胸前，会让人感觉你对他是有防备的想拒绝他，让人觉得不被信任。

4. Hold your hands on your chest. When you speak with your hands on your chest, it may give the impression that you are on guard and wish to reject the other person, making them feel that they are not trusted.

5. 人生有风，有雨，让自己跨越的姿势优雅而蹁跹;生命的路很长，我只想看到自己最完整的样子;任柳絮飘飞，任枫叶染红，再由一片雪融化了前世的记忆;行走岁月，经历人生的风景，在流年中剪下一段流彩，在生命清澈与纯粹中温润流溢着光亮。

5. Life has winds and rains, but let me cross them with an elegant and graceful posture; the path of life is long, and I only want to see myself in the most complete form. Let the willow catkins float, let the maple leaves turn red, and let a snowflake melt away the memories of a past life; walk through the years, experience the scenery of life, and cut a segment of brilliance from the flow of time, shining with warmth and clarity in the purity of life.

6. 自己把自己说服了，是一种理智的胜利；自己被自己感动了，是一种心灵的升华；自己把自己满足了，是一种精神的享受；自己把自己否定了，是一种品格的超越；自己把自己征服了，是一种人生的成熟！

6. Convincing oneself is a victory of reason; being moved by oneself is a spiritual elevation; satisfying oneself is a spiritual enjoyment; negating oneself is a transcendence of character; conquering oneself is a maturity of life!

7. 也许，在所有不被看好，无人尝试的错误的选择背后，会有不曾见到的可能，不曾设计的未知。未知让人恐惧，引人好奇，也因此证明你的勇气，成就你的自信。在每个死胡同的尽头，都有另一个维度的天空，在无路可走时迫使你腾空而起，那就是奇迹。——廖一梅

7. Perhaps, behind all the choices that are considered doomed, untried, and fraught with error, there may lie unseen possibilities and unknowns that have not been designed. The unknown is both terrifying and intriguing, and therefore proves your courage and builds your confidence. At the end of every dead-end alley, there is another dimension of sky that compels you to soar when there is no way forward, that is the miracle. - Liao Yimei

8. 人生，可得意，莫忘形。倾听自己。只有你自己知道什么对你最合适。内心深处不要太在乎别人的意见。对于一些伤痛的人与事，要学会走过了就要淡漠，转身了就要遗忘。

8. Life, one may take delight in, but must not become overconfident. Listen to yourself. Only you know what is most suitable for you. Don't be too concerned about others' opinions deep down inside. For some hurtful people and things, one should learn to become indifferent after passing through them, and to forget them after turning away.

9. 人生在世，行路匆匆，善待生活，曾经拥有的不要忘记；已经得到的更加珍惜。人生总回不到过去，所以也总认为过去是美好的。然而，人也总是这样，回不去的，得不到的，总是美好的。因此，不应该停留在如初那般美好中，而应该珍惜现在还未开始的美好。

9. In the course of life, we walk in a hurry. Be kind to life, don't forget what you once had, and cherish what you have already obtained. Life cannot return to the past, so people always think of the past as beautiful. However, humans are always like this, what can't be returned to and what can't be obtained seem to be beautiful. Therefore, one should not linger in the initial beauty but should cherish the beauty that has not yet begun.

10. 5决定今天的不是今天，而是昨天对人生的态度；人之所以快乐，并不是因为他拥有的多，而是因为计较的少。乐观的心态来自宽容，来自大度，来自善解人意，来自与世无争。人生本就没有完美，想通了，想开了就是完美。

10. What determines today is not today itself, but the attitude towards life yesterday; the reason why people are happy is not because they possess a lot, but because they care less. An optimistic mindset comes from tolerance, from generosity, from understanding others, and from not competing with the world. Life itself is not perfect; when you understand and let go, it becomes perfect.

11. 爱了，就爱了，没有什么大不了的，没有什么好奇怪的，没有什么好说的。如果你想被别人爱，你首先必须使自己值得爱，不是一天，一个星期，而是永远。不要去听别人的忽悠，你人生的每一步都必须靠自己的能力完成。人脉只会给你机会，但抓住机会还是要靠真本事。修炼自己，比到处逢迎别人重要的多。

11. Love what you love, and it's no big deal, there's nothing to be surprised about, and nothing much to say. If you want to be loved by others, you first need to make yourself worthy of love, not for just one day or one week, but forever. Don't listen to others' misleading words; every step of your life must be accomplished by your own abilities. People's networks can only give you opportunities, but it's your real skills that count when it comes to seizing those opportunities. Cultivating yourself is much more important than flattering others everywhere.

12. 如果年轻时遭遇苦难和艰辛，不应该蹙眉，而应该欣喜，因 为这是上天对你的格外垂青，已经许了你一个灿烂的未来。不经苦难 的淬火，不经艰辛的磨砺，你的人生之剑哪来锋利，你又怎么能在生 活的征途中所向披靡、攻城略地，并最终建立自己辉煌的生命帝国？

12. If you encounter hardships and struggles in your youth, you should not frown but be joyful, for this is the special favor from heaven, having promised you a brilliant future. Without the tempering of suffering and the grinding of hardship, how could your life's sword be sharp, and how could you dominate the journey of life, conquer cities, and ultimately establish your magnificent life empire?

13. 看别人一世，却难以看自己一时，只因自己的注意力不能掌握，而内心的分寸无法应对，所以在别人的引导下，自己只能随着别人的话语去起航，跟着别人的行动去出发，看着别人走了一辈子，却从不回想自己曾经走过的每时每刻。

13. One can observe others for a lifetime but find it hard to look at oneself for a moment, simply because one's attention cannot be controlled and one's inner measure is unmanageable. Therefore, under others' guidance, one can only set sail following others' words and embark on their actions, watching others walk through life without ever reflecting on the every moment and second they have passed.

14. 你做对事的时候，常常不会被人们提起；当你做错事的时候，常常不会被人们忘记。

14. When you do the right thing, it is often not mentioned by people; when you do wrong, it is often not forgotten by people.

15. 人生再苦也要笑一笑，哭过了就够了，要是一百沉浸往悲伤的情绪中，人生也就变得没有什么意义了，毕竟，我们来人间走一回，还是需要多笑一笑的。遇到不顺心的事情，应该告诉自己不要紧，上帝关闭一扇门的同时必定会打开一扇窗。如果不能达成心愿，提醒自己没关系，生活中许多事，可能你经过再多努力都无法达成，只要我们努力过、争取过，结果已然变得不重要了。如果有时实在痛心，那就告诉自己，会过去的。不管雨下得多大，下得多久，总有晴天的时候。有种跌倒叫做站起，有种失落叫做收获，有种失败叫做成功。

15. No matter how bitter life may be, one should still smile. A good cry is enough; if one drowns oneself in sadness for a hundred days, life would lose its meaning. After all, we come to this world for a round, and it is still necessary to smile more. When faced with unpleasant things, one should remind oneself not to worry, as God closes one door while opening a window. If one cannot fulfill one's wishes, remind oneself that it's fine. Many things in life may be unattainable despite all the efforts, but as long as we have tried and fought for them, the outcome becomes irrelevant. If there are times when one is truly heartbroken, remind oneself that it will pass. No matter how heavy or long the rain falls, there will always be sunny days. There is a kind of falling that is rising, a kind of loss that is gain, and a kind of failure that is success.

16. 只有"信"字当头，与人言才会有力度，有分量，才会有话可言。勇于打破陈规是一种创造，而不敢侵犯权威、墨守成规，只能是在原地踏步，毫无进展。一个只知道跟在别人后面顺从的人，是永远都看不到属于他自己的光明的。

16. Only when the word "faith" is at the forefront, words spoken will have strength and weight, and there will be something to say. To boldly break conventions is a form of creativity, while being afraid to challenge authority and adhering to outdated rules can only result in standing still without making any progress. A person who only knows how to follow others and submit will never see the light that belongs to them.

17. 人生无须过于执着，尽人事安天命而已。选择了，努力了，坚持了，走过了，问心无愧就好，至于结果怎样，其实并不重要。顺其自然、随遇而安，如行云般自在，像流水般洒脱，才是人生应有的态度。

17. Life does not require excessive attachment. Just do your best and let fate take its course. Once you have chosen, tried hard, persevered, and walked through, it is enough to have no regrets in your heart. As for the outcome, it is actually not important. Embrace nature, be at ease with what comes, be as carefree as floating clouds, and as unburdened as flowing water – this is the attitude life should have.

18. 人生就是这样的来匆匆去匆匆，有些话，适合藏在心里，有些痛苦，适合无声无息的忘记。当经历过，你成长了，自己知道就好。很多改变，不需要自己说，别人也会看得到低调，取舍间，必有得失。人生，可以痛苦，更要懂得追求快乐。欣赏别人其实是少一点挑剔，多一点信任;多一点热情，少一点冷漠;多一点仰视，少一点鄙夷。欣赏多一点，矛盾和误解定会少一点，人与人的距离才会更近一点。

18. Life is fleeting, coming and going. Some words are meant to be kept in the heart, some pain is best forgotten silently. When you've experienced it, you grow, and that's enough for yourself. Many changes don't need to be spoken about; others will see them. Modesty in demeanor, between choices, there must be gains and losses. In life, one can endure pain, but one must also know how to pursue happiness. Appreciating others is about less criticism and more trust; more enthusiasm and less indifference; more admiration and less disdain. The more appreciation there is, the fewer conflicts and misunderstandings will arise, and the closer people will be to each other.

19. 心总是在最痛时，复苏；爱总是在最深时，落下帷幕。总是情不自禁的忧伤，于是慢慢学会了掩藏；总是因为不想被人再刺伤，所以渐渐学会了伪装。美丽，在一往情深的日子里，有谁说得清，什么是甜，什么是苦。只知道，确定了就义无反顾。要输就输给追求，要嫁就嫁给幸福。

19. The heart always revives when it is at its most painful; love always draws the curtain when it is at its deepest. One can't help but feel melancholic, and thus one slowly learns to hide it; one gradually learns to pretend because one doesn't want to be hurt again. In the days of deep affection, who can say what is sweet and what is bitter? Only knowing that once determined, one should not look back. If one must lose, lose to the pursuit; if one must marry, marry for happiness.

20. 趁我还年轻，可以毫无保留地为爱付出；趁我还无知，可以完完全全地奉献自己；趁我还天真，可以相信爱你是一辈子的事。请你爱我的青春，爱我的痴狂，爱我的执着，让我们在还没学会世故计算的青涩年代，好好地珍惜彼此吧！

20. While I am still young, I can give love without reservation; while I am still naive, I can fully dedicate myself; while I am still innocent, I can believe that loving you is a lifelong affair. Please cherish my youth, my obsession, and my perseverance. Let us treasure each other well in our naive days when we haven't yet learned the art of calculating worldly interests!

21. 嫉妒别人，仇视异己，就等于把生命交给了别人。

21. Jealousy of others and hatred towards strangers are akin to handing over your life to others.

22. 生命如一泓清水，让我们每个人都能拥有水的清澈，水的活力，水的自由和水的生命！

22. Life is like a spring of clear water, allowing each of us to possess the clarity of water, the vitality of water, the freedom of water, and the life of water!

23. 俗话说：百事孝为先！可俗话又说：忠孝不能两全！即使工作在忙，也要经常的看望父母，因为他们爱你，回应他们的爱就是孝！

23. As the saying goes: filial piety comes first in all matters! But the saying also goes: loyalty and filial piety cannot be achieved simultaneously! Even if you are busy with work, you should visit your parents often, because they love you, and responding to their love is filial piety!

24. 人生最好的旅行，就是你在一个陌生的地方，发现一种久违的感动。只有真切的哭过，绝望的累过，钻心的痛过，无言的悔过，此生方算完整。每个人都有青春，每个青春都有故事，小时候想要什么，恨不得全世界都知道，就像已经得到一样；现在想要什么，生怕别人知道，否则像要失去一样。

24. The best journey in life is when you find a long-lost emotion in a strange place. Only when you have truly cried, been exhausted from despair, felt a piercing pain, and silently regretted, can your life be considered complete. Everyone has youth, and every youth has its own story. When you were young, you wanted everyone in the world to know what you desired, as if you had already obtained it; now, you are afraid to let others know what you want, otherwise it feels like you might lose it.

25. 朋友，我就有骂他的责任，他也有骂我的责任。在事业上、感情上、人生上就有着互相的义务，每次见面都应该有收获，彼此对对方的存在感到一种愉快，而不是整天厮混在一起。——陈道明

25. Friend, I have the responsibility to scold him, and he also has the responsibility to scold me. In terms of career, emotions, and life, there are mutual obligations between us. Every time we meet, there should be something gained, and we should feel joy in each other's presence rather than spending our days mingling together. — Chen Daoming

26. 摆正态度，把责任心放在第一位；的确，没有人愿意主动失败或者出错，这也是很多人的借口，但一个对待工作不认真的人又怎么能够把工作完成得圆满出色？也就是说，不管你做什么事，摆正态度，才能减少失败出现的可能。

26. Correct your attitude and place responsibility at the forefront; indeed, no one wants to fail or make mistakes proactively, and this is also a common excuse for many. However, how can someone who does not take their work seriously ever complete it perfectly and outstandingly? In other words, no matter what you do, it is only by correcting your attitude that you can reduce the likelihood of failure.

27. 人生没有完美，幸福没有百分。幸福原本很简单，只因我们过于较真，过于渴望得到不属于自己的东西，才让生活遍地烦恼。当你站在烦恼中仰望，幸福已被你踩在脚下。实际一点，才能幸福一点

27. Life is never perfect, and happiness doesn't have a percentage. Happiness is originally simple, but it's because we are too picky and too eager to obtain things that don't belong to us that we let烦恼 fill our lives. When you look up to your troubles, happiness is already under your feet. Be more practical, and you'll be a bit happier.

28. 只知敬仰君子，不懂笼络小人，很难有所作为。

28. Only knowing how to admire gentlemen but not how to win over the common people, it is hard to achieve anything substantial.

29. 当有一个人走进了你心里，其余的人都要被赶出去。这就是爱。

29. When one person enters your heart, all others must be driven out. This is love.

30. 心态不同，人生的境遇便会天差地别；只有修炼一颗淡泊宁静的心，人生才会月明风清；健康需要锻炼，心态需要修炼，命运只在自己。

30. Different attitudes lead to vastly different life circumstances; only by cultivating a tranquil and indifferent heart can one enjoy a life as clear as the moon and as gentle as the breeze; health requires exercise, and attitude requires cultivation; destiny is in one's own hands.

31. 把人生分为前半生和后半生前半生毫不踌躇后半生毫不忏悔。

31. Divide life into the first half and the second half; the first half without hesitation, and the second half without regret.

32. 人生如行路，一路艰辛，一路风景。你的目光所及，就是你的人生境界。总是看到比自己优秀的人，说明你正在走上坡路;总是看到和自己差不多的人，说明你差不多在混日子;总是看到不如自己的人，说明你正在走下坡路。与其埋怨世界，不如改变自己。管好自己的心，做好自己的事，比什么都强。

32. Life is like walking a path, filled with hardships and scenery along the way. What you see with your eyes is your level of life. If you always see people who are better than you, it means you are on an upward path; if you always see people who are about the same as you, it means you are just passing time; if you always see people who are worse than you, it means you are on a downward path. It's better to change yourself than to complain about the world. Take care of your own heart and do your own things; that is far superior to anything else.

33. 社会是现实的也是残酷的，每个人都想要改变自我，得到自己想要的，所以总希望得到一个乐观者的垂青，但是到了最后的结果，往往是乐观者来了又走，剩下自己一人独自感受着悲观。

33. Society is both realistic and cruel. Everyone wants to change themselves and get what they desire, so they always hope to be favored by an optimist. However, in the end, it often turns out that the optimist comes and goes, leaving oneself alone to feel the melancholy.

34. 有时候在想，是否一个人走了太远，而忘记了最初选择的方向，便再也找不到回去的路了。于是，终于明白，你的世界，我只是路过的幸福。

34. Sometimes I ponder whether one has gone too far, forgetting the original direction chosen, and then can no longer find the way back. It's then that I finally understand, in your world, I am just a passerby of happiness.

35. 好夫妻的十大经典表现：恋爱时，彼此是崇拜者；交谈时，彼此是知音；得意时，彼此是吹牛对象；生气时，彼此是出气筒；困难时，彼此是咨询师；痛苦时，彼此是安慰者；病时，彼此是护理；老时，彼此是拐杖；平时，彼此各干各，保持适度距离。

35. The Ten Classic Behaviors of a Good Couple: In love, they are each other's admirers; in conversation, they are each other's soulmates; in success, they are each other's吹牛对象; in anger, they are each other's vent; in difficulty, they are each other's consultants; in pain, they are each other's comforters; in illness, they are each other's caregivers; in old age, they are each other's crutches; in daily life, they each do their own things, maintaining a moderate distance.

36. 为什么脾气好的人生气起来更不可理喻？因为你不知道他在发你脾气之前忍让、包容了你有多久！愿你能过得尽兴，而不是庆幸，愿你没有软肋，也不需要铠甲。

36. Why do people with a good temper become even more unreasonable when they get angry? Because you don't know how long they have been tolerating and accommodating you before they lose their temper! May you live with all your enthusiasm, not just relief. May you have no weak points, nor do you need armor.