在浩瀚的人间烟火中，我们不断探索生命的真谛。自吾身而出，至他者之境，再到与世界相拥，这三大命题，犹如灯塔，照亮了我们前行的道路。在这篇章里，让我们共同揭开这神秘的面纱，探寻人生与世界的奥秘。

Amidst the vast and bustling world, we continuously explore the essence of life. From ourselves to the realm of others, and finally embracing the world with open arms, these three key questions act as lighthouses, illuminating our path forward. In this chapter, let us together unveil this mysterious veil and seek the mysteries of life and the world.

1. 21祝福的心，总是藏着很多的委屈，无奈的情，总是藏着很多的凄凉，人生的感动，总是一个人的苍老，是放下，是祝愿，也是最终的冷漠。

1. The heart brimming with 21 blessings always hides many grievances and无奈 emotions, filled with much melancholy. The touching moments in life are often a solitary aging, a letting go, a well-wishing, and also the ultimate coldness.

2. 39对过去的事，不再怀念；对离开的人，不再纠缠；对做不到的，不再自责；对得不到的，不再留恋。

2. Regarding past events, I no longer hold onto memories; regarding those who have left, I no longer entangle myself; regarding what I cannot achieve, I no longer blame myself; regarding what I cannot attain, I no longer linger in longing.

3. 17饿了吃东西，困了去睡觉，伤了看医生，痛了你忍着，路途自我走，眼泪自我擦，请不要到处宣扬，因为没人心疼你。

3. When you're hungry, eat something; when you're tired, go to sleep; when you're injured, see a doctor; when you're in pain, bear it; on the journey, walk by yourself; wipe your tears by yourself. Please don't make a big deal of it everywhere, because no one cares about you.

4. 14也许是我们不该相遇，不该看到了结局还苦苦痴迷。是谁那飘飘的长发，留下不舍，在我深深的眼眸中？是谁那如水的忧伤，留下残念，在我多情的相思中？又是谁，曾走在我岁月的轮回间？只是，我错过了那一场似梦似醒的风景。岁月的活力燃尽了最终那一抹暗淡的孤寂，留下一个感性的我，迷失在云烟弥漫的尘世间。

4. 14 Perhaps we shouldn't have met, or seen the end and still be so deeply infatuated. Whose flowing long hair, leaving an indelible mark, in my deep eyes? Whose water-like sadness, leaving a lingering memory, in my passionate longing? And who, had walked in the cycles of my years? Yet, I missed that scenery that was both dreamlike and wakeful. The vitality of the years has burned out, leaving the final trace of dim loneliness, and a sensitive me, lost in the dust world shrouded in mist and smoke.

5. 23雪对我来说是伤感的，唤起了我不想回想的过去。

5. 23 is nostalgic for me, evoking the past I don't want to recall.

6. 2一个人最大的快乐来自家的温暖，一个人最大的不幸是家庭的破碎。我们能够一无所有，也能够一事无成，只要有家，有太阳落山后一盏烛光的等待，我们就有奋斗下去的勇气。

6.2 The greatest happiness of a person comes from the warmth of the home, and the greatest misfortune is the breakdown of the family. We may have nothing and achieve nothing, but as long as we have a home and the waiting of a candlelight after the sun sets, we have the courage to keep fighting.

7. 可进入高三以来，她的物理和化学两门功课遇到瓶颈，无论怎么努力都不见好转。看着年级里一匹匹黑马将自己超越，成绩不断下滑，她不堪忍受，不惜自我了断。

7. Since entering senior three, she has encountered a bottleneck in her physics and chemistry courses, and no matter how hard she tries, there is no improvement. Watching as the black horses in her class surpass her one by one, her grades continuously decline, she couldn't bear it any longer and was willing to resort to self-harm.

8. 34很多崩溃其实都发生在安静里，你坐在那里一动不动，内心世界却已经坍塌粉碎，一地狼藉。

8. Many collapses actually occur in the silence. You sit there motionless, but the inner world has already collapsed and shattered, leaving a mess everywhere.

9. 10天40年=400天=13个月零10天，这些就是你整整40年间和父母呆在一起的日子。

9. 10 days in 40 years equals 400 days, which is equivalent to 13 months and 10 days. These are the days you spent with your parents throughout the entire 40 years.

10. 23最适合你的颜色，才是世界上最美的颜色。

10. The color that suits you best on the 23rd is the most beautiful color in the world.

11. 4世界上最美妙的莫过于此，在不谙世事的年纪，对生活的全部期待就是绚烂的理想本身。

11.4 The most wonderful thing in the world is this: at the age of innocence, all the expectations of life are the radiant ideal itself.

12. 16冷漠的思念，只是一个人的思念，等来一个人的错，错过一个人的懂，来世的温柔，今生的风景，爱梦的年华，孤独一个人的读懂，分了一时的泪。

12. 16 Indifferent longing, just a person's longing, waiting for a person's mistake, missing a person's understanding, the tenderness of the next life, the scenery of this life, the years of love dreams, a lonely person's understanding, shed tears for a moment.

13. 47可能是伤的太深了，此刻连重新爱上一个人的勇气都没有了。

13. 47 might have been hurt too deeply, and at this moment, even the courage to fall in love with someone new is gone.

14. 莫言上中学的时候，因为家里贫穷，父亲就到城里中学的食堂捡剩馒头养猪。莫言不愿意在同学面前承认父亲，他觉得贫穷是他命运的缺陷，让他抬不起头。

14. When Mo Yan was in middle school, because his family was poor, his father went to the canteen of the city middle school to pick up leftover mantou (steamed buns) to raise pigs. Mo Yan was unwilling to admit his father in front of his classmates, as he felt that poverty was a flaw in his destiny, making him unable to hold his head up.

15. 20奈何桥上的最终一次回眸，把对红尘的最终一丝留恋化成那苍白双颊的两行清泪。泪入孟婆汤，驻首三生石，前世今生，重重轮回浮现眼前，千世的冰封，万年的孤寂，那一刻全部回归于寂静。奈何前世的离别，奈何今生的相见，奈何来世的重逢。浮生若梦，百折千回！

15. The final glance on the Bridge of Despair turned the last thread of attachment to the mortal world into two streaks of clear tears on the pale cheeks. The tears merged into the Soup of forgetfulness, and stopping at the Stone of Three Lives, past and present, and countless reincarnations appeared before my eyes. A thousand years of ice and a million years of loneliness all returned to silence. Alas, the parting in a past life, the meeting in this life, and the reunion in the next life. Life is like a dream, winding through a thousand twists and turns!

16. 8别想太多，那些爱过的，正爱的，哭过的，笑过的，毕竟都是生活。在经历中成长，在成长中成熟。挫折，沧桑，何尝不是一笔财富？

16. Don't overthink it; those who have loved, are loving, have cried, and have laughed, are all part of life. Grow through experiences, and mature through growth. Are setbacks and vicissitudes not a form of wealth?

17. 3那些比你强大的人都在努力你有神马资格懦弱！

17. 3 Those who are stronger than you are all working hard, what资格 do you have to be weak!

18. 58当你全力以赴，打算对一个人好的时候。你就变成了傻子，聋子，眼里除了他，什么都没有。就连伤害，都变成了一场爱情的检测。你还傻不兮兮的鼓励自己，要坚强！

18. 58 When you give your all to make someone happy, you become a fool, a deaf person, and with your eyes, there's nothing else but him. Even hurt becomes a test of love. And you still foolishly encourage yourself, to be strong!

19. 接受平凡并享受平凡，是绝大多数人最好的生活。三餐丰实，四季欢喜，烟火璀璨，岁月静好。

19. Accepting the ordinary and enjoying it is the best life for the majority of people. Three meals are abundant, the four seasons are joyful, the fireworks are brilliant, and the years pass quietly.

20. 7有的人该忘就忘了吧，所谓的念念不忘，在自我眼里，是爱，在对方眼里，是烦，在别人眼里是贱。

20. 7 Some things should be forgotten as they are. What is often said to be 'not forgetting' is, in one's own eyes, love; in the other person's eyes, it is annoying; and in others' eyes, it is despicable.

21. 当你觉得一路迷茫、努力无果的时候，也许是这条路不适合你。选择另一条路，刷新自己，可能重获新生。

21. When you feel lost along the way and your efforts yield no results, it may be that this path is not suited for you. Choose another road, refresh yourself, and you might be reborn.

22. 2愿你学会释怀后一身轻，愿你无悔亦无惧，安度余生。

22. 2 May you learn to let go and feel light, may you have no regrets and no fears, and may you live the rest of your life in peace.

23. 50你最终把我逼到了这种地步，不再为失去你而哭泣，听到你所有消息生疏有礼。

23. 50 You have finally pushed me to this point, no longer crying over losing you, and treating all your news with familiarity and decorum.

24. 【2】与努力无果的自己和解

24. 【2】Make peace with the self who has tried hard but achieved nothing.

25. 15遇到了就应当感恩，走过了就需要释怀。人生之路，不会笔直向前的，总有崎岖泥泞，总有坎坷艰辛；我们前进的方向不会永远是正确的，总会做一些错事，总会走一些弯道。

25. When you encounter it, you should be grateful; when you've gone through it, you need to let it go. In the journey of life, the path will never be straight ahead; there will always be twists and turns, and there will always be difficulties and hardships. Our direction of progress will not always be correct; we will always make some mistakes and take some detours.

26. 44生命给予我们的，不是那些艰难，而是成长，是学会举重若轻，是将以往无法释怀的那些过往，统统放下。

26. What life gives us is not the hardships, but growth, the ability to handle heavy things with ease, and to let go of all those past experiences that we couldn't bear.

27. 25你要想肆意放纵人生，就要先学会收敛，自律和克制，从控制熬夜争取早起，到控制食欲减轻体重，到控制各种不甘心，嫉妒心得失心等莫名其妙的妄念，都是一种尊重事实，遵循理智的成熟态度。

27. 25 If you want to live life carelessly and indulgently, you must first learn to be reserved, disciplined, and self-controlled. This includes controlling late nights to strive for early mornings, controlling your appetite to lose weight, and controlling various ungratified, envious, and possessive thoughts, which are all manifestations of a mature attitude that respects facts and follows reason.

28. 44该来的来过，该走的都走了。我不是不想留住你，只是一切都太晚了。

28. The ones that were meant to come have come and the ones that were meant to go have left. It's not that I didn't want to keep you, it's just that everything is too late now.

29. 今年的春节在一场没有硝烟的战斗中悄然走过，

29. This year's Spring Festival has quietly passed away in a battle without smoke and fire.

30. 47时间把一些人带来，又让他们以各种方式离开，大概就是为了以疼痛教会我们看开，习惯，释怀。

30. Time brings some people into our lives and allows them to leave in various ways, perhaps just to teach us to let go, get used to it, and let it go with ease through pain.

31. 32不让无穷的欲念攫取己心，”够用就好”也是不错的生活态度。

31. 32 Let not the endless desires seize your heart, 'Just enough is good enough' is also a good attitude towards life.

32. 14有的人该忘就忘了吧，所谓的念念不忘，在自我眼里，是爱，在对方眼里，是烦，在别人眼里是贱。

32. 14 Some things should be forgotten as they are. What is often called "memorizing and not forgetting" is love in one's own eyes, irritation in the other person's eyes, and despicable in others' eyes.

33. 即使不得不被迫接受自己是个普通人的事实，也依旧面对真相，紧握梦想，勇敢地追求更好的自己。

33. Even if one has to be forced to accept the fact that they are an ordinary person, still face the truth, hold on to dreams, and bravely pursue a better version of oneself.

34. 1以前我以为我的矜持能让你感动可是我错了你压根不会感动也不会重视我的存在。

34. 1 Before, I thought my modesty could move you, but I was wrong. You're not moved by it at all, and you don't value my presence.

35. 54没有一种挫折是伴着微笑而来的，但有一些挫折却能够在微笑中被征服。有人穷尽一生都无法从挫折的阴影中走出来，那是他们忘了：要用一颗平静的心去微笑。

35. Not every setback comes with a smile, but some setbacks can be conquered within a smile. Some people spend their entire lives unable to emerge from the shadows of setbacks, because they forget: one needs to smile with a peaceful heart.

36. 23有时候，一点微不足道的肯定，对我却意义非凡。

36. Sometimes, a tiny bit of insignificant affirmation means a great deal to me.

37. 6爱情不是轰轰烈烈的誓言，而是能够经得起平淡的流年。

37. 6 Love is not a passionate vow, but the ability to endure the mundane passage of time.

38. 每个人都是被上帝咬过一口的苹果，如果你的缺陷很大，那是因为上帝特别喜欢你的芬芳。

38. Everyone is an apple bitten by God; if your defects are large, it's because God particularly likes the fragrance of your sweetness.

39. 7曾牵过的手，承诺以后，在记忆中永垂不朽。

39. 7 Hands that once held, promises made, forever etched in memory.

40. 26时间不是用来冲淡一切，而是让我们找到答案。

40. 26 Time is not meant to dilute everything but to help us find the answers.

41. 29往事浓淡，色如清，已轻。经年悲喜，净如镜，已静。

41. The past, with its light and heavy shades, is as clear as it is faint. The years of joy and sorrow have become as pure as a mirror, now tranquil.

42. 15纷繁的离绪，烦乱的交杂，没有了你的导航，我注定会迷失在这雨季。

42. Amidst the tangled strands of farewell, the chaotic mingling of emotions, without your guidance, I am doomed to lose my way in this rainy season.

43. 10我陷的比你早，你爱的比我少，所以我注定煎熬。

43. I fell into it earlier than you, and I loved it less than you, so I was destined to suffer.

44. 假如父母再活40年，假如自己平均每年回家两次，每次五天，计算得出

44. Assuming that the parents will live another 40 years and that on average I return home twice a year, staying for five days each time, the calculation results in...

45. 周国平说：人生有三次成长，一是认识到自己不是世界中心的时候，二是发现自己无论怎么努力总是无能为力的时候，三是接受平凡并享受平凡的时候。

45. Zhou Guoping said: There are three stages of growth in life. One is when you realize that you are not the center of the world. Two is when you find that no matter how hard you try, you are always helpless. Three is when you accept mediocrity and enjoy it.

46. 25所谓释怀，是淡然地回首着过往，所谓放开，是叙说着以往的伤感。

46. As for letting go, it means looking back on the past with a calm demeanor; as for releasing, it means recounting the sorrow of the past.

47. 38时间真好，验证了人心，见证了人性。懂得了真的。明白了假的，没有解不开的难题。仅有解不开的心绪。没有过不去的经历。仅有走不出的自我。一开始你总是担心会失去谁。可你却忘了问，又有谁会害怕失去我。

47. 38 What a good time it is, it verifies the hearts, and witnesses human nature. We understand the true, and comprehend the false. There are no unsolvable problems, only unresolved emotions. There are no experiences that cannot be overcome. Only a self that cannot be escaped. At first, you always worry about losing someone. But you forgot to ask, who else would be afraid of losing me.