1. 一个人想活得更自在，更成功，更幸福，就要修炼自己的格局。格局大了，境界高了，消耗自己的事情就少了。

1. To live more comfortably, successfully, and happily, one must cultivate their own perspective. When the perspective broadens and the realm deepens, there will be fewer things that consume oneself.

2. 成熟，就是某一个突如其来的时刻，把你的骄傲狠狠的踩到地上，任其开成花或者烂成泥。

2. Maturity is that moment when something suddenly brings your pride down to the ground, allowing it to either bloom into flowers or rot into mud.

3. 3她们都是你漫漫长路上，只配错过的好姑娘——韩寒《后会无期》

3.3 They are all good girls who are only destined to be missed on your long journey — Han Han, "After the Departure"

4. 永远不与任何人包括对你最不友好的人纠缠。你搞你的人际纠纷，我忙我的业务工作。

4. Never get entangled with anyone, including the most unfriendly person to you. You deal with your interpersonal disputes, and I'll be busy with my business work.

5. 人们在批评的筛子里寻找一切奥秘。--英国诗人 史文朋

5. People seek all mysteries through the sieve of criticism. -- British poet Swinburne

6. 不要向朋友借钱。本人觉得很多的时候都是因为钱这个东西失去了很好的朋友。

6. Don't borrow money from friends. I think many times it's this thing called money that leads to the loss of good friends.

7. 有人以为，格局是大开大合的手段，却不知真正的格局皆体现在细微之间。

7. Some people believe that grandeur is achieved through grand gestures, yet they fail to realize that true grandeur is actually reflected in the details.

8. 失败是坚忍的最后考验。 俾斯麦

8. Failure is the final test of endurance. - Bismarck

9. 欲成大树，莫与草争。将军有剑，不斩苍蝇。

9. If you wish to grow into a mighty tree, do not quarrel with the grass. A general has a sword, but does not use it to cut flies.

10. 2你是我的sunshine，是我想拒绝也拒绝不了的阳光——顾漫《何以笙箫默》

10. 2 You are my sunshine, the sunshine I can't refuse even if I want to—Gu Man, "How Are You, Xiao Xiao Mo"

11. 待人不傲气，傲气的人脱离群众，群众也会抛弃他。

11. Be humble in dealing with others. People with an air of arrogance tend to alienate the masses, and the masses may also abandon them.

12. 北宋宰相吕蒙正出身贫寒，曾作《寒窑赋》慨叹命运诡谲。

12. The prime minister of the Northern Song Dynasty, Lü Mengzheng, came from a poor background and once wrote the "Biography of a Cold Kiln" to express his sorrow over the capriciousness of fate.

13. 5你不知，在你转身错落的那个轮回间，我已万劫不复——fresh 果果《花千骨》

13. 5 You did not know that in the fleeting moment of your turn, I have already fallen into an irreversible fate —— Fresh Guoguo, "The Journey of Flower to Bone"

14. 小过不苛责，否则你永远得不到别人的支持和帮衬。

14. Don't be too harsh on minor faults; otherwise, you'll never gain others' support and assistance.

15. 你快乐还是不快乐，与你拥有什么、你是谁、你在哪、以及你在做什么都没有直接的关系，它只与你在想什么有关。卡耐基

15. Whether you are happy or not has nothing to do with what you possess, who you are, where you are, or what you are doing. It only has to do with what you are thinking. Carnegie

16. 行动是治愈恐惧的良药，而犹豫、拖延将不断滋养恐惧。

16. Action is the best medicine to cure fear, while hesitation and procrastination will constantly nourish it.

17. 面对失败和挫折，一笑而过是一种乐观自信，然后重整旗鼓，这是一种勇气。

17. Facing failure and setbacks, a smile is a form of optimism and confidence, and then to rally and regroup is a kind of courage.

18. 修炼格局，共勉。

18. Cultivate your temperament and inspire each other.

19. 君子与君子以同道为朋；小人与小人以同利为朋。

19. A gentleman befriends another gentleman who shares the same principles; a small person befriends another small person who shares the same interests.

20. 一次，上朝的路上，一位官员故意在他身后嘀咕：“曾经住寒窑洞子的乞丐，也配骑在我们头上！”

20. On one occasion, while on his way to court, an official deliberately whispered behind him, "Even a beggar who once lived in a cold cave is fit to ride on top of us!"

21. 在各种艺术日臻完美的同时，批评艺术也在以同样的速度发展著伯克

21. As various arts are reaching a state of perfection, the art of criticism is also developing at the same pace, according to Burke.

22. 别把生活想的太难，人生的路有爱护航，心中有爱，满世界皆是风景。只是我一直在摸脚探路，努力想走出属于自己的足迹，这一路却走的孤单影只特别懵懂，常常在梦里才能出现自己梦寐以求的情景，有一双温暖的手把我牵引，携手并行风雨同路。

22. Don't make life seem too difficult. Life's path is guided by love, and with love in one's heart, the whole world is a sight to behold. But I have been feeling my way forward, striving to leave my own footprint, and this journey has been particularly lonely and bewildering, often finding myself in the dreams to experience the scenarios I have always dreamt of, with a pair of warm hands guiding me, walking hand in hand through storms and sharing the same road.

23. 不急于表现自己，也不急于纠正旁人，再听一听，再看一看，再琢磨琢磨。经验很多时候是人们对错误的称呼。

23. Do not be in a hurry to show off or correct others. Listen more, look more, and ponder more. Experience is often people's name for mistakes.

24. 蒙住自己的眼睛，并不等于世界就漆黑一团了；蒙住别人的眼睛，并不等于光明就属于自己的了。

24. Blindfolding one's own eyes does not mean the world becomes pitch black; blindfolding someone else's eyes does not mean that the light belongs to oneself.

25. 我们的痛苦，多是来自攀比和计较。花无百日红，人无千般好，你突出了某样，必欠缺了另样，无须凡事攀高、苛责求全，别因得失而扭曲，因成败而颓废，终是苦了身心、迷了灵魂。人是活给自己看的，过去的皆坦然，没来的少瞎想，缓步有益平衡，疾进多添浮躁，只要心态平和，路走稳了，一切才会安然无恙。

25. Much of our suffering comes from comparison and meticulousness. Flowers can't remain in bloom for a hundred days, and people can't be perfect in a thousand ways. If you emphasize one aspect, you must be lacking in another. There's no need to always strive for the highest and demand perfection. Don't distort your perspective due to gains and losses, or become despondent over successes and failures. In the end, you'll only suffer physically and spiritually, and confuse your soul. People live for themselves. Past events should be faced with composure, anticipating the future with minimal concern. A leisurely pace is beneficial for balance, while a hurried pace adds restlessness. As long as your mindset is calm and you walk steadily, everything will be fine.

26. 格局小的人，才会耿耿于怀，睚眦必报，折腾到底。结果赢了不光荣，输了不体面。

26. Only people with a narrow mindset would bear a grudge, seek revenge at every opportunity, and struggle to the end. The result is that winning is not glorious, and losing is not dignified.

27. 世界上最难忘记的两件事，一是遇见，二是忘记。

27. The two hardest things to forget in the world are meeting and forgetting.

28. 真正厉害的人，不把别人不当事，不把自己太当事。别人混得差，也许只是时运不好。自己混得好，也许只是你所处的位置好，并不是因为你比别人优秀。

28. Truly formidable individuals do not take others lightly, nor do they overestimate themselves. If someone is doing poorly, it might just be bad luck. If someone is doing well, it might just be because of their advantageous position, not necessarily because they are superior to others.

29. 11喜怒形于色是需要资本的——八月长安《你好，旧时光》

29. Showing joy and anger on one's face requires capital — from August Chang's "Hello, Old Times".

30. 时间告诉我，无理取闹的年龄过了，该懂事了。

30. Time has taught me that the age for making a fuss without reason is over, and it's time to grow up.

31. 最枯燥无味的作品也无法抵挡批评家找出它迷人之处的决心哈罗德罗森堡

31. The dullest work cannot withstand the critic's determination to find its charm - Harold Rosenberg.

32. 1感情原来是这么脆弱的。经得起风雨，却经不起平凡…——张爱玲《一别一辈子》

32. 1 Emotions are originally so fragile. They can withstand storms and rains, but not the ordinary... —Zhang Ailing, "One Farewell, a Lifetime"

33. 吕蒙正说，我要推行新政，整顿边防，疏通漕运，多少大事等着我做，哪有心思管那位官员的刁难呢。

33. Lü Mengzheng said, "I have to implement new policies, reinforce the frontier defense, and unblock the grain transport. There are so many important matters awaiting my attention, how could I have the energy to worry about that official's harassment?"

34. 7我不在意你曾堕落，我只在意你是否会崛起——林肯

34. 7 I don't care about your past fall, I only care whether you will rise again — Lincoln

35. 北宋欧阳修编五代史的时候，写到后唐庄宗李存勖的故事。

35. When Ouyang Xiu of the Northern Song Dynasty was compiling the history of the Five Dynasties, he wrote about the story of Emperor Zhuangzong Li Cunxu of the Later Tang Dynasty.

36. 对事不对人；或对事无情，对人要有情；或做人第一，做事其次。

36. Treat the matter, not the person; or be indifferent to the matter but compassionate to the person; or prioritize being a good person over doing things.

37. 生命这样短，如果说，花开，是一种落泪的幸福，那么，花落，应该是一种惆怅的感动。既知春去，会有春回，又何必执着于那些虚妄的等待？既知流年逝去，不能往返，又何必抓住记忆中那一小段残缺的影子，而辜负眼下以及以后那大段的美好时光？

37. Life is so short. If the blooming of flowers is a kind of happiness that brings tears, then the falling of flowers should be a kind of melancholic touch. Knowing that spring will come and go, why be obsessed with those vain expectations? Knowing that the years pass by and cannot be reversed, why cling to that small, incomplete shadow in memory and miss out on the vast stretches of beautiful time right now and in the future?

38. 小事不纠缠，否则你永远走不出生活的鸡毛蒜皮。

38. Don't dwell on trivial matters; otherwise, you'll never escape the mundane details of life.

39. 只有启程才会到达理想和目的地，只有播种才会有收获。只有追求，才会品味堂堂正正的做人，只有保留一份单纯，才会多些人生的快乐!

39. Only by setting out can one reach one's ideal and destination, and only by sowing can there be a harvest. Only by pursuing can one truly taste the dignity of being a person, and only by retaining a bit of simplicity can one have more happiness in life!

40. 破裂的友谊虽然能恢复，但却再也达不到亲密无间的程度了。

40. Although a fractured friendship can be restored, it can never reach the intimate closeness it once had.

41. 书堆得太多，不知道要看哪本，那就从第一本开始看起；压在身上的事情太多，不知道要做哪件，那就从第一件开始做起；想去的地方太多，不知道要去哪里，那就从地图上的第一站开始出发。很多时候，我们想得太多却做得太少。人生不留遗憾，现在就要出发。

41. There are too many books piled up, and I don't know which one to read, so start with the first one; there are too many things pressing on me, and I don't know which one to do, so start with the first one; there are too many places I want to go to, and I don't know where to start, so set off from the first stop on the map. Often, we think too much and do too little. Life should not leave regrets, so let's set out now.

42. 人生这部大戏，一旦拉开序幕，不管你如何怯场，都得演到戏的结尾。戏中我们爱犯一个错误，就是总把希望寄予明天，却常常错过了今天。过去不会重来，未来无法预知，我们唯一可做的，就是不要让今天成为明天的遗憾。人生没有预演，我们迈出的每一步都应是弥足珍贵。

42. This grand play of life, once the curtain is raised, must be acted to its conclusion regardless of how nervous you may be. In the play, we often make a mistake by always placing our hopes on tomorrow, yet we often miss out on today. The past cannot be revisited, and the future cannot be predicted. The only thing we can do is to ensure that today does not become a regret for tomorrow. Life has no rehearsal, and every step we take should be cherished.

43. 九牛一毫莫自夸，骄傲自满必翻车。历览古今多少事，成由谦逊败由奢。陈毅

43. Do not boast about one hair among the nine oxes; pride and complacency are bound to turn into a disaster. Throughout history, countless events have shown that success comes from modesty and failure from extravagance. — Chen Yi

44. 格局大了，有些事就不是事，不会在你心头激起涟漪，更不会伤害到你。

44. When the scope broadens, some things aren't a big deal; they won't stir ripples in your heart, nor will they hurt you.

45. 莫找借口失败，只找理由成功。(不为失败找理由，要为成功找方法)

45. Don't find excuses for failure, only reasons for success. (Don't make excuses for failure, but seek methods for success.)

46. 曾国藩说：“成大事者，首重格局。”

46. Zeng Guofan said, "The one who achieves great things attaches the greatest importance to the overall layout."

47. 何必向不值得的人证明什么，生活得更好，乃是为你自己。

47. Why bother proving anything to someone who isn't worth it? Living a better life is for yourself.

48. 恕字，从构形来看，心上一个如字，意即如果能宽恕别人，内心就能从容自如，安定平和。

48. The character "恕" (shù), from its structure, has the heart radical on top with the character "如" (rú), meaning that if one can forgive others, their inner heart will be at ease and peaceful.

49. 榕树上的八哥在讲，只讲不听，结果乱成一团。学会聆听。

49. The mynah on the banyan tree is talking, but only talking and not listening, which results in chaos. Learn to listen.

50. 孔子答：“恕！己所不欲，勿施于人。”

50. Confucius replied: "Reconciliation! Do not do to others what you would not have them do to you."

51. 看过这么一幅漫画。

51. Seen such a cartoon.

52. 大多数人想要改造这个世界，但却罕有人想改造自己。

52. Most people want to transform the world, but few are willing to transform themselves.

53. 过去属于死神，未来属于你自己。 雪莱

53. The past belongs to the grim reaper, the future belongs to yourself. - Shelley

54. 沉沉的黑夜都是白天的前奏。 郭小川

54. The deep and dark night is the prelude to the day. Guo Xiaochuan

55. 江海把自己放在很低的位置，才会有涓涓细流不断汇集，成就自己的汪洋恣肆，仪态万方。

55. Jiang Hai puts himself in a very low position, and only then will the gentle streams continuously converge, forming his boundless ocean and his multifaceted demeanor.

56. 希望是附丽于存在的，有存在，便有希望，有希望，便是光明。 鲁迅

56. Hope is attached to existence; where there is existence, there is hope; and where there is hope, there is light. — Lu Xun

57. 除非你力战过伤悲和恐惧，承受过让你梦想破灭的年代，因剧烈欲望而受伤，因冲突倾轧而疲惫不堪，孩子啊，你不算真正的活过，这就是人生。只要走出第一步，下一步就变得不太难。理解的前题是爱，但基于爱的思维，也要有度，不能以爱的名义把自己的想法强加于人。

57. Unless you have fought through sorrow and fear, endured the years that shattered your dreams, been wounded by intense desires, and exhausted by conflicts and strife, child, you have not truly lived, and this is life. As long as you take the first step, the next one becomes less difficult. Love is the premise for understanding, but even with a mindset based on love, there must be limits; you cannot impose your thoughts on others in the name of love.

58. 自满、自高自大和轻信，是人生的三大暗礁。巴尔扎克

58. Complacency, arrogance, and credulity are the three great hazards of life. Balzac

59. 所有的胜利，与征服自己的胜利比起来，都是微不足道。所有的失败，与失去自己的失败比起来，更是微不足道

59. All victories, when compared to the victory over oneself, are trivial. All failures, when compared to the failure of losing oneself, are even more trivial.

60. 后来他平步青云，位列宰相，有一些官员非常嫉妒和不屑。

60. Later on, he rose rapidly in his career and became a prime minister, which caused some officials to feel extremely jealous and look down upon him.

61. 如果你在表演或者是讲演的时候，如果只要有一个人在听也要用心地继续下去，即使没有人喝采也要演，因为这是你成功的道路，是你成功的摇篮，你不要看他人成功，而是要你成功。

61. If you are performing or giving a speech, if there is even one person listening, you should continue with dedication. Even if no one is cheering, you should perform because this is your path to success, it is the cradle of your success. Do not look at others' success, but rather strive for your own success.

62. 不随便拒绝人，也不随便答应人。不许愿，不吊人家胃口，不在无谓的事情上炫耀自己的实力。

62. Do not reject people casually, nor do so with an agreement. Do not make promises, do not tantalize others, and do not炫耀 your abilities on trivial matters.

63. 失败对我们是有好处的，我们得祝福灾难，我们是灾难之子。 罗曼罗兰

63. Failure is beneficial to us; we must bless disaster, for we are the sons of disaster. — Romain Rolland

64. 不责人小过，委婉地指出他的不足，善意地引导他变得更好，这样才能激发别人的热情和好感，更有利于把事情做好。

64. Not to find fault with others' minor mistakes, but to delicately point out their shortcomings and kindly guide them to become better. This way, you can ignite others' enthusiasm and goodwill, which is more conducive to accomplishing tasks well.

65. 欧阳修在文章最后总结：“满招损，谦受益。”

65. Ouyang Xiu summarized in the article at the end: "Arrogance brings loss, while modesty brings benefit."

66. 心理技巧：怎样批评才最有效1、找旁边没人的时候；

66. Psychological Techniques: How to Criticize Effectively 1. Choose a time when there's no one else around.

67. 人生就是这样，想要拥有却不能够拥有，或许会使人们自暴自弃。确实失去，就要越坚强，过去的事就让它过去，无法挽回过去。就让我们坚强起来，失去了一个人，至少还有其他人，不会让我们觉得寂寞的!

67. Life is like this, wanting to possess but unable to, it may make people despair. Indeed, if we lose something, we should become stronger; let the past be in the past, as the past cannot be retrieved. Let us become strong, losing one person, at least there are others, who won't make us feel lonely!

68. 一个人的心灵隐藏在他的作品中，批评却把它拉到亮处--伊本加比洛尔

68. The soul of a person is hidden in their works, but criticism brings it to the light -- Ibn Kabbalir.

69. 生活中很多人，严于律人，宽于律己。自己犯错了，想着打圆场，找理由，推责任。而别人犯错了，却横加指责，甚至站在道德制高点上进行刁难。

69. Many people in life are strict with others but lenient with themselves. When they make mistakes, they think of making excuses, finding reasons, and shifting the blame. However, when others make mistakes, they harshly criticize them and even use moral high ground to be difficult.

70. 暗中劝戒你的朋友，一定要在大庭广众中称赞你的朋友。

70.悄悄地劝告你的朋友，一定要在大庭广众中称赞你的朋友.

71. 不为一兵一卒斤斤计较，不为一时成败纠结难平，不为纷繁琐事纠缠不清，不为他人的小过错勃然大怒，不表现出自己的骄傲和轻狂。

71. Not to be overly concerned about every soldier and every soldier, not to be entangled in temporary successes and failures, not to be entangled in trivial matters, not to be suddenly angry over others' minor mistakes, and not to show off one's pride and arrogance.

72. 事后有人向他报告那名官员的名字，让吕蒙正留意并伺机惩处他。

72. Afterward, someone reported the name of the official to him, instructing Lü Mengzheng to be vigilant and seek an opportunity to punish him.

73. 害虫叮人不是出于恶意，而是因为它们要维持生命。批评家也一样他们需要我们的血而不是痛苦--德国哲学家 尼采

73. Insects bite people not out of malice, but because they need to sustain their lives. Critics are the same: they need our blood not our pain -- German philosopher Nietzsche.

74. 9来到这个世界上，即使是天使都会做坏事——《东京食尸鬼》

74. 9 Even an angel can do bad things when they come to this world——《Tokyo Ghoul》

75. 待人不傲气，是涵养，也是智慧。

75. Treating others without arrogance is both cultivation and wisdom.

76. 李存勖少有壮志，能力过人。在即位之后，灭后梁，杀燕王，败契丹，把国家带到巅峰。

76. Li Cunxu had a strong ambition from a young age and possessed extraordinary abilities. After ascending the throne, he defeated the Later Liang, killed the Yan King, defeated the Khitans, and brought the country to its peak.

77. 不去惦记得失，不去顾虑成败，面对生活，从容、镇静，无论结果如何，笑脸相迎，乐观对待，即使，前途渺茫，道路曲折，依然坚信，路，就在脚下。人生，所有的一切，就是破解，就是明了。奋斗，就是一种证明，告诉我们前行，不惧生活的艰辛，相信，你能。

77. Not to dwell on gains or losses, not to worry about success or failure, facing life with composure and calmness, no matter the outcome, smiling and welcoming it with optimism. Even if the future seems distant and the path winding, still firmly believe that the road is right beneath our feet. Life, everything, is about unraveling and understanding. Striving is a form of proof that tells us to move forward, not afraid of the hardships of life, believing that you can.

78. 站在楼下，看到垃圾满目。站在楼顶，所望风云万状。格局大了，你感受到的世界也就变了。

78. Standing on the ground floor, you see garbage everywhere. Standing on the rooftop, you see the clouds and winds in a myriad of shapes. When the perspective broadens, the world you perceive also changes.

79. 失败是什么没有什么，只是更走近成功一步;成功是什么就是走过了所有通向失败的路，只剩下一条路，那就是成功的路。

79. What is failure? It's nothing but a step closer to success; what is success? It is the path where all the roads leading to failure have been traversed, leaving only one path, the path to success.