抓牢这三个关键点，财富与福报双丰收！

Hold onto these three key points, and you will reap both wealth and blessings!

1. 尽管许多女孩都是会把这些要说甜言蜜语的男人归到“花心男”，可是大伙儿应该会发觉一个问题，是那些所说的花心男却通常可以得到女孩的欢心，因此在这种前提下如果您还在坚持不懈做一个钢铁直男，那么就咎由自取你没女朋友而只有做一个单身狗，实际上花言巧语并不难，只是你并没有认清这件事情，我们可以从女孩子的微小转变下手，还可以同她的新衣服、新挎包这些层面下手，怎么夸人其实并不难，就算你说的有点儿假，但是却仍然会使女孩内心非常开心。

1. Although many girls tend to categorize the men who say sweet words as "playboys," most people would notice a problem: those so-called playboys often win the favor of girls. Under this premise, if you are still stubbornly trying to be a "steel straight man," then you are only to blame for not having a girlfriend and being a bachelor. In fact, it's not hard to say sweet words; you just haven't recognized it. We can start with the subtle changes in girls, or even from aspects like her new clothes and new bags. Complimenting someone is actually not hard, and even if what you say is a bit exaggerated, it can still make the girl very happy in her heart.

2. 而对那些不会影响生活和发展的事，则彻底不理。它们不值得占用你的任何时间。

2. As for those things that will not affect life and development, they should be completely ignored. They are not worth occupying any of your time.

3. 人生就是要努力精进自己，做好这三件事，让自己赚到钱，得到越来越多的福报。

3. Life is about striving to improve oneself and doing these three things well, so that one can earn money and accumulate more and more blessings.

4. 你帮助的人越多，喜欢你的人就越多，你得到的机会就越多。

4. The more people you help, the more people will like you, and the more opportunities you will gain.

5. 英国作家王尔德说：“年轻的时候，我觉得钱很重要。现在我老了才知道，的确如此。”

5. The British writer Oscar Wilde once said, "When I was young, I thought money was important. Now that I'm old, I know it's true."

6. 做正确的事，你就不会被别人消耗，也不要内耗，你的能量就会越来越多，成长就会越来越顺。

6. Do the right thing, and you won't be drained by others, nor will you be internally consumed. Your energy will increase more and more, and your growth will become smoother and smoother.

7. 如果你混得不好，找不好命运破局的出口，那你就去帮助别人，去行善，尽力去帮助所有你遇见的人。

7. If you are not doing well, and cannot find a way to break through your bad fate, then go and help others, do good deeds, and do your best to help everyone you meet.

8. 正如电影《我不是药神》里说的，人世间最恐惧，最绝望的病，不是癌症，而是穷病。

8. As the movie "I Am Not a Drug God" says, the most terrifying and绝望 disease in the world is not cancer, but poverty.

9. 而你如果科学考察选址后，就在一个点上深挖。绝对聚焦，坚持不懈，绝不死心，那你一定能打出井水。退一步讲，即便没有井水，也一定会有矿。

9. And if you scientifically examine the site and then dig deeply at a single point, you must focus absolutely, persevere, and never give up. In that case, you are sure to strike water. To take it a step further, even if there is no water, there will definitely be minerals.

10. 赚钱不可耻，为赚钱做准备也不可耻。只要我们取之有道，有正确而合法的方式赚钱，我们就能够用金钱驾驭好自己的人生。

10. It is not shameful to make money, nor is it shameful to prepare for making money. As long as we obtain it in the right way, with proper and legal methods of earning money, we can manage our lives well with money.

11. 女怕三撩：当男人抓住了哪三个“软肋”，就不愁追不到她？

12. 生活中我们经常会见到一些相貌并不太好的男孩子却可以追上十分漂亮的**姐，在艳羡之外也许人们会揣摩是不是这个男人在其他层面有其他人所不如的可耐，实际上有些时候要想找到一个漂亮美女做女朋友并没想象中那么难，也并不一定做为漂亮美女的男朋友要有不凡的功能或优点，反而是必须走大门风水、找对门！

11. Women fear three flings: When a man manages to grasp which three "weak points," does he worry about not being able to win her over? 12. In life, we often see that some boys who are not particularly good-looking can still win the affection of very beautiful girls. Besides admiration, perhaps people speculate whether this man has some other qualities that others lack. In fact, sometimes finding a beautiful woman as a girlfriend is not as difficult as one might imagine, and it is not necessarily the case that to be the boyfriend of a beautiful woman requires extraordinary abilities or virtues. Instead, it is more about walking through the right door in terms of fortune-telling and finding the right person!

13. 极致的利他，就是最大的利己。

13. The ultimate form of altruism is the greatest form of self-interest.

14. 大家要是跟女孩子触碰的多，便会听见他们埋怨某某某男孩子的执行力差这些，实际上这说明女性针对男人的执行力十分重视，缘故要在他们来看，甜言蜜语的男人并不可靠，而明白行为来证明自己的男人往往是十分非常值得借助得人，因此只是会花言巧语可能你还不能影响她，可是用实际行动去说明你情意通常能让女孩对于你印象深刻乃至另眼相看。

14. If people interact a lot with girls, they will often hear them complain about some boy's poor execution. In fact, this shows that women attach great importance to men's execution ability. The reason is that, in their view, men who only say sweet words are not reliable, while those who prove themselves through actions are often very trustworthy. Therefore, mere words may not be enough to influence her, but demonstrating your affection through actions can usually leave a deep impression on girls, even making them look at you with favor.

15. 任何一个行业都能赚钱，前提是你必须成为行业的顶尖人才。做高端产业的人会发财，街头摆摊也能发财。高精尖的科技人才能发财，做寿司也能发财。关键是，你能不能绝对聚焦，你能不能把一件事做到极致，你能不能在这个领域成为顶尖级的存在。

15. Any industry can be profitable, provided that you must become the top talent in that industry. People in high-end industries can get rich, as can those who set up street stalls. High-tech professionals can get rich, and so can sushi chefs. The key is whether you can focus absolutely, whether you can take one thing to its ultimate level, and whether you can become a top-tier expert in that field.

16. 我们要把80%以上的时间和精力，都倾注在最正确、最关键、最有利于自己发展的事情上，用剩下的小部分精力去处理不得不解决的琐事。

16. We should devote more than 80% of our time and energy to the most correct, most critical, and most beneficial things for our own development, and use the remaining small portion of our energy to deal with the trivial matters that must be addressed.

17. 南怀瑾大师也说道：大家不要动不动就说，不要名不要利。名利本身不是什么坏事，关键是我们拿它来做什么，如果过多的名利，反而增加了自己的贪欲和傲慢，败坏了自身的德行修养，那是自己没有用好的缘故。

17. Master Nan Huairen also said: Don't be so quick to say that we should not seek fame or wealth. In themselves, fame and wealth are not bad things; the key is what we do with them. If an excessive pursuit of fame and wealth leads to increased greed and arrogance, and corrupts one's moral cultivation, then it is because one has not made good use of them.

18. 成年人最大的清醒，是谈钱。当你能赚钱的时候，世界是温柔的。当你一文不名，落魄潦倒的时候，世界是残忍的。

18. The greatest clarity for adults is talking about money. When you can make money, the world is gentle. When you are penniless and in despair, the world is cruel.

19. 针对一个男人来讲，在人生中有2件事是非常重要的，一件事便是挑选对的岗位，那样在挣钱层面就不容易感觉非常难受，此外一件事便是选好女性，但是针对泡妞这件事情是许多男人所不擅长的，我觉得要想把握住一个女人的心，女怕三撩：当男人把握住了这三个“弱点”，就不用愁追不到她！

19. For a man, there are two very important things in life. One is to choose the right job, so that one doesn't feel too uncomfortable in terms of making money. The other is to choose the right woman. However, when it comes to charming a woman, this is something many men are not good at. I believe that to win a woman's heart, women are afraid of three flirts: when a man masters these three "weaknesses," there is no need to worry about not being able to win her over!

20. 在我们的一生里，会遇到各种各样的事情。热爱的事，工作的事，生活的事，以及琐事、杂事、烂事、闲事，不一而足。

20. Throughout our lives, we encounter all sorts of things. There are things we are passionate about, things related to work, things related to life, as well as trivial matters, mundane tasks, unpleasant issues, and idle chatter, the list goes on and on.

21. 忘记自己，极致利他，大把大把的机会主动来找你。

21. Forget yourself, put others first to the utmost, and numerous opportunities will come to you actively.

22. 美国作家马克·吐温说：“只要专注于某一项事业，就一定会作出使自己感到吃惊的成绩来。”

22. The American writer Mark Twain said, "As long as one focuses on a certain endeavor, one is bound to achieve something that will surprise oneself."

23. 打一个比方，你是种苹果的，你给每个人送一个苹果。他们就会给你梨，给你桃子、李子、花生、葡萄、白菜。你会因此变得很富有。

23. To put it in a metaphor, you are a grower of apples, and you give an apple to everyone. In return, they will give you pears, peaches, plums, peanuts, grapes, and cabbages. You will become very wealthy because of this.

24. 人们总是说看待一个女人要用心，可是这类用心到底是什么意思，闪烁其辞之外让一些男性朋友一头雾水，实际上真心实意的看待一个女人是非常简单的，当她睡着的时候你了解给她铺盖着被褥，当她感冒发烧你能给她送感冒冲剂，看起来简单生活关键点却展现出她在你信目中的影响力，而其实就是这种关键点会使女孩知道你有多么的的用心在看待她，也就是这种一种心理状态能够获得女孩的认同。

24. People always say that one should look at a woman with sincerity, but what does this kind of sincerity really mean, leaving some male friends baffled with their ambiguous words. In fact, it is very simple to look at a woman sincerely. When she is sleeping, you know to cover her with blankets. When she has a cold or a fever, you can give her a cold medicine. These seemingly simple acts of life reveal her influence in your eyes. It is actually these key points that make the girl know how much sincerity you put into looking at her, and it is this kind of psychological state that can gain the girl's recognition.

25. 做事就像打井，如果你心浮气躁，急功近利，打一口井不见出水，又打另一口。坚持一阵子不见效果，又去打第三口。结果你打了很多井，但一无所成。

25. Doing things is like digging a well. If you are restless and eager for quick results, you may dig a well that does not yield water and then start another one. After a while, if you don't see any effect, you go on to dig a third one. In the end, you may have dug many wells, but achieve nothing.

26. 就算你什么都没有，但只要有一颗好心和一把力气，你可以去帮助很多人。比如，帮助王奶奶买菜，帮助赵阿姨推三轮车，帮助忙碌的邻居接送孩子。那么，王奶奶会帮你介绍工作，赵阿姨会叮嘱亲戚提携你，邻居会在你需要的时候出手相助。

26. Even if you have nothing, as long as you have a kind heart and a strong back, you can help many people. For example, you can help Grandmother Wang buy groceries, help Aunt Zhao push her tricycle, and help busy neighbors pick up and drop off their children. In return, Grandmother Wang will introduce you to a job, Aunt Zhao will urge her relatives to give you a hand, and your neighbors will lend a helping hand when you need it.