在纷繁复杂的世界中，善良并非对所有人适用，选择与谁共度温暖，才是生活的真谛。

In this complicated world, kindness is not applicable to everyone, and choosing who to share warmth with is the essence of life.

1. 真的，选择一个对的人很重要。我想念你的微笑，想念你的抱抱，而不是像现在这样，生活就是有太多的小事组成的。出现矛盾了，你都没有个态度

1. Truly, choosing the right person is very important. I miss your smile, I miss your hugs, not like now, life is composed of too many trivial things. When conflicts arise, you don't even have a stance.

2. 你一定很重要，因为我迷恋你的微笑你一定很温暖，因为我爱上你的名字。

2. You must be very important, because I'm obsessed with your smile; you must be very warm, because I've fallen in love with your name.

3. 别人都说我傻，只会一味付出，傻不可怕，只要自己过的幸福快乐就好，傻人有傻福

3. People say I'm silly, that I only know how to give. It's not可怕的 to be silly, as long as I live a happy and joyful life myself. Silly people have their own blessings.

4. 最近一直梦见你，听说你结婚了，真的恭喜，对我来说也是解脱。两年来，一直靠吃药控制自己，无数次告诉自己已经分开两年了。真的爱一个人，祝他幸福，不一定得到。不打扰就是最好的前任。

4. I've been dreaming about you recently, and I heard that you got married. Congratulations to you, it's truly a relief for me as well. For two years, I've been relying on medication to control myself, telling myself countless times that we've been apart for two years already. To truly love someone, wishing them happiness, it doesn't necessarily mean getting it. Not disturbing them is the best way to be an ex.

5. 余生希望有个疼我的人！ 是的，无论多爱他，他不主动宁愿错过爱情中主动的必须是男人！ 不主动就是不爱！不是吗？爱是控制不住的

5. I hope to have someone who cares for me in the rest of my life! Yes, no matter how much I love him, if he doesn't take the initiative, I would rather miss out on the proactive role in love, which must be taken by men! Not being proactive means not loving. Isn't that right? Love is uncontrollable.

6. 看过这么一则新闻。一个农村女孩大学毕业后，到杭州一家企业任职。

6. I've seen this news report. A rural girl, after graduating from university, took a job at a company in Hangzhou.

7. 妈妈，今天是我实习的第四天，早班，妈妈，今天看到路边的工人，让我想起了你，妈妈，做女儿的好失败，居然连你叫什么名字都忘了，只记得你的苗名了，妈妈，女儿不孝，好想你妈妈，一路走来，发现你才是那个很重要很重要的人，唯有父母家人才是最最最关心自己的人，妈妈，感觉爸爸老了很多，白头发也越来也多了，家里没人陪着他，好怕有些时候他生病了也没人知道啊！真的，我有点不想再继续读书了，在外面的我真的不放心，妈妈，有你在真好。

7. Mom, today is the fourth day of my internship, the early shift. Mom, today seeing the workers by the roadside reminded me of you. Mom, I feel so inadequate as a daughter, I even forgot your real name; all I remember is your nickname. Mom, I am truly ungrateful; I miss you so much. As I look back, I realize you are the most important person, the one who truly cares for me the most. Mom, I feel like Dad has aged so much, and he has more and more white hair. There's no one at home to accompany him, and I am so afraid that sometimes when he is sick, no one will even know about it! Honestly, I'm starting to feel that I don't want to keep studying anymore. I'm really not at ease being out there. Mom, it's so nice to have you by my side.

8. 不要刻意去猜测他人的想法，如果你没有智慧与经验的正确判断，通常都会有错误的。

8. Do not deliberately guess others' thoughts, as it is usually incorrect if you do not have the correct judgment from wisdom and experience.

9. 顾城在《玫瑰》中写道：

9. Guo Cheng wrote in "The Rose":

10. 所有人都关心你的数字，却从未问过你开不开心，我知道它很重要，但，那又怎样？

10. Everyone cares about your numbers, but no one has ever asked if you're happy. I know it's important, but what does that matter?

11. 在这个世界上说不出口的话太多了，你能不能陪我去，你能不能留下来，你能不能帮帮我你对我很重要，所以你可不可以不要走

11. There are too many things that can't be said in this world, can you come with me, can you stay, can you help me? You are very important to me, so can you please not leave?

12. 这种你不打扰我，我不打扰你的生活，什么时候才能结束，你能否回来啊，这段感情，让我深深明白如何去爱一个人，如何去维护一段感情，其实所有的一切，都是我的安全感，我的害怕在作祟，我害怕你不要我，害怕毕业后分手，害怕我们的异地恋，等等等等，一切一切的害怕，一切一切的问题我们又从来没有讨论过，让我非常没有安全感，我是一个认死理的人，不做没把握的事，认定一个人，一辈子就是这个人了，久而久之，我学会武装自己，不让自己的害怕外漏，还不敢面对这类的问题，因此，我的武装胜过了对你的爱，从而对你造成了如此大的伤害。非常抱歉，。不是都说，初恋是总结，懂得如何去爱，你是我的初恋，我不知道如何去谈恋爱。现在结束了，可我还是无法放手，我们能否重新开始，我的第二段感情呢。

12. When will this life of not disturbing each other come to an end, can you come back? This relationship has deeply taught me how to love someone, how to maintain a relationship. In fact, everything is driven by my sense of security and my fears. I'm afraid you won't want me, afraid of breaking up after graduation, afraid of our long-distance relationship, and so on and so forth. All these fears and problems have never been discussed, making me feel extremely insecure. I am a person who sticks to my principles and does not do things without a guarantee. Once I commit to someone, that person is for a lifetime. Over time, I've learned to arm myself, not to let my fears show, and I'm also afraid to confront these issues. Therefore, my armor has surpassed my love for you, causing you such great harm. I am very sorry. Isn't it said that a first love is a summary, understanding how to love? You are my first love, and I don't know how to have a relationship. Now it's over, but I still can't let go. Can we start over, make my second love happen?

13. 总之，善良有边界，真诚有对象，帮人有尺度，做人有脾气。不允许任何人，消耗和利用你珍贵的善良！

13. In summary, kindness has its limits, sincerity has its target, helping others has its measure, and being a person has their temperament. It is not allowed for anyone to consume and exploit your precious kindness!

14. 我消失了你也不知道我的存在；我落泪了你也看不到我的伤痕；我放弃了你也看不到我的付出；我沉默了你也听不到我的心声。我只是再也找不到理由打扰你，爱一个人有时候总有些悲哀。我等过你，用了我的青春年华，我爱过你，用最初最真的心。想你，但不打扰，静静的思念就好，把最后一点尊严留给自己。世界上，总是会有那么一个人，让我不眠不夜；总会有那么一个人，拼凑我的无奈；总会有那么一个人，牵痛着我的心；总会有那么一个人，使我无法忘怀。

14. If I disappear, you won't even know I exist; if I shed tears, you can't see my wounds; if I give up, you can't see my sacrifices; if I am silent, you can't hear my voice. I can no longer find a reason to disturb you. Sometimes, loving someone can be so sad. I have waited for you, using my youthful years; I have loved you, with the purest and truest heart. I miss you, but I won't disturb you; just quietly miss you is enough, and keep the last bit of dignity for myself. In the world, there will always be someone who keeps me awake at night; there will always be someone who puts together my helplessness; there will always be someone who wounds my heart; there will always be someone who I can't forget.

15. 给人提建议和开导一定要谨慎，这话我也说给自己听，谁能知道你在这之前是怎样的？我觉得很让我添堵的事情你让我想开点，你觉得屁大点事没必要动情绪，我反而因为对比觉得自己更加狭隘没气量。给人建议是很难的事情，想死的人你只要告诉他你对我很重要，你在我会更开心，就行。

15. Be cautious when giving advice and guidance, I say this to myself as well. Who knows what you were like before? I think what is a big deal to me, you tell me to look at it from a broader perspective, and you think it's trivial and not worth getting emotional about. But I feel even more narrow-minded and lacking in breadth when I compare. It's difficult to give advice; for someone who wants to die, you just need to tell them how important they are to you, that you would be happier with them, and that's enough.

16. 今夜想说三件事分别在不同的地方不是因为想的太多而是你对我很重要当然你也可以跟我距离产生美

16. Tonight, I want to talk about three things that are in different places, not because I think too much, but because you are very important to me. Of course, the distance between us can also create beauty.

17. 我的心不适合幸福，它破碎的太久根本就找不到可以契合的缝隙了。

17. My heart is not suited for happiness; it has been broken for too long, and it can no longer find a crevice that fits.

18. 诗人塞缪尔·约翰逊说：

18. The poet Samuel Johnson said:

19. 人心难测，人性看不透。相识容易，相处难，相知更难。做人善良，真诚就好，别太信任别人，对于别人说的话，要知道一半真一半假，学会保护自己

19. The hearts of people are difficult to fathom, and human nature is unseeable. It's easy to get to know someone, but hard to live with them, and even harder to truly understand them. Just be kind and sincere as a person, and don't trust others too much. When it comes to what others say, you should know that half is true and half is false, and learn to protect yourself.

20. 现实中，对于一般人，我们可以断舍离。但血肉至亲，就会让你无尽折磨，毕竟他们对你有太多恩情。我的观点是，哪怕是亲生父母，如果他们太不是人，无限度消耗你，你也要勇敢拒绝，你不是他们的附属品。

20. In reality, for most people, we can practice the art of decluttering and letting go. However, with our closest family members, it can be endlessly torturous, as they have done so much for you. My viewpoint is that even if it's your biological parents, if they are not treating you like a human being and are excessively draining you, you must courageously refuse. You are not a mere appendage to them.

21. 我们的记忆很短，短到昨天发生的事情，很多的都开始遗忘，但是只有爱情，爱一个人的那种心动和心痛，那种感觉仿佛一辈子都不会忘，只要你开心，哪怕身边的人不是我！因为你若安好，便不辜负我的不打扰！剩下的就交给时间吧！因为遇见就已经足够！！！

21. Our memories are short, so short that many things that happened yesterday are already starting to fade away. But love is different; the flutter and ache of loving someone, that feeling seems like it will never fade. As long as you are happy, it doesn't matter if the person beside me isn't me! Because if you are well, it's not a betrayal of my silence! The rest is left to time! Because just meeting you is enough!!!

22. 如果我在意你对我的看法那你一定对我很重要至于其它人怎么看我完全不重要因为你知道我不是那样。

22. If I care about what you think of me, then you must be very important to me. As for what others think of me, it's completely unimportant because you know I'm not that person.

23. 人生本来就没有相欠，别人对你付出，是因为别人喜欢，你对别人无悔付出，是因为自己甘愿。情出自愿，事过无悔。其实人生，就是一场路过：路过这个世界，走过这个岁月，生命的尽头，你还是一无所有！钱财是你的吗？你带不走！名利是你的吗？你捎不去！地位是你的吗？你留不住！

23. Life itself does not involve any debts. Others give to you because they like to, and you give to others without any regret because you are willing to. Love comes from willing hearts, and there is no regret after things are over. In fact, life is just a passing by: passing through this world, walking through these years, at the end of life, you are still nothing at all! Is wealth yours? You can't take it with you! Is fame and fortune yours? You can't carry it along! Is status yours? You can't hold on to it!

24. 有的人，该忘就忘了吧，人家不在乎你，又何必自作多情。

24. Some people, just let them go. They don't care about you, so why do you have to be overly sentimental?

25. 就算是两年我也忘不掉啊。让我祝福我真的做不到。让我看着你牵着别人的手渡过一生我做不到。我一点也不坚强一点也不成熟。我拒绝了所有人的情意只为了一个不确定的你。你对我很重要很重要失去你不如让我去死。还有4天。让我怎么熬以后的日子。

25. Even if it's two years, I can't forget it. I can't wish you well from the bottom of my heart. I can't bear to see you walking through life with someone else's hand. I'm not strong at all, and I'm not mature. I've rejected everyone's affection just for an uncertain you. You mean so much to me; losing you is like a death sentence. There are only 4 more days. How can I endure the days that come after?

26. 每个人每天面对各种事情，心情也可能不一样。但我们在工作中，保持微笑很重要，你的微笑是你赢得客户的第一张名片！亲，你说是吗？

26. Everyone faces various things every day, and their mood may also vary. However, in our work, maintaining a smile is very important; your smile is the first business card that wins over your customers! Honey, don't you think so?

27. 你不要在我的面前讲什么女人1。以要全都拿去慢慢响受把这是你的 爱号、没有人合以真你把女人当饭吃都可以

27. Don't say anything about women in front of me. As for everything, take it all and enjoy it slowly. This is your love, no one can truly understand it. You can even eat women as if they were food.

28. 做个平凡的女人，找个可靠的男人，寻找安稳的爱情。

28. Be an ordinary woman, find a reliable man, and seek stable love.

29. 我也许确实是外热内冷的人。不爱聊八卦，对别人隐私充满尊重，其实我只是不关心你罢了。所以有时我觉得别人告诉秘密也是一件奇怪的事。秘密说出来了还能叫秘密吗，再说了，你凭什么认为你的秘密对我很重要？有时候我把那些秘密，只是像垃圾一样丢在大脑里，你的那些秘密对我来说一文不值。

29. Maybe I really am someone who is warm on the outside and cold on the inside. I don't like to chat about gossip, and I have a deep respect for others' privacy, but the truth is, I just don't care about you. So sometimes I find it strange that people share their secrets. Can a secret still be called a secret once it's been said out loud? Besides, what makes you think your secret is important to me? Sometimes, I just throw those secrets into my brain like garbage, and your secrets are worth nothing to me.

30. 不要把别人对你的好，觉得是理所应当。别人对你好，关心你，包容你，是因为你在他心里很重要。当你不好好珍惜，不去懂得。慢慢一切会变，变成你最不想看到的样子。

30. Don't take others' kindness towards you for granted. Others are kind to you, care for you, and tolerate you because you are important to them in their hearts. When you don't cherish it and fail to understand it, everything will gradually change, turning into the worst image you don't want to see.

31. 狗咬人，咬生人。人咬人，咬熟人。狗咬生人为主人，人咬熟人为自己。人和狗的区别在于，狗永远是狗，而人有时候却不是人。你喂狗三天，狗记你三年。你对人好三年，一天不好他就翻脸。

31. Dogs bite strangers. Humans bite those they know. A dog biting a stranger is doing it for its owner, while a human biting someone they know is doing it for themselves. The difference between humans and dogs is that a dog will always be a dog, but a human sometimes is not a human. You feed a dog for three days, and it will remember you for three years. You treat a person well for three years, and if there's one day of bad treatment, they will turn against you.

32. 这就证明什么都靠不住，说来说去就只能靠自己，所以自己要好好珍惜自己，不然就吃亏了，死了都不直

32. This proves that nothing is reliable; in the end, one can only rely on themselves. Therefore, one should cherish oneself well, otherwise, they will suffer losses and even when they die, they won't have a straight face.

33. 结果，短短几年之后，她就被虐待致死。

33. As a result, within just a few years, she was cruelly beaten to death.

34. 打破对自己的迷思，觉察到人际关系中真正的互动，有能力去共情他人，这才是真正关系的开始。你把他人看成人，那一定不会感觉自己是工具。而真正的价值体验，才会真正发生。我的世界，因为你而不同。你对我很重要，而我感受到我也是你生命中重要的陪伴者。

34. Breaking through the illusion of oneself, perceiving the true interaction in interpersonal relationships, and being able to empathize with others, this is the beginning of a true relationship. If you view others as human beings, you will never feel like a tool. It is only through the true experience of value that it can truly happen. My world is different because of you. You are important to me, and I feel that I am also an important companion in your life.

35. 生活总会一次次的教会你一些事情，比如说你以为很重要的那个你相信能帮你解决问题的人，其实并不存在了，你曾经以为会很关心你的人，其实也并不存在了。

35. Life will always teach you something over and over again, such as the person you believed to be very important and who could help you solve your problems actually doesn't exist, and the person you thought would be very concerned about you also doesn't exist.

36. 有点生气你吃饭也不和我说话然后就噼里啪啦的一堆话然后你说：你对我很重要！看到后瞬间不知道怎么继续对你发脾气了

36. A little angry because you didn't talk to me while eating, then you poured out a bunch of words, and you said, "You're very important to me!" After seeing that, I instantly didn't know how to continue to be angry with you.

37. 爱一个人是需要付出的，而不是用自己的爱去束缚着她，所以不打扰你选择避开你的城市！知道你过的很好，只是不明白为什么你会放弃你一直以来的梦想。是为了当初你说的那个男人吗？不论如何，祝你幸福，好好的，永远的没心没肺下去，毕竟你是我认识的女孩中活得最快乐的最坚强的！这样的你我曾经爱的死去活来，可终究20xx年我差点死了，对你的爱对自己的恨永远的埋葬了

37. To love someone requires giving, not using one's love to bind them. Therefore, I won't disturb you by choosing to avoid your city! I know you're doing well, but I just don't understand why you would give up the dreams you've held onto all this time. Is it for the man you mentioned before? Regardless, I wish you happiness, to be well and carefree forever, as you are the happiest and strongest girl among all the girls I know! You and I once loved each other to the point of death, but ultimately, in 20xx, I almost died, and the love for you and the hate for myself were buried forever.

38. 千万别想着联系那些根本不想联系你的人太累朋友之前也会累更何况你在人家眼里连朋友都不算说到这里我有些扎心了，有这时间我还是联系那些无时无刻关心我的人吧毕竟他们觉得我很重要

38. Never even think about contacting those who have no intention of contacting you; it's too tiring. Even friends can get tired before you. Moreover, in their eyes, you're not even considered a friend. Talking about this really stings a bit. With this time, I might as well reach out to those who care about me at all times, as they truly think I am important.

39. 你对我很重要，可不能这样弄我。哥都快被你磨成粉了。要我哭给你看么？没有你，没看到我难过假如不重要我那样难受干嘛？没有你怕我这心病没法好了。

39. You are very important to me, but you shouldn't treat me like this. My brother is almost ground to powder by you. Should I cry for you? Without you, I can't see my sadness, and if it's not important, why should I feel that kind of pain? Without you, I'm afraid this mental illness of mine can't be cured.

40. 在宝宝听到巨响，比如鞭炮，不应该是捂着耳朵怕他吵着，而是冲他微笑，并与他交流，他在看到你的微笑时，知道这不可怕，你的微笑传递给他的信息很重要！

40. When the baby hears a loud noise, such as firecrackers, it should not be to cover his ears and be afraid of disturbing him, but to smile at him and communicate with him. When he sees your smile, he knows that it's not scary, and the message your smile conveys to him is very important!

41. 有时候，善良错付，只会让对方欲望膨胀，恶意滋生，把自己逼入绝境。

41. Sometimes, being kind is misplaced, which only causes the other person's desires to swell, malice to grow, and pushes oneself into a dead end.

42. 所以那个谁，你知道吗，虽然所有人都认为我们不可能，可我还是选择坚持我们的感情！

42. So that person, do you know, although everyone thinks it's impossible, I still choose to stick to our feelings!

43. 不管做什么，天时地利人和很重要，就如在看一本书，正到甜蜜处恰巧也有甜蜜的声音作为背景，加深你的微笑。

43. No matter what you do, the combination of favorable timing, geographical advantage, and harmonious people is very important. It's like reading a book, where at the sweetest part, you just happen to hear a sweet voice in the background, which deepens your smile.

44. 你对我很重要！或许是关心则乱吧不知道自己这几天做的对不对但真的很怕你会因此身体不好、怕影响你的将来特希望你以后能幸福的过一辈子！

44. You are very important to me! Maybe it's because of overthinking, I'm not sure if what I've done these past few days is right, but I'm really afraid that you might get physically unwell because of it, and I'm afraid it might affect your future. I sincerely hope that you can live a happy life for the rest of your days!

45. 以前为他付出的太多太多，到最后却一无所有，我不怪你，怪就怪我太傻。

45. I have given too much to him in the past, only to end up with nothing at all in the end. I don't blame you, I blame myself for being too foolish.

46. 你对我很重要和你在（某方面）是我的唯一。其实是两个层次我希望的是第二层次还不是第一。你很重要这种话其实不过是矫情的屁话。我不爱听。

46. You are very important to me and you are my only one in (some aspect). In reality, it's two levels. What I hope for is the second level, not the first. Saying that you are very important is actually just flowery nonsense. I don't like to hear it.

47. 女人结婚了，生是别人家的人，死是别人家的鬼，受在多苦，都要忍，为了孩子，为了名义

47. A woman who is married is someone else's person when alive and someone else's ghost when dead. No matter how much suffering she endures, she must bear it for the sake of her children and for the sake of her reputation.

48. 曹雪芹如此感叹迎春的命运：

48. Cao Xueqin sighed over Ying Chun's fate as follows:

49. 爱情是多么神圣单纯但是爱情却并不容易。现实生活中爱一个人容易，在一起往往很难。爱情只是两个独立个体之间的感情，而在一起却要考虑很多事情，双方的家庭背景，房子车子等等一系列问题。若你爱上了一个无法在一起的人，那就这样做吧！有一种深爱，叫做不打扰，不联系

49. Love is so sacred and simple, but it is not easy. It is easy to love someone in real life, but it is often difficult to be together. Love is just the affection between two independent individuals, but to be together requires considering many things, such as both family backgrounds, houses, cars, and a series of other issues. If you fall in love with someone you cannot be with, then do this! There is a deep love called not interfering, not contacting.

50. 那么信任你，你却给我来一刀，什么都没有了。 你是谁，你只是我生命中的过客，左右不了我的心情。同时我也要感谢你，没有你我认识不道我的强大。

50. Then you trusted me, and you stab me in the back, and everything is gone. Who are you? You're just a passerby in my life, someone who can't sway my mood. At the same time, I also want to thank you, because without you, I wouldn't have known about my own strength.

51. 不是没几个，其实一个都没有，在累也只能慢慢的扛着，只能自己对自己说坚强，坚强就过去了

51. Not a few, actually none at all. One can only bear it slowly, and can only tell oneself to be strong; once strong, it will pass.

52. 说到底你们就是太自私了，从来没有想过大哥的感受，真的爱一个人就是不打扰一切安好就可以了，能看看他们健康快乐就好，心满意足。

52. In the end, it all comes down to your selfishness. You've never considered your elder brother's feelings. To truly love someone is to not disturb their peace and happiness. Just being able to see them healthy and happy is enough to make you content.

53. 我们不是恋人，但你对我很重要，我说的就是你，你肯定知道。

53. We are not lovers, but you are very important to me, and I'm talking about you, you must know that.

54. 珍惜该珍惜的，放下该放下的，去珍惜对你好的人，不要为不值得的人去等待，不乱于心，不困于情。

54. Cherish what should be cherished, let go of what should be let go, value the people who are good to you, do not wait for those who are not worth it, do not be troubled by the heart, do not be trapped by emotions.

55. 遇见你才知道，你对我有多重要，我们的缘分刚刚好，不需别人打扰，你对我很重要，微微一笑就倾城

55. It was only when I met you that I realized how important you are to me. Our destiny is just right, without the interference of others. You are very important to me, and a gentle smile from you can charm the entire city.