在纷繁复杂的世界中，人们时常会遇到种种疑惑：为何有人事业不顺，看似努力却成效寥寥？这背后，或许隐藏着某种深不可测的秘密……

In this complex and intricate world, people often encounter various doubts: Why do some people struggle in their careers, seemingly working hard yet achieving little? Behind this, there may be some unfathomable secrets...

1. 在爱人看来，就是软弱。实则他们什么都懂，只是不善表达而已。心中有苦有泪，一个人默默承受而已。

1. In the eyes of the beloved, it's seen as weakness. In fact, they understand everything; they just aren't good at expressing it. They have bitterness and tears in their hearts, silently bearing it all by themselves.

2. 你把时间花在哪儿，花就会开在哪儿。如果你长期沉浸垃圾快乐之中，就不会做出任何创造性的工作，一生碌碌无为。

2. Wherever you spend your time, that's where the flowers will bloom. If you spend a long time immersed in trashy happiness, you won't be able to produce any creative work, and will live a life of emptiness and fruitlessness.

3. 己土生于寅月，寅中甲木透出，是正官格，又地支巳酉合金，则酉金食神以制官，喜辰土以合住酉金，类似于“冲官逢合”之理。己土自坐酉金长生，又在时处生旺，故日主有力，能受官杀之克。

3. The Earth element is born in the month of the Wood Monkey, with the Wood Jia element breaking through in the Monkey, forming a Right Official pattern. Additionally, the Earth element in the Earth Snake and the Metal Yin in the Metal Rooster combine, with the Metal Yin in the Rooster acting as the Food Star to control the Official. The Earth element in the Earth Horse is favorable to keep the Metal Yin in the Rooster stable, similar to the principle of "confronting the Official with a union." The Earth element is rooted in the Metal Yin in the Rooster, and is also in a thriving state in the hour position, so the day master is strong and can withstand the control of the Official and Killers.

4. 一个人能精进自己，提升自己，让自己拥有更好的心态，更高的价值，就不会过得太差。

4. If a person can improve themselves, enhance their abilities, and cultivate a better mindset and higher values, they won't live a poor life.

5. 你只管努力，时间会给你一份满意的答卷。

5. Just keep striving, and time will give you a satisfactory answer.

6. 命主从事金融或者军警一类职业。官星从月令寅木透出，又辰土为水库，为财库，为木之余气，故取辰土，甲木，寅木像，再结合命主层次，定其职业。命主反馈，供职于军队？

6. The person in question is engaged in a career in finance or the military and police sectors. The official star (Guan Star) emerges from the month's command in the wood of the Tiger (Yin Wood), and the earth of the Dragon (Yin Earth) serves as a reservoir and treasure store, being the residual energy of wood. Therefore, the earth of the Dragon, the wood of Jia (a type of wood), and the image of the wood of the Tiger are chosen, combined with the person's level, to determine their career. The person in question feedbacks, "Working in the army?"

7. 16年不利六亲。16年丙申年，地支寅巳申三刑，父母宫被刑，故不急六亲。

7. Unfavorable to the six relations in the year 16. In the year 16, the year of Bing Shen, the Earth branch of the three Xing (Yin, Xun, Shen) are involved, and the parents' palace is subjected to a Xing, hence it is not urgent for the six relations.

8. 疯够了，找个老实人嫁了，也是对心软的人的一种歧视。

8. Being crazy enough to marry a decent person is also a form of discrimination against kind-hearted individuals.

9. 人生是一场修行。

9. Life is a journey of self-improvement.

10. 如果现在图书馆只能留一本书，留给你的子孙后代，即使你真诚地认为小黄书给你带来了愉悦，郭德纲相声给你带来了快乐，但只能留一本书，你留哪一本？绝大多数人会选莎士比亚。

10. If the library could only keep one book for your descendants, even if you sincerely believe that the "little yellow book" brought you pleasure and Guo Degang's crosstalk brought you joy, and you are limited to choosing just one book, which one would you choose? The vast majority of people would choose Shakespeare.

11. 一般而言，事业顺利的八字定然是格局无破的八字，例如正官格无刑冲破害；七杀格而透食神制杀；印绶格而有官杀以相生；伤官格而有财印以制伤；财格而有官星以生旺诸如此类的成格八字，才是事业一路顺风的幸运人？

11. Generally speaking, a person whose career is going smoothly must have a good BaZi chart with no broken structures, such as a Zhengguan (official) structure without any injuries or conflicts; a Qishang (destroyer) structure with a Shishen (food deity) to control the Qishang; a Yinsou (benefactor) structure with officers and destroyers to complement each other; a Shanggong (injury) structure with wealth and benefactors to control the Shanggong; and a Cai (wealth) structure with official stars to boost vitality. Such well-formed BaZi charts are the lucky people who have a smooth career path all the time?

12. 近朱者赤，近墨者黑。

12. "Those who keep company with the red will become red, and those who keep company with the black will become black."

13. 庚戌运。天干庚金伤官，克制原局官星。大运之戌土冲动原局辰土，冲出辰中财星，但原局比劫太重，故此运虽事业不利，但有钱财，不过损耗也大。

13. The Gengxu Cycle. The Heavenly Stem Geng Metal harms the Official Star of the original chart. The Earth element in the Gengxu Cycle stirs up the Earth element in the original chart's Chenshu season, stirring out the fortune star from the Chenshu. However, the original chart has an excessive amount of helpers and thieves, so although this cycle is not favorable for career, it brings wealth but also significant losses.

14. 你在什么样的圈子里，跟什么样的人相处，就会沾染他的特性、观点和行为方式，变成和他差不多的人。

14. The circle you are in and the people you associate with will inevitably influence your characteristics, views, and behavioral patterns, making you more like them.

15. 或者他们也喜欢读书，但他们不读专业的，深刻的，经典的书，他们读网络小说，流行爽文，毒鸡汤，虽然一直在读，但越来越空虚，越来越迷茫，在短平快的娱乐安慰里不能自拔。

15. Or perhaps they also like to read, but they don't read professional, profound, or classic books. They read web novels, popular thrillers, and toxic chicken soup for the soul. Although they keep reading, they feel more and more empty and confused, unable to pull themselves out of the quick and easy entertainment that provides comfort.

16. 意思是，和品德高尚的人交往，就好像进入了摆满芳香的芝兰花的房间，久而久之就闻不到兰花的香味了，这是因为自己和香味融为一体了；和品行低劣的人交往，就像进入了卖臭咸鱼的店铺，久而久之就闻不到咸鱼的臭味了，这也是因为自己与臭味融为一体了。

16. This means that associating with virtuous people is like entering a room filled with fragrant orchids, and after a while, one no longer smells the fragrance of the orchids because they have become one with the scent; on the other hand, associating with people of low character is like entering a shop selling stinking salted fish, and after a while, one no longer smells the stench of the fish because they have become one with the odor.

17. 命由己造，事在人为。

17. One's destiny is shaped by oneself, and success depends on human effort.

18. 层次低的人，喜欢用消耗性的方式寻找快乐，如酗酒、赌博、刷剧、打游戏等；

18. People with a lower social hierarchy tend to seek happiness in consumptive ways, such as heavy drinking, gambling, binge-watching TV shows, and playing video games.

19. 罗翔教授在一次讲座时，对大家提问：

19. Professor Luo Xiang asked everyone a question during a lecture:

20. 理智告诉我们，垃圾快乐只是一时，而有营养，有价值的东西，才能真正促进我们的成长。

20. Reason tells us that fleeting happiness from garbage is only temporary, while nutritious and valuable things can truly promote our growth.

21. 你是一个心软的人吗？如果是！你是不是总觉得自己活得那么累？生活如此，感情亦是如此。

21. Are you a soft-hearted person? If so, do you always feel that you live such a tiring life? This is true for both life and relationships.

22. 一个出身不好，混迹底层的人，性价比最好的投资，就是读书。

22. For a person from a bad background who is混迹于the lower strata of society, the most cost-effective investment is to read books.

23. 层次高的人，喜欢用补充性的方式创造快乐，如读书、学习、运动、艺术创作等。

23. People of higher status tend to create joy in a complementary manner, such as through reading, studying, exercising, and artistic creation.

24. 恋爱中，卑微过了头，另一半就越不把你当回事。诚然，分手也容易对你说出口，他们可不觉得你会伤痛。

24. In a relationship, if you become too humble, the other person will take you less seriously. Of course, it's easier for them to say "break up," and they don't think you'll be hurt.

25. 我们无法决定自己能取得多大的成就，但可以决定过得好不好。

25. We cannot decide how much achievement we can achieve, but we can decide how well we live.

26. 让我们加强自律，管理自己。抵制垃圾快乐，远离低级圈子，保持深度阅读。

26. Let us strengthen self-discipline and manage ourselves. Resist trivial joy, stay away from low-level circles, and maintain in-depth reading.

27. 你读过的书，会让你的灵魂变得高贵，精神更加饱满，人生也丰富多彩。

27. The books you have read will elevate your soul, enrich your spirit, and make your life more colorful and fulfilling.

28. 能力是有的，只是不愿与人交流，失去太多的升迁机遇。这个社会里没有点社交能力，寸步难行。心太软的人，会步入一个又一个陷阱，自己的努力，可能会成为他人晋升的奠基石。

28. There is the capability, but the person is unwilling to communicate with others, losing too many opportunities for promotion. In this society, without a bit of social skill, one can't make any progress. People with a soft heart will fall into one trap after another, and their own efforts might become the foundation stone for others' advancement.

29. 老好人的你，过分心软，其实就是对自己残忍。他们会得寸进尺，觉得你好欺负。

29. You, who are always so good-natured and overly soft-hearted, are actually being cruel to yourself. They will take advantage and think that you are easy to bully.

30. 混得不好的人，往往都不喜欢读书。他们沉迷于短期变现，挣快钱，简单粗暴，而对读书这样的长期积累嗤之以鼻。

30. People who are not doing well often don't like to read. They are沉迷于short-term realization, making quick money, and are straightforward and rough, while they disdain reading as such a long-term accumulation.

31. 07年，13年工作变动。07年丁亥年，亥水为驿马星，与命局巳亥冲，驿马逢冲，故此年有工作变动。13年癸巳年，巳火为印绶，天干财星破印，故此年也有工作变动。

31. In 2007 and 2013, there were changes in my job. In the year 2007, the year of Ding亥, the亥 water is the horse star, and it conflicts with the snake in my destiny. When the horse star meets a conflict, there were changes in my job that year. In 2013, the year of Gui巳, the snake fire is the print string, and the wealth star in the heavenly stem breaks the print, so there were also changes in my job that year.

32. 如果你坚持以补充性的方式创造快乐，那么你每天都在精进，都在升值，点滴的努力凝聚起来，就会变成逆天改命的强大力量。

32. If you persist in creating joy in a complementary manner, you are advancing and improving every day. The cumulative efforts, even in the smallest increments, will coalesce into a powerful force that can alter one's destiny.

33. 己酉运。天干官星被合，又地支引动巳酉合金，食神克制官星，故此运事业不顺。

33. The Jiyou period. The celestial stem official star is being combined, and the terrestrial branch is stirring up the合金 of Jǐ and Yǒu, with the food star controlling the official star, therefore, during this period, the career is not smooth.

34. 看小黄书快不快乐，看郭德纲的相声快不快乐，看莎士比亚快不快乐，哪种快乐更让你快乐？

34. Is it fun reading the little yellow books, is it fun watching Guo Degang's crosstalk, is it fun watching Shakespeare, which kind of fun makes you the happiest?

35. 明朝诗人于谦说：“书卷多情似故人，晨昏忧乐每相亲。眼前直下三千字，胸次全无一点尘。”

35. The Ming Dynasty poet Yu Qian said: "Books are full of affection like old friends, sharing joy and sorrow at dawn and dusk. Before my eyes, there are three thousand characters straight down, and my chest is free of any dust."

36. 感情之事，犹豫不决，又容易被骗，纵使有爱，在爱人看来，也是软弱。分手也成为一种必然。不忍伤害爱着的他，他既然提出了分手，那就欣然默许了，哪怕自己伤得体无完肤。

36. In matters of love, one often hesitates and is easily deceived. Even if there is love, in the beloved's eyes, it is seen as weakness. Breakup becomes an inevitable outcome. Unable to bear the thought of hurting the one I love, since he has proposed a breakup, I happily give my silent consent, even though it may leave me hurt to the bone.

37. 不要懈怠，不要懒惰，不要娱乐至死，浪费生命。

37. Do not be lazy, do not be slothful, do not indulge in entertainment to the point of death, and waste your life.

38. 心软是种善良的一种展现形式，是一种品质。社会与爱情需要这样的善良。但也要做一个身上有刺，心中有光的人。学会不必要的“拒绝”，拒绝那些别有用心的人，拒绝那些伤害你的人，做一个“硬气”的善良人。

38. Soft-heartedness is a form of kindness, a quality. Society and love require such kindness. But also be a person with thorns on their body and light in their heart. Learn to say unnecessary "no," refuse those with ulterior motives, refuse those who harm you, and be a "sturdy" kind person.

39. 一个人混得不好，往往他的社交圈子很有问题。你所在圈子里的人，每天沉浸在打牌，喝酒，吃吃喝喝，好逸恶劳，不思进取，那你也会成为一个随波逐流的人。

39. If a person is not doing well, it is often because there is a problem with their social circle. If the people in your circle are immersed in playing cards, drinking, eating and drinking all day, being lazy and avoiding work, and not thinking of making progress, then you will also become someone who follows the crowd.

40. 一个人混得不好，主要有以下三个原因。

40. A person is not doing well, mainly due to the following three reasons.

41. 美国社会学家芭芭拉把快乐分为两层，一种是消耗性的，另一种是补充性的。

41. American sociologist Barbara divides happiness into two layers: one is consumptive, and the other is complementary.

42. 多读书，能让你拥有书卷之气，高贵之气，清雅之气。同时还能尽快提升你的认知和专业能力，让你有更多的智慧和底气，应对这个千变万化的世界。

42. Reading extensively can endow you with a scholarly demeanor, a noble spirit, and an elegant temperament. At the same time, it can quickly enhance your cognitive and professional abilities, giving you more wisdom and confidence to cope with this ever-changing world.

43. 要想混得好，就得用大量而深刻的知识，武装自己的大脑。用一卷一卷的书籍，提升自己的认知。保持深度阅读，你就会不断变聪明，变深刻，拥有穿透事物表象直抵本质的能力。

43. To excel, one must arm one's mind with a vast and profound knowledge. Use volumes of books to elevate your cognition. Maintain in-depth reading, and you will continuously become smarter and more profound, possessing the ability to penetrate through the surface of things to reach their essence.

44. 事业不如意，感情也不如意，事事不顺心。其实这是相通的，爱情里没有一点经济支撑，怎么会幸福呢？

44. Not satisfied with my career, not satisfied with my love life either, everything goes wrong. In fact, this is interconnected. How can one be happy in love without any financial support?

45. 孔子说：“与善人交，如入芝兰之室，久而不闻其香，即与之化矣。与恶人交，如入鲍鱼之肆，久而不闻其臭，亦与之化矣。”

45. Confucius said, "To associate with good people is like entering a room filled with orchids; after a long time, you no longer notice the fragrance, and you have become one with it. To associate with bad people is like entering a store of stinky fish; after a long time, you no longer notice the odor, and you have become one with it as well."

46. 命主学历高。月令正官，透出在月干，又早年行财运，生旺官星，官主学历，故命主有学历，为本科。

46. The master has a high education level. The official in the month's command is revealed in the month's branch, and the early years have a fortune, which enhances the official star. The official represents education, so the master has an education level, which is a bachelor's degree.

47. 此命属于文章开头所说，官星逢刑冲破害，又大运无解救，所以这种八字的人，自然事业不顺？

47. This destiny belongs to what was mentioned at the beginning of the article, where the official star encounters injuries, conflicts, and harms, and there is no salvation in the great fortune. Therefore, such people with this particular birth chart naturally face misfortunes in their careers?