揭开神秘：真实关照你的心，唯有这三个人，意外揭晓！

Unveiling the Mysterious: Only these three people can truly reflect on your heart, as revealed by surprise!

1. 历史上伟大的变革总是悄悄地发生，我们要跟上时代的步伐！

1. Great historical transformations always occur quietly; we must keep up with the pace of the times!

2. 好的坏的我们都收下吧、然后一声不响、继续生活。

2. Let's accept both the good and the bad, and then keep living our lives in silence.

3. 人生总是充满讽刺，让人费解。总要伤了心，才明白什么是快乐；总要喧哗后，才懂得宁静难得；总要有些人不在了，才发现TA在身边有多珍贵。

3. Life is always full of irony and perplexity. One has to be hurt to understand what happiness is; one has to experience noise to appreciate the rarity of tranquility; one has to lose someone to realize how precious they were when they were around.

4. 你成功了，她陪你君临天下。你失败了，她陪你东山再起。在你一无所有，或者负债累累的时候，她会倾尽所有帮助你创业，支持你崛起，夜晚为你抚慰伤口，白天为你加油助力。

4. You succeeded, and she accompanied you to rule the world. You failed, and she supported you in regaining your feet. When you have nothing or are heavily in debt, she will help you start a business with all she has, support your rise, comfort your wounds at night, and give you a boost during the day.

5. 51如果你要考验我的耐心，请先把你的耐心准备好。

5. 51 If you are going to test my patience, please make sure you have your own patience ready first.

6. 12往往喜欢一个人的时候，不需要任何理由;不喜欢一个人的时候，却拥有很多借口!

6. When someone often likes a person, there's no need for any reason; but when they don't like a person, they have plenty of excuses!

7. 你要的是什么样的爱情，若是和聪明的人恋爱是会很快乐，因为他们的幽默，会说话，但是也时时存在着危机，因为这样的人很容易变心。和老实的人恋爱会很放心，但生活却也非常得乏味。

7. What kind of love are you looking for? Falling in love with a smart person can be very happy, because of their humor and their ability to communicate, but there is always a crisis, because such people are easily unfaithful. Falling in love with an honest person can be very reassuring, but life can also be very boring.

8. 56怎么能在拥有爱情的同时又拒绝受伤呢别忘了，丘比特射出的是箭，而不是玫瑰。

8. How can one have love while also refusing to get hurt? Remember, Cupid shoots arrows, not roses.

9. 钱象水一样，没有一点会渴死，多了会被淹死。

9. Money is like water; you won't die of thirst without it, but you will drown if you have too much.

10. 有时候，我们不要想太多，顺着自己的心意就好了。

10. Sometimes, we shouldn't overthink things; just follow our heart's desire.

11. 记住该记住的，忘记该忘记的，改变该改变的，接受不能改变的。

11. Remember what should be remembered, forget what should be forgotten, change what can be changed, and accept what cannot be changed.

12. 1与你的第一次邂逅，我便沉醉在你那迷人的眼眸里。

12.1 On our first encounter, I was captivated by the enchanting gaze of your eyes.

13. 57爱一个人太深，心会醉;恨一个人太久，心会碎。

13. Love someone too deeply, and your heart will be drunk; hate someone too long, and your heart will be shattered.

14. 16其实我很在乎你。只是没有告诉你！真心想说“我爱你！”话到嘴边咽肚里。没有你的日子里，梦中主角就是你！走进风里，细节在空气中纷飞，不敢凝望你的眼，问轻风，亲爱的朋友，你可能读懂我的思念？

14. 16 In fact, I really care about you. I just haven't told you! I really want to say "I love you!" But the words are caught in my throat. In the days without you, you are the main character in my dreams! Walking into the wind, details are fluttering in the air, I dare not gaze into your eyes, and ask the gentle breeze, dear friend, can you understand my longing?

15. 20每一个发说说的人，都带有某种心情想要传达给某个人，可惜某个人不懂。

15. 20 Every person who posts a status update carries some kind of emotion that they want to convey to someone, but unfortunately, that someone doesn't understand.

16. 8人总是在深夜多愁多感，感触良多，仿佛只有在深夜一个人的时候才会释放今天一天的负能量，希望每一个人在深夜丧过后，第二天又元气满满。

16. The eight people are always melancholic and sentimental in the deep of the night, with a wealth of feelings. It seems as if only in the solitude of the night can they release the negative energy accumulated throughout the day. I hope that everyone, after being melancholic in the depth of the night, can be full of vitality again the next day.

17. 如果你能像看别人缺点一样，准确的发现自己的缺点，那么你的生命将会不平凡。学佛第一个观念，永远不去看众生的过错。看众生的过错，会污染你自己，如果每天看见众生的过失和是非，就要快去忏悔，这就是修行！

17. If you can discover your own shortcomings as accurately as you see others' shortcomings, then your life will be extraordinary. The first concept in learning Buddhism is to never focus on the faults of others. Focusing on the faults of others will pollute yourself. If you see others' mistakes and disputes every day, you should quickly go to repent, which is what is called practice!

18. 我喜好新鲜 不久你也只是这些最爱里的一件。

18. I like the new, and soon you'll just be one of my favorites.

19. 这一生里，爱我和我爱的，无论他们给我的是快乐还是痛苦，都是来度我的，使我觉悟无常，也使我明白世间的悲欢离合。最难舍的，终究是情。明知道万有皆空，却还是禁不住依依回首这片红尘里的那一场相遇。心中有不舍的人，是多么心碎的幸福。张小娴

19. In this life, those who love me and those I love – whether they bring me joy or pain – are all here to enlighten me. They make me realize the impermanence of all things, and also help me understand the joys and sorrows, separations and unions of the world. The most difficult to let go of is always the emotion. Even though I know that all things are empty, I still can't help but longingly look back on that encounter in this whirlwind of life. The happiness that comes from having someone you can't let go of in your heart is a heart-wrenching joy. - Zhang Xiaoxian

20. 8在这安静的时刻，我的心为情而动，我的爱为你而流，你让我品味了想念的滋味，你让我感受了想念的甜蜜，不管明天还有多远，我只愿这一刻静静的想你，静静的爱你。有些事，好像离开你寸步难行，可没有你的时候，地球依旧在旋转，你才知道自己不过是他人口中的一个喷嚏若有若无。

20. 8 In this quiet moment, my heart moves with emotion, my love flows for you. You let me taste the sweetness of longing, and you let me feel the sweetness of missing you. No matter how far tomorrow may be, I only wish to silently think of you, and silently love you. Some things seem impossible without you, but without you, the earth still rotates, and you only realize that you are just a faint sneeze in someone else's mouth.

21. 28不要以为别人过得比你好，也许她只是相机比你好。

21. 28 Don't think that others are living better than you, maybe she just has a better camera than you.

22. 我就是不懂如果有些人注定没办法在一起，为什么命运要让他们相遇。

22. I just don't understand why fate would have them meet if some people are destined to never be together.

23. 小坏何妨？小烂可以使桔子更甜，小毛病可以使男人更可爱，小痣使美人的脸蛋更妩媚。有些缺陷是上帝送给你的礼物，善待它们，你将会另有意外的收获。

23. What harm in a little bad? A bit of rot can make oranges sweeter, a minor flaw can make a man more lovable, and a small mole can make a beauty's face more charming. Some flaws are gifts from God; treat them kindly, and you will be rewarded with unexpected gains.

24. 上了天，蝴蝶，蜻蜓，蜈蚣相互斗艳，五彩的风筝带着儿时的梦想，美好的心愿，在蓝天翱翔。

24. Up in the sky, butterflies, dragonflies, and centipedes vie for their colors. The colorful kites carry the dreams of childhood and the good wishes, soaring in the azure sky.

25. 对陌生人，或者把对方当做一张白纸，或者把对方当你的朋友，总之别当做敌人，即使你听到再多的关于他（她）的不好的传闻。

25. With strangers, either treat them as a blank page or as your friend; in any case, don't treat them as enemies, even if you hear countless bad rumors about them.

26. 22青春里没再有遗憾了，爱的人都还在身边。

26. There are no regrets left in the 22 years of youth, and the loved ones are all around me.

27. 上辈子我欠你的，这辈子我来还；这辈子你欠我的，下辈子来还我。这是我听过的最霸气的爱情宣言。

27. I owe you from my last life, and I'll repay you in this one; if you owe me in this life, I'll collect in the next. This is the most domineering love declaration I've ever heard.

28. 我等你 等到鲜花烂成泥

28. I wait for you until the flowers rot into mud.

29. 4我知道你年轻气盛，也知道你充满恐惧，幸好我没一直等，我怕等不下去，幸好我用一个孩子强迫你成熟，强迫你勇敢，看吧，如今你年少有为，而且我一直都在。

29. 4 I know you are young and impetuous, and I also know you are filled with fear. Fortunately, I didn't wait too long, as I feared I wouldn't be able to bear it. Fortunately, I used a child to force you to mature, to force you to be brave. Look, now you are doing well at a young age, and I have been there all along.

30. 40怕被伤害的人，永远抓不到真正的幸福;怕伤害别人的人，永远都会被别人有意无意的伤害。

30. People who are afraid of being hurt will never truly find happiness; those who fear hurting others will always be unintentionally or intentionally hurt by others.

31. 微笑有时候并不是最好的良药，有时候它只是最好的掩饰而已。

31. Sometimes a smile is not the best medicine; sometimes it is just the best disguise.

32. 每每想到他究竟喜不喜欢你这种情况，即使有时候你会有一点迟疑，可是迅速，你就会非常清晰地对自己说，这个人是喜欢你的，你不该有任何猜疑。就算他非常少讲出喜爱两个字，但他的喜爱，但也早已经不言而喻，没法隐藏。

32. Whenever you think about whether this person really likes you, even though you may sometimes have a bit of doubt, quickly, you will very clearly tell yourself, this person likes you, and you should have no suspicion. Even if he rarely utters the words "I love you," his affection is already unmistakable and cannot be concealed.

33. 与其花时间去讨好那些不喜欢你的人，不如好好爱这三个人！

33. It's better to spend your time loving these three people than trying to please those who don't like you!

34. 很多人会想，第三个爱自己的人，应该是自己的孩子。其实不然，俗话说，一娘养九儿，九儿难养母。历史和生活中，都有很多孩子为了利益，抛弃甚至杀害父母的事件。

34. Many people would think that the third person who loves oneself should be one's own child. However, this is not the case. As the saying goes, "A mother can raise nine sons, but it's hard to raise nine sons well." In history and in life, there have been many cases where children have abandoned or even killed their parents for personal gain.

35. 寂寞时，让心灵游弋在云海水天相接处，看与孤鹜齐飞的落霞，赏共长天一色的秋水;品春江畔芳草甸之明月，听二十四桥明月夜玉人之啸声。人世间的熙熙攘攘、盛衰荣辱在此时已抛却九霄。

35. When lonely, let your soul wander in the place where the clouds, the sea, and the sky meet, watching the setting sun flying together with solitary wild geese, admiring the autumn water that blends with the vast sky; appreciating the bright moon over the fragrant grasslands by the Spring River, listening to the sound of the fairies' sighs on the night of the full moon over the Twenty-Four Bridges. The bustling and bustling world, the rise and fall, honor and disgrace, have all been discarded into the clouds above at this moment.

36. 在爱的世界里，没有谁对不起谁，只有谁不懂得珍惜。

36. In the world of love, there is no one who owes anyone, only those who don't know how to cherish.

37. 17两个人只要有三点吻合大概就能成为很好的小伙伴了：笑点泪点和饭点。

37. For two people to become great companions, about three points need to match: the point of humor, the point of tears, and the point of meals.

38. 世上并没有用来鼓励工作努力的赏赐，所有的赏赐都只是被用来奖励工作成果的。

38. There is no reward in the world meant to encourage hard work; all rewards are merely used to reward the fruits of work.

39. 爱是输不爱是输不起的游戏，付出全部只后，留下的可能仅仅是刻在心底的一道伤痕。喜欢一个人是想要他是自己的，所以，可以喜欢很多人，想要很多人都是自己的。

39. Love is a game where losing is losing, and not loving is losing that one can't afford. After giving all, what might remain is only a scar etched deep in the heart. Liking someone is wanting them to be one's own, so, one can like many people, and want many people to be their own.

40. 你一定要记住，仅有当有一天，另一方的确和你告白了，和你确认关系了，在一点一滴相处中，你确实体会到了对方在乎，另一方将你

40. You must remember that only when the other party truly confesses to you and confirms the relationship, and through every bit of interaction, you truly feel that the other person cares about you, will the other party treat you...

41. 盗墓界有一个规矩，就是父子一起盗墓的时候，必须父亲先出洞，然而再把儿子拉出来。因为有很多先例，儿子先出来后，贪图财宝，就抛弃了父亲，

41. There is a rule in the tomb raiding community that when father and son are tomb raiding together, the father must come out of the cave first, followed by the son. This is because there have been many precedents where the son, upon coming out first and lured by the treasure, abandoned his father.

42. 一个女人，在你还不能赚钱的时候，她愿意嫁给你。跟你一起走进婚姻的殿堂，风雨同舟，荣辱与共，不离不弃。

42. A woman who is willing to marry you when you are not yet earning a living. She walks into the marriage hall with you, sharing the storms and the sunshine, the honors and the sorrows, and never leaving your side.

43. 真正爱你的人，绝不会离开你，他纵有千百个理由放弃，却也总会找一个理由坚持下去。

43. The person who truly loves you will never leave you. Even if they have a thousand reasons to give up, they will always find a reason to persevere.

44. 与天下之忧同忧，该忧则忧，莫杞人忧天；共天下之乐同乐，该乐则乐，乐而忘返。

44. Share the worries of the world, worry when necessary, but do not worry unnecessarily like a worrywart; share the joys of the world, be joyful when appropriate, and be so absorbed in the joy that you forget to return.

45. 暗恋是是一种力量，但谁又能否认暗恋是微不足道的呢。

45. Love at first sight is a power, but who can deny that love at first sight is trivial?

46. 如果一个男人内心确实有你，他对你一定会变得很主动。不是这种三分钟激情，在其一阵子对你很主动，不是这种时冷时热，有时候对你很主动，有时候好像又没有了，反而是一直都特别主动，找你的工作频率一直都会比较高。他会主动，也并不会那类没有意义的主动，好像那只是跟你说各种各样暖心情话，各种各样纠缠不清。

46. If a man truly has you in his heart, he will definitely become very proactive towards you. It's not this kind of three-minute passion where he is overly proactive for a while, not this kind of intermittent enthusiasm, sometimes very proactive and sometimes as if he has no interest at all. Instead, he will always be particularly proactive, increasing the frequency of contacting you. He will be proactive, but it won't be that kind of meaningless proactive, as if it's just to say all sorts of warm words and get entangled.

47. 跟你的关联，他也并不会仅仅黏黏糊糊的，压根就不当面说，而会立即告诉你他喜欢你，他想要要和你在一起，他想要和你有一个未来。并非随便说说的，而会特殊的真心实意，也就真的是先拔头筹。清晰地告诉你们，她在追求你，他把你当成了自己的另一半，他想早一点与你确认关系，他希望往后的日子，大家可以成为一个总体。

47. Regarding his relationship with you, he wouldn't just be all gooey and not say it outright. Instead, he would immediately tell you that he likes you, that he wants to be with you, and that he wants to have a future with you. It wouldn't be just casual talk, but rather a heartfelt and sincere expression, truly taking the initiative. He would clearly tell you that he is pursuing you, that he considers you his other half, and he wants to confirm the relationship with you as soon as possible. He hopes that in the days to come, you both can become a unit.

48. 10那些能让你变好的事，最开始也许不容易，但只要坚持，就能成长。

48. 10 Things that can make you better, may not be easy at first, but as long as you persevere, you can grow.

49. 人在旅途，不要什么都扛着，什么都放不下。再芬香的花朵也要凋谢，再茂密的森林也要落叶，再潋滟的河流也要归入大海，再温暖的太阳也要西下，再娇娆的姑娘也会老去，有什么是我们能够永远提着的呢？就是坚持提到了终点，最终也还是要放下，也还是要让后来人来检视。

49. While traveling, do not bear everything, and do not let go of anything. Even the most fragrant flowers will wither, even the densest forests will shed their leaves, even the most shimmering rivers will eventually flow into the sea, even the warmest sun will set in the west, and even the most charming girls will grow old. What is there that we can carry forever? Even if we persist until the end, we will still need to let go, and still need to allow future generations to inspect it.

50. 随时可抛的感情，随地可扔的归宿，随情可散的暧昧

50. Sentiments that can be thrown away at any time, a destination that can be discarded anywhere, and ambiguities that can be dispersed as the mood changes.

51. 得不到的并不是最好的。你已经得到，天长日久，他一直守候在你身边，你却依然渴望他，那才是最好的。

51. What you can't have isn't necessarily the best. What you already have, which has been with you for a long time and has always been by your side, and yet you still yearn for it, that is the best.

52. 9就像一盆长满了刺的仙人掌，防备了别人，孤单了自己。

52. 9 Like a pot of cactus bristling with thorns, it guards against others but also isolates itself.

53. 最遗憾的不是把理想丢在路上，而是理想从未上路。

53. The greatest regret is not that the ideals were abandoned on the road, but that the ideals never even embarked on the journey.

54. 不要轻易去爱，更不要轻易去恨，让自己活得轻松些，让青春多留下些潇洒的印痕。你是快乐的，因为你很单纯，你是迷人的，因为你有一颗宽容的心。汪国真

54. Don't easily fall in love, and even less easily fall into hate; make your life easier, and let youth leave more carefree marks. You are happy because you are innocent, and you are charming because you have a forgiving heart. - Wang Guozhen

55. 我希望你能来找我，请原谅我是一个既被动又懦弱却需要照顾的人。

55. I hope you can come to find me, please forgive me for being a passive and懦弱 yet needing care person.

56. 第一个青春是上帝给的；第二个的青春是靠自己努力的。

56. The first youth is given by God; the second youth is achieved through one's own efforts.

57. 请记住，如果你曾把注意力转向外在，讨好任何人，你必然会毁坏自己的生活架构，进而毁掉你自己。

57. Remember that if you have ever turned your attention outward, trying to please anyone, you will inevitably destroy the structure of your life, and in doing so, destroy yourself.

58. 总有一些事情，让你在不经意中，就看清了一些人。

58. There are always things that, without your realizing it, reveal certain people to you.

59. 当爱情已成往事，那些有关前度的不甘心，每一天都只是祭日。

59. When love has become a thing of the past, those regrets about the ex are merely days of remembrance.

60. 谁的指间滑过了千年时光;谁在反反复复中追问可曾遗忘;我等你用尽了所有的哀伤;而你眼中却有我所不懂的凄凉。

60. Whose fingers have slipped through a millennium of time; who repeatedly questions whether something has been forgotten; I wait for you until all your sorrows have been exhausted; yet there is a desolation in your eyes that I do not understand.

61. 喜欢一个人是一种感觉。不喜欢一个人，却是事实。事实容易解释，感觉却难以言喻。

61. Liking someone is a feeling. Not liking someone is a fact. Facts are easy to explain, but feelings are hard to put into words.

62. “还有什么比父母心中蕴藏着的情感更为神圣呢？父母的心，是最仁慈的法官，是最贴心的朋友，是爱的太阳，它的光焰照耀、温暖着凝聚在我们心灵深处的意向。”

62. "What is more sacred than the emotions hidden in the hearts of parents? The heart of parents is the most benevolent judge, the most intimate friend, the sun of love, whose radiant glow warms and illuminates the intentions deeply rooted in our hearts."

63. 这一生，总有某段路，只能一个人走；总有许多事，需要一个人扛。别畏惧孤独，它能帮你划清内心的清浊，是你无法躲避的命运历程；别躲避困苦，莫让冷世的尘埃，冰封了你的笑容，迟缓了你的步履。忘不掉昨天，它就是束缚你的阴影；向往着明天，你才能清晰描绘它的模样。

63. In this lifetime, there will always be some roads that you have to walk alone; there will always be many things that you need to bear by yourself. Do not fear loneliness, for it helps you differentiate the clear from the turbid within your heart, and it is an inevitable part of your destiny; do not shun hardship, for let not the dust of the cold world freeze your smile or slow down your pace. You cannot forget yesterday, for it is the shadow that binds you; by longing for tomorrow, you can clearly depict its appearance.

64. 誓言其实并不可靠，最可靠的是内心深处坚定的信念。爱一个人最重要的不是海誓山盟和甜言蜜语，而是彼此心中共同守护的白头偕老的信念。一旦信念崩溃，曾经的凿凿誓言随风而逝，剩下的只是满地心伤的碎片你要知道，生活中的一些琐事，更能体现他对你的用情，那才是爱的密码。

64. Vows are actually unreliable; the most reliable is the steadfast belief deep within one's heart. The most important thing about loving someone is not grand declarations and sweet words, but rather the mutual belief in growing old together that both cherish in their hearts. Once the belief crumbles, the solemn vows of the past will vanish with the wind, leaving behind only the scattered fragments of heartache. You must know that it is the trivial matters in life that better reveal his affection for you; that is the true code of love.

65. 就算他挺忙的，可是他总是有空让你，陪你聊天，陪你吃饭，陪你看**。即使他明明并不是多么的富有，总是想要送我一些你想要的东西，带给您一些意外惊喜。对于他，他总会尤其的大方，心甘情愿为你花费时间，心甘情愿为你用心，心甘情愿为你搞好事多。

65. Even though he is quite busy, he always makes time for you, chatting with you, eating with you, and watching with you. Even though he's not particularly wealthy, he always wants to give me things you want, bringing you some unexpected surprises. To him, he is always particularly generous, willing to spend time for you, willing to put his heart into it for you, and willing to do many good things for you.

66. 24我的心疼，妥协，三年也没等到你年少有为。

66. 24 My heart aches, I compromise, and after three years, I still haven't waited for you to achieve success in your youth.

67. 我爱你，与你无关，即使是黑夜，无尽的思念，也只属于我自己

67. I love you, it has nothing to do with you. Even in the darkness, endless longing, it only belongs to myself.

68. 也许有些人很可恶，有些人很卑鄙。而当我设身为他想象的时候，我才知道：他比我还可怜。所以请原谅所有你见过的人，好人或者坏人。

68. Perhaps some people are despicable, and some are cunning. But when I put myself in their shoes and imagine, I realize: they are even more pitiful than I am. So please forgive everyone you have ever met, both good and bad people.