面对挑战，这些不适之人，其实是你成长的导师。

In the face of challenges, these uncomfortable individuals are actually your mentors for growth.

1. 刘墉一看打表盘，显示车费180元。刘墉觉得过意不去，硬塞给他200元。

following text to English: 1. Liu Yong checked the meter and saw the fare was 180 yuan. Feeling guilty, he insisted on giving him 200 yuan.

2. 世界是多元的，人生也是多元的。因此，我们要培养各种品质和各种能力，同时也离不开亲朋好友的协助，只有这样，才能在未来的道路上越走越辉煌

2. The world is diverse, and so is life. Therefore, we need to cultivate various qualities and abilities, and we also cannot do without the assistance of our friends and family. Only in this way can we shine more brightly on the path ahead in the future.

3. 再比如说，我很清楚自身的能力水平是什么样子，面对着那么 多优秀的榜样，我除了仰视和崇拜，更多了一种追求。虽然我知道那些 高度我无法企及，但我还是要努力拼搏，在拼搏中一步步地提升自己。就像写作，我知道我根本就是菜鸟一个，别说理论性的专业文章了，连基本的教育随笔我都写的干巴巴的，生涩难读。学校布置的网校写作任务，一到周末我就开始发愁，不知道该 写些什么？不知道该怎样写才能主题明确？怎么写才能条理清晰？有时候，明明心里觉得有很多话想说，但一动笔就什么也写不出来了。即使这样，我还是要逼迫着自己去写，有人说，写作是一件很痛苦的事情，这话真的是一点也不假。每天晚上，把孩子哄睡之后，我都要坐在那里不停地写，一遍遍地打稿，一遍遍地修改，草稿本用去了

3. For example, I am very clear about my own level of ability. In the face of so many excellent role models, I have more than admiration and admiration; I have a desire to pursue. Although I know that those heights are beyond my reach, I still want to strive hard and step by step improve myself. Just like writing, I know I am a complete beginner. Not to mention writing theoretical professional articles, even basic educational essays, I write them in a dry and awkward manner, difficult to read. When the school assigns writing tasks for the online school, I start to worry on weekends, not knowing what to write, not knowing how to write to make the theme clear, or how to write in a clear and logical manner. Sometimes, even though I feel like I have a lot to say in my heart, I can't write a single word when I start to write. Even so, I still force myself to write. Some people say that writing is a very painful thing, and this statement is really not exaggerated. Every evening, after putting the children to sleep, I have to sit there and write continuously, rewriting and revising over and over again, using up quite a few draft notebooks.

4. 一部分人认为自己不需要，另一部分人无法遇见或找到。

4. Some people believe they do not need it, while others are unable to encounter or find it.

5. 其实，很多时候我们都要感谢那些在我们看来事与愿违的事情，感谢那些愿意指出自己问题的人。正是这些人，这些事，才让我们学会了重新去审视自己。当我们学会接受自己的缺点和短板，学会去除内心的浮躁和功利，学会去接纳不同的声音，才能让自己的成长之路走得更长远！

5. In fact, many times we need to be grateful for those things that don't turn out as we wish, and for those who are willing to point out their own problems. It is these people and these events that teach us to re-examine ourselves. Only when we learn to accept our shortcomings and weaknesses, to rid ourselves of inner restlessness and materialism, and to embrace different voices, can we make our path of growth longer and more profound!

6. 很多时候，当我们犯了错误的时候，当我们没有做好一件事情的时候，总要找一些借口为自己开脱。从内心来说，即使我知道这些问题是由于我的原因造成的，但我总是还想竭力为自己找寻一些借口，以此来掩饰自己的错误。我想这应该是人的一种本性吧，就像我在批评学生时，总觉得犯错误的学生不敢勇于承认自己的错误，总是把责任都推到其他人身上，其实细想一下，我们成人尚且如此，何况这些孩子呢？我们总是教育 孩子们要勇于担当，敢于正视 自己的问题，承认自己的过错，可作为老师的我，又何尝做到了呢？

6. Many times, when we make mistakes or fail to do something well, we always look for excuses to absolve ourselves. Deep down, even though I know these problems are caused by me, I still strive to find some excuses for myself to cover up my mistakes. I think this should be a human nature, just like when I criticize students, I always feel that students who make mistakes are not brave enough to admit their mistakes and always shift the blame to others. But when you think about it, even as adults, we are like this, so how much more so for these children? We always teach children to be brave in taking responsibility, to face their own problems, and to acknowledge their mistakes. But as a teacher, have I ever done that myself?

7. 人的成长非一日之功，而是不断积累，不断完善，不断进步的过程。在这个过程中人们可能得意，失意，困惑，迷茫过，但这是一条曲折的路。人在曲折中成长，才能越挫越勇。

7. The growth of a person is not an overnight achievement, but a process of continuous accumulation, improvement, and progress. During this process, people may experience elation, disappointment, confusion, and bewilderment, but this is a winding path. It is through this winding path that people grow, and only by enduring setbacks can they become more courageous.

8. 林肯答，蔡思才华横溢，高瞻远瞩，能提出很多有利于国家的主张和策略，他是国家需要的。

8. Lincoln replied, "Cai Zisi is talented, with a forward-looking perspective, and is able to propose many proposals and strategies that are beneficial to the country. He is the country's need."

9. 而成功让你步入一个更好的层面，让你接触与原来不同的环境，让你学习而成长，就是我们所说的。层次不一样，看问题的角度不一样。 而成功必须要通过努力，而在努力中也就学会了成长，努力及自律，同样是需要享受痛苦。所以痛苦使人进步

9. Success leads you to a higher level, allowing you to encounter environments different from the ones you were used to, and to learn and grow, which is what we refer to. Different levels mean different perspectives on problems. Success must be achieved through hard work, and in the process of working hard, you also learn to grow, as well as learn about diligence and self-discipline. Enjoying the pain is also necessary. Therefore, pain makes people progress.

10. 让你不舒服的人，都是来渡你的。他们会让你在生命的阵痛后，内心变得越来越强大，柔韧和干净。

10. The people who make you uncomfortable are here to enlighten you. They will help you grow stronger, more supple, and purer in heart after the pain of life.

11. 当然，像这样的问题还有很多值得我去一一反思和改进。要想使自己获得真正的成长，就要勇敢地直面自己的问题，并把这些问题大大方方地摆在自己和别人面前，从问题的表象中去仔细分析背后的原因，有些问题可能是一些根深蒂固的错误认识，有些问题可能是自己长久以来形成的习惯，也可能是一些自己能力上的短板 。无论怎样，只要勇敢地迈出成长的第一步，只要敢于正视自己的问题并以一种积极的心态去改正这些问题，尽自己最大的努力去做好每一件事情，我们一定会遇到属于自己的花开时刻。

11. Of course, there are many such questions that are worth my reflection and improvement one by one. To truly grow, one must bravely confront their own problems, and openly present these issues to oneself and others. Analyze the underlying causes by carefully examining the surface of the problems. Some issues may be deeply rooted misconceptions, while others may be habits formed over a long period, or even shortcomings in one's abilities. Regardless, by courageously taking the first step towards growth, by daring to face one's own problems and correcting them with a positive attitude, and by making every effort to do things to the best of one's ability, we will undoubtedly meet the moment when our own flowers bloom.

12. 需要一个有正确价值观的人做你的榜样，或者引导你。

12. You need a person with the correct values to be your role model or guide you.

13. 工作近20年的我，也算是小有成就了。我积极参加各种比赛，大大小小的奖状也拿了不少；学校的各种教研活动，自己也能挑起一副重任；学科教学和班级管理中，也能称得上可以独当一面了。慢慢地，我发现我听到的赞美之声越来越多，以至于我都快要在外界的夸赞之声中迷失自己，有些飘飘然了。但此时，我心里非常清楚，如果我仅仅停留在以夸赞为主的世界，那我今后的成长之路只会越走越窄，甚至会让自己的发展停滞不前。所以我要努力地向外走出去，去看一看外面精彩的世界，去听一听外面不同的声音，走出去了，才发现原来自己不过如此，此时才能静下来认真地反思自己，重新规划自己的成长路径，在不断地否定自己的过程中慢慢提升自己。

13. With nearly 20 years of work experience, I can say I have achieved a little. I actively participate in various competitions and have won quite a few certificates of awards; I can also take on significant responsibilities in the school's various research and teaching activities; and in subject teaching and class management, I can be said to stand on my own two feet. Gradually, I found that the praise I received was increasing, to the point where I was almost lost in the midst of all the external praise, feeling a bit self-satisfied. However, at this moment, I am very clear in my mind that if I were to stay in a world where praise is the norm, my path of future growth would only become narrower and narrower, even causing my development to stagnate. Therefore, I need to strive to go out and see the exciting world outside, to listen to different voices from outside. Only after stepping out can I realize that I am not as great as I thought, and only then can I sit down and seriously reflect on myself, re-plan my path of growth, and gradually improve myself through the continuous process of negating my own limitations.

14. 其次是接受教育。一般是学校教育，在中国沿袭了“六三三”学制，但义务教育是每个公民必须要接受的教育，即小学教育和初级中学的教育。在学校里，学生不仅可以学习文化知识，还可以培养他们的品德，思想政治素质，以及生存能力，人际交往能力，实践力……

14. Next comes education. Generally, it refers to school education, which in China follows the "six-three-three" educational system, but compulsory education is the education that every citizen must receive, that is, the education of primary and junior high schools. At school, students can not only acquire cultural knowledge but also cultivate their morality, ideological and political quality, as well as survival skills, interpersonal communication skills, practical ability, and so on.

15. 欺骗你的人，帮你增进智慧。

15. The person who deceives you helps you enhance your wisdom.

16. 王阳明由对刘瑾的仇恨，慢慢转变为对国家和人民的悲悯，以及自己报国救民的责任感。他变得内心豁达，无私无畏，最后悟道，开心学一脉。

16. From his hatred of Liu Jing, Wang Yangming gradually transformed into compassion for the country and the people, and a sense of responsibility to serve his nation and save his people. He became open-minded, selfless, and fearless. In the end, he realized the Dao and happily followed a lineage of learning.

17. 诚然，自信是一个人成长的基石，作为教师，自信亦不可少。可在自信的背后，更重要的是要学会接受不同的声音，学会驻足停留，回头梳理自己，审视自己，反思自己，进而勇于去否定自己。

17. Indeed, self-confidence is the foundation for a person's growth, and it is also indispensable for teachers. However, what is more important behind self-confidence is to learn to accept different voices, to pause and reflect on oneself, to examine oneself, to introspect oneself, and then to courageously deny oneself.

18. 往往有些人在经历痛苦的时候，他们并不是享受，而是煎熬，这就需要信念。

18. Often, when some people go through pain, they do not enjoy it; instead, they suffer. This is where faith comes into play.

19. 一个个体的成长，首先离不开父母的照顾，关爱。因为父母是一个人尤其是幼年时的导师，父母的一言一行对孩子的成长起着至关重要的作用。它会影响着孩子的性格，行为习惯，智力，思维等等。

19. An individual's growth cannot be separated from the care and love of their parents. Because parents are a person's, especially a child's, mentors during their early years, and their every word and action plays a crucial role in a child's growth. It influences the child's personality, habits of behavior, intelligence, thinking, and so on.

20. 人生的各种境遇，都是我们学习的课堂。有人刁难你，排斥你，甚至伤害你，是在历练你的心灵，让你的内心变得更强大，更宽广，更从容。

20. All the various circumstances in life are our classrooms for learning. When someone troubles you,排斥 you, or even harms you, it is a test of your soul, making your inner self stronger, broader, and more composed.

21. 其实，成长中还需要有勇气去面对别人异样的眼光。很多人都不理解我现在的做法，觉得我就是在瞎折腾。可唯有我自己最清楚：我想要的是什么？我离自己的理想还有多远？既然选择了成长，就要努力克服一切困难，勇敢地走下去。

21. In fact, growing up also requires the courage to face others' strange looks. Many people do not understand my current actions, thinking I am just fumbling around. But only I myself am most clear: What do I want? How far am I from my ideals? Since I have chosen growth, I must strive to overcome all difficulties and bravely move forward.

22. 几天后，刘墉从酒店打车到机场，而打表盘显示120元。刘墉这才醒悟过来，原来此前的司机带着他绕了很远的路，最后因为聊天投缘，不好意思骗他才少收费。

22. Several days later, Liu Yongu took a taxi from the hotel to the airport, and the meter showed 120 yuan. It was then that he realized that the previous driver had taken him on a long detour. The driver, feeling sorry for him and not wanting to deceive him, had charged less due to their compatible conversation.

23. 否定，是用辩证的思维，冷静的眼光对事物进行哲学上的判断，在睿智的思考中看清问题，找寻不足，在自我批判中更好地成长。

23. Negation is the philosophical judgment of things through dialectical thinking and a cool eye, in which problems are clearly seen through wise contemplation, deficiencies are sought, and growth is better achieved through self-criticism.

24. 一个人的成长离不开 社会 阅历。在生活中，不断培养人们的心性，思维品质，意志力，承受失败的能力等等。一个人由童年的无知发展为对 社会 ，对世界的认识，思维，心理不断成熟，才使得为人处事更加合情合理。

24. A person's growth cannot be separated from social experience. In life, people continuously cultivate their character, thinking quality, willpower, and the ability to endure failure, etc. A person develops from childhood innocence to a mature understanding of society and the world, as well as mature thinking and psychology, which makes their behavior and handling of affairs more reasonable and appropriate.

25. 有人说：只有经历切实的痛，才能获得真正的成长。对于年近不惑的我来讲，成长是需要勇气的。因为在我看来，成长意味着挑战自己，需要有告别舒适区的勇气；成长意味着否定自己，需要有重新审视自己，规划自己的勇气；成长意味着打破自己，需要有勇于突破自己能力边界的勇气。

25. Some say: Only through experiencing real pain can one achieve true growth. For someone like me who is approaching the age of 40, growth requires courage. Because in my view, growth means challenging oneself, and it requires the courage to leave one's comfort zone; growth means negating oneself, and it requires the courage to re-evaluate oneself and plan for oneself; growth means breaking oneself, and it requires the courage to break through one's own limitations.

26. 作家刘墉一次下飞机后，打出租车到预订的酒店。途中司机和他相谈甚欢，到站时，司机只收他100元。

26. The writer Liu Yong once got off the plane and took a taxi to the hotel he had booked. During the ride, the driver chatted with him very happily, and when they arrived at the destination, the driver only charged him 100 yuan.

27. 后来，刘墉不再随意错付真心，处事也越来越睿智。

27. Later on, Liu Yongyong no longer gave his true feelings recklessly and became increasingly wise in handling affairs.

28. 明代大儒王阳明，一生被很多人刁难，步步挫折，一路风霜。但他从没有沉沦，而是在事上练，心上磨，把遇见的一切刁难，都视为修炼心灵的基石。

28. The great Ming Dynasty scholar Wang Yangming was troubled by many people throughout his life, facing setbacks at every step and enduring hardships all along the way. However, he never succumbed to despair. Instead, he honed himself through his experiences, refining his mind, and regarded every challenge he encountered as a cornerstone for cultivating his spiritual nature.

29. 过去我也曾经自信满满，直到有一天我确认那些更高级的人存在，他们也许不给你提供详细的人生改革方案，更多的时候只是一个微笑，你就能从中领悟到生命的奥秘和人生的有趣。

29. In the past, I was also full of confidence, until one day I confirmed the existence of those more advanced individuals. They may not provide you with a detailed plan for life reform, more often than not, it's just a smile, and from it, you can grasp the mysteries of life and the fun of existence.

30. 作家冯唐说：“把黑你的人、骂你的人、损你的人，他们的这些负能量当成你的动力；看准地面，发足狂奔，用实力证明自己。”

30. The writer Fengtang said, "Take the negativity from those who blacken your name, insult you, and belittle you as your motivation; focus on the ground, run full steam ahead, and prove yourself with your strength."

31. 打破自己，从来就不是一件特别容易的事情。打破自己，意味着你不仅不能掩饰自己的错误，还要敢于正视自己的问题；意味着你极度透明，极度简单，用开放的心态去接受所有的真相；意味着敢于承认自己 的 无知，勇于突破自己能力的边界。

31. Breaking oneself is never an easy thing. Breaking oneself means not only that you cannot conceal your own mistakes but also that you must dare to face your own problems; it means you are extremely transparent and simple, approaching with an open mind to accept all truths; it means daring to admit your own ignorance and being courageous in breaking through the boundaries of your abilities.

32. 曾国藩说：君子但尽人事，不计天命，而天命即在人事之中。

32. Zeng Guofan said: A gentleman should do his best in his endeavors, without concerning himself with destiny, and destiny itself is contained within human affairs.

33. 一个人的成长可能需要无数个导师，比如学生时代，可能需要学习导师；挖掘自己的职业兴趣，可能需要职业规划导师；工作后可能需要工作导师；工作业绩提升慢，可能需要教练导师；与他人相处可能需要人际导师；想自己创业可能需要创业导师；想发展自己的兴趣，可能需要专业导师；身体有问题，可能需要 健康 导师；心理上有问题，可能需要心理导师；想投资和理财，可能需要财富导师；遇到问题或者重大决策，可能需要咨询导师。总之，一个优秀的人，会有无数个导师，所有成功的人都有自己的导师智囊团。集体共智，正是优秀和杰出的人与众不同的生活方式！要想成为优秀的人，必须具备一种能力，这种能力就是选择自己的导师。

33. A person's growth may require countless mentors, such as learning mentors during school days; career planning mentors to explore their professional interests; work mentors after starting a job; coach mentors if their work performance is slow to improve; interpersonal mentors for dealing with others; entrepreneurial mentors for those who want to start their own business; professional mentors for those who want to develop their hobbies; health mentors if they have physical issues; psychological mentors if they have mental health problems; wealth mentors for those interested in investment and finance; and consulting mentors when facing problems or major decisions. In summary, an outstanding person may have countless mentors, and all successful people have their own mentor think tanks. Collective intelligence is what distinguishes the lifestyle of outstanding and exceptional individuals! To become an outstanding person, one must possess a certain ability, which is the ability to choose one's own mentors.

34. 勇于否定自己，在否定中重新认识自己、规划自己。

34. Dare to deny oneself, and in the denial, re-understand and plan oneself.

35. 让你不舒服的人，都是上天给你的考验。通过考验，你就赢了。

35. The people who make you uncomfortable are the trials sent by heaven. By passing the trials, you win.

36. 生活中，我们总会遇到一些让我们不舒服的人，如果就此怨天尤人，意志消沉，只会沉沦不起。

36. In life, we will inevitably encounter some people who make us uncomfortable. If we complain about fate and others and become despondent, it will only lead to stagnation and inaction.

37. 对于一个积极作为的人来说，身边有人打击你，反对你，其实是上天以另一种方式成全你。

37. For a person who actively takes action, having someone who criticizes you and opposes you is actually a way for heaven to fulfill you in another form.

38. 身边的每一个人，包括那些你认为好的或不好的，总觉得人生要走的弯路一米都少不了。[酷拽]

38. Everyone around you, including those you think are good or bad, always seems to think that life can't do without a single meter of the detours it must take. [Cool and cool]

39. 年轻时被宦官刘瑾陷害，当众被打得皮开肉绽，并被流放在荒无人烟的贵州龙场驿。

39. During his youth, he was framed by the eunuch Liu Jin, beaten in public until his skin was torn and bleeding, and then exiled to the desolate Longchang Station in Guizhou, a place with no human habitation.

40. 智慧不是凭空出现的，而是在你吃亏和受骗的过程中逐渐悟透的。那些欺骗你的人，会让你看透人性，直抵人心，升华自己的智慧。

40. Wisdom does not appear out of thin air; it is gradually understood through the process of being taken advantage of and deceived. Those who deceive you will enable you to see through human nature, straight to the heart, and elevate your own wisdom.