面对不尊重你的人，优雅应对之道，从心开始。

The elegant way to deal with people who don't respect you, starts from the heart.

1. 换言之，别人不尊重我，不是我不够好，而是别人的素质低。

1. In other words, if others do not respect me, it's not because I'm not good enough, but because others have low素质.

2. 我们曾如此期待外界的认可，后来才发现，世界是自己的，和他人毫无关系。

2. We had been so eager for external recognition, only to find out later that the world is one's own, having nothing to do with others.

3. 任何不尊重你的人，都不值得你消耗一点点能量。

3. Anyone who does not respect you is not worth expending even a little bit of energy.

4. 莫言曾说过：“不尊重你的人，百分之百都是瞧不起你的人，这不是因为他们性格直，而是从内心深处不关心你。当一个人不尊重你时，你不应该过多地展现你的大方，也不必去尝试沟通、交流、愤怒或难过，而应该选择无视并保持距离。”

4. Mo Yan once said: "People who do not respect you are 100% those who look down on you, and this is not because they are straightforward, but because they do not care about you deeply from the bottom of their hearts. When someone does not respect you, you should not overly show your generosity, nor should you try to communicate, exchange, get angry, or feel sad. Instead, you should choose to ignore and maintain a distance."

5. 这个世界上，什么人都有。其中不乏小人，烂人，垃圾人，他们不尊重你，或者给你添堵。你要做的，只有一样，就是不要搭理，距离他们远远的。

5. In this world, there are all kinds of people. Among them are not a few little people, bad people, and trash people who do not respect you or cause you trouble. What you need to do is only one thing: do not pay any attention to them and keep a distance from them.

6. 不要管别人怎么看你，关键是自己如何看待自己。

6. Don't worry about how others see you; the key is how you see yourself.

7. 要学会适应这种情况，不要刻意讨好别人，也不要跟别人解释自己。该怎么样就怎么样，别人怎么看你，那是他的事儿，你只需做好自己。

7. Learn to adapt to this situation. Don't try to please others or explain yourself to them. Just do what you should do. How others perceive you is their business, but you just need to do your own thing.

8. 别人不尊重你，不要生气，更不要死磕，不要放在心上，无视就好。

8. If others do not respect you, do not get angry, and do not argue to the end. Do not take it to heart, just ignore it.

9. 如果你因此消耗自己，纠缠不休，只会徒然毁了心情，浪费了时间和精力。

9. If you wear yourself out and keep pestering because of this, it will only destroy your mood, waste your time and energy.

10. 你不管如何表现，总有人不喜欢你，不认可你，不愿意接受你，正如你不会接受所有人一样。

10. No matter how you behave, there will always be people who don't like you, don't recognize you, and are unwilling to accept you, just as you wouldn't accept everyone either.

11. 一个人不尊重你，说明你们的能量和频率并不相同。随他去吧，不值得你纠缠。

11. If someone does not respect you, it means that your energy and frequency are not the same. Let it go, it's not worth your纠缠.

12. 有的人为了让别人高看自己一眼，逢迎巴结，唯唯诺诺，反而适得其反，让别人看低你的价值，更加看不起你。

12. Some people, in order to gain others' admiration, flatter and curry favor, kowtow and be obsequious, but instead, it has the opposite effect, making others undervalue your worth and look down on you even more.

13. 君子乐得做君子，小人枉自做小人。

13. A gentleman enjoys being a gentleman, while a small person is in vain a small person.

14. 别人怎么看你，那是别人的事儿。自己怎么过日子，才是自己的事儿。最好的自律，就是别让别人的事儿来干扰自己的事儿，专注自己，做好自己。

14. What others think of you is none of your business. How you live your life is your own business. The best self-discipline is not to let others' business interfere with your own, to focus on yourself, and to do your best.

15. 别人是否尊重你，其实跟你毫无关系。

15. Whether others respect you has nothing to do with you.

16. 不要讨好别人，那样绝对赢不到真正的尊重。

16. Do not flatter others, as that will never win genuine respect.

17. 第二天，士成绮觉得昨天言语过分，特来道歉。老子说，你喊我为牛，那我就叫做牛，你喊我为马，那我就叫做马。而事实上我还是我，并不会因为你的态度而改变。

17. The next day, Shi Chengqi felt that he had spoken too much yesterday and came to apologize. Laozi said, if you call me a cow, then I am a cow; if you call me a horse, then I am a horse. But in fact, I am still me, and I will not change because of your attitude.

18. 尺有所短，寸有所长。任何一个人都有自己的优势和长处，以及平等的人格，都值得我们尊重。而不尊重，才是浅薄和狭隘的表现。

18. Every inch has its shortcoming, every foot its long. Every person has their own strengths and virtues, and an equal sense of personality, which deserves our respect. Not respecting others is a manifestation of superficiality and narrow-mindedness.

19. 杨绛说:“永远不要跟别人解释自己，懂你的人不言而喻，不懂你的人百口莫辩。做事不需要人人都理解，做人不需要人人都喜欢。我们谁也没有办法活成人人都满意的样子，但求问心无愧，活在当下，做好自己。”

19. Yang Jiang said: "Never explain yourself to others. Those who understand you need no words, and those who don't understand you can't be justified in a hundred mouths. You don't need everyone to understand what you do, and you don't need everyone to like how you behave. No one can live up to everyone's satisfaction, but we should strive to be without regret, live in the present, and do our best."

20. 鲁迅先生说：别人尊重我，不是我很优秀，是别人很优秀。

20. Mr. Lu Xun once said: It's not because I am excellent that others respect me, but because others are excellent.

21. 与恶龙缠斗，你也会变成恶龙。凝视深渊过久，深渊将回以凝视。

21. Fighting with an evil dragon, you will also become an evil dragon. Gaze into the abyss for too long, and the abyss will return your gaze.

22. 士成绮千里迢迢拜访老子，看到老子居住的地方一片狼藉，十分失望，说：我听说你是一位德高望重的圣人，因此跋山涉水前来请教，想不到你这么邋遢，真是丢人！

22. Shi Chengqi traveled a long distance to visit Laozi and was greatly disappointed upon seeing the mess of Laozi's residence, saying: "I heard that you are a revered sage, so I came here to seek guidance after crossing mountains and rivers. I never thought you would be so untidy; it's truly a disgrace!"