随身之人，我将以自我塑造——人如其伴。

The person I carry with me, I will mold myself after——a person is as good as their companion.

1. 有一段令人醍醐灌顶的话：“跟着苍蝇找厕所，跟着蜜蜂找花朵，跟着千万赚百万，跟着乞丐学要饭，圈子决定人生。目标放中间，杂事放两边，遇贵人先择业，遇良人先成家，有时候，选择大于努力，比穷更可怕的是安于现状！”

1. There is a profound saying: "Follow the flies to find the toilet, follow the bees to find flowers, follow the tens of thousands to earn millions, and follow beggars to learn how to beg. The circle determines one's life. Place your goals in the middle, and mundane matters on the sides. Choose a career before meeting a贵人 (auspicious person), and start a family before meeting a 良人 (good person). Sometimes, choice is more important than effort, and being complacent with the status quo is even more可怕 (terrible) than poverty!"

2. 一个人想要改变命运，最快的方式不是学习提升，而是想方设法进入优质的圈子，和高质量的人在一起，在潜移默化之间，接受他们的高能量，从而让自己变得非常强大，匹配到更加优质的生活。

2. The fastest way for a person to change their destiny is not through learning and self-improvement, but to find ways to enter high-quality circles and be with high-quality individuals. Through subtle influence, they absorb their high energy, thereby becoming very strong and qualifying for a more high-quality life.

3. 跟着苍蝇找厕所，跟着蜜蜂找花朵。跟着不思进取的人玩物丧志，跟着勤奋刻苦的人追寻梦想。你跟着什么人，最后也就会成为什么人。

3. Follow the flies to find the toilet and follow the bees to find flowers. Follow a person who lacks ambition and you will waste your aspirations; follow a diligent and hardworking person and you will pursue dreams. Whom you follow, that's who you will eventually become.

4. 老家村子里的一个年轻人，大学毕业后进入县城一家事业单位工作，因为待人处事周全得体，写作能力过硬，做事也很积极踏实，深得领导赏识。

4. A young man from his hometown village entered a public institution in the county after graduating from university. Due to his comprehensive and appropriate manner in dealing with people, solid writing skills, and his proactive and steady work ethic, he was highly appreciated by his superiors.

5. 但是几年之后，他非但没有得到提拔重用，升职加薪，反而被单位开除，沦为衣食无着的丧家之犬。

5. However, several years later, not only did he not receive promotion or salary increase, but he was actually dismissed from his unit, becoming a destitute stray dog without a home for food and clothing.

6. 各种原因，在于他被一群损友祸害。

6. For various reasons, it is because he has been corrupted by a group of bad friends.

7. 经由大学同学介绍，他认识了县城里一群无所事事的人，他们不务正业，一门心思研究彩票中奖。这位年轻人也想改变自己的经济状况，对研究彩票的事情十分痴迷。

7. Through the introduction of his university classmates, he got to know a group of idle people in the county town. They were not engaged in their proper professions, and they were all focused on researching how to win lottery prizes. This young man also wanted to change his economic situation and was deeply obsessed with the lottery research.

8. 他们经常探讨如何购买彩票，如何提升中奖率。这位年轻人的工资几乎都倾注在彩票之中，赢了还想赢，输了又想扳本。有一次他大败亏输，想要放弃了，可这群损友说：

8. They often discuss how to buy lottery tickets and how to increase their chances of winning. The young man's salary is almost entirely spent on lottery tickets, always wanting to win more, and feeling the need to recoup losses. There was a time when he lost big and wanted to give up, but these bad friends said:

9. “下次算好了，翻盘轻而易举，中一次大奖，前面花的钱立马就能赚回来；

9. "Next time it will be fine, it's easy to turn the tide, win a big prize once, and the money spent earlier will be recouped immediately."

10. 现在收手太可惜啦，万一下一把就中了呢？”

10. "It's too bad to give up now, what if the next round is the one you win?"

11. 结果在大家的撺掇之下，他越陷越深，直至做出挪用公款购买彩票的事情，东窗事发后受到严厉追责，失去了工作和前程。

11. Due to the urging of everyone around him, he became increasingly involved, eventually committing the act of embezzling public funds to buy lottery tickets. After the incident was exposed, he faced severe repercussions, losing his job and his future prospects.

12. 真正让你陷入可悲命运的，其实不是你的认知和运气，而是身边的圈子在不知不觉之中消耗着你。

12. The real reason that leads you into a pitiful destiny is not your knowledge and luck, but rather the circle around you, which, without your noticing, consumes you.

13. 李嘉诚的一位司机，为他服务了20多年。

13. One of Li Ka-shing's drivers has served him for over 20 years.

14. 一天，李嘉诚拿出一张银行卡，说卡里有20万，感谢他这么多年无怨无悔的付出。

14. One day, Li Ka-shing took out a bank card and said that there were 200,000 yuan in it, thanking him for his unwavering and selfless dedication over the years.

15. 司机拒绝了，说，我跟在老板后面赚了不少钱，实在不需要这20万。

15. The driver refused, saying, "I've made a lot of money following my boss, so I really don't need the extra 200,000 yuan."

16. 李嘉诚很惊诧的询问原因。原来司机经常听李嘉诚打电话，怎么投资？投资哪一个行业和领域？哪家公司更有发展潜力？哪是股票涨幅最大？

16. Li Ka-shing was surprised and asked for the reason. It turned out that the driver often overheard Li Ka-shing making phone calls about how to invest, which industry and field to invest in, which company has more development potential, and which stock has the greatest price increase.

17. 每次李嘉诚投资的时候，他也尝试着把自己的部分积蓄悄悄投进去。四五年之内赚得几百万。

17. Every time Li Ka-shing invests, he also tries to悄悄ly put some of his own savings into it. Within four or five years, he earned several million.

18. 和厉害的人同行，你才会成为生活的强者。

18. Walking with powerful people, you will become a strong individual in life.

19. 和品行优良的人住在一起，就像进入了摆满芝兰的房间，久而久之就闻不到芝兰的香味了，就是与它同化了。和品行不好的人住在一起，就像进入了放满臭咸鱼的店铺，久而久之就闻不到咸鱼的臭味了，也是和它同化了。

19. Living with people of good character is like entering a room filled with chrysanthemums; after a long time, one no longer smells the fragrance of the chrysanthemums, as one has become one with them. Living with people of bad character is like entering a shop filled with stinky salted fish; after a long time, one no longer smells the odor of the salted fish, as one has also become one with it.

20. 余生，靠近比你厉害的人，你终将逆风翻盘，成就自己。

20. In the remainder of your life, get close to people who are more capable than you, and you will eventually turn the tide and achieve your own success.

21. 1当你感到悲哀痛苦时，最好是去学些什么东西。学习会使你永远立于不败之地。

21. 1 When you feel sad and in pain, it's best to learn something new. Learning will keep you forever不败.

22. 2塑造自我过程很疼，但最终你能收获一个更好的自我。

22. 2 The process of shaping oneself is painful, but in the end, you can achieve a better version of yourself.

23. 3人生没有白走的路，你现在所有的努力，要么赚经历，要么赚阅历，要么赚财富。

23. There is no waste in the road of life. All your efforts now are either gaining experience, gaining insights, or gaining wealth.

24. 5不要让追求之舟停泊在幻想的港湾，而应扬起奋斗的风帆，驶向现实生活的大海。

24. 5 Do not let the boat of pursuit dock in the harbor of illusion, but rather raise the sails of struggle and sail towards the vast ocean of real life.

25. 6如果说青春也有缺点，那就是它消失得太快。

25. 6 If youth has any flaw, it is that it fades too quickly.

26. 7我们要应对的苦难和挫折不会因为我们遭遇够多而减少，上天不会因为你的悲惨而悯怜你，它只会安排一道又一道难关来磨炼你的意志。就像唐僧西天取经一样，想要取得真经，就不要有返途的念想，你除了继续死磕到底，根本没有其他退路。

26. 7 The suffering and setbacks we need to face will not diminish just because we have encountered enough of them; heaven will not show compassion for your misfortune. It will only set one obstacle after another to test your willpower. Just like Tang Sanzang's journey to retrieve the sacred scriptures from the West, if you want to obtain the true scriptures, you should not have any thoughts of returning. You have no other choice but to continue fighting to the end.

27. 8你会有始料不及的运气，也会有突如其来的惊喜。

27. 8 You will have unexpected luck and sudden surprises.

28. 9当你孤独时，风儿就是我的歌声，愿它能使你得到片刻的安慰；当你骄傲时，雨点就是我的警钟，愿它能使你获得永恒的谦逊。

28. 9 When you are alone, the wind is my song, may it bring you a moment of comfort; when you are proud, the raindrops are my alarm bell, may it bring you eternal humility.

29. 10任何事情都应该尝试一下，因为你无法知道，什么样的事或者什么样的人将会改变你的一生。

29. 10 Try everything, because you can never know what kind of thing or what kind of person will change your life.

30. 11行动是治愈恐惧的良药，而犹豫拖延将不断滋养恐惧。

30. Action is the best medicine for curing fear, while hesitation and procrastination will continuously nourish fear.

31. 12永不期待，永不假设，永不强求。顺其自然，若是注定发生，必会如你所愿。

31. 12 Never anticipate, never assume, never force. Let things be as they may, if it is destined to happen, it will come to pass as you wish.

32. 13好好爱自我，不断努力，不断上进，是对自我最好的投资！

32. 13 Love yourself well, strive continuously, and keep advancing — this is the best investment in yourself!

33. 14理想如晨星，——我们永不能触到，但我们可像航海者一样，借星光的位置而航行。

33. 14 Ideals are like morning stars—though we can never touch them, we can navigate like sailors by the position of the stars.

34. 15好好地活着，别在乎太多；认真地活着，别奢求更多。

34. Live well, don't worry too much; live seriously, don't desire more.

35. 16世界让我遍体鳞伤，但伤口长出的却是翅膀。

35. The 16th century left me scarred all over, but the wounds grew wings.

36. 17在我们所具有的一切缺点中，最为粗鲁的乃是轻视我们的存在。

36. Among all the defects we possess, the crudest one is to disdain our own existence.

37. 18高峰只对攀登它而不是仰望它的人来说才有真正意义。

37. The summit is truly meaningful only to those who climb it rather than gaze at it from afar.

38. 19行动是成功的阶梯，行动越多，登得越高。

38. Action is the ladder to success, the more action, the higher you climb.

39. 20工作之余，一定要抽出时间多认识一些人，多进入一些社交圈，这对你的发展会有极大的好处。

39. Besides work, it is essential to allocate time to get to know more people and enter more social circles, which will greatly benefit your development.

40. 22有些路注定是要孤身一人走的，想要到达繁华，必经一段荒凉。

40. 22 Some paths are meant to be walked alone. To reach prosperity, one must pass through a period of barrenness.

41. 23有人说要做一道光，有人说要应对光，但我却想做一个背光的人。自我如果发光，会照亮他人，但也会不细心迷失自我，如果面光而行，会灿烂光明，但也会因为耀眼看不清前方的道路。仅有背对着光，才能够看清这个世界，才能把得失成败看透，才能看懂自我真正想要的是什么。

41. Some say they want to be a light, some say they want to confront the light, but I want to be a person standing in the shadow of the light. If I were to shine, I could illuminate others, but I might also lose myself in carelessness. If I walk facing the light, I could be radiant and bright, but I might also be blinded and unable to see the path ahead. Only by standing against the light can I truly see this world, can I understand the true nature of gains and losses, and can I comprehend what I truly desire.

42. 24想要什么，想清楚，选择，珍惜，一如对你的婚姻。

42. Want what you want, be clear about it, choose, cherish it, just as you do with your marriage.

43. 26自信的人，懂得“天生我才必有用”的道理，依靠着必胜的信心，在艰苦的搏击中，驶向成功的彼岸。

43. The confident person understands the truth that "I was born for a purpose," relying on the invincible confidence, they navigate through the arduous struggles towards the shore of success.

44. 29勤学的人，总是感到时间过得太快；懒惰的人，却总是埋怨时间跑得太慢。

44. The diligent always feel that time flies by too quickly; the lazy always complain that time moves too slowly.

45. 30河上没有桥还能够等待结冰，走过漫长的黑夜便是黎明。

45. There is no bridge over the river, but we can still wait for it to freeze, and crossing the long night will lead to dawn.

46. 31在茫茫沙漠，唯有前时进的脚步才是希望的象征。

46. In the boundless desert, only the footsteps of those who have moved forward are the symbol of hope.

47. 32如果一年到头如假日，岂不像连日工作那样疲乏

47. If every day is like a holiday throughout the year, wouldn't it be as exhausting as working day after day?

48. 33时间就是生命。时光不会倒流，珍惜此刻，奋斗未来吧。

48. Time is life. Time cannot be reversed, cherish the present moment, and strive for the future.

49. 34生活真谛在于创新，生活的梦想在于远大，生活的艺术在于选择，生活的步履在于踏实，生活的乐趣在于追求，生活的安乐在于平淡。去像蚂蚁一样工作，像蝴蝶一样生活。

49. The essence of life lies in innovation, the dream of life lies in grandeur, the art of life lies in choice, the pace of life lies in steadfastness, the joy of life lies in pursuit, and the comfort of life lies in simplicity. Work like an ant and live like a butterfly.

50. 36你的人生永远不会辜负你，那些转错的弯，那些走错的路，那些流下的泪，那些滴下的汗水，那些留下的伤痕，全都让你成为独一无二的自己。

50. Your life will never betray you. Those wrong turns, those paths taken, those tears shed, those sweat drops, those scars left behind, all of them make you the unique individual that you are.

51. 37你现在的生活也许不是你想要的，但绝对是你自找的。

51. 37 Now your life may not be what you want, but it's definitely something you've brought upon yourself.

52. 38梦想是注定孤独的旅行，路上少不了质疑和嘲笑，但是，那又怎样，哪怕遍体鳞伤，也要活得漂亮。

52. 38 Dreams are destined to be a solitary journey, and along the way, there will be plenty of doubts and嘲笑. However, what's the point? Even if one is bruised and bleeding all over, one must still live beautifully.

53. 39心境，是一种感情状态，拥有了好心境，也就拥有了自信，继而拥有了年轻和健康。就拥有了对未来生活的向往，充满期待，让我们拥有一份好心境吧，因为生活着就是幸运和快乐。

53. 39 Mood, a state of emotion, having a good mood means having confidence, which in turn brings youth and health. It also means yearning for the future life, brimming with anticipation. Let's have a good mood, because being alive is luck and happiness.

54. 40你用一百分的努力和成功做交换，没有不成交的。

54. 40 With one hundred percent effort and success, there is no deal that cannot be made.

55. 1谁若游戏人生，他就一事无成；谁不能主宰自己，便永远是一个奴隶。——歌德

55. 1 He who plays with life accomplishes nothing; he who cannot master himself is forever a slave. — Goethe

56. 3努力的意义，就是，以后的日子里，放眼望去，全部都是自我喜欢的人和事。

56. The significance of effort is that in the days to come, looking ahead, all one sees are people and things that one likes.

57. 4想和聪明的人在一齐，你就得聪明；想和优秀的人在一齐，你就得优秀。

57. If you want to be with intelligent people, you have to be intelligent; if you want to be with outstanding people, you have to be outstanding.

58. 5生于忧患死于安乐；如果想跨越自己目前的成绩，就不能画地自限，而是要勇于接受挑战。

58. To live in worry and to die in comfort; if one wants to transcend their current achievements, they cannot limit themselves by drawing boundaries but must dare to accept challenges.

59. 6当你的希望一个个落空，你也要坚定，要沉着！

59. 6 When your hopes fall one by one, you must be steadfast and composed!

60. 8痛苦是人生的拐杖，它使强者更强，弱者更弱。

60. 8 Suffering is a crutch in life, making the strong stronger and the weak weaker.

61. 10不管脚步有多慢都不要紧，只要你在走，总会看到进步。

61. No matter how slow your pace is, it's fine as long as you're moving forward; you will always see progress.

62. 12一辈子坚持去做，不是因为有了期望才坚持，而是因为坚持才有了期望！不是因为有了机会才争取，而是因为争取了才有机会！不是因为成长了才去承担，而是因为承担了才会成长！不是因为拥有了才会付出，而是因为付出了才会拥有！

62. 12 A lifetime of perseverance is not because of expectations that one perseveres, but rather it is perseverance that brings about expectations! Not because of opportunities that one strives for, but rather it is striving that creates opportunities! Not because of growth that one undertakes responsibilities, but rather it is by undertaking responsibilities that one grows! Not because of possession that one gives, but rather it is through giving that one possesses!

63. 13任何事情都应该尝试一下，因为你无法知道，什么样的事或者什么样的人将会改变你的一生。

63. 13 Try everything, because you never know what kind of event or what kind of person will change your life.

64. 14每个人都不是你所看到的那个样貌，他们都是一边是长着翅膀纯洁善良的天使，一边是拿着夜叉面目狰狞的恶魔。他们心中的脆弱和胆小，他们不想承认的虚荣和懦弱，都躲在了那些光鲜之下。他们也有潦倒的时候，他们也看过人间的疾苦，他们也会在选择前犹豫，他们也曾愚蠢地放下机会，他们也在对自我的下属横眉冷对时，突然想起以往也有人这样对待过自我。

64. 14 Each person is not just as you see them. They are like angels, pure and kind, with wings on one side, and demons, fierce and menacing, on the other. Their fragility and timidity, their unacknowledged vanity and cowardice, all hide beneath that glimmer. They too have their downfalls, they too have witnessed the hardships of human life, they too hesitate before making choices, they too have foolishly let opportunities slip away, and they too, when sternly facing their subordinates, suddenly remember that they themselves have been treated this way in the past.

65. 15智者创造机会，强者把握机会，弱者坐等机会。

65. The wise create opportunities, the strong seize opportunities, and the weak wait for opportunities.

66. 16坚韧是成功的一大要素，只要在门上敲得够久够大声，终会把人唤醒的。

66. 16 Tenacity is a major element of success. As long as you knock on the door long enough and loud enough, you will eventually wake someone up.