人生如梦，三宝相伴。健康如基石，快乐似阳光，爱与被爱如暖流。在这纷繁的世界里，让我们携手探寻生命的真谛。

Life is like a dream, accompanied by the three treasures. Health is like a cornerstone, happiness is like sunshine, and love and being loved are like a warm current. In this complicated world, let us join hands to explore the true meaning of life.

1. 第一种相思病是单向的，即单相思。例如红楼梦中的尤三姐，当贾琏逼她出嫁时，她才在无奈之下说出了她爱的人是柳湘莲，可是由于她从来没有向对方表白过，所以对方也没有机会接近她、了解她。最后，柳湘莲仅根据“贾府除了门前的两只石狮子干净罢了！”的传言毅然拒绝了她纯洁的爱情，逼得她自刎以明志，柳湘莲则因自责而出家远行。

1. The first type of love sickness is unrequited, also known as a one-sided love. For example, in the novel "Dream of the Red Chamber," Yu Sanjie was forced to marry by Jia Lian. It was only under necessity that she confessed her love for Liu Xianglian. However, since she had never declared her love to him, he had no chance to get close to her or understand her. In the end, Liu Xianglian, solely based on the rumor that "the Jia Mansion is only clean except for the two stone lions in front," resolutely rejected her pure love, forcing her to commit suicide to assert her will. Liu Xianglian then left the house and became a monk due to his self-reproach.

2. 随着现代精神医学和心理学的发展，相思病已经引起有关专家的关注，英国的心理学家弗兰克·托里斯博士认为：相思病与精神病很接近，可以导致癫狂、抑郁、迷茫、狂躁、妄想等症状，严重者可致命。

2. With the development of modern psychiatry and psychology, love sickness has attracted the attention of relevant experts. Dr. Frank Torris, a British psychologist, believes that love sickness is very close to mental illness and can lead to symptoms such as mania, depression, confusion, mania, delusion, and in severe cases, it can be fatal.

3. 也许忙碌的日子让彼此疏离，但知心的朋友一生难忘记。莫让时间冲淡友谊的酒，莫让距离拉开思念的手。我的朋友，愿你健康幸福！

3. Perhaps the busy days have caused us to grow apart, but a close friend is something that is hard to forget in a lifetime. Don't let time dilute the wine of friendship, and don't let distance pull apart the hands of longing. My friend, may you be healthy and happy!

4. 好的朋友我会珍惜，好的微笑我会留住，好的信息我会珍藏，好的祝福我会给你：来也匆匆，去也匆匆，彼此忙碌不得空，关心问候在心中，天凉，记得添衣！

4. I will cherish good friends, I will keep a good smile, I will treasure good messages, and I will give you my good wishes: come in a hurry, go in a hurry, too busy to have time for each other, care and greetings are in my heart, it's getting cold, remember to add clothes!

5. 有时遥不可及才是最好的距离,没有期待,没有妄想。

5. Sometimes, being unattainably distant is the best distance, with no expectations and no illusions.

6. 心善自然美丽，心真自然诚挚，简单生活才能幸福生活，走过岁月的清浅，尝透了人情的冷暖，生活需要一份淡定的沉稳，当然也需要一份自我的疗伤，生活的伤，彼此相同，悲哀和乐观也就取决于谁的一念之间。要活，就爱护每一回的心跳，不慌不忙。

6. A kind heart is naturally beautiful, a sincere heart is naturally sincere. Simple living is the key to a happy life. Having traversed the shallow waters of time, and tasted the cold and warmth of human feelings, life requires a composed calmness. Of course, it also needs a self-healing. The wounds of life are the same for everyone, and whether it is sad or optimistic depends on one's thought in a moment. To live, cherish every heartbeat without hurry or worry.

7. 我们来到这个世界上，不是为了建功立业，不是活成别人期待的样子，而是看花怎么开，水怎么流，太阳怎么升起，月亮怎么落下，在最深的人间烟火里，感受人心的温暖，体验人世间的大爱深沉。感悟一些道理，探寻一些因果，获得内心的幸福感。

7. We come into this world not to achieve great feats or live up to others' expectations, but to observe how flowers bloom, how water flows, how the sun rises, and how the moon sets. It is within the deepest human hustle and bustle that we feel the warmth of the human heart and experience the profound love in the world. We gain insights into some truths, explore some causes and effects, and obtain the happiness within our hearts.

8. 常规思维是人人都有的思维状态。当周围的一切不曾产生变化时有它的便利性。但面对新事物时，如仍受其约束，就会适得其反。打破心理枷锁才能适应新环境。

8. Conventional thinking is a state of mind that everyone possesses. It is convenient when everything around remains unchanged. However, when faced with new things, if one is still constrained by it, it can backfire. Breaking the psychological shackles is necessary to adapt to new environments.

9. 如果我能和他(她)结婚，我可能是十分幸运的人。如果办不到，我也有可能找到比他(她)更好的人。

9. If I could marry him/her, I might be a very lucky person. If I can't, I might still find someone better than him/her.

10. 人生不必计较是否拥有，是否成功，是否被人尊重，你只要快快乐乐体验这一辈子。

10. In life, there is no need to worry about whether you have it, whether you are successful, or whether you are respected by others. You just need to enjoy this lifetime happily and joyfully.

11. 晚风吹过，吹走了行人一天的疲惫，顺便带来阵阵饭香，人们啊不紧不慢不赶地走着，因为家就在那里，在那里等你。

11. The evening breeze swept through, carrying away the fatigue of pedestrians' day and bringing along the aroma of cooked food. People walked leisurely, not in a hurry, for their homes were right there, waiting for them.

12. 我们都不喜欢等，无论所等的是好事，坏事，好坏未卜之事，不好不坏之事。等总是无可奈何的，等的时候，一颗心悬着，这滋味真的不好受。但是无论我们今天怎么用力，明天的落叶还是会飘下来，世上有很多事是无法提前的。快乐的活在当下，才是我们最应该做的。

12. We all dislike waiting, whether for good things, bad things, things with uncertain outcomes, or things that are neither good nor bad. Waiting always feels like a helpless situation, and during that time, one's heart hangs in the balance, which really isn't a pleasant feeling. However, no matter how hard we try today, tomorrow's falling leaves will still drift down, and there are many things in the world that cannot be anticipated. Living happily in the present is what we should do most.

13. 世界上最遥远的距离，不是我站在你面前，你却不知道我爱你，而是明明知道彼此相爱，却不能在一起。

13. The greatest distance in the world is not that I stand in front of you but you don't know that I love you, but that we both know we love each other yet cannot be together.

14. 你和朋友分手时，不要悲伤，因为你最爱那些美质，他离开你是你会觉得更明亮，就像爬山的人在平地上遥望高山，那山显得更清晰。

14. When you break up with a friend, do not feel sad, for you love the beautiful qualities the most. It would be even brighter for you if he leaves, just like a climber looking at a distant mountain from the flat ground, making the mountain appear clearer.

15. 也才二十岁，你的人生会有无限的可能，有大把的时光可以挥霍。不能总觉得人生没有多少选择的机会，毕竟也还年轻，生活才刚刚开始。可能你会一直碰壁，但是希望你有从头再来的勇气。

15. At just twenty years old, your life holds endless possibilities and plenty of time to squander. Don't always think that there are few opportunities for choice in life, after all, you're still young, and life is just beginning. You may always encounter setbacks, but I hope you have the courage to start over.

16. 现在回想起来，才发现当初的自己是多么的幼稚。

16. Looking back now, I realize just how immature I was back then.

17. 烟花只是一瞬 我却仰头等了一世

17. Fireworks are just a moment, yet I have waited with my head raised for a lifetime.

18. 愿你俩用爱去绾着对方，彼此互相体谅和关怀，共同分享今后的苦与乐。敬祝百年好合永结同心！新婚愉快，幸福美满，激情永在，白头偕老。

18. May the love bind you both together, understanding and caring for each other, sharing the joys and sorrows of the future. Wishing you a happy marriage, forever united, and may your passion last a lifetime, living together until old age.

19. 茨威格在他的名著《巫山云》中便记录了一则悲剧式的单相思故事。故事主人翁著名小说家R接到了一封女人的来信，她向他诉说了十三岁时就开始的对他的爱情。信是这样写的：我亲爱的，那一天，那一刻，我整个地、永远地爱上你的那一天，那一刻，现在我还记得清清楚楚。……从那刻起，从我感到了那柔和的、脉脉含情的目光以后，我就属于你了。……你使我整个生活变了样。原先我在学校里学习并不太认真，成绩也是中等，现在突然成了第一名，我读了上千本书……因为我知道，你是喜欢书的……我以近乎顽固的劲头坚持不懈地练起钢琴来…因为我想，你是喜欢音乐的。

19. In his famous work "The Clouds Over Wushan," Zweig records a tragic story of unrequited love. The protagonist, the renowned novelist R, receives a letter from a woman who expresses her love for him that began at the age of thirteen. The letter reads: "My dear, that day, that moment, when I fell in love with you completely and forever, I still remember it vividly.... From that moment on, from the moment I felt your gentle, affectionate gaze, I belonged to you.... You have changed my entire life. Before, I was not very serious about my studies at school, and my grades were average, but now I have suddenly become the top student, I have read thousands of books... because I know you like books.... I have been practicing the piano with almost stubborn persistence... because I thought, you like music."

20. 健康是人生幸福的基石，是最顶级的财富和成功。不管我们有怎样的梦想和追求，一定要把健康放在第一位。当你功成名就，拥有健康，才能够享受生活，当你失败，拥有健康，才能够东山再起。

20. Health is the foundation of happiness in life and the ultimate wealth and success. Regardless of what dreams and pursuits we have, we must always put health first. Only when you have achieved success and health can you enjoy life, and only when you have health can you rise again after failure.

21. 有些人不必说再见，因为只是路过而已。遗忘就是我们给彼此最好的纪念。是因我们太年轻，不能够坚持自己，还是诺言太软弱，经不起闲言碎语？我们的青春如此无奈，太多的回忆变成了伤怀。那些流年、那些颠狂、那些悲伤，在某个十字路口、已经尘埃落定。没文化真可怕，有文化更可怕。

21. Some people don't need to say goodbye because they're just passing through. Forgetting is the best memory we give each other. Is it because we are too young and cannot stick to ourselves, or because our promises are too weak and cannot withstand idle talk? Our youth is so helplessly futile, and too many memories have turned into sorrow. Those years gone by, those wild days, those sorrows, have all settled down at some crossroads. Ignorance is truly terrifying, but even more terrifying is having culture.

22. 直到最后才慢慢明白 没有谁会有义务和责任 一定要陪谁走到尽头

22. It was only at the very end that I slowly realized that no one has an obligation or responsibility to accompany someone to the end.

23. 逃避不一定躲得过，面对不一定最难受；孤单不一定不快乐，得到不一定能长久；失去不一定不再有，转身不一定最软弱；别急着说别无选择，以为世上只有对与错；你能找个理由难过，你也一定能找到理由快乐。懂得放下的人找到轻松；懂得遗忘的人找到自由；懂得珍惜的人找到幸福。

23. Not running away is not always a way to avoid it, facing it is not always the most uncomfortable; being alone is not necessarily not happy, getting something is not always permanent; losing something is not necessarily the end, turning back is not always the weakest; don't rush to say there are no choices, thinking that in the world there are only right and wrong; if you can find a reason to be sad, you can also find a reason to be happy. Those who understand to let go find ease; those who understand to forget find freedom; those who understand to cherish find happiness.

24. 明白的人懂得放弃，真情的人懂得牺牲，幸福的人懂得超脱。对不爱自己的人，最需要的是理解放弃和祝福。过多的自作多情是在乞求对方的施舍。爱与被爱，都是让人幸福的事情。不要让这些变成痛苦。既然你们已经经历了，多年以后，偶尔想起，希望都是美好的回忆。聪明的人知道自己要快乐

24. Wise people know when to let go, sincere people know when to sacrifice, and happy people know how to transcend. For those who do not love us, what is most needed is understanding of letting go and blessing. Too much self-sacrifice is akin to begging for the other's charity. Both loving and being loved are things that bring happiness. Do not let these turn into pain. Since you have experienced it, years later, when you occasionally think of it, hope it will be a beautiful memory. Wise people know that they need to be happy.

25. 我患上一种病，一种与生俱来的病，使我不断地控制不住的想着过去，很多年前，甚至去年，甚至昨天，甚至上一分钟的生活，虽然那些未必美好，另一方面却时刻恐惧着下一秒的生活：固执的坚信未来会更坏并且不可承受，歇斯底里惶恐至极，我渐渐理解了那些放弃世界的人的行为和心理——记仲夏结束的那一刻。

25. I have contracted a disease, an innate one, that makes me uncontrollably think about the past, years ago, even last year, even yesterday, even the life of the last minute, although it may not have been beautiful; on the other hand, I am constantly afraid of the next second of life: stubbornly believing that the future will be worse and unbearable, experiencing a state of extreme hysteria and fear, I have gradually understood the behavior and psychology of those who have given up on the world - remember the moment when the Midsummer ended.

26. 人常常会因为习惯了，而去忽略这个习惯中的幸福。提醒自己，去注意那平淡中的幸福。不要等到失去了，才了解，这才是最美的爱情。

26. People often ignore the happiness in their habits because they have become accustomed to them. Remind yourself to pay attention to the happiness in the mundane. Don't wait until you lose it to realize that this is the most beautiful love.

27. 五年前 那个和你一起倒数 跨年的人

27. Five years ago, the person who counted down with you to ring in the new year.

28. 通常通往成功的道路都是充满了荆棘与坎坷，没有人能随随便便就成功。成功的道路上又是细黑的，孤独的，但只要你心中有一盏灯永远亮着，再加上你有勇气大胆的去闯，走到最后谁就是胜利者。

28. The road to success is usually filled with thorns and difficulties; no one can achieve success easily. The path to success is also narrow and lonely, but as long as you have a light in your heart that is always burning, and you have the courage to boldly forge ahead, the one who reaches the end will be the victor.

29. 皈依三宝是平等的精神，因为生佛一如，无高无下；受持五戒是自由的尊重，因为不侵犯人，彼此受益。

29. Taking refuge in the Three Treasures is an expression of equal spirit, as it acknowledges the unity of the Buddha and sentient beings, without any distinction of high or low; observing the Five Precepts is a demonstration of respect for freedom, because it involves not infringing upon others, thereby benefiting both parties.

30. 我不喜欢说话却每天说最多的话，我不喜欢笑却总笑个不停，身边的每个人都说我的生活好快乐，于是我也就认为自己真的快乐。可为什么我会在一大群朋友中突然地沉默，为什么在人群中看到个相似的背影就难过，看见秋天树木疯狂地掉叶子就忘记说话，看见天色渐晚路上暖**灯火就忘记了原来的方向。我们总喜欢在别人面前戴上那虚伪的面具，等到独自一人时才黯然伤心

30. I don't like to talk, yet I say the most words every day. I don't like to laugh, yet I can't stop smiling. Everyone around me says that I live a very happy life, so I also believe that I am truly happy. But why do I suddenly fall silent among a group of friends, why do I feel sad when I see a similar back in a crowd, why do I forget to speak when I see the trees shedding their leaves wildly in autumn, why do I lose my original direction when I see the warm lights on the street as the sky gets dark? We always like to put on that false mask in front of others, and only then do we feel melancholic when we are alone.

31. 三年前 那个连未来生几个baby

31. Three years ago, that person even didn't know how many babies they would have in the future.

32. 两个人在一起，纵使交好，可到底是两个截然不同的灵魂，在沸腾的同时，难免会灼伤彼此。爱与被爱，都需要一种天赋。

32. Even though two people are together and have a good relationship, they are ultimately two completely different souls. As they沸腾, they are bound to hurt each other. Both loving and being loved require a natural gift.

33. 人就这么一辈子，开心也是一天，不开心也是一天，所以你一定要开心。人就这么一辈子，做错事不可以重来；碎了的心难再愈合，所以你一定不能事后后悔。人就这么一辈子，过了今天就不会再有另一个今天；一分一秒都不会再回头，所以你一定要珍惜每分每秒。告诉自己：要微笑面着对任何挫折。

33. Life is just one lifetime, and whether you are happy or not, it's still just one day. So you must be happy. Life is just one lifetime, and you can't redo mistakes; a broken heart is hard to mend, so you must not regret afterward. Life is just one lifetime, and once today is gone, there will be no other today; not a single second will turn back, so you must cherish every moment. Tell yourself: smile in the face of any setback.

34. 拥有一颗淡漠之心，每个清晨都是美好的，每一天都是好日子。这是一种豁达的处世心境，是一种健康的生活方式，是一种积极的人生态度。有了淡漠之心，还有什么不能忍耐？

34. With a indifferent heart, every morning is beautiful, and every day is a good day. This is a broadminded mindset towards life, a healthy lifestyle, and a positive attitude towards life. With an indifferent heart, what can't one endure?

35. 相信爱情能够令一个人改变，是年轻的好处，也是年轻的悲哀。浪子永远是浪子。令男人改变的，也许是上帝的爱或者佛祖的慈悲，但绝对不会是女人。往往不是女人改变一个浪子，而是女人在浪子想改变的时候刚好出现。

35. Believing that love can change a person is both a benefit and a sorrow of youth. A wastrel will always be a wastrel. What may change a man is perhaps the love of God or the compassion of the Buddha, but definitely not a woman. Often, it is not the woman who changes a wastrel, but rather that she happens to appear when the wastrel desires to change.

36. 就算是千篇一律的生活，也要笑得和米老鼠一样开心。无奈这雨说来就来，只能躲在大大的挖泥车旁，发现还真的能挡雨。

36. Even in the monotonous routine of life, one should smile as joyfully as Mickey Mouse. Unfortunately, the rain comes without warning, and one can only seek shelter beside the huge excavator, discovering that it actually does provide some rain protection.

37. 面对着丰盛的筵席，我们彼此微笑着劝酒，仿佛所有的不舍，都收藏在酒杯里，因为我们明白，此去再也没有比手中这杯更醇更香的酒了，毕业了愿你一切顺利。

37. Facing the abundant banquet, we smile and urge each other to drink, as if all our reluctance is stored in the glasses of wine, because we understand that there is no other drink more mellow and fragrant in our hands. Graduated, may you go on smoothly.

38. 在看不见的地方，事物正变化着，无法预知，也无法阻止。

38. In the unseen places, things are changing, unpredictable, and unstoppable.

39. 每个人都有潜在的能量，只是很容易：被习惯所掩盖，被时间所迷离，被惰性所消磨。 有深意的经典心情短语分享

39. Everyone has potential energy, but it is easily: concealed by habits, confused by time, and worn down by laziness. Share meaningful classic phrases of sentiment.

40. 爱一个人，-要了解，也要开解；要道歉，也要道谢；要认错，也要改错；要体贴，也要体谅；是接受，不是忍受；是宽容，不是纵容；是支持，不是支配；是彼此交流，不是凡事交代；是为对方祈求，不是向对方诸多要求；可以浪漫，但不要浪费；可以随时牵手，但不要随便分手。

40. To love someone, one must understand and comfort; one must apologize and express gratitude; one must admit mistakes and correct them; one must be considerate and understanding; it is about acceptance, not endurance; it is about tolerance, not indulgence; it is about support, not domination; it is about mutual communication, not commanding everything; it is about praying for the other, not making numerous demands; it can be romantic, but do not waste; it can be hand in hand at any time, but do not casually break up.

41. 时刻的调动，去了旧伤或者又来了新疤；别人帮得了你一时，帮不了你一世。要按期的对影象举办一次删除，把不舒畅的人和事从影象中屏弃，人生苦短，财产职位都是附加的，生不带来死不带去，简朴生活就是快乐的生活。

41. The turning of the times, it heals old wounds or brings new scars; others can help you for a while, but not for a lifetime. You should periodically hold a deletion of your images, excluding uncomfortable people and things from them. Life is short, wealth and position are all additional, they don't come with birth and they don't go with death. A simple life is a happy life.

42. 人，永远是矛盾的主体，人生，没有一种痛苦会永远伴随着你，没有必要陷在自我的漩涡里走不出来，痛苦只是一个过客，是来磨练你的意志，考验你的信心的，站起来，把困难踩在脚下。

42. Humans are always the subject of contradictions. Life does not have a pain that will accompany you forever. There is no need to get stuck in the whirlpool of self. Pain is just a passing guest, meant to temper your will and test your faith. Stand up and trample difficulties underfoot.

43. 第二章 把别人吸引到身边来

43. Chapter 2: Attract Others to Your Side

44. 经营一个健康的身体，给自己一份快乐的心情，好好珍惜爱你的人和你爱的人，人生只有这三件事情值得做，其他都是浮云。

44. Manage a healthy body, give yourself a cheerful mood, cherish those who love you and those you love, for in life, these three things are worth doing, and everything else is just smoke and mirrors.

45. 哲人无忧，智者常乐。并不是因为所爱的一切他都拥有了，而是所拥有的一切他都爱。

45. A philosopher is worry-free, and a wise person is always joyful. It is not because he possesses everything he loves, but because he loves everything he possesses.