在纷繁复杂的现实生活中，我们常常被束缚于种种束缚，背负着沉重的枷锁。然而，唯有勇敢地探索自我，挣脱束缚，才能释放内心的束缚，追寻真正的自我。让我们一同踏上这段探索之旅，寻找生命的真谛。

In the complex and intricate reality, we are often bound by various constraints and burdened with heavy shackles. However, only by bravely exploring ourselves and breaking free from the constraints can we release the inner shackles and pursue the true self. Let us embark on this journey of exploration together, seeking the essence of life.

1. 无论多豪华的婚礼，都不代表幸福婚姻。两个人终生相处和睦与否和宴开几席，多少首饰全无关联。

1. No matter how luxurious a wedding may be, it does not represent a happy marriage. Whether two people can live together harmoniously for a lifetime has nothing to do with the number of banquets or the amount of jewelry.

2. 爱情不是轰轰烈烈的誓言，而是平平淡淡的陪伴。

2. Love is not a grandiose promise, but a simple and steady companionship.

3. 趁他还在，请及时相爱。青春最大的遗憾不是失败，而是后悔。

3. While he is still here, please love each other in time. The greatest regret of youth is not failure, but regret.

4. 一见钟情不一定久长，平淡宽容相待才长远。偶尔还是会想起，却不再哭着非要在一起。不是感情淡了，而是成熟了，懂得选择适合的了。怦然心动只是刹那惊艳，柴米油盐却是一辈子的生活方式。不论看起来多诱人，不是你的菜，吃了也会闹肚子。

4. Love at first sight is not always long-lasting; only a simple and tolerant attitude can endure. Occasionally, I still think of it, but no longer cry for the necessity of being together. It's not that the feelings have faded, but that I have matured and learned to choose what is suitable. A heart-throbbing moment is just a fleeting surprise, but the daily life of cooking and washing is a lifelong way of life. No matter how tempting it may seem, if it's not your cup of tea, eating it will still give you an upset stomach.

5. 我们离回忆太近，离自由太远。有时候念念不忘，只是爱上回忆。一次犹豫，一次背叛，一次意外，足以让它枯萎。挣脱一切，烟消云散。——徐志摩

5. We are too close to memories and too far from freedom. Sometimes, we can't forget them, but it's just that we are in love with the memories. One hesitation, one betrayal, one accident, is enough to make it wither. Break free from everything, and it will fade away into thin air. — Xu Zhimo

6. 别自制压力，我们没有必要跟着时间走，只需跟着心态和能力走，随缘，尽力，达命，问心无愧，其他的，交给天。

6. Don't create unnecessary pressure for yourself. There's no need to follow the passage of time; just follow your mindset and abilities, go with the flow, do your best, fulfill your destiny, and have no regrets. The rest, leave to the heavens.

7. 如果你不握紧拳头，你就不知道你力量到底有多大；如果你不咬紧牙关，你就不知道你的坚持到底有多狠；如果你不跺脚而起，你就不知道你的果决到底有多正确；如果你不瞪眼，你就不知道你的内心到底多强大。最强悍的竞争力只有两个字：行动！

7. If you don't clench your fists, you don't know how much power you really have; if you don't grind your teeth, you don't know how fierce your perseverance is; if you don't stamp your feet and stand up, you don't know how right your decisiveness is; if you don't glare, you don't know how strong your inner self truly is. The most formidable competitive edge is only two words: action!

8. 有的人，每天和你争吵，却一觉醒来又在爱你。有的人，连争吵都没有，却已经消失在人海。原来，冷漠比争吵更可怕。

8. Some people argue with you every day, yet wake up loving you again. Some people haven't even argued, but have already vanished in the sea of people. It turns out that indifference is scarier than quarrels.

9. 别人恭维你时，偷偷高兴一下就可以了，但不可当真，因为那十有八九是哄你的;别人批评你时，稍稍不开心一下就可以了，但不可生气，因为那十有八九是真的。

9. When others flatter you, you can secretly feel pleased, but don't take it seriously, as there's a high chance it's just flattering you; when others criticize you, you can feel slightly upset, but don't get angry, as there's a high chance it's true.

10. 一个人的悲凉不在于你被谁抛弃了，也不是身边没有了朋友，而是你极尽所能想融入一个群体，却发现你始终是多余的~

10. The sadness of a person does not lie in being abandoned by someone, nor in the absence of friends around. It is rather when you have tried your utmost to fit in with a group, only to discover that you are always considered an extra.

11. 一个对爱冷漠，不想再爱的女人，往往是很深很深地爱过；看起来好像百毒不侵，其实早已百毒侵身。

11. A woman who is indifferent to love and no longer wants to love has often been deeply, deeply in love; she may seem immune to all kinds of toxins, but in reality, she has already been poisoned by many.

12. 每天早晨，都再一次提醒自己，生命短暂而美好，没时间纠结，没时间计较。

12. Each morning, remind myself once again that life is short and beautiful; there's no time to be纠结, no time to be concerned about trivial matters.

13. 一个内心丰富的人既不害怕独处，也不害怕人群，因为他们可以在独处时心中展开大千世界，也可以在人群中保持一份恬淡清寂。

13. A person with a rich inner world neither fears solitude nor a crowd, for they can unfold the vast universe in their hearts while alone, and also maintain a tranquil and serene state amidst the crowd.

14. 人生本过客，何必千千结，想拥有就去努力，努力过后就不在乎结果。成功是付出的收获，失败也是正常的历练。而所有功名利禄实际是早早晚晚的一场云烟，真正拥有的是自己的心情，何必不能释怀，妄自空折磨自己。

14. Life is but a journeyman, why worry about the countless knots? If you want to possess something, work hard for it, and after you have tried your best, you shouldn't care about the outcome. Success is the harvest of effort, and failure is also a normal experience. In fact, all fame and fortune are just a fleeting cloud, and what you truly possess is your own mood. Why can't you let go and not torture yourself unnecessarily?

15. 他说他结婚了，说是因为家里人的催促，她说她结婚了，因为说他有房有车，她说她结婚了，说年纪大了，他说他结婚了，因为家人介绍的，如果有一天，我们结婚了，我只希望，那是因为爱情。因为，我们还相信爱情。

15. He said he got married because his family pushed him to, she said she got married because he has a house and a car, she said she got married because she's getting older, he said he got married because it was arranged by his family. If one day, we get married, I only hope it's because of love. Because, we still believe in love.

16. 曾经有无数个这样的时刻，希望明天永远不会来，希望时间就把你留在当下，希望所有眷恋和不舍的都不会被时间所带走。可是现在不会再那么想了，你想走就走吧，所有留不住的，放不下的，都让时间把它们归于平静吧。唯愿余生过的从容而不慌乱，深情而不纠缠，在人间烟火中，平和而认真的用尽余生。

16. There have been countless moments like this, hoping that tomorrow would never come, hoping that time would keep you in the present, hoping that all attachments and regrets would not be taken away by time. But now, I won't think that way anymore. If you want to leave, go ahead. Let all that can't be held back and can't be let go be calmed by time. I only wish the remaining years to be lived with composure and without haste, deeply felt but not entangled, and to spend the rest of my life calmly and seriously amidst the hustle and bustle of the world.

17. 简约不是少，而是没有多余。足够也不是多，而是刚好你在。

17. Simplicity is not about having less, but about having no excess. Enough is not about having more, but about you being just right there.

18. 假如你避免不了，就得去忍受。不能忍受生命中注定要忍受的事情，就是软弱和愚蠢的表现。

18. If you can't avoid it, you have to endure it. Not being able to endure the things that are destined to be endured in life is a sign of weakness and foolishness.

19. 如果你勇于对过去说“拜拜”，生活就会回赠给你一个新的“哈喽”。

19. If you dare to say "goodbye" to the past, life will reward you with a new "hello."

20. 想念时，就看看窗外的天空，无论距离有多远，我们总在同一片天空下。

20. When you miss someone, take a look at the sky outside the window. No matter how far apart we are, we are always under the same sky.

21. 我们或许能勇敢的面对你爱的人不爱你，但是谁都无力面对当一个爱你很久的人转身离去，那种骄傲那种幸福荡然无存。请珍惜你身边默默爱你的人，或许，有一天当他真的离开了，你会发现，离不开彼此的，是你，不是他。

21. We may be brave in facing the fact that the one you love does not love you back, but no one can bear to face the situation when a person who has loved you for a long time turns away. The pride and happiness in that love are gone. Please cherish the person who loves you silently by your side. Perhaps, one day when he really leaves, you will find out that it is you, not him, who cannot be separated from each other.

22. 鲁迅先生的话，一针见血：“如果你试图教会一头猪去做人，猪累，你更累，正所谓，横财不富穷人命，妙药难医冤孽病，烫死猪，翻咸鱼，雕朽木，扶烂泥，这些，通通都是不懂规矩。

22. Mr. Lu Xun's words are to the point: "If you try to teach a pig to be a human being, both the pig and you will be exhausted. As the saying goes, unexpected wealth does not enrich the poor, and even the best medicine cannot cure a predestined misfortune. Killing a pig, flipping salted fish, carving old wood, and supporting muddy soil, all of these are a lack of understanding of the rules."

23. 在最需要奋斗的年华里，你应该爱一个能带给你动力的人，而不是能让你筋疲力竭的人。

23. In the most challenging years of struggle, you should love someone who can inspire you, not someone who will exhaust you.

24. 与其热闹着引人夺目，步步紧逼，不如趋向做一个人群之中真实自然的人，不张扬，不虚饰，随时保持退后的位置。心有所定，只是专注做事。

24. It is better to be a genuinely natural person among a crowd, not showy, not pretentious, always maintaining a position of retreat. With a steady heart, one simply focuses on doing things.

25. 其实，没有什么东西是不能放手的。时日渐远，当你回望，你会发现，你曾经以为不可以放手的东西，只是生命里的一块跳板，令你成长。

25. In fact, there is nothing that cannot be let go of. As time goes by, when you look back, you will find that what you once thought could not be let go of was just a stepping stone in life, that helped you grow.

26. 你以为放手可以成全我的幸福，可你不知道，我最大的幸福就是能和你手牵手。

26. You think that letting go will bring me happiness, but you don't know that my greatest happiness is being able to hold your hand.

27. 不纠正，是一种对于人情世故的清醒。

27. Not correcting is a kind of clarity about the intricacies of human relationships and social customs.

28. 什么事情都可以忘，独独陪伴不可以。不管以后你怎样，都要时刻记住愿意花时间陪伴你的那个人。

28. You can forget about anything, but not the person who is willing to spend time with you. No matter how you are in the future, always remember the one who is willing to accompany you.

29. 我不羡慕也不嫉妒那些天天粘在一起的小情侣，我没有时间没有兴趣也没有精力跨过两地时差，去生气吵架发脾气闹分手。我能做的只是在起风的时候裹紧外套，不停地读书，参加各种活动，背很多单词，早睡早起，照顾好自己。我希望不论在未来的哪一天，我都能有资格，以最不容置疑的姿态站在你身边。

29. I neither envy nor begrudge those little couples who are always glued together, as I don't have the time, interest, nor energy to cross time zones and get angry, argue, and break up. All I can do is to wrap myself tightly in my coat when the wind blows, keep reading, participate in various activities, memorize a lot of vocabulary, and go to bed early and wake up early, taking good care of myself. I hope that on any day in the future, I will be qualified to stand by your side in the most unchallengeable posture.

30. 你只能折腾到在乎你的人，对于不在乎你的人，忘记了你的人，你的所作所为根本起不了任何作用。

30. You can only cause trouble to those who care about you. For those who don't care about you and have forgotten about you, whatever you do will not have any effect at all.

31. 你不会为同一个笑话笑了一遍又一遍，但你为什么一直为同一件事哭了一次又一次？

31. You don't laugh at the same joke over and over again, but why do you keep crying about the same thing over and over?

32. 一个人最自在的活法，就是放下心中的一切执念，不纠结，不纠缠，不纠正，凡事顺其自然，万物有利于我，淡定从容，轻盈自在。

32. The most comfortable way to live for a person is to let go of all attachments in the heart, not to be entangled, not to be stubborn, not to correct, to let everything go with the flow, to see all things as beneficial to me, to be calm and composed, light and free.

33. 把一段一段的爱情当成人生道路上的指引者，一次失败，也是一次成长。这样来看，失败的爱情或许不再可怕。

33. Treat each episode of love as a guide on the path of life, and a failure is also a growth. In this perspective, the failure of love may no longer be可怕的 (frightening).

34. 现在年轻人太相信聪明，相信取巧和走捷径，不太相信毅力；喜欢把大道理留给别人，把小道理留给自己。如果你能反过来，把大道理留给自己，把小道理留给别人，试试看，你一定会了不起。大道理是经过几千年论证的，你以为你是个例外，这种可能性微乎其微。冯仑

34. Nowadays, young people tend to believe in cleverness and shortcuts, rather than perseverance; they like to leave the big principles to others while keeping the small ones for themselves. If you can reverse this and leave the big principles to yourself while giving the small ones to others, give it a try, and you will surely be remarkable. The big principles have been proven over thousands of years; you think you are an exception, but the possibility of this is extremely slim. — Feng Lun

35. 爱情，最好是毫不费力的爱上对方。费尽心力的追求，即便成功了，也是感动大于爱情。当某一天，那个真正能征服TA的人出现了，你还是会失去TA感动和爱情，终归是两回事。

35. Love is best when it comes effortlessly. Pursuing someone with all your effort, even if you succeed, is more about being moved than about love. When the day comes when the person who can truly conquer them appears, you will still lose their admiration and love; in the end, they are two different things.

36. 人们伤心，不是因为爱情结束了，而是因为当一切都结束了，爱还在。

36. People are heartbroken not because love has ended, but because when everything has ended, love still remains.

37. 当生活给你设置重重关卡的时候，再撑一下，每次地咬牙闯关过后，你会发现想要的都在手中，想丢的都留在了身后。

37. When life sets up numerous obstacles for you, hold on a little longer. After each time you grit your teeth and pass through the难关, you will find that what you want is in your hands, and what you want to discard is left behind.

38. 要做这样的女子：面若桃花、心深似海、冷暖自知、真诚善良、触觉敏锐、情感丰富、坚忍独立、缱绻决绝。坚持读书、写字、听歌、旅行、上网、摄影，有时唱歌、跳舞、打扫、烹饪、约会、狂欢。

38. To be such a woman: face like a peach blossom, heart as deep as the sea, knowing the cold and warmth within herself, sincere and kind, with a keen sense of touch, emotionally rich, tenacious and independent, loving and decisive. Insist on reading, writing, listening to music, traveling, surfing the internet, photography, sometimes singing, dancing, cleaning, cooking, dating, and reveling.

39. 人在福中不知福，直到有一天苦了，才对比出以前的甜。所以甜中总有苦，福中总有祸的人，最能感受幸福。所以，淡淡的君子之交最能长久，若即若离的爱情最堪回味。

39. People do not realize their blessings until they face hardships and only then can they compare them with the sweetness of the past. Therefore, those who always experience a mix of sweet and bitter, and祸 and blessings in their fortune, are the ones who can truly appreciate happiness. Thus, a gentle friendship is the one that can last the longest, and a love that is just a little distant is the most memorable.

40. 我的那朵玫瑰，别人会以为她和你们一样，但她单独一朵就胜过你们全部。因为她是我浇灌的。因为她是我放在花罩中的。因为她是我用屏风保护起来的。因为她身上的毛毛虫是我除掉的。因为我倾听过她的哀怨，她的吹嘘，有时甚至是她的沉默。因为她是我的玫瑰。——《小王子》

40. My rose, others would think she is like you all, but she is superior to all of you by herself. Because she is the one I watered. Because she is the one I placed in the greenhouse. Because she is the one I protected with screens. Because it is me who removed the caterpillars on her. Because I have listened to her complaints, her boasts, and sometimes even her silence. Because she is my rose. — "The Little Prince"

41. 应该用加上10岁的心态考虑事情，然后再减去10岁面对现实。

41. You should consider things with a mindset 10 years older, and then face reality with a mindset 10 years younger.

42. 如果放不下，那是没有觉知生命的空相。人生如梦，梦如人生，你放不下的一切，包括你的肉身，最后都要灰飞烟灭，一笔勾销。

42. If you cannot let go, it is because you have not realized the empty nature of life. Life is like a dream, and a dream is like life. Everything you cannot let go of, including your physical body, will eventually turn to dust and smoke, and be crossed off the account.

43. 不论一个人多坚强，内心总有一块柔软的地方，不能触碰。

43. No matter how strong a person may be, there is always a soft spot within them that cannot be touched.

44. 你永远看不见我眼里的泪水，因为只有你不在的时候，我才会哭泣。不会哭于你面前，因为我同自己讲，做人要争气!

44. You will never see the tears in my eyes, because it is only when you are not around that I will cry. I won't cry in front of you, because I tell myself that one should be dignified in life!

45. 你应该有自己的梦想，自己的目标，自己的生活，你走在对的道路上，自然会遇到对的人，他们或许陪你一段路，或者与你共度一生，你没办法奢求天长地久，但你至少可以保证，每个你遇见的爱上的人，都是正确的人，给你正能量，给你快乐和欣喜，给你美好的回忆。

45. You should have your own dreams, your own goals, and your own life. As long as you are walking on the right path, you will naturally meet the right people. They might accompany you for a while or share your entire life with you. You can't expect eternal love, but at least you can ensure that every person you meet and fall in love with is the right one, bringing you positive energy, happiness, and joy, and leaving you with beautiful memories.

46. 你如果总是站在自己的立场和思维上，喜欢去纠正一个人，那么你多半会得罪这个人，给自己招惹麻烦和祸患，而别人也不会因为你的纠正而做出任何改变。

46. If you always stand in your own perspective and mindset, and like to correct others, then you are likely to offend this person, bringing trouble and misfortune upon yourself, and others will not make any changes because of your corrections.

47. 无需刻意铭记无法实现的爱情，无论有什么样的记忆，我们再长大一些的时候，时间就会把回忆里的泪水风干。那时候，回忆里，就只剩下温暖片段了。

47. There's no need to刻意memorize the love that cannot be realized. No matter what memories you have, as we grow older, time will dry the tears in our memories. At that time, all that remains in our memories will be warm moments.

48. 爱情不是愚公移山，也不是铁杵磨成针，在表态之后得不到回应、在明知不可为的时候放弃是最优雅的。

48. Love is not like Yu Gong moving a mountain or grinding an iron rod into a needle. The most elegant thing is to express one's feelings and not receive a response, or to give up when one knows it is not possible.

49. 表面上跟你好的人可能背后捅刀，说一辈子一起和我们分开吧的人往往也是同一个，但那些你听说不好的人却会在你摔倒时扶你，在你炫耀成绩的状态下按赞，永远别从他人的嘴里看人，自己用心感受。真正对你好的，不会急于让你知道，他们就像天上的星，在你抬头时，才会看见闪光。

49. People who seem friendly on the surface might stab you in the back. Those who have been saying for a lifetime that they will separate from us are often the same people. However, those who you've heard have bad things to say about them will be the ones to support you when you fall, to like your achievements when you boast. Never judge a person based on what others say; feel with your own heart. Those who are truly good to you won't be in a hurry to let you know; they are like stars in the sky that only shine when you look up.

50. 为什么男生从来不懂得当女朋友打电话说：你在哪儿？今天天气好热！你在干嘛她并不想听你回答：我在外边、在朋友家；天热你开空调啊；我在打网游、看电视、刷微博你还能再笨一点儿吗，她其实只想听你说你待着别动，我马上来找你啊。苏小懒

50. Why can't boys ever understand when a girlfriend calls and says, "Where are you? It's so hot today! What are you doing?" She doesn't want to hear you reply with, "I'm outside, at a friend's house; why don't you turn on the air conditioner since it's hot; I'm playing online games, watching TV, or browsing Weibo, can't you be a bit smarter? She actually just wants to hear you say, 'Stay put, I'll be right over to find you.' Su Xiaolan

51. 生命的过程，无论是阳春白雪，青菜豆腐，我都得尝尝是什么滋味，才不枉来走这么一遭！三毛

51. The process of life, be it fine or coarse, green vegetables or bean curd, I must taste what it's like before I can say I haven't wasted this journey! Sanmao

52. 我喜欢在雪天雪地里与你同行，印下的是我们深深浅浅的经历，留下的是我们都心仪的美景，最重要的是，看到的是我们慢慢地由青丝到白头……

52. I enjoy walking with you in the snow and through the snowy land, where we leave imprints of our deep and shallow experiences. We leave behind the beautiful landscapes that both of us cherish, and most importantly, we witness each other slowly transitioning from youthful black hair to white hair...

53. 我们把心给了别人，就收不回了。别人又给了别人，爱便流通于世。顾城

53. We give our hearts to others, and they are irretrievable. Others give them to others, and love circulates in the world. Gu Cheng

54. 对于一个三观和你不一致，态度与你不兼容，性格与你相违背的人，不要去纠正，尊重别人的命运，尊重别人既定的一切，其实就是尊重天道，尊重因果。

54. For a person whose values, attitudes, and personality are inconsistent with yours, do not try to correct them. Respect others' destiny and respect everything that is predetermined for them, which is actually respecting the Tao and respecting causality.

55. 不要因为错过而后悔，更不要因为质疑现在的路而犹豫不决，从从容容的走，潇潇洒洒的活，逢山开路，遇水架桥，见招拆招。

55. Don't regret missing out, and even more so, don't hesitate because of doubts about the current path. Walk with composure, live carefree, clear the way when encountering mountains, build a bridge over rivers, and deal with each situation as it comes.

56. 时间很短，天涯很远。一山一水，一朝一夕。奔波忙碌一生，汲汲营营一阵，最终每个人渴望的都是岁月静好现世安稳人生的终点，不是在山水踏尽时，亦不是在生命结束后，而是于放下包袱的那一刻。当你真的放下，纵算一生云水漂泊，亦可淡若清风，自在安宁。白落梅

56. Time is short, and the distance is vast. A mountain, a river, a day, a night. Toiling and bustling throughout one's life, striving and struggling for a while, in the end, what everyone desires is a tranquil and peaceful present, a stable life, and the endpoint of life is not when the mountains and rivers are traversed or when life comes to an end, but rather in that moment when one lets go of the burdens. When you truly let go, even if you have wandered like a cloud and water throughout your life, you can still be as light and serene as a gentle breeze, free and peaceful. — Bai Luomei

57. 很多人一开始为了梦想而忙，后来忙得忘了梦想。

57. Many people are busy pursuing their dreams at first, but later get so busy that they forget about their dreams.

58. 总有一些事情，让你在不经意中，就看清了一些人。

58. There are always some things that, without you realizing it, reveal certain people to you.

59. 无论是苦心找寻，还是途中偶遇，那些美好的人与事，都要倍加珍惜，别奢望下一站还有原样的风景，错过的东西或许就是无期。有缘无份是一种托辞，只因我们还不够努力；败事在天亦是一种慰藉，只要是无怨无悔，就算完败也不言放弃。放下了别落泪，转身了莫回首，把苦痛埋心底，让往事吹风里。

59. Whether they are sought with great effort or encountered by chance, we should cherish those beautiful people and things all the more. Don't expect the next stop to have the same scenery; what is missed might be forever gone. Being meant for each other but not being together is just an excuse, for we have not tried hard enough; and when things go wrong due to fate, it can also be a comfort. As long as there are no regrets, even if one is defeated completely, one should not give up. Let go and don't shed tears; turn around and don't look back. Bury the pain in your heart, let the past be carried away by the wind.