在浩瀚的宇宙中，人类的心灵如同璀璨的星辰，独立自主，无牵无挂。掌握无敌人生态度，我们得以超然物外，探寻生命的真谛。

In the vast universe, the human spirit is like a brilliant star, independent and self-reliant, without any attachments. By mastering an invincible life attitude, we can transcend the material world and seek the truth of life.

1. ​婚姻不是人生的全部，只是人生的一部分，经营好自己的人生，余生，请多爱自己。”

1. Marriage is not the whole of life, but only a part of it. Manage your life well, and in the remaining years, please love yourself more.

2. 48一份耕耘，一份收获，付出就有回报永不遭遇过失败，因我所碰到的都是暂时的挫折。

2. 48 With every bit of effort, there is a corresponding harvest. There is always a return on investment; I have never encountered failure, as all the setbacks I have encountered are temporary.

3. 8绝大多数人，在绝大多数时候，都只能靠自己。

3.8 The vast majority of people, for the vast majority of the time, can only rely on themselves.

4. 有信心的人，可以化渺小为伟大，化平庸为神奇。

4. A person with confidence can transform the trivial into the great and the ordinary into the magical.

5. 65吃别人吃不了的苦，忍别人受不了的气，付出比别人更多的，才会享受的比别人更多。

5. Endure hardships that others cannot bear, tolerate frustrations that others can't withstand, and put in more effort than others, and only then will you enjoy more than others.

6. 82敢于向黑暗宣战的人，心里必须充满光明。

6. 82 The person who dares to declare war on darkness must be filled with light in their heart.

7. 自信是成功的秘诀。参透了自信的真谛，就算是已定的事实也有翻身的希望。自信是一种力量。一种潜在的可贵的强大的力量，有了它，就可以干出一番惊天动地的伟大事业来。

7. Confidence is the key to success. Once you understand the essence of confidence, even established facts have a chance of being reversed. Confidence is a force. A potentially valuable and powerful force, with which one can accomplish great and earth-shattering undertakings.

8. 17奋斗的双脚在踏碎自己的温床时，却开拓了一条创造之路。

8. As the struggling feet crush their own cradle, they also pave a path of creation.

9. 环境愈艰难困苦，就愈需要坚定的毅力和信心，而且，懈怠的害处就愈大。

9. The more difficult and challenging the environment, the more it requires steadfast perseverance and confidence, and the greater the harm of procrastination.

10. 总是活在一些极致的情绪里，某一段时间会对生活充满了信心，但突然在某一瞬间，你又会全盘推翻。你有信心时，无所不能，而你推翻这一切的时候，也是百分之百的灰心。

10. You always live in some extreme emotions. For a while, you may be full of confidence in life, but suddenly, in a moment, you might completely reverse your opinion. When you have confidence, you can do anything, but when you推翻 everything, it's also 100% disheartening.

11. 44明白事理的人使自己适应世界，不明事理的人硬想使世界适应自己。

11. The wise adapt themselves to the world, while the unwise try to make the world adapt to themselves.

12. 坚决的信心，能使平凡的人们，做出惊人的事业。

12. Resolute confidence can enable ordinary people to achieve extraordinary feats.

13. 谎言和誓言的区别在于，一个是听的人当真了，一个是说的人当真了。

13. The difference between a lie and an oath is that one is believed by the listener, and the other is believed by the speaker.

14. 做医生，就坚定地救人；做学生，就坚定地学习；做恋人，就坚定地去爱；做妖怪，就坚定地去卖茶叶！其实就是这么简单。

14. Be a doctor and firmly save lives; be a student and firmly study; be a lover and firmly love; be a monster and firmly sell tea! It's actually that simple.

15. 就像一粒种子，风把你吹向肥沃的土地，那就享受生活的馈赠。风把你吹向贫瘠的山窝，那也要在生活的夹缝里穷开心，穷欢乐。

15. Just like a seed, the wind blows you to fertile land, so enjoy the gifts of life. If the wind blows you to barren hills, still find joy and happiness in the cracks of life.

16. 自信者不疑人，人亦信之。自疑者不信人，人亦疑之。

16. A confident person does not suspect others, and others also trust them. A person who doubts themselves does not trust others, and others also suspect them.

17. 心态不好的人，哪怕一帆风顺，锦衣玉食，生活中一点风吹草动，都会让他怨天尤人。

17. A person with a bad attitude, even if they are sailing smoothly and living in luxury, will still complain about the heavens and others at the slightest disturbance in their life.

18. 心态决定状态，状态决定成败。

18. Attitude determines state, and state determines success or failure.

19. 绝不把钱投在一无所知的领域。原因无非如下：第一，没有信心的事情不值得冒险；第二，一无所知的领域，会被人牵着鼻子走，建立虚妄的信心，很可能冒险。

19. Never invest money in areas where you know nothing. The reasons are as follows: first, things without confidence are not worth taking risks; second, in areas where you know nothing, you may be led by the nose, build false confidence, and are likely to take risks.

20. 如果你再继续执迷不悟关起门来躲在家里，自怨自艾地感叹自己的生活平淡无趣，然后还是把时间大把花在观赏别人的人生上，那不久的将来，你可能还要再花更多时间来后悔现在的愚蠢行为。

20. If you continue to be stubborn and retreat to your home, wallowing in self-pity and complaining about the banality and uneventfulness of your life, and still spend a great deal of time admiring others' lives, then in the near future, you might have to spend even more time regretting your foolish actions now.

21. 无论和谁在一起，本质上都是自己和自己在一起。不指望任何人，凡事依靠自己，是一个人最顶级的清醒。

21. No matter who you are with, fundamentally, it is you who are alone with yourself. Not depending on anyone and relying on yourself in all things is the highest level of self-awareness for an individual.

22. 自己丰富才感知世界丰富，自己善良才感知社会美好，自己坦荡才感受生活喜悦，自己成功才感悟生命壮观!

22. Only when one enriches oneself can one perceive the world as rich, only when one is kind can one perceive society as beautiful, only when one is open can one feel the joy of life, and only when one is successful can one appreciate the grandeur of life!

23. 会击中的，无论何时，拥有坚定信念的妖精尾巴都是最强的。

23. No matter when, the fairy tail with a steadfast belief is the strongest when it hits.

24. “如果你结了婚，还生了孩子，却发现嫁错了人。凑合过吧，不甘心，想离婚吧，又放不下孩子，千万不要内耗自己。离婚不一定是救赎，再婚也不一定会幸福。

24. "If you are married and have children, but find out that you made a mistake in marriage. Just endure it, don't be dissatisfied, and if you want to divorce, don't let go of your children. Never consume yourself internally. Divorce is not necessarily salvation, and remarriage is not necessarily happy."

25. 86如果缺少破土面出并与风雪拚搏的气，种子的前途并不比落叶美妙一分。

25. 86 If there is a lack of the spirit that dares to break through the soil and struggle against the wind and snow, the future of the seed is not more wonderful than that of the fallen leaves.

26. 83崇高的理想就象生长在高山上的鲜花。如果要搞下它，勤奋才能是攀登的绳索。

26. Noble ideals are like flowers growing on high mountains. To reach them, diligence can be the rope for climbing.

27. 自信是人生的一盏明灯，它照耀着我们成长，它照耀我们走向成熟的人生。

27. Confidence is a beacon in life, illuminating our growth and guiding us towards a mature and fulfilling journey.

28. 一个人缺少了自信，就容易对环境产生怀疑与戒备。即所谓天下本无事，庸人自扰之。

28. A person who lacks self-confidence is prone to doubt and suspicion of the environment. As the saying goes, "There is no trouble in the world, but the unwise stir up trouble for themselves."

29. 要做大事，必须要有坚定的决心，充足的信心和足够的耐心。

29. To accomplish great things, one must have a firm determination, ample confidence, and sufficient patience.

30. 那一个个曾经无情捣毁你坚定信仰的人，那一件件消磨耗损你顽强心志的事情，之所以出现在你的生命中，都是为了成就现在的你。

30. Those individuals who once mercilessly shattered your unwavering faith, and those events that wore down your tenacious will, appeared in your life only to shape the person you are now.

31. 并且，水瓶座的这一性情，这一份心态，通常会一直随着她们一生下来。因而许多情况下，大家也彻底不会太难看到那样的一幕。那就是年纪越大，水瓶座也就更加的超然物外，乃至令人摸不着边界。终究，没准儿她们早现已彻底摆脱了现实世界，一头扎到自身的内心世界之中。因而无论在他人眼中来看多么的关键的，哪些财富，什么名利，实际上只要是放到水瓶座眼中，这通常并不是多么的幸福快乐，反倒更像一种束缚，把人深深地的拘束起来，没了随意。而水瓶座自然不可以如此，她们这一生的具体目地，大约也就取决于无牵无挂的走一遭罢了。

31. Moreover, the temperament and mindset of Aquarius are usually something that follows them throughout their lives from the moment they are born. Therefore, in many cases, it's not too difficult to witness such a scene. The older they get, the more detached Aquarius becomes, even to the point of being unreachable. Ultimately, it's possible that they have already completely shed the material world and immersed themselves in their own inner world. Thus, whatever may seem crucial in others' eyes, whether it's wealth or fame and fortune, to Aquarius, this is often not much of a happiness, but rather a form of bondage that deeply confines a person, taking away their freedom. Naturally, Aquarius cannot accept this; the specific purpose of their life seems to be to wander freely without any attachments.

32. 如果你把人生的期望寄托在别人身上，本身就是一种愚蠢。我们曾多么希望给自己找一个靠山，后来才发现，山上不是悬崖峭壁，就是荆棘遍地，不是狼虫虎豹，就是毒蛇鼠蚁，只有自己才是最靠谱的那一座山。

32. If you place your expectations for life on others, it is in itself a form of foolishness. We once so hoped to find a依靠 for ourselves, only to later discover that the mountains are either cliffs and precipices or bristled with thorns, inhabited by wolves, tigers, leopards, or venomous snakes and rats, and that only yourself is the most reliable mountain.

33. 51泪水不代表着谁的失败，微笑不意味着谁的成功。

33. 51 Tears do not represent whose failure, and a smile does not mean whose success.

34. 当经历的事情多了也许心态会变的更广阔一个职业一种事情既然存在肯定有其原因有人需要才会有市场只是还么有触摸到这个页面而已吧。

34. When one experiences more things, perhaps one's mindset becomes broader. A profession or a matter exists for a reason; there must be a need for it, which is why there is a market. It's just that they haven't touched this page yet, I guess.

35. 每个人应该有这样的信心：人所能负的责任，我必能负;人所不能负的责任，我亦能负。

35. Everyone should have such confidence: I will take on any responsibility that a person can bear; and I can also bear the responsibilities that a person cannot bear.