1. 敬君子方显有德，怕小人不算无能。退一步天高地阔，让三分心平气和。欲进步需思退步，若着手先虑放手。如得意不宜重往，凡做事应有余步。

1. Respecting gentlemen showcases one's virtue, being afraid of mean people does not mean one is incompetent. Stepping back opens up the sky and the earth, and giving an inch brings peace and harmony. To make progress, one must think of stepping back, and if one starts, one should consider letting go. If one is pleased with one's achievements, one should not repeat them, and in doing anything, one should leave room for maneuver.

2. 妻子嘲讽道，你都穷得掉渣了，哪来的清福？

2. The wife mockingly said, "You're so poor that you're falling apart, where do you get your ease and comfort from?"

3. 27我攒了一辈子钱，没买车，没买房，就想买一桌满汉全席。

3.27 All my life, I've saved money, but I haven't bought a car or a house. All I want is to buy a full Manhan Banquet.

4. 要经历跌宕的剧情，还要充实的人生，有巨大的野心和欲望。

4. To experience a dramatic plot, a fulfilling life, and have immense ambition and desires.

5. 19最幸福的事情就是和家人坐在一起温馨的吃饭，一日三餐的家常便饭却也是其乐融融。

5. The happiest thing is to sit together with family and have a warm meal, and even the ordinary daily meals of three meals a day are filled with joy.

6. 10吃货的世界，就是控制不住，就是一吃毁所有的不顾一切。胖的那么自然，穷的那么开心！

6. In the world of foodies, it's uncontrollable, and once they start eating, they'll disregard everything. They get fat so naturally, and they find joy in being poor!

7. 给你说哟，最近觉得自己好像活开了。想做并且能做的事情越来越多，能量和勇气也愈加充沛，欲望却相应在减少。每天早上醒来，心底都是愉悦。这在过去的二十多年里前所未有，或者是命运的馈赠也未可知。这种状态非常珍贵，要努力让它保留的更长久一些。

7. I tell you, lately I've been feeling like I'm really coming alive. There are more and more things I want to do and can do, and my energy and courage are also increasing, while my desires are correspondingly decreasing. Every morning when I wake up, I feel joy in my heart. This has never happened in the past twenty-plus years, or perhaps it's a gift from fate. This state is very precious, and I should try to keep it as long as possible.

8. 除非你力战过伤悲和恐惧，承受过让你梦想破灭的年代，因剧烈欲望而受伤，因冲突倾轧而疲惫不堪，孩子啊，你不算真正的活过，这就是人生。

8. Unless you have fought through sorrow and fear, endured the years that shattered your dreams, been wounded by intense desires, and worn down by conflicts and strife, my child, you have not truly lived. This is what life is.

9. 流年似水，岁月如歌，承受委屈是一种胸怀，接受误解是一种心怀，这个世界上失去什么东西都不可怕，惟一可怕的是失去你的心，失去你的勇气，只要你坚韧不拔地奋斗，只要你眼睛看向未来，生命就永远属于你，生命的辉煌也一定永远属于你。

9. The years flow like water, and the years sing like a song. Enduring grievances is a breadth of mind, accepting misunderstandings is a heart of tolerance. Losing anything in this world is not可怕, the only thing that is可怕 is losing your heart, losing your courage. As long as you persistently struggle, as long as your eyes look towards the future, life will always belong to you, and the brilliance of life will definitely always belong to you.

10. 最宽广的不是大海，是人心;最美好的不是未来，是今天。

10. The broadest is not the sea, but the human heart; the best is not the future, but today.

11. 15牵挂家人，我们懂得亲情，牵挂家乡，我们懂得思念，牵挂故土，我们追忆童年，牵挂归时，感受车上的期望，迫不及待的心情，发自心底的渴望，愿你回味家的暖，享受旅途乐。

11. 15 Concerned about family, we understand the warmth of kinship; worried about our hometown, we comprehend the feeling of longing; attached to our native land, we reminisce about our childhood; anxious about the time of return, we feel the expectations on the bus, the impatience in our hearts, and the genuine longing. May you savor the warmth of home and enjoy the joy of the journey.

12. 33回娘家之前都不忘把饭菜给我弄好，让我下班回家有口热饭吃。

12. Before returning to my mother's house for the 33rd time, she always made sure to prepare the meals for me, so that I could come home from work and have a warm meal to eat.

13. 2每天晚饭时间都是最幸福的时刻，享受一家人围在桌前边吃饭边聊聊家常。

13. 2 Dinnertime every day is the happiest moment, when the family enjoys sitting around the table, eating and chatting about daily life.

14. 人生的幸福，需要平常心去承载。人之所以痛苦，往往是因为欲望太多、满足太少。人生修行，很大程度就是对欲望的控制。谁都会有欲望，但超过自己承受范围的欲望，只会让自己陷入痛苦的泥淖。学会满足，就是掌握了开启幸福之门的钥匙。

14. Happiness in life requires a tranquil mind to bear it. The pain that humans often suffer is often due to too many desires and too little satisfaction. The practice of life is largely about controlling desires. Everyone has desires, but desires that exceed one's bearing capacity will only lead oneself into the quagmire of pain. Learning to be content is to master the key to opening the door to happiness.

15. 人生没有欲望，就没有伤害，知足常乐，这就是幸福！

15. Without desires in life, there is no harm. Being contented is always joyful, and this is happiness!

16. 39家里午饭，家常便饭，虽简单，但是却是吃得最幸福的时候酸菜炖排骨，菠菜鸡蛋，蒜末茼蒿，黄豆炒肉，自制油饼。

16. Lunch at 39, home-style meal, though simple, it is the happiest time to eat. Sour pickled cabbage stewed with spareribs, spinach with eggs, chopped garlic chrysanthemum, soybean sprouts with pork, homemade oil cakes.

17. 你被人谈到的机会越多，你就越希望被人谈到。——伯特兰·罗素

17. The more you are talked about, the more you wish to be talked about.—Bertrand Russell

18. 14家里所有的开支都要靠你每天辛辛苦苦的工作，我实在是非常心疼，可是又不能代替你，所以你就要照顾好你自己

18. The expenses for the whole family rely on your hard work every day, and I truly feel very sad about it. However, I can't replace you, so you need to take good care of yourself.

19. 人的欲望不能太强，生活要求不可太高，我很满足现在工作状态，每天在办公室算算帐，出出货，闲时做做微商，两份工作轮流干，每天晚上带带娃，虽然累却很充实。人哪，每天开心就。

19. One's desires should not be too strong, and one's life requirements should not be too high. I am very satisfied with my current work status. Every day, I do some accounting at the office, handle some shipments, and during free time, I run a micro-commerce business. I switch between the two jobs, and every evening, I take care of the children. Although it is tiring, it is also very fulfilling. People, as long as you are happy every day, that's enough.

20. 人之所以常常感到不知足，可能涉及以下一些因素：

20. The reasons why people often feel dissatisfied may involve the following factors:

21. 生活太现实，一切是这样的顺其自然，很多事情过去了，心境却不被遗忘，生活应该是愉快的，人生在世，不能没有欲望，生活总是一直变动，环境总是不可预知，现实生活中，各种突发状况总是层出不穷。心，应该是一颗树，在缄默中伫立，既能接受阳光，也能包容风雨。

21. Life is too realistic, and everything happens naturally. Many things pass by, but the state of mind is not forgotten. Life should be pleasant. In life, one cannot do without desires. Life is always in a state of flux, and the environment is always unpredictable. In real life, various unexpected situations keep popping up. The heart should be like a tree, standing silently, able to embrace both sunshine and storms.

22. 岂能尽如人意，但求无愧我心。做好第一次并不难，难的是做好每一次。背对太阳，阴影一片；迎着太阳，霞光万丈。

22. Can one possibly satisfy everyone's expectations? We only strive to have no regrets in our hearts. It is not difficult to do well the first time, but the challenge lies in doing well with every subsequent attempt. Facing away from the sun, there is only a shadow; facing towards the sun, there are myriad rays of light.

23. 坚持下去，并不是我们真的足够坚强，而是我们别无选择。并不是我们喜欢一件事情就可以把它做好，而是我们在做的时候，学会了喜欢它。我没有别的，只有热血，辛劳，眼泪和汗水可以奉献。这些都是我最宝贵的财富。请记住：永远永远永远都不要放弃你自己。

23. Persistence is not because we are truly strong, but because we have no other choice. It's not that we like something and can do it well, but rather that as we do it, we learn to like it. I have nothing else to offer but passion, toil, tears, and sweat. These are the most precious wealth I possess. Remember: never, ever, ever give up on yourself.

24. 10七点的牛奶三点的茶，六点的炊烟叫我回家。

24. Milk at 10 in the evening, tea at 3 in the afternoon, and the smoke at 6 calls me home.

25. 非常释怀的一段话：“无数人忽略了一个真相，那就是很多事情不需要有意义。吃喝玩乐不等于虚度光阴，吃苦耐劳也不等于意义非凡。

25. A very relieving statement: "Many people ignore a truth, that is, many things do not need to be meaningful. Enjoying food, drink, leisure, and entertainment does not equal wasting time, and enduring hardship and toil does not equal having a profound meaning.

26. 人有一点年纪总是好的，越来越能体谅到他人生活的不易，也越来越能够理解一些人的选择。不再为求而不得的东西歇斯底里，也不再为那些与自己的真实人生并无太多关系的人事纠结。好的坏的都学会了自己承担，见识了人生的残酷，也坚定了内心，怀揣着年轻时的一点欲望和憧憬，勇敢赶路，不负余生。

26. Having a bit of age is always good; one becomes more understanding of the difficulties in others' lives and more capable of understanding some people's choices. No longer does one go into a frenzy over things that are unattainable, nor does one get entangled in matters that have little to do with one's own true life. Both the good and the bad, one has learned to bear on one's own shoulders. Having witnessed the harshness of life, one has also become firm in one's heart. With a bit of desire and aspiration from one's youth, one dares to forge ahead, not letting the remaining years of life go to waste.

27. 38爱情无非就是两种结果:要么，各自回家。

27. 38 Love ultimately leads to two outcomes: either, each goes back to their own home.

28. 坐地铁的时候，脑子里盘桓着三个小说的构思。怎么开头，怎么铺展，怎么刻画人物，怎么生发细节。一切熟极而流地往下走，仿佛已经看到文字哒哒哒地出现在文档上。忽然间，我感觉特别倦怠、这些都太熟悉了，写起来驾轻就熟，没有什么新的东西在等着我。我一下子觉得没有想写的欲望了。

28. While on the subway, my mind is swirling with the concepts of three novels. How to start, how to unfold the story, how to depict characters, how to develop details. Everything flows smoothly, as if I can already see the words tapping away on the document. Suddenly, I feel an overwhelming sense of fatigue; everything is too familiar, the writing comes easily, and there's nothing new waiting for me. All of a sudden, I find myself lacking the desire to write.

29. 世界旅行不像它看上去的那么美好，只是在你从所有炎热和狼狈中归来之后，你忘记了所受的折磨，回忆着看见过的不可思议的景色，它才是美好的。

29. World travel is not as beautiful as it appears. It is only after you return from all the heat and discomfort that you forget the tortures you endured and remember the incredible sights you saw, and then it becomes beautiful.

30. 同样是忙，有的人忙得一团纷乱，忙得很辛苦;有智慧的人，按部就班，忙得心定神闲，即人忙心不忙。懂得忙中偷闲的人，就是再忙也有安闲的时刻，不至于忙得讨厌生活、讨厌忙，反而喜爱忙，从忙的当中只觉得人生很充实。这样的忙，人生会活得很有意义。

30. While some people are busy in a state of chaos and toil, wise individuals manage their affairs methodically, remaining calm and composed amidst their busy schedules, achieving a state where one is busy but not restless. Those who know how to find leisure amidst their busy lives even when occupied can find moments of tranquility, and they do not become tired of life or of being busy. On the contrary, they cherish their busy moments and find life to be rich and fulfilling. Such a kind of busyness makes life meaningful and worthwhile.

31. 27回娘家之前都不忘把饭菜给我弄好，让我下班回家有口热饭吃。

31. Before going back to my parents' house for the 27th time, she always made sure to have the food ready for me, so that I would have a warm meal to eat when I got home from work.

32. 天地者，万物之逆旅，光阴者，百代之过客。我们在这个世界上，和一只蚂蚁、一只昆虫、一片树叶、一粒尘埃没有任何区别。不管你荣华富贵还是穷困潦倒，建功立业还是一事无成，万众瞩目还是孤独终老，最后的结果都是死亡，肉身变为泥土，灵魂进入虚空，一切都会化为乌有。

32. The heavens and the earth are the inn for all things; time is the visitor of the hundred generations. In this world, there is no distinction between us and an ant, an insect, a leaf, or a speck of dust. Whether you are prosperous and wealthy or impoverished and destitute, whether you have achieved great feats or accomplished nothing, whether you are the focus of the masses or end your days in solitude, the ultimate outcome for all is death. The physical body returns to the earth, the soul enters the void, and everything is reduced to nothingness.

33. 18累了就想吃很多好吃的 平时不敢吃的东西美食真的太治愈人心了明天回家一定要吃好吃的！

33. 18 When tired, I just want to eat a lot of delicious things. The delicious food that I dare not eat usually is truly heart-curing. I must eat some delicious food when I go home tomorrow!

34. 时间是何等的残酷。它会夺走你的容颜，会磨断感情，让情人变仇敌。

34. Time is so cruel. It takes away your looks, wears down emotions, and turns lovers into enemies.

35. 人生就是这样，得失无常，有人选择了等待，有人选择了离开。等待是赌运气，运气好，柳暗花明，运气坏，永不翻身。离开是一种明智，不给自己任何负担，也不给别人负担，不管如何，坚持本心。

35. Life is like this, with constant gains and losses. Some people choose to wait, while others choose to leave. Waiting is gambling on luck; if lucky, it will be a turn for the better; if unlucky, it may never recover. Leaving is a wise choice, not burdening oneself or others, and regardless of how things turn out, sticking to one's true intentions.

36. 12每天下班都有热饭吃，周末有人陪你一起疯，偶尔放纵一下，这是什么神仙生活？

36. Every day after work, there's hot food to eat, and someone to hang out with on weekends. Sometimes you can let loose a bit. What kind of heavenly life is this?

37. 有些东西，一旦失去了，不会复来。然而，在计算得失的时候，我们曾否想过，你也许一辈子都不知道自己失去些什么若你没有离开从前的那个人，你永远不会知道，原来你可以找到一段更好的爱情。

37. There are some things that, once lost, cannot return. However, when we calculate gains and losses, have we ever thought about the possibility that you may never know what you have lost in your lifetime? If you had not left the person from the past, you would never know that, in fact, you could find a better love.

38. 人生的储存也是心态的诠释，在这个世上，其实也没什么东西是坚不可摧，不可改变的。人生总是要经历这样的历程，但是破灭了之后，那些重新生长出来的东西，才会真正变得坚不可摧。

38. The storage of life is also an interpretation of one's mindset. In this world, there really isn't anything that is indestructible or unchangeable. Life always has to go through such a process, but only after it is shattered, will the things that re-grow truly become indestructible.

39. 对知识的渴求是人类的自然意向，任何头脑健全的人都会为获取知识而不惜一切。——塞·约翰逊

39. The longing for knowledge is a natural inclination of humanity; any person of sound mind would spare no effort to acquire knowledge. — Samuel Johnson

40. 幸福人生靠的就是一种心态。幸福只可以一心一意，温暖也只能是一生一世。努力向着前方，什么距离都将不会是距离。一辈子，很短。真的需要好好的疼自己，爱自己，你的世界，有了自己的那束阳光才更加的耀眼。

40. The key to a happy life lies in a certain mindset. Happiness can only be wholehearted, and warmth can only be lifelong. Strive forward, and no distance will be insurmountable. A lifetime is short. It's truly necessary to take good care of yourself, love yourself, and your world will shine even brighter with your own ray of sunshine.

41. 4我攒了一辈子钱，没买车，没买房，就想买一桌满汉全席。

41. I've saved money all my life, haven't bought a car or a house, but I just want to buy a full Man Han feast.

42. 开心事伤心事终归都成往事，不悲不喜，不咸不淡，人生坎坎坷坷，忙忙碌碌，忘记了什么，你也不能忘记真情良心。不论如何的贫穷，怎样失意，都要长存一份真情，真诚的待人。不管如何富裕，怎样得意，都不要泯灭良心，真情待人，不是所有倾心，都能换来完美的结局;不是所有相遇，都能守候成美丽的风景。

42. Joyful events and heart-wrenching ones will eventually become things of the past. Indifferent to sadness and joy, neither salty nor bland, life is fraught with twists and turns, busy and bustling. You may forget what you have forgotten, but you cannot forget true feelings and conscience. No matter how poor or how disappointed you may be, you must always hold onto a sense of true feeling and treat others sincerely. No matter how wealthy or successful you may be, you should never extinguish your conscience, and treat others with true feelings. Not all heartfelt endeavors can bring about a perfect outcome; not all encounters can be cherished as beautiful scenery.

43. 17朋友，如果你接到这条短信的时候你刚好下班。请你狂叫，请狂叫：下班了，下班了噢噢！如果我没猜错的话，你的周围一定会有围观者说：您没病吧！

43. 17, my friends, if you receive this text message just as you're finishing work, please let out a loud shout, a wild shout: I'm off work, I'm off work, oh oh! If I'm not mistaken, there will definitely be onlookers around you saying: Are you okay, are you ill?

44. 6阳光正好，最幸福莫过于你我一起回家陪爸妈吃个家常便饭，有你的每一天都甜的。

44. 6 The sun is shining beautifully, and the greatest happiness would be for us to go home together and have a home-cooked meal with our parents. Every day with you is sweet.

45. 年轻气盛的时候如果被人欺负了，总会恨恨地想以后一定要混出个名堂来，好让人刮目相看。可当真有这么一天的时候，却又想不起去恨了。原来真正的强大是宽容的，不是原谅别人，而是放过自己。

46. 时间的荒野，于千万人之中，去邂逅自己的爱人，那是太难得的缘分，更多的时候，我们只是在彼此不断的错过，这世界这样那样的限制与隐秘的禁忌，难以预测，身不由己，一个转身，也许就一辈子错过。多年以后，才会参透所有的争取和努力，都抵不过命运开的一个玩笑。

45. In our youthful and spirited days, if we were bullied, we would always bitterly think that we must achieve something great in the future, so that people would look at us with new eyes. But when that day really comes, we can't remember to be bitter anymore. It turns out that true strength is about tolerance, not forgiving others, but forgiving ourselves. 46. In the vast expanse of time, to meet one's own beloved among millions is a rare destiny. More often than not, we are just continuously missing each other, hindered by all sorts of restrictions and hidden taboos in this world, which are unpredictable and beyond our control. A turn of the body, and perhaps we miss each other for a lifetime. Years later, we will realize that all the striving and efforts are nothing compared to a joke played by fate.

47. 走得顺时，不必太张狂，就算你爬到了坡顶，终究还要走下坡路;走得快时，无须太得意，你的脚力总是有限的，不如放慢脚步把短暂的路走得精彩些;走得累时，莫要太哀叹，要知道歇一歇，经受了劳累，才知道坚强与珍惜;走得苦时，切勿太悲怆，生活里是没有绝路的，苦难是人生的梯。

47. When things go smoothly, don't be too overbearing. Even if you reach the top of the hill, you still have to come down. When you're moving fast, don't be too pleased with yourself. Your feet have limits, so why not slow down and make the short journey more spectacular? When you're tired, don't too much lament. Remember to take a break; only after enduring fatigue can you truly appreciate strength and value. When things are hard, don't be too desolate. In life, there are no dead ends. Suffering is the ladder of life.

48. 自己的伤痛自己清楚，自己的哀怨自己明白，自己的快乐自己感受。也许自己眼中的地狱，却是别人眼中的天堂;也许自己眼中的天堂，却是别人眼中的地狱。生活就是这般的滑稽，不要总怀疑春色在人家，关键在于自己心态的调整。不攀不比，过好自己的生活，才是最重要的。

48. One knows one's own pain, one understands one's own grievances, and one feels one's own happiness. Perhaps what one sees as hell is in others' eyes paradise; perhaps what one sees as paradise is in others' eyes hell. Life is just like this, comical and absurd. Don't always suspect that the springtime is elsewhere; the key is to adjust one's own mindset. Don't strive or compare, live your own life well, that is the most important.

49. 财富就像海水，饮得越多，渴得越厉害；名望实际上也是如此。——叔本华

49. Wealth is like the sea; the more you drink, the thirstier you become; fame is actually the same. — Schopenhauer

50. 人，会虚荣吧，会自卑吧，会有欲望吧。克制吧，压抑吧，不要让自己对物质在有过多的渴望，不要去艳羡别人，只有品尝过痛苦，你才会懂得何为平等。

50. People, aren't you vain, aren't you self-abased, and aren't you greedy? Control yourself, suppress your desires, don't let yourself have too much longing for material things, don't envy others, only after tasting pain will you understand what equality is.

51. 忧郁是因为自己无能，烦恼是由于欲望得不到满足，暴躁是一种虚怯的表现

51. Melancholy stems from one's own incompetence, frustration arises from unfulfilled desires, and irritability is a manifestation of cowardice.

52. 财富和声誉的庞儿们在我们眼前纷纷落马，却不能改变我们的雄心。——沃维纳格

52. The giants of wealth and reputation have all fallen before our eyes, yet this cannot change our ambition. — Vovinag

53. 爱不是思念、不是自苦、不是在内心为对方做了很多事对方不知道。爱是清楚地知道自己想和对方在一起，爱是行动，是在对方脸上看到幸福笑容的满足。相信自己比全世界任何其他的人更能让对方快乐、更愿意努力去做、并且不计代价地做到。这是爱的期许、责任、更是自信。侯文咏

53. Love is not just longing, not just self-sacrifice, not just doing many things for the other person from within your heart that they are unaware of. Love is clearly knowing that you want to be with the other person, love is action, and it is the fulfillment of seeing a happy smile on their face. Believe that you can make the other person happier than anyone else in the world, are willing to work harder, and will do so at any cost. This is the expectation, responsibility, and even confidence of love. Hou Wen Yong

54. 人一旦成为欲念的奴隶，就永远也解脱不了了。 ——（泰国）察 高吉迪

54. Once a person becomes a slave to desires, they can never be freed from it. —— (Thailand) Chai Chidchit

55. 12我想，人世间最幸福的事，莫过于辛苦打拼之后，卸下一身的疲惫，和家人围坐一堂，热热闹闹地吃上一顿团圆饭。

55. 12 I think that the most blissful thing in the world is to, after toiling hard, take off all the fatigue from your body, sit around with your family, and enjoy a lively, joyous reunion dinner.

56. 拉塞尔缺乏主动攻击欲望，这样的后卫在现在完全行不通啊，连最起码的挡拆跳投都没有。打个屁啊。

56. Russell lacks the desire for aggressive offense, and such a defender is completely ineffective in today's game. Not even the most basic pick-and-roll jump shot. What a waste of time.

57. 李宫俊说: “人生最大的幸福，莫过于“吃喝玩乐”和“知足常乐”。”

57. Li Gongjun said, "The greatest happiness in life is to enjoy 'eating, drinking, playing, and entertainment' and to be content with what one has."

58. 8简单的幸福就是每天有人接你下班，回家有口热饭吃，还有个小棉袄给你端水泡脚呀。

58. The simple happiness is that someone picks you up from work every day, you have a warm meal waiting at home, and there's a little cotton coat to pour water for you to soak your feet.

59. 社会比较：社会比较是导致人们不满足的另一个因素。我们常常与他人进行比较，看到他人拥有的物质财富、社会地位、外貌、成功等，可能会产生嫉妒、焦虑和不满足感。这种比较导致了对自己的不满和追求更多的欲望。

59. Social Comparison: Social comparison is another factor that leads to people's dissatisfaction. We often compare ourselves with others, seeing their material wealth, social status, appearance, success, etc., which may trigger feelings of envy, anxiety, and dissatisfaction. This kind of comparison leads to dissatisfaction with oneself and the desire for more.

60. 人应该掌控自己的欲望，而不是被欲望所掌控。追求舒适、追求享受是人的本能，但也要有所节制。我们之所以活得累，往往就是因为把欲望误认为需要，使自己疲于奔命，越陷越深。

60. People should master their desires rather than be controlled by them. Pursuing comfort and enjoyment is an instinct of human beings, but one should also exercise self-restraint. The reason why we often feel tired in life is often because we mistake desires for needs, making ourselves busy and exhausted, and falling deeper and deeper into them.

61. 有些事情，现在不去做，以后很有可能永远也做不了。不是没时间，就是因为有时间，你才会一拖再拖，放心让它们搁在那里，任凭风吹雨打，铺上厚厚的灰尘。而你终将遗忘曾经想要做的事、想要说的话、想要抓住的人。

61. There are some things that, if not done now, may never be done at all in the future. It's not because there's no time; it's often because there is time that you keep delaying, allowing them to be left idle, exposed to the winds and rains, covered in thick dust. And in the end, you will forget the things you once wanted to do, the things you wanted to say, and the people you wanted to hold on to.

62. 不要专从他人身上获取幸福。假如你对自己都不感到满意的话，那么从长远的角度来讲，无论你和谁相处你都不会感到快乐。扫去心灵的浮尘，不烦躁，培养良好的习惯。当大难临头时，不能一味地乖乖地承受，人生并非命定，要在自己可以期望的范围之内起来奋斗。

62. Do not solely seek happiness in others. If you are not satisfied with yourself, then from a long-term perspective, you will not feel happy in the company of anyone. Sweep away the dust of the soul, be unirritated, and cultivate good habits. When faced with great adversity, do not simply endure it passively. Life is not predetermined; you should strive to rise within the scope you can expect.

63. 31世界上最幸福的美餐，不是在高档餐厅里享受奢侈的料理，而是跟心爱的人吃一顿家常便饭。

63. The world's most delicious meal isn't the luxurious cuisine enjoyed in high-end restaurants, but a home-cooked meal shared with the one you love.

64. 40民以食为天，一顿家常便饭。人生最幸福莫过于厨房里的烟火气息。美味！

64. The people consider food as their heaven, a simple home-cooked meal. The greatest happiness in life is the smoky aroma from the kitchen. Delicious!

65. 当被欲望控制时，你是渺小的；当被热情激发时，你是伟大的。 ——詹姆斯·艾伦

65. When controlled by desire, you are small; when inspired by passion, you are great. — James Allen

66. 即使是智者，也难摈弃追求功名这个弱点。——塔西佗

66. Even the wise find it hard to overcome the weakness of pursuing fame. — Tacitus

67. 最近看育儿教育的指导文章，心得分享吐槽分享比较多，加上一些已经走在育儿路上的先进妈妈的谈话，蓦然回首发现这是一个极容易导致父母把自己套牢的领域，一些人的育儿的理念里其实有期望、欲望和复杂的人性；一些专家的方法也只能听听，当拳脚功夫欣赏。唯有提升人生的内功才能经营好自己的家。

67. Recently, there have been many articles on parenting education, sharing experiences,吐槽, and discussions with some advanced mothers already on the parenting path. Looking back suddenly, I realized that this is a field that is very easy to trap parents. In fact, some people's parenting philosophy contains expectations, desires, and complex human nature. Some experts' methods can only be listened to and appreciated as martial arts skills. Only by improving one's inner strength can one manage their own family well.

68. 知足常乐，拥有一颗知足的心，快乐就在你身上。若想得到快乐，就别让自己过得无精打采，萎靡不振;想要获得快乐，不是增加财富，而是降低欲望。摒弃那些不着边际不切实际的幻想与奢求，踏踏实实过好每一天。人于世上当然要快快乐乐地活着才是参透了生命的真谛。

68. Contentment brings joy; if you possess a contented heart, happiness will be within you. If you wish to attain happiness, do not let yourself be listless and despondent; to gain happiness, it is not about increasing wealth, but about reducing desires. Abandon those unrealistic and extravagant fantasies and demands, and live each day solidly and sincerely. In this world, to live joyfully is to truly understand the essence of life.

69. 这个年代，物欲横流，快节奏的日子里，谁还会追逐，文艺的生活。谁还会闲暇之余抚一弦琴，吹一支笛，赋一曲歌；谁还会工作之后泡一壶茶，扇一缕风，品一段香；谁还会周末时光行一段路，拾一落花，看一次海；这是个最好的时代，也是个最坏的时代；我们有自己的选择，也有着自己的失去。

69. In this era, where material desires abound and life is fast-paced, who still chases the artistic way of living? Who still takes leisure to strum a guqin, blow a笛, or sing a song; who still, after work, brews a pot of tea, fans a breeze, and savors a whiff of incense; who still, during weekends, takes a walk, picks up fallen flowers, and views the sea? This is the best of times, and the worst of times; we have our choices, and we also have our losses.

70. 需要注意的是，不满足感不一定总是消极的，它可以激励我们进步和追求更好的生活。然而，如果不满足感过于强烈或持续不断，可能会导致焦虑、不幸和失去对当下的欣赏。因此，平衡个人追求和满足的需求是重要的，学会珍惜当下、满足于已有的成就和经验，培养感恩和满足感，有助于提升生活质量和幸福感。

70. It is important to note that dissatisfaction is not always negative; it can motivate us to progress and pursue a better life. However, if dissatisfaction is too strong or persistent, it may lead to anxiety, misfortune, and a loss of appreciation for the present moment. Therefore, balancing personal pursuits and the need for satisfaction is crucial. Learning to cherish the present, be content with the achievements and experiences already gained, and cultivate gratitude and satisfaction can help improve the quality of life and well-being.