在纷繁复杂的人生旅途中，智慧之光照亮前行的道路。学会与自我和解，便是人生旅途中最重要的智慧。

Amidst the complex journey of life, the light of wisdom illuminates the path ahead. Learning to reconcile with oneself is the most important wisdom in the journey of life.

1. 3抱乐观的态度，做最坏的打算，同时接受一切现实。

1. Maintain an optimistic attitude, prepare for the worst, and accept all realities.

2. 上一篇启程部分讲了英雄们是如何倾听自己内心的召唤，并踏上英雄之旅这条路的，这一篇将通过启蒙这一部分讲一下英雄们是如何通过各种考验的。

2. The previous part, "Setting Out," discussed how heroes listened to the call of their inner voice and embarked on their journey of heroism. This part will focus on how heroes pass through various trials through the aspect of enlightenment.

3. 45我们能做的只是让自己成长，变得坚强，有资格去承担责任，只有这样才有权利去享受这个物质世界带给你的奖励。

3. All we can do is to grow ourselves, become strong, and be qualified to take on responsibilities. Only in this way do we have the right to enjoy the rewards the material world brings to us.

4. 42在竞争世界里，不主动就意味着沉沦。人生也是如此，别人可以忽视你，但你不能忽视你自己。

4. In the world of competition, not taking the initiative means falling into decline. Life is the same, others may ignore you, but you cannot ignore yourself.

5. 25总有一些事，我们不愿它发生，却必须接受；总有些东西，我们不想知道，却必须了解；总有些人，我们不能没有，却必须学着放手。人只能自己去成全自己，这是现实。

5. Sometimes, there are things that we do not want to happen but have to accept; there are things that we don't want to know but have to understand; and there are some people who we cannot live without but have to learn to let go. One can only fulfill oneself, which is the reality.

6. 一定要充分利用生活中的闲暇时光,不要让任何一个发展自我的机会溜走。

6. Make sure to fully utilize the leisure time in your life and do not let any opportunity for self-improvement slip away.

7. 银瓶乍破水浆迸，铁骑突出刀枪鸣。曲终收拨当心画，四弦一声如裂帛。东船西舫悄无言，唯见江心秋月白。（白居易《琵琶行》）

7. The silver bottle bursts, spilling its contents, as the iron cavalry charges forth, swords and spears clashing. The melody ends, the bow is drawn with care, and a single note from the four strings sounds like a torn silk. The eastern and western boats are silent, only the white autumn moon in the river center visible. (From Bai Juyi's "The Song of the Pipa")

8. 平常时想想人活到一定的年龄就会死去会有一种恐惧感当心里产生愤怒生气的时候觉着生活真的很无味其实生活也就是这个吊样啦

8. Normally, when one thinks about the fact that people will eventually die at a certain age, it evokes a sense of fear. When anger or frustration arises in the heart, one feels that life is truly meaningless. In reality, life is just like this.

9. 可能开始他没有意识到或者不承认，但是当他突然察觉到或者被迫注意到自己存在的问题的时候，常常会感到对这些缺陷的强烈不满和厌恶。如果在这个阶段，英雄能够超越自己天性上的缺陷，摆脱和拒绝这些缺陷所带来的诱惑，那么就能进入冒险之旅的另一个境界。

9. Perhaps at first he may not have been aware of it or acknowledged it, but when he suddenly becomes aware of or is forced to notice his own problems, he often feels a strong dissatisfaction and aversion towards these defects. If at this stage, the hero can transcend his inherent flaws and reject the temptations brought about by these defects, then he can enter another realm of the adventure journey.

10. 爱好虚荣的人，用一件富丽的外衣遮掩着一件丑陋的内衣。

10. People who are fond of vanity cover up an ugly inner garment with a splendid outer cloak.

11. 23我们的生命真的是一种很不完美的存在。活着，其实不容易，需要一种勇气；好好活着，其实很难，需要学会珍惜，还要学会放弃；简单幸福的活着，其实更难，需要一种思想，一个心境，一个自我。

11. 23 Our lives are truly an imperfect existence. Living is actually not easy, it requires courage; to live well is even harder, it requires learning to cherish and to let go; to live simply and happily is even more difficult, it requires a certain mindset, a state of mind, and a sense of self.

12. 人生这辈子都是在与自己相处，慢慢就会发现，心情愉悦了，生活也就顺遂了。所以要学会和自己相处，学会哄自己开心。没有人一生是一帆风顺的，就看自己怎么看待。

12. Throughout our lives, we are constantly interacting with ourselves. Gradually, we'll find that when we're in good spirits, our lives also become smooth. Therefore, we need to learn how to get along with ourselves and how to make ourselves happy. No one's life is smooth sailing throughout, it all depends on how we perceive it.

13. 13每个人物都不完美但因此而饱满从庄园中看到的是整个历史的发展时代的更迭和庄园里每个人的成长。

13. 13 Every character is imperfect, but it is this imperfection that makes them full of life. From the manor, one can see the entire development of history, the changes of eras, and the growth of each individual within the manor.

14. 为什么不想回来，因为这里只能听到负面的话、感受到负面的情绪。这里让我感到内心的恐惧，就像安迪内心的恐惧。我在努力改变，来了就会遭受挫折打击！所以还是少来吧

14. Why don't you want to come back? It's because here you can only hear negative words and feel negative emotions. It makes me feel an inner fear, just like the fear in Andy's heart. I am trying to change, and coming here would only lead to setbacks and打击! So, it's better to come less often.

15. 连着两天做梦不是没赶上火车，就是充电宝没电。我挺怂的，不管怎么说，我的内心其实是恐惧的

15. For two consecutive days, I kept dreaming either that I missed the train or that my power bank ran out of battery. I'm quite cowardly, no matter how you put it, but deep down, I am actually scared.

16. 我们都不是很完美的人，但我们要接受不完美的自己。在孤独的时候，给自己安慰；在寂寞的时候，给自己温暖。学会独立，告别依赖，对软弱的自己说再见。

16. None of us are perfect individuals, but we must accept our imperfections. Comfort ourselves in solitude; give ourselves warmth in loneliness. Learn to be independent, bid farewell to dependence, and say goodbye to the weak version of ourselves.

17. 初生牛犊不怕虎 ——佚名

17. A newborn calf dares not fear a tiger — Anonymous

18. 要么成为天之骄子高高在上，要么被徒劳的榨干血液一事无成。

18. Either become the favored son of heaven, exalted high above, or be vainly drained of blood, achieving nothing.

19. 其实，在每个个体的成长过程中，能否理解所有生命的必然， 坦然承受所有考验的痛苦 ，正是一个人真正成熟的标志。

19. In fact, whether an individual can understand the inevitability of all life and calmly bear the pain of all trials is a true sign of their maturity.

20. 32生命里有门功课，名叫“接受”。接受亲人离世，接受爱憎美丑，接受一切无常……以及接受自己的出生相貌天分。虽然每一次在“接受”面前，我们依然还是会像个只会嚎哭的孩子一样手足无措，可慢慢长大的自己会对自己说：接受，是变好的开始。

20. In life, there is a lesson called "acceptance." Accept the departure of loved ones, accept love and hate, beauty and ugliness, and accept all impermanence... as well as accept one's own birth, appearance, and talents. Although every time we face "acceptance," we might still act like a child who only knows how to cry and is at a loss, the growing self will tell itself: Acceptance is the beginning of improvement.

21. 功夫惋惜，譬诸逝水，当博览秘密，以济功业。——颜之推挥霍时间叫虚度，剥用时间叫糊口。——扬格

21. Regret over the passage of time is akin to the flowing of water. One should extensively study secrets in order to further one's achievements. — Yan Zhitui considers the squandering of time as wasteful, and using time merely to make a living as mere subsistence. — Jonathan Swift

22. 现在随着社会的压力，我们人的心里产生了忧郁、恐惧，家庭的矛盾、还有各方面的嫉妒，给人造成了心理越来越大的忧郁，让人们对现代社会越来越失望。

22. Now, with the pressure of society, depression and fear have arisen in our hearts as humans. There are family conflicts and jealousy on all sides, which cause increasing psychological depression for people, making them increasingly disillusioned with modern society.

23. 5我们能够改变自我的信念与大多数其他的信念不同，它能够带来自我实现。

23. 5 We can change our beliefs, and unlike most other beliefs, it can bring about self-realization.

24. 21我从小就接受了那些丑陋的东西，世界上本来就又许多格格不入的事物为了生存而不得不相互接受。

24. Since I was a child, I have been exposed to those ugly things. There are naturally many things in the world that do not fit in, which we have to accept each other for survival.

25. 21无论你犯了多少错，或者进步得有多慢，你都走在了那些不曾尝试的人的前面。

25. 21 No matter how many mistakes you've made or how slow your progress is, you are still ahead of those who have never tried.

26. 一辈子，很累，真的不需要去苛求自己，什么都要完美，你的生活，有你的足迹，有你的泪水，有你的笑声，你的世界就已经完美了。

26. Life is tiring, and it's really not necessary to be too demanding on yourself. Perfection is not everything. Your life has your own footprint, your own tears, and your own laughter. Your world is already perfect.

27. 4总有一些事，我们不愿它发生，却必须接受；总有些东西，我们不想知道，却必须了解；总有些人，我们不能没有，却必须学着放手。人只能自己去成全自己，这是现实。

27. 4 There are always some things we don't want to happen but have to accept; there are always some things we don't want to know but have to understand; and there are always some people we can't live without but have to learn to let go. People can only fulfill themselves by themselves, this is the reality.

28. 一件事你期望太高你就输了，一份情你付出太多你就累了，一个人你等的久了你就痛了。记住，生活中没有过不去的难关，生命中也没有离不开的人。如果你不被珍惜，不再重要，学会华丽的转身。你可以哭泣，可以心疼，但不能绝望。今天的泪水，会是你明天的成长；今天的伤痕，会是你明天的坚强。

28. The higher your expectations of a thing, the more you lose; the more you give in a relationship, the more exhausted you become; the longer you wait for someone, the more you hurt. Remember, there are no insurmountable difficulties in life, and there is no one you can't let go of. If you're not cherished or no longer valued, learn to make a graceful turn. You can cry, you can hurt, but you cannot be despondent. The tears of today will be your growth tomorrow; the scars of today will be your strength tomorrow.

29. 40当看破一切的时候，才知道，原来失去比拥有更踏实。

29. When one sees through everything, one realizes that losing is actually more solid than possessing.

30. 18一旦意识到对立论证的存在，应该"哪一个更合理更现实就接受哪一个"，而非"哪一个更积极就接受哪一个"因为后者只是自我欺骗而已。

30. Once aware of the existence of opposing arguments, one should "accept the one that is more reasonable and realistic," rather than "accept the one that is more positive," because the latter is merely self-deception.

31. 42把自己摆在面前，慢慢缝补，一针一线。不骄傲也不卑微。

31. 42 Place yourself in front of the mirror, slowly sew with each stitch, one by one. Without pride nor humility.

32. 8站在时光的彼岸，回看此岸的光阴。茫茫人海，每一场遇见，都是一次美丽。接受不完美的自己吧，在孤独的时候，给自己一些安慰；在寂寞的时候，给自己一些温暖。坎坷路途，记得给身边的人一份温暖；风雨人生，记得给自己一个微笑。

32. Standing on the opposite shore of time, looking back at the years on this side. Amid the vast sea of people, every encounter is a beauty. Accept the imperfect you, and comfort yourself in solitude; in loneliness, give yourself some warmth. On the rugged journey, remember to offer warmth to those around you; in the stormy life, remember to smile at yourself.

33. 41我从来不愿埋怨自己，因为不愿面对现实的我太可怜。我又会强迫自己接受现实，因为不想一直蹉跎，错过美好。

33. 41 I have never wanted to blame myself, because the me who is unwilling to face reality is too pitiful. I would once again force myself to accept reality, because I don't want to keep squandering my time, missing the good things.

34. 噩梦做多了，会害怕夜晚，更怕一个人的夜晚。梦中有多不安，内心就有多恐惧。

34. After having too many nightmares, one may become afraid of the night, and even more afraid of being alone at night. The more restless the dreams are, the greater the fear within the heart.

35. 看别人不顺眼，是自己的修养不够。喜欢追梦的人，切记不要被梦想主宰；善于谋划的人，切记空想达不到目标；拥有实干精神的人，切记选对方向比努力做事重要。

35. Disliking others is a sign of one's own lack of修养. For those who are fond of chasing dreams, be mindful not to be dominated by your dreams; for those who are good at planning, be mindful that daydreaming will not lead to your goals; for those with a spirit of hard work, be mindful that choosing the right direction is more important than simply working hard.

36. 在这个世界上，我们都是独一无二的存在，没有人真的能理解你，也没有人真的能和你感同身受，所以，凡事还得自己承受，即便有人安慰，又能如何？最终收拾残局的，还是你自己。

36. In this world, we are all unique individuals. No one can truly understand you, nor can anyone truly empathize with you. Therefore, one must bear all things oneself. Even if someone comforts you, what good does it do? In the end, it's still you who has to pick up the pieces.

37. 16就算知道方法，也绝对不能去改变过去，绝不能将存在的可能性转变为既定的现实，未来是没有人能预测的，是无法重来的，正因如此人们才能接受各种痛苦，不幸与飞来横祸，迈步前进。作者：冈部伦太郎 出处：命运石之门

37. Even if you know the method, you absolutely cannot change the past. You cannot turn the possibilities that exist into a predetermined reality. The future is something that no one can predict, and it cannot be relived. It is because of this that people can accept all kinds of pain, misfortune, and sudden disasters, and move forward. Author: Rintarou Okabe Source: Steins;Gate

38. 肿瘤患者不是一个个体，家庭从此不再有笑容，内心时刻提醒自己，我家有一名癌症患者，要有钱，有足够的钱治病救人，他，她的生命也许己讲入了倒计时，死亡随时降临，亲人或将离去，内心的煎熬，恐惧，无助，有时比癌更可怕，愿亲人们远离病魔，健康，平安。阿弥陀佛

38. Cancer patients are not just individuals; the family no longer has joy. They constantly remind themselves that their family has a cancer patient, and they need money, enough money to treat and save their loved one. His or her life may already be in countdown, with death looming at any moment. Loved ones might leave them, and the inner torment, fear, and helplessness can sometimes be more可怕 than the cancer itself. May all family members stay away from the evil disease, be healthy, and live in peace. Amida Buddha.

39. 习惯不加以抑制就会酿成糊口的必须品。《沉思录》

39. Habit, if not suppressed, can turn into a necessity for making a living. "Meditations"

40. 当英雄经过了考验之路，接下来他将会 “遇到女神” ，女神代表着世界上任何充满诱惑、带来快乐的事物，她是完美的化身，是灵魂的保证，凯旋归来的英雄能否与女神完婚，往往是故事的关键阶段，也是英雄所追求的天赐之福。

40. After the hero has passed the road of trials, he will "encounter the goddess," who represents any tempting and joyful thing in the world. She is the embodiment of perfection and the guarantee of the soul. Whether the returning hero can marry the goddess is often the key stage of the story and the divine blessing that the hero seeks.

41. 不论是最好的时光或最坏的时光，都是你唯一的时光。

41. Whether it's the best of times or the worst of times, it is your only time.

42. 有时候，那些白天时最坚强的人，正是那些在黑夜里哭着哭着睡着的人。

42. Sometimes, it is those who appear the most resolute during the day who are the ones who cry themselves to sleep in the darkness.

43. 出路出路,走出去了,总是会有路的。困难苦难,困在家里就是难。

43.出路出路, once you step out, there will always be a way. Hardships hardships, being confined at home is indeed hard.

44. 27世上最好的保鲜就是不断进步，让自己成为一个更好和更值得爱的人。

44. The best way to preserve oneself in the world is through constant progress, to become a better and more lovable person.

45. 时间，带不走真正的朋友；岁月，留不住虚幻的拥有。时光转换，体会到缘分善变；平淡无语，感受了人情冷暖。有心的人，不管你在与不在，都会惦念；无心的情，无论你好与不好，只是漠然。走过一段路，总能有一次领悟；经历一些事，才能看清一些人。

45. Time cannot take away true friends; years cannot retain the illusion of possession. As time changes, one understands the variability of fate; in silence, one feels the coldness and warmth of human feelings. Those with a caring heart will always miss you whether you are present or not; those without a caring heart will remain indifferent no matter how good or bad you are. After walking a certain distance, one can always have a moment of realization; after experiencing some things, one can see some people more clearly.

46. 14有时候，你必须意识到，有些人能留在你的心里，但不能留在你生活里。我明明知道需要放手却放不下，因为我还在等待不可能的发生，这种感觉真的很难受。不能承受的时候，你就接受吧，接受现实的安排，沉淀困苦，放过自己。

46. 14 Sometimes, you have to realize that some people can stay in your heart but not in your life. I know I need to let go, but I can't because I'm still waiting for something impossible to happen. This feeling is really hard to bear. When you can't bear it anymore, just accept it. Accept the arrangement of reality, let the hardships settle, and forgive yourself.

47. 善待，是一个亲切的姿态，一种温和的态度，让温暖流转，让爱延宕。顺境时，想着去善待他人。己顺，示人以平和；己达，示人以谦恭；己喜，示人以沉静。逆境时，要懂得善待自己。善待自己，就是与己和解，置心灵于旷野，给心灵以自由。善待他人，可让人生走得更远；善待自己，可让生命活得更从容。

47. Kindness is a warm and affectionate gesture, a gentle attitude that allows warmth to flow and love to endure. In prosperous times, think of being kind to others. When you are at ease, show others peace; when you have achieved success, show others humility; when you are joyful, show others composure. In adverse times, learn to be kind to yourself. Being kind to oneself is to reconcile with oneself, to place the soul in the vastness of the wilderness, and to grant the soul freedom. Being kind to others can make life go further; being kind to oneself can make life more relaxed and carefree.

48. 34做个稳妥的人，不要高估两年内的自己，也不要低估十年后的自己。

48. Be a prudent person, do not overestimate yourself in the next two years, nor undervalue yourself in ten years.

49. 48每个人都不完美，但都值得被爱，每个人都会犯错，会改就好。

49. 48: No one is perfect, but everyone deserves to be loved. Everyone makes mistakes; what matters is that we learn and improve.

50. 给自己一点掌声。在漫漫人生旅途中，总会有寂寞、失落、沮丧的时候，这时给自己一点掌声，让自己战胜怯懦，使无畏的心更加的坚强，更是温暖自己独自前行的路。当自己累了、倦了、快撑不下去了，给自己一点掌声，不只是对自己寂寞灵魂的一种填充，更是对风雨人生的一种从容。相信自己，肯定自己，做自己。

50. Give yourself a round of applause. Throughout the long journey of life, there will always be moments of loneliness, loss, and despair. At these times, give yourself a pat on the back to conquer your fears and make your fearless heart even stronger, which is also a source of warmth for your solitary path forward. When you feel tired, weary, and on the verge of giving up, give yourself a round of applause. It's not only a way to fill the loneliness of your soul but also a dignified way to face the storms of life. Believe in yourself, affirm yourself, and be yourself.

51. 《千面英雄》这本书把英雄们的成长遵循的模式分为三个阶段：

51. The book "The Hero with a Thousand Faces" divides the patterns of heroes' growth into three stages:

52. 28最近突然之间的顿悟，真正接受不完美的自己，并且爱自己。

52. 28 A sudden realization recently: truly accepting myself with all my imperfections and loving myself.

53. 这些天一直很迷茫，不知道自己想要什么，什么能让我真的开心。心里冲动得想回国，可是由于对国内的工作情况不了解而产生的恐惧又一遍遍打消我的念头。就算在这里找到了工作我又会开心么？

53. Lately, I've been feeling quite lost, not knowing what I really want or what would truly make me happy. There's a冲动 within me to return home, but the fear that stems from my lack of understanding of the job situation there keeps dissuading me. Even if I find a job here, would I be happy?

54. 3我从来不愿埋怨自己，因为不愿面对现实的我太可怜。我又会强迫自己接受现实，因为不想一直蹉跎，错过美好。

54. 3 I have never wanted to blame myself, because the me who does not want to face reality is too pitiful. I would also force myself to accept reality, because I don't want to keep squandering my time and miss the beautiful moments.

55. 幸福是因为简单的呼吸着，所以在呼吸结束之前没有不幸。懂得生活的人更易感受到幸福：静静等待一次日落，享受孤独的幸福；走自己的路让别人去说吧，享受个性的幸福；清晨的树林里深吸一口气，享受呼吸的幸福；感悟生命珍惜时间，享受活着的幸福。没人保证明天的朝阳仍有自己的一份，学会幸福的活着吧！

55. Happiness comes from simply breathing, and therefore, there is no unhappiness before the end of breath. Those who understand life are more likely to feel happiness: calmly waiting for a sunset and enjoying the happiness of solitude; walking one's own path and letting others talk, enjoying the happiness of individuality; taking a deep breath in the forest at dawn, enjoying the happiness of breathing; contemplating life and cherishing time, enjoying the happiness of being alive. No one guarantees that there will still be a share of tomorrow's sunrise for oneself, so learn to live happily!

56. 36过于理想化的人和感情都是不存在的。应该接受并承认，人性本就是不完美的。直面自己和他人的缺陷，接纳或者克服心理障碍。

56. Too idealistic people and emotions do not exist. We should accept and acknowledge that human nature is inherently imperfect. Face your own and others' flaws, accept or overcome psychological barriers.

57. 生活总不完美，总有辛酸的泪，总有失足的悔，总有幽深的怨，总有抱憾的恨。生活亦很完美，总让我们泪中带笑，悔中顿悟，怨中藏喜，恨中生爱。看生活是否完美，就要淡视那些不完美，放大那些可能的完美。只要你的心完美，这个世界就完美。所以我们修炼的，就是一颗热爱这个世界的心。

57. Life is never perfect, it always has bitter tears, regrets of missteps, deep grievances, and regrets that linger. Life is also perfect, as it always lets us laugh through our tears, gain insights from our regrets, find joy in our grievances, and foster love from our恨. To see if life is perfect, one must overlook its imperfections and magnify its potential for perfection. As long as your heart is perfect, this world is perfect. Therefore, what we cultivate is a heart that loves this world.

58. 26每个人都有追求更美好生活的权利，但是，追求完美的同时，要接受现实，现实就是这个世界本不完美。

58. 26 Every person has the right to pursue a better life, but while striving for perfection, one must accept reality, which is that this world is inherently imperfect.

59. 2在生日的前两天，我发现我能够坦然接纳不完美的自己，或许这就是送给自己最好的生日礼物。我爱我的痘痘，我爱我的肉肉，我爱不完美的自己。

59.2 Two days before my birthday, I found that I could accept my imperfect self with ease, perhaps this is the best birthday gift I could give myself. I love my acne, I love my chubby bits, I love my imperfect self.