在喧嚣尘世中，一场关于“放下真幻：不联系、不打扰、不拉黑”的解脱之旅悄然启程。

In the hustle and bustle of the world, a journey of liberation about "Letting Go of Reality and Illusion: No Contact, No Disturbance, No Blacklisting" quietly sets off.

1. 既然已经放下，那就重新开始新的生活，不要再互相打扰，此时就要勇敢的选择放手，在心里祝福她，自己也要勇敢地开启新的人生。切不可活在回忆中，那样只能是徒增烦恼。

1. Since it has been let go, let's start a new life, stop interfering with each other, and be brave enough to let go at this moment. May you be blessed in your heart, and also be brave to embark on a new life of your own. It is crucial not to live in the past, as that can only add to your worries.

2. 放下一个人，从来都不是件容易的事情，或许是因为执念太深，深陷进去不能自拔！或许是因为，在自己的心里面还有不甘心，不愿意接受！再或者，是自己再也没有遇到一个更让自己心动的人，所以才放不下！

2. Letting go of someone is never an easy thing. Perhaps it's because the attachment is too deep, and one is unable to pull oneself out of it! Or perhaps, there is still a sense of不甘 in one's heart, unwilling to accept the situation! Alternatively, it might be that one has never encountered another person who makes one's heart race more, and that's why it's hard to let go!

3. 真正的放下，是不联系，不打扰，不拉黑！

3. True letting go means not contacting, not disturbing, and not blocking!

4. 爱过的人，不纠缠、不删除、不拉黑、不联系，是对彼此曾经情爱的正确道别方式，是对彼此最后的尊重。

4. For those who have loved, not to纠缠, not to delete, not to block, not to contact, is the correct way to bid farewell to the love that once existed between us, and it is the last respect we show to each other.

5. 非常有感觉一段话：“成年人，最体面的告别方式是：我的最后一条消息，你没有回，而我，也默契地没有再发，从此我们互为过客。我不优秀，但我很善良，认定的东西，就会拼尽全力。我不聪明，但我也不傻。

5. A very emotional statement: "Adults, the most dignified way to say goodbye is: My last message, you didn't reply, and I, by默契, didn't send another, from then on we were just passersby. I'm not outstanding, but I am kind. When I believe in something, I will give it my all. I'm not intelligent, but I'm also not stupid."

6. 杨绛先生说：当缘分尽了，把自己还给自己，把别人还给别人，让花成花，让树成树。从此，山水一程，再不相逢。愿来生，不见，不欠，不念。

6. Mr. Yang Jiang said: When fate is over, return to oneself, and return others to others, let the flowers be flowers, and let the trees be trees. From then on, the journey of mountains and rivers, we will never meet again. May we meet in another life, without seeing, without owing, without thinking of each other.

7. 很多时候，释怀了那个人，也就是释怀自己，得之坦然，失之泰然，争其必然，顺其自然！

7. Many times, letting go of that person is also letting go of oneself. Accept what you gain with calmness, accept what you lose with composure, strive for what is inevitable, and go with the natural flow!

8. 活在这个世上，我们都是独行者，没有谁能一直陪在身边。对于离开你的人，别记恨，对于伤害你的人，别抱怨。那些熟悉的人或者朋友，即使不联系，也别生气，心怀感激就好，毕竟他们曾经温暖过你，陪你走过一段路程！

8. Living in this world, we are all solitary travelers, with no one who can stay by our side forever. For those who leave you, don't hold any grudge; for those who hurt you, don't complain. Even for those familiar people or friends, don't be angry if you don't keep in touch; just be grateful in your heart, for they once warmed you and walked with you through a segment of life!

9. 一个重感情的女人，一旦心里有了你，再也容不下别人，这样的女人，要么你真心爱她，要么放过她，不要欺骗她，否则你会要了她半条命的幸福，却也会让她背负一生的痛苦，真的走出来很难很难！

9. A woman who is deeply emotional, once she has you in her heart, can no longer tolerate anyone else. Such a woman, either you should truly love her, or let her go. Don't deceive her. Otherwise, you'll take half of her happiness, but also burden her with lifelong pain. It's extremely difficult to truly move on!

10. 余生，过好自己的当下，不敷衍自己的人生，珍惜好眼前人！

10. In the remaining years, live your present well, don't take your life lightly, and cherish the people in front of you!

11. 忘记一个人需要时间，分开了也没必要非得成为仇人，体面的离开保住了双方的面子，不联系，不打扰，不拉黑是最后爱一个人的方式，放下这段感情，去充实自己，锻炼自己，慢慢的你就会发现，从最初的一星期，一个月不联系，慢慢的就真的没有联系的欲望了！不要高估自己在别人心目中的份量，交给时间，岁月会替你轻描淡写，放下意味着更好的前行，还有更多有意义的事等待我们去做！

11. It takes time to forget someone, and even after separation, there is no need to become enemies. A dignified departure preserves both parties' dignity. Not contacting, not disturbing, and not blocking is the last way to love someone. Let go of this affection, enrich yourself, and exercise yourself. Slowly, you will find that from the initial one week, one month without contact, it gradually becomes a real lack of desire to communicate. Don't overestimate your importance in others' minds. Leave it to time; the years will treat it lightly. Letting go means better progress, and there are more meaningful things waiting for us to do!

12. 很多事情心里都明白，只是不想说太多而已。我不喜欢勾心斗角，彼此算计，只要你对我实实在在的，我就心满意足。尽力之后，我就选择随缘，你若对我忽冷忽热，我就敢与你渐行渐远。”

12. I understand many things in my heart, but I just don't want to say too much. I don't like to engage in cunning schemes and calculations, as long as you are sincere to me, I am content. After doing my best, I choose to go with the flow. If you are hot and cold towards me, I dare to move away from you gradually."

13. 喜欢一个人，往往只是一个瞬间，忘记一个人，却需要很多的时间，而哪怕是时间已经足够多，可能也依然还是忘不了，回忆很短，而遗忘，却那么的长。

13. Liking someone often happens in a moment, but forgetting someone requires a great deal of time, and even if enough time has passed, it may still be difficult to forget. Memories are short, but forgetting can be so long-lasting.

14. 尽力过后就选择随缘吧，要学会释然放手。生活还得继续，余生是很美丽的，人生路途上的遗憾很多，学会释怀放手，成就余生风光。

14. After making every effort, choose to go with the flow and learn to let go and accept things as they are. Life must go on, and the rest of your life is very beautiful. There are many regrets on the journey of life, so learn to let go and embrace the rest of your life with splendor.