繁华落尽，亲情渐行渐远。一盏孤灯，映照着岁月沧桑。

The bustle of prosperity fades away, and kinship gradually drifts apart. A solitary lamp illuminates the vicissitudes of time.

1. 45不要眼眶一红，就觉得人间不值得，散伙是人间常态，你我又不是什么例外。

1. Don't let your eyes well up with tears and think that life is not worth living. Breaking up is a common occurrence in the world, and you and I are not any exceptions.

2. 5如你是正确的，不要过多地争辩，把对方逼得太紧，也就断了自己的退路；如你是优秀的，不要肆意地卖弄，别人会因此而远离你。

2.5 If you are right, do not argue too much; if you press the other person too hard, you will also cut off your own retreat. If you are excellent, do not show off recklessly; others may distance themselves from you because of it.

3. 43女友在工作中受了委屈，我都不知道如何帮助到她，我又不会开导她。

3. My girlfriend was wronged at work, and I didn't know how to help her, as I'm not good at comforting her.

4. 33长大了，亲情，友情慢慢就疏远了，越来越不想和别人交流，越来越想一个人独处，哪怕一个人无聊到发狂。

4. As 33 grows up, family ties and friendships gradually become distant, and there's an increasing reluctance to communicate with others. There's a growing desire for solitude, even if it leads to being lonely to the point of madness.

5. 33直到今天再次见面才发现，十年的友情，不是一下子能断的。以为自己会一直介意下去，直到感情彻底破裂，然而现在发现，即使比不上以前，但仅留的闺蜜情却也足够保存我们之间的美好。

5. 33 Until we met again today, I realized that ten years of friendship is not something that can be easily severed. I thought I would always hold a grudge, until the feelings completely broke apart. However, I've found now that even if it's not as strong as it used to be, the remaining friendship between us is still enough to preserve the beauty of our relationship.

6. 13任何一个人离开你，都并非突然作的决定。人心是慢慢变冷，树叶是渐渐变黄，故事是缓缓写到结局。

6. 13 No one leaves you without having made the decision suddenly. The heart cools down gradually, leaves turn yellow slowly, and stories are written to their conclusion slowly.

7. 1在外漂泊久了，感觉昔日的很多人都己陌生，有些旧人面目狰狞，甚为可憎，说话也很刺耳。或许是自己的失败，看透了一些以前没看透的人和事。血缘关系其实并不是代表着一定存在亲情。亲情，友情是不分有没有血缘关系的。

7.1 After being away for a long time, I feel that many of the people from the past are now strangers. Some old acquaintances have become so fierce and detestable that their presence is quite unpleasant, and their words are also very piercing. Perhaps it's due to my own failures, as I have seen through some people and things that I didn't understand before. Blood relations do not necessarily represent the existence of family affection. Family affection and friendship are not divided by the presence or absence of blood relations.

8. 54我很难过你又怎么了这是最让人心寒的一组对话你就从没想过我为什么不快乐

8. 54 I'm really sad, what's wrong with you again? This is the most heart-wrenching set of conversations, you've never thought about why I'm not happy.

9. 60后来越来越容易为一些事物着迷，却再难一下喜欢好多年。

9. It has become increasingly easy for those born in the 1960s to become fascinated by certain things, but it's hard for them to develop a long-lasting liking for something.

10. 44没关系，我做我自己的女王，我死都不会委屈了自己。

10. 44 No problem, I am my own queen, and I will never humiliate myself.

11. 16我以前不懂什么叫悲伤，以为哭得撕心裂肺最悲伤。后来我才晓得，悲伤就是你看着他的头像你还会笑，你还会温柔相待，你还会心思柔软，可是心里比任何时候都明白，你再也不能同眼前这个人亲近半分了。

11.16 I used to not understand what sadness was, thinking that crying with a broken heart was the ultimate sadness. Later, I realized that sadness is when you still smile at his avatar, you still treat him gently, you still have a soft heart, but you are more aware than ever that you can no longer be close to this person in front of you.

12. 36爸「这些天，我看透了很多什么亲情人情，现在对我来说，钱和你妈我最信得过，没有你妈，我都不知谁帮我打饭。我们做了我们可以做的，你和阿B自己不长进，没有人帮到你们。」

12. Dad: "These days, I've seen through a lot of so-called relationships and emotions. To me now, money and your mom are the most trustworthy. Without your mom, I wouldn't even know who would help me with meals. We've done what we could do. You and Ah B don't make any progress on your own, and no one is helping you."

13. 48曾经有一分真挚的爱情放在我面前，我没有珍惜，等我失去的时候，我才后悔莫及，人世间最痛苦的事莫过于此。

13. Once, there was a genuine love placed before me, which I did not cherish. Only when I lost it did I deeply regret it. There is no greater sorrow in the world than this.

14. 6如果你不笑我跑调，我会给你世界上独一无二的情歌。

14. 6 If you don't laugh at my off-key singing, I'll give you a unique love song in the world.

15. 43人变坏了可以教，钱没了，可以赚，但是心碎了你拿什么弥补，别让爱你的人失望，不管是友情亲情爱情，将心比心。

15. It's possible to teach 43 people who have gone bad, and you can make money if you lose it, but what can you compensate for a broken heart? Don't disappoint the people who love you, whether it's friendship, family ties, or love; treat others as you would like to be treated.

16. 30未曾清贫难做人，不经打击永天真。成熟不过是善于隐藏，沧桑不过是无泪有伤。

16. It's hard to be a person in poverty, and to remain innocent without experiencing setbacks. Maturity is just the ability to hide well, and experience is the pain that is hidden beneath the absence of tears.

17. 18我和我闺蜜一起给你留言，你回复了她却无视了我

17. 18 My best friend and I left messages for you together, but you replied to her and ignored me.

18. 6十我不羡慕大雄的小叮当有异次元口袋，我不也羡慕夏尔的塞巴斯是万能的。我羡慕的是他们不会孤身不论做什么事相信你自己别让别人的我姓张我心葬，我姓王我心亡，我姓梁我心凉，我姓陈我心沉，我姓心寒韩我，不管我姓什么你都不会爱我。

18.6 I don't envy Doraemon's Doraemon with his pocket in another dimension, nor do I envy Charles' Sabastian for being omnipotent. What I envy is that they don't have to do anything alone; believe in yourself, don't let others' opinions burden you. I am Zhang, my heart is buried; I am Wang, my heart is lost; I am Liang, my heart is cold; I am Chen, my heart is heavy; I am Han Xin, cold-hearted. No matter what my surname is, you will never love me.

19. 53越来越沉默。因为看透世态炎凉。看见人性自私贪婪。亲情爱情友情都不过如此。人始终是孤独的。所以不用在意存在感。

19. 53 is becoming increasingly silent. Because he has seen through the vicissitudes of life. He has seen human nature's selfishness and greed. Kinship, love, and friendship are all like this. People are always alone. So there is no need to worry about one's sense of existence.

20. 28伤害你最深的人，往往是那些声称永远不会伤害你的人。

20. The person who hurts you the most is often someone who claims they will never hurt you.

21. 32淡然一笑，什么都会离你而去，纯真，快乐，亲情，友情，烦恼，悲伤，背叛，姨妈，男人，结束。

21. 32 A casual smile, and everything will leave you behind: innocence, happiness, family ties, friendship, worries, sadness, betrayal, aunts, men, and the end.

22. 40你们的多次背叛让我知道了什么是真正的友情！

22. 40 Your multiple betrayals have taught me what true friendship is!

23. 21不知道说啥总之是混杂着尴尬疏远与难言亲情的一天而且越来越能接受自己的平庸。

23. 21 was a day of confusion, mixed with awkwardness, distance, and an unspoken kinship, and it seemed to me that I was increasingly accepting my own mediocrity.

24. 39别的部门的资深同事，情绪难测，借题当众大声羞辱你、质疑你的工作能力，委屈吗？

24. 39 Senior colleagues from other departments, their emotions unpredictable, publicly humiliate you and question your work abilities, don't you feel wronged?

25. 17有时候，会突然想念你的拥抱。那么紧紧地，几乎每次都需要我慢慢推开。有时候，走着走着，会突然想起你，然后走不下去，慢慢蹲下来，悲伤得不能自己。

25. Sometimes, I suddenly miss your embrace. It's so tight that almost every time, I need to be pushed away slowly. Sometimes, while walking, I suddenly remember you, and then I can't go on, slowly crouching down, overwhelmed with sadness.

26. 48老天不给你困难，你又如何看透人心；老天不给你失败，你又如何发现身边的人是真是假；老天不给你孤独，你又如何反思自省；老天不给你生命中配上君子和小人，你又如何懂得提高智商！老天对我们每个人都是公平的，有人让你哭了，必须会有人让你笑。

26. 48 If heaven does not give you difficulties, how can you see through people's hearts? If heaven does not give you failure, how can you discern who around you is genuine and who is not? If heaven does not give you loneliness, how can you reflect and introspect? If heaven does not pair you with both gentlemen and scoundrels in life, how can you learn to improve your intelligence quotient! Heaven is fair to all of us; if someone makes you cry, someone else must make you laugh.

27. 23如果爱情结束了，那就是结束了，别回头，冲着你下一个目标去吧。

27. 23 If love is over, then it's over. Don't look back; go for your next target.

28. 40好比较，远方的是朋友，身边的是仇敌：陈天桥有几百亿不借你没话说，你哥哥有十万不借你一万就是王八蛋。

28. In comparison, the distant are friends, and those nearby are enemies: Chen Tianqiao has hundreds of billions and doesn't lend you a word, but if your brother lends you only ten thousand and you're not grateful, then you're a scoundrel.

29. 3眼角的泪水已干，现在觉得钱他还是很重要的，它能看透人心，它能帮助我们留住家人。我努力，我愿意，我能做得到。

29. The tears at the corners of my eyes have dried, and now I realize that money is still very important. It can see through people's hearts and it can help us keep our family together. I strive, I am willing, and I can do it.

30. 为什么很多成年人会觉得，越长大亲情越淡薄，兄弟姐妹之间越疏远呢？这些原因说出了全部问题。

30. Why do many adults feel that as they grow older, their family ties become weaker and their relationships with their siblings become more distant? These reasons explain the whole problem.

31. 15不要怕被别人利用，人家利用你说明你还有用。

31. Don't be afraid of being exploited by others; if they exploit you, it means you are still of use.

32. 47情绪的尽头不是脏话，不是发泄，而是沉默

32. The end of 47 emotions is not profanity, not venting, but silence.

33. 12有多少人 受了多大委屈都不声不吭 听到安慰却泣不成声。

33. 12 How many people endure great injustice in silence, yet shed tears when they hear comforting words.

34. 经历过落败过后才能领悟，原来这场人生，从始至终，强大自己，才是解决一切问题最根本的途径。”

34. Only after experiencing defeat can one realize that throughout this life, the most fundamental way to solve all problems is to strengthen oneself.

35. 但是，这毕竟是少数，大部分兄弟姐妹都能保持很好的关系，毕竟这个世界上除了父母，兄弟姐妹是我们最亲的人兄弟姐妹成家后彼此之间关系会一定程度的疏远是正常现象。因为兄弟姐妹各自成家生子后，精力和注意力会很自然地集中到各自新组建的家庭里，而每个人的精力又是有限的，因而，兄弟姐妹各自成家后，不可能还象彼此未成家前那样一直保持比较亲近的关系。俗话说距离产生美。对于兄弟姐妹之间的关系也是一样，成家后，兄弟姐妹之间保持一定的距离也会使彼此的关系持续保持融洽与和谐。相反如果彼此来往过于频繁，相互关系过于紧密，天长日久，兄弟姐妹之间往往会产生这样或那样的矛盾，反而不利于彼此保持亲情关系的和谐。。兄弟感情好不好，第一是父母教育问题，其二是兄嫂之间的，关键的还是兄弟自己的心态，如果你有一个好有钱的兄弟，人在外面广交狐朋狗友称兄道弟，而不顾你以搬砖维持家庭生活的，还配有兄弟朋友，配有事没事的KTV唱歌什么闯码头，兄弟干杯么，兄弟姐妹之间有着一份很关键的情感，毕竟你们之间有着一定的距离,千万不要越过。这件事就发生在我身上了，我有着几兄弟，是大学认识的！由于我们总是相处的太近，真的好的不得了，可时间长了，也包含着大学社会中的一些争斗（但不是我们之间的），有人不喜欢了，不喜欢遮掩过得争斗！慢慢的变了一些，现在我们还是兄弟，但没有以前的那份热情！ 父母，永远是我们最亲的人，他们所有的希望都在我们身上，当然会包容我们的一切，所以，请好好对待自己的家人，回想以前说话的语气，行为，等到长大了，离开父母了，在社会上遇到一些事情，往往会想到父母，那时候，你会后悔以前对父母的无理，真的很希望还在叛逆的孩子，不要再那样了！

35. However, this is still a minority, and most brothers and sisters can maintain good relationships. After all, in this world, besides our parents, our brothers and sisters are the people we are closest to. It is a normal phenomenon for the relationships between brothers and sisters to become somewhat distant after they get married and start their own families. Because after each brother and sister establishes their own family and has children, their energy and attention naturally concentrate on their newly formed families. Since each person's energy is limited, it is impossible for brothers and sisters to maintain a close relationship as they did before getting married. As the saying goes, distance makes the heart grow fonder. The same is true for the relationships between brothers and sisters; after getting married, maintaining a certain distance between them can also help keep their relationships harmonious. Conversely, if they interact too frequently and maintain too close a relationship, over time, brothers and sisters may often encounter various kinds of conflicts, which is not conducive to maintaining the harmony of their family ties. The quality of the brotherly bond depends first on the parents' education, then on the relationship between the older brother and his sister-in-law, and most importantly, on the brother's own mindset. If you have a brother who is wealthy and likes to make friends with all sorts of people outside, calling them brothers, and ignores your hard work to maintain the family, and even has friends who accompany him to KTV singing and partying, brothers raising a toast, there is a very important emotional bond between brothers and sisters. After all, there is a certain distance between you, so never cross that line. This happened to me, I have several brothers, we met in college! Because we always lived too close together, we were really great, but over time, we also experienced some disputes in the college society (but not between us), some people didn't like it, and the disputes were not concealed. Gradually, some changes occurred, and now we are still brothers, but without the previous enthusiasm. Parents are always our closest people, placing all their hopes on us. Of course, they will tolerate everything about us. Therefore, please treat your family well, recall the tone and behavior of your words in the past. When you grow up and leave your parents, and encounter some things in society, you will often think of your parents. At that time, you will regret your unreasonable behavior towards your parents. I really hope that the rebellious children will not behave that way anymore!

36. 36有多少二货像我一样，有时感觉自身是不必要的。 受了很多憋屈，伤心欲绝很难受，却还会笑着

36. How many idiots like me sometimes feel unnecessary? I've endured a lot of bitterness and heartache, which is incredibly painful, yet I still find myself smiling.

37. 51有些事明知道不会有结果，还一直舍不得放弃，像个神经病，即纠结了自己，又耽误了别人，千万别仗着关系好，就对身边的人肆无忌惮，无论是亲情、友情、爱情，都需要尊重。

37. 51 Sometimes, even though you know that certain things won't have a result, you still can't bear to give up, acting like a lunatic, worrying yourself and holding others back. Never take advantage of good relationships to act recklessly towards those around you. Whether it's family ties, friendships, or love, respect is needed.

38. 1我总不爱委屈自己。想做的事情就努力去做，想吃的东西很远也去找，开心就大笑不开心就不吵闹。这个世界上，能委屈我的，也只有你了吧。

38. 1 I always dislike feeling wronged to myself. I will work hard to do what I want to do, and I will go to great lengths to find things I want to eat. When I'm happy, I laugh out loud, and when I'm not, I don't cause a fuss. In this world, the only one who can make me feel wronged is you, I believe.

39. 17婆婆就算再好，也是婆婆，关注点都是围绕她儿子和她孙子。

39. No matter how good the mother-in-law is, she is still a mother-in-law, and her focus is always centered around her son and her grandson.

40. 35以为有的感情可以冲破身份的桎梏，亲情可以高于一切，最后不亚于狠狠的一巴掌抽在自己脸上。最重要的，应当是那种深深的失望感。

40. 35 believed that some emotions can break through the shackles of identity, that family affection can transcend all else, and ultimately is no less than a resounding slap to one's own face. Most importantly, it should be a deep sense of disappointment.

41. 19总有一群隐身的朋友如死人一般躺在你的好友列表里，偶尔诈诈尸，时不时还会改改他们的墓志铭。

41. There's always a group of invisible friends lying like dead people in your friend list, occasionally coming back to life, and sometimes even changing their epitaphs.

42. 16这段时间看透了很多事很多人，亲情，友情，爱情，累到没时间做好吃的东西，也接受很多误解。出门前被自己涂唇膏的样子逗笑了，怎样我也会走下去，即使我不是真的女汉子。

42. In these 16 years, I've seen through many things and many people. Family ties, friendships, love... I'm exhausted to the point where I don't have time to make delicious food, and I've also had to endure many misunderstandings. I laughed at the sight of myself applying lipstick before I left the house. No matter what, I will keep moving forward, even if I'm not truly a "tough girl."

43. 没有人会无缘无故的对你好，是亲人也不例外，你能给对方带来价值，满足他的期待，他们就会对你好，喜欢你。反之，如果你给对方带不来价值，你在他们那里一文不值，你什么都不是！

43. No one is good to you for no reason, and this includes family members. If you can provide value to the other person and meet their expectations, they will be good to you and like you. Conversely, if you cannot bring value to the other person, you are worth nothing to them, and you are nothing at all!

44. 29[ 被朋友背叛过的孩纸出来露个脸让我看看有多少人跟我一样孤独着好嘛]

44. 29 [Come out and show your face, the children who have been betrayed by friends, so I can see how many people are as lonely as I am, okay?]

45. 55每当你下定决心要存钱的时候，身边就会有人要你对自己好一点。

45. 55 Whenever you decide to save money, there will always be someone around telling you to treat yourself better.

46. 11总会那么一个人，让你又爱又恨，想忘掉却偏偏又记得最清。

46. 11 There will always be someone who makes you both love and hate them, someone you want to forget but can't help but remember the most clearly.

47. 7突然间就呼吸了这辈子四分之一的空气了，去年是难忘的一年，看透了人心，明白了方向。对亲情，友情和爱情有了清晰的对待方式。新目标：做自己喜欢做的事，留不住的东西不再挽留，自己想要的，努力得到。

47. Suddenly, I've breathed in a quarter of the air I will in my lifetime. Last year was unforgettable; I've seen through people's hearts and understood the direction. I now have a clear way to treat family, friendship, and love. New goal: do what I like, no longer trying to hold onto things that I can't keep, and strive to obtain what I want.

48. 你和任何人的关系，并不取决于你对别人有多好，你的格局有多大，而是取决于你是强还是弱，手上筹码的多少，人们普遍对强者比较宽容，而即使弱者没做错什么，也会被苛责对待，最终还是看你是否有可以交换的价值！

48. The relationship between you and anyone else does not depend on how good you are to others or how large your vision is, but rather on whether you are strong or weak and how many chips you have in hand. People are generally more lenient towards the strong, and even if the weak have done nothing wrong, they may still be harshly treated. In the end, it all comes down to whether you have something of value that can be exchanged!

49. 一段醍醐灌顶的话：

49. A profound and enlightening statement:

50. 2不知不觉离我们吵架已经10天了，这些天我想了很多、我发现我根本就不了解你、我做很多事说很多话的时候都没考虑过你的感受、不是我不想去跟你和好、我害怕和好之后会有更大的破裂、但是现在这种情况并不是我想要的，只是我没有找到更好的办法罢了——致我亲爱的闺蜜H

50. 2 It's been 10 days since we had an argument, and these days I've thought a lot. I've realized that I really don't understand you. When I do many things and say many words, I never considered your feelings. It's not that I don't want to reconcile with you; I'm afraid that there will be even bigger cracks after reconciliation. But this situation is not what I want; it's just that I haven't found a better way. To my dear best friend H

51. 你要明白，从始至终，你想要的生活，就要靠自己去努力，谁都靠不住，别依赖任何人，别对任何人抱有幻想，不希望，不期望，就不会有失望。

51. You must understand that from beginning to end, the life you want to live depends on your own efforts, and you can rely on no one else. Don't depend on anyone, and don't have any illusions about anyone. Without hoping or expecting, there will be no disappointment.

52. 13凡人一生，浮沉漂泊谋生，不如意的事十之八九，总有太多委屈无人可诉，总有太多期待一向失望，总有太多心结无法可解，总有太多梦想一向落空，其实，有些人，深深记住，未必不是幸福；说来，有些事，轻轻放下，未必不是卸载；的确，有些痛，慢慢疗伤，未必不是历练；真的，有些苦，淡淡化开，未必不是甘甜。

52. In the life of a common person, there is constant rise and fall, drifting and struggling for a livelihood. Nine out of ten things are not to one's liking, and there are always too many injustices to vent, too many expectations that always turn into disappointment, too many knots in the heart that cannot be unraveled, and too many dreams that always end in failure. In reality, some things that one deeply remembers may not be a form of happiness; on the contrary, some things that are lightly let go of may not be a form of release; indeed, some pains that are slowly healed may not be a form of experience; truly, some bitterness that is subtly dissolved may not be sweet.

53. 37如果我用你待我的方式来待你，恐怕你早已离去。所以说，不管亲情，友情，还是爱情，凡事换个角度，假如你是我，你未必有我大度！

53. 37 If I treated you the way you treated me, I'm afraid you would have left long ago. That's why, whether it's family ties, friendship, or love, in everything, change your perspective. If you were me, you might not be as magnanimous as I am!

54. 63生活中，你总是缺少悟性，有些事过去就追不回！人心从来隔肚皮！亲情爱情能看透！友情难道还能不一样？到死都看不透！该你伤心！

54. In life, you always lack insight; some things once gone are irretrievable! People's hearts are always beyond the skin! You can see through family and love. Isn't friendship supposed to be different? You can't see through it till the end! It's your turn to be heartbroken!

55. 14永远也不要高估你在别人心中的地位，其实你什么都不是，多你一个也不多，少你一个也不少。

55. 14 Never overestimate your position in others' hearts, for in reality, you are nothing. Whether you are there or not, it makes no difference.

56. 16茫茫人海就像一片戈壁沙漠，我们是沙滩上的一粒沙子，但有了你的陪伴，我不再觉得渺小和孤独。

56. In the vast sea of people, we are like a grain of sand on the beach, but with your companionship, I no longer feel small and lonely.

57. 64看清一些人，看透一些事，谁都不是傻的，最好的感情是彼此成就，无论亲情还是友情！

57. 64. See through some people and some things; no one is foolish. The best kind of affection is mutual accomplishment, whether it's family ties or friendship!

58. 42我们哭叫着降生痛苦地生活，失望地死去。

58. 42 We cry and are born into a life of suffering, and die in despair.

59. 38再大大咧咧的人偶尔也会觉得难过呀，就像那天下了很大的雨，别人在等伞，而我在等雨停。

59. Even the most carefree person sometimes feels sad, just like that day when it rained heavily, while others were waiting for an umbrella, I was waiting for the rain to stop.

60. 8最卑微的大概是，你很长一段时间不理我，我明明难过的不得了，可是你一开始和我说话，我又开心到好像什么事都没发生过

60. The most humble part is probably that you ignored me for a long time, and I was incredibly sad, but as soon as you started talking to me, I was so happy that it felt like nothing had happened at all.

61. 26别轻易对别人说爱，别固执的将别人心门打开，又玩笑着离开。

61. Don't easily say "I love you" to others, and don't stubbornly open someone's heart only to laughingly leave.

62. 35有时想一想自身又丑又胖盆友也是屈指可数。这般失败的人生何苦憋屈了你留在我身边。

62. Sometimes, I think about the few friends who are both ugly and fat, and it's hard to count them. What's the point of a life that's so full of failures? Why do you have to stay by my side and endure this injustice?

63. 24“哭，是解决不了问题的。可是，就是解决不了才哭啊。 ”

63. 24 "Crying won't solve the problem. Yet, it's crying because it can't be solved."

64. 9继后就是太重亲情了，本来她是看透自己命运的人，偏不甘心，又是何苦。她想起容音的时候，会不会觉得殊途同归。

64.9 Then comes the excessive attachment to family ties. She was someone who saw through her destiny, yet she refused to accept it; what is the point of that? When she thinks of Rongyin, does she feel that they have ended up in the same place despite different paths?

65. “等你活到一定岁数，经历多了，你会非常痛苦的发现，其实亲人都不亲。

65. "When you reach a certain age and have experienced a lot, you will painfully realize that actually, none of your relatives are really close."

66. 20不得不感慨，随着年龄的增长，亲情也会越来越疏远，做错了事没人说，没人骂。

66. 20 cannot help but feel that as age grows, family ties also become increasingly distant, and when one makes a mistake, no one speaks up or scolds.

67. 3每每下班走在路上，看着来来往往的人群，总会产生一种苍凉的陌生感。或许家的思想在心底早已生根发芽，莫大的城市，有时候总是找不到半点的归属感，甚至认同感。背井离乡的在外工作，摸爬滚打的在外生活，我知道，一个人在外，谁也不容易，总会有许多的辛酸与落寞，总会有许多的委屈与过错。

67.3 Every time I walk home after work, looking at the bustling crowd, I always feel a sense of desolate alienation. Perhaps the thought of home has already taken root in my heart, but in such a vast city, sometimes I can't find even a trace of a sense of belonging, let alone a sense of identity. Working away from home, struggling to make a living, I know that being alone outside is not easy for anyone. There will always be many sorrows and loneliness, many grievances and mistakes.

68. 33没有凌晨的太阳，我对傍晚的太阳也不感兴趣，我的意思是我非他不可。

68. Without the morning sun, I am not interested in the evening sun either; what I mean is that I can't do without him.

69. 22钱真是个好东西，看透人心，买断感情，友情，亲情，无所不能。

69. 22 is truly a wonderful thing; it can see through people's hearts, buy off emotions, friendships, kinship, it can do anything.

70. 只有强大自己，降低对别人的期待，才能过好自己的生活。人生总会有起起落落，与其指望别人，不如强大自己。一个人只有不断强大自己，才能得到命运的馈赠。当我们越来越强大的时候，曾经跨不过去的槛，终将成为豁然开朗的门。

70. Only by strengthening oneself and lowering expectations of others can one live a good life. Life will always have ups and downs; it's better to strengthen oneself rather than rely on others. One can only receive the blessings of destiny by continuously strengthening oneself. As we grow stronger, what used to be insurmountable obstacles will eventually become doors that open up to sudden clarity.

71. 24你不懂我对你有多爱，而我却知道你的心里没有我的位置。

71. 24 You don't understand how much I love you, but I know there's no place for me in your heart.

72. 31我们在一个地方失去的，就一定会在另一个地方找回来。

72. 31 What we lose in one place, we will surely find it back in another.

73. 当然，更令人心寒的一点就是成年后由于利益纠纷而导致的。你身边肯定有兄弟姐妹长大后因为利益纠纷而撕破脸的情况，而且还挺常见的，这就是人性啊。

73. Of course, what's even more chilling is that it often arises after adulthood due to disputes over interests. You must have seen siblings who have grown up and ended up on bad terms over interests, and it's quite common. That's just human nature.

74. 所谓价值交换，就是拿你有的，去换你想要的。

74. So-called value exchange is about using what you have to acquire what you desire.

75. 人，只有亲身经历过，才能看清身边好多的人和事，人教人，教不会，事教人，一次就够了！

75. People can only truly understand many of the people and things around them through personal experience. You can't teach a person to teach, but once you experience a thing, it teaches you enough!

76. 另一方面，各自都成家了，自己家里的各种琐事都不断，操不完的心，有时根本也无暇顾及兄弟姐妹之间的事情，联系也会越来越少。所以很多人都说成年后，父母就是联系兄弟姐妹之间感情的纽带，如果父母在，兄弟姐妹之间们还能聚在一起，要是有一天父母不在了，兄弟姐妹之间的感情可能也就散了。

76. On the other hand, everyone has settled down and is busy with the trivial matters of their own homes, constantly worrying and with little time to spare for the affairs of their siblings. Sometimes, there is simply no time to keep in touch with them. Therefore, many people say that after adulthood, parents become the bond that connects the feelings between siblings. If the parents are around, the siblings can still gather together. But if one day the parents are no longer there, the feelings between the siblings may also fade away.

77. 你得意时，身边从不会缺亲戚朋友，但当你落魄了，你再看，谁愿意与你往来，谁还会认识你。

77. When you are prosperous, you will never lack relatives and friends around you. But when you are down on your luck, take a look again, and see who is willing to keep in touch with you, and who will still recognize you.

78. 如果你没价值，没利益，不能给亲人带来价值，带来利益，你在亲人眼里什么都不是，甚至连一个陌生人都不如。

78. If you are of no value and no benefit, and cannot bring value or benefit to your relatives, you are nothing in their eyes, not even worth as much as a stranger.

79. 10看透了爱情，友情，亲情，社会太复杂了，我得重新认识一遍。

79. Having seen through love, friendship, and family ties, I find society too complex. I need to re-understand it all over again.

80. 30友情里面存在着太多背叛、亲情里面存在着太多的不理解、爱情里面存在着太多不信任。。。

80. Within friendship, there is too much betrayal; within family, there is too much misunderstanding; within love, there is too much distrust...

81. 40任由风吹浪打，胜势山穷水尽。大将风度，领导者风采！

81. 40 let the wind and waves batter, but victory knows no end. General's demeanor, leader's charm!

82. 7如果你不懂我为什么莫名其妙的生气，那只能说你不够了解我。

82.7 If you don't understand why I'm inexplicably angry, it can only mean you don't know me well enough.

83. 6我本来就是要淋雨的，遇到你给我打伞，到前面分叉口你突然跟我说我们不同路了，我依旧是一个人淋着雨。

83.6 I was supposed to get wet in the rain anyway. When you offered me an umbrella, and then suddenly told me at the fork in the road that we were on different paths, I was still left alone, getting wet in the rain.

84. 25我极致害怕三件事朋友的渐渐远离恋人的欺骗背叛父母的白发苍苍

84. The three things I fear the most are: friends gradually drifting away, the deceit and betrayal of my lover, and my parents' hair turning white.

85. 47能冲刷一切的除了眼泪，就是时间，以时间来推移感情，时间越长，冲突越淡，仿佛不断稀释的茶。

85. The only things that can wash away everything are tears and time. Time can erode emotions, and the longer it passes, the more the conflict fades, as if the tea keeps getting diluted.