在纷繁复杂的世界中，掌握“如何优雅地放手：不删除，不打扰，是最佳策略”这一智慧，犹如拥有一把开启心扉的钥匙。放下执念，让生活如行云流水般从容，方能领悟人生的真谛。

In this complicated and chaotic world, to master the wisdom of "How to gracefully let go: not to delete, not to disturb, is the best strategy" is like having a key to open the heart's door. Let go of attachment, and allow life to flow like clouds and running water with ease, then one can understand the true essence of life.

1. 在你眼中，你常会觉得自己的恋爱障碍重重，自卑的你很喜欢分析任何的东西，包括你跟情人的感情。你不会是令人一见钟情的那类型，你的爱情多是经过漫长的追求才有机会得手的。太过严谨少不免令对方怀疑你的真诚，劝你还是豁达一点，别要太过斤斤计较。我认识的处女座都有一个共通点，当他们不开心或是要好的朋友不开心，他们第一样想到的东西——酒。这么好酒的他们却永远拥有妙窕的身材，简直是一个谜……

1. In your eyes, you often feel that your love is burdened with obstacles, and as someone who is self-deprecating, you enjoy analyzing anything, including your feelings with your loved one. You are not the type who can win someone's heart at first sight; your love is more often achieved after a long pursuit. Being too meticulous can't help but make the other person doubt your sincerity; I advise you to be more open-minded and not too meticulous. A common point I've noticed about all Virgos I know is that when they or their close friends are unhappy, the first thing they think of is alcohol. Despite being such big alcohol lovers, they always maintain a slender figure, which is quite a mystery...

2. 过两天它自然就会屁颠屁颠的像个小狗一样回来给你认错，这时候女生就不应该再火上浇油，如果女生在口是心非的话，男生可能会继续的不爽快，可能会导致你们之间的感情变质。

2. In a couple of days, it will come back to you with a wagging tail like a little dog, ready to apologize. At this point, the girl shouldn't add fuel to the fire. If the girl is insincere, the boy may continue to be unhappy, which could lead to a deterioration of your relationship.

3. 不要再一遍一遍的回忆，他曾经对你说过的话，或者他曾经有的动作，或者你们一起做过的某些事，一起说过的情话，那些回忆虽然很美好，可毕竟过去了，你每一次回忆都是在自己伤口上撒盐，让自己更舍不得利索的断掉，这些回忆只会成为你的绊脚石，当然，让你马上遗忘也不现实，毕竟有这么多的感情在呢，每当控制不住回忆涌上心头的时候，就赶紧想办法转移注意力！

3. Do not keep reliving the things he once said to you, the actions he used to have, or the certain things you did together, or the tender words you shared. Although these memories are beautiful, they are in the past. Every time you remember, you are adding salt to your own wounds, making it harder for you to cut off cleanly. These memories will only become stumbling blocks for you. Of course, it's also unrealistic to expect to forget them all at once, considering the depth of your emotions. Whenever you can't control the memories flooding into your mind, try to quickly shift your attention!

4. 在爱情走到婚姻的关口，处女座的选择是理智而且务实的。处女座的人不会选一个自己不喜欢的人，来折磨自己一辈子，但是，会从喜欢的人中，挑选最具价值的一位，走上人生的新阶段。

4. At the crossroads of love and marriage, Virgo's choice is rational and practical. Virgo individuals would not choose someone they do not like to折磨 (torment) themselves for a lifetime, but they would pick the most valuable one from the ones they like to embark on a new phase of life.

5. 狮子座：你或许不太能接受他有些夸耀的态度。而你的爱的方式，或许对他来说不够热情。

5. Leo: You may not be able to accept his somewhat boastful attitude. And the way you express your love might not be passionate enough for him.

6. 因为水星是处女座的守护星，影响到处女座的人追求完美，挑剔和神经紧张，吹毛求疵正是他们的特性。处女座的人大都很谦虚，但很容易为自己带来压力，许多人一听到处女座就很害怕，明知他们挑剔，唠叨又婆婆妈妈，和人相处很不愉怏，人际关系“认真麻麻”，不过处女座的人爱帮助别人是另一事实。所有处女座的人都喜欢忙碌，他们不可以闲着没事做，为他人服务是他们的人生目标。缺乏自信的处女座有时候组织能力很差，是对自己没信心所致；他们需要朋友和家人的鼓励去推动他们。天生担忧的性格也令他们容易悲观的！

6. Because Mercury is the ruling planet of Virgo, it influences Virgo individuals to pursue perfection, be picky, and be nervous, and their characteristic is to be overly critical. Most Virgos are very modest, but they tend to put pressure on themselves easily. Many people are afraid of Virgos as soon as they hear the name, knowing that they are picky, nagging, and overly concerned, making it unpleasant to be around them. Their interpersonal relationships are "very serious." However, the fact that Virgos love to help others is another matter. All Virgos enjoy being busy and cannot stand doing nothing; serving others is their life goal. Sometimes, Virgos with low self-confidence have poor organizational skills, which is due to their lack of self-confidence; they need the encouragement of friends and family to move forward. Their naturally anxious nature also makes them prone to being pessimistic!

7. 作为男生，他们也会有难过的时候，会有伤心的时候，会有想找人撒娇的时候，会有软弱的时候，而女生这时候应该做的，就是去多多爱护他们。

7. As boys, they also have moments of sadness, times of heartache, moments when they want to be spoiled, and times when they are vulnerable. What girls should do at these times is to show them more love and care.

8. 摩羯座：你们相处在一起的气氛可能有点沉闷，但彼此却是可以了解与配合的对象。

8. Capricorn: The atmosphere between you two might be a bit stuffy, but you are both objects that can understand and cooperate with each other.

9. 处女座的女子往往会传达出一股自我压抑的气氛。这对许多男性来说，反到是一种特殊的吸引力。不过你千万不要用过度热情的方式追求她，粗俗的求爱行动会把她吓跑的。处女座的女人的确会压抑自已的情绪，但是她绝对不是没有情绪。只是你必须要有耐性罢了。寻找到理想中爱情的处女座女子，是非常热情而且浪漫的。这一点肯定值得你期待。

9. Virgo women often exude an atmosphere of self-repression. This can be a special kind of allure to many men. However, you should never pursue her with over-the-top enthusiasm; coarse courtship actions will scare her away. Virgo women do indeed suppress their emotions, but they are certainly not devoid of emotions. You just need to be patient. The Virgo woman who is seeking ideal love is very passionate and romantic. This is definitely something to look forward to.

10. 娶了她，你就有了一个一流的会计师。你的帐本会清清楚楚，分毫不差。她不会喜欢闹情绪。她会把自已打理的整整齐齐，不让自已变成黄脸婆。你每天下班回家，都会有热腾腾的晚餐。至于你的一切烦脑，她都会乐于分担，他会耐心的听你诉苦、冷静的为你分析。你知道她是个完美主义者，她会努力地做一个完美的妻子。

10. Marry her, and you'll have a top-notch accountant. Your accounts will be in perfect order, with not a single mistake. She won't like to be emotional. She'll keep herself well-groomed, never letting herself turn into a hag. Every day when you come home from work, there will be a steaming hot dinner waiting for you. As for all your troubles, she'll be more than happy to share the burden. She'll patiently listen to you vent, and calmly analyze the situation for you. You know she's a perfectionist, and she'll strive to be the perfect wife.

11. 很多处女座的人会评估当前的局势，做出一个很有道理的选择。比方说：如果处女座的男生有一位脾气暴躁的父亲，那么最孝顺的那个女孩会得高分。如果处女座的女生一直觉得学历不够好是一大遗憾，那么拥有博士学位的男孩就可能雀屏中选。

11. Many Virgos tend to assess the current situation and make a sensible choice. For example: if a Virgo male has a temperamental father, then the most filial daughter might score high. If a Virgo female always feels that not having a good education is a great regret, then a boy with a doctoral degree might be the one chosen.

12. 其实我个人觉得，如果一对情侣是因为彼此之间的性格不合适而分开或者是在相处过程中产生了很严重的矛盾而分开，那么就让自己放下吧。因为很多时候这些原因会再一次让你们分开，既然这样，又何必再痛一次呢？

12. In fact, personally, I think if a couple splits up because of incompatible personalities or because of very serious conflicts during their relationship, then it's best to let go. Because often these reasons will lead to your separation again, so why go through the pain once more?

13. 处女座的女人虽然不会是女性运动的发启者，但也绝不会传统盲目的接受一些不合理的安排。她虽然很少大声疾呼，但内心却很有自已的主张，而且固执的很呢！对于爱情、婚姻，她当然十分尊重，同时她也会尽心尽力的付出。但是当认定了这是一段不值得眷恋的感情之后，她会义无反顾的转身而去。平时的她，看起来总有一种宁静安详的气质，但请不要因此而忽略她绝顶冷静、实际的头脑。

13. A Virgo woman may not be the initiator of the women's movement, but she will never blindly accept some unreasonable arrangements in a traditional manner. Although she rarely shouts out loud, she has her own strong opinions and is very stubborn! She naturally respects love and marriage and will give her all. However, once she determines that this is a relationship not worth cherishing, she will turn her back on it without hesitation. In everyday life, she seems to have a serene and tranquil demeanor, but please do not ignore her extremely calm and practical mind.

14. 其实没有必要太过勉强自己去忘记对方的，你要做的事情是接纳对方的存在，在时间这一把杀猪刀之下，什么感情都会逐渐淡忘的。也许在未知的旅途，不经意之间，你就会遇到一个让你怦然心动的人。

14. In fact, there's no need to force yourself too much to forget the other person. What you should do is to accept their existence. Under the blade of time, which is like a pig-killing knife, all feelings will gradually fade away. Perhaps on the unknown journey, unintentionally, you will meet someone who will stir your heart.

15. 天秤座：在许多方面你们都能配合的很好。至于实际的生活，天秤座的男人讲求的是“大原则”，而处女座的你可就太注重细节了。

15. Libra: In many ways, you can get along very well. As for actual life, the Libra man emphasizes "the big picture," while you, Virgo, pay too much attention to details.

16. 他可能会让你等待很久，才向你表白。不过处女座的男人一旦认定你之后，他会很清楚的表达他对你的感情以及他未来的计划。很多处女座的男人都为了结婚订下三年、或五年计划，存钱、买房子、买车子，他的爱很诚恳，很持久。

16. He might make you wait a long time before confessing his feelings to you. However, once a Virgo man has decided on you, he will clearly express his feelings for you and his plans for the future. Many Virgo men set a three-year or five-year plan for marriage, saving money, buying a house, and a car. His love is sincere and enduring.

17. 不过，你最好要记得，不要随便批评一个处女座女人。关于这一点她们的确是比较缺乏雅量的。在任何情况下，要她低头认错都是很困难的。或许你会觉得不公平，但是请你了解她严苛的自我要求已经对自已造成很大的压力了，别人的批评她自然会受不了！其实她嘴上不承认，心里可明白的很！

17. However, you had better remember not to criticise a Virgo woman at will. They are indeed rather lacking in tolerance for this. In any case, it is very difficult for her to bow down and admit her mistakes. You might find it unfair, but please understand that her strict self-demand has already put a great deal of pressure on herself, and she naturally can't stand criticism from others! In fact, although she doesn't admit it with her words, she is very aware of it in her heart!

18. 不过，很多处女座的男人都没有强烈的“做爸爸”愿望。

18. However, many Virgo men do not have a strong desire to be a father.

19. 他是一个很有责任感的父亲，他会不惜牺牲自己的嗜好多花一些时间在孩子身上。教他们功课，送他们去学钢琴，带他们去看展览。他的耐性恐怕连你都自叹不如。处女座的父亲通常也会给孩子很严格的管教。他会认为孩子不只应该在知识上得到教育；生活的礼节习惯，也都非常重要。有了一个处女座的老公，你真的可以轻松做个母亲，你唯一要做得就是让孩子知道爸爸、妈妈都爱他，因为处女座求完美的个性可能给孩子压力太大。你得做他们之间的缓冲。

19. He is a very responsible father, willing to sacrifice his own hobbies to spend more time with his children. He teaches them their lessons, takes them to piano lessons, and accompanies them to exhibitions. His patience might even surpass yours. Virgo fathers often also have very strict discipline for their children. He believes that children should not only be educated in knowledge but also in the etiquette and habits of life, which are all very important. With a Virgo husband, you can really be a relaxed mother, your only task being to make sure the child knows that both parents love him, because the perfectionist nature of Virgo may put too much pressure on the child. You need to act as a buffer between them.

20. 嫁给一个处女座的男子真的很幸福。处女座的老公真的有很多优点：他不像多数男人那么不爱整洁，他不会乱发脾气，他不会到处留情，让你担心。当你生病的时侯他会给你细心的照料，他很勤劳，很踏实，你不必烦恼今天吃完牛排之后，明天会不会连阳春面都没有了。

20. It's really happy to marry a man under the Virgo sign. A Virgo husband really has many merits: he is not as untidy as most men, he doesn't lose his temper randomly, and he doesn't flirt around, causing you worry. When you're sick, he will take good care of you. He is very hardworking and down-to-earth, so you don't have to worry about whether there will be even a simple noodle soup for you the next day after eating steak.

21. 双子座：你们彼此都欣赏对方冷静机智的头脑。但做事的方法却有很大的差异。

21. Gemini: You both appreciate each other's calm and intelligent minds. However, there is a significant difference in the way you approach things.

22. 把精力放到自己身上，提升自己的生活质量，没事和闺蜜逛逛街，吃点小吃，再不行来个短途或者长途的旅游，去见见外面的世界，你会发现外面是如此美好，这点小事真不配占用你的情绪，分散分散注意力多好！

22. Focus on yourself, improve your quality of life, go shopping with your best friends occasionally, enjoy some snacks, and if possible, go on a short or long trip to see the outside world. You will find that the world outside is so beautiful. These little things are not worthy of occupying your emotions, and it would be great to distract yourself a bit!

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24. 因为不管怎么说，你们当初都有了一段情，要重新开始也是比较容易的事情。在你们分开之后，如果对方依然是单身的，也许对方正在等你回头呢？当然如果对方有了新欢之后，就不要用舍不得这种借口去打扰对方的生活了。很多时候错过了就是错过了，没有办法再挽救回来的了。

24. Because after all, you all had a relationship in the past, and it's relatively easy to start anew. After you've parted ways, if the other person is still single, perhaps they are waiting for you to come back around. Of course, if the other person has found someone new, don't use the excuse of not being able to let go to disturb their life. Often, once an opportunity is missed, it's gone forever and cannot be redeemed.

25. 对处女座的男人来说，美丽的头脑要比美丽的脸蛋重要的多。当你慢慢的习惯了他的个性，而他也愈来愈喜欢你，你们之间的爱火就开始慢慢燃烧了。处女座男子的爱火一旦真正被点燃，那将会烧得很久很久，甚至一辈子。你只要想到这一点，你就会认为所有的努力都是有代价的了。

25. For Virgo men, a beautiful mind is much more important than a beautiful face. As you gradually get accustomed to his personality and he grows to like you more and more, the flame of love between you starts to slowly ignite. Once the flame of love in a Virgo man is truly lit, it will burn for a very long time, even for a lifetime. Just thinking about this, you will realize that all the efforts are worthwhile.

26. 很多处女座的人会评估当前的局势，做出一个很有道理的选择。

26. Many Virgos will assess the current situation and make a very reasonable choice.

27. 白羊座：虽然属向不合，却常有配对的可能。彼此之间有着特殊的吸引力。

27. Aries: Although not compatible, there is often a possibility of pairing up. There is a special attraction between them.

28. 你们的家会很干净，但也可能太干净了一些。我有个朋友说他最害怕请朋友到家里去了，因为他那位处女座的太太总是五分钟倒一次烟灰缸。要不就是把客人喝了还剩小半杯的咖啡，以迅雷不及掩耳的速度收走。只要是有人用过洗手间，她一定赶快进去清理一遍。弄得大家都十分的尴尬。当然，你的那位处女座**应该不至于那么离谱。不过，你还是要有心理准备。她可能每天得花一两个小时在浴室里，从头洗到脚，她可是一丝不苟，而且，她讨厌你催她。

28. Your home will be very clean, but it might be a bit too clean. I have a friend who says he is afraid to invite friends over to his house because his Virgo wife always empties the ashtray every five minutes. Or she would quickly take away the coffee cup that guests left with a little more than half full, at a lightning speed. As soon as someone uses the bathroom, she is sure to rush in and clean it up. It makes everyone feel quite embarrassed. Of course, your Virgo should not be that extreme. However, you still need to be mentally prepared. She might spend one to two hours in the bathroom every day, from head to toe, and she is very meticulous about it. Moreover, she dislikes being hurried.

29. 射手座：虽然他的粗心急躁跟你的谨慎保守完全不同，但这样的男人却很容易成为你牵肠挂肚的对向。

29. Sagittarius: Although his carelessness and impatience are completely different from your caution and conservatism, such a man is easy to become the one who is deeply on your mind.

30. 挑剔的处女座男人，在性爱上也是追求完美的，因而很重视技巧。他非常在意自己的表现，担心自己做得不够好，不能让对方满意。处女座的男人在性的表现上很少是自私的，他们往往把女方的感觉摆在第一位。所以你的反应对他来说太重要了。如果能在他很有信心的情况下进行，或许会有比较激情的表现。

30. The picky Virgo man is also pursuing perfection in sex and thus attaches great importance to technique. He is very concerned about his performance, worried that he may not be good enough and not satisfy the other person. Virgo men are rarely selfish in sexual performance, and they often put the woman's feelings first. So your reaction is very important to him. If you can engage in it when he is very confident, perhaps he might show more passionate performance.

31. 告诉自己过去的已经过去了，要向前看，未来还有更多精彩等着自己去发现呢。

31. Tell yourself that the past is in the past, look forward, and there are more wonderful things waiting to be discovered in the future.

32. 既然决定放弃，就不再关注他，不再关注他的动态

32. Since the decision has been made to give up, stop paying attention to him and his activities.

33. 根据情感经历来说，大部分男孩子删除微信无非就是第二种可能，因为他们当时正在气头上，总会说一些气话，然后做一些让人让对方受伤的事。

33. According to emotional experiences, most boys delete WeChat accounts just because of the second possibility, as they were in a fit of anger at the time, and would say hurtful words and do things that would hurt the other person.

34. 首先，你一定要是很洁净的，无论是外表或是心灵。穿着邋遢，行为放肆的女孩几乎与他无缘（多数处女座的男子都有点洁僻倾向）。

34. First and foremost, you must be extremely clean, both in appearance and in spirit. Girls who dress slovenly and behave recklessly are almost out of his reach (many Virgo men have a certain tendency towards cleanliness).

35. 放下一个人最好的方式不是拉黑，不是老死不相往来，不是要拼个你死我活，不是在别人面前黑他，不是他越不好，你越开心，而是强迫自己，不再关注对方，不再打扰对方，不再想着能旧情复燃，不再对对方有任何期待，没有了任何期望，心如止水，时间替你轻描淡写之后，你就不会有失望，会慢慢的走出来，忘掉他，开启新的生活！

35. The best way to let go of someone is not to block them, not to never communicate again, not to compete for a win-lose outcome, not to badmouth them in front of others, not to be happier when they are worse off, but to force yourself to stop paying attention to them, stop disturbing them, stop thinking about reigniting an old romance, stop having any expectations of them. Without any expectations, your heart will be as still as water. After time has gently erased the memory, you will no longer feel disappointed, and you will gradually move on, forget about them, and start a new life!

36. 琼瑶式爱情小说中的男主角，绝对不会是处女座的男子，抽象的触电感觉，对一个典型的处女座男人来说实在是太不实际了。那种四目交接，立即就会勾动天雷地火的事情，只会发生在封神榜之类的神话故事里。所以如果你遇上了一个处女座的男人，如果你爱上他，请不要期待一份激情浪漫的感觉，更不要一下子热情如火的把他给吓跑。处女座的男人不会喜欢这种戏剧化的情绪。

36. In Qiong Yao-style romance novels, the male protagonist would definitely not be a Virgo man. The abstract sensation of being struck by lightning is too unrealistic for a typical Virgo man. The kind of eye contact that instantly ignites passion is something that only happens in mythological stories like the Investiture of the Gods. So if you meet a Virgo man and fall in love with him, do not expect a passionate and romantic feeling, and do not scare him away with excessive enthusiasm all at once. Virgo men do not appreciate this kind of dramatic emotion.

37. 许多有成就的单身汉都是处女座的，拥有广大读者及观众的赵宁就是其中之一。一方面可能是曾经有过爱的伤痕，因而从此埋守于工作，或服务人群的事业。处女座的男人在受过感情创伤之后，会倍加小心，如果想再敲开他的心门，可能就难上加难。

37. Many successful bachelors are Virgos, and Zhao Ning, who has a large readership and audience, is one of them. On one hand, it may be because of past wounds of love, so they have since retreated into their work or into a career of serving others. Virgo men are extra cautious after experiencing emotional trauma, and it may be even more difficult to open their hearts again.

38. 处女座：过多相同的时侯，会让你们一起工作时得到共鸣，但失去创意。至于“来电”的感觉，恐怕有待努力。

38. Virgo: Too much similarity can resonate when you work together, but it may also lead to a lack of creativity. As for the feeling of "being attracted to each other," it seems that more effort is needed.

39. 第三，你要懂得上进，学习思考，因为他实在难以忍受一个无知又粗心大意的女人。发表任何言论前，请三思，不要常说些意气用事，不经大脑的话，处女座男人对于女人常说一些短视、不客观的话，感觉很不耐烦。他对你的批评可能会让你无法招架。

39. Thirdly, you must understand the importance of progress and learning to think, because he really finds it hard to bear a woman who is both ignorant and thoughtless. Think thrice before making any statement, and avoid often saying impulsive and thoughtless things. Virgo men feel very impatient when women constantly say short-sighted and subjective things. His criticism of you might be so sharp that you find it hard to defend yourself.

40. 放弃一个人刚开始很难，一起走过的街道，一起看过的电影，甚至周边的某一个景物，别人说话的声音，都能让你联想到他，真的走出来需要时间，即使心情再不好，心里再难过，也要克制自己，告诉自己，这段关系已经翻篇了，你们之间已经是过去式了，把所有的痛苦寄托在运动，健身，读书来提升自己吧，真的转移注意力以后，忘记一个人会快很多，没有一个人值得你放弃自我，他不配，随着时间的推移，将会淡漠一切，回头再看看时，也是一种经历！

40. Giving up on someone is initially very difficult. The streets you've walked together, the movies you've watched, even a certain landmark around you, the sound of someone else's voice, all these can remind you of him. It really takes time to move on, even if you feel really bad and heartbroken, you need to control yourself, tell yourself that this relationship has turned the page, and it's in the past. Place all your pain in sports, fitness, and reading to improve yourself. Once you truly shift your focus, forgetting someone becomes much quicker. No one is worth you giving up on yourself; he doesn't deserve it. As time goes by, everything will fade, and when you look back, it will also be a kind of experience!

41. 无论什么关系，情分被消耗殆尽缘分便走到了终点，没有谁对谁错，最后所有的错都应该归咎在自己身上，然后礼貌地退场。把自己还给自己，把别人还给别人，山水一程，再不相逢，愿来生，不见，不欠，不念。

41. Regardless of the relationship, when the emotional bond is exhausted, the fate of the relationship comes to an end. There is no right or wrong between anyone, and in the end, all mistakes should be attributed to oneself. Then, exit with politeness. Give yourself back to yourself, and others back to them. Once the journey of mountains and rivers is over, never to meet again. May we not see each other in a future life, not owe each other, and not remember each other.

42. 你想拥有一个处女座的女子吗？首先，请把肩膀上的头皮拍一拍，头发梳梳整齐，指甲剪干净，换一套清清爽爽（还带点洗衣粉香味）的衣服。然后你再慢慢的走近她。处女座的女子虽不见得个个貌美如花，但她百分之百是干净、清爽的。而且，她会要求你同样合乎她的标准。

42. Do you want to have a Virgo woman? First, give a pat to the dandruff on your shoulders, comb your hair neatly, clean your nails, and change into a set of fresh and clean clothes (with a hint of laundry detergent scent). Then, slowly approach her. While not every Virgo woman is necessarily as beautiful as a flower, she is 100% clean and fresh. Moreover, she will expect you to meet her standards as well.

43. 我不反对这种选择的标准，可是我也要提醒你，在当前的局势改变之后，你仍然会无怨无悔吗？比方说那个男生的父亲过世了，孝顺似乎已不重要，他还会那么爱她吗？如果奋斗数年之后，财势地位都有了，女孩也不会为学历而自卑，那位博士会不会变得不值钱？

43. I don't object to the standards of this choice, but I also want to remind you that after the current situation changes, will you still do it without any regret? For example, if the father of that boy passes away, filial piety seems to no longer matter, will he still love her so much? If after years of struggle, both wealth and status are achieved, and the girl no longer feels inferior due to her education, will the doctorate become less valuable?

44. 既然决定放手，就要放到利索，千万不要还没过两天就心软，发个“在吗？”或者“最近怎么样”，或者你找个借口需要帮忙，这些都不应该有，因为你一发消息，对方就知道你还放不下，还想旧情复燃，一旦这样，后期再出现问题，再放下更是困难，因为你会不断的被这种恶性循环所折磨，心里要承受巨大的压力！

44. Since the decision has been made to let go, do so cleanly. Never soften up within two days, sending messages like "Are you there?" or "How have you been lately," or finding an excuse to ask for help. None of these should be done, because once you send a message, the other person knows that you still can't let go and want to reignite old feelings. Once this happens, it will be even more difficult to let go again later, as you will be constantly tormented by this恶性循环, and you will have to bear enormous mental pressure!

45. 不要对你的处女座情人诉说一大堆遥不可及的梦想，她要的可是真真实实的人生。你那些不够实际的计划，会被她批评的漏洞百出。结果只是你自已讨没趣而已。但凭良心说，当你真的遇到问题的时侯，处女座的女人是非常好的谈话对象。她会非常乐意为你分忧解劳。同时，以她冷静清晰的头脑，帮你理出事情的头绪。处女座的女人总是能以理性而且温和的态度，扮演好一个贤内助的角色。

45. Don't pour a bunch of unattainable dreams into your Virgo lover's ears, as she craves a genuinely real life. Your unrealistic plans will be criticized for their many flaws, and the result will only be that you make yourself feel unamused. But speaking from the heart, when you really encounter problems, a Virgo woman can be an excellent conversation partner. She will be very willing to share your burdens and ease your troubles. At the same time, with her cool and clear mind, she can help you sort out the tangled threads of a situation. Virgo women are always able to play the role of a supportive wife with a rational and gentle attitude.

46. 总之男生有时候也会像小孩子一样，希望被疼爱，当他们发小脾气的时候，也希望有一个人能够去安慰他们，去抚平他们受伤的心灵，所以男朋友删除微信，无非就是和你开开玩笑罢了，想让你知道他的重要性罢了，没有必要当真，当然到最后女生最好还是选择原谅他吧。

46. In summary, boys can sometimes act like children, hoping to be cherished. When they throw a small tantrum, they also hope for someone to comfort them and soothe their hurt feelings. So, when your boyfriend deletes WeChat, it's merely a joke between you two, wanting you to realize his importance. There's no need to take it seriously. Of course, in the end, it's best for the girl to forgive him.

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48. 很多人对处女座的女人有着传统、纯洁、保守的印象。就像古时侯养在深宅大院的黄花大闺女。关于这一点我们可得要修正一下。

48. Many people have a traditional impression of Virgo women as pure, conservative, and reserved, like the young maiden kept secluded in a grand courtyard in ancient times. We need to correct this perception.

49. 顾名思义，处女座的女子在性方面是内向而害羞的。虽然她内心对这一件事情有着无比的渴望与好奇，但实际付诸行动仍要耗费许多时间和努力。

49. As the name suggests, a Virgo woman is introverted and shy in matters of sex. Although she has an overwhelming desire and curiosity for this matter internally, it still requires a lot of time and effort to take action in reality.

50. 多多关照他们，在他们生气之后，给予他们更多的关怀，选择去原谅他们，而不是再去无理取闹，再去说什么旧帐新帐一起算，这样的无理取闹只会让男生的心更凉，让他们更加的难受。

50. Take good care of them, and after they get angry, give them more care and choose to forgive them rather than continue to cause trouble or bring up old and new accounts together. Such troublemaking will only make the boys feel colder and even more uncomfortable.

51. 第二种，就是他只是吓唬吓唬你，让你知道珍惜现在的他，让你学会珍惜他的存在。

51. The second type is that he is just scaring you a bit, making you realize the value of the present him, and teaching you to cherish his presence.

52. 另一方面，处女座的男人是很挑剔的，能够符合他要求的女性，恐怕不太多。但是如果你不能合乎他的条件，他怎么可以爱上你呢？所以，想要和一个处女座的男人建立男女的关系，你必须先具备让他喜欢你的理由，然后再进一步的培养你们之间的感情。

52. On the other hand, men born under the sign of Virgo are very picky, and there may not be many women who can meet his requirements. But if you don't meet his conditions, how can he fall in love with you? Therefore, if you want to establish a romantic relationship with a Virgo man, you must first have reasons that make him like you, and then further cultivate the feelings between you.

53. 前任是很多人心里过不去的那一道坎，很多人都对前任念念不忘，渴望跟对方再续前缘。如果真的很爱对方，真的很想要和对方在一起，那么为什么不为自己再努力一次呢？也许努力之后你就可以获得你想要的结果了呢？

53. The ex is a hurdle that many people find hard to overcome in their hearts. Many people can't forget their ex and long to renew their relationship with them. If you truly love the person and really want to be with them, then why not give yourself one more try? Perhaps after your efforts, you can achieve the result you desire.

54. 他的记性很好，几乎不太可能忘记你的生日，或是结婚纪念日。只要你记住自己作妻子的本份（把家弄干净，把他肚子喂饱），他不是个太苛求的丈夫，而且他很愿意帮你的忙。你可以发展自己的事业，他会经常给你很好的建议，就算偶尔唠叨琐碎，我想也应该是可以原谅的。

54. He has a good memory and is almost unlikely to forget your birthday or your wedding anniversary. As long as you remember your duties as a wife (keeping the house clean and feeding him), he's not too demanding of a husband, and he's very willing to help you. You can pursue your own career, and he will often give you great advice; even if he occasionally nags about trivial matters, I think it should be forgivable.

55. 所以你说你没有办法放弃前任，也没有办法重新开始一段恋情的话，那么就再为自己努力一次，再去追求对方一次。也许你不会成功，但是经历过这一次之后，你就会死心了。

55. So if you say that you cannot give up your ex and cannot start a new relationship, then give yourself one more try, go after them one more time. Maybe you won't succeed, but after this experience, you will be at peace.

56. 第二，你要有接受批评的雅量。他的分析批评虽然有点吹毛求疵，不过多半都很客观而准确。

56. Secondly, you should have the grace to accept criticism. Although his analysis and criticism may be a bit picky, most of them are objective and accurate.

57. 同时，许多处女座的女性在性方面有着洁僻的倾向。过度的调情会让她心生恐惧。明亮的场所，大胆的动作，她都很排斥。但本身器官的感应度十分敏锐。对异性来说反而有另一种型态的性感。

57. At the same time, many Virgo women have a tendency towards asexual purity. Excessive flirtation can scare them. They are averse to bright places and bold actions. However, their own organs are extremely sensitive. To the opposite sex, they instead present another kind of sensuality.

58. 金牛座：他的稳重踏实，是你欣赏的特质。而你的含蓄内敛，正是他所追求的女性典型。

58. Taurus: His stability and reliability are the qualities you appreciate. And your reserved and introverted nature is the type of woman he is pursuing.