婚礼的钟声悠扬，烛光闪烁，人生的新篇章就此展开。从童年的童话梦想到现实的烟火气息，这不仅仅是两个人的故事，更是人间烟火气的见证。

The wedding bell tolled melodiously, candlelight flickered, and a new chapter in life unfolded. From the fairy-tale dreams of childhood to the reality of fireworks, this is not just a story of two people, but also a testament to the hustle and bustle of human life.

1. 而是0.5+

1. Instead of 0.5+

2. ❻婚姻不是1+1=

2. ③ Marriage is not 1+1=

3. ❷ 婚礼上说的是“我愿意”，婚后常说的是“随便你”和“都怪你”。

3. At weddings, people often say "I do," but after marriage, they commonly say "It's up to you" and "It's all your fault."

4. ❶从前以为是他为你遮风挡雨，婚后发现，原来生活中的风雨，大半都是他带来的。

4. ❶ Previously, I thought it was him who shielded you from the wind and rain, but after marriage, I found out that most of the wind and rain in life were brought by him.

5. 5=1。我们要各自削去一半的个性和锋芒，才能组成一个完整的家。

5. 5=1. We each need to pare down half of our personalities and sharp edges to form a complete family.

6. ❼曾经聊到深夜是情话，现在熬到深夜是等对方洗完澡，或哄完娃。

6. What used to be late-night talks filled with love words is now staying up late waiting for the other person to finish their bath, or soothing the baby to sleep.

7. ❽看清了，维系婚姻的不仅是爱情，更是共同缴付的房贷、一起养大的孩子，和那份沉甸甸的责任。

7. Look clearly, the ties that bind marriage are not just love, but also the joint mortgage payments, the children raised together, and that heavy responsibility.

8. ❿婚姻是一场修行，修的是一颗从“我”到“我们”的心，在柴米油盐的烟火气里，看清对方，也认清自己。

8. Marriage is a form of practice, refining a heart that transitions from 'I' to 'we'. Amidst the mundane routines of life, such as cooking, cleaning, and other daily chores, one comes to see their partner clearly and also recognize oneself.

9. ❹ 终于明白，童话故事的结尾之所以是“王子和公主幸福地生活在一起”，是因为后面的剧情，不适合讲给孩子听。

9. Finally, it is understood that the ending of fairy tales, "the prince and the princess live happily ever after," is because the subsequent plot is not suitable for telling to children.

10. ❺婚前的缺点叫“个性”，婚后的缺点叫“毛病”。我们都在用自己的标准，拿着放大镜审视对方。

10. Before marriage,缺点 are called "personality," and after marriage, they are called "problems." We are all using our own standards to scrutinize each other with a magnifying glass.

11. 代表作：《和离之后》、《休夫》、《破局》、《寡妇重生记》、《偷欢》等。

11. Representative works: "After the Divorce", "Abandoning My Husband", "Breaking the Pattern", "The Rebirth of a Widow", "Adultery", and so on.

12. 十夜灯，理工科硕士研究生。网络高人气作者。擅长以质朴动人、充满人间烟火气的文字，讲述成年人的“童话故事”。

12. Ten Nights Lantern, Master's Degree in Science and Engineering. A highly popular author online. Skilled in using simple and moving language, imbued with the warmth of everyday life, to tell "fairy tales" for adults.

13. ❸爱情是两个人的风花雪月，婚姻是两个家庭的资源共享与风险共担。

13. Love is the romantic scenery of two people, while marriage is the sharing of resources and joint bearing of risks between two families.

14. ❾我原以为结了婚就有了依靠，后来才发现，最大的依靠，还是那个能赚钱、能扛事、不断成长的自己。

14. I originally thought that getting married meant having a依靠, but later I realized that the greatest依靠 is still the self who can earn a living, bear responsibilities, and continuously grow.