在爱情的海洋里，他如同掌舵者，以十指紧扣的坚定，引领着一场超越激情的恋爱体验。

In the ocean of love, he is like a helmsman, with a firm grip of his ten fingers, leading an experience of love that transcends passion.

1. ❻拥有“他的心态”：我付出是因为我乐意，我开心，而不是为了换你同等的回报。

1. ③ Possess "his mindset": I give because I am willing and happy to do so, not for the sake of receiving equal compensation in return.

2. ❹模仿他的“解离能力”：工作时不回消息不是不爱，只是单纯在赚钱。

2. ❹ Imitate his "dissociation ability": Not replying to messages while working is not a sign of disinterest in love, it's simply about making money.

3. ❷把“他喜不喜欢我”的纠结，换成“我喜不喜欢他”的筛选，瞬间神清气爽。

3. ❷ Replace the纠结 over "Does he like me?" with the screening of "Do I like him?" and instantly feel refreshed and clear-headed.

4. ❽借鉴他的“钝感力”：偶尔没回消息？可能只是睡着了，而不是脑补一出大戏。

4. Learn from his "indifference power": Maybe it's just that they fell asleep, rather than imagining a big scene, if they didn't reply to your message occasionally.

5. ❺学他直球表达：要什么就说，猜来猜去太累；不行就换，绝不改造。

5. Learn from him to be straightforward: Just say what you want, guessing back and forth is too tiring; if it's not okay, just change, don't try to transform him.

6. ❶学他的“就事论事”，吵架后胃口都好多了，绝不拿他的错误惩罚自己的胃。

6. ❶ Learn from his "take things as they are" approach; after a fight, my appetite is much better, and I never punish my stomach for his mistakes.

7. ❾掌握他的“核心思维”：专注解决问题，而不是陷入情绪漩涡。

7. ❾ Grasp his "core thinking": focus on solving problems rather than getting caught up in an emotional whirlpool.

8. ❿最关键的一点：像他慕强一样去慕自己。你爱我的样子，不如我爱自己的样子迷人。

8. The most critical point: admire yourself as much as he admires his strength. You find my appearance charming, but I find my own self-admiration more alluring.

9. ❸像他一样，把“我们”放在“我”后面，爱情只是甜品，主食永远是自己。

9. Like him, put "we" after "I", love is just a dessert, and the main course is always yourself.

10. ❼像他一样，爱情只是生活的一个分区，永远不会把整个系统格式化。

10. Just like him, love is only a section of life, which will never format the entire system.