顺其自然，信万物助我，认最佳安排。

Let things take their course, believe that all things assist me, and recognize the best arrangement.

1. 人的一生有很多东西是无法割舍的，唯有爱情可以一让再让。我才发现。已经走了那么多人。有些人，不知不觉，就淡了关系。世间情事，最悲哀的莫过于你深爱的人正以同样的深情眷恋着另一个人。

1. There are many things in a person's life that cannot be let go of, and love is the only thing that can be given and given again. It's only now that I've realized this. So many people have left. Some, without realizing it, become distant. In the affairs of the world, the most tragic thing is to find that the person you deeply love is also deeply in love with someone else.

2. 你总是在孤单的时候选择自己呆着，总是在遇到困难的时候自己坚强着，独自撑过每一个时刻，从不依赖他人，每个人都能看到你的笑容，但不是每个人都知道你有多难。

2. You always choose to be alone when you are lonely, always be strong on your own when facing difficulties, bear every moment alone, never relying on others. Everyone can see your smile, but not everyone knows how hard you are.

3. 心已逝世，泪也干，不堪回想魂亦牵。梦惊醒，不了情，旧事如烟挥不去。亦虚亦实，亦爱亦恨，叶落无声花自残。只道是，寻寻找觅，冷冷僻清，凄悲凉惨戚戚;却无奈，山高水长有时尽，此恨绵绵无绝期。

3. The heart has died, tears have dried, unable to recall, the soul is still entangled. The dream is startled, the love unrequited, the old stories like smoke, impossible to shake off. Both虚 and real, both love and hate, the leaves fall silently, flowers self-destruct. It is only said that searching and seeking, cold and desolate, sad and desolate, the sorrow is heavy; yet helplessly, the high mountains and long rivers have an end, but this love-hate is endless and without end.

4. 信任就是一把刀，你给了别人，他就有两个选择，捅你或者爱你保护你。

4. Trust is like a knife; when you give it to someone, they have two choices: they can stab you or love and protect you.

5. 人生总有低谷，要有走出去之心，否则，此处，则为你葬身之处。风雨过后才有彩虹，惊涛骇浪总会过去。不执著于现在一时的困境，保持一份乐观，顺其自然，一切都会过去。即使殒身，命之所在，安然面对。

5. Life always has its low points, one must have the heart to move forward; otherwise, this place will be your grave. After the storm, there is always a rainbow, and turbulent waves will always pass. Do not dwell on the temporary difficulties of the present, maintain an optimistic attitude, let things take their course, and everything will pass. Even if one meets with a tragic end, it is where one's destiny lies, and one should face it calmly.

6. 如果我消失了，谁会发了疯似的找我如果我消失了，谁会傻傻的坐着哭泣如果我消失了，谁会每天无数次点击空间看我是否来过如果我消失了，谁会每天开着QQ傻傻的等着我上线如果我消失了，谁会捧着我的相片一遍遍的凝视如果我消失了，谁会半夜醒来想我想到泣不成声

6. If I disappeared, who would go crazy looking for me? If I disappeared, who would sit stupidly crying? If I disappeared, who would click on my space countless times every day to see if I had been there? If I disappeared, who would sit in QQ every day, stupidly waiting for me to log on? If I disappeared, who would hold my photo and gaze at it over and over again? If I disappeared, who would wake up in the middle of the night, thinking of me until they cried?

7. 每一个深夜不关机的人，都有一份不敢言明，也不敢错过的期盼。

7. Everyone who keeps their computer on at night has a silent, unspoken hope that they dare not miss.

8. 其实，我很累了，我习惯假装坚强，习惯了一个人面对所有，我不知道自己到底想怎么样。有时候我可以很开心的和每个人说话，可以很放肆的，可是却没有人知道，那不过是伪装，很刻意的伪装;我可以让自己很快乐很快乐，可是却找不到快乐的源头，只是傻笑。

8. Actually, I'm really tired. I'm used to pretending to be strong, to facing everything alone. I don't know what I really want. Sometimes I can talk to everyone happily, can be very carefree, but no one knows that it's just a facade, a very deliberate facade; I can make myself very happy, but I can't find the source of happiness, I just smile foolishly.

9. 63人的一生和四季更迭很像，既有生机蓬勃的春季，也有万物凋零的深秋，有所收获就必然会有所丢舍。

9. The life of 63 people is very much like the changing of the four seasons, with both vibrant spring and withered autumn, where there is harvest, there must also be loss.

10. 编后语：日子还那么长，不要遇到一点烦恼就觉得活不下去，不要因为有人离开就觉得孤单寂寞冷，谁说的准以后会怎样，撑不过此时就不会有未来的美好，也许你喜欢的人以后也会喜欢你，也许你以为再也见不到的人下一刻就能出现在你面前，保持初心，随遇而安。

10. Postscript: Life is still long, don't feel like you can't go on just because you encounter a bit of trouble, don't feel lonely and desolate just because someone has left, who knows for sure what the future will bring? If you can't get through this moment, there won't be any beauty in the future. Maybe the person you like will also like you in the future, and maybe the person you thought you would never see again will appear in front of you the next moment. Keep your initial heart, be at ease with what comes your way.

11. 67快乐是精华，能让我们信心十足；痛苦是良药，能让我们顽强支撑。

11. 67 Happiness is the essence that fills us with confidence; suffering is a good medicine that enables us to stand firm.

12. 多年以后，我们都长大了。经过谎言，承受欺骗，习惯敷衍，忘记誓言，放下了一切。世界惩罚了我们的天真，磨损了我们的梦。但内心还是不断地闭合，勇敢地开放，一往无前地爱。既然无法得到，索性就放手成长吧。年少的忧伤是人生必经的花园。

12. Many years later, we have all grown up. We have endured lies, deception, learned to be superficial, forgotten our promises, and let go of everything. The world has punished our innocence, worn down our dreams. But deep inside, we continue to close off, bravely open up, and love without hesitation. Since we cannot obtain it, why not let go and grow? The sorrow of youth is a garden that everyone must pass through in life.

13. 如果你是对的，你没必要发脾气；如果你是错的，你没资格去发脾气。

13. If you are right, there is no need for you to lose your temper; if you are wrong, you do not have the资格 to lose your temper.

14. 56淡泊不仅是一种良好的心境，更是超脱尘世的豁达，是领悟人生、参透世界之后的一种从容，是辛苦修行之后的大彻大悟。

14. 56 Detachment is not only a good state of mind, but also a broad-mindedness that transcends the mundane world. It is a composed demeanor after understanding life and penetrating the world, and a profound enlightenment achieved after arduous cultivation.

15. 人生，得之坦然，失之淡然，争其必然，顺其自然，一切都是最好的安排。

15. In life, embrace what you have with tranquility, accept what you lose with composure, strive for what is certain, and go with the flow of nature. Everything is the best arrangement.

16. 一些受过伤的人会更加勇敢，因为他们知道，最痛不过如此。人生很简单，做了决定就请不要后悔。

16. Some who have been injured become braver, because they know that the worst pain is over. Life is simple; once you have made a decision, do not regret it.

17. 人生，要遵循自然规律，有些事，冥冥之中自有天意，命里一尺，难求一丈，不是你尽力了就能怎么样？人这一辈子，该吃的苦，该受的罪，该撞的南墙，一样都少不了！

17. Life should follow the laws of nature. Some things are predetermined by fate, and it's hard to surpass one's destiny. Is it possible to achieve something just by one's best efforts? In a lifetime, one must endure the hardships, suffer the sufferings, and hit the dead-end walls that cannot be avoided!

18. 59看淡得失，并非是麻木不仁，也不是以消极的态度遁世而出，而是以豁达、洒脱的心态面向更加宽广的生活。

18. 59 To take a light-hearted attitude towards gains and losses is not to be numb or to withdraw from the world in a negative manner, but to face a broader life with an open and relaxed mindset.

19. 让眼睛看该看的，让耳朵听该听的，让手做事让腿行走，让脑袋和灵魂去思考应该思考的问题。

19. Let the eyes see what they should see, let the ears hear what they should hear, let the hands do what they should do, let the legs walk where they should walk, and let the mind and soul ponder the issues that should be thought about.

20. 77困境不是绝境，不要常常觉得自己很不幸，因为还有很多比我们更不如意的人，要能乐天知命，随遇而安。

20. The predicament is not the end, do not often feel yourself to be very unlucky, because there are still many people who are worse off than us. We should be optimistic and accept our fate, and be content with whatever comes our way.

21. 80压力是一种无形的东西，看不见摸不着，它可以促人成长，也可以压得人喘不过气来。

21. 80 pressure is an intangible thing that is invisible and untouchable; it can promote one's growth, but it can also suffocate people.

22. 无论这个世界怎样对你，都请你一如既往的努力、勇敢、自信、充满希望，一切才会好起来。

22. No matter how this world treats you, please continue to work hard, be brave, confident, and filled with hope; only then will things improve.

23. 当有一天他走进你的生命，你才明白，为什么你跟别人没有结果，甚至连开始都没有，因为他们都不是你在等的人。你在等谁，你其实一直都知道。

23. Only when he enters your life one day do you realize why you haven't had any results with others, even failed to start, because none of them are the person you've been waiting for. Who you've been waiting for, you've actually known all along.

24. 爱也爱了，痛了痛了，伤也伤了，忘就忘了都过去了，往事无痕，只有时光在轰轰烈烈地往前走。一切悄无声息。所有的天长地久，沧海桑田只不过是恍然时的一梦，梦醒了，人也就散了。没有人为我们停留，我们也不必为任何人停留。如今确只剩下那酸涩的回忆，空了。

24. Love has been loved, pain has been felt, injuries have been suffered, and if we forget, it's all over. Past memories leave no trace, only time marches on in grandeur. Everything happens in silence. All the eternal love and the changes of the world's sea and sky are merely a dream in a moment of daze. When the dream wakes, people disperse. No one stays for us, and we don't need to stay for anyone. Now, there's only the sour and bitter memories left, empty.

25. 57不以物喜，不以己悲，可以让自己不再虚伪，也不需要圆滑，还原一个真实的自我，达到平静宁和的境界。

25. 57 Not to be elated by material things and not to be saddened by oneself can help one to shed pretense and the need for cunning, bringing back a true self and achieving a state of tranquility and peace.

26. 要相信你今天流过的眼泪，被辜负的心意，总有天会以另一种方式得到偿还。

26. Believe that the tears you shed today, the feelings that have been betrayed, will one day be repaid in another way.

27. 可能你也和曾经的我一样。只知棋分黑白，不知世事并不如棋。只知好人坏人，不知世人多为生意人。掩不住眼底的不喜，藏不住嘴角的窃喜，等不及人生的惊喜。带着不服气的勇敢与高调，渴望在这个世界争到属于自己的一席之地，奋不顾身的错过，或者正在错着。

27. Perhaps you are also like the me of the past. Knowing only the black and white of chess, unaware that the world is not as simple as a game of chess. Knowing only good and bad people, unaware that most people are just businesspeople. Unable to hide the dislike in my eyes, unable to conceal the hidden joy on my lips, eager for the surprises in life. With the courage and showmanship of someone who is不服气, yearning to claim a place for myself in this world, I either miss or am missing it without a second thought.

28. 61感恩昨天的风和雨，感恩曾经的坎坷和磨难，这一切让今天的我们变得成熟，让我们体验到了最真切的成长。

28. 61 Grateful for the wind and rain of yesterday, grateful for the hardships and trials we once faced, all of which have made us mature today and allowed us to experience the most sincere growth.

29. 54人的一生就好像一盏酥油灯，欲望则是灯光。当灯火燃烧得太过剧烈之时，酥油就会枯竭。

29. The life of 54 people is like a butter lamp, with desire being the light. When the flame burns too fiercely, the butter will be exhausted.

30. 谁能说一世情长，谁能说两心不忘;谁能说三生相伴，谁能说地老天荒;谁能说为爱永远，谁能说为情久长。谁为谁一言难尽，谁为谁两地悲伤;谁为谁三生相恋，谁为谁寸断肝肠;谁为谁心在仿徨，谁为谁痴痴守望。

30. Who can say that a lifetime of love lasts, who can say that two hearts never forget; who can say that three lifetimes are by each other's sides, who can say that the earth will age and the heavens will change; who can say that love lasts forever, who can say that passion will endure long. Who has unending words for whom, who grieves across two places for whom; who loves three lifetimes for whom, who has a heart torn apart for whom; who has a heart lost in confusion for whom, who watches tirelessly and foolishly for whom.

31. 不要为错过而遗憾，不要为失去而痛苦，更不要为求而不得而惋惜。因为，当你开悟的那一刻，你会发现，身边所有的事情，全部都是有利于你的。它们都会让你变成一个更好的人。

31. Do not regret missing out, do not suffer from loss, and never lament for what you could not achieve. Because, at the moment of your enlightenment, you will find that all the things around you are beneficial to you. They will all help you become a better person.

32. 爱是自私的，我怎么可以不在意你在我身边和别人的嘻戏，只是，如果你不愿意，我会学着口是心非的，假装不那么在意的在意你，可是，可是，即使可以假装得了表情，欺骗得了别人，我该怎么欺骗自己对你的真心

32. Love is selfish, how can I not care about you being around and others playing together? But, if you don't want it, I will learn to say one thing while meaning another, pretending not to care about you as much as I do. However, even if I can fake my expression and deceive others, how can I deceive my own true feelings for you?

33. 顺其自然，是把握了发展大势之后暂时的搁置，是通透了消长生息之后惬意的等待，是经历了潮起潮落、看惯花开花落之后的那份淡泊。顺其自然，是一种更加积极健康的生命状态，是一种科学养生的生存方式。

33. To go with the flow is a temporary halt after grasping the overall trend of development, a comfortable wait after understanding the cycles of life and death, and a sense of calm after experiencing the rise and fall of tides and getting accustomed to the blooming and withering of flowers. To go with the flow is a more positive and healthy state of life, and a scientific approach to health preservation.

34. 原来，曾经亲密无间的两个人，会连路人都不如;原来，如此关心爱护的两个人，也会彻底地失去联系。每个人都是孤独的个体，学会坚强，学会勇敢，学会拿的起，就能放的下。感情，会浓，也会变淡。即使有千般不愿，万般不舍，也阻止不了它的离去。删掉一切，却无法删掉那最深的记忆。

34. It turns out that two people who were once very close can become less than strangers; it turns out that two people who were so caring and loving can completely lose touch. Each person is an individual who is alone, and by learning to be strong, brave, and able to pick up and let go, one can also do so. Emotions can be intense, but they can also fade. Even with a thousand unwillingnesses and a thousand unwillingnesses, it cannot stop its departure. You can delete everything, but you cannot delete the deepest memory.

35. 去年今入此门中，人面桃花相映红，人面不知何处去，桃花依旧笑春风。那个看了他一眼，便让他想了一辈子的女人，永远也无法体会到催护心中那中难以言说的悲痛。此去经年，应是良晨好景虚设，既然你已离去，再美的风景也徒增伤感。人生就是这样一场阴差阳错的重逢，没有遗憾，你怎能体会到什么是幸福。

35. Last year at this time, I entered this gate, and faces and peach blossoms reflected each other in red. The faces have disappeared where, but the peach blossoms still smile in the spring breeze. That woman who caught his glance once and made him think for a lifetime could never comprehend the poignant sorrow that surged in his heart. After all these years, the beautiful morning and good scenery should be a mere illusion. Since you have left, even the most beautiful scenery can only add to the sadness. Life is just such a meeting that is full of misunderstandings and mistakes. Without regrets, how can you understand what happiness is?

36. 左眼没有见过右眼一面，不懂安慰，只懂陪它落泪。

36. The left eye has never seen the right eye, so it doesn't know how to comfort, only how to accompany it in tears.

37. 把悲伤烂在心底，只让快乐面朝阳光。我们所看到的，往往不是真相。只是被扭曲了的假象而已。没有人会知道自己的悲伤在何处慢慢地溃烂。而那么多的人有那么多的无奈。又怎么分得清，哪个是悲伤哪个是忧伤哪个是哀伤呢这些，都是抽象的了。无法触摸到的了。

37. Let the sadness rot in the heart, while facing the sun with happiness. What we often see is not the truth, but merely distorted illusions. No one knows where their sadness is slowly rotting. And there are so many people with so much helplessness. How can one tell the difference between sadness, sorrow, and grief? These are all abstract concepts, intangible and ungraspable.

38. 心已死，泪也干，不堪回首魂亦牵。梦惊醒，不了情，往事如烟挥不去。亦虚亦实，亦爱亦恨，叶落无声花自残。只道是，寻寻觅觅，冷冷清清，凄凄惨惨戚戚;却无奈，天长地久有时尽，此恨绵绵无绝期。

38. The heart is dead, the tears have dried, unable to turn back and the soul is entangled. The dream awakens, the unresolved love, past memories like smoke, cannot be dispelled. Both虚and实, both love and hate, leaves fall silently and flowers self-destruct. It is only said that seeking and seeking, cold and lonely, desolate and悲惨, sorrowful; but unfortunately, love that lasts forever has an end, this grudge is endless and without end.

39. 你所有的压力，都是因为你太想要了；你所有的痛苦，都是因为你太较真了。有些事不能尽如心意，就是在提醒你，该转弯了。终于有一天你会明白，能治愈你的，从来不是时间，而是你内心的释怀和格局！

39. All your pressures are because you want too much; all your pain is because you take things too seriously. Some things cannot turn out as you wish, which is a reminder that it's time to make a turn. One day you will finally understand that what can heal you is never time, but the release of your inner peace and the expansion of your perspective!

40. 在恐惧中安抚自己不安的心，在失落中收拾自己破碎的情绪，也许下一个瞬间，坠入的无边深渊，会忽然在黑暗中闪烁起点点星火。

40. Soothe your restless heart in fear, mend your shattered emotions in despair. Perhaps in the next moment, as you fall into the boundless abyss, tiny sparks will suddenly flicker in the darkness.

41. 走到生命的哪一个阶段，都该喜欢那一段时光，完成那一阶段该完成的职责。

41. No matter at which stage of life you are at, you should enjoy that period of time and fulfill the responsibilities that should be completed at that stage.

42. 弱者只是注解，并不是你用来要挟这个世界的道具，你没有这个资格。

42. The weak are just annotations, not the props you use to blackmail the world; you do not have that qualification.