1. 不管是什么原因，父离异了在孩子看来自己就变成了没人爱的孩子，原来一家三个人但是现在只有一个人了。就算父母双方都爱孩子，抢着自己抚养，孩子不管跟谁，心灵上总是会缺点什么。

1. No matter the reason, when a father divorces, it seems to a child that they have become someone unloved. Once there were three people in the family, but now there is only one. Even if both parents love the child and vie for the opportunity to raise them, the child will always feel something lacking in their spirit, no matter who they end up with.

2. 在一个温暖的家里，孩子的性格会更加开朗，生活也会过得更加有滋有味，一旦失去了这个家，孩子事必遇到事情总是会胆怯，脾气原来比较好的，也可能会变坏。

2. In a warm home, a child's personality will be more open and their life will be more flavorful. Once they lose this home, whenever they encounter difficulties, they will always be timid. Those who originally had a good temper might also turn bad.

3. 通过今天我外甥的表现，我想说大人离婚一定要三思而后行，永远不要低估了双方离婚对孩子的影响……

3. Through the performance of my nephew today, I want to say that adults should think twice before getting a divorce, and never underestimate the impact of parents' divorce on their children...

4. 父母婚姻的不幸，会让孩子以后恐婚，不愿意结婚。直接让他的婚姻观妞曲，这可能会影响孩子一辈子。因此，作为负责任的父母，如果你们想要离异，那么一定要慎重、慎重再慎重才行。

4. An unhappy marriage between parents can lead children to fear marriage and be unwilling to get married in the future. It can directly distort their views on marriage, which might affect them for a lifetime. Therefore, as responsible parents, if you are considering a divorce, you must be cautious, and even more so.

5. 刚放下没多久，孩子又凑了上来，继续要举高高，我老公又跑起来举起了他，孩子开心的手舞足蹈，哈哈大笑，小孩的快乐是无法用语言形容的，原来，孩子的快乐是如此简单！

5. Not long after putting him down, the child came closer again, wanting to be lifted up high. My husband ran over and lifted him up, and the child danced with joy, laughing heartily. The happiness of a child cannot be described in words. It turns out, a child's happiness is so simple!

6. 有人说单亲家的孩子，都会比较有心机，事实证明也真是如此。因为孩子的父母离异后，可能父母会再婚配，后爸后妈怎么可能跟自己的爸妈一样呢？肯定是不一样的，等到自己的父母再婚时，又会有别的孩子，而我们的孩子想要生存下去，必须要有一定心机，不然日子真不好过。尽管后爸后妈不可能像电视里演得一样坏，但是在自己的孩子和别人孩子面前时，是很难做到一碗水端平的。

6. Some say that children from single-parent families are more cunning, and it turns out that this is indeed the case. Because after the parents of the child get a divorce, they may remarry, and how can a stepfather or stepmother be the same as their own parents? Of course, they are different. When their parents remarry, there will be other children, and for our children to survive, they must have some cunning, otherwise life will be really difficult. Although stepfathers and stepmothers can't be as bad as they are portrayed on TV, it is difficult to be fair to their own children and others' children in front of them.

7. 我外甥今年五岁，今天下午打电话非要来我家玩，我妹就带他过来了！

7. My nephew is five years old this year. Today in the afternoon, he called to insist on coming to my house to play, so my sister brought him over!

8. 没有父母双方在一起的直接纠正，孩子会变得越来越不可理喻。

8. Without direct correction from both parents together, the child will become increasingly unreasonable.

9. 连续举了几个高高后，我老公把孩子放了下来，我妹也说，姨夫累了，让姨夫歇一会儿！

9. After repeatedly lifting the child several times, my husband put the child down. My sister also said, "Uncle is tired, let Uncle rest for a while!"

10. 他今天走后，我说我老公以后有时间多抱抱孩子，他的快乐很简单！

10. After he left today, I said that my husband should hold the baby more often when he has time, as his happiness is very simple!

11. 父母离异对孩子来讲肯定是会造成伤害的，这是毋庸置疑的。 可能没有离过婚的父母，你永远不会了解你们夫妻关系的变化，对孩子造成的伤害和影响是非常大。

11. Divorce between parents is definitely harmful to children, and this is beyond doubt. Perhaps if you have never been divorced, you will never understand the changes in your marital relationship, and the harm and impact it can have on children are significant.

12. 我妹可能也怕孩子缺少父爱，所以尽力的在其他方面来弥补，给孩子报了乒乓球兴趣班，围棋兴趣班，编程兴趣班，英语兴趣班！这几个兴趣班每年都得花不少，孩子要的玩具，只要孩子提出来，不管多贵，我妹都给他买，更别说吃的和穿的了！

12. My sister might also be worried that the child lacks a father's love, so she tries to compensate for it in other ways. She has enrolled the child in interest classes such as table tennis, go, programming, and English! These interest classes cost a lot each year. If the child asks for toys, my sister buys them no matter how expensive they are, let alone food and clothing!

13. 我们都觉得我外甥生活在蜜罐中，我俩孩子都特别羡慕我外甥，无论要什么，我妹都挑好的给孩子买！我俩孩子都觉得我外甥幸福的像小猪！

13. We both think that my nephew is living in a honey pot, and our children are particularly envious of my nephew. Whatever he wants, my sister always picks the best to buy for the child! Both our children feel that my nephew is as happy as a little pig!

14. 我妹是在孩子两岁的时候和她老公离的婚，所以孩子对爸爸就没有概念，我妹是一个做了20多年工程造价的老预算员，收入非常可观，自己家里请的保姆，对孩子可谓是尽心尽力，什么要求都满足！

14. My sister divorced her husband when their child was two years old, so the child doesn't have a concept of his father. My sister is a senior cost estimator with over 20 years of experience in project cost estimation, and her income is very可观. She has a domestic helper at home and she dedicates herself to taking care of the child, fulfilling all their needs and demands!

15. 也奉劝大人们，能不离婚尽量别离，必须离婚尽量考虑孩子，要不孩子的心里多脆弱啊！

15. Also advise the elders, if possible, do not divorce; if it is inevitable, try to consider the child first, for the child's heart is so fragile!

16. 平时我妹什么都满足他，只要孩子提出来，孩子什么玩具都有，觉得他应该很快乐，却忽视了孩子的心理，很难想象我外甥在看到别的孩子有爸爸陪着的时候，心里该是多么的难过！

16. Normally, my sister would cater to him and grant him anything he asked for, and thought that he should be very happy. However, she overlooked his psychological well-being. It's hard to imagine how sad my nephew must have felt when he saw other children being accompanied by their fathers!

17. 在孩子眼里，爸爸妈妈就应该在一起的，如果爸爸妈妈分开了，他可能会恨父母，觉得父母不爱自己的了。同时，他也会开始羡慕别的孩子，认为他们比自己幸福。孩子的想法，可能会因影响

17. In a child's eyes, parents should be together. If the parents separate, they might start to hate their parents, feeling that their parents no longer love them. At the same time, they may begin to envy other children, thinking that they are happier than themselves. A child's thoughts may be influenced by various factors.